After thorough research & testing, we found the best vibrating panties in 2023. With remote control, Bluetooth, & wireless options, you’ll surely get the right one thanks to this guide.
Recently, a friend saw the vibrating panties scene from The Ugly Truth and asked me if they really worked. She wanted to get something for her girl but wasn’t sure they’d be right.
I told her the same thing my partner told me when I discovered vibrating panties five years ago:
“Secrets are sexy. And no one knows sexy secrets better than couples.”
I told my friend how the best vibrating panties aren’t just for spicing up solo or couples at-home sessions. They can also shine when taken outdoors.
Imagine enjoying a good rumble while shopping or watching a movie with your lover. You can give them the remote control or connect the toy via an Internet app for long-distance fun.
Anyway, our chat got me thinking about the best vibrating panties around.
On top of what we have in our collection, I scoured the web, crowdsourced expert opinions, and tested 20+ panty vibrators so I can share 12 of the best remote- and app-controlled vibrating panties of 2023.
Strap on in for the best vibe check around!
But first, here’s the BEST OF THE BEST:
SexualAlpha Top Pick
Lovense Lush 3: If you enjoy powerful G-spot stimulation, then the Lush will destroy you. It’s an insertable wearable vibrator with a fixed, figure-hugging tail that stays put for a more comfy, discreet experience. It’s also got a reliable connection, jam-packed with the Lovense Remote app’s features that you & your partner can enjoy, whether nearby or miles away.
Most Comfortable Vibrating Panties
We-Vibe Moxie: The We-Vibe Moxie is a clit-stimulating vibrator designed to stay put once you set it up, thanks to its magnet clip. Its smooth silicone material is so comfy and easy to wear that you can just sit back and enjoy consistent rumbly vibes while you’re inside or out.
You can use it with a remote controller to change vibration modes and intensities or connect it to the We-Connect app for more options.
Best Vibrating Panty For Clit Stimulation
Lovense Ferri: The Ferri absolutely dominates any user that needs pinpoint clit stimulation inside their knickers to get off. It also uses the same magnet system as the Moxie to stay in place, so you can’t escape the powerful vibe. And like the Lush 3, it’s also got one of the most customizable apps that you and your partner can play with.
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Top 3 Vibrating Panties in 2023
Lovense Lush 3
Best Vibrating Panties in 2023
We bet the Lovense “Lush” is short for luscious.
Lovense’s Lush 3 is an excellent choice for lovers near or far. This version has an improved antenna that keeps the connection far better than its predecessors and other vibrating panties on the market.
So, no matter where your lover is, they can play with ‘ya.
This internal toy features a fixed tail that hugs the body. This tail keeps the toy in place and applies more pressure and vibrations for incredible G-spot stimulation.
But it doesn’t do a lot for clitoral play. If you need to stimulate your clit, consider the Ferri (much more on that later).
While it doesn’t come with a remote controller, the Lovense remote app has many features. For example, you can create and save your own vibration patterns. Second, you can sync up your sessions to a music playlist to vary the vibes with the music.
It also has chat functions, so you can check if your partner is in a safe space to play. But it can be tough to learn for first-timers. So play around with it before you play around.
It comes with a magnetic USB charger and can hold enough power for 5 hours of use.
This is ideal if you enjoy longer play sessions at home or want to keep a vibe during longer outings.
NOTE: This toy runs at 43 decibels (dB) at max settings. That’s about as loud as a quiet office. So it doesn’t take much to drown out the rumble. And since it’s an internal toy, you are more likely to get away with running at medium settings.
If you’re interested to know more about Lovense Lush 3, read our in-depth review here.
Couples looking for a comfortable vibrating panty will enjoy the Moxie.
This external vibrating toy is made from smooth feeling silicone that won’t cause discomfort. It sends consistent rumbly vibes, whether you’re playing with its remote or the We-Connect app that’s relaxing even at max settings.
An awesome feature of the Moxie is its magnetic clip. This clever magnet sandwiches panties between it and the toy so it won’t move or shift as you walk around.
This means you can use this with any panties in your drawer. *Yay!*
It also keeps the stimulating bump of the toy against your clit, so you’ll feel EVERY rumble as you move around.
Because it has weaker vibes, some users consider this better for foreplay than for getting off. Yes, you can orgasm with just the toy. But you may have to do some extra work to get there.
If you want to enhance the snugness and rumbles while you’re out and about, try wearing this with pantyhose or tights.
It’s also not the best choice if you’re planning to do some longer public play. But with 2 hours to spare, it’s more than enough for a movie or a shorter lunch date.
What can I say? The Ferri is verri good.
For being the smallest vibrator on our list, it has some surprisingly strong vibrations. It starts out rumbly then ends up buzzy that could be compared to the Lovense Lush 3, making this a very good orgasmic choice.
A big part of this is how the Ferri is designed for clit stimulation.
After you clip it in place with the same magnet system the Moxie uses, it will be in the right spot to hit the right spot.
NOTE: If you need focused vibes on your clit, then the Ferri is your best choice. If stimulating the G-spot is what you’re after, then the Lush 3 is your best choice.
Budget-conscious shoppers will save anywhere from $30-$100 compared to our other top picks.
The Ferri’s max settings sound off at 43 dB, the same as the Lush 3. But since it’s an external toy, you don’t have your body to help muffle the sound. So I suggest sticking to lower settings in quieter settings.
It uses the same jam-packed wireless app as the Lovense Lush 3 does. So newbies will want to practice to get the most out of it.
More details on our Lovense Ferri review.
The Vedo Niki is like the Ferri’s bigger cousin. Both toys focus on clit stimulation, but the Niki’s bigger size offers a broader coverage and comfort.
This is a plus if you’re not into pinpoint buzzy sensations on your clit.
It’s also a powerhouse, providing strong rumbly vibes with a mix of rumbly and buzzy on its maximum settings. It’s even pretty comparable to the Ferri. (*Oh, hello orgasms!*)
So, yes! It’s designed for women who want a stronger vibe experience. But don’t let the size and power fool you because this is surprisingly a quiet toy.
Some users report that max settings are only 34 dB, which is barely louder than a lazy afternoon in the backyard. You CAN get away with playing with this toy in public.
Just be careful if you are more sensitive because this toy doesn’t play around. A full charge will only last for 1 hour, but it’s built to give the biggest bang for that hour.
This vibrating panty toy doesn’t have an app and only runs by remote. So long-distance couples won’t get any value out of the Niki.
If you’ve ever worked a desk job, then you know how the hours can drag. So why not spice it up with this “little secret.”
You don’t need special panties with the Satisfyer Little Secret since it uses a magnet clip similar to the Moxie.
In addition, it has a low-power motor that creates a tease-y vibration that will keep users in the mood without overstimulation.
Unlike the Moxie and Little Secret’s older sister Sexy Secret, the magnet is on the bottom of the toy. This makes it easier to hide that you can use this in a bikini at the beach… if you dare.
For under $50, you can control the Little Secret with the Satisfyer Connect app or its remote control. A great option if you don’t like dealing with online hassles or just like an old-fashioned remote experience.
If you do use the app, you shouldn’t experience serious connection or downtime issues.
While the app does have a solid connection, it doesn’t have the same features as the Lovense app. But some users might be fine with trading control for ease of use.
While its weaker motor isn’t ideal for power queens, it’s still a great toy for foreplay.
This is a whole Nu experience.
So the Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty uses a powerful bullet vibe to give you some of the strongest vibes to experience. You could compare its strength to a buzzier version of the Vedo Niki.
This also makes it an incredibly good bullet vibe to use with certain dildos.
For example, you could use this to add vibrations to a silicone dildo with a hole at the bottom.
And since it doesn’t use an app, you won’t have to worry about connection issues.
But don’t take this toy out if you want a discreet experience.
Like the Vedo Niki, it starts strong and only gets stronger. But unlike the Niki, the Nu Sensuelle has a max noise level of 53 dB. That’s almost as loud as a restaurant at the lunch rush!
So yeah. Only use this toy when you’re at a club or any noisy place.
You might be disappointed if you want longer sessions with this toy since its charge doesn’t even last an hour. But if you need a quick orgasm, then this will keep you coming (back).
The We-Vibe Sync is a clit and vaginal stimulator originally built for PIV sex. When it works, it provides stimulation to the clit and G-spot as well as the penis.
Its adjustable clitoral and G-spot arms mean that you can use it inside your underwear. Just make sure to go for a snug pair of panties.
However, my partner and I prefer to use the Sync during sex. The We-Vibe Moxie is better for discreet public play.
But don’t worry if you’re in a long-distance relationship. You can use the We-Connect app to control the vibes for your partner with its host of features.
As for the toy itself, it’s got dual motors with 10 vibration modes that I describe as strong and rumbly. The C-shape design makes it perfect for hitting the G-spot and clit for sessions that can last up to 2 hours on a full charge.
Some users mention how the toy kept sliding for them during sex. You can prevent this by making sure to adjust the toy to fit your body. I mean, it’s adjustable for a reason.
Also, some users report connection issues with the We-Connect app. We haven’t experienced this, but it’s something to keep in mind.
Looking to learn more about the We-Vibe Sync? Read here.
If variety is the spice of life, then Lovehoney’s Desire Luxury Vibrating Undies (what a mouthful) got you covered.
You and your partner can choose from 12 different vibration modes at 8 speeds, which means 96 different options. Couples will have a hard time not finding their perfect vibe.
The toy comes with a handy carrying case with a travel lock and a convenient charging port. Nothing about the case screams “sex toy,” so you could feel safe leaving this to charge in the open.
It also comes with a pair of side-tie panties that are designed to be one-size-fits-most.
The panties have a specially prepared pocket that you slide the toy into to keep it in place, applying pressure against the clit.
If you’re exceptionally crafty, you can sew pockets into your panties. So don’t feel like you have to use the panties in the box—a great option for petite or plus-sized women.
A lot of users, including myself, found that the charge didn’t last overnight. So make sure you charge the toy on the same day you plan to use them.
Sometimes, the look of a toy is just as much a part of the experience. That’s why vibrating panty fans might like the Tracey Cox Supersex Love Egg.
The black and silver design is undeniably stylish despite the affordable price, giving it a sexy luxury feel.
The egg has several features that users will enjoy.
For example, it’s made of body-safe plastic that slides inside your vagina smoothly. Plus, a retrieval loop that you can hook your finger into for easier and safer removal.
It has a total of 3 speeds and 4 vibration patterns, which is a pretty decent range of internal buzzy vibrations. Finally, the remote can function up to 10 meters (30 feet) away, which is about the distance of three average rooms.
Unfortunately, this love egg is only splashproof.
That means you can’t use it in the shower or clean it by dunking it in the sink. So be careful when you clean it.
If you enjoy reading spicy literature, then the Vibease might be a great tag-team partner.
Like most app-based vibrating panties, it can be controlled by your partner across the world. But it has a unique feature that is ideal for solo play.
You can sync up the toy with its impressive library of spicy literature. Then, when the action gets hot, the Vibease gets to work.
The app has strong control choices, which is great for couples’ play, even without the library. The app difficulty is a good middle ground between the Lovense and Satisfyer apps.
Also, the cute packaging comes with two USB cables, one short and one long. This was an unneeded but very welcome quality of life choice.
The toy itself has powerful enough but pretty quiet vibes, which benefits women who don’t want to get too distracted while listening to audiobooks.
The only downside is the shape and magnet-less design. It’s kinda challenging to keep in place or put enough pressure on the clit if you don’t wear the right underwear.
If you want more deets about Vibease, you can find our in-depth review here.
The Best Vibrating Panties Buying Guide
When it comes to buying a trusted pair of vibrating panties, it’s pretty much a given to think about QUALITY material. In fact, if you buy any kind of product nowadays, it’s best to always have that train of thought in mind.
So to give you a bit of a boost in your panty selection journey, here’s a breakdown of our own criteria for picking the right kind to spice up your day.
The safest and most common materials used in vibrating panties include mesh, lace, nylon, cotton, latex, and leather. Make sure to read the descriptions in case you’re allergic to any of these materials. The last thing you want to think about is finding relief for your itch in your most sensitive areas.
For the vibrating toy itself, non-porous, non-toxic silicone and ABS materials are your best bet. They’re easy to maintain and clean. Simply use a washcloth and mild detergent.
If the vibrator is waterproof, then you could submerge the panties in water during the cleaning process.
For lubes, ABS plastic is compatible with both oil-based and silicone-based lubricants. Silicone toys, however, will degrade over time with silicone lubricants. So instead, go for the water-based alternative.
When it comes to underwear size, always pick your usual measurements. But, there are cases wherein your exact measurements may not be available.
Look, not every manufacturer offers the same thing despite having standards when it comes to size selection. It can get frustrating to know which specifications best fit your body for your intended use.
Most underwear caters to the marketing tactic of one size fits all. And to a certain extent, there’s some truth to it. But it can also be misleading.
Yes, there are plus-size options as well, but the variety is less common than that of the normal underwear you purchase on a good day.
Luckily, there have been brands that started to accommodate a wide selection of body sizes, which is a good thing.
But if you are still having doubts about choosing the right vibrating panty, then it’s probably best to just buy a standalone vibrator that can be used with your lingerie. This way, you don’t have to worry too much about how everything looks and instead focus on the real goal of getting sexual gratification.
Remote Control vs. App Control
Some people prefer remote-controlled panty vibrators, while some go for app-controlled ones. It basically winds down to preference at the end of the day.
As to every side, there are pros and cons.
Remote-controlled vibrators tend to be cheaper and don’t rely on the battery of your phone to work. However, they can get taxing to use, especially when you cycle through a variety of options with just one to five buttons of your own choosing.
For app-controlled vibrators, they tend to be the more ‘modern’ choice between the two. You can basically use it anywhere, and you can simply go for the mode you want with just one tap on your smartphone screen. Some apps even provide feedback, which can be helpful and ‘scary’ at the same time.
But, the downside is you’re heavily reliant on your phone and the connectivity that comes with it. So if any technical difficulties do happen, then you might be in an awkward position from your momentum in bed.
All-in-all, just go for something you’re comfortable with. Maybe try testing out the waters between the two, and see which one you’d like. There’s no right or wrong option with this one.
The mindblowing experience of using a panty vibrator can simply be smashed to pieces with less-than-reliable connectivity. If you spend more time figuring out tech fixes instead of enjoying them, then you might want to reconsider your purchase.
For connectivity, you have two things to keep in mind: (1) ease of connectivity and (2) range of connectivity.
However, between the two, it may be best to prioritize how easy and reliable your connection is. Yes, having a toy that works from afar is great. But, you can never really bask in the satisfaction if it easily disconnects in an instant.
So go for reliability first, then range.
Vibrators come in different ranges, modes, and power. Some toys have a very strong headstart, while others tend to go the gradual route. So for this criteria, we’d suggest going for personal preference.
You see, not everyone has the same kind of sensitivity in their body. In other words, some are more sensitive than others.
To some, rumbly vibrations are already intense. To others, it’s merely a walk in the park. Others don’t like experiencing the come hither motion. And others crave it. It all just depends on the person in the end.
What’s important is choosing a toy that best suits your comfort level. If the vibration options are too intense, then look for alternatives.
Although, do keep in mind that the design of the toy can also factor in your decision. The intensity of the vibrations can sometimes feel too much depending on the placement of the motors on the toy.
Ease of Use
Sometimes, the best options are those that don’t come in a pack. And that holds true when buying your own set of vibrating panties. Some products tend to be of low quality and don’t offer much in terms of size and stimulation. But there are exceptions as well.
So for choosing the right panty vibe, there are three tiers you have to keep in mind:
- Panty vibrators that slip out of place very easily
- Panty vibrators that are secured in place but don’t apply too much pressure
- Panty vibrators that are secured in place and apply pressure to your crotch area
As you might have guessed, always go for option c when it comes to winding down your choices.
If you’re into public play, wearing underwear in public that just buzzes loudly can be embarrassing, especially if it just starts buzzing out of nowhere.
So if you do want to be more discreet about it, we’d suggest choosing products that don’t exceed the noise levels of ambient street sounds. Preferably, go for vibrators with a frequency of less than about 50 to 60 dB.
Yes, vibrating panties are great in themselves in the comfort of your own bedroom. But, using it in public in one of your day-to-day routines is a whole different story.
The battery life of vibrating panties is vital to your overall experience. If you want to take your time, or climax hands-free, or play in public, then go for vibrators with a long battery life.
For the budget, it depends on how willing you are to spend on the products themselves. Several of the options given above are in the mid-range when it comes to cost like the Niki, Ferri, and Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty. But there are expensive options as well like the Lush 3 and We-Vibe Moxie.
If you don’t like to go all-out but want to have a worthy investment, then our top three choices are the Lovense Ferri, Vedo Niki, and Satisfyer Littttle Secret.
The latter of the three is the cheapest but still gets the job done. But overall, you can’t really go wrong with any of the choices provided.
Most panty vibrators have a snug fit on their users. And part of this comes from the contoured designs of the products. So you don’t have to worry about having your panty be too obvious to the average viewer’s eyes.
You can simply have them blend well with your overall outfit as if their just regular underwear.
However, there are some exceptions. Take, for example, the vibrating panties that come with an egg-shaped accessory. These alternatives tend to be less discreet since a bulge can be apparent in the crotch area.
So if you like to liven up your appearances in public, then we’d suggest checking everything first before leaving the house. You can never be too sure what’s out of place. So a final check in the mirror can be a good thing in this situation.
What are vibrating panties?
To clear up the confusion, vibrating panties are not actually panties that vibrate by themselves. Instead, they are sexy underwear that just so happens to have a vibrator attached to them.
In general, there are two kinds of vibrating panties: (1) standalone and (2) integrated. Standalone vibrators are basically regular vibrators that are designed to stay in place with any type of underwear, while integrated vibrators are those that are built-in on specially-designed undergarments.
Who should buy vibrating panties?
ANYONE can buy vibrating panties. It doesn’t matter if you’re a couple that likes to spice things up in the bedroom or if you’re a woman that just likes to feel something new in her mundane life. As long as you’re open to new experiences, then no one’s stopping you from doing a bit of fun once in a while.
What do I need to know before using vibrating panties?
Before buying and using your own set, it’s best to know that not every vibrating underwear works in the same manner. Several products have unique features and designs that make them operate differently. So best to do some research beforehand.
Also, while it may be preferable to have a discreet product on their hands, vibrators almost always give out a sound when turned on. Some may be louder than others, but nevertheless, there’s still some audible noise coming out.
So keep your standards at bay. And be more realistic when it comes to your expectations.
What are the advantages and disadvantages of vibrating panties?
Vibrating panties both offer pros and cons to their users. Here’s a quick roundup of them.
Let’s start with the advantages… Vibrating panties are generally versatile. They offer a diverse range of modes and patterns, and they can be worn discreetly in public. They are great for hands-free stimulation, and you can have your partner control their settings at far distances.
As for their downsides, people can have sizing issues with the use of these panties. Also, buggy connections can ruin the mood in the bedroom, and vibrators in higher settings tend to be louder in frequency.
How to Use Vibrating Panties?
If you’re using a vibrating panty toy for the first time, make sure it’s got a full charge. Some toys can hold a charge overnight, but we recommend charging the toy the same day you want to use them, at least for the first time.
Many better vibrating panties are USB chargeable, so plug them into your charging stations or PCs and hide them in your desk drawer. In addition, some toys have lockable carrying cases with hidden plug points for the ultimate discretion.
Once that’s done, you’re ready to go.
Internal toys are inserted into the vagina without the need for special underwear or clips. But you’ll usually need tight-fitting panties to keep them in place.
External vibrating toys use either specially prepared panties with pockets or magnet clips to keep them in place.
Usually, the specially prepared panties are one-size-fits-most. This means that it might not fit right on very petite or plus-sized users.
Don’t worry if the in-box panties don’t fit your size or style. If you’re feeling crafty, try sewing pockets in your favorite panties instead.
Once your vibrating panties are set up, you can activate them with remotes or apps to stay in control.
It’s up to you whether you buy a remote or app-based product. Remotes have smaller ranges and can sometimes require remaining in sight, but they don’t require a stable WiFi connection. Apps are the way to go for long-distance relationships.
Fun Tips and Suggestions
If you own vibrating panties or are waiting for them in the mail, you might be wondering how best to use them. Well, don’t worry. I’ll share some of my vibing panty tips as well as those I’ve gathered from other folks.
If you own one of the louder toys or don’t feel comfortable trying them out in public, then use it at home. Try putting it on while you’re watching movies or doing your chores to spice up everyday life.
On the plus side, this could be just the reward you need to keep up with your daily chores.
Secret Sexy Shakes
If you get to spend some time with your partner, try giving them control during a date. Then, when you’re ordering food at a restaurant or enjoying the thrilling chase scene in a horror film, they can flick on the vibe to distract you.
Quieter toys like the Vedo Niki are built for these sensual couples-only moments.
Foreplay at a Distance
The better apps make it very possible for your partner to tease you throughout the day. Once they master the app, they can surprise you with buzzes and rumbles throughout the day.
Some of the better apps even have chat functions, so they can check if you’re in a safe space to play.
After all, you don’t want to start twitching and moaning while you’re presenting a project to the boss.
A lot of these toys are waterproof and fully submersible. This opens up many sexy possibilities for bringing them to the pool or beach for a swim. Even the louder toys can be silenced once you hit the water.
Water blocks Bluetooth signals. So this is where remote toys shine.
And here’s a tip for external toy owners. If you’re at home, try taking the toy out of the panties and just apply them directly to your clit. Feel the vibes without the hassle.
That restaurant scene from The Ugly Truth illustrates the fun couples can have with vibrating panties. There’s a certain wicked delight in messing with your partner throughout their day, especially if they are willing to play along.
After talking about vibrating panties, my friend went out to get one for her girlfriend. I’m happy to report that they’ve been buzzing with delight ever since.