20 Best Bondage Toys: BDSM Gear & Starter Kits For Everyone [2022]

Ranging from light bondage to heavy hardcore, we’ve compiled a list of the best bondage toys and BDSM gear to satisfy every tastebud.

Bondage Toys

If you’re looking to bring a little bondage to the bedroom, you’ll need to go shopping!

Not only do bondage and BDSM cover a huge play-list of kinks, but they also incorporate a vast array of toys, accessories, furniture, and equipment. 

It doesn’t matter whether you’re vanilla with a hint of spice or your bedroom activities are like a fully stocked spice rack!

Because when it comes to BDSM, there really is something for everyone.

So, what will we cover?

  • Bondage Starter Kits For Beginners
  • Handcuffs & Restraints (like in our spreader bar BDSM guide)
  • Gags, Blindfolds, And Hoods
  • Spanking / Impact Play, Sensation Tools
  • Nipple & Clit Clamps
  • Cock Cages & Ball Toys
  • E-stim
  • Bondage Furniture
  • Sex Swings
  • And last but not least…Fucking Machines

That’s a lot of kinks to cover, so let’s dive in!

Best Bondage Kit for Beginners

Luxury Bondage Kit by Lovehoney has everything you’d need to get started with bondage play, and you don’t even have to shell out a huge amount for the kit. Great for beginners and a kit you can use to take the next step in impact play.

Best Bondage Cuffs for Beginners

Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs are the perfect cuffs to use when you’re just starting out with bondage: simply restrain the wrists. They’re easy to use, affordable, and adjustable to fit most wrist sizes.

Best Bondage Bed Restraints

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is the best step up to wrist bondage while still in the light bondage territory. You can transform any bed into a kinky sex toy with this portable restraint system.


Best Bondage Cuffs for Beginners

Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs

Best Bondage Kit for Beginners

Luxury Bondage Kit by Lovehoney

Best Bondage Bed Restraints

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

MATERIAL:
Faux fur (fabric)
Satin (fabric)
Not specified
FASTENING:
Velcro
Tie-up
Velcro
FEATURES:
Quick-release velcro, adjustable to most wrist sizes
Restraints for bondage, feather tickler, blindfold, leather flogger
Quick-release clips, 60-inch connecting strap, 4 cuffs

Top Bondage Toys in 2022

Best Bondage Starter Kit for Beginners

1. Luxury Bondage Kit by Lovehoney

Material:
Satin (fabric)
Fastening:
Tie-up
Features:
Restraints for bondage, feather tickler, blindfold, leather flogger
  • Beginner-friendly impact play
  • Made for BDSM progression to S&M play
  • Blindfold for sensory deprivation play
  • Not the best quality

Navigating bondage toys can be overwhelming for beginners. Starter kits take the pressure off by giving you a little bit of (almost) everything!

They are also affordable, so you won’t waste cash should you discover that bondage isn’t your thing.

If it is your thing, however, then they are great value for money.

You can opt for this 7-piece Luxury Bondage Kit by Lovehoney to start with.

With its satin restraints, blindfold, and feather tickler, it’s ideal for beginners who want a lighter bondage session with a sensual feel. The kit is also great for intermediate players, which means you get the essentials when you want to take the next step: S&M play.


Best Bondage Cuffs for Beginners

2. Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs

Material:
Faux fur (fabric)
Fastening:
Velcro
Features:
Quick-release velcro, adjustable to most wrist sizes
  • Fits most wrist sizes
  • Compatible with other chains and restraints
  • Quick-release fastening
  • Not for rougher play

Cuffs and restraints are ‘must-have’ items for any bondage play, for newbies and BDSM veterans alike. This is a huge category with all sorts of goodies, so let’s break it down…

Bondage beginners tend to go for Velcro fastening handcuffs, like these super-soft wrist cuffs, simply because they are easy to use and get out of!

The quick release gives an extra sense of security for your first foray into restraint play. It’s not the toughest quality for rougher play. But with its low price and no-nonsense use, it’s great for beginners.


Best Bondage Bed Restraints

3. Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Material:
Not specified
Fastening:
Velcro
Features:
Quick-release clips, 60-inch connecting strap, 4 cuffs
  • Sturdy build
  • Can be used on any bed
  • Easy to release for safety
  • Not the best-looking restraints

At first glance, bed restraint kits can look confusing with all the straps and buckles. But, the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is one that is really simple to install. 

What’s more, you don’t need to uninstall it after use as it can be easily hidden under the bed. Great for spontaneous bondage fun!

No matter what type of boudoir furniture you have, there’s a kit that will work.

Choose from four-poster style restraints, simple restraints for headboards, and under-the-mattress restraints. 
When shopping for your first bedroom bondage kit, look for comfort, position variety, and value for money.

Make sure to check out more bed restraints to see the good options available.


Best Bondage Toy for Pet Play

4. Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash

Material:
Faux leather
Fastening:
Buckle
Features:
Quick-release clip, collar and lead set, adjustable buckle closure
  • Malleable on first use, no need for leather care
  • Vegan-friendly material
  • Soft and comfortable to use
  • Could get slippery

The best collars and restraints will depend on what you plan to do. For example, if you’re exploring pet play, then a collar and leash combo will do the trick.

Looking to restrain movement in different positions?

Wearing this collar gives you a sexy, submissive look. And, of course, the leash makes bondage play more exciting.

Be careful of tugging too much, though, as the material could get slippery.


Best BDSM Neck and Wrist Restraints

5. Sportsheets Neck And Wrist Restraint

Material:
Neoprene
Fastening:
D-ring buckle
Features:
Personal body restraint system, neoprene neck collar, velcro cuffs
  • Portable body restraint system
  • Wearable at the back or across the chest
  • Soft and comfy collar
  • Tie or snap hook isn’t included

A collar and wrist restraint harness that can be worn with the D-rings to the back or the front will give you plenty of options.

You can attach the cuffs at any point, but the snap hook or tie are sold separately.

This restraint system is light and compact—you can bring it anywhere for some kinky BDSM play.


Best BSDM Spreader Bar

6. Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs

Material:
Neoprene
Fastening:
Velcro
Features:
Wrist and ankle cuffs, adjustable cuffs, coated bar
  • Full body bondage
  • Adjust velcro cuffs for the right fit
  • Discreet and doesn’t clang
  • Can’t change cuff positions

When it comes to bondage for beginners, people are often put off by spreader bars as they look like an advanced piece of bondage equipment.

But they actually give you more freedom than most restraints. 

With spreader bars, you can move around (albeit slowly) and change positions easily. They are also excellent for forced orgasms and/or orgasm denial

You can get fixed-sized spreader bars, extendable bars, or spreaders with their own cuffs.

If you’re new to the spread, then the Sportsheets Restraint Bar With Cuffs will be an easy intro. At 16 inches, it’s not too wide but still keeps you ‘open.’

Also, the cuffs are Velcro for easy release, and the soft-coated bar gives added comfort. It doesn’t clang, so you can play discreetly without worrying about making noise. (Aside from your moans and gasps, that is.)

For more advanced options and ideas on how to use the spreader bar, check out our article on the best spreader bar.


Best Sex Wedge Positioning Pillow

7. Liberator Heart Pillow

Material:
Polyurethane foam, micro-velvet fabric
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Position enhancer, moisture-proof liner, contoured shape
  • Discreet—could pass off as any pillow
  • Firm and sturdy, doesn’t sag
  • Easy to clean (removable and machine-washable cover)
  • May not fit enough for bigger-bodied users

Bondage furniture is specifically designed to enhance your sexual pleasure. You can enjoy those hard-to-attain sex positions, deeper penetration, or just have more comfortable sex.

You also don’t need to have a sex dungeon to own sex furniture… bondage furniture comes in all shapes and sizes to fit any size of home. 

Plus, some pieces are so discreet that you can have them sitting out in plain view without the need to hide them away, like the Liberator Heart Pillow. 

If you have a small apartment, you can easily include bed restraints or a sex wedge.

These cushions come in various sizes, designs, and functions, so make sure to explore the best sex pillows for you.


Best BDSM Furniture

8. Liberator Sex Chair

Material:
Polyester, polyurethane foam
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Position enhancer, regular lounger by day, mini scoop pillow
  • Designed for Kama Sutra sex positions
  • Lounger can be used as any furniture
  • Comes with a mini scoop pillow
  • Large, needs enough space

But if you have space (and extra disposable income to spend) then splash out on the Esse Tantric Sex Chair. It looks like a regular sofa, so it’ll blend in with your ‘normal’ living room decor.

Getting a great sex couch is a good investment, especially if you’re into exploring different sex positions. Which you definitely should.

But couches are not your only option as you can get a wide array of the best sex furniture to find one that fits your needs and real estate.


Best Bondage Sex Swing

9. Screamer Sex Swing: Dual Hook

Material:
Cotton canvas
Fastening:
Straps
Features:
Heavy-duty springs, dual-hook construction, free headrest
  • Durable metal hardware build
  • Discreet storage with its carrying case
  • Spreads weight evenly
  • No frame yet, only the swing and headrest
  • Bigger investment

Make sex fun again with a sex swing! They let you try out new positions, hit new angles, and also act as a restraint. (The one ‘swinging’ has very little control!)

Screamer Sex Swing lets you explore positions and angles you can only achieve via a swing and totally unavailable during normal, body-on-land positions. Plus, you can remove or remount the straps to explore more combinations. 

It’s a portable swing system you can bring anywhere. But it’s definitely not one for beginners and casual kinksters. 

There are three main types of sex swings to choose from:

  1. Door swings: These mount over a doorframe. They are really portable and easy to store. A great starter swing and a good option for those living in small apartments. Just be sure you have sturdy doors!
  2. Sex sling: This is more like a hammock than a swing. Super comfortable and give great support. The best option for the heavier or older kinksters.
  3. Sex swings: You can get hanging sex swings or stands (if you don’t want to drill a hole in the ceiling). These are the most popular as they give the most position variety.

Finding the best sex swing for you will depend on a few factors such as budget, available space, weight, and age/fitness.


Best Bondage Tape

10. Lovehoney Bondage Tape

Material:
PVC
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Self-adhesive, sexy red color, great for all BDSM levels
  • 20 meters of self-adhesive PVC tape
  • Doesn’t leave marks on skin and furniture
  • Pretty sturdy
  • A bit less adherent for those who want more “struggle”

When it comes to bondage rope and the best tape for bondage, there are so many options!

One could even write a whole post dedicated to the best ropes for bondage… 😉 

But to sum up, when you want to tie someone up for the first time, this bondage tape is a great place to start. It’s affordable, easy to use, reusable, and won’t stick to skin or furniture

That said, some people just get a kick from the feel of ropes. If that’s you, then you need to learn how to tie someone up safely.


Best Bondage Rope

11. UberKinky Natural Hemp Bondage Rope

Material:
Hemp
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Traditional look and scent of shibari and kinbaku rope, great for friction, for rigging scenes
  • Strong—280kg breaking strength
  • Well-sealed ends
  • Smell of natural hemp rope
  • Quite stiff at the start

When you have a few knots under your belt, you can step it up and go for the popular Shibari Japanese rope bondage in hemp. 

It has the smell, look, and feel of natural hemp rope, getting the sub in just the right frame of mind and feel for your bondage scenes.

It’s super strong for your rigging scenes too.

At the start, it’s quite stiff, but it becomes pliable after some boiling and oiling.


Best Ball Gag for Beginners

12. Bondage Boutique Beginners Small Ball Gag

Material:
Fastening:
Features:
  • Firm yet squishy to bite down
  • Fitting but allows a bit of movement
  • Adjustable straps up to 25”
  • Hair could entangle in the straps

Gags, blindfolds, and hoods are all part of deprivation play.

They may sound like they are for the more advanced kinksters, but you don’t have to go full-on gimp mask straight away!

A simple scarf or sleep mask makes a good starter blindfold. A tie or a pair of panties can double up as a gag, while a pillowcase makes a great makeshift hood! But when it comes to shopping for your first gag, opt for a small silicone ball gag that is breathable, easy to clean, and has a comfortable adjustable strap.


Best BDSM Blindfold

13. DOMINIX Deluxe Padded Leather Blindfold

Material:
Leather
Fastening:
Buckle
Features:
Padded leather, adjustable buckle fastening
  • For sensory deprivation play
  • Ergonomically-shaped for eyes and nose
  • Maximum blackout
  • Slightly hard edges

Finding a blindfold that completely blocks out the light can be a challenge. But the oversized Padded Leather Blindfold by Dominix does the trick.

There’s no peeking—it really blocks your vision. And it’s quite comfortable to wear as it’s shaped to go over your eyes and nose.


Best Bondage Hood

14. Sportsheets Shadow Hood

Material:
Nylon, elastane
Fastening:
NA
Features:
  • Soft hood
  • Blocks vision with extra padding in the eye area
  • Comfortable fit
  • Handwashable material
  • A bit restrictive breathing (except for mouth hole)

If you find the blindfold moving or slipping as you thrash about the bed then a blackout hood could be the way to go.

It covers your entire face, leaving only a breathable hole in the mouth area.

The material is soft, comfortable, and has extra padding in the eye area to block your vision completely.


Best Spanking Paddle for Impact Play

15. Pelt Silicone Paddle By Tantus

Material:
Silicone
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Flexible paddle face, grip handle
  • Transmits energy equally when wielded
  • Hygienic material
  • Pretty intense for people with low pain tolerance

I do love a good spanking session. Cheeks burning red and then a tongue gently trailing over the super sensitive skin… yum!

And impact play is one of the most accessible BDSM practices as you don’t necessarily need to spend money to enjoy it. 

Use your hands or regular household items, such as flat hair brushes, wooden spoons, or even table tennis bats. 

Basically, anything that resembles a paddle is your friend!

That said, specifically designed impact tools, like the Mini Tantus Silicone Paddle, are so effective that you may never go back to your favorite spoon. 

There are paddles, floggers, whips, and riding crops in a wide variety of materials to choose from. 

If you do go the paddle route, silicone is a good choice as it evenly distributes energy on impact.

Safer spanking for your sub AND your hand won’t ache, so you can swing for longer!


Best BDSM Nipple Clamps

16. Entice Tiered Nipple Clamps

Material:
Metal
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Adjustable nipple clamps, nickel-free, and non-tarnishing, screw-pin crocodile clips
  • Great for sensory play
  • Pretty rose-tinted metal finish
  • Tiered metal chains are weighted
  • Some find the grip strength a bit weak

Pleasure or pain…your experience of clamps will all depend on your sensitivity. If your nipples pucker up with just a gentle graze, then nipple clamps might be too much. 

That is unless you like a little pain…then, it could be very pleasurable indeed!

Test the waters with some nipple pinching or a clothes peg. If that feels good, then take the next step with a sexy set of nipple clamps and chains. 

It has screw-pin crocodile clips with PVC cushioning. For me, it gives a good pinch as I’m pretty sensitive, while others may find it a bit weak.

The tiered metal chains are pretty (the rose-tinted finish is cute!) and offer added weight for more sensations.


Best BDSM Clit Clamp

17. Beaded Clit Clamp from Spartacus

Material:
Metal
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Tweezer-style clamp, rubber tips, adjustable
  • For clitoral stimulation
  • Can be used on the nips
  • Helps you apply the right pressure with its adjustable clamp
  • Might feel weak for some

Of course, clamps aren’t just for nipples…

Clit clamps are a small but mighty BDSM toy. These versatile devices can be used during masturbation, foreplay, and sex. 

In fact, some clit clamps, like the Beaded Clit Clamp from Spartacus, can also be used as nipple clamps. It has a tweezer-style clamp with rubber tips to stimulate your clit while not being painful (and not the good kind).


Best BDSM Chastity Device

18. CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit

Material:
Hard plastic
Fastening:
Lock and key
Features:
Transparent cock cage, locking pins and spacers

One of the most powerful ways to dominate your sub is through orgasm denial. With a cock cage, you can keep your man’s tackle locked up until you want it. 

Just as all cocks come in different shapes and sizes, so do cock cages. But of course, that makes the buying process challenging. 

Your best bet is to go for a cock cage that is easily adjustable, like the CB-6000 Male Chasity Cage Kit.

As it’s customizable, it could be confusing to assemble. So you should check out our CB-6000 review.

Also, there are lots of these chastity play devices available, so I recommend exploring the best chastity cages to find one that matches your preferences the most.


Best E-stim for Advanced BDSM Users

19. ElectraStim EM60-M

Material:
Silicone probe
Fastening:
NA
Features:
7 stim settings, 24 intensity levels, push buttons, LED display
  • Electra-stim kit with 3 attachments
  • Contactless spanking using the adhesive pads
  • Vaginal and anal stimulation
  • Pinpoint penis stimulation using adjustable cock loops
  • Might feel weak for more sensitive or advanced users

Ok, if you’re mostly vanilla and just BDSM-curious, then EES (Erotic Electro Stimulation) might sound like a step too far. 

BUT… hear me out!

E-stim toys are specifically designed for safe intimate use, using a low-voltage current to stimulate your erogenous zones.

They have two types of wands:

  • Solid-state: If you’re new to EES, this is the better option as it’s easier to learn.
  • Electromechanical: For the more BDSM-advanced looking for edge play or branding.

If you want a more ‘shocking’ experience, then the ElectraStim will deliver. 

It has the option of external and internal electrodes and 24 intensity programs, one of which is motion activated!


Best Fucking Machine

20. Hismith Premium Deluxe

Material:
Metal frame, silicone dildo
Fastening:
NA
Features:
Strong penetration motor, adjustable angle, speed controllable, quiet motor
  • Pretty quiet (40 dB)
  • App-controlled sex machine
  • Controllable settings
  • Bigger investment
  • Takes a good amount of space (difficult to store)

Fucking machines are the ultimate BDSM sex toy. Well, they are more than just a ‘toy’…they are a heavy-duty piece of sex engineering!

Because of that, they do come with a price tag. We’re talking $400-500 and upwards.

BUT they mean business. 

Packing powerful vibration and thrusting action for guaranteed orgasms that will leave you in a soggy (but satisfied) mess! 

Sex machines generally come in two forms: vibrating sex saddles and thrusters.

With a stroke length between 1-6 inches at 240 strokes per minute, you’ll be cumming your brains out. 

Oh, and since fucking machines are so expensive, we can help you out with a discount deal. Use HSM10 code at checkout to get 10% off AND a free Spring Attachment (worth $30). 

You’re welcome!

Of course, these aren’t the only two options. There is a whole wide world of fucking machines out there.

We did warn you…bondage and BDSM have a LOT of ‘stuff.’ Some of it may interest you, and some of it may scare you! 

But, that’s the beauty of BDSM…variety.

There’s MORE to know about this high-tech sex machine, so check out our Hismith review.

If you are still asking yourself where to begin, then read on…


The Best Bondage Toys Buying Guide

Buying bondage toys could be intimidating. They sound too much for pro kinksters or exclusively for advanced BDSM enthusiasts.

But that shouldn’t be the case! 

Even beginners and vanilla pleasure seekers could explore bondage toys. After all, there’s always a place to start, right? You don’t become a pro from Day One.

Safety

Safety is one of the most important things to consider when buying any sex toy, but ESPECIALLY for BDSM sex toys.

There’s a lot of pain and pleasure going on in bondage scenes, making it tricky.

See, pain is usually your body’s way of telling you, “Stop.”

But with BDSM, there is some sort of “pain” involved or, at least, restraints.

One of the things you should prioritize is quality. Don’t just go for whichever is affordable.

Make sure it’s sturdy and made of body-safe materials. This will help avoid accidents and injuries.

For example, some bondage play involves using swings. It should be strong enough to carry the wearer’s weight and meet the various angles and rigorous movements during sex.

If it breaks, the wearer could fall and get injuries from it.


Pleasure

Sex—any kind of it—should be fun. And with every endeavor, you should make sure you and your partner gain pleasure from it.

BDSM sounds serious and intense. While you need to take it seriously, you should keep it light and fun.

There’s a wide range of BDSM toys available, and you should find one that feels most pleasurable for you and your boo.

For example, if you (or your partner) enjoy being restrained, you can explore different types of handcuffs. 

Some would also enable being shackled in bed. It still accommodates various sex positions while maintaining some form of restraint.


Material

Sex toys are often not regulated. Therefore, many manufacturers use substandard materials that are not safe for your body.

That’s why you need to be extra careful when looking at your toy’s material.

First off, it defines the toy’s durability. Secondly, it determines if it’s body-safe. And finally, it decides how easy (or hard) it is to clean.

There are various materials available for different kinds of sex toys. To start, the most common are:

  • Silicone
  • ABS plastic
  • Metal
  • Glass

These are nonporous, so you can clean and sterilize them easily.

Avoid materials made from rubber, PVC, or phthalates as much as possible. They can contain allergens that some people may experience reactions to.


Budget

Of course, how much you can or are willing to spend matters. BDSM toys could definitely get a bit pricey. But since they’re more popular and “common” nowadays, there are affordable options already.

Like I said before, just make sure not to sacrifice quality for the price.

If budget is an issue, you can start exploring with beginner kits and bondage sex toys. They’re usually more affordable. Not the best quality, of course, but good enough.

Over time, you can go full out with sex furniture and maybe an entire playroom. Because why not?


FAQ

What are BDSM toys?

BDSM sex toys are adult pleasure toys for kink play in bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.

You can use mainstream sex toys like vibrators, cock rings, and anal plugs. (For example, the submissive partner is “punished” by having them wear a butt plug during dinner or denying orgasm using a vibrator.)

Meanwhile, there are sex toys specifically for BDSM. These toys enhance sexual acts or “scenes” that involve dominance, submission, role play, bondage, pain, humiliation, and lots of other kinky activities.

There’s literally a wide range of BDSM sex toys for the kink curious to the BDSM pros.


What Are The Best Bondage Toys To Start With?

Shopping for your first bondage toys or BDSM gear, can either leave you feeling overwhelmed or like a kid in a candy store. So, take your time. 

It’s about easing yourself in gently… 

The wrong toys will not only be a waste of money but could ruin your BDSM experience. The right toys on the other hand…will open the door to sexual heaven! 

If you’re exploring bondage toys with a partner, have a chat about what fantasies you’d like to explore. Then, either find a starter kit that includes the items that excite you.

OR build your own kit.

Here’s a list of 10 bondage toys and BDSM gear most suitable for beginners:

  • Blindfold
  • Soft flogger
  • Wrist/ankle cuffs or satin restraints
  • Bed restraint set
  • Sex wedge
  • Beginner nipple clamps
  • Feather tickler
  • Small vibrator/dildo/butt plug
  • Small ball-gag
  • Padded collar and leash

Choose between 5-7 of these and you’ll have your very own bondage starter kit that will wither whet your appetite for more, or give you just the right amount of bedroom spice!


How to use BSDM toys?

Using a BDSM sex toy can be complicated, especially as it often involves a scene. There are different types of sex toys, so there are also different ways to use them. But with the right research and knowledge, you can definitely learn them over time.

For the purpose of this article, let’s focus on BDSM restraints, which are the most common and popular. They are designed to subdue the sub, rendering them under the Dom’s sweet, sweet mercy. But they’re also pretty simple, easy, and affordable to start with.

  • Handcuffs: Tied around the wrist with a chain, they limit the sub’s movements. 
  • Shackles: Like handcuffs, but for the legs. They are worn around the ankles and may come with a chain.
  • Armbinders: A step above handcuffs wherein it removes the little wiggle room available. It’s wrapped around the arms.
  • Bondage rope: Literally a rope to tie the sub in bed or into a submissive position. BDSM practitioners can even suspend a person up in the air through intricate tying techniques known as Shibari.
  • Bondage tape: Specialized tapes (it only sticks to itself, so it doesn’t hurt or irritate the skin, furniture, or clothing) that can be used as a mouth gag, rope bondage, and shackle. (Yep, they’re versatile and affordable.) 
  • Bondage position straps: They come with handcuffs or ankle cuffs to work as restraints.
  • Bed restraints: A set that ties the sub into the bed through handcuffs and ankle cuffs. 
  • Hogtie harness: A harness meant to put the wearer in a hogtie position—arms tied at the back to the legs that are bent back. It’s an inescapable position that will leave the wearer completely helpless.

The most important step? CONSENT!


What are the pros and cons of BDSM toys?

PROS:

  • They help achieve and explore sexual fantasies.
  • Enhance BDSM scenes.
  • They could give you utmost pleasure during sex.

CONS:

  • They’re not for everyone.
  • When used incorrectly, they could be excessive or, worse, cause injuries.v

How to clean BDSM toys?

The most important thing is to clean your sex toys BEFORE and AFTER every use. I know that’s tiring, but it improves your toys’ longevity and, importantly, ensures hygiene.

In general, you can wash your BDSM sex toy with warm water and antibacterial soap. But make sure to check your toy if it has special instructions.

Then, dry your sex toy well. It could be air dried, or you can use a lint-free cloth before storing it away.


What’s the proper way to store your bondage toys?

Keep your sex toy somewhere clean and dry. As much as possible, keep them away from extreme temperatures. It shouldn’t be too hot or too cold and away from direct sunlight.

These toys are also made from different materials, so store them separately. 

If they have a storage case, use them. It helps protect your toys from dust and lint. Plus, it makes them more discreet.


Are BDSM toys allowed on a plane?

Yes, your BDSM sex toys on your trip. You can transport them discreetly, so you can definitely bring them on the plane by placing them in their luggage or storage cases. Just make sure you pack them well.

Also, you may also research beforehand if your destination country allows sex toys. 


What Are The Best Bondage Stores?

Sure you can go to your local high street sex shop but they don’t always stock the best stuff. They tend to be full of gimmicky crap poorly made from cheap materials. Unfortunately.

Bondage is as much about safety as it is about sex. 

So, you want to be sure you’re getting the best quality. 

We also advise you to avoid buying sex toys from Amazon. There are just so many knock-off items that you can’t be sure what you’re getting.

Instead, stick with the pros. 

Here are three of the best sex stores online: 

  • Lovehoney: has a wide array of bondage toys, restraints and tools for the beginner to the advanced kinksters 
  • Stockroom: they have been creating, producing, and sourcing quality bondage gear since the late ’80s. They know their stuff!
  • SheVibe: stocks a huge range of toys, kits, furniture and fashion for BDSM lovers the world over

It’s Playtime!

Whether you’re kinky and curious or full-blown bondage pro, there really is no end to the amount of fun you can have with the best bondage toys and BDSM gear.

Take your pick and enjoy your own flavor of kink!

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.

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