20+ Best Hands-Free Male Masturbators You Should BUY! (2023)

A thorough roundup of the best hands free male masturbators, automatic strokers, and auto jerk-off sex toys for men in 2023! Read on:

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At-A-Glance: Our Top 23 Hands-Free Masturbator Recommendations

 Check out our quick rundown of the best hands-free male masturbators! Make sure to check out our full review of each product below along with some other shop options.

  1. SexualAlpha Top Pick: Kiiroo Keon (Use code SEXUALALPHA for 10% off from Kiiroo)
    Best Keon Versions: FeelRae, Victoria June Mouth, and other FeelStars Combo Packs
  2. Best For Penis Milking: Kiiroo Onyx+
    Best Onyx+ Versions: Asa Akira, Lisa Ann, Jessica Drake and Romi Rain
  3. Best Oral Sensations: Autoblow A.I.
  4. Best Budget Choice: Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2
  5. Best Lovense Male Masturbator: Lovense Max 2
  6. Best Thrusting Male Stroker: Velvet Thruster Stroker
  7. Best Automatic Male Masturbator: The Handy
  8. Most Affordable Hands Free Male Masturbator: Cal Exotics Apollo Hydro Power Stroker
  9. Alternative Cheap Male Masturbator: Hismith Thrusting Stroker Male Masturbator
  10. Luxury Upgrade: Hismith Sex Machine With Male Masturbation Cup Adapter
    Compatible Cups:
    Rechargeable Vibrating Masturbation Cup
    10 Pattern Vibrating Masturbation Cup
    Rotating Masturbation Cup
  11. Most Innovative Male Sex Machine: Arcwave Ion
  12. Best Vibrating Combo: The Kiiroo Titan & Tight Fit Sleeve
  13. High Tech VR Sex Machine: LELO F1S V2A
  14. Best Prostate Stimulator: Nexus Revo Stealth
  15. Best Alternative Prostate Stimulator: Lelo Hugo
  16. Most Convenient: Fleshlight Quickshot Launch
  17. Best Thrusting Action: Fleshlight Top Dog
  18. Best Shower Option: Fleshlight Shower Mount And Hands-Free Adapter
  19. Affordable Hands-Free Choice: Liberator On A Mission Mount For Fleshlight
  20. Used With Most Fleshlights: Fleshlight Universal Launch
  21. Most Realistic: Tori Sex Doll
  22. Most Affordable Doll: PDX Plus Perfect 10
  23. Super Realistic & Compact: Insert Facilitator Torso

With the recent update, FeelMe AI is now compatible with Kiiroo Keon, Kiiroo Onyx+, and The Handy! This can turn any adult-type content on the internet into an interactive one! This will make your experience a whole lot better!

Alternatively, you can check out FeelStars.com but it is only compatible with Kiiroo products only.

Are you tired of doing all the handy work while you masturbate?

There are plenty of male masturbators on the market, and many of them claim to be totally hands-free. But half the time, you still need a helping hand to get the job done.

If you want to lay back, relax, and let a toy do all the hard work for you, you’ve come to the right place.

From realistic male masturbators to wild and technicolor Bad Dragon masturbators, we’ve tested over 40 hands-free male masturbation toys. After hours of intensive research, we’ve chosen the best of the best, and we’ve gathered them together right here.

But if you can’t wait to get your hands dirty, you can dive right into our top picks:

SexualAlpha Top Pick
Kiiroo Keon

Kiiroo Keon

  • The Best Overall With A Jam-Packed Offer
  • 240+ Strokes Per-Minute
  • VR Experience

Check out the in-depth Kiiroo Keon review.

Best For Penis Milking
Kiiroo Onyx+

Kiiroo Onyx+

  • Realistic Contracting Rings
  • Comes With A FeelConnect App
  • VR Experience

Check out our guide of the best penis milking machines

Best Oral Sensations
Autoblow A.I.

Autoblow A.I.

  • Intuitive Buttons + Edging Buttons
  • Silicone Sleeve Fits Any Penis Size
  • Comes With 10 A.I. Preset Modes

Check out our in-depth Autoblow A.I. review

Table of Contents

Top Hands Free Male Automatic Strokers & Masturbators In 2023

Kiiroo Keon


Insertable Length:
9 Inches

6-230 Strokes Per Minute

Kiiroo Onyx+


Insertable Length:
7.5 Inches


Autoblow A.I.


Insertable Length:
4.72 Inches (Vagina & Anus)
and 5.1 Inches (Mouth)


Cobra Libre 2


Insertable Length:
3.25 Inches


The Kiiroo Titan & Tight Fit Sleeve


Insertable Length:
7.4 Inches




Insertable Length:
4.3 Inches


Arcwave Ion


Insertable Length:
3.5 Inches

8 Intensities

Cal Exotics Apollo Hydro Power Stroker


Insertable Length:
7.4 Inches


Lovense Max 2


Insertable Length:
6 Inches


Editor’s Comment:

We have a separate general best male masturbators on site too. It focuses on cheaper, non-hands-free sex toys.

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Kiiroo Keon

Automatic penis stroker
9 inches (insertable length), 1.6 inches (canal diameter)
Silicone, ABS plastic
6-230 strokes per minute
  • Compact and not as bulky as most masturbators
  • VR compatibility
  • Powerful motor
  • Compatibility with other Kiiroo sex toys
  • Pretty expensive
  • A bit heavy for some users

 You won’t have to use your hands. AT ALL.

Keon comes in combo with Feel Stroker, Keon’s own best penis sleeve. The silicone + TPE combo feels SO realistic that I could close my eyes and imagine it’s the real deal. This is the best male stroker and the best automatic masturbator.

(You can also invest in some FeelStars Strokers if you fancy any of the pornstars in the collection. They’re molded from these stars’ vulvas. Also, they have their porn videos on their interactive website FeelStars.com)

This smart vibrator lets you sit back and enjoy up to 240 strokes per minute

Can you imagine? Your arm would be SORE before you even get to a minute if you attempt to do that manually.

It’s Bluetooth-enabled, so you can control its settings via your phone.

Keon is a sex toy for riding solo. But two is better than one. 

It’s a really good masturbator to use with a partner. And they don’t even have to be in the same room as you.

LDR wouldn’t be a problem as you can have interactive sex with your boo by syncing your Kiiroo toys.

Plus, you can also tune in to your favorite interactive adult websites using VR or join interactive webcam shows. Interactive adult websites or Kiiroo’s own FeelMe AI, this for sure will be compatible with their Kiiroo products.

I know, it’s quite pricey. But it’s an investment. And techie stuff always is, anyway.

It’s compact when you compare it to other automated masturbators in its category. But it’s not “small” or “light” by any means.

If you want to know more about this amazing device, you can check out our Kiiroo Keon review.

Pro Tip

You can use the discount code SEXUALALPHA to get 10% off on any Kiiroo sex toy purchase.

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Kiiroo Onyx+

Penis stroker
7.5” internally
ABS plastic & TPE
  • Virtual reality compatible, works with VR headset
  • Can be used with porn
  • Touch sensitivity
  • Needs to be held
  • Short battery life

This masturbator is more hands-on than other ones, but you don’t have to do any of the work.

Just hold it and let it vibrate or stroke yourself to get off faster.

You could also put the vibrator between couch cushions or under your mattress and trust into it.

But you may want to keep as much of the stroker exposed as you can, so you can access the touch-sensitive pads. These pads give you extreme control over the speed of the vibrations, and these pair well interactive-wise.

It’s more than speed and stroking that gets you off though, the inside is ribbed for more sensations.

It might be harder to feel the soft, ribbed inside as it’s quite loose for a stroker. That’s not ideal if you want a tight, realistic experience.

However, Kiiroo has other elements that make up for that…

There are two incredible features that this toy has: connectivity and syncing.

It can connect to any other Kiiroo device anywhere in the world. This is a great way to enhance Skype sex sessions for those in long-distance relationships.

Or if you’re a bachelor craving some interactive features, you can sync the vibrator to VR goggles and some interactive porn at Kiiroo’s FeelStars videos or Kiiroo’s FeelMe AI.

You get 1,500 free coins to start, but after that, the porn’s not free.

Interested to know more details about The Handy? Check out our Kiiroo Onyx+ review.

Pro Tip

You can use the discount code SEXUALALPHA to get 10% off on any Kiiroo sex toy purchase.

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Best Oral Sensations

Autoblow A.I.

Automatic penis stroker
Size (LxWxH):
8.66″ x 7.08″ x 4.72″
ABS plastic, silicone (sleeve)
10 blowjob modes
  • Different BJ modes and speeds
  • Intuitive buttons + edging button
  • Silicone sleeve fits any penis size
  • Requires to be plugged in at all times
  • Gets loud at the highest speed settings

The Autoblow A.I. is for you if you’re looking for a masturbator that closely mimics realistic oral sex.

First, you get a soft, skin-like silicone sleeve with a mouth orifice and a ribbed internal texture that feels like the roof of your mouth. Then, there’s a gripper on the inside that automatically moves up and down your penis like a real mouth (or hand).

While you need to hold the toy with one or both hands, the buttons are super intuitive. You can cycle through 10 different blowjob modes and 10 different speeds without losing your focus. Plus, it comes with an edging feature to extend playtime.

But if you want something that requires even less handwork, just set the Autoblow to the 10th BJ function. Now choose your fave wank position, relax, and immerse in full A.I. oral mode.

You’ll enjoy a variety of blowjob sensations that’ll surely surprise you each time.

I don’t know how folks at Autoblow did this. But the patterns, movements, and speed levels are different every time I touch this button. So we’re definitely getting more than 10 BJ sensations.

The only downside to this oral simulator is that you have to keep it plugged in to work. Well, it’s not really a downside for me ‘cause I don’t have to worry about my batt running out of juice.

Interested in learning more? Read our Autoblow review here.

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Best budget choice

Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2

Frenulum vibrator
3.5” internal length
  • Silent when in use
  • Has vibrating outer lip for added pleasure
  • Can be held easily
  • Head-play only
  • Needs you to stay still

Here’s a sex toy that you can put on, lay back, and rest against your stomach while getting targeted frenulum stimulation. Read here for more frenulum sex toys.

Just don’t move too much, or it might not stay on!

Frenulum, that stringy bit of skin under the head of your penis, is one of your most sensitive areas.

This toy is small, but its two-motor rumbly vibrations bring intense orgasms. That is because they come right from that sensitive spot, rather than from stimulating your whole penis.

Cobra Libre always starts off with very strong vibrations (even too strong for some!), but then it eases off without you intervening.

That’s when you can relax and place it on your stomach to let it do the work.

If you want to bring up the intensity again, just use the buttons on the toy.

The highest setting is similar in strength to one of the most famous, strongest female vibrators of all time: the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Those buttons are quite tricky though! You need a combination of perfect timing and aim to hit them right. 

That said, even though the buttons are quite sensitive, you can safely take Cobra Libre with you on your travels – it has a Travel Lock feature that prevents the toy from randomly turning on.

I’ve actually reviewed the Cobra Libre 2 before, so if you’re interested and want the full details, check out our Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2 review.

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Most Affordable Hands Free Male Masturbator

Cal Exotics Apollo Hydro Power Stroker

Automatic penis masturbator
4.75” sleeve depth
ABS, TPR sleeve
  • Waterproof, removable sleeve for easy clean-up
  • Memory chip remembers your last vibration pattern
  • Powerful suction cup mount for hands-free pleasure
  • Powered by 4 AAA batteries

While the Cobra Libre 2 is cheaper among our top picks, some guys still find it a bit pricey.

That’s where the affordable Cal Exotics Apollo Hydro Power Stroker comes in. You’ll enjoy over 30 vibration speeds and pulsating patterns from one powerful hands-free device for just around 70 BUCKS! Simply use the two-button controls to scroll through these patterns.

It’s the perfect male masturbator for those who aren’t sure if hands-free sex toys are for them.

Yep, 30 different functions might be A LOT for new users, and you might not keep track of your fave setting. Good thing it has a MEMORY CHIP FUNCTION, so it remembers the last setting you were on.

It comes with a powerful suction cup mount that you can adjust up to 180 degrees, so you can use it in any position that’s the most comfortable for you. Heck, you can even take it with you inside the shower because it’s waterproof. It’s also super easy to clean, thanks to its removable sleeve.

Aside from that, the soft TPR sleeve surrounded by ticklers and little nodules on the inside does a great job of simulating oral sex-like sensations – especially when you slowly stroke with it.

The only downside is it’s still powered by 4 AAA batteries. But with all these features for an affordable machine that works? I wouldn’t have it any other way.

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Lovense Max 2

Vibrating male masturbator
6 inches (internal)
Soft plastic (sleeve)
7 patterns
  • 360-degree contractions
  • Syncs with other Lovense toys for interactive sex
  • Adjustable air vents
  • Tight for bigger penises

Lovense Max 2 might look clinical with its all-white case, but it performs great.


Plus, it CONTRACTS all around your penis, thanks to its air pump technology. It almost feels like thrusting into a vag as it’s contracting in orgasm. 

The combination of its vibrations and contractions is mesmerizing, to say the least.

You can also adjust its air vents if you want more intense sensations.

Its removable sleeve is transparent, which is great if you’re not into realistic-looking sleeves. And they feel good.

As with Lovense products, you can sync it with the app. 

This way, you can control it via the app, share your device’s control with your partner, or even sync it with their Lovense toys.

LDR won’t be so lonely anymore.

It’s on the smaller side, so it might feel too tight for you if your peen is larger than average.

Also, it’s LOUD. Especially in higher settings. That might be a bummer if you don’t live alone.

Read on the Lovense Max 2 review.

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BEST Automatic Male Masturbator

The Handy

600 strokes per minute
2 lbs
AC plug-in only
Interactive porn, remote control
  • Works with any small to medium sleeve
  • Interactive features
  • Compact and light
  • Has to be plugged in to the wall
  • Doesn’t fit Fleshlights or big strokers

Introducing the Handy, a revolutionary male sex toy that redefines pleasure and intimacy. Designed to deliver unparalleled satisfaction, this cutting-edge automatic masturbator ensures mind-blowing orgasms that are entirely under your control.

Immerse yourself in a new realm of sensation as the Handy’s media synchronization feature perfectly aligns each stroke with on-screen action, whether you’re indulging in standard or VR videos. Its compatibility with various setups allows for an immersive experience like no other.

Privacy is paramount with the Handy’s anonymous connectivity, eliminating the need for accounts and enabling remote partner sessions or adult media synchronization discreetly over the internet. Developers can revel in the possibilities offered by the open API, granting them the power to create bespoke applications and share them within the vibrant Handy community on HandyFeeling.com.

The Handy boasts a range of other impressive features. The modular design empowers you to personalize your pleasure with customized sleeves, including the Extra True Grip Accessory, tailoring the experience to your desires. This mains-powered device eliminates the hassle of batteries, while the potent brushless motor ensures unmatched speed and precision.

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Hismith Thrusting Stroker Male Masturbator

11.8” x 4.05”
insertable length:
2.39 lbs
Yes (with suction cup accessory)
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Compatible with lots of other Hismith sex toys
  • App control for long-distance play with a partner
  • Not waterproof so you can’t use it in the shower or bath
  • “Larger” users might find it not deep enough

The Hismith Thrusting Stroker Male Masturbator is one of the best strokers in its price range. It checks all the right boxes for a sub $200 stroker and even has a few premium add-ons. An added advantage is that it comes with Hismith’s Cliclok system, making it compatible with lots of other sex toys including a suction cup to make it hands-free.

First things first—the inner sleeve that comes with the Thrusting Stroker feels great. It is made of super-realistic TPE and is textured for extra pleasure. The 9 vibration settings also come in handy, and are quite powerful.

I would say that having some more vibration modes would’ve been nice, but instead, Hismith has made this toy app compatible so it can be controlled remotely. This means that it can be controlled by someone from any part of the world while you use it. At this price, this is a great feature to have.

Bottom line—this is a great hands-free masturbator that offers a good mix of pleasure and features at a pocket-friendly price.

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Arcwave Ion

Frenulum stroker
1.3 to 2.1 inches wide
Silicone, ABS plastic
8 intensity levels
  • Pulsating airwaves around the frenulum
  • Unique sensation
  • Easy to clean and quick to dry
  • Might feel foreign at first
  • Pricey

Clit sucker is to the clitoris as Arcwave Ion is to the frenulum.

It uses the same idea: pulsating airwaves.

You don’t have to thrust it in and out. Just let it sit on your penis. It pulsates and suctions around the tip of your penis.

Hence, it’s hands-free.

You can use your hands to grip your penis to increase the pressure if you want.

The frenulum is probably the most sensitive part of my penis, so Arcwave Ion is enough to make me cum. Hard.

It edges you, making your orgasm come (like, literally) more intensely.

Its Pleasure Air technology really gives pleasure indeed.

The sensation is definitely novel. 

You might think at first it’s not one for you. But just give it a try and be patient, you’ll soon grow to enjoy it as I did.

If you want to read more about Arcwave Ion, we have all you need to know here in our Arcwave Ion review. Or if you want to know the more compact toy from the same brand, check out our Arcwave Voy review!

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The Kiiroo Titan & Tight Fit Sleeve

Vibrating masturbator
7.4 inches (internal length)
TPE sleeve, ABS case
6 modes
  • Touch-sensitive control pad
  • Compact size
  • 9 vibrating motors
  • Might be too small for some wearers

If you want a tight grip, Kiiroo TITAN is for you. 

Its canal diameter is around 1 inch. Great if that’s the size you’re after, but not great if you’re girthier than that.

TITAN has 9 bullet vibrators in its real-feel sleeve. Nine!

That’s a lot, and you’ll feel it vibrate around you.

I know you’re looking for a hands-free masturbator, but you might want to explore its touch-sensitive control pad when you don’t mind using your hands. It adds sensations and helps you toggle through its 6 vibration modes.

Like Keon, it’s one of the best teledildonic toys. Use it with VR content or other Kiiroo toys for more fun.

If you only want the Kiiroo Titan itself, you can check it out on Shevibe and TheEnhancedMale. You can also get a Kiiroo Titan and Pearl2 Couple Set at Kiiroo.

Also, this is compatible with Kiiroo’s AI technology service called FeelMe!

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Penis stimulator
4.3 inches (insertable length), 1.6 inches (insertable width)
Silicone, ABS, aluminum alloy
7 patterns
  • Has a software developer kit
  • Manual or automatic Cruise Control
  • Stamina training with Progress Tracker
  • Quite small

LELO F1s V2 sounds like a racing turbo car.

But it’s actually a vibrating masturbator. And it has a turbo—in its dual motors! 

It’s high-tech as well. This device is Bluetooth-enabled, enabling you to connect via the app and unleash its features.

This penis stimulator’s patented Cruise Control technology experiments with solo play and interactive fun. 

And you can use your VR glasses to play around with your online porn library. Because why not?

It’s pretty expensive, but it packs A LOT of features. 

Also, some might find it a bit short at around 4.3 inches of internal length. You might want to check your measurements first before investing in this sex toy.

For more information, read our LELO F1S V2A review.

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velvet Thruster Stroker

140 strokes per minute (6 speeds)
Stroke length:
Battery Life:
300 stand-by hours, 8 hours use time, & 30-minute charge time
  • Customizable colors (base only)
  • Portable thrusting male masturbator
  • Cheaper than some
  • Flexible and bendable while thrusting
  • No custom colors on the Stroker head

The newest head in the Velvet Thruster Prime product line. This customizable, thrusting dildo showcases the future, offering an innovative mix-and-match interface for diverse shapes, sizes, and colors, tailored to your unique desires.

With the Prime series, you’re not confined to a single experience: the tops are interchangeable, allowing for a seamless switch in the heat of the moment.

This isn’t just any thruster; it’s the original that boasts a patented drive mechanism, enabling the Stroker head to flex, bend, and even curve during thrusts — a feature unmatched in the world of sex toys.

Crafted from ultra-soft medical-grade silicone, it promises a stroke length of 3″ at a whopping 140 strokes per minute, powered by a robust motor with six varied speeds. Plus, you never have to fret about running out of charge mid-session, thanks to its long-lasting battery.

If you’re partner is looking for some thrusting dildo action, we have a Velvet Thruster review!

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Luxury Upgrade

Hismith Premium Sex Machine With Male Masturbation Cup Adapter

Angles, speed, thrusting depth
insertable length:
24.58 lbs
  • Adjustable for lots of different penetration angles and styles
  • High-quality materials and motor
  • Silent mechanism
  • Easy to set up
  • Heavy and difficult to move and store
  • Might shift when used with bigger toy attachments

Time for the big guns to come out! Hismith’s premium sex machine is a versatile all-in-one solution to all your solo-pleasure needs. It’s not often that I’d suggest spending over $500 on a sex toy, but then, this isn’t just any sex toy.

With an almost limitless number of angles, thrusting depths, and speeds, this is almost like having a sex robot to play with! The included app also makes it very easy to adjust things mid-action by just swiping on the screen.

If you’re curious about all the tricks that the Hismith Premium Sex Machine can do, check out our Hismith review.

So, just how good of a male masturbator can this sex machine become? Here’s a lowdown of all the best attachments you can get. If you’re a collector and solo pleasure enthusiast, you can also look into the Hismith Men’s Stroker Machine Bundle.

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Rechargeable Vibrating Masturbation Cup

If you’re the type that wants a little bit of everything, this is the best masturbator attachment for the Hismith sex machine. It comes with 7 vibration speeds, 3 modes, and a nicely textured TPE sleeve that feels good. To be clear, it doesn’t feel realistic and you won’t feel like you’re penetrating a vagina. But, it will give you a lot of pleasure.

The rechargeable battery gives you about 1 hour of playtime and, once you’re finished, the removable sleeve is easy to clean. At about $75, this is a great little add-on to get more out of your sex machine.

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10 Pattern Vibrating Masturbation Cup

This is a slightly cheaper male masturbation accessory option but don’t let that fool you! It offers something special. You don’t get the different modes here, just 10 different vibration speeds. 

However, the soft TPE sleeve has a much more realistic texture and feels amazing when connected to the powerful thrusting arm of the Hismith sex machine.

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Rotating Masturbation Cup

If you’re a fan of blowjob and handjob machines, this is the accessory for you. Instead of vibrations, this one has a rotating mechanism that feels like a mouth on your member. Connect it to the machine, put it on a nice slow thrusting setting, add some lube and get ready for some eye-rolling, toe-curling head!

Keep in mind that this is designed for medium-sized penises and is not recommended for users with large penises.

Anyways, the Hismith sex machine uses a proprietary Klliclok system to easily attach and detach accessories from the sex machine. In fact, many of their sex toys use this system, making them compatible with each other (which is very useful!).

The accessory has a small 8-sided screw while the sex machine has a compatible female socket. Simply push in the screw of the accessory and twist it to lock it in place.

The Kliclok attachments are made of metal and are highly secure, making them great for the fast movements of the sex machine. Make sure that whichever accessories you buy are also compatible with the Kliclok system.

Interested in learning more? Read our Hismith review here.

Pro Tip

Use HSM10 discount code on checkout to get 10% off and a free Spring attachment (a special deal we negotiated for you guys).

Prostate Stimulators

Here is just a sneak peek of a few best options. For more, I suggest checking our recently updated best prostate massagers.

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Nexus Revo Stealth

Prostate massager
3.5” insertable
34 combos
  • Ribbed perineum stimulator
  • Narrow, unintimidating for new prostate players
  • Remote control works from 15 meters away
  • Not tapered

Moving away from things made for your penis, it’s time to focus on the prostate. Your prostate is a hyper-sensitive gland 2 inches up your butt, and it can give you some intense orgasms.

To stimulate it, here’s a remote control vibrating prostate massager with lots of lumps and bumps, so you feel really full and pleasured. 

The head is slightly curved for internal stimulation, and there’s also a ribbed part on the outside that rests against your perineum to hit the prostate externally.

The Nexus Revo Stealth might be hard to insert at first because it’s not tapered. But prepare yourself with your fingers, go slow, lube up, and you should get there.

This toy is easy to use hands-free, but you can twist it and turn it manually to experiment with different sensations.

It actually rotates on its own, but you have to angle the toy towards the prostate, leaning back against it, to feel the full impact.

If vibrations and rotations are too much for you during the first few times, you can turn them off independently.

Experiment, see what you like, and remember that you might not have a prostate orgasm on your first try, which is fine.

If you want to know more details about the Nexus Revo Stealth, we have an Nexus Revo review here.

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Lelo Hugo

Prostate massager
5.5” insertable
  • Motion control
  • Remote control for couples’ play
  • Easy to insert
  • Remote vibrates, making buttons a challenge

The Lelo Hugo is way easier to insert than the Nexus, thanks to its tapered tip. It’s also curved to target your P-spot, compared to the slight curve of the last one.

It’s also bigger, so you’ll feel fuller. It’s not too big – 4 inches in circumference – for new and intermediate players to play with.

Just make sure you warm up first, especially if you’re newer to prostate play. Consider sitting with it turned off inside you for a while first.

Then when you turn it on, there are two ways to play.

  • ONE: use the remote! It’s easy, and if you have a partner, give it to them. Relinquishing control can add a whole other level of kink.
  • TWO: tilt. The massager is motion-sensitive,so depending on how you lean, you can take the vibrations from level 2 to 10 in seconds. 

Great for when you’re in the moment because we all know how foggy the mind can get. Who can find buttons on a tiny remote in a pre-orgasmic haze?

The vibrations, paired with a good water-based lube, might make this hard to keep in at first. Just sit down, and it’ll stay in.

Eventually, you’ll adjust to its shape and hold it there. Or put on some tight underwear halfway, so your penis is out, and the plug is in.

This is a toy you can use for a good two hours with it just lightly humming. Or you can go intense, and it might feel like your phone is on vibrate mode, amplified by ten or more.

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.

Fleshlight Mounts

We also have a standalone guide on the best Fleshlight mounts that you might want to check.

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Fleshlight Quickshot Launch

Penis stroker mount
  • Very adjustable with easy controls
  • Lightweight
  • Active Launch Mode for plug and play action
  • Fragile construction

Stepping away from basic Fleshlight mounts, here’s a mount that turns your Quickshot toys into penis strokers.

This gadget controls the speed and length of different thrusting and stroking patterns, giving you a completely automatic masturbation experience.

You can also toggle it to target your base, shaft, or tip so you can control what kind of pleasure you’re getting.

Oh, and it has a smartphone holder, so you can watch whatever you please or video chat with a long-distance partner.

I will just say though, this isn’t fully hands-free. There are handles for you to hold, BUT it does all the work. And it’s light and comfortable to use. 

Quickshot Launch construction is rather fragile (even a shortfall could shatter it). So handle it carefully for it to last.

Also, it’s not waterproof even though it’s advertised as such.

Despite the downsides, it’s a decent and not the best automatic stroker. The controls are simple – left thumb controlling stroke length, right thumb controlling speed.

Then there are the indexes: left to control where it targets and right to pause the motions. Though the speed and length combinations can be tricky to figure out.

For example, if you do the shortest strokes with the slowest speed, it feels like it’s going faster. Strange! 

But it can be very pleasurable, especially when targeting those sensitive points.

So overall, it’s a fun little toy to use with Quickshot toys. 

However, if you have a Fleshlight of almost any brand, Kiiroo Keon might be better since it feels more realistic & works with any standard Fleshlight Girls sleeve.

Although it’s a bit harder to clean and more expensive than the Quickshot Launch.

If you want to know more details about the Fleshlight Quickshot Launch, we have an in-depth Quickshot Launch review here.

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Best thrusting action

Fleshlight Top Dog

Fleshlight mount
15” x 12” x 14”
Pleather, polyester & polyurethane foam
  • Perfect height
  • Machine washable
  • Can be used by couples
  • Limited to one position
  • Can collapse under pressure

For a Fleshlight mount that doesn’t need a smooth surface, this is one to go for. It’s durable and sturdy, so it’ll hold its shape without any support.

The idea is simple: put the Fleshlight in the hole. Thrust away. 

It’s around the height of a woman on her hands and knees, so it should feel natural.

It’s also a great size if you want to grab the sides, like grabbing someone’s hips or waist.

This mount is limited to how you can use it, though. It’s built for doggy-style masturbation. But with a partner, you can use it as a wedge to bend over in your couple’s play.

Something to note

But don’t apply too much pressure on it – you don’t want your wedge to collapse.

Overall, it is a good item for someone who’s into a doggy style or would like to practice his technique.

For such a price though, I wish one could experiment with a few more positions.

And last thing… the cover is machine washable, so if you want to make a mess over your mount, you can!

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best shower option

Fleshlight Shower Mount And Hands-Free Adapter

Fleshlight mount
Hard plastic
  • Adjustable height and angle
  • Reasonable price
  • Fleshlight may come loose
  • Needs high-gloss surface

Technically, this isn’t a male sex toy; it’s a tool for sex toys. If you have your own Fleshlight and want to go hands-free, here’s a reasonably priced mount.

It should fit all standard Fleshlights and is specifically made for the shower.

Note: It won’t work with Ice, Blade, Sword, and Sex in a Can Fleshlights.

It’s a simple tool with a super strong suction pad on the back to attach to the shower wall.

And the great thing about it is that it’s not a sticky pad, so you can remove it and change the placement over and over again. There’s an on/off trigger for the suction too.

It’s also adjustable, tilting so you can pleasure yourself at any angle.

You mount the Fleshlight by screwing it in, but if you’re not careful, it can come loose. It is better to pick a position and angle and stick to it. 

Oh, and speaking of sticking to stuff, the mount works better on glass than tiles, so if you have a glass shower door, use that instead of the wall. 

It’s fine if you don’t, just make sure your tiles are clean and high-gloss as it only works with such.

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affordable hands-free choice

Liberator On A Mission Mount For Fleshlight

Fleshlight mount
27” x 9” x 10”
Pleather, polyester & polyurethane foam
  • Versatile
  • Machine washable
  • Can be used by couples
  • Wide edge, forcing your legs apart
  • A bit too short to lay forward on comfortably

This Fleshlight mount is more versatile than the option above. The idea is the same – jam the Fleshlight in the hole and start humping, but it’s designed for the missionary position.

It’s also sturdier and comfier than the previous Liberator wedge. It almost feels like memory foam – Definitely more worth the price.

Plus, you can get more creative with this one. For solo play, it can work in the doggy style and cowgirl if you have strong arms (but this wouldn’t be hands-free).

But together, you can use a Fleshlight while your partner tops you. Maybe by pegging or by controlling one of the anal toys I’ll review later on.

You can also lean over this wedge to be in a comfortable position for giving your partner oral sex. Though, it could be a bit bigger to support more of the chest.

Maybe have your partner sitting on it and penetrate her instead of a Fleshlight? You choose!

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Fleshlight Universal Launch

Fleshlight mount
14” x 11.5” x 7.5”
ABS plastic, silicone, PC
  • Up to 250 strokes per minute
  • Compatible with many Fleshlights
  • Manual control
  • Hefty
  • Lacks interactive features

Fleshlight Universal Launch is a very versatile mount. 

It’s compatible with a wide range of Fleshlights, so it’s a really good choice. Especially if you already have a couple of Fleshlights in your collection.

Also, it packs a lot of power with strokes up to 250 per minute.

And you don’t need to worry about running out of juice as you can use it while charging.

The phone mount is handy, so you can watch your favorite porn even when your hands are full – gripping the mount.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t have interactive features like Bluetooth/WiFi connectivity and funscripts.

Want to know all the deets about Fleshlight Universal Launch, read our in-depth Fleshlight Universal Launch review.

Sex Dolls & Torsos

Here is just a sneak peek of a few best options. For more, check out our best sex doll guide.

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Most Realistic

Tori Sex Doll

Sex doll
5’4” overall, 6.7” vagina & anus, 5.1” mouth
Solid TPE
  • Incredibly realistic
  • Customizable
  • Can be used in many positions
  • Expensive
  • Not discreet if you don’t have somewhere large to store her

When it comes to the best hands-free male sex toys, sex dolls are the most hands-free you can get.

They’re human-size, human-weight, with realistic features and dimensions and feelings, head to toe.

But because they’re so big, heavy and real… their price is big, heavy and real, too. 

At the same time, the only difference between fucking a doll and fucking a woman is that dolls aren’t warm inside.

Welcome, Tori.

Well, you can call her whatever you like. She can look like whatever you like too – you can customize everything from her head to her labia. FOR FREE! Except for just some customizations.

Tori is for men who wish they could have sex with their high school sweetheart, or crush, for the rest of their lives. Or she can be an imaginary, perfect fantasy woman.

You can do everything you want to her, no more being rejected.

Tori will also be a good match if you embrace being a lifelong bachelor but crave companionship at night.

A sex doll can be your loving partner, or just your one-night stand… every night. I think that’s so beautiful, and so sexy at the same time.

And it certainly saves you a lot of time trying to imagine you’re looking down at a real woman when you’re in the moment!

We have some guides on the best cheap sex dolls for men and also some of the high-tech and best sex robots for men! Better check those out!

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Most affordable doll

PDX Plus Perfect 10 Realistic Sex Doll Torso

Sex doll torso
17.5” overall
  • Full torso—breast, butt, and pussy
  • Vaginal and anal penetration
  • Sexy hourglass figure that would turn you on
  • Orifices are not anatomically correct

PDX Plus Perfect 10 got all the essential parts you’ll look for in a woman during sex, minus the not-so necessary limbs. As a result, you can save from a full-sized doll’s extra cost, weight, and storage space.

It’s actually such a steal for its price. It’s only a fraction of a full sex doll’s price and more affordable than most sex doll torsos in its range, considering it got the boobs, butt, and pussy in one.

The good thing about headless torso dolls is that you’re free to fantasize about any female’s face.

But this sex doll torso is not just a feast to the eyes, but it’s immaculate to touch as well. The material feels realistic to touch—it has a skin-like softness when you pinch it, and the breasts jiggle as you pounce on it.

The vaginal and anal orifices aren’t placed anatomically right, but it’s not a dealbreaker for me. Both orifices have different textures—spirals and bumps for the vagina and uneven circles in the anus—and are very tight. 

The canals are connected, resulting in a powerful suction as you thrust that feels great. This also makes cleaning easier as you can just spray from one hole, and your juices come out on the other hole.

It has a backside (not flat like others), so it’s versatile for various sex positions. You can grab on to it and hug it as you thrust vigorously. 

This doll’s very large breasts bounce realistically, adding to the lifelike experience. You can also check out another variation of color here.

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super realistic & Compact

Insert Facilitator Torso

Half torso masturbator
18” overall
  • Additional inserts available
  • Can switch genders
  • Lifesize
  • Flat back limits positions

For a more premium torso masturbator, you’ll have to go more expensive.

The Insert Facilitator Torso gives you options for vaginal and anal penetration, with a penis add-on for an additional price. 

A bisexual’s dream! Or perfect for a couple wanting a threesome, without the struggle of searching for the right person.

You can also get other vaginal inserts if you want to experiment with the looks and different sensations. The extra inserts have different tightness and ridges inside.

The clitoris also looks different in some of them, ranging from exposed to fully hooded. A nice detail for someone who loves the look of a vagina.

The inserts will set you back for ~$200 extra, though. A little more, and you can get a full-size doll for it. 

That said, it is silicone… so it’s worth it. That’s the safest non-porous material when it comes to sex toys. It really sets this doll apart from the rest, even the full-size sex doll.

Plus, the inserts are all hyper-realistic looking, detailed, and leaving nothing to the imagination.

Also, this torso has real-life proportions and weighs 17 pounds. This is a clear winner for a realistic feel that’ll last a long time.

If you’re looking for the realistic ones, you can check out our review of the best fake pussy guide and also the best onahole sex toys!

What Is A Hands Free Male Masturbator?

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A hands free masturbator is similar to a regular realistic male masturbator in shape, but it’s automated. It strokes you with the press of a button, and you don’t have to use your hands.

This frees them for you to focus on other erogenous parts of your body—or your partner’s.

It’s masturbation with the least effort. 

Why Use A Male Hands Free Masturbator?

Despite what you might believe, the best automatic male masturbators are not just for the lazy. You should get one for these reasons too:

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  • Multi-tasking – It stimulates you in many ways, freeing your hands for other tasks (like stimulating other body parts).
  • Versatile – You can use it alone or with your partner, spicing up your sex life.
  • Unique features – They pack extra features like mobile app control and VR compatibility, which unlocks sexventures to a new level.
  • Stamina training – Increase sexual stamina and endurance because you can play around with it and brush up on skills too.
  • Couple kinks – You and your partner can explore your kinks with extra help. For example, you can explore interactive LDR sex if they’re compatible with other sex toys.

How To Use A Hands Free Male Masturbator

Not all even the best hands free masturbators are built the same. Hence, there are various ways to use them. 

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Regardless of your masturbator, use a generous amount of lube. This helps reduce friction, so the thrusts feel more natural and pleasurable.

As much as possible, go for the best water-based lubes, as other types may destroy your sex toy’s material. Our favorites are Fleshlube and one of the best warming lubes – they both make the experience that little bit more realistic.

The mode of operation for hands free masturbators could vary as well. 

Some may require you to screw the sleeve and grip the handles (like the Fleshlight Universal Launch).

For others, you only have to slide your penis in and you’re ready to go.

Can I Use Hands Free Masturbators with My Partner?

Of course!

Hands free masturbators are great toys to incorporate into partnered sex.

Your partner could pleasure you in various ways with the masturbator while your hands are free to roam around your lover’s body.

Or, you may be more creative with your imagination and try a roleplay. You can simulate a threesome without actually bringing another person into bed!

How Long Can I Use A Hands Free Masturbator?

The duration is up to you. And your toy.

You could keep going as long as it does. Most rechargeable toys last 60 minutes on average. That should be plenty of time to give you an orgasm.

Some toys that are plugged, well, let you last as long as you want to.

Of course, anything that is too much is bad. So don’t abuse your body and keep it reasonable for safety reasons.

How To Clean A Male Hands Free Masturbator?

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First up, you’ll have to take it apart.

Don’t worry. It’s not as hard as it sounds.

You actually only have to remove the sleeve (if it’s removable), so you can clean its residues.

Here is more info for:

  • Porous materials – Toys made of soft plastic, jelly, rubber, hard plastic, and Cyberskin. Bacteria can penetrate their surface, so it’s practically impossible to completely clean and sterilize them. I recommend you use a condom with them.
  • Nonporous materials – Silicone, glass, stainless steel, and some hard plastic can easily be washed with warm water and mild soap. You may also sterilize them by boiling them in water.
  • Electrical parts – Water shouldn’t come in contact with its electrical parts, so only wipe it with a sex toy cleaner using a gentle cloth.

Hands Free Male Masturbator Buying Guide


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You should make sure your masturbator fits you. So, check these measurement specs:

  • Total length
  • Insertable length
  • Width

The case of hands-free masturbators can vary too. Some are more compact, while others are larger and more difficult to store.


Its design could affect the type of masturbation you can do with it. So consider if you want one where you can fit your entire penis in or just the tip. 

Some even have handles and phone mounts!


Hands free masturbators’ features run a gamut, but these are the most common:

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  • VR compatibility – Porn with VR is getting popular, and you can sync some with your device. It feels like your favorite pornstar is actually having sex with you.
  • Music sync – Music can relax or get you in the mood, so syncing it to your tunes is like having a party in your pants.
  • App control – Controlling its functions through the app is extremely handy. Plus, you may even share that control with your partner.
  • Waterproof – Great if you want to bring your masturbator for water play. Also, it’s easier to clean.


Interactive hands free masturbators let you sync with other devices, often those from the same manufacturers, to cross the distance. LDR play is no longer just video calls, you could share the experience literally.

Check if your device works with your partner’s before investing in one.


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This is something you should consider because it could impact how often you’ll actually use your toy. And you should use them as often as you can to get the most out of your money.

Don’t ignore factors like how easy it is to use, clean, and maintain.

Are its controls easy to reach? Are there handles for easier grip? Are the casings compact and light?


Go for body-safe materials like silicone, glass, and metal. Especially for parts that touch your privates, like the sleeve.

Nonporous materials are easier to clean and don’t breed bacteria.


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Its power levels should suit what you’re looking for.

Some may prefer gentler sensations, while others want hundreds of strokes per minute to actually get them off.

It’s different for every person, so you should pick what’s best for you.


Most and even the best masturbator for men are pricier than your average sex toys. But it’s for a reason—they’re usually bulkier and have a lot of high-tech features.

Still, you don’t have to break the bank as there are definitely many devices that are of great value—if you do your research.

Check out great options in our best male sex toys guide.

Where To Buy Your Own Male Hands Free Masturbators?

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Buy from the manufacturer directly. For example—Kiiroo, Lovense, Fleshlight, and LELO. This way, you can ensure your products are authentic.

You may also go for trustworthy sex toy retailers like SheVibe and Lovehoney if you want more options for various brands and make use of their exclusive promos.

How To Make Your Male Sex Toy Hands Free (DIY Way)

If even the best masturbators aren’t working for you or you already own toys you want to make hands-free, there are a few ways you can do it.

Duct tape method

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Depending on your height, this will work in different ways. But if you’re tall, the kitchen counter should be around waist-height for you.

Duct tape your toy to the counter and see if that lets you go hands-free. If that is too high, do you have a desk you can use instead? Anything of waist height should work.

Mattress Method

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If your mattress isn’t too heavy and your bed isn’t too high, here’s a method that could work. Put the masturbator under the mattress with the opening sticking out. You’ll have to get on your knees for this but if it works, the experience will be hands-free.

Couch Method

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This is another one that needs the furniture to be the right height. Put the masturbator between the couch cushions to make it hands-free. You would put it facing outwards, then get on your knees.

Alternatively, you can put it facing up to the ceiling. Then you can lay down on your stomach and use the toy this way.


Are These Male Hands Free Masturbators Safe?

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Of course, it’s totally safe. Just make sure to use it correctly (by following our guides) and based on how it should be used. Avoid trying to experiment in a way that’s not recommended, as it could be dangerous for you and your partner.

What Is the Best Lubricant for Hands Free Male Masturbators?

Water-based lubricants are often the best choice because they are compatible with most materials and users (especially for those with sensitive skin). 

You may go for other best sex lubes (like silicone based for longevity) as long as you make sure it’s compatible with your auto masturbator’s materials.

Can A Male Hands-Free Masturbators Desensitize My Penis?

TBH, it’s complicated.

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There is this thing called “death grip syndrome,” where a guy experiences decreased sensitivity on their penis because of how they masturbate. 

However, using a hands-free masturbator isn’t the cause. 

Death grip syndrome occurs when you masturbate with a very tight grip or a specific technique that desensitizes the peen over time, especially from other types of stimulation. In other words, it could happen even if you don’t use a hands-free masturbator.

So, what you should do is use it the right way. Avoid using delaying products like condoms, sprays, and lotions. Instead, switch things up every now and then, especially if you’re using a very tight and textured male automatic masturbator.

Can I Use Any Of These Automatic Hands Free Male Masturbators If I Have Erectile Dysfunction?

Yes, you can. But it might not be very easy.

Automatic male masturbators are designed for guys to insert their erect penis into the machine. If you’re flaccid or having trouble getting it up, it won’t be as easy to fit it through the tight corridor. Still, the stimulation of the masturbator could help you keep your boner for insertion.

Plus, there are now improvements in the masturbators you can find in the market today to cater to men with ED. However, it’s not a standard design, so you would have to look for that feature specifically.

I Have Peyronie’s Disease. Can I Use One Of These Hands-Free Male Masturbators?

Possibly, but not an absolute yes.

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Most hands-free male masturbators are designed to fit through a straight, erect penis. However, the curvature of the penis in PD can make inserting the peen into the masturbator more challenging.

When choosing your hands-free male masturbator, opt for products with a hinged or open-ended design. It closes around and accommodates the penis, allowing insertion.

Again, this isn’t a standard design that you can usually find from most hands-free masturbators. But they are available. And, of course, we’re hoping to see more of these in the future as sex toy manufacturers become more inclusive.

It’s in your hands

To make the toy work without your hands!

I hope you enjoyed this review of the best hands-free auto stroker and found something you want to try. Or maybe a way to make your current favorite sex toy hands-free? Make sure to also check our ultimate guide on how to cum hands-free.

Either way, you’re probably in for a good time, so I’ll let you go with this piece of advice: if you do the duct tape method, don’t let it touch your skin.

You’re trying to get sexual pleasure, not get a wax!

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