12 Best Prostate Massagers & Vibrators To Guarantee The Super O [2022 Edition]

This guide uncovers the best prostate massager sex toys that will lead you to conquer that elusive prostate orgasm once and for all!

top prostate massagers compiled

Achieving prostate orgasms is not as elusive as it seems (with the right toy and guidance).

In this article, I’ll share 12 of the best prostate massagers based on my 3+ years of testing different brands and models, 20 hours of research, and talking to fellow P-spot enthusiasts.

I personally tested each product on this list (some are still in my ARSE-nal), so you’ll be able to choose one that increases your chances of successful super Os hands-free.

But if you’re short on time, here are my TOP THREE PICKS:

SexualAlpha Top Pick

Nexus Revo Stealth is the #1 prostate massager that has worked for most guys (me included) to bring that mythical PO. It offers some vibrations plus ribbed exteriors. But the magic lies in its rotating head that simulates the motion of a finger pressing on your prostate without you doing any work – more pleasure, less work.

Most Powerful, Luxury Feel

If powerful vibrations are more your prostate’s thing, get Lelo Hugo. It’s an aggressively shaped massager that hits most men’s prostate unless you have a really far and deep P-spot. If you’ve tried others, this should do the trick. Plus, it comes with a motion-controlled remote that you can simply tilt and shake to control the vibrations – FUN!

Adjustable, Most Customizable

If you think you have unique anatomy and manual massagers that worked for most guys didn’t work for you, get Lovense Edge 2. It’s highly customizable with a bendable head that hits your unique prostate better and targets it.


Top Prostate Toys In 2022

Most Powerful, Luxury Feel

black lelo hugo product shot

Lelo Hugo

SexualAlpha Top Pick

Nexus Revo Stealth

Nexus Revo Stealth

Adjustable, Most Customizable

lovense edge 2

Lovense Edge 2

Price:
$$$
$$$
$
Insertable Length:
4”
3.5”
3.6”
Widest Girth Point:
1.5”
1.5”
1.4”
Use Time:
2 hours
10 hours
1.7 hours

Best Prostate Massagers In 2022

SexualAlpha top pick

Nexus Revo Stealth

Price:
$$$
Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
3.5″
Widest Girth Point:
1.5″
Hands-Free?:
Yes
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
10 hours
Charge Time:
3.5 hours
  • Has a rotating head that targets the prostate
  • Vibrating, ribbed external perineal stimulator
  • 15-meter remote control range
  • Long battery life
  • Rotating head tends to give in

Nexus Revo Stealth is hands-down our best overall prostate massager pick. Its remote controlled internal rotations+external vibrations combo gives most men POs the first time. Or multiple times.

Unlike other massagers on the market, Stealth has a rotating insertable head that ups your chances of hitting the oh-so-elusive P-spot just right. (*First-time P-orgasm, I see you.*)

Its two-speed bidirectional rotation feature means that it’s as close to having a REAL FINGER circling the prostate as it gets. Pair that with the ribbed perineal stimulator that vibrates up to 6 levels… BOOM!

Yeah, it’s a bit pricey – around $225 now. But for the experiences it’s given me, I’d be willing to pay twice as much.

Stealth is on the girthier side. It fills me even before I hit the power button. I feel strong, persistent sensations every time I use it that I don’t have to rub my D to get off.

Oh, and it’s made of silicone like our other two top products. So, make sure only to use water-based lube when you use it.

What I Like Most…

The 10-hour max use time after one full charge is INSANE! I was able to use mine 5-6x before recharging (and that’s saying something).

PLUS, it has a rechargeable remote control that I can control up to 15 meters away. Aside from the power button, you see rotation and vibration buttons that you can control separately.

Pro Tip

Hold down the remote’s ‘rotation’ button for a couple of secs. This turns the rotation off while keeping the vibrations going. Or hold down the ‘vibration’ button to keep only the rotations.

You can experiment with either sensation or both. See what works for you.

If vibrations hit the right spot, and you want more. You might want to consider Lelo Hugo (much more on that next). But for most guys, it’s the mix of rotations and vibrations that work.

The Only Downside Is…

The rotating head. Many users claim it gives in after a few months. But so far, mine’s been holding up pretty well – 10 months and counting as of this writing.

Just in case yours breaks down, take advantage of the 1-year warranty. Use it A LOT, so you can get a replacement right away when something happens.

But if you’ve passed the 1-year mark, and your Stealth gives up. Worry not.

Ninja Dainis to the rescue! (Or shall I say DIY ninjas of Reddit.) Here’s the step-by-step guaranteed fix. *You’re welcome.*

If you want to know more details about the Nexus Revo Stealth, we have an in-depth review here.


Most powerful, luxury feel

Lelo Hugo

Price:
$$$
Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
4″
Widest Girth Point:
1.5″
Hands-Free?:
Yes
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
2 hours
Charge Time:
2 hours
  • Rumbly, powerful dual vibrations
  • Aggressively shaped to hit your prostate
  • Motion-controlled remote for fun solo or partnered play
  • Noisy remote control
  • Can slip out easily if you move around

If you’ve figured out that vibrations work best at hitting your P-spot, Lelo Hugo is for you.

Yes, it doesn’t have Stealth’s rotating head. But it’s a well-built massager that offers persistent, powerful vibrations to give most P owners the ecstatic O.

Cheaper massagers would die down if your anal sphincters start resisting the push when you’re not relaxed enough. BUT NOT my good friend HUGO.

For $219, you get an aggressively shaped massager with a bulbous head that hits most men’s prostate. So, if you’ve tried other massagers, this should hit it.

Unless your prostate is really far deep or you have a unique anatomy. But still, this works for most.

What I Like Most…

Hugo’s patented SenseMotion technology remote control is a stand-out. It vibrates at the same speed and rhythm as the device. AND it even remembers the last pattern you used.

It takes some getting used to, for sure. But once you (and your partner) get the hang of it, there’s no going back!

Pro Tip

Press the middle button and turn on SenseMotion mode, and you get more than just its six pre-set vibrations.

Turn on Mode 1 to tilt the remote control for different vibration intensities – FUN! Turn on Mode 2 and shake the remote like you’re giving a handjob for stronger vibrations – MORE FUN (albeit tiring)!

Want more fun? Put the remote control in your partner’s underwear so you can both feel ‘em juicy vibrations. (*All fair’s in love and war.*)

But…

The remote control tends to make more noise than the P massager. While it makes foreplay and sex more exciting, it might put you off.

And Hugo can slip out when you’re constantly moving around. Solutions? Find a comfortable position that keeps it in place.

You can sit down or lie down while clenching your legs. OR you can wear a jockstrap or crotchless male thong if your doctor says no-no to clenching. 

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.


Adjustable, most customizable

Lovense Edge 2

Price:
$
Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
3.59″
Widest Girth Point:
1.38″
Hands-Free?:
Yes
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
1.7 hours
Charge Time:
1.5 hours
  • Adjustable arm head
  • Highly customizable vibrations
  • App-enabled for long-distance play
  • Connects to other Lovense products
  • No remote control
  • Fewer features to enjoy without the Internet

Lovense Edge 2 is the prostate massager I recommend for guys who suspect they have a bit more unique anatomy down there.

If manual massagers that work for most guys didn’t work for you, this might do it. And it’s a bit on the cheaper end of the anal toy spectrum.

You can get one at Lovense for $119 (now at a discount price of $99) with a 1-year warranty.

Unlike most dual-motor massagers, Lovense Edge 2 has an adjustable arm design that fits your unique anal contours down to a T and hits the spot.

Pro Tip

Its new design has a narrower head and longer insertable length for easier insertion. PLUS, it has a larger bulb above the thinner neck for a more secure fit.

You don’t have to worry about it slipping out or adjusting it many times when you move around. (Public play, anyone?)

It’s an app-enabled device (NO REMOTES here, sir!), meaning you can control it using your PC or smartphone via Bluetooth or the Internet – perfect for long-distance play.

What I Like Most…

The Edge comes to life once you use the Lovense Remote app. You can access a range of pre-set patterns and patterns other users have created.

You can also customize the speed and vibration to your personal preference on either or both vibrating arms.

Pro Tip

If you and your partner have other Lovense products in your toybox, you can control them together via the app. You can even sync sensations between devices if you live miles apart.

Just send a “connect” message to them, and you’re all set! It’s as close to being physically intimate with your partner as it gets.

The Only Downside Is…

If you have a slow to zero net connection, you can’t make the most of this toy. Most of its functionality goes down the drain without online connectivity

Yes, you can still use it manually. BUT you only get ten simultaneous prostate and perineum vibrations. You have to cycle through all the settings to get the right vibration.

NOT the separate P-P patterns that you can customize with the app with just a swipe of a finger.

I’ve actually reviewed the Lovense Edge 2 before, so if you’re interested and want the full details, check this out.


Most versatile

We-Vibe Vector

Price:
$$
Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
4″
Widest Girth Point:
1.2″
Hands-Free?:
Yes
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
1.5 hours
Charge Time:
1.5 hours
  • Adjustable arm head
  • Narrow girth for easy insertion
  • Remote-controlled and app-controlled
  • Versatile, great for beginners
  • App disconnects if your device is running low on battery
  • Not for guys who prefer more girth

We-Vibe Vector is the versatile prostate massager we all need. You can use its handy wireless remote control for that sit-back-and-relax kind of prostate massage experience.

OR you can sync it via the We-Connect app for more customized and intense prostate to perineum vibrations.

You can even sync the vibrations to your favorite music (*cue Marvin Gaye’s Let’s Get It On*).

Pro Tip

Unlike some P massagers that fall between the C and L shapes, the Vector is C-shaped with a flared base tip that sits perfectly on your perineum. Plus an adjustable head, so you find the RIGHT P-spot angle. 😉

If you own a Lelo Bruno or Hugo, the Vector’s a bit smaller. It has a narrow girth, so inserting it is a little easier than most P devices.

So, yeah. It’s perfect for anyone, regardless of experience level. But it’s ideal and more affordable ($139 to be exact) for guys new to prostate stimulation.

What I Like Most…

The Vector’s pressure and vibrations in and out surprised me. They mesh pretty well and felt relaxing. These were what my prostate needed to hit that intense full-body O.

While you can customize patterns on either end, the pre-set pulsations gave me pleasurable alternating sensations. It kinda felt like the two ends were hugging and massaging my prostate.

Most massagers focus on overall sensations, but the Vector hits the perfect balance. Heck, you can even use it without the remote control or app. But where’s the fun in that?

The Only Downside Is…

The We-Connect app is fun, but it’s kinda a hit-or-miss for some users. Not as solid as Lovense’s app. It disconnects. Some say it’s inconsistent.

I did experience a few hiccups. I tried to set the intensity level on the app, and the device didn’t seem to follow through. I then realized that I needed to recharge my Vector. (Dang! Sorry, I just got too excited.)

I learned that the app disconnects if your device is running low on battery. So, before you swear to the gods of pleasure, check the battery indicator on the app’s top-left corner.

If you want to read more about We-Vibe Vector, we have all you need to know here.


Best manual toy

nJoy Pure Wand

Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
316 grade stainless steel
Insertable Length:
8″
Widest Girth Point:
1.5″
Hands-Free?:
No
  • Stainless steel will last forever
  • Works with any kind of lube
  • Heaviness gives you the right pressure
  • There’s a learning curve for new users

Okay, so why does this weird metal piece get raving recommendations across the board?

Because it simply works:

  • It’s ergonomic — you don’t need to arch your hands and wrists in very weird positions.
  • It’s heavy — it’s 1kg of medical grade stainless steel. This means you can manipulate it with a light press of a finger and get the desired pressure.
  • Since it’s stainless steel, you can use silicone lube with it and forget about the need for continuous lubrication. Easy to clean and maintain!
  • It will work for everyone . The two-sized heads, the length ensure that no matter how deep your P-spot is, you will be able to hit it. If you get the big head in, it will ensure that you don’t even need to be precise — it will hit the spot!

And finally, you can use it with your wifey.

Pure Wand is the most popular sex toy that has given most women their FIRST squirting G-spot orgasm.

Sorcery indeed.

It’s pricey, but it will last for the lifetime and the only regret I have is — that I didn’t get it earlier.

The only downside is that nJoy wand doesn’t come with the instruction manual…

Some tips for using the Pure Wand:

  • Warm-up with the smaller end, but the real fireworks start once you move up to the larger end. All I can say is — Man up and do it! You’ll thank me later. Move slowly, gently back and forth. Use lots of lube and you’ll get there.
  • Lay on your stomach (the wedge is handy here). Keep the other end of the wand between your legs to make it a hands-free experience. The wand’s own weight will keep the ball pressed against your prostate. Then relax and wait for things to happen…
  • First, insert the wand laying on the side (fetal position).  Then manipulate the wand with 1–2 fingers pressing very lightly. If you inserted the large end you’ll find the big ball will hit the P-spot easily. Use the wand’s weight to your advantage.

Final warning: Don’t get the wand on Amazon. You’ll find the cheapest price there, but you may need to get used to knockoff versions.

LoveHoney is reliable and has a 30-day return policy (just in case).

If you’re in the market for steel & metal sex toys and would like to know more about nJoy Pure Wand, check out our review here.


Best budget option

Desire Luxury Vibrating Prostate Massager

PRICE:
$$
WARRANTY:
1 Year
WATERPROOF:
Yes
MATERIAL:
Silicone
INSERTABLE LENGTH:
4″
WIDEST GIRTH POINT:
1.3″
HANDS-FREE?:
Yes
POWER SOURCE:
USB rechargeable
USE TIME:
1 hour
CHARGE TIME:
1.5 hours
  • Size is suitable for beginners or experienced users
  • Smooth and ergonomic
  • Lots of modes and intensities for variety
  • Doesn’t apply heavy pressure

With this product, you’ll get safe material (silicone) and remote control. The vibrator has 8 modes with 12 intensity levels.

You’ll get 60 minutes of play and USB rechargeable cord. Nexus Revo’s shape is similar, but don’t make a mistake.

You CANNOT get the same results from 3–4x cheaper toys.

If you’re on the fence, this is a good enough option to dabble with and get some promising results. It feels good.

The upside with cheap models is that you can buy 4–5 models and learn what you like…and maybe some toy sticks and does magic.

But I do not recommend it, chances are MUCH higher with proven models.


best hands-free prostate stimulator

Lelo Bruno

Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
3.4″
Widest Girth Point:
1.2″
Hands-Free?:
No
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
2 hours
Charge Time:
1 hour
  • Two motors give double the stimulation
  • Stays in hands-free
  • Might not be long enough

It might be on the expensive end, but Bruno certainly brings the power. 

With two motors – one at the tip and the other in the base – you get double the pleasure with the option of 6 different settings. 

It’s a medium size, so it’s thick enough to satisfy most butts while still being approachable to anyone’s comfort zone. 

That said, Bruno is somewhat shorter than many of its competitors, which can be good or bad depending on your anatomy. 

If you suspect your P-spot is a bit further in, then you’re probably better off going with something longer to avoid disappointment.


best come-hither prostate massager

Lelo Loki Wave

Warranty:
1 Year
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
3.9″
Widest Girth Point:
1.5″
Hands-Free?:
No
Power Source:
USB rechargeable
Use Time:
2 hours
Charge Time:
2 hours
  • Gives your P-spot a real massage
  • Luxurious feeling silicone finish
  • Hard work on your wrists after a while

If you’re looking for more power and don’t mind holding it in your hand, then Loki Wave could be right up your (back) alley. 

It’s a strong presence with a decent size that’s well contoured to fit most bodies very nicely indeed. 

And it actually moves! So it really puts the “massage” in prostate massager. The motion combined with two vibrating motors makes for an unforgettable combination. 

And it’s even better if used with a partner – their wrists won’t get tired because of the positioning.

To know all the details about Lelo Loki Wave, read our in-depth review here.


best P-spot stimulator for beginners

Aneros Helix Syn Trident

PRICE:
$$
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
3.5″
Widest Girth Point:
1″
Hands-Free?:
Yes
  • Perfectly shaped to hit the spot
  • Smooth inserting silicone
  • Moves with your contractions
  • Second arm might be annoying for some users

If it’s hands-free orgasms in a convenient and silent package you’re after, then Aneros have some of the very best offerings for your p-spot pleasure.

Their Helix Syn Trident is an excellent choice for beginners as it’s thin, light, and super comfortable. But it still gives you all of the benefits, like the fact that it moves when you contract or move around to stimulate your prostate.

The two arms also stimulate your perineum and, uh, tailbone, I guess? It stays in place anyway.

It’s small enough for any butt, and it’s silent, so you can wear it anywhere you like.

Want to know how Aneros Helix Syn Trident compares to other Aneros models? Read the review here.


best non-vibrating prostate massager for experienced users

Aneros Progasm

Warranty:
Lifetime
Waterproof:
Yes
Material:
ABS plastic
Insertable Length:
4.5″
Widest Girth Point:
1.25″
Hands-Free?:
No
  • Applies intense pressure
  • Filling and satisfying
  • K-tab is hit or miss for many

The Progasm is the Aneros for the more experienced anal aficionado.

It has all of the same advantages of the product line, including hands-free stimulation and motion and the lovely perineum tab.

But it’s significantly bigger, at 4.5 inches long and 1.5 thick, so it gives you a full, satisfied feeling.

And the extra thickness and more aggressively angled tip apply very intense pressure right where you need it for explosive results.

It delivers on its promises, but it will take some working up to get the most out of it.

If you’re ready to prograsm but need more info about this Aneros sex toy, read our in-depth review here.


best prostate vibrator for intermediate and advanced users

Aneros Vice 2

PRICE:
$$$
WARRANTY:
1 Year
WATERPROOF:
Yes
MATERIAL:
Silicone
INSERTABLE LENGTH:
4.4″
WIDEST GIRTH POINT:
1.3″
HANDS-FREE?:
Yes
POWER SOURCE:
Magnetic rechargeable
USE TIME:
1.5 hours
CHARGE TIME:
1.5 hours
  • Awesome shape and power
  • 72 total settings for any preference
  • Slips out easily in some positions

For the truly discerning P-spot player, the Aneros Vice 2 has it all. 

Satisfying thickness and size, check. 

Contoured design that’s both comfortable and pleasurable, check. 

2 powerful motors? Indeed.

18 patterns and 4 intensities for a total of 72 settings? Overkill if you ask me, but yep. 

It tends to feel like it will slip out when moving, so maybe it’s not great for wearing during sex. 

But basically, if you’re after a vibrating P-spot massager for solo play, this is one of the best you can find at any price.

If you want to know the finer details of Aneros Vice 2, check out our in-depth review here.


best cheap prostate massager

Lovehoney Booty Buddy

PRICE:
$
WATERPROOF:
Yes
MATERIAL:
Silicone
INSERTABLE LENGTH:
3.5″
WIDEST GIRTH POINT:
0.9″
HANDS-FREE?:
Yes
  • Great value for price
  • Great introductory anal toy
  • More pokey than you might like

Booty Buddy is a small angled butt plug that will be easy to get for newbies. It makes a good anal training toy while hitting the P-spot very well.

Tons of raving reviews for this one.


The Best Prostate Massager Buying Guide

Budget

I want to stress this point too.

A good P-spot massager (like in our Lovense Edge review) is especially important when you’re a beginner.

Experienced men can achieve prostate orgasm without any toys. They masturbate with perineum (taint) motion, nipple stimulation, and right breathing.

They couldn’t care less about the prostate vibrator.

But it took them YEARS to get there.

As a beginner…

The one who has never broken the glass ceiling to the bliss…

You need all the best sex toys to increase your chances of success.

The good sex toys I will recommend (there are three of them) cost money.

One cost in $100 range, other costs $100–$200 range, third one…even more.

I’ll give recommendations to cheap knockoff massagers you can start with.

But don’t expect mind-blowing prostate massage from them. Expect enhanced penile orgasm.

Which is cool.

A thing you shove up your ass is rarely ever in the budget.

I get it.

Don’t get one if it’s going to hurt you financially.

Wait instead until you have some disposable income to burn.

Fool around with cheap prostate massagers (without high expectations). But know that a proper P-spot massager is a must for successful prostate play.


Types of Prostate Massagers

In total, there here are four different varieties of massagers:

  • #1 — Manual Prostate Massagers
  • #2 — Prostate Vibrators
  • #3 —Remote Control
  • #4 —“Come Hither” or Rotation Motion

There are pros and cons of each and you should know them before we go to individual prostate massager review.


#1 — Manual Prostate Massagers

aneros helyx sin prostate massager

These are massagers that don’t have any motor, electronics with it.

The great thing is that they are a lot less likely to break. Life-span can be very long, especially if you buy the #1 recommendation I suggest.

That thing will NEVER BREAK.

Also Aneros, for example, gives LIFETIME guarantee for their prostate massagers.

The downside is that it’s not gonna be a hands-free experience. Though you can always attach it to a fucking machine. But that’s $400 extra).

You can get cheap Aneros Helix Syn knockoffs. Or even affordable curved glass dildo that will give you SOME sensations.

This is what most people settle with because of the cheap price.

It’s okay, it’s still a good testing ground.


#2 — Prostate Vibrators

prostate vibrator from amazon

These are hard plastic or silicone prostate vibrators. They allow switching between different vibration modes.

Many people buy cheap vibrating prostate toys on Amazon and again wonder why it doesn’t do a lot to them.

It’s fun to play around a bit but won’t do much unless you invest in a good rumbling motor (which costs).


#3 — Remote Controlled

black revo stealth product shot

Navigating the buttons while this thing is up to your ass is tough. It gets difficult if you don’t have a willing partner to help out.

Remote control comes to the rescue.

With a good remote control prostate massager, you can relax. Simply take the position and focus on sensations.

Now, we’re getting closer to increasing your chances of discovering that Super-O.

Many newbies have succeeded with good prostate toys like these…


#4 — “Come Hither” Or Rotation Motion

lelo loki wave with moving tip

After reading hundreds and hundreds of reviews and forum entries…

I discovered that the anal plug with a moving tip gave the most success to the beginners.

Some succeeded with manual stimulation.

Some succeeded with vibrations.

But most successes came from a prostate massager with specific movement motion. It had this motion, that imitates the finger pressing against the prostate. Come hither motion.

The downside?

These are the MOST EXPENSIVE and most likely to BREAK sex toys.

There are usually dual motors involved and that rotation, movement motion tends to break after a while.

It can be 3 months, 6 months, 2 years, but they WILL BREAK.

Only a matter of time.

It’s the same as with the car.

You don’t expect the car to run forever without repair, maintenance.

The silver lining?

Usually, these toys come with a 1-year warranty.

Which means if you plunk down that kind of money…

You better use it OFTEN!

Make sure it breaks within the 1 year and you get the new model or can ask to return the money.

Oh, and also there are some ninja DIY guys who know how to fix the most common breakage. So you can also get it fixed if the warranty expires.


Materials

First up, you need to be sure you’ve got a body-safe toy. That means non-porous material, like silicone, steel, glass, or certain plastics like ABS. 

Those are generally the best materials to use for prostate massage. Silicone is comfortable and easy to use and clean. 

Stainless steel is more expensive, but the pressure and weight are unmatched and feel incredible. 

Glass is quite similar to steel – filling and fun and also beautiful, but not cheap. 

And plastic is usually lighter and cheap, but it might not feel as filling or satisfyingly heavy. 


Pressure

If it’s pressure you’re after, you’ll want that to come from either the material or the shape. 

Glass and, in particular, stainless steel apply more pressure by virtue of their weight – it’s an imposing presence that feels like nothing else. 

But you can get similar effects with cleverly shaped toys, like the Aneros series, for example. 

Any prostate massager with a tip that’s angled forward will apply more pressure to the spot itself. This effect is boosted if the toy is thicker. 


Vibrations

Position is important to consider as well as vibrations. For example, the Lelo Hugo is the most powerful of the massagers on this list without question. 

But it’s not as well-positioned to get right over the P-spot as other toys like the Nexus Revo Stealth, so I actually enjoyed the vibes coming from the latter toy better. 

That said, pure power is enjoyable in its own way. So the next question is – rumbly or buzzy? 

Rumbly travels through you, while buzzy vibes stay in one spot and stimulate there more specifically. 


Size

Bigger is better – but is it really? 

Actually, no. At least, not for everyone. Larger, more filling toys are more pleasurable for some people, especially more experienced players. 

But if you’re new to the game, then an extra thick toy probably is going to feel more unpleasantly forceful than enjoyable. 

If you’re a beginner, you’ll want something about an inch thick to start off – about the width of a finger. 

Whereas if you’re more advanced in your play, you’ll likely want something that gives you more stretch – 1.5 inches or even more if you’re feeling bold. 


Remote Controlled vs. App-controlled

A good app-controlled massager gives you an incredible breadth of options to work with. Lovense stands out as the best in app-controlled toys at the moment. 

They’ve got the most reliable connection and the best range of options, but other companies like We-Vibe are not far behind. 

But there’s something more trustworthy about a good remote control that does everything you need it to. Remotes are always more reliable than smartphone control and usually simpler.  

One thing’s for certain. You definitely want some kind of remote control in a vibrating prostate  toy. 


Noise Level

Whether you’re concerned about privacy, have to play in secret, or need something for public play, noise is always an important concern. 

Obviously, a toy with no motors or moving parts is the quietest – you can’t beat silent, after all! 

As for toys with motors, some perform better than others. The Lovense Edge 2, We-Vibe Vector, and Desire Luxury are all pretty decent, with low volume even at higher power levels. 

Others, like the Lelo Hugo, are louder – mainly because of the higher max intensity. 


Comfort

If you need good comfort, that’s highly subjective. 

But there are things to look out for. A narrow perineal arch is helpful, especially if you plan to sit on the toy a lot. 

Other toys like the Aneros range are super comfortable in every position except sitting. 

If you’re new to prostate play, you might want smoother toys that are easier to insert and remove and don’t stimulate as much internally. 

Once you get used to the sensation, though, well… butts are as unique as fingerprints. 


Secure Fit

Public play what you’re after? 

Or maybe you want something to penetrate you while you penetrate a partner? 

Either way, you will need a secure fit. 

Much like comfort, this is kind of subjective. 

But a smoother toy is generally more likely to slip out than on with bumps. So Lelo Hugo will slip out easier than Aneros Progasm or Lovense Edge 2, for example. 

Massagers with a tighter angle in the base will also grip you gently, making them less likely to slip out. 


Charging and Battery Life

A good battery life is very important, especially if you like edging or building yourself up slowly with a lot of patience. 

For this, Nexus Revo Stealth is unmatched, with a staggering 10 hours of battery life. 

1 or 2 hours is pretty much the standard for charging time, but some toys improve the charging with things like magnetic charging, that’s more convenient to use. 

Long battery life is good, but if the charge time is also very long, that can be annoying to work around. Nothing worse than lubing yourself up only to find your toy needs three more hours.


Waterproof

Most good prostate massagers are, at the very least, splashproof (AKA IPX6). 

Most of the toys on this list are submersible, which means they have been tested and work underwater for 30 minutes. That makes them great options for playing with in the bath or shower for extra fun. 

But it also makes them extra easy to clean – just wash them with soap and water, no expensive toy cleaner required. 

Just remember – remotes usually aren’t that waterproof, so be careful with them in the shower!


Prostate Massage FAQ

How To Massage Prostate?

To massage your prostate, make sure you’re aroused first. This will intensify the whole experience It’s crucial that you’re relaxed. Make sure nobody and nothing can interrupt you.

Ideally you would play 2-3 hours for prostate play. If you’re doing it for the first time, don’t expect magic. Prostate massage is a learned skill. It will take time.


How To Give A Prostate Massage?

To give a prostate massage it might be easier if you have a partner to help you out. Logistics with anal play get a bit challenging. A willing partner helps you to stay relaxed and focus on the experience.

Make sure you give lots of feedback to the partner. Both men and women can benefit from breaking social stigmas. It can be a truly bonding experience.

It takes time to find what massaging way gives the best feeling. It takes time to find your favorite sex toy design that works.


How Often Should You Massage Your Prostate?

There is no right or wrong answer but massaging your prostate often shouldn’t hurt. Getting that big prostate massager inside though is no small feat. It takes time especially the first time.

Give it a few days’ breaks. You can practice with a butt plug for long wear to make the whole anal play more pleasurable. Listen to your body. This is the best advice.


What are the pros and cons of prostate massagers?

Pros of prostate massage include a more comfortable experience than, say, using a dildo in your butt.

They’re more tapered and easy to work with than most other toys that go inside you, and the biggest pro is the insane earth-shattering orgasms you can have. 

Cons? Well, it can be awkward to learn how to use at first. And there’s always a chance that a particular toy won’t fit your specific anatomy, so it will have been a waste of money. 

But overall? 100% worth it.


Is there anything else I need to know about prostate massagers?

The best advice about prostate massage is to start with a finger first. Either use your own or get a partner to help you, and work your way up to buying a toy when you feel like it’s time to take things up a gear. 

What else… well, not all devices are created equally for everyone’s needs. You’ll want to find your favored shape and then stick to toys with similar shapes for better results. Mixing it up and getting new toys is great, but make sure you know your body before taking out your wallet.


Bringing It All Together

We’re done with the toy part…

So I hope you’ll be able to get either:

That’s when you’ll cover 1/3 of the keys that are required to reach PO’s and Super-O’s.

You might be natural and reach your PO by fooling around with these. But chances are you need to work on the other 2 ingredients.

  • #1 — The proper prostate toy + lube = covered
  • #2 — The right arousal = still to go.
  • #3 — The right process (together with right expectations) = still to go.

Since you read till the end, I want to reward you…

That’s it, folks!

Pro Tip

Keep in mind, it takes time and rewiring of the brain to succeed with prostate massage. It’s not hit/go like with ordinary ejaculation.

This is a new journey…

But the pleasure you get is out of this world…

If you’re new to anal play, know that you might benefit a lot from a good butt plug.

It will help with a warmup and stretching.

Dainis Graveris

Dainis Graveris

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