BDSM Kink Test

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Scroll below… if you want to learn more about the test and how results are calculated.

But first – complete the test!!!

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What is BDSM Kink test and how will it help you?

BDSM test will be great for beginners who are looking to enrich their erotic lives and introduce new kinks to it.

Many people have been exposed and know about BDSM, but it’s mostly still misunderstood and a taboo topic.

You may be interested in trying spanking, rope bondage, roleplay and edgier sex toys like a cock cage, but you just don’t know where to start.

While most BDSM and kink tests just expose you to the general terms of BDSM slang, this test will actually help you discover your sex language!

You’ll discover what types of kinks you’ll enjoy the most and which ones you should try first!

Also if you and your partner have a boring sex life and you’ve been blaming it to incompatibility, you’ll be shocked to discover that the true reason actually is…

You’ve been speaking different sex languages!

Opposites attract, so likelihood that you both speak the same sex language is low.

If you and your partner take this test, your love life will transform!

You’ll be able to start doing things that arouse your partner and vice versa!

Finally, when you get results, you’ll receive TOP 3 kink categories you are most likely to enjoy..!

No more wondering and hoping!

Let’s add some colour to your erotic life?

Check the table of contents for a quick navigation through the contents:

What is a Sexual Archetype?

A sex language is your primary way of getting sexually aroused.

Have you ever noticed your partner trying to arouse you in his way, but it did nothing to you?

The same way when you want to initiate sex, you do things that you find sexy, but it doesn’t get the effect you hoped for?

The answer is that you and your partner sex languages are different.

When you learn your and your partner’s sex language you suddenly know EXACTLY what to do to make your partner horny!

When you’ll see the effect of this, you’ll be wondering how you could be so clueless your whole life!

It’s like you’ve been speaking Chinese, while your partner only understands English.

Knowing sex languages is your key to incredible sex and it will provide you answers about how your own body and arousal works.

All Six Sex Languages In A Nutshell

Kinky Adventurer

As a Kinky Adventurer you are the most turned on by novelty and change.You are not into hardcore BDSM (yet?), but you are more like vanilla BDSM, 50 Shades of Grey type.

There is nothing like being dominated or dominating someone completely by using restraints, kinky sex toys or impact play, isn’t it?

You enjoy a roleplay, ageplay, some nice spanking, making love in public and you crave excitement in your love life.

You tend to be creative, expressive in your love life, if your partner allows it. If you suppress your Kinky personality however, you feel a deep sense of guilt and shame for having such fantasies in the first place.

Your type of kinkiness isn’t too accepted in the world and you may be afraid of being judged for it.

But in healthy relationships, you are the most exciting sex partner ever. You constantly come up with new kinks, new role-plays and explore the darkest corners of sexual possibilities.

Here’s my story, how I went from boring to exciting love life by practicing no fap and semen retention.

BDSM Explorer

As a BDSM explorer you are really turned on by what’s taboo to you.

You enjoy crazy sensations – highest highs and lowest lows. It means dominating someone physically to the verbal abuse and inflicting/receiving pain on your partner in sexual context.

You tend to be sexually creative, expressive and loving physically intense engagement with your partner.

Often however your partners are not into the stuff you fantasize about so you can feel a deep sense of shame and guilt unless you find like-minded individuals.

Contrary to what society thinks you are not mentally degraded, you are just craving more intense plays than most people.

But through clear communication and trust, you can introduce BDSM kinks to your sexual play and when you feel accepted you can be the most exciting partner anyone has ever had in their life!

Sensitive Romantic

As a sensitive romantic you have very rich taste for all kind of senses.

You notice it all at the same time – sight, sound, touch, taste and smell.

If the smallest thing is off, it may easily distract you, but when everything connects you can have orgasm with the smallest touch, smell.

You appreciate the romance, the dinner, the candles, beautiful sight, delicious taste – you take it all in and love it!

On the flipside it is also very hard for you to be present, you are easily distracted by unwelcome thoughts, smells, sounds.

Sex Bunny 

You are a highly sexual person. For you sex is simple – you love it served cold and you love it often.

You are not interested to complicate things – quickies are nice, if you can see your partner’s nakedness and have a position with a nice view – you’re happy!

Your only complaint might be that your partner doesn’t want sex as much as you do, so you might need to suppress your sexual drive a bit.

You are raw, animalistic and you’re not ashamed of it.

The downside sometimes for Sex Bunnies is that they are too goal oriented on achieving climax and find it hard to enjoy subtleties of eroticism.

Tantra Lover

As a Tantra/Tao Lover you sense the world, the people, their emotional states. Your sexuality can be mystical and mysterious at times – sometimes you get aroused quickly just by some dirty talk, little flirting/tease, and sometimes you need hours. You can experience an arousal from someone across the room, you sense everything – if partner is there with you, you know it. If he’s distracted and too taken with the technique you sense it too and it’s a turn off. Your erotic interests are spiritual, you might be already deeply into yoga, meditation, “Power of Now”, tao or qigong. You little the play with touches, senses and eye gazing during lovemaking. It’s not just sex to you, for you love-making is a sacred act and you don’t sleep with just anyone lightly. Chances are, you are in committed relationships, but you may also be single – because you don’t stick around if the person doesn’t feel right to you. Your biggest struggle are being misunderstood by your partner, who doesn’t understand or is not interested in spiritual or “woo-woo” stuff. If you are understood, supported and are able to be vulnerable – you are like a limitless ocean, that can raise your erotic life and connection to unbelievable heights.

Sexual Chameleon

Sexual Chameleons have the ultimate superpower – you are easily able to change your sexual archetype and adjust to your partners preferred language.

You love variety, you love to explore ALL the sides of sexuality.

One day you could be exploring all senses – touch, sight, sound smell, taste..Another day you could be exploring a tantric spiritual experience…

…and the next day try the kinkiest and dirtiest BDSM kinks just to have fun!

You are sexually sophisticated and in past you have been judging yourself because you crave for variety, change and you’ve been viewed by others as too complicated.

You get bored quickly if your partner isn’t open to exploring different realms of sensuality and sexuality with you.

To conclude…

Take the full test to get more insights and details about your Sexual Archetype.

Note: you will usually have one primary Sexual archetypes, and 1 or 2 secondary Sexual archetypes.

List of Kinks or BDSM Checklist

You may be wondering what are the big categories of BDSM kinks… What’s on the menu?

Is it really that complicated, that you need to take a BDSM quiz to learn what kinks to try first?

Oh, if you are new to this – you have no idea! You could explore for years and there would still be plenty to learn.

Let me just give you a glimpse to the richness in a world of fetish and kink.

But before I start, just to let you know you gotta master the basics…!

For a guy it might be just learning more about yourself with these male masturbation techniques.

Maybe it’s learning to control your ejaculation better…and then be able to cum like a pornstar?

Or it would be fixing some mental blocks (or bad porn habits like I had) and learning to get a hard on instantly(which by the way gives the benefit of being able to last as long as you want!)

Okay…let’s move on… 😉

#1 – Power Roles: Dominance and Submission

This is the biggest and most popular fetish that everyone plays on some level in their lives.

Usually men have more masculine (dominant) energy and women have more feminine (submissive) energy.

Opposites attract and that’s how we get attracted to opposite sex.

However in our society male/female are getting more equal which often doesn’t translate to exciting love life.

The way to fix is to introduce a role-play, power-play in your love life. One of the partners take a clear power role, while other person submits. You can also switch the roles as you like.

The most popular of these role-plays right now is DDLG – Daddy Dom / Little Girl.

There are 3 levels of this roleplay:

  • Hardcore: Master/Slave play. Where Master/Mistress take complete control over the life of his slave and all the responsibilities. It’s the most hardcore power play, that can add incredible novelty in your life.
  • Kinky: It’s where you play out Daddy / His Little Princess fantasy. Daddy takes care of his little princess, but sometimes Princess is a little brat and then she requires some punishment which leads to fun erotic foreplay.
  • Vanilla: It’s where you don’t involve any sexuality in the roleplay, but just stick to the Caregiver and Little relationship.

This play usually involves some dirty talk, punishments, rewards, rules, ownership etc.

Other ideas for Power and Role Play sex games:

  • Sports teacher/ Cheerleader
  • AgePlayer (One partner takes older person’s role, while other takes Little role)
  • Rape Play – Kidnapper/Victim
  • Nurse/Patient
  • Policeman/Criminal
  • Teacher/Student
  • Interrogator/Prisoner
  • Pet play (one partner takes animal role)

#2 – Rope Bondage & Restraint

This kink category is so popular that there are even terms for both sides:

  • Rigger
  • Rope Bunny

It’s addition to the power play, where partner is literally at the mercy of his partner. Lots of exciting sex plays come out of this kink.

You can mix this with eating her pussy, making her squirt….

Bondage starts from simply holding hands/legs down to pinning your partner to the bed with ties, sashes, ropes, cuffs..etc.

There are lots of sex toys around this kink like collars, mouth gags, Saint Andrew’s cross, spreader bars, chastity belts, cock cages… oh the sky is the limit!

Lastly there is even a popular Japanese bondage art, which involves tying up the person in visually beautiful way.

  • Shibari means light erotic binding
  • Kinbaku means tight erotic binding

You can take this play as far as you want, it’s an incredible kink.

#3 – Sensory Play

Now this play is for someone who really craves the arousal of all of the five senses – sight, sound, touch, taste and smell.

This is where you play with different kind of light touches to increase your sensitivity and awaken whole body sensations.

It might be erotic massage, playing with food, temperature (ice, wax), binaural beats music, love tapping and light spanking.

Sensory deprivation is a big one – use blindfold, headphones, add bodily restraint and you can experience insane sensations.

Plus you can also include some sexual toys here like vibrators.

#4 – Impact Play

While sensory is more about utilising all the 5 senses, impact play is all about the IMPACT!

That’s where SM terms from BDSM come from:

  • S – Sadist, who enjoy inflicting pain to their partner in sexual contest
  • M – Masochist, who enjoys receiving pain in sexual context

Don’t be afraid of these terms though – there’s nothing wrong with it as long as it’s mutually CONSENSUAL. Try it – it’s fun in both sides, be it receiving or giving side.

It all starts with different ways of sexy, erotic spanking to using tools to inflict different kinds of sensations to your partner.

You can use riding crops, paddles, whips, floggers, belt for this type of play.

Impact play doesn’t always mean that it’s supposed to be painful, though pain inflicted in erotic context is highly arousing for some

reason.

Mix this kink with roleplay and bondage, and you can mix and match endless exciting erotic plays!

#5 – Intense & Rough Sex

It’s usually part of the power play, but this is where you really surrender to your animalistic desires.

In BDSM it’s called Primal with it’s respective roles Hunter and Prey.

This is where you go wild – scratch, bite and show your raw natural instincts.

Under this category falls also:

  • Anal sex
  • Strap-on play and prostate milking
  • Double penetration
  • Choking, face slapping
  • etc.

#6 – Misc List of Fetishes and Kinks

Finally, here we’ll put everything that didn’t go in other categories.

We didn’t talk about:

  • Sex in public
  • Voyeurism and Exhibitionist – you enjoy watching sexual activity by other people or enjoy being watched
  • Threesomes, foursomes, orgy
  • Cunnilingus, Fellatio, Anilingus
  • Tantric sex, taoism (tantric breathing)

Sex Toys For Men and Women

Oh, and there are so many pleasure sex toys, that you can try!

Male masturbators and sex toys for guys:

For ladies:

  • ben wa balls
  • vibrating panties
  • vibrator massage wand
  • anal toys

Sex furniture:

  • massage table
  • sex chair, pillow
  • tantra chair

And I only scratched the surface!

As you see, it’s very valuable to know your sex language so you know where to get started.

It’s a shortcut to pleasure!

Take the test right now and find out which sex language you speak and which kind of kinks are for you!

  • How did you like this test?
    Do you think the results were relevant?
    Would love to hear your thoughts and feedback! 😉

    • Every sexual archetype is compatible. It just takes a little work for example, if the partner is a lot more sensual, tantra type…

      But Kinky Adventurers and BDSM Explorers go perfectly together… They’re quite close in interests 🙂

    • its neither – it’s just who you are – and knowing things about yourself can help to talk to your partner, and get more of what you like 🙂 Make him understand you, you understand him…etc.

    • Eh, well, it’s not like you can go to tantric just like that. But at least now you know what you’re looking for. The fact that you have requests don’t mean you need to go for them. Wait for the right one, or better yet, make your own requests, Yume!

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