If you want to see the all the best fleshlights all in one place, then you’ll LOVE this thorough guide!
I personally have tried many Fleshlight textures. And I also have tried other male sex toys from other brands.
On top of that, I spent over 20 hours in research. (To discover not only the best.) But I also included few insanely good masturbators from other brands.
And you can just scroll through, see what speaks to you…
…and after you’re done reading you’ll be Fleshlight expert!
Let’s jump in:
How Can You Find The Best One For You?
We’ll get to it right away, but first…
A little history lesson about company itself! 🙂
The Fleshlight is a brand that produces artificial vaginas. And also anal opening type male sex toys. Other people call it pocket pussy or pocket vagina. There’s always going to be the Fleshlight vs pocket pussy debate. But basically it’s a male masturbator that imitates woman’s vagina.
Today Fleshlight is a huge company with plenty of incredible sleeve textures. In fact there are so many choices.
That it’s hard to decide whether you’re buying a fleshlight for the first time or the next one. Unless you’ve plenty of money, you’ll need to make tough decisions.
This guide is a result of testing many masturbation sleeves and blowjob machines. And then going in deep 20 hour research to discover the best fleshlights that worked for MOST MEN.
Yeah, everyone is different. Others might prefer a sex doll or adding a bullet vibrator into the mix.
But your chances are better that if something worked for 100 men, that it just might work for you too, huh?
What does it mean for you?
It means that male sex toys and male masturbators are becoming better and better!
Competition is growing. And for Fleshlight to stay on top, they need to innovate or someone else will take its place.
Right now though Fleshlight is the undisputed leader. That is if you’re looking for a quality and long-lasting masturbator and pocket pussies.
You can customise it perfectly based on your desires and sex life.
Yes, it means once you know the building blocks that are important to you. You can design your own perfect standard Fleshlight model.
What are the basics you should know about Fleshlights?
First: What’s The Best Lube For Fleshlight?
You will always need lube with Fleshlight. Otherwise, it will feel like something sticky and weird. You can also improve the experience by knowing how to warm up a Fleshlight.
Most men and couples love Sliquid H2O lube. It will work for all cases (no worries about incompatibilities).
Sliquid is the lube all experienced pervs use.
Another cheap alternative is coconut oil!
It’s natural, it’s cheap and lasts for long time 😉
Now more about the Fleshlight.
There are three pieces in each Fleshlight:
- the end-cap — to control the suction effect, the feel of the sleeve
- the casing to protect the sleeve against dirt and damage
- the sleeve (which you can buy separately for cheaper if you got the base case and end-cup. You can experiment with tons of different textures & pressure points)
Watch this video for even better visual introduction and analysis of Fleshlight…
It’s a helpful visual insight & sleeve review:
There are also smaller, cheaper models. Like Fleshlight Quickshot which come only in two pieces:
- the casing
- the masturbator itself
What’s great with this one is:
- it’s cheap
- it’s quick and easy to clean
- it’s compact
Finally, there are other more advanced Fleshlights with extra features. Like vibration or Kiiroo Keon which is a truly hands-free experience fucking machine. You can use it with any Fleshlight sleeve.
You insert your fleshlight in that machine.
Add headphones or even VR goggles. Watch specially encoded adult videos. And have as close to reality as possible sexual experience!
Want to take your hands free masturbation session to the next level? The answer is, by using the Fleshlight shower mount.
Obviously nothing compares to an experience with an actual human being but this is as close as it gets.
What You Should Look Out For When Picking The Right One For You?
You need to know what you want — simple as that.
There are so many choices right now, so you just need to know your goal.
- Are you looking for a realistic Fleshlight? That imitates the real vagina (thanks to superskin material) as close as possible?
- Are you looking for an anal kind of sex experience? (we got you covered in our best anal Fleshlight guide)
- Are you looking for a masturbator that stimulates oral sex deep throat experience?
- Are you looking for a hands-free, automatic fucking machine that does the work for you?
- Are you a fan of a specific porn star like Riley Reid, Lisa Ann, or Eva Lovia and want the sex toy modeled by her pussy lips?
- Maybe you have problems with lasting long enough. Or you want to use a sex toy to become more confident with your sex skills? Women use dildos to practice, why can’t men do the same thing?
- Is price important to you? Are you looking for the cheapest or best Fleshlights?
- Is size important? Maybe you want to take it for traveling and it needs to be small like the Fleshlight Go. Or you want it to be discreet?
- Need something to spice things up while your significant other is away?
All of these options are possible and have been addressed by Fleshlight (we even discussed the Fleshlight vs hand comparison). They even have transparent ones like the Fleshlight Ice.
Just write down what’s important to you and with that knowledge we can move on to discuss specific models next.
If you’re still having trouble deciding it might be worth doing a test drive first. Also you might opt for a different brand of penetrables like Bad Dragon – we have a Bad Dragon vs Fleshlight guide as well.
What Are The Top Fleshlight Models Out There?
Now we’ll answer the questions one by one.
It all depends by your penis size, how sensitive it is, budget, personal preferences and sizes…
It’s tough, but that’s why you’re reading this guide!
Are you looking for a realistic Fleshlight? That imitates the real vagina as close as possible.
You’re looking for the most basic high-quality female vagina like imitator. And you don’t need anything fancy.
There is a Fleshlight Original Pink Lady, and will fit great for most average penis owners.
The original Pink Lady is also one of the cheapest fleshlight models! 🙂
There’s even a smaller version perfect for travelling like the Fleshlight Go.
This model has no crazy textures inside — it’s smooth and soft.
If you hold the sleeve in hot water for 10minutes, it will perfectly replicate the real thing – a woman’s vagina.
Making a buying decision on your first masturbator? For your first time experience. I would even recommend a cheaper 3D Blowjob Masturbator.
For a cheap price, you get automatic suction and 10 vibration modes.
It’s meant to be enjoyed — with tons of lube, the suction is out of this world.
Here’s how this toy looks like in action:
Are you looking for the anal kind of sex experience?
Maybe you can get normal sex usually, but are craving for kinkier butt sex kind of experience?
To be honest anal sex also requires some training . I remember my penis was hurting after anal sex as it wasn’t used to the extra tightness.
And there’s just something raw and dirty about imagining taking someone in the ass.
If you’re looking for a realistic anal sex experience. This Riley Reid Fleshlight butt sleeve has been recommended by many guys.
It comes with included water-based lube for few times. Definitely rinse it in warm water to make experience more realistic.
When penetrating the toy, it really feels super tight. And feels very close to real anal penetration (without the pain or worrying about how good is it for her).
Are you looking for a masturbator that stimulates oral sex deep-throating experience?
You can get that too!
There are special models that simulate oral sex experience. And are made to simulate real blow-job action. That you only see in your favorite porn, but have probably never experienced!
That’s a pretty dirty fantasy!
There are two models that are the most popular: Turbo Thrust and Turbo Ignition.
Turbo thrust (Blue Ice) comes the most recommended for the realness and sensations.
It’s transparent and has a strong suction cup. The Fleshlight Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice) also has two floating rings at the top that control the opening.
But if you’re looking for the most realism. Then there is one blowjob machine that has been recommended by most men than any other toy.
It’s called La Bocca Della Verita:
It’s manual masturbation helps in realism. (No fancy twirls, automatic thrusts or vibrations.) It gives sensations that no other toy does.
But it isn’t 10/10 for durability, but it feels creepily realistic.
Many users complain about the tongue that gets in the way. And about plastic teeth that irritate penis while thrusting.
But just as many users love the added realism.
Are you looking for hands-free, automatic fucking machine that does the work for you? Or vibrations?
This is possible — just a bit more expensive!
Fleshlight Launch is amazing. But it takes some time to program the experience to best simulate the experience you see on videos.
But yes, once it’s done — it’s an ultimate masturbation toy.
It’s something that you should try at least once. And we’re lucky — good fucking machines that women usually use cost around 400–1000$.
We get virtual reality sexual experience for $300 (the masturbator + fleshlight itself).
I thought that porn itself was too stimulating for me…
But when I tried this experience, I seriously got scared. That I will not find ordinary sexual experience stimulating enough anymore.
If your wallet can afford it — I would really suggest you try it at least once…!
The same way as I recommend prostate milking… it’s just such a different experience…
There a lot more orgasms you can have than classic penis ejaculation ones.
If you’re simply looking for vibrations though…
There is a simple
It’s really up to knowing yourself — I need thrusting motion to get pleasure, but you might love vibrations.
Are you looking for A hands-free masturbation experience in shower?
There are special suction cup mounts you can get. Which you could attach your fleshlight to the wall in the shower, bedroom, mirror — wherever…
Yup, you can pretty much simulate all the positions you like!
While the Launch still requires holding — with the mount you just put it in the perfect place and fuck it…
Like you would a real girl!
Top Fleshlight Girls To Choose From?
Are you a fan of a specific porn star like Alexis Texas, Eva Lovia, or Dillion Harper? You can now a toy model of their pussy (some even have sex dolls).
This is the best way to support the pornstar you like. (Elsa Jean is one of my faves) And have a truly realistic Fleshlight experience.
You can check the video with your favorite pornstar. And know that you’re holding in your hand the perfect replica of her pussy.
There’s just something dirty and arousing about this idea, isn’t it?
These Fleshlights are actually 100% molded by their vagina shape, the entrance and all…
The most popular Fleshlights from real porn stars are:
- Stoya (Stoya Destroya is reported to be the tightest Fleshlight)
- Riley Reid
- Asa Akira
- Christy Mack
- Nina Hartley
- Dillion Harper
- Alexis Texas
- Lisa Ann
- Jenna Haze
- Elsa Jean
Really, chances are if you like a famous pornstar, there is a Fleshlight molded in the shape of her vagina.
There are really tons of choices…
You can choose from Fleshlight girls, Dorcel girls, & camstar girls. And there’s a special collector’s corner too.
Stoya Destroya is popular for its nicely textured canal.
Her signature texture is the Wonder Wave.
The Stoya Destroya has her vagina really perfectly done. And is the closest to realistic experience that you can get. (and here’s her butt sleeve).
The Top Sleeve To Train Against PE?
Maybe you have problems with lasting long enough. And you would want to add to your sex toy arsenal to become more confident with your sex skills?
Women use dildos to practice, why cann’t men do the same thing?
While you can practice lasting longer by yourself. Why not mix realistic experience with practicing?
Though I should warn — that these Fleshlights are intense.
I love practicing by myself, not using any external stimulation. Porn and these super realistic toys just put me too fast over the edge.
What I am saying — you should build it up to there.
The steps are:
- Practice by yourself & do some stamina training. Get to know your body and arousal levels.
- Use Fleshlight STU (stamina training unit) to imitate the real action.
- Have sex and keep working on your excitement in real life.
Just know that during real sex — it’s the hardest…! There are chemicals going on, crazy arousal, attraction — build it up to there!
Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is built specifically for practicing. To make you last longer and ejaculation control.
As the name implies, the stamina training unit will come in handy when it comes to the real thing.
While there’s not anything too special about the specific Fleshlight. It does come with a detailed manual.
The Fleshlight STU (stamina training unit) is perfect for beginners. Also consider Flight Pilot if you’re a newbie.
Just make sure you don’t forget to remove the plastic inside the fleshlight 😉
And yes, apply corn-starch after using to ensure the texture and silicone sleeve last for a long, long time.
The Best vs The Cheapest Fleshlight
Is price important to you? Are you looking for the best cheapest fleshlight?
Chances are — price is important.
If you are looking for the cheapest option to give these male masturbators a try. I actually would recommend Tenga DeepThroat Onacup.
This is the cheapest quality option if you choose to get manual deepthroat Tenga for (but it’s not gonna last long).
If you want you can upgrade it with the Vacuum controller if you want automatic vacuum suction done for you.
What’s The Best Fleshlight Money Can Buy?
In my opinion, the best is the one that’s custom designed for your needs.
Pro tip: watch out for Fleshlight deals to save money.
And if money is not an issue, you need to build your own Fleshlight!
I still recommend getting the classic one first. And then once you know what you enjoy — spend extra for a tailored experience.
You can customise:
- the color of the outer case
- the orifice: vagina like, butt like, mouth like?
- and most importantly you can choose different texture patterns. That your penis will go through…
What is The Best Smallest Fleshlight Sleeve?
Is size important? Maybe you want to take it for traveling and it needs to be small.
The thing with most Fleshlights is that they are huge.
They are designed to recreate the realistic sex experience and that’s why the size is what it is.
But what if you want to take a masturbation sleeve in your backpack?
Well, that’s when you want to check out Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage.
It’s both the cheapest Fleshlight you can buy and the most compact.
By the first look, it’s hard to tell it’s actually a masturbator.
This is the top pick if:
- you want a toy that is easy to clean — just keep a paper towel next to you. And contain the semen there (instead of ejaculating in the sex toy and then have to clean it)
- bigger than average penis — for big penis owners, normal size Fleshlights will be too small to go full in. This model fixes it…!
- you like to have it similar to jerking off experience — you can squeeze the silicone toy. To help control the tightness. Some love it!
- you want cheap and discreet sex toys — self explanatory i think!
In fact, Quickshot Vantage is my top recommendation if you want a Fleshlight and it’s the first one you’re buying.
P.S. Another worthy product here is the Flight Pilot. The Flight Pilot is great for beginners as it’s not as complex but works just as good as the original.
What’s the most discreet Fleshlight Sleeve?
But what if you want a real-size discreet Fleshlight?
Then you’re looking for Sex In A Can masturbator!
These are the Fleshlight toys that are concealed to look like either a soda or a beer can!
How To Clean, Use & Maintain Your Fleshlight?
Okay, we’re on the final stretch!
If you put out that kind of serious cash for a Fleshlight, you better take care of it!
If you maintain it correctly it will last forever.
If not, it will become sticky, lose it’s texture and break.
First of all, check this video:
It will explain and show how to clean Fleshlight.
But here are the quick steps:
- You use a special soap to clean and disinfect it, rinse in hot water.
- Leave it for some time to dry it up.
- Add starch to the inside texture to ensure sleeve material doesn’t get sticky over time.
- or…just get Quickshot Vantage open sleeve and you won’t need to worry about cleaning at all.
But here are the steps I take:
- Take the fleshlight and put it in the hot flowing water for 5–10mins
- Dry it up, enter it in the cup.
- Get the lube and put it in the sleeve (pro tip: warm up the lube with hot or warm water before too)
- Apply some lube to my penis and let the play begin.
- Adjust the suction cup and the opening tightness for maximum pleasure.
- Enjoy the ride!
Also, consider using Fleshlight’s Renewing Powder. Which is for maintaining the freshness of your sleeve.
Here is video for more ideas on how to use a Fleshlight:
Bringing It All Together
That’s it… I hope you now won’t have to ask the question “are Fleshlights worth it?“
For a fancy experience, I get my Fleshlight Launch, put on some headphones, and watch the special hands-free video.
Pair it with VR goggles synced with automatic masturbation and it becomes an out of this world experience.
What about you?
What’s your favorite Fleshlight? And do you have any pro tips to share?
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- “Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men”. BJUI. https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bju.13010.