Imagine your 3-year-old self entering a Toys “R” Us store for the first time. *WOW!*
Well, that’s exactly how I felt when I bought my first Fleshlight male masturbator.
EXCEPT you can’t return it once you use it (BUH-BYE $80) nor go Puss-in-Boots-sad-eyes to mama and beg for another one.
Buying a Fleshlight, whether for the first or the nth time, is not as overwhelming as it may seem.
In this article, I’ll share 11 of the best FL textures based on my 3+ years of testing different sleeves and brands, 20 hours of research, and talking to experienced FLyers so you find the right ONE with the most REALISTIC feel.
The last thing you want to do is spend $100 and waste your time jerking off with a product that doesn’t work as you please (or WORSE doesn’t get you off).
And don’t get me started on those cheap knockoff Amazon Fleshlights.
But if you can’t wait for some hand-to-gland combat, here are my TOP THREE picks.
Get Fleshlight Original Pink Lady if you’re a Fleshlight noob who’s looking for the most realistic vagina feel. It doesn’t have those crazy textures you find from newer Fleshlights, but its smoothness and tightness make the OG more realistic and ideal for any penis size.
If you’re looking for more of that backdoor action feel, buy FL Girls Riley Reid butt sleeve. It has gentle nubs and a series of textured walls that feel like constricting anal muscles moving around your shaft, so you don’t have to worry about any pain or how good it is for your partner.
Lastly, get FL Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice) if you’re after the best-blow-of-my-life experience. It’s designed with three points of insertion to mimic that slow, sensual feel of getting head. Plus, it’s see-through for added visual stimulation and easy cleanup.
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Top Fleshlight Sleeve In 2021
Riley Reid Butt Sleeve
Internal Length: 9″
Canal diameter: Unspecified
Opening: Female Butt
Material: Soft Plastic
Original Pink Lady
Internal Length: 9″
Canal diameter: 0.75″
Material: Soft Plastic
Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice)
Internal Length: 9″
Canal diameter: 1″
Material: Soft Plastic
Most Realistic Texture
Fleshlight Original Pink Lady
SexualAlpha Top Pick
The Fleshlight Original Pink Lady is hands-down the MOST REALISTIC VAGINA TEXTURE I’ve tested so far. Its inside feel might be on the smoother and milder side, but I found that it’s what makes the OG more realistic.
Read this: Real women don’t have crazy textures inside their vaginas. But they do have internal muscles that expand and contract as you slide in and out.
PLUS, its SuperSkin material is temperature-responsive. PRO TIP: Warm the sleeve for 10-15 min before using it for a more realistic experience.
Yes, it pales in comparison to newer FL vagina textures, but the tightness from its suction control mechanism as you enter and once you’re all in compensates for it.
It’s like being gripped by tight muscles inside a woman who does her Kegel exercises 3x a day (1 and 2 and 3…).
This isn’t the most super orgasmic, hands-off toy around. But its soft, flexible plastic material and smooth interior make it a great FL STARTER toy if you’re sensitive, prefer vanilla, want to start slowly, or enjoy longer solo sessions.
Its 0.75-inch canal diameter means that it’s ideal for above-average penis owners (over 4.5 inches in girth) who don’t need lots of lube to get an experience as close to the real PIV sex as possible.
Best for Anal
Riley Reid Fleshlight Butt Sleeve
But if you’re craving for some backdoor action, get FL Girls Riley Reid butt sleeve.
I have tried four Fleshlight anal sleeves so far, and Riley’s is the best.
WHY’S THAT? I find penetrating the toy as real as doing anal MINUS the pain or worry about how good it is for your partner.
And once you’re INSIDE? The series of chambers with textured walls feel more like constricting anal muscles that move around your shaft as you stroke the toy up and down.
Unlike other FL anal sleeves that are heavily textured inside, Riley’s gentle nubs are still enough to graze my sensitive tip as I go all in.
However, the hole tends to get too tight even for average-sized men, so make sure to use lots of lube.
Favorite for Oral Sex
Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice)
Now, if you fantasize about getting the best blow of your life or just miss your ex’s enthusiastic-penis-worshipping skills, buy FL Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice).
While it’s not the most anatomically correct BJ Fleshy straight off the bat, it definitely gives you the best oral action out there.
It’s designed with 3 points of insertion to mimic a realistic blow:
- First: you feel its soft LIPS teasing you
- Second: you feel the TONGUE flicking and massaging you
- Third: you feel the THROAT wrapping around you as you enter the tight, heavily textured canal
Want to know my fave parts? The SEE-THROUGH sleeve and case. I can just look down and see where I’m hitting and going (one thing I can’t get from my GF giving me head).
And the sight even turns my girl on – it makes her feel that she’s not being left out on the action (a WIN-WIN on all parts, I’ll say). PLUS, cleaning is a breeze because you can see everything.
La Bocca Della Verita
But if you’re looking for the most realism. Then there is one blowjob machine that has been recommended by most men than any other toy.
Its manual masturbation helps in realism. (No fancy twirls, automatic thrusts, or vibrations.) It gives sensations that no other toy does.
But it isn’t 10/10 for durability, but it feels creepily realistic.
Many users complain about the tongue that gets in the way. And about plastic teeth that irritate penis while thrusting.
But just as many users love the added realism.
Top Choices for Hands-free & Vibration
This is possible — just a bit more expensive!
Kiiroo Keon is amazing. You can use it with all the Fleshlight girls.
But it takes some time to program the experience to best simulate the experience you see on videos.
But yes, once it’s done — it’s an ultimate masturbation toy (hands-free even)
It’s something that you should try at least once. And we’re lucky — good fucking machines that women usually use cost around 400–1000$.
We get virtual reality sexual experience for $300 (the masturbator + fleshlight itself).
I thought that porn itself was too stimulating for me…
But when I tried this experience, I seriously got scared. That I will not find ordinary sexual experience stimulating enough anymore.
If your wallet can afford it — I would really suggest you try it at least once!
The same way as I recommend prostate milking… it’s just such a different experience…
There a lot more orgasms you can have than classic penis ejaculation ones.
If you’re simply looking for vibrations though…
There is a simple
It’s really up to knowing yourself — I need thrusting motion to get pleasure, but you might love vibrations.
There are special suction cup mounts you can get. Which you could attach your fleshlight to the wall in the shower, bedroom, mirror — wherever…
Yup, you can pretty much simulate all the positions you like!
While the Launch still requires holding — with the mount you just put it in the perfect place and fuck it…
Like you would a real girl!
Best Fleshlights From Pornstars
Are you a fan of a specific porn star like Alexis Texas, Eva Lovia, or Dillion Harper? You can now a toy model of their pussy (some even have sex dolls).
This is the best way to support the pornstar you like. (Elsa Jean is one of my faves) And have a truly realistic Fleshlight experience.
You can check the video with your favorite pornstar. And know that you’re holding in your hand the perfect replica of her pussy.
There’s just something dirty and arousing about this idea, isn’t it?
These Fleshlights are actually 100% molded by their vagina shape, the entrance and all…
The most popular Fleshlights from real porn stars are:
- Riley Reid
- Asa Akira
- Christy Mack
- Nina Hartley
- Dillion Harper
- Alexis Texas
- Lisa Ann
- Jenna Haze
- Elsa Jean
Really, chances are if you like a famous pornstar, there is a Fleshlight molded in the shape of her vagina.
There are really tons of choices…
You can choose from Fleshlight girls, Dorcel girls, & camstar girls. And there’s a special collector’s corner too.
But if you are getting the best Fleshlight girl, I really recommend Stoya Destroya.
Stoya Destroya is popular for its nicely textured canal.
Her signature texture is the Wonder Wave.
The Stoya Destroya has her vagina really perfectly done. And is the closest to realistic experience that you can get. (and here’s her butt sleeve).
Top Sleeve To Train Against PE
Maybe you have problems with lasting long enough. And you would want to add to your sex toy arsenal to become more confident with your sex skills?
Women use dildos to practice, why cann’t men do the same thing?
While you can practice lasting longer by yourself. Why not mix realistic experience with practicing?
Though I should warn — that these Fleshlights are intense.
I love practicing by myself, not using any external stimulation. Porn and these super realistic toys just put me too fast over the edge.
What I am saying — you should build it up to there.
The steps are:
- Practice by yourself & do some stamina training. Get to know your body and arousal levels.
- Use Fleshlight STU (stamina training unit) to imitate the real action.
- Have sex and keep working on your excitement in real life.
Just know that during real sex — it’s the hardest! There are chemicals going on, crazy arousal, attraction — build it up to there!
Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit
Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is built specifically for practicing. To make you last longer and ejaculation control.
As the name implies, the stamina training unit will come in handy when it comes to the real thing.
While there’s not anything too special about the specific Fleshlight. It does come with a detailed manual.
The Fleshlight STU (stamina training unit) is perfect for beginners. Also consider Flight Pilot if you’re a newbie.
Just make sure you don’t forget to remove the plastic inside the fleshlight 😉
And yes, apply corn-starch after using to ensure the texture and silicone sleeve last for a long, long time.
Great for Travelling
Is size important? Maybe you want to take it for traveling and it needs to be small.
The thing with most Fleshlights is that they are huge.
They are designed to recreate the realistic sex experience and that’s why the size is what it is.
But what if you want to take a masturbation sleeve in your backpack?
Well, that’s when you want to check out Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage.
It’s both the cheapest Fleshlight you can buy and the most compact.
By the first look, it’s hard to tell it’s actually a masturbator.
This is the top pick if:
- you want a toy that is easy to clean — just keep a paper towel next to you. And contain the semen there (instead of ejaculating in the sex toy and then have to clean it)
- bigger than average penis — for big penis owners, normal size Fleshlights will be too small to go full in. This model fixes it…!
- you like to have it similar to jerking off experience — you can squeeze the silicone toy. To help control the tightness. Some love it!
- you want cheap and discreet sex toys — self explanatory i think!
In fact, Quickshot Vantage is my top recommendation for beginners.
Most Discreet Choice
But what if you want a real-size discreet Fleshlight?
Then you’re looking for Sex In A Can masturbator!
These are the Fleshlight toys that are concealed to look like either a soda or a beer can!
In my opinion, the best is the one that’s custom designed for your needs.
Pro tip: watch out for Fleshlight deals to save money.
And if money is not an issue, you need to build your own Fleshlight!
I still recommend getting the classic one first. And then once you know what you enjoy — spend extra for a tailored experience.
You can customise:
- the color of the outer case
- the orifice: vagina like, butt like, mouth like?
- and most importantly you can choose different texture patterns. That your penis will go through…
How To Find The Right One
We’ll get to it right away, but first…
A little history lesson about company itself! 🙂
The Fleshlight is a brand that produces artificial vaginas. And also anal opening type male sex toys. Other people call it pocket pussy or pocket vagina. But basically, it’s a male masturbator that imitates a woman’s vagina.
Today it is a huge company with plenty of incredible sleeve textures. In fact there are so many choices.
That it’s hard to decide whether you’re buying a fleshlight for the first time or the next one. Unless you’ve plenty of money, you’ll need to make tough decisions.
This guide is a result of testing many masturbation sleeves and blowjob machines. And then going in deep 20 hour research to discover the best fleshlights that worked for MOST MEN.
Yeah, everyone is different. Others might prefer a sex doll or adding a bullet vibrator into the mix.
But your chances are better that if something worked for 100 men, that it just might work for you too, huh?
What does it mean for you?
It means that male sex toys and male masturbators are becoming better and better!
Competition is growing. And for them to stay on top, they need to innovate or someone else will take its place.
Right now though Fleshlight is the undisputed leader. That is if you’re looking for a quality and long-lasting masturbator and pocket pussies.
You can customise it perfectly based on your desires and sex life.
Yes, it means once you know the building blocks that are important to you. You can design your own perfect standard Fleshlight model.
There are three pieces in each Fleshlight:
- the end-cap — to control the suction effect, the feel of the sleeve
- the casing to protect the sleeve against dirt and damage
- the sleeve (which you can buy separately for cheaper if you got the base case and end-cup. You can experiment with tons of different textures & pressure points)
There are also smaller, cheaper models. Like Fleshlight Quickshot which come only in two pieces:
- the casing
- the masturbator itself
What’s great with this one is:
- it’s cheap
- it’s quick and easy to clean
- it’s compact
Finally, there are other more advanced Fleshlights with extra features. Like vibration or Kiiroo Keon which is a truly hands-free experience fucking machine. You can use it with any Fleshlight sleeve.
You insert your fleshlight in that machine.
Add headphones or even VR goggles. Watch specially encoded adult videos. And have as close to reality as possible sexual experience!
Want to take your hands free masturbation session to the next level? The answer is, by using the Fleshlight shower mount.
Obviously nothing compares to an experience with an actual human being but this is as close as it gets.
What You Should Look Out For
You need to know what you want — simple as that.
There are so many choices right now, so you just need to know your goal.
- Are you looking for a realistic Fleshlight? That imitates the real vagina (thanks to superskin material) as close as possible?
- Are you looking for an anal kind of sex experience?
- Are you looking for a masturbator that stimulates oral sex deep throat experience?
- Are you looking for a hands-free, automatic fucking machine that does the work for you?
- Are you a fan of a specific porn star like Riley Reid, Lisa Ann, or Eva Lovia and want the sex toy modeled by her pussy lips?
- Maybe you have problems with lasting long enough. Or you want to use a sex toy to become more confident with your sex skills? Women use dildos to practice, why can’t men do the same thing?
- Is price important to you? Are you looking for the cheapest or best Fleshlights?
- Is size important? Maybe you want to take it for traveling and it needs to be small like the Fleshlight Go. Or you want it to be discreet?
- Need something to spice things up while your significant other is away?
All of these options are possible and have been addressed by Fleshlight. They even have transparent ones like the Fleshlight Ice.
Just write down what’s important to you and with that knowledge we can move on to discuss specific models next.
If you’re still having trouble deciding it might be worth doing a test drive first.
How To Clean, Use & Maintain Your Toy
Okay, we’re on the final stretch!
If you put out that kind of serious cash for a Fleshlight, you better take care of it!
If you maintain it correctly it will last forever.
If not, it will become sticky, lose it’s texture and break.
It will explain and show how to clean Fleshlight.
But here are the quick steps:
- You use a special soap to clean and disinfect it, rinse in hot water.
- Leave it for some time to dry it up.
- Add starch to the inside texture to ensure sleeve material doesn’t get sticky over time.
- or…just get Quickshot Vantage open sleeve and you won’t need to worry about cleaning at all.
But here are the steps I take:
- Take the fleshlight and put it in the hot flowing water for 5–10mins
- Dry it up, enter it in the cup.
- Get the lube and put it in the sleeve (pro tip: warm up the lube with hot or warm water before too)
- Apply some lube to my penis and let the play begin.
- Adjust the suction cup and the opening tightness for maximum pleasure.
- Enjoy the ride!
Also, consider using Fleshlight’s Renewing Powder. Which is for maintaining the freshness of your sleeve.
Bringing It All Together
For a fancy experience, I get my Fleshlight Launch, put on some headphones, and watch the special hands-free video.
Pair it with VR goggles synced with automatic masturbation and it becomes an out of this world experience.
What about you?
What’s your favorite Fleshlight? And do you have any pro tips to share?