The 8 Best Double Dildos For Double Penetration, *Comparison Chart*

best silicone double dildo showcase for double penetration sex

After more than 30 hours of research, crowdsourcing expert and sex toy enthusiast opinions/reviews we uncovered the best silicone double dildos out there. The problem with double ended dildos is that they are mostly made from porous and unsafe materials.  But there are great silicone alternatives out there for a great price.

We learned that 18" Blush Rose Silicone Double Dildo was the best for most people. Since it's softness, bendiness and price ($50) was unbeatable. Even better if you're looking for a smaller starting DP dildo - Bondara 12" silicone double dildo will set you back only $23.


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ruse silicone double dildo 18 inch

Blush Rose 18" DP Dildo
The best bang for buck

In DP play the longer the dildo the better comfort and more positions you can try. This 18" bendy, soft and manageable 1.5" diameter double dildo comes in 4 colors and is UNBEATABLE choice for the price.

Our Pick


bondara silicone double dildo

Bondara 12" Slim Double Dildo
The best quality for price

While 12" might be too short for some couples, it's enough to get started. Both ends are in different diameters - one is 1.11", other 1.27" which is great for even anal play beginners. Laying on back next to each other is a good position to start. Comes in 2 colors, this is a great silicone dildo for price.

Budget Pick


Introduction To Dou​ble Penetration Toys

Pegging is fun, but there is still an essentially lifeless piece of silicone between you and your partner. One gets all the stimulation, others only get a great view.

Double dildos are a nice fun compromise of giving fun to both partners at the same time.

Yes, double dildos are associated by the general public as lesbian sex toys but that's only because of porn. 

In reality plenty of straight couples, who enjoy pegging add double dildo to really expand their sexual horizons.

The logistics can be awkward at first, but it does feel amazing.

With double dildos, you can do anal-anal, anal-vagina and as long as you do the basic precautions of not sharing the ends you're in for plenty of fun.

Females get even luckier as they can use it solo by bending the double dildo to stick it in the vagina and butt at the same time.


double penetration dildos and other toys

We'll take a look at:

  • double dongs — these are long (12"-18"), bendy and very affordable ($20–50). These silicone double-sided dildos are the focus of the guide. Choices are quite similar with subtle differences in girth, length, colors and material softness/firmness levels.
  • strapless strapons —must be worn mainly by female but the other end can be used either for another vagina or anal (pegging). Even though strapless strapons are advertised as usable standalone, you need a quality harness to comfortably use them. Also, it's quite heftier investment than simple double dildo which is why it's not the best starter double penetration toy.
  • lesbian dildos that are best-used vagina-to-vagina, but aren't as bendy to be comfortably used between ass/vagina play.
  • vibrating double dildo that can be used by a lady who wants to penetrate both holes with one toy. These things look fun, but honestly, the better solution is to just get two dildos or buttplug + dildo.

What You Should Know About Double Ended Dildos?

different double headed dildos and their functionality

Double dildos are quite straightforward but still, there are few things that you should carefully consider.

  • Length — if you're considering to use the toy by two people and want to have a little space for creative positions you'll need at least 12" to 18" long double dildo. Anything shorter and it's not gonna work.
  • Flexibility (bendiness) — with any other sex toy this wouldn't be important since one end is usually free. With double-ended dildo where both ends are inserted you both could be putting a lot of force in different directions without intending and accidentally break it. If you get anything that's not flexible, you need to be extra careful, or just go bendy straight out of bat (our recommendation)
  • Material firmness — this is a double-edged sword. Soft feels nice, but if you're looking for ass play, you still need to pass those sphincters. For that, you need a dildo that's soft (has some give), but still firm enough for anal insertion.
  • Girth (diameter) — it's especially important to know how much diameter you can take anally since stretching there takes a bit more. All beginners start from 1"-1.25" girth, but if you're not a size freak 1.5"-2" might be too much to start. If you get anything bigger than 1.25", you'll need to get a smaller butt plug for comfortable sizing up.
  • Body-safe material — it's insanely important to get a body-safe double dildo if you want to avoid infections (UTI), bad reactions, and be able to use the toy for a long time. The only flexible, yet body-safe material is silicone. This is such an important topic, that we have a separate section for it below.
  • Price — even if we don't want to admit it price always plays a role when considering the toy and you might pick a porous, toxic material toy just because it's cheap (like Amazon). But silicone double dildos can be cheap too while not alienating your health. We found a great 12" slim silicone dildo for $23 (+shipping).

To make it easier we put all these major considerations on the chart for easy visual and spec comparison:

chart to find the best dp dildo for you

Choosing The Body-Safe Material — Silicone Double Dildo

Unfortunately, if you'll do quick research yourself on your favorite shops you'll find 99% of non-body safe double dildos.

Here are few results from top pages on Google ranking for “double dildo”:

bad material double dildo examples

You'll be hard-pressed to find silicone double dildos there.

For most sex shops on double ended dildo category, there are only strapless strapons which is not what you probably want, and they're not cheap.

You'll see plenty of TPE, rubber, jelly cheap double dildos though…

Is it any wonder that you're hard-pressed to make the wrong decision?

Even if you know that only borosilicate glass, stainless steel and silicone are non-porous, and all the other material combinations are potentially toxic and cannot be fully sanitized.

Without any other choices, what can you do?

Then there's Amazon, Aliexpress, eBay which seems to have plenty of “silicone” double dildos for too good to be price.

But you must know that these sellers are simply great marketers.

The FDA doesn't have any quality control on sex toys which means that these sellers are not liable to anything. 

So they say whatever they must to overcome your objections and make the sale. Even the Amazon reviews that you're grown to trust are 95% fake.

pvc lesbian double dildo to avoid example

Watch out.

Specialized sex shops at least have a brand to worry about so if they host non-body safe toys they need to indicate the true material.

But Amazon sellers don't care at all. If they get too much bad rep, they simply open a new account.

All is not lost though.

While admittedly there are a lot more bad quality material double dildos, there are quite a bit affordable high-quality silicone double dildos too.

Read on:


What Are The Best Silicone Double Dildos Out There? (Side-by-Side Comparison Chart)

Here's a chart, but few notes before you dive into it:

best double headed dildo comparison chart

First of all, there are only body-safe silicone options here. 

Pay attention to firmness levels, girth and length. 

The chart is not very complicated as the dildos themselves are pretty straightforward.


Here's a quick overview of each double dildo and why it made to the chart:

  • Silicone Curved 10" ($17) — this dildo pretty much allows only one position sitting next to each other, but fun for the vagina to vagina action. It's 10" in length, not too bendy, but it's very affordable.
  • Bondara 12" Double ($23) (⭐ Budget Pick) — a great beginner choice as dildos have different diameter ends that are still slim — 1.11" — 1.27". For 12" length and $23 price it's a no brainer.
  • Fantastic Filler ($52) — this is a lot longer (16") double dildo that has different diameter ends, ridged texture, but is too firm for some. It comes only in black color.
  • Dorcel Double Do ($56) — This double dildo has 16.5" length and manageable 1.5" diameter, but even if material feels soft there isn't too much give so it might be too firm for some couples.
  • Blush Ruse ($50) (⭐ Our Pick) — the longer the dildo the more comfort and positions you'll be able to explore. This is our favorite choice because of price, quality, and length (18"). Hands down the best bang for the buck and material has quite a bit of “give”.
  • Vixskin PeaceMaker ($120)(⭐ Upgrade Pick) — this is a heavy-duty strapless strapon that has the softest, yet the most realistic texture. It's the only dual-density double ended dildo we know of. Total length is 13", but keep in mind that the main end is 2" in diameter. Not quite for beginners.
  • Fun Factory Share ($106) — Another popular strapon alternative. It's single density, but still material feels soft and comfy. The holding bulb is quite big, but once inserted it feels very good. Keep in mind that with strapless strapon you'll still need to get a good harness if you want to be able to comfortably hold the toy in.
  • Double O Heaven ($40) — this is a fun DP toy that's great for masturbation and thrusting in both holes at the same time. It even has added vibrator which is quite buzzy, but a very exciting toy nevertheless. A great deal for the price.

Alright, here's the chart again for your deep dive.

best double headed dildo comparison chart

Check the original spreadsheet here.

Now let’s explore each sex toy deeper:


The Most Affordable & Cost-Effective Silicone Double Dongs 

This is the main focus on the guide as we want to show that you don't need to compromise safety. 

There are affordable silicone double dildos out there.

Strapless strapons are great too, but they require a lot bigger upfront investment (+ comfortable harness). 

But if you want to simply try how it feels to share a toy and both have pleasure at the same time…

…a long, flexible and simple double dildo will do a great job for a price.

So here are the four best options:

affordable silicone double dildos compared

Bondara 12" Slim Double Dildo ($23) (⭐ Budget Pick)

You won't anything better for this price.

A great starting double dildo to test the waters. It's slim enough and long enough to experience double penetration for the first time.

12 inch slim long double dildo

There isn't much to add. The material itself is very flexible, and while you will benefit from extra inches in length, 12" is a good starting point.


Fantastic Filler 16" Textured Double Dildo ($52)

This is another Bondara DP sex toy, just slightly longer and girthier.

16 inch silicone double sided dildo from bondara

It has 16" total length and both ends have different diameters. One side has 1.27" and the other is 1.6".

While the dildo itself is bendy and flexible, it could be softer.

It feels soft but doesn't have much give. 

There is also quite a bit of texture going on. 

Some prefer as smooth dildo as possible, some love ridges.


Dorcel 16" Double-Sided Dildo ($56)

Dorcel double dildo comes in black and pink colors and is slightly more firm, but gets more flexible after some use.

dorcel double sided dp dildo

While the biggest diameter is 1.5" know that each side is a little different size.

Both heads are nicely defined and there is a little texture (veins) on this DP dildo that some love, but others find overstimulating.

Check this video review to see how dildo looks and feels in real life:


Blush Ruse 18" Double Headed Dildo ($50) (⭐ Our Pick)

Blush Novelties Ruse dildo is our top pick because you get the biggest length for the best price.

blush rose 18 inch double dong

By default this double dildo is U shaped which helps with G or P-spot targeting when using it with a partner.

Ruse comes in four colors: pink, black, red and purple, and has slight ridges on it.

This dildo is quite flexible and 1.5" diameter might require some stretching, but it's pretty much average penis/dildo girth size.

But if you're new to anal play, it may be too much, or you may require a good butt plug to warm up first.

Check this video to see how this dildo looks in real life:


Lesbian Double Dildo: 10" Curved Silicone Dildo ($17)

You can clearly notice how if the toy is smaller it's cheaper. 

A simple explanation is that the bigger the toy gets, the more material it takes and quality silicone isn't that cheap.

lesbian double dildo sex toy

We call it lesbian dildo because it is only 10" in length and isn't very flexible.

This toy will be the easiest to use by two ladies in a comfy scissoring position.

silicone curved double dildo specs

The curve gives nice G-spot targeting and ridges offer additional stimulation.


Double Headed Dildos For Him & Her: Strapless Strapons

If you're looking for a proper pegging action, you're looking for a strapless strapon that's sometimes is also called a double dildo.

This is just a quick look in the biggest insertable strapons, but if you want a deep dive into the best harnesses, strapon dildos, and how strapless are different read our pegging strapon sex toy guide.

Even though these strapless dildos CAN be used standalone, they are best used with a harness. 

best harnesses for double headed dildo

The most comfortable harness is Spareparts Joque, but if you want more choices read the strapon harness guide.


Alright, to the strapless strapon dildos:

VixSkin Peacemaker and Fun Factory Share have the biggest insertable ends, which technically qualifies them as double penetration dildos.

These can be only worn by women though, so only pegging or lesbian action is possible.

best double dildos strapless strapons on chart

Vixskin PeaceMaker Realistic Double Sided Dildo($120) (⭐ Upgrade Pick)

PeaceMaker is the latest strapless strapon creation by Vixen and by far the best one.

Yes, it's pricey, but it's made using their incredibly realistic dual-density silicone.

vixen peacemaker realistic double ended dildo for pegging

Their previous models Nexus Senior / Junior are the same shape and size, but they are single density which makes them a lot more painful to wear over the long term.

However, dual-density means that you get a firm core and a soft, squishy outer layer. It feels really comfortable and realistic.

I need to mention though that the other end is no joke — it's 6.5" insertable length and 2" diameter. 5.25" is the other end.

The average penis size is around 1.5" diameter. If you take this anally it will take quite a bit of warming up.

Here's a funny and helpful video review to see this dildo in action:


Fun Factory Share DP Dildo ($106)

Fun Factory is a bit more manageable double-sided dildo as it's the girthiest diameter reaches only 1.4" (Peacemaker was 2").

It's not as squishy as Peacemaker, but Share still is super smooth to touch and feels soft even as a single density silicone dildo.

fun factory share dp dildo for pegging

The “holding” bulb is quite big but when inserted those ridges feel really good.

Vaginal insertion, after all, is a lot more friendly to girth than a backdoor.

As always, make sure you use it with a harness, and apply the lube generously.

Too little lube is often the main reason why DP penetration can be unsuccessful.

If you're interested in vibrations there is also a vibrating rechargeable ShareVibe model available at $130.

Oh, and on Shevibe store there are more different color models available, if you want something like pink, purple (even more colors for ShareVibe)

Here's a handy video showing how flexible the dildo is:


Vibrating Double Dildo For Vaginal + Ass Penetration

For ladies who love double penetration and especially the thrusting action in both holes at the same time, this toy is a solution.

vibrating double penetration dildo

Butt plugs are awesome, but the trouble is the multitasking if she enjoys the sliding in/out part.

This is a fun double dildo called Double O Heaven ($40) has one bigger dildo (3.75" insertable, 1.4" diameter) and under it another smaller one (4.5" insertable, 1" diameter). 

Dildos themselves are soft and bendy.

double penetration toy for anal and vaginal sex

On top of that, you get a buzzy vibrator that has 3 speeds and 7 patterns (powered with 2 AAA batteries not included). 

Don't expect high-quality rumbly vibrations, but it's a fun extra.

Here's a helpful video showing how this double penetration dildo looks in real life:


FAQ: How To Use Double Dildo & Best Positions

Logistics might be a little hard to get at first with double dildos but here are few tips to get you started.

First, let's start with obvious:

  • Don't switch the holes — Nothing that goes in anal should go into the vagina. Also, watch out for any liquids (lube) from ass accidentally moving there. Keep paper towels handy next to the bed as a precaution.
  • Give enough time for preparation — everything is more pleasurable when you're aroused. Vagina opens up more, and anal stretching feels a lot better. Take it slow, especially with anything anally.
  • Lube it up generously — make sliding in/out effortless with a good lube. The most recommended is Sliquid Sassy hybrid water-based lube that is safe to use with silicone toys and is thick enough for anal play. Alternatively, consider unrefined coconut oil, just keep in mind that it doesn't play well with most condoms.
  • Clean carefully after every use — antibacterial soap + boiling silicone toy for a few minutes will kill all the bacteria. Alternatively, simply use hot water + the soap and that should do the job. Cleaning is especially important when you're sharing the toy with your partner.
best lube for silicone double dildo

There are plenty of fun positions and ways to use double dildo:

  •  Lay on your backs with butts close together — As a hetero couple chances are that you already enjoy pegging. It's fun for her to start with vaginal thrusting, while the man is taking the same dildo anally.
  • Doggy style except with bums together — both of you are on all fours while reaching back to help guide the double dildo competing who's gonna take more of the dildo 
  • Check the porn for ideas — that's the one place where you'll get the most visual ideas on how to double dildos can be used. With a bendy dildo, lady can use both ends herself or even reach her mouth with it. Just search on your favorite adult site “double dildo” and you'll get plenty of ideas.

Embrace the awkwardness and slow speed in the beginning. 

It's gonna take some time to get a hang off it, but it's a refreshingly fun process compared to traditional intercourse.

Here are a few tips on how to use double dildo:

  • let one person start first — if you both try to insert at the same time you'll experience the dong slipping out too much. Best to get the insertion first by her vaginally, for example, then let the partner work on it. Later you can have thrusting fun.
  • hold the toy in the middle — if you don't hold the toy you'll experience that one person gets a lot of thrusting while the second person just serves as a point of stability. However, if you hold the dildo in the middle, you both can trust. This is why it's a good idea to get a longer dildo (18" is the best).
  • give more time anally as the vagina will stretch a lot more quickly. 

Double dildos are fun for masturbation or as a warmup. 

Later you can upgrade to pegging toys, get the harness and give each other a good fucking session.


Bringing It All Together

examples how to use double dildo

Our recommendation is to start with slim, long double dong, and then if you really like the double fun upgrade to strapless strapons or explore more pegging toys.

The longer double dildo you get the more positions you'll be able to explore comfortable, which is why our top recommendation was 18" dildo.

Have fun, embrace the slow speed and awkwardness and you'll have some intense shared pleasure!

Cheers!

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