24 of the Most Realistic & Best Male Masturbators For Men! (2023)

Over the years we’ve tested all the best male masturbators. Now we rank & review male masturbation toys based on different categories, and it’s all in one place (based on HANDS-ON experience). Find your best male masturbator here:

From hands-free masturbators to out-of-this-world blowjob machines, you’re sure to get the desired experience you’re looking for from this list. 

It doesn’t matter what kink you have or where your sensitive spot is; your perfect match is just right around the corner. So without further ado, let’s have a go at it!

BUT… before all that jazz, I’ll give you a bit of a preview of my top picks starting with one that I highly recommend and the top products of the best male masturbator in the market, the Kiiroo Keon. 

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Top Most Realistic Strokers & Male Masturbators in 2023

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The 24 Best Male Masturbators That Are Automatic, Realistic & Vibrating

These best of the best male masturbators have motors that work to stroke the toy up and down or send vibrations or air suction on all or various parts of the penis without you doing any work.

Well, you still have to hold the machine to keep it in place. But there are some that you can just mount on your wall, between two pillows, or keep steady on you. Heck, some even come with interactive features for an immersive experience.

If you’re gonna ask for one of the best automatic male masturbator recommendation from me, I’d say Kiiroo Keon in a heartbeat. Next product, please!

In all seriousness, Keon filled the void that the OG Fleshlight Launch left us, starting with its sleek design and color.

It’s pretty solid, well-built, and easy to keep in place. Unlike other automatic masturbators, the Keon’s control buttons are right where your thumbs should be (think thrusting inside of someone).

You can use it in MANUAL MODE and adjust the stroke speeds and lengths up to 230 strokes/min for the fastest and shortest settings. 

Or in INTERACTIVE MODE for a more immersive experience.

And by immersive, I mean: customizing the strokes, syncing the toy’s motions to interactive 2D/VR adult content or webcam models, and connecting it to another Kiiroo device.

While RealFeel and FeelStars sleeves look and feel like the real thing, if you have full-sized Fleshlight sleeves in your arsenal, you can also stick them in for more variety.

Read our full Kiiroo Keon review.

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A lot of guys get off from getting head alone. But, unfortunately, some partners are not just into it or get tired 2-3 minutes in.

What do you need? An automatic BJ masturbator that does all the work for you. (You still need to hold it in place, though.)

And Kiiroo Onyx+ delivers.

Even if you take away its interactive features, the 10 contraction rings tighten and release the entire length of your penis, so you’ll enjoy some solo BJ-like sensations without stroking the toy.

Simply press the control button to adjust the intensity of the strokes, and voila!

Read our in-depth Kiiroo Onyx review for more information!

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Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2 is perfect for stimulating the tip and nothing but the tip (so help me, God).

Okay, a quick trip down memory lane.

The OG Cobra Libre was so good that it started the whole male vibrator craze. And Fun Factory wanted to make sure that they make the best version of it.

It focuses on the penis head and sensitive frenulum only, which makes it not as versatile as other male vibrators out there.

Also, its closed-ended design limits the sensations to the penis head. Unlike the open-ended Manta or Pulse Solo, you can’t stroke Cobra Libre 2 and target different parts of your penis.

Still, you can use this frenulum vibrator without actually holding it with a partner, or even while you’re soft.

Here’s the full Cobra Libre review of this beauty. 

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When I saw Handy for the first time, I thought it’ll just be like any other compact plaything without the features of big, bulky machines.

WRONG!

In terms of interactive features, Handy is neck and neck with Kiiroo Keon. However, with its recent firmware update, now I’m not so sure.

Love the action but hate the “talking” part? Now, you can skip to different parts of your fave porno without waiting for a few seconds for the machine to sync.

Of course, these features are more for techy folks.

Using one hand, you can hold the machine and control its buttons while seeing the clear sleeve working your shaft on the outside.

Though you’re only getting uniform nubs from the sleeve, they work quite well with the automatic Handy.

And if that’s not enough, you can strap your favorite Quickshot, Tenga sleeve, or any other pocket pussy (except the bulky ones) onto the Velcro band for variety.

Want to know all the details about The Handy, read our in-depth The Handy review here or check out our best handjob machines guide for more machines like this.

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Lovense is at the forefront of teledildonic technology.

Sure, Max 2 for solo play has many great features to offer — 7 vibrations, 3 contraction settings, and adjustable air vents.

But if you want to up the experience, connect it to the Lovense Remote app.

With the app, you get to customize the vibrations and contractions, save them, and enjoy a library of patterns from other users. You can even let your partner control your Max 2.

Note: You can get both toys for the price of one.

So, when you’re on video chat and your partner moves the Nora in a particular way, you will feel those movements through your Max (and vice versa).

And if you’re in different time zones, you can sync the toy to your partner’s recorded video and feel like your SO’s playin’ with ‘ya even if they can’t join in on the fun in real-time.

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth Lovense Max review here.

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Introducing the latest addition to the Velvet Thruster Prime collection. This forward-thinking, customizable thruster is all about tailored pleasure with its innovative design, allowing you to choose from a range of shapes, sizes, and colors.

The Prime series is really innovative by offering interchangeable tops, ensuring you never feel restricted. Switch them out effortlessly, even in your most passionate moments.

But there’s more to this thruster. It’s the pioneering original, featuring a patented drive mechanism. This allows the Stroker head to not only flex and bend but also curve during thrusts, a groundbreaking feature in the realm of adult toys.

Expertly crafted from ultra-soft medical-grade silicone, it delivers a stroke length of 3″ at an impressive 140 strokes per minute. This is all driven by a powerful motor with six diverse speeds. And with its durable battery, the fear of it dying during use is a thing of the past.

For those interested in exploring more, check out our Velvet Thruster review!

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There’s a learning curve to using the Manta, especially if you’re a guy who grew up knowing that stroking the penis is the only way to get off.

It even took me several tries before I was able to hit the big O.

But if you figure out the best way to use this vibrating stroker, then you’re in for a good time — solo or with a partner.

The orgasms are insane! (Note: Not the usual one you get after some good ol’ stroking.)

Heck, you can even use the Manta and transform your penis into a vibrator during sex. EXCEPT you have to hold it with your hand.

Unlike most TPE-made toys for boys that mimic the softness of the vaginal insides, Manta is made of body-safe, waterproof silicone.

That means you can bring the toy in the shower and not worry about it breaking down. That’s 140 dollars of well-spent money, honey.

More details on our Fun Factory Manta review or check out other frenulum toys.

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The Fleshlight brand is a mainstay in the sex toy industry. Ask any regular wanker for male toy advice, and Fleshlight gets mentioned nine out of ten times.

Now, here comes the Quickshot Launch.

As the name so obviously implies, this machine makes your favorite Quickshots move standalone (no holding on). Minus the interactive features, sadly.

Though it looks like a big-ass gaming gadget than other automatic toys on our list, it packs a lot of power. Plus, it’s stable enough, so you can give the toy a good grip and press the buttons to adjust the stroke speed, length, and position.

While a full charge only gives you 60 minutes of non-stop wanking, you can take advantage of its Active Launch Mode. That means you can use the toy even if it’s plugged into a power outlet.

You know, in case you forget to charge your toy and want a quick… shot.

Don’t forget that Fleshlight has a Loyalty program that lets you earn points in a few different ways. You can later use those points as money off your purchase.

To know more about this, check out our Fleshlight Quickshot Launch review.

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If you’re looking for a great everyday masturbator, this Hismith Stroker will get you where you need to be. It is simple to use, powerful, and best of all, has a soft TPE sleeve that feels sensational!

The controls are not too complicated and you can choose from 9 vibration settings. Then there is the app compatibility, which allows you to hand over control to anyone in any part of the world! How’s that for long-distance intimacy?

Hismith has also added the Cliclok mechanism to this stroker, which allows you to attach it to several other compatible devices from the company. You can also attach a suction cup and enjoy it hands-free. Unfortunately, it is not waterproof so you won’t be able to use it in the shower.

Bottom line—this is a great male masturbator at a pocket-friendly price with useful app control.

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This premium offering from Hismith is a one-stop solution for all kinds of solo pleasure. You can set up this sturdy thrusting machine in all kinds of angles to mimic whatever freaky position you are in the mood for.

The powerful and silent motor can be adjusted for speed and thrusting depth using the app. Check out our in-depth Hismith review of the Hismith Premium Sex Machine for all the info!

So, does this justify the heavy price tag? If you don’t think so, these accessories might just convince you. Or, you can check out the entire solo-pleasure package that comes with the Hismith Men’s Stroker Machine Bundle.

This vibrating masturbator offers 7 vibration speeds and 3 modes. This might not sound like much, but once you attach it to the Hismith Premium Sex Machine, it turns into a completely different beast! In addition to the modes on the vibrating cup, you can also choose the thrusting depth and speed. The overall result is mindblowing!

This masturbator attachment comes with a soft textured TPE sleeve and a rechargeable battery that runs for about an hour. It can accommodate medium to large penises and is best used with a nice big drop of water-based lube.

This is a cheaper masturbator attachment for the Hismith Premium Sex Machine but it still feels pretty dang good! It misses out on the different modes but has 10 vibration speeds. The soft TPE sleeve also has a fantastic internal texture which provides a lot of sensations!

The rechargeable battery also lasts for a good amount of time. This is a great and pocket-friendly way to get a lot more pleasure out of your sex machine.

It also has a nice shape that lets you hold it and use it with your hand in case you don’t feel like setting up the thrusting machine.

This is a different kind of stroker attachment that fans of oral sex will love. Instead of vibrations, this has rotating motors that feel like a well-practiced mouth. Combined with the thrusting of the sex machine, this attachment turns the Hismith Premium Sex Machine into a fantastic dreamy blowjob machine!

The inner sleeve is made of the company’s super soft and durable TPE material and feels incredible when used with water-based lube. Keep in mind that this attachment is made for regular-sized penises and those with large penises might find it uncomfortable.

Hismith uses a proprietary Kliclok system to easily attach and detach accessories from the sex machine. In fact, many of their sex toys use this system, making them compatible with each other (which is very useful!).

The accessory has a small 8-sided screw while the sex machine has a compatible female socket. Simply push in the screw of the accessory and twist it to lock it in place.

The Kliclok attachments are made of metal and are highly secure, making them great for the fast movements of the sex machine. Make sure that whichever accessories you buy are also compatible with the Kliclok system.

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Sometimes, you just need powerful vibes on various parts of your penis sans using your hands.

Well, not for most guys, but if you’re into male vibrators, listen up.

The Pulse Solo is a compact vibrator covered in body-safe, waterproof silicone. So, it’s safe to bring with you for some splish-splash fun. Plus, cleaning it is a breeze.

Its unique PulsePlate tech works well at sending focused sensations to the frenulum, like the Manta. But OFC, you can still use it in different parts of your penis.

WARNING: On the highest settings, you have to hold the toy in place, or it will slip off your penis.

Yup, that’s how powerful the vibrations are on this bad boy.

Unfortunately, you’ll only get one-hour max use time after one full charge. While not bad, it could’ve been better, especially if you’re no fan of constantly charging your gadgets.

Looking to learn more about this on our Hot Octopuss review.

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If you think you’ve wanked all masturbators known to men (and your penis) and new things have gotten *yawn* boring, give the Arcwave Ion a try.

But first, know that it’s gonna set you back around $200. That’s +$50-80 from the other awesome male vibrators we’ve featured on our list.

All I’m saying is you have to be 100% sure that you’re into frenulum stimulation before investing in this toy.

“Woah! That was awesome!”

OR

“That was it?”

It was def the former for me, but it might be the latter for some. All I know is that it’s the perfect frenulum toy if you’re sensitive to strong vibrations.

Also, clean-up is super easy because it’s submersible. And you can dry and charge it at the same time through its sleek storage base.

You can read more about this in our Arcwave Ion review! Or you can read more about the more compact male stroker from the same brand in our Arcwave Voy review!

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The Vibrating Roto-Teazer has everything you need for the best masturbation experience of your life. It’s one of the best-powered male masturbators because it does all the work for you and is fully automated.

When you move the shaft in a circle, the silicone sleeve wraps around the most sensitive parts of your penis while rows of tiny ticklers tease and please you, making mind-breaking sensations. This handheld masturbator generates circular motions with 7 pulsation patterns and 3 vibration intensities that instantly tease your head.

Now, this isn’t a toy you can stick your way into, but if you gently move up and down while it is spinning, it can start to feel like a blowjob that’s somehow “toothy” on the side. 

These bumps seem to be from a much harder material than the rest of the sleeve, and at first, it can feel like someone’s scraping on your member. It wasn’t terrible per se, as it was pretty mild, but some people might find it unbearable in the long run. 

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Manual Male Masturbators

No fancy motors, tech, or automatic sorcery for the next 11 toys on our list, Sir!

They’re all about unique textures with realistic or non-realistic orifices, so you’re equipped for your next hand-to-gland combat.

Unlike most Fleshlights with vulvas, butts, and mouths, the Turbo Thrust looks transparent, innocent. BUT it’s the only Fleshy that gives the best blowjob out there.

You’re in sloppy blowjob heaven!

It has a transparent case + sleeve. Plus points if you (or your partner) love seeing some oral action happening. This also means it’s easier to clean ‘cause you can see through its ripples and nubs.

The only downside really is things can get pretty intense, from the tightness of the entrance to the textures on the inside.

But if it feels so good, do you even call that a downside?

If you want to know more details about the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust vs. Ignition, we have an in-depth Fleshlight Turbo review.

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If I were to choose between Riley’s lady bits (Utopia) or butt (Euphoria), I’d go with the former.

WHY? Unlike Riley’s butt that starts tight then ends up not-so-tight, Utopia is the exact opposite. You go in with a bit wider opening that gets a bit tighter to the end.

It strikes a good balance between tightness and varied ridges and bumps, so it’s a good Fleshlight for most folks.

The only downside is the long drying time because of the sleeve’s intricacy and tightness.

If you want to read more about this fleshlight in our Fleshlight Riley Reid review!

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With hundreds of Fleshlight textures on the market, it’s quite hard to tell which one to get.

Choose one that’s too tight or too intense, and I’m sure you’d swear off buying another Fleshlight in your life.

So, if you haven’t got one Fleshlight since the dawn of time, stick with the simplest Fleshy in life.

THE OG. THE CLASSIC. THE PINK LADY.

No wonder why it’s still available today since Fleshlight shookt the sex toy world.

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Britney is the sex doll torso for you if you want to put your hands on other parts of a female body (not just the holes) while getting it on.

If you’re a boob man, ass man, or still undecided, Britney will make sure to satisfy your fantasy. Once you use ‘her,’ I’d bet she’ll get you saying, “Oops, I did it again!”

Kidding aside, it’s not too small nor too big, making it perfect for beginners who want to try sex dolls but aren’t ready to invest in full-sized ones.

Gentle nubs and bumps on both holes add to the sensation. You’ll even find dimples and goosebumps on her backside that add to the visual appeal.

The best part? There’s a stable skeletal frame that you can adjust to whatever position you like Britney to be in.

Just be thorough when you clean her and keep her in a straight lying position if you want her to last long.

If you’re looking for more cheap options, you can read our best cheap sex dolls for men!

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If you want a Fleshlight that’s even more intense and tighter than Utopia, then Stoya Destroya is for yah!

Stoya is a legend in the world of Fleshlight Girls.

I mean, a Fleshlight that’s described as having chambers of teeth and fangs? That sticks to your brain (or penis), dude!

And Fleshlight folks are not joking about the tightness. It is SUPER TIGHT that if you’re thicker than 5″ girth, good luck inserting your schlong inside Stoya.

Tightness, suction, and textures combined, get ready for the hardcore ride of your life!

To read more about this fleshlight, you can find our in-depth Stoya Destroya review.

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First things first. Unlike the Fleshlights we’ve featured on our list, the Mini Lotus doesn’t come with a case. Instead, you’re only buying a classic textured sleeve.

Sure, it’s cheaper than sleeves from FL Girls.

But if this is your first Fleshlight purchase, you need to get a regular case for around $20 in your choice of color.

Priced like a regular Fleshlight? Don’t worry. The payoff will be worth it.

Unlike the Lotus, the waves of nodes from the Mini start closer at the entrance, so men with smaller penises can enjoy these well-spaced textures.

OFC, bigger than average folks can still enjoy these swirls of pleasure.

Check out our Fleshlight Mini Lotus review for more details about the product.

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Tenga offers three egg variety packs that you can choose from. The New Standard came after the OG Easy Beat.

And it’s the best Tenga range for first-time folks on a budget who want to explore a variety of textures for the price of one.

So, how do you use one?

But be careful not to overstretch your egg, or you would tear it.

Explore 6 different textures and unique sensations till you find your faves. But if you’re like me who wants variety, you can always get another pack instead of one.

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What makes this particular Tenga egg unique, and why am I recommending it?

TBH, you can take your pick of any Tenga egg. It’s the cheapest and best male masturbator on the market that won’t disappoint most penis owners.

It’s super convenient and takes your wanking game to a whole new level for 6-7 bucks a pop.

But if you’re in a hurry and can’t decide which egg to get, get Tenga Egg Lovers instead. Aside from standing out from all other generic-looking Tengas, the sleeve texture is pretty good.

It’s as soft as the eggs from their Easy Beat and New Standard variety packs.

As of this writing, this is my go-to egg from Tenga. And it’s a limited edition. So, better try it, so you know what I’m talking about.

For more options, check out this list of the best Tenga egg review.

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For just $8, there’s a lot to like about Tenga’s Onacup. It doesn’t scream sex toy, for starters, so you don’t have to worry about finding a hiding spot for this Old Spice look-alike.

It has a smooth pre-lubed insertion pad that keeps air and lube from leaking. Plus, there’s an air hole on the other end that you can cover with your finger for suction control.

No wonder why Tenga originally called it the Deep Throat.

Other users say that the Onacup is too small for them. So here’s a TIP: get the ultra size if you’re packing a bulge. It’ll only cost you $13 a pop.

If a Tenga egg is too soft and thin for your liking and you want a toy that “swallows” your entire shaft, this is the Tenga for you.

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The Quickshot is like the smaller brother of the full-size Fleshlight.

For half the size and half the price of any full-size Fleshy, you get a clear and compact open-ended toy that you can easily hide and bring with you anywhere you go.

It’s small and open-ended, so you can use it to target different parts of your penis.

Plus, it’s clear so you (or your partner) can see right through the action. Plus, it’s the fastest to clean and dry compared to other Fleshlights.

Downsides? If you like to go all-in like penetrating inside a woman, the Quickshot won’t help you. And because it’s open-ended, things can get noisy and messy if you’re not careful enough.

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The Flight Pilot falls between the regular Fleshlight and Quickshot sizes.

That means you get Quickshot’s benefits of being smaller, lighter, and discreet — perfect for travels.

Plus, a regular Fleshlight’s benefit of giving you that full-size experience.

But because it’s smaller than its full-sized counterpart, it’s perfect for smaller than average guys to enjoy every delicious texture.

Unfortunately, if you’re bigger than 6″, you won’t be able to go all-in. Still, the textures are equally satisfying.

For a more in-depth breakdown, check out our review of the Fleshlight Flight Pilot.

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Buying Guide: How to Choose the Best Male Masturbator Among Male Sex Toys

You have to know what to look for when buying a male masturbator, starting with the toy’s material.

Material

The majority of male masturbators are made of TPE material. In the sex toy world, this porous material is a NO-NO. It’s not durable, and you can’t clean it 100%.

While for all other toys, we only recommend SILICONE, it doesn’t feel as good as soft TPE. Even the softest silicone feels too rigid compared with TPE toys.

Just look at Fleshlight and Tenga. So, what are you saying, Dainis? It’s a tough decision.

While you can’t fully sanitize TPE, as long as you clean and dry it thoroughly and don’t share it or put it inside you, it’s all good.

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Features

ASK YOURSELF: What do you want your masturbator to do?

For manual masturbators, you don’t get a lot of fancy bells and whistles.

But each experience will be different, depending on the toy’s internal textures. Some manual toys like Fleshlights even have a suction mechanism for a more intense experience.

To enjoy these features, though, you have to stroke them over your penis.

Some do all the stroking for you, while you only need to touch a few buttons to adjust the stroke length and speed. Some send vibrations or pulsations to one or different parts of your penis.

Some have interactive features that you can sync to adult content or with a compatible toy.

In the world of male masturbation, you can find a toy that does whatever you want it to do. 

Usually, the more features you want from the toy, the more money you need to spend, which brings us to your…

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Budget

You get what you pay for. It’s that simple.

Anything under $40, and you’re better off sticking with your hand. EXCEPT if you have a disposable Tenga.

If you’re going to spend more than $100, then expect your toy to be automatic and with a motor for some sorta “ma, see no hands!” fun.

Want to sync your toy to other toys, webcam performers, or interactive 2D/VR content? Set aside at least $200+ for a feature-packed, immersive experience.

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Realism

Do you want a masturbator that looks like the real thing? Then go for toys with a vulva, butt, or mouth orifice.

Choose your textures wisely if you’re more for the feel than the look.

Control the suction for blowjob-like sensations; the tightness for anal-like sensations.

But if you want a more realistic looking and feeling experience, go with a sex doll or sex doll torso. They’re anatomically correct with ultra-realistic holes.

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FAQ

How To Use A Male Masturbator or Realistic Stroker?

Using a manual male masturbator is super easy. After the initial cleaning, just insert your penis, start stroking, and you’re done.

Of course, there are many ways to get creative, depending on your toy. Like adjusting the tightness or suction of the sleeve OR focusing on different parts of your penis.

You can also invest in a warming lube but don’t put it directly on your penis, just inside the sleeve.

For automatic masturbators, always read the manual, so you know the nitty-gritty of setting up and using your toy. Also, be sure to inspect your toy for any loose parts or tears on the sleeve.

You can set the mood the traditional way: letting your imagination run wild or watching some good ol’ porn.

You and your partner can also play with your toys (‘cause they’re not just for boys).

Have fun, experiment, and enjoy each moment.

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How Do I Clean My Realistic Stroker?

For masturbators with a case and sleeve, remove the sleeve first. Then, gently wash the sleeve using warm water or mild soap.

If possible, go with an antibacterial or disinfectant that’s made especially for your toy. Steer clear from detergents as they may end up damaging your toy or irritating your skin.

Before putting the sleeve back on or using the toy, make sure that it’s completely dry.

Some toy materials require the use of renewal powder like Fleshlights to make them less sticky and last long after every use.

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Best Way To Store & Maintain My Realistic Stroker?

Every toy manufacturer has specific storage, care, and maintenance instructions.

But generally, if you want your masturbator to last, clean it before first use and after every use. If you want to make clean-up less messy and less of an effort, don’t ejaculate inside the toy.

Only use lube compatible with your masturbator sleeve. For example, never use a silicone-based lube on a silicone sleeve.

In terms of storage, a lot of masturbators have cases.

Also consider the toy’s size and design when storing it.

For example, if you have snoopy roommates and your toy screams vagina, mouth, or butthole easily, then you have to hide it inside your sock drawer or bedside drawer.

But if your masturbator is a ninja (think Tenga eggs and onacups), don’t bother hiding that thang ‘cause regular folks will just think that you have a new deodorant or Easter egg memorabilia lying around.

And of course, if you live with a supportive partner who wants to use the toy with you, why hide it when you can flaunt it?

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Conclusion

The best male masturbators have made the art of getting off quite a bliss.

If you haven’t tried one yet, do yourself a favor and give your hands some rest or an upgrade.

Ciao!