What’s The Best Sex Furniture in 2020, According To Experts?

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Are you looking to find the best sex furniture? That will give you plenty of sex positions and enhanced comfort to help renew your love life…

…then you’ll love this guide!

I personally tested several pieces of sex furniture. Read hundreds of other expert and enthusiast reviews. To uncover the 10 best sex pillows, sex chairs and wedges that will work for you!

All this research is presented in handy side-by-side comparison chart.

You’ll find what you’re looking for. Be it comfort, discreetness, more pleasure with less work, or a budget piece of sex furniture.

Sounds good? Let’s jump in:

best sex furniture with comparison chart

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If you don’t have time to read all the guide (recommended though) here’s the quick answer:

Liberator Wedge / Ramp Combo (⭐ Overall Best)

This combo kit from Liberator stood out above all the other furniture pieces. It’s affordable and high quality. It gives you plenty of new positions… All the while also providing with enhanced comfort. Did I mention that covers are machine washable, so you don’t need to worry about fluids staining anything.

If you’re ready to spend a little more on serious piece of furniture…

..then Liberator Esse Sex Sofa is officially the best furniture piece. That can easily hide in plain sight and be used as a comfy chaise lounges or a reading sofa.

Some sex furnitures can even be displayed in the living room as if its just a normal furniture.

Consider though that you’ll need to add ramps to lift it higher, as out of the box it’s too low for many couple. But this only adds to the variety as you have more “lego blocks” to experiment with.


My Story on Discovering Sex Furniture, Sex Pillow and Sex Chairs

There comes a time when sex life goes downturn. Because there is nothing exciting happening.

Pleasing yourself sounds more attractive than making love with your partner.

When you’re at that place you have two choices — either invest in sex education to try new things or invest in new sex toys. Or even better sex furniture that will add the novelty and spice things up in the bedroom.

I get it. I was in the same place after several years of relationships.

I was hesitant to upgrading to specialized sex furniture when pillows “seemed” to get the job done.

But oh boy, I was wrong. And I’m happy I was.

Sex furniture adds a completely new dimension to your sex life.

  • suddenly there is more pleasure with less work. Angles get exposed with ease — no aching necks, legs or hands.
  • suddenly furniture doesn’t sink in under weight
  • suddenly you don’t need to worry about leaving the mess. You can simply throw the covers of those furniture pieces in the washing machine.

In this guide you’ll discover the best sex furniture pieces. For different needs, affordable prices and highest quality:

sex chairs, bondage furniture, sex swings all in one place

Yep, there are shower handles and bondage kit. Even wedges, sex chair & full-blown Liberator Esse sofa. That looks elegant and is EXTREMELY functional for sexual pleasures.


What You Should Know About Sex Furniture?

Here’s what you should look out for when shopping for one. (keep in mind in this guide I only included the best sex furniture) So no bad choices here.

The quick checklist:

  • What’s your price range? — if you’ve ever shopped for furniture, you know it price tag wont be low. It helps to set a budget upfront. If you’re looking for a full-blown sex sofa — expect to pay $600–$1000. If your budget is in $100 range. Then look at the simple sex wedges that give the most effective for least amount of the money.
  • Is it discreet? Will it blend with your interior? Or if not — do you have space to hide it?
  • How easy it is to clean the furniture? — this is where specialised sex furniture shines. For example, Liberator has removable, machine-washable & waterproof covers.
  • What materials is it made from? — I would urge you not to look at any inflatable pieces as the material is crappy and doesn’t feel good on the skin. (Inflatable Position Master.) Yes, they are cheap, but, for example, Liberators cost more than simple medical wedges. Because the material can support a heavy weight and maintain the shape. (very important for those delicious, comfortable angles)
  • Do you love it? Do you see using it regularly? — this is the same rule I use when shopping for clothes and it applies to sex toys too. This is serious money we are talking about. There is no point getting a sex chair or bondage kit that will only collect dust somewhere. So either you love it or hate it. Don’t accept 7/10.

Final advice. Shop these pieces together with your partner.

Discuss what you would love to get from the sex furniture:

  • are you looking for new sex positions and novelty?
  • is it enhanced comfort?
  • is it kinkiness? (bondage, restraints, exposed oral sex angles)
  • is it for BDSM play? how far do you want to go and restrain each other?

If this is your first time buying sex furniture. I suggest you opt-out for something simple within $100 range.

Looking for a fuck bench or sex sofa like Esse II?

  • Get the small Liberator Jaz or Wedge and see if you actually use and like it!

Looking for restraint play?

  • Get the simple, affordable under the mattress restraint kit. Before looking at something pricier like Liberator Black Label sets.

Looking for a new place to have sex at?

  • get the cheap, yet quality shower mount handle and unlock pleasurable shower sex.

You can always go wild later! Test the waters first!

Note: If you want to look deeper in sex wedges & sex position pillows. And learn how much difference a specialized sex pillow ACTUALLY makes. Make sure to read this sex wedge guide.

It goes deeper in explaining where people notice the biggest improvement. When using sex furniture pieces as sex cushion.

Take a look at this video so you see how specialized sex furniture looks and feels like in real life:


What Is The Best Sex Furniture in 2020? (Sofas, Sex Chairs, Sex Stools, Sex Pillow, Sex Swing)

Here are all the top 10 contenders:

best sex sofas, stools, chairs in one place

I’ll share the original spreadsheet later, but here’s the gist about every piece & why it made in the list.

Wondering why there are so many Liberator items? The thing is that Liberator is THE BRAND in the quality sex furniture market.

There are no good alternatives — either there are cheap inflatables. Or bad quality Amazon counterfeits. Or even more expensive (but less practical) luxury brands.

Liberator is simply the best right now.

  • #1 — Sex in the Shower Dual Locking Suction Handle — shower sex gets slippery fast. And while it’s extremely hot, the positioning isn’t the easiest. This shower handle (and there is also leg handle) makes it more comfortable. And lets you focus on the pleasure instead. Never forget to follow the manufacturer’s instructions so no one gets hurt.
  • #2 — Under Mattress 4-piece Restraint Kit — if you thought that you need a metal frame to explore bondage. You’re wrong. This adjustable restraint kit goes under the mattress. And nicely spreads the partner wide. Ankles are comfy, but there is no easy way of getting out of this one. My personal favorite restraint play.
  • #3 — SportsSheets Sex Swing door Jam Kit — this is the best bang for the buck sex swing that you can attach on doors. Sex swings, as long as you have stable wooden doors, you can simply install it too. It can help you have plenty of kinky fun by swinging in this bad boy.
  • #4 — Liberator Jaz — this wedge pillow is a bit more practical than a Heart shape pillow. Primarily because of its rounded angle. If you’re looking for more practicality pick this one, if more discreet or gift — pick the Heart one.
  • #5 — Liberator Heart (Budget Pick.) – this small wedge pillow furniture piece makes a great anniversary gift. Or a X-mas and Valentine’s day gift. And it’s the most discrete of em all. You can safely leave it on your bed or coach. And then when the passion hits it will give that tasty angle either for oral sex, missionary or doggy. Perfect sex cushion if you are on a budget.
  • #6 — Position Enhancer Weightless Sex Stool – Looking for more comfort? (while exposing the sexy bits) This stool/chair will help. Some use it as queening chair because it nicely exposes for oral sex. But also you can use it for bouncing and having sex while being seated. (less work, more pleasure, great for people with back pain)
  • #7 — Liberator Wedge — If you’re curvier couple then Jaz or Heart may be too small for you. This wedge pillow can be used as a reading pillow and is big enough to hold onto comfortably. It’s the most popular Liberator wedge.
  • #8 — Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo (Also Great.)— If you’re not willing to invest in sex sofa. Then this combo is a great cheaper alternative that opens a lot of variations in positions. Make sure you investigate the position master guide when you get it to be able to use this combo to max ability.
  • #9 — Liberator Esse Sofa (Our Pick) —this is the most affordable quality sex furniture piece. This piece of furniture is somewhat expensive. But for many, it’s too low…and it will be ideal if you get two more Liberator ramps underneath. It’s still cheaper than Esse II. Plus can be displayed as a normal furniture in the living room.
  • #10 — Esse II Sex Sofa (Upgrade Choice) — if you don’t want to mess around with ramps. And want an elegant sexy centerpiece for your apartment, this piece of furniture is the one you want. Esse II Sex Sofa has nice wooden legs. And additional supporting wedges for many, many new positions. Also can be displayed in the living room as they look like a normal furniture.

Okay, now here’s the original spreadsheet, and further down we delve into each piece deeper:

spreadsheet of furniture pieces

Click to image to enlarge or check the spreadsheet here.


#1 — Sex in the Shower Dual Locking Suction Handle

This simple 12″ handle makes the uncomfortable sex (But smoking hot shower sex.) a lot more pleasurable.

sex in the shower furniture

It’s easy to put it in place, remove — giving a lot more room to experiment in the shower. Will help to maintain the rhythm and won’t budge.

Don’t expect it to hold all your body weight though, it’s more meant for support.

If you want to get even more stable, add the suction footrest in the mix.

shower handle furniture specs

After the sexy times, you leave it in the bath and use it to help you get out of it. With this discrete tool, you can achieve different angles. To keep your sex life fun and interesting.


#2 — Under The Mattress Bed Restraint Bondage Kit — 4-pieces

In past I was sure I need a metal handle bed frame to try any restraints, but oh boy I was wrong.

This simple kit goes under the mattress and will pin your partner down well!

bed restraint bondage example

Cuffs are made from Velcro — simple, well-made, and unescapable.

bondage furniture specs

While technically this is not sex furniture, more like bondage furniture. They can make your bedroom play a lot more exotic for a low investment!

Orgasm denials, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms — I’ll let you pick.


#3 — Sportsheets Sex Swing door Jam Kit

If you’ve got solid doors at home, this simple sex swing will give you a flying feeling while having sex.

The best position will be as indicated in the picture — position yourself. And just swing yourself to pleasure.

sex swing for couples example

SportsSheets sex swing itself supports up to 325lbs. As it’s made from quality velcro material.

sportsheets sex swing specs

A sex swing can add this kinky feel to the intercourse that you’ll learn to enjoy.


#4 — Liberator Jaz Wedge

Okay, now we’re moving on to the serious boys.

Note: For all Liberator items, I suggest to subscribe to their newsletter. And wait for their 20–30% discounts that come several times a year. This will make the purchases a lot less emptying to wallet, and a lot more fulfilling to your love life 😉

It doesn’t look like much, but oh man, the angle it provides is perfect.

liberator jazz sex wedge furniture

It makes missionary heavenly (no matter who’s on the top) and helps to avoid that painful thrusting in the vagina.

sex wedge for great positioning specs

Anyone who has stuck ordinary pillows under their wife’s back will appreciate this wedge. Angle also exposes G-spot which increases the odds of getting her to squirt sometime.

This video will give a better idea of how Jaz looks and feels like (apologies for bad quality):

Some people prefer Jaz Motion which allows the rocking motion for easier thrusting.

I would still recommend classical Jaz to start with.

Here are some position ideas:

sex position furniture ideas

#5 — Liberator Heart (Budget Pick)

This was the first sex furniture piece I started with.

It instantly spiced up my sex life.

It simply makes for a great gift, is cute, discrete, and extremely practical.

liberator heart sex support for couples

You could easily mistake it with decorative throw pillow. (It does look like a heart wedge pillow)

sex stool - liberator heart

Since they are small you can easily take it together with you on travels, road trips or camping. There are just so many pros for such a good budget item.


#6 — Position Enhancer Weightless Sex Stool

Sex stools simply enhances the positions and is perfect for oral sex lovers.

Many couples who have stiff joints, knee injuries or back-pain use this stool. But you don’t need to have mobility issues to use this.

best sex chair for couples

You can use it in the bed and with her on top simply bounce up and down (it holds up to 150kg weight).

Plus, the view from down there is divine.

weightless sex tool specs

You can also use it for anal sex or doggy sex — be creative.

Those straps are elastic, metal stool legs are padded with soft foam making it very versatile.


#7 — Liberator Wedge For Sex

Liberator wedge was called a “must-purchase” for sex by Timothy Ferriss (in The 4-Hour Body book).

liberator sex couch for couples

This is a bigger than Jaz & Heart wedge. And suitable if your body type is curvier or simply want something bigger to hold onto.

To compare, if Jaz is 18″ length, Wedge is 24″.

liberator sex wedge specs

Also, most people who get wedge/ramp combo end up using Wedge a lot more often than the ramp. 80/20 rule right here.

Note: There is also a Plus-size wedge version for curvier couples.

Here’s a helpful video to see how wedge looks like and the differences between ramp and wedge:

Also a cool feature is that if you want to spice it up you can later buy a restraint case for the wedge too 😉


#8 — Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo (Our Pick) —

This is the most popular (best-selling) piece of sex furniture ever. (also the first) It is designed by Liberator.

It can open up tons of new positions if you are the creative type…or study Liberator’s position guide.

best liberator furniture - ramp / wedge combo

Make sure you pick the right size ramp when shopping.

There are four sizes in total and you must measure the inseam length correctly to pick the right one.

But when you do, it will make those tricky positions possible and the angles will just work.

Comfort and pleasure enhanced with less work 😉

liberator wedge ramp combo specs

The combo comes especially handy if you have height differences. Or if you’re young at heart but sometimes back disagrees.

Here are few example combinations:

sex furniture position examples

#9 — Liberator Esse Sex Sofa (Our Pick)

Okay, you might have been scrolling through the wedges and thought to yourself :

“I wanted a furniture piece, the sex sofa, not some angle adjusters…!”

Well, the reason why I presented cheaper options first is that this is where it gets more expensive.

Because of bigger dimensions, there is a need to use a lot more material which costs money…

liberator esse sex couch

This is the cheapest, quality Liberator sofa, but the trouble is that it’s still too low for many people. I am young (31), but still I wanted it higher.

It’s ergonomic, beautiful and functional.

It comes in 6 different colors: black, champagne, espresso, merlot, platinum, and plum.

Liberator makes tons of sex furniture pieces. But Esse is the best bang for the buck (especially if you hold out for sales on their site).

liberator esse sofa specs

The biggest pros of getting this piece of furniture?:

  • it will be so much more comfortable compared to your bed. (because you get more freedom/space for the legs)
  • better sex position, leverage — curves open lots of fun positions.
  • will not budge even with 600lbs of weight applied to it (plus, covers are removable & washable).
  • 12 color choices

The biggest cons?

  • it’s quite low and many people will need to buy extra Lift ramp (2 is ideal) to get it to a comfortable height.
  • returns are challenging if you don’t like the piece. (because of size and weight, and the fact you pay for shipping on return)
  • it’s a pricey love seat and requires a learning curve to discover good positions.

You can move through the curves. And change the pillows as you experiment with different angles and positions.

The material is nicely hard, but soft at the same. Covers can be removed for washing.

If you’re looking for the ultimate sex furniture, this is the one.

This thing will last for years and will provide lots of great pleasures.

You will now be able to create that fantasy sex position of yours.

See the unboxing and how the Esse looks in real life.

Unpacking is lots of fun and as you can see 😉

An alternative that is worth mentioning is the tantra chair. Which The Discovery Channel called “our favourite chair”.


#10 — Esse II Sex Sofa (Upgrade Pick)

If you’re prepared to pay a little more…and don’t hack your way to the height… Esse II won’t disappoint.

esse - the best sex couch positions

You won’t need to hide it — you can present it proudly (hiding in plain sight).

It just unlocks so many new positions if you’re taking time to experiment…

Also…it is incredibly comfy to lie and sit in. It’s a lounging sofa, sex chair, sex sofa…everything you want it to.

If you’re looking to have an effortless way to discover new positions and connect with your partner. This is the fuck bench you’ve been looking for.

liberator esse sex couch specs

These are the best of the best…but you’re still here…?

Okay, let me reward you with few bonus uncommon sex furniture ideas to wrap it up:


Update — #11 — Sex Furniture: Liberator Zeppelin Lounger 

What if a bean bag…could serve for sex?

Generic beanbags don’t hold the shape as well, but this Liberator piece does.

You can shape and mold it to anything you want — make it a bed, a chair. Whatever. No need for fancy measurements or adjustments.

liberator zeppellin furniture for sex

There are helpful videos on Liberator’s site showing the Zeppelin in action.

And don’t be worry about cleaning, you can remove the cover and wash it in the washing machine.

It comes in tons of colors to ensure it fits in with the interior.

Finally, this bean bag is very discreet — it’s a cool piece to keep around for general lounging too.


Transparent Crystal Sex Chair

Okay, technically it’s not a sex chair… but think about it.

transparent chair used for couples

Put a dildo sex toy with a suction cup on top of it and have your partner watch as you play around with it.

Sex chairs should not be confused with monkey rockers. Monkey rockers are essentially rocking chairs with a dildo attached to it.

The transparency just gives the kinkiness like nothing else.

It may be not as practical as sex stool, but if you’re into sex toys, it might just be the thing you were missing.

Possibilities are endless. Mix and match with a bondage frame table and you get a different vibe.

Although not thoroughly reviewed here – a frame table can also be another tool. To bring extra spice and excitement to your sex life.


Use Massage Table As Sex Furniture

You’ve probably have seen tons of adult videos with massage theme…

using massage table for sex

Why couldn’t a massage table be used for the foreplay, relaxation and sexy time?

It’s compact, it’s sturdy and it’s adjustable. A doggy style sex position can be explored deeply using this furniture. Helps you achieve g-spot stimulation.

Plus, massage tables are intended to have contact with lots of liquids and oils. Which make them the perfect sex furniture.



couple laying in bed

Bringing It All Together

Having a certain sex position or fantasy that has been difficult to achieve? These sex toys will surely be of help!

I wish you never-ending passionate love life (or sex life) that lasts for years.

Sex furniture is great as it isn’t as distracting as toys can be. You are still with your partner, but simply can focus more on positions, comfort…

You can be more adventurous in trying new angles when you know you’ll not need to work as much…

Yes, everyone says sex is the most pleasurable sports activity…

But come on, no one wants to work when we’re making love. We want to enjoy, relax, drink in the partner and focus on subtle, pleasurable sensations.

Pick one, and let your love life get rejuvenated with novelty.

Cheerio!

  • People come in all heights, shapes, sizes, and levels of flexibility. While some couples are a great fit, others might need a little help?

    • Well, if you check each selection and the details explained you can deduct with quite good accuracy which furniture could fit for you. If still unclear, I always recommend reading product reviews to get more insight for which people product worked the best for.

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