7 Best Fisting Lubes & Creams For Anal And Vaginal Play [2023]

Slide into the world of the best fisting lube! We take a detailed look at 7 lubes and creams that are most effective.

You mean, there’s lube specifically for fisting purposes? What makes it different?

Fisting lube or cream is (or at least should be) a little thicker than your average lube. That’s because fisting involves a ton of stretching, and you want it to go as smoothly as possible.

So what is fisting?

Here’s a neat definition:

“Fisting is the sexual act of inserting a hand, arm, or foot into the vagina or anus.“

What vaginal or anal lube and stretching cream work the best for fisting, though?

That’s what we’re going to talk about in this fisting lubricant guide as well as different types of fisting lubes:

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Top Fisting Lubricants Available Today

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Hybrid Lubricants for Fisting

Great for vaginal fisting

Those are the masters of compromise that leave everyone satisfied.

In essence, they are simply water-based fisting lubricants with a dash of silicone added to them. They’re notably good for vaginal sex, though it works well for anal, too.

The silicone adds that particular silky slipperiness unique to them. Hybrids contain just a sprinkle of silicone, so they’re usually safe to use with silicone sex toys like fisting dildos.

Do check if the package of the one you buy confirms this, though. You can also do a patch test on a part of a silicone toy you own.

Cleanup is very straightforward as well, though not as easy as with a water-based lube. The tradeoff is in the added slipperiness and staying power though.

They basically have all the upsides of both worlds: slipperiness, thickness, low risk of allergic reactions or irritations – all without losing too much on any of these fronts.

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Perhaps the best lube for vaginal fisting you’ll find on the market.

What makes this hybrid lubricant particularly great is that it works so well for sensitive skin. It has cream emollients and natural ingredients that don’t “rub” the skin the wrong way.

The color makes it look a lot like cum. But the way it feels and smells will probably put images of beauty products in your mind instead.

It has 12% silicone, so it mostly acts like a water-based lube with a touch of silky sleekness. That makes it the best lubricant for anal sex or fisting. It’s even condom-compatible.

It also has a pleasant, yet mild citrusy smell as a nice cherry on top. A great lube overall.

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Also a solid pick for vaginal and anal fisting lubes alike. You can use it safely with condoms.

One thing that you’ll really appreciate is that it has a simple pump on the bottle. That makes reapplying so much easier when your hands are already lubed up.

Since it’s largely water-based, you need to use a little more of it. That said, it starts out creamier but slowly becomes more watery. 

It works amazing for smoothing out the starting part of your fisting. And after a while, it’s nice and silky.

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Oil-Based Lubes

Affordable and really effective at smoothing out fisting, oil-based lubes are a convenient fisting lubricant indeed.

One of their strong suits is that they last a really long time without needing reapplication. That is why they’re great for anal sex.

This power comes with a price, though. Namely, they’re more difficult to clean away. It isn’t impossible by any means, though: just use soapy water, and you’ll be set nine times out of ten. 

In most cases, oil-based lube and creams are hypoallergenic, and they won’t cause irritations. Avoid using them with latex, though, since they break it down.

Oil-based lubes can trap bacteria and might not be the best if you tend to have vaginal infections.

They can leave stains, too, so a little caution will go a long way to avoiding a mess.

Among their best traits, however, is water resistance. Oil-based creams and lubes are insoluble in H2O, which lends itself to some tasty bathtub/jacuzzi scenarios.

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For many, it is the main ingredient for the most delicious of fisting sessions.

Something fisting fans really appreciate about Crisco is its staying power. Since it’s basically just fat, your skin won’t absorb it any time soon.

Some people find the smell a bit off-putting. I personally never had a problem with it. And the cream’s sheer effectiveness as a lubricant far outweighs the aroma some may dislike.

And once rubbed wherever you need it rubbed, it will provide a wonderfully slick glide for ages. 

Here’s a tasty, kinky tip: roll up balls of Crisco and put them in the freezer for 5-6 hours. Once you take them out, they’ll be hard enough to put up your ass.

As it melts away in there, you’ll slowly get more lubed up.

Unrefined coconut oil is another great, DIY anal lube that you can just pick up at your local store. Aside from coconut oil, here are other homemade anal lubes you can try.

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One of the perks of numbing cream is that it helps you relax more. After all, there won’t be as much pain, so your body automatically loosens up knowing this.

But as great as that sounds, it comes with a serious downside.

If you can’t feel pain, you can’t feel when your body is being stretched too far. Pain exists for a reason, after all: to tell you when something’s wrong.

So it’s generally not recommended to use numbing fisting creams and lubes.

But if you’re still willing to give them a go, then MasterSeries Invade deep fisting cream would be a wise pick.

It’s a quality product, and it’s suitable for vegetarians. This is a good all-around deep fisting cream, despite the inherent problem with numbing lubes.

It’s slippery as all hell and lasts more than long enough.

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Adding temperature in your fisting play really spices things up! The Elbow Grease Lube is a mineral oil-based lubricant that’s so slippery and long-lasting. It’s infused with menthol that gives you a warming feeling.

That makes cleaning it quite tricky, though. But it’s one I don’t mind sacrificing (and don’t think about, TBH) as I’m enjoying the good sensations. Also, it easily slides right in when using this lube.

It has a creamy consistency that doesn’t run or drip—it stays exactly where you applied it. It also doesn’t get tacky, which you’d appreciate during fisting.

As this lube is oil-based, it’s not safe for latex, condoms, and sex toys. But if you’re only going to use this lube for fisting, then you shouldn’t have to worry.

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Silicone Based Lubricant

A silicone lubricant is a great pick if you’re looking for something more long-lasting than water-based ones.

They’re incredibly slippery (more so than water-based ones), not to mention really sleek. And once you’ve put some on, it lasts for a very long time. 

Just make sure not to combine these lubes with silicone sex toys since the lube corrodes them.

It’s potent stuff, and you need only a fraction of the amount you would need with a water-based lubricant.

And since it’s harder to clean the stains it makes on your sheets, being a bit stingier with it is a smart idea, anyway.

A simple rag, towel, or wet tissue (especially for makeup removal) will make short work of the cleanup stage of your fisting with silicone lube. 

On the other hand, cleaning it off of yourself with water will take you a while. But that also makes it the best lube for sex in the shower.

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This lube makes a good combo of quality and affordability.

According to the advertising, it’s hypoallergenic, fragrance-free, latex compatible, and tasteless, which makes it accessible.

Astroglide is quite slippery and silky, which makes it terrific for anal fisting. And just a smidge of it will last you for a long time (though it isn’t the most durable silicone lube out there). 

Even though the box claims it holds no odors, Astroglide does have an ever-so-slight tang reminiscent of moisturizer. 

That said, it’s mild, and washing the lube off is as easy as applying a bit of soapy water or wiping off with a towel.

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Water Based Lubes

Most recommended & popular for anal fisting lubricants

Nine times out of ten, water-based lubricants are the best choice for anal (and vaginal!) fisting. Among other reasons, that’s because many of them are nice and thick.

Even if it loses its slipperiness and gets kinda sticky a little sooner than most other anal fisting lubricants, you usually get a whole bunch of it.

This means that you’re free to slap on some more whenever you feel like you need it.

Furthermore, it’s easy to clean up. While it washes away in watery places (e.g., showers), it also doesn’t irritate the skin – even sensitive skin.

On top of that, you can use water-based lubes with condoms, latex fisting gloves, and fisting sex toys.

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While originally used for veterinary purposes, it became a shining example of the water-based anal fisting lube category.

A single bottle of this concentrated powder can create as much as 6 gallons of lubricant. 

Moreover, it’s so easy to make: add water and enjoy! 

Water makes the lube more slippery, so you can customize the “slick factor” to your taste. Some people even add oils like Crisco (more on it later) for extra lasting power and thickness.

The ingredients are body-safe, too. Although It has sucrose, which can cause yeast infections, there’s so little of it that it’s hardly anything to worry about.

When it comes to using it, it’s as slippery and silky as water-based lubricants get. And since you can make a ton of it, feel free to pile on more whenever you feel it running out during your fisting sesh.

Once you’re done, you can easily clean it off with water. Adding salt will wash off the lube faster, but it can irritate sensitive parts of your body.

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Best J-Lube Recipe?

Seeing that many consider it the best lubricant for fisting, figuring out the optimal way to prepare it is quite the hot topic.

The exact recipe will vary a bit depending on who you ask, but this one works the best for me.

Here are the ingredients:

• 3 to 4 tablespoons of J-Lube
• 450 to 500ml of boiling water
• 1 to 1.5 tablespoons of natural coconut butter (de-scented) – seems to keep it from drying out too quickly
• (optional) 4 to 6 drops of consumable clove oil

Simply mix the J-Lube powder and water together and microwave it until it’s smooth. Afterward, add the coconut butter and clove oil. 

Don’t stir it with a blender since it’s difficult to ensure it’s absolutely clean before using it.

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How To Use Fisting Lubes Or Creams? 

If you’re just dipping your toes/fingers into the realm of fisting, you should know how to use the vaginal or anal fisting cream and lube correctly.

Here are the most vital tips to keep in mind.

Use Plenty Of It

The first thing to keep in mind is to never be stingy with the slippery stuff. 

Good lubrication will make fisting so much more comfortable. And the best way to keep your fisting session running smoothly is to be generous with the lube you apply.

“Too much” won’t be a concern for you here.

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Apply To Both The Giving Hand/foot And The Receiving Hole

The best idea would be to apply the cream or lube on both the inserter and the insertee. That should ensure that there’s minimal friction between the areas in contact.

Spread the lubricant thoroughly on the limb going inside to get rid of any “grippy” areas.

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Use Gloves

Gloves come in very handy during fisting. That’s because they cover up the skin of the hand, especially the fingernails.

If you wear gloves, the risk of scratching the inner walls of the vagina or anus goes way down.

Keep in mind that not all lubes work with all gloves, though! For example, oil-based ones break down latex gloves, which makes them tear faster. 

On the other hand, water-based lubes are fine for any glove.

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Have A Towel Ready

With all this lube in the mix, you can expect the situation to get very sloppy and wet very quickly.

If you aren’t up for a lengthy cleanup, put some towels down to catch all the dropped lube.

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..And A Few Fisting tips

For a little extra, consider the following fisting pointers.

Go Slow!!!

Fisting, be it vaginal or anal, is not something you jump into. 

Nine times out of ten, there will be at least 30 minutes of stretching and foreplay before getting to the main show.

So take your time, be patient, and make sure that the receiver is perfectly relaxed before making any big moves.

If they have a vagina, you can rub their clit while penetrating to get them into it.

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Fingers First, Fist For Later

It’s best to penetrate with your fingers first and work your way in. You may want to consider checking out our guide about how to finger a pussy.

Don’t make a fist until the hand is entirely inside.

Trimming your fingernails is also a good idea if you’re the giver. You don’t want to scratch or scrape your partner’s insides and risk giving them an infection.

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Have fun!

That wraps up our breakdown of the best fisting lubricant options!

Now you know what kinds of anal lube and stretching creams are out there. Better yet, you know which ones will better suit your fisting needs.

You may also want to consider checking out our guide on the best sexual lubricant for more options.

So buy smart and stretch well!