7 Best Double Dildos That Work Great for DP In 2021

Want to find the best double dildo that will work for you and is body-safe? Then you’ll love this thorough guide.

different double dildos compiled

I personally reviewed over 36 double ended dildos. Filtered out all the toxic crystal jellies. (Crystal jellies are prone to harboring bacteria.)

As a result, I included only the 8 best double silicone dildos on a handy comparison chart.

After you’re done reading you’ll know exactly which dildo is right for you!

Let’s jump in.


Top Double Ended Dildos In 2021

Bondara 12″ Double

Bondara 12″ Double

5/5

Price: $
Insertable Length: 12″
Girth Diameter: 1.11″-1.27″
Material: Silicone
Softness: Medium Softness

Blush Ruse

Blush Ruse

5/5

Price: $$
Insertable Length: 18″
Girth Diameter: 1.5″
Material: Silicone
Softness: Medium Softness

Vixen Peacemaker

Vixskin PeaceMaker

5/5

Price: $$$
Insertable Length: 13″ (total length)
Girth Diameter: 2″
Material: Platinum Silicone
Softness: Dual Density


The Most Affordable & Cost-Effective Silicone Double Dildos

Blush Novelties Ruse with product description

Blush Ruse 18 Inches

Our pick

Insertable Length: 18″ | Diameter (Girth): 1.5″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: 4 | Softness: Medium Softness

Blush Novelties Ruse dildo is our top pick. Because you get the biggest insertable length for the best price.

By default this double ended dildo is U shaped which helps with G or P-spot targeting when using it with a partner.

Ruse comes in four colors: pink, black, red and purple, and has slight ridges on it.

This dildo is quite flexible and 1.5 inches diameter might require some stretching. But it’s pretty much average penis/dildo girth size.

But if you’re new to anal play, it may be too much, or you may require a good butt plug to warm up first.


Bondara slim double dildo with product specs

Bondara 12″ Slim

Budget pick

Insertable Length: 12″ | Diameter (Girth): 1.11″ – 1.27″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Pink / Purple | Softness: Medium Softness

You won’t find anything better for this price.

One of the best double ended dildo to test the waters with. It’s slim enough and long enough to experience double penetration for the first time.

There isn’t much to add. The material itself is very flexible. And while you will benefit from extra inches in length, 12″ is a good starting point.


Bondara Fantastic Filler toy with product specs

Fantastic Filler 16 Inches Textured

Insertable Length: 16″ | Diameter (Girth): 1.27″ – 1.6″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Black | Softness: Firm

This 16 inches dildo is another Bondara DP sex toy, just slightly longer and girthier. It is somewhat similar to what Doc Johnson offers.

It has 16 inches total insertable length and both ends have different diameters. One side has 1.27 inches and the other is 1.6 inches.

While the dildo itself is bendy and flexible, it could be softer.

Unlike a glass dildo, it feels soft but doesn’t have much give. 

There is also quite a bit of texture going on. 

Some prefer as smooth dildo as possible, some love ridges.


lesbian double ended dildo with product specs

Lesbian Double-Ended Dildo: 10 Inches Curved Silicone

Insertable Length: 10″ | Diameter (Girth): 1.35″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Magenta | Softness: Medium Softness

You can clearly notice how if the toy is smaller it’s cheaper. 

A simple explanation is that the bigger the toy gets, the more material it takes. And quality silicone isn’t that cheap.

We call it lesbian dildo because it is only 10 inches in insertable length and isn’t very flexible.

This toy will be the easiest to use by two ladies in a comfy scissoring position.

The curve gives nice G-spot stimulation targeting and ridges offer additional stimulation.


Double Headed Dildos For Him & Her: Strapless Strapons

Vixskin PeaceMaker Realistic Double Sided Dildo with product specs

Vixskin PeaceMaker Realistic Double Sided Dildo

Upgrade pick

Insertable Length: 13″ (total length) | Diameter (Girth): 2″ | Material: Platinum Silicone | Color Choices: 4 | Softness: Dual Density

PeaceMaker is the latest strapless strapon creation by Vixen and by far the best one.

Yes, it’s pricey, but it’s made using their incredibly realistic dual-density silicone.

Their previous models Nexus Senior / Junior are the same shape and size. But they are single density which makes them a lot more painful to wear over the long term.

However, dual-density means that you get a firm core and a soft, squishy outer layer. It feels really comfortable and realistic.

I need to mention though that the other end is no joke — it’s 6.5 inches insertable length and 2 inches diameter. 5.25 inches is the other one end.

The average penis size is around 1.5 inches in diameter. If you take this anally it will take quite a bit of warming up.


fun factory share dp dildo for pegging

Fun Factory Share DP Dildo

Insertable Length: 14″ total – 6″ insertable | Diameter (Girth): 1.4″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Black / Purple | Softness: Soft

Fun Factory is a bit more manageable double-sided dildo. As it’s the girthiest diameter reaches only 1.4″ (Peacemaker was 2″).

It’s not as squishy as Peacemaker. But Share still is super smooth to touch and feels soft even as a single density silicone dildo.

Insertable length is 6 inches.

The “holding” bulb is quite big but when inserted those ridges feel really good.

Vaginal penetration, after all, is a lot more friendly to girth than a backdoor.

As always, make sure you use it with a harness, and apply the lube generously.

Too little lube is often the main reason why DP penetration can be unsuccessful.

If you’re interested in vibrations. There is also a vibrating rechargeable ShareVibe model available.

Oh, and on Shevibe store there are more different color models available. If you want something like pink, purple (even more colors for ShareVibe).


vibrating double penetration dildo

Vibrating Two Way Dildo For Vaginal + Ass Penetration

Insertable Length: 4.5″ | Diameter (Girth): 1.4″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Blue | Softness: Medium Softness

For ladies who love double penetration. And especially the thrusting action in both holes at the same time, this toy is a solution.

Butt plugs are awesome, but the trouble is the multitasking if she enjoys the sliding in/out part.

This is a fun double-ended dildo called Double O Heaven. It has one bigger dildo (3.75 inches insertable, 1.4 inches diameter). And under it another smaller one (4.5 inches insertable, 1 inch diameter). 

Dildos themselves are soft and bendy.

On top of that, you get a buzzy vibrator that has 3 speeds and 7 patterns (powered with 2 AAA batteries not included). 

Don’t expect high-quality rumbly vibrations, but it’s a fun extra.


What You Should Know

Double ended dildos are quite straightforward. But still, there are few things that you should carefully consider.

  • Length — if you’re considering to use the toy by two people and want to have a little space for creative positions. You’ll need at least 12″ to 18″ long double ended dildo. Anything shorter and it’s not gonna work.
  • Flexibility (bendiness) — with any other sex toy this wouldn’t be important. Since one end is usually free. With double-ended dildo both ends are inserted. You both could be putting a lot of force in different directions. Without intending and accidentally breaking it. If you get anything that’s not flexible, you need to be extra careful. Or just go bendy straight out of bat (our recommendation)
  • Material firmness — this is a double-edged sword. Soft feels nice, but if you’re looking for ass play, you still need to pass those sphincters. For that, you need a dildo that’s soft (has some give), but still firm enough for anal insertion. Suction cup base preference should also be noted.
  • Girth (diameter) — it’s especially important to know how much diameter you can take anally. Since stretching there takes a bit more. All beginners start from 1 inch -1.25 inches girth, but if you’re not a size freak 1.5 inches-2inches might be too much to start. If you get anything bigger than 1.25 inches, you’ll need to get a smaller butt plug for comfortable sizing up.
  • Body-safe material —  it’s insanely important to get a body-safe double ended dildo. In order to avoid infections (UTI), bad reactions, and be able to use the toy for a long time. The only flexible, yet body-safe material is silicone. This is such an important topic, that we have a separate section for it below.
  • Price — even if we don’t want to admit it. Price always plays a role when considering the toy. And you might pick a porous, toxic material toy just because it’s cheap (like Amazon). But silicone double ended dildos can be cheap too while not alienating your health. We found a great 12″ slim silicone dildo at an affordable price that includes shipping.

Safety Factors

Unfortunately, if you’ll do quick research yourself on your favorite shops. You’ll find 99% of non-body safe double ended dildos.

Here are few results from top pages on Google ranking for “double dildo”:

bad material double dildo examples

You’ll be hard-pressed to find silicone double ended dildos there.

For most sex shops on double ended dildo category. There are only strapless strapons which is not what you probably want, and they’re not cheap.

You’ll see plenty of TPE, rubber, jelly cheap double ended dildos though…

Is it any wonder that you’re hard-pressed to make the wrong decision?

Only borosilicate glass dildo and stainless steel and silicone are non-porous. And all the other material combinations are potentially toxic. And cannot be fully sanitized.

Without any other choices, what can you do?

Then there’s Amazon, Aliexpress, eBay. Which seems to have plenty of “silicone” double ended dildos for too good to be price.

But you must know that these sellers are simply great marketers.

The FDA doesn’t have any quality control on sex toys which means that these sellers are not liable to anything. 

So they say whatever they must to overcome your objections and make the sale. Even the Amazon reviews that you’re grown to trust are 95% fake.

Watch out.

Specialized sex shops at least have a brand to worry about. So if they host non-body safe toys they need to indicate the true material.

But Amazon sellers don’t care at all. If they get too much bad rep, they simply open a new account.

All is not lost though.

While admittedly there are a lot more bad quality material double ended dildos. There are quite a bit affordable high-quality silicone double ended dildos too.


How To Use & Best Positions

Logistics might be a little hard to get at first with double ended dildos but here are few tips to get you started.

First, let’s start with obvious:

  • Don’t switch the holes . Nothing that goes in anal should go into the vagina. Also, watch out for any liquids (lube) from ass accidentally moving there. Keep paper towels handy next to the bed as a precaution.
  • Give enough time for preparation. Everything is more pleasurable when you’re aroused. Vagina opens up more, and anal stretching feels a lot better. Take it slow, especially with anything anally.
  • Lube it up generously . Make sliding in/out effortless with a good lube. The most recommended is Sliquid Sassy hybrid water-based lube. It is safe to use with silicone toys and is thick enough for anal play. Alternatively, consider unrefined coconut oil. Just keep in mind that it doesn’t play well with most condoms.
  • Clean carefully after every use . Antibacterial soap + boiling silicone toy for a few minutes will kill all the bacteria. Alternatively, simply use hot water + the soap and that should do the job. Cleaning is especially important when you’re sharing the toy with your partner.

There are plenty of fun positions and ways to use double-ended dildo:

  •  Lay on your backs with butts close together . As a hetero couple chances are that you already enjoy pegging. It’s fun for her to start with vaginal thrusting, while the man is taking the same dildo anally.
  • Doggy style except with bums together . Both of you are on all fours while reaching back. To help guide the double-ended dildo competing who’s gonna take more of the dildo.
  • Check the porn for ideas — that’s the one place where you’ll get the most visual ideas on how double ended dildos can be used. With a bendy dildo, lady can use both ends herself or even reach her mouth with it. Just search on your favorite adult site “double dildo” and you’ll get plenty of ideas.

Embrace the awkwardness and slow speed in the beginning. 

It’s gonna take some time to get a hang off it. But it’s a refreshingly fun process compared to traditional intercourse.


Bringing It All Together

Our recommendation is to start with slim & long double dong. And then if you really like the double fun. Upgrade to strapless strapons or explore more pegging toys.

The longer double-ended dildo you get. The more positions you’ll be able to explore comfortably.

Which is why our best double dildo recommendation was the 18 inches double-ended dildo.

Have fun, embrace the slow speed and awkwardness and you’ll have some intense shared pleasure!

Cheers!

Dainis Graveris

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