When you find the best sex pillow for you, you’ll experience enhanced comfort, intimacy & toe-curling sex life. Find out how to get the perfect one!
I personally tested 4 sex wedges, reviewed 56 of them to include only the best of the best.
You can filter through 3 categories – starter wedges, budget alternatives and upgrade choices.
On top of that you’ll learn exactly what you can expect from wedge pillows, what to watch out for, and the top sex position.
After you’re done reading you’ll be the expert and know exactly what is the top sex pillow for you!
Let’s jump in:
If you’re in a hurry here’s what I picked to spice up your sex life:
Liberator Heart (⭐ Overall Best)
Liberator Heart sex wedge will be the best first-time purchase. It is discreet. The heart shape makes for a romantic gift. It gives that perfect 27 degree angle for deeper penetration.
Also great for G-spot stimulation and comfortable oral sex without sore neck. Lastly, enhanced doggy & missionary positions.
Best Bang For The Buck
Liberator Heart Pillow
Nobody would guess that this is not just furniture but is a liberator pillow…
It’s just big enough to create some great positions, yet small enough to stash anywhere. And it easily looks like just another decorative throw pillow.
The small size makes it easy to pack for a special weekend.
Compared to other offerings, Heart Wedge really packs that cute/romantic punch.
Check this video to see how Heart wedge looks and feels.
While other wedges can look like some weird hospital device, this one blends in easily. All while giving all the practical benefits of a quality sex pillow.
Here are some position ideas:
If you’re looking for the most practical affordable quality sex wedge, this is it.
It’s larger than you think, but the height and angle are just perfect.
It comes with a microsuede cover for easy wash.
Makes missionary heavenly (no matter who’s on the top).
Whether this or the heart wedge, it’s the perfect introduction to Liberator. More-so when spending a relatively small amount of money.
Ever stuck ordinary pillows under your wife’s back? Then you will appreciate these sex pillows.
Sorry for the low quality, but this video still helps to show how it works.
Some people prefer Jaz Motion which allows the rocking motion for easier thrusting.
I would still recommend classical Jaz over the Jaz Motion to start with.
Here are some position ideas:
Some people say that Liberator’s velvety fabric was too slippery for them and edges were a bit “sharp”.
Dame’s Pillow material is softer, has added handles (that are not obvious) and is designed to be discrete. So you don’t need to worry about storing this sex pillow.
These sex pillows are a good alternative to Liberator pillow small shapes. Yet you’ll need to pay a little extra for it.
Liberator pillow shapes come in around six colors. But Dame sex pillow has only one, Indigo color.
Here are some suggested positions for using this sex pillow:
The wedge was called a “must-purchase” for sex by Timothy Ferriss (in The 4-Hour Body book).
Even though Wedge/Ramp combo is more famous (also more expensive), honestly wedge is 80% and the ramp is 20%.
You’ll just use wedge so much more.
Liberator Ramp is very big and bulky. The combo requires you to spend extra time to learn those positions.
This Wedge is medium size so you can still keep it around as a reading wedge. When spontaneous passion happens it’s there ready to go.
I recommend it for couples who want something bulkier to grab your hands around.
To compare, if Jaz is 18″ length, Wedge is 24″.
Note: There is also a Plus-size wedge version for curvier couples.
Also, a cool feature is that if you want to spice it up you can later buy a restraint case. Or a microfiber case for the wedge too 😉
Few recommended positions for this sex pillow:
Favorite Cheap Alternatives
I understand that finances might be a challenge. But if you want to experience a quality sex pillow product…
Wait, save up & pick up a Liberator.
Subscribe to Liberator mailing list and wait for 20–30% discount. This will give small wedges an affordable rate.
However… still, I feel obliged to show you the best budget options.
These are inexpensive, so not a big difference in savings (but a big difference in performance).
Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Sex Ramp
This inflatable will take a very little space so you can take it anywhere.
It does stay inflated and lets out minimal air over the course of a few hours. Though the air plug might pop out if you go too crazy.
The ramp PVC material is soft but doesn’t feel quite right for the skin, you may need to add the cover to it.
For more enjoyable usage, don’t fully inflate it.
It’s not great, but it is a “good enough” option to consider.
Drive Medical Folding Bed Wedge Pillow
Many people buy this as a cheap alternative to Liberator shapes.
It’s made for medical purposes. It isn’t for sexual pleasure which means that wedge will sink in when weight is applied.
Also, this sex pillow doesn’t protect against liquids.
It has a removable and washable cover. Just keep in mind that you will probably need to buy another one in a few months of active usage.
But it’s cheap. Yay!
It comes in three sizes — 7″,10″, 12″.
Plus you can fold it and use it to rest your feet while sitting in the reading chair.
It’s comfortable and firm, but not too firm!
And yes, you can use it as acid reflux pillow and sleeping not just as a sex pillow.
Buy several of them in different sizes and you can mix and combine them for even more positions! (your own version of wedge/ramp combo).
It will do the job. But you won’t experience the perfect angles and positioning of Liberator wedges.
The reason is simple: they are not made with a sexual purpose in mind.
InteVision Bed Wedge Pillow
Another bigger wedge pillow that you could use together with the smaller wedge.
It comes in three sizes from 25x24x12″ to 33×30.5×12 inches.
Many people report this wedge helps them with better sleep. And many buy it as a Liberator alternative.
It has memory foam on top of it, not too soft, not too firm.
Memory foam is a great addition to this pillow as its pretty popular with regular pillows.
It comes with a removable cover that you can wash, but the cover material doesn’t feel as good for the bare skin.
Another feature is it’s highly resilient polyurethane foam.
Not to be a broken record, I really recommend holding off for Liberator sales. Join their mailing list so you can experience the difference a simple sex pillow wedge can make.
I simply know you’ll thank me later.
Top Upgrade Choices
After you dipped your toes into the toe-curling sex life with sex pillows, it’s time to ramp it up.
But keep in mind with these items you should be more committed on investing time to learn new positions. This can be a lot of fun!
With the small wedges, you can improvise and have enhanced classical positions immediately. With these, it’s better to follow Liberator’s position guide to start with.
Liberator Wedge & Ramp Combo
This is the most popular (best-selling) piece of sex furniture ever. Also, the first designed by Liberator.
It can open up tons of new positions if you take time to experiment.
It’s important you pick the right size ramp when shopping.
There are four sizes in total and you must measure the inseam length correctly to pick the right one.
But when you do, it will make those tricky positions possible and the angles will just work.
Here’s a video to show how the combo looks like.
Pay special attention to the size of them. It gets bulky.
The combo comes especially handy if you have height differences. Or if you’re young at heart but sometimes back disagrees.
Liberator Esse Sex Chair
Liberator makes tons of the best sex furniture pieces. But Esse is the best bang for the buck (especially if you hold out for sales on their site).
The biggest pros of getting this?:
- it will be so much more comfortable compared to your bed. (because you get more freedom/space for the legs)
- better positioning, leverage — curves open lots of fun positions.
- will not budge even with 600lbs of weight applied to it (plus, covers are removable & washable).
- 12 color choices
The biggest cons?
- it’s quite low and many people will need to buy extra Lift ramp to get it to a comfortable height.
- returns are challenging if you don’t like the piece. mainly because of size and weight and the fact you pay for shipping on return.
- it’s a pricey love seat and requires a learning curve to discover good positions.
Esse Sex chair is a big version of the sex wedges, sex pillows, ramps — all combined.
Below is an incredible video showing the small box Esse comes packed in.
See the unboxing and how the Esse looks in real life.
If you don’t like the item & need to return it at your cost, I am sure you can see how shipping will get very expensive.
Also Esse can easily disguise as a simple piece of furniture.
In the off-times great for relaxing, watching TV, or gaming. Height might be too low for some people.
Here’s a glimpse of few positions Esse might open for you:
Liberator Lift Booster Platform
Most people use Lift shape to raise up Esse chair or be able to move to the floor while using the wedge/ramp combo.
This will allow you to avoid the “squeaky bed” and have stable surfaces.
It gives you space to relax and focus on pleasure instead.
It will get pricey. It’s a quality piece of Liberator shape, but if you get 2–3 of these…
Well, you need to be a committed Liberator customer.
Ninja tip: A fun idea is to hack the sex-furniture together yourself. Instead of getting the Esse Chair, for example. Similar end price, but lots of “Lego bricks” to play with.
I would recommend holding off for their big yearly 30% sales. So you can get a Lift shape for a cheaper price per piece, instead of the regular price.
Liberator Black Label Collection
Not gonna go too much into this, but the Liberator Black Label Collection is worth a mention.
Ready for extra kink with cuffs and blindfolds? You can either get any of the conversion kits for liberator shapes (wedge, ramp, Esse) or get them straight of the box.
Here’s a video for a deeper look their bondage-inspired sex furniture.
A few example positions:
Bonus: Sex Blanket — Liberator Throw
I just love the idea of a soft, waterproof blanket you can simply throw on the bed, floor or sofa…
Have a marathon session and then throw the blanket in the washer. Then the next morning have no fuss about swapping bed sheets or worry about wet spots etc.
The material feels great on bare-skin and fills its function.
The only gripe is that there’s an inner layer that wrinkles when you move, but I found it easy to ignore.
You can find a blanket in several dimension (and prices), but the most common one is 72×54.
You can choose between velvety or fluffy materials and 9 color options.
Here’s a funny test video of this sex blanket.
Ashley poured tons of water and lube over the blanket to see if it’s as waterproof as Liberator claims.
Benefits of a Wedge Pillow For Sex
They are great for people & couples:
- with injuries and mobility issues (to even paraplegic). also those with bad knees, hip, neck pains, back pain issues.
- with height differences and curves (wedges help to expose the right bits on a silver platter).
- who are older. those looking for more comfort to be able to sustain extended session in a sex position.
- who want to spice it up and rekindle a marriage. also, those who suddenly want access to a new range of position possibilities.
Another sex pillow like the Liberator Humphrey sex toy mount is great for solo play. Others even have a toy holder.
With the right support, people have pain-free sex for the first time in years.
The wedge angles really help to create support to take a weight off knees and backs.
You simply feel the back support and more on every angle, allowing you to relax (a biggie).
How a sex cushion could enhance intimacy and sexual pleasure?
Sex toys are an amazing way to add spice, but sometimes you just want to be there with your partner.
Or if want some solo play enhancement, you can use the Liberator Humphrey that come with toy holders.
You know, without fancy props (like massage wands) or insane vibrations.
Top 3 Enhancements of Sex Cushions
1. Create better access & allows prolonged oral sex without a sore neck
What are the three most common sex positions for you?
Probably: doggy style, oral sex, and missionary position.
A simple wedge or sex position pillow will transform these overnight. How? By simply lifting up body parts that are hard to get to.
Even added height makes the physical work WAY easier.
Let’s take oral sex, for example.
You need to lift her legs up quite high to comfortably be able to make her cum (or she needs to lift her pelvis).
The same thing with the blowjob — sore neck is almost guaranteed.
Put that butt on the sex cushion though… and you get the sexy bits on a silver platter taking oral sex to the next level.
Thanks to wonders of a sex position pillow.
2. Allows deeper penetration without hurting vagina walls
Achieving deeper penetration safely was a biggie for us.
Often in a spur of passion, I hit her vag walls and it destroyed her arousal.
Instead of being relaxed and enjoying the pleasure, she was now fearful I’ll hit her painfully again. I am the average penis size by the way.
With the wedge sex pillow as support I can do deeper penetration without hurting her.
A game-changer for us.
She now looks forward to getting deeper penetration.
3. Helps to hit the G-spot with ease (no ninja techniques needed)
Based on your penis size and curve you either are able to hit the G-spot with ease.
But if you’re like most people you need to apply ninja techniques. Techniques for hitting just the right depth and angle to stimulate that G.
With the wedge angle (27 degrees) doggy style and G-spot become best friends.
Also the missionary position with her on top, me having the wedge under my butt does the job.
If I would need to sum it up:
“Wedges are great performance enhancers giving you more comfort. With perfect angles allowing you to focus on the pleasure.”
How To Use Your Pillows
Okay, you’ve got the gear.
The most classical positions enhanced are missionary, oral sex and lazy doggy.
I suggest you keep experimenting.
Put the wedge under legs, under butt, under the head and see how it feels.
Shapes are made to take the work away from figuring out the angles. Chances are you’ll notice the perfect angles.
Then have less strain on joints and be able to do G-spot stimulation with little work.
However, if you want to dive deeper & discover a new sex position, here are three paths you could take:
- #1 — Download the official Liberator’s PDF position guide
- #2 — just google “liberator positions” and click images.
Youtube can be a great source too. Check this video, for example.
Bringing It All Together
I do hope you’ll take the leap and expose yourself to the enhanced sex life with simple, yet effective props.
Start small, inexpensive.
Hold out for the sales, if the budget is tight.
These pieces make for excellent romantic & spicy gifts that you can’t go wrong with.
At least to me now it’s an easy cop-out if I don’t know what to get for our special date.
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