Double The Pleasure With The 5 Best Strapless Strap On Of 2020

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Make sure you and your partner are satisfied by using the best strapless strap on.

Strap up and get ready for some double action fun in this detailed guide.

best strapless dildo guide

Note: This article is written by a guest author Demeter deLune.

Only few things can be sexier than a woman wearing a strapless strap-on…

No straps, skin to skin connection…woah!!

My first experience with a strapless strap-on was empowering AF. Being able to wield my own cock and penetrate my partner without boundaries is an experience I’ll never forget.

Strap-ons don’t just add another layer of complexity to the woman to woman fucking. They can also be used by advanced practitioners for pegging. 

If this is your first foray into the world of pegging, I highly recommend using a traditional strapless strap-on dildo for ease of use. 

Don’t get me wrong, it feels sexy to swing your sword around without the help. But the reality is, adding a harness just increases the fun.

You lose the worries and anxiety and can concentrate on the best parts. 

But don’t worry, I’ve done all the research for you and have found the five strapless strap-ons for all your needs!


Top 5 Strapless Strap Ons At a Glance

Here’s a quick view at all the strapless strap-ons that I’ll cover:

  1. Best Overall Strapless Strap-On: Fun Factory Sharevibe
  2. Most Realistic Strapless Strap-On: Vixen Peacemaker
  3. Most Pleasurable Strapless Strap-On: Fuze Tango
  4. Best Budget Strapless Strap-On: Strap U Revolver
  5. Top Strapless Strap-On For Lesbians: Tantus Feeldoe Classic

Best Strapless Strapon That Are Available Today

Fun Factory Sharevibe strapless dildo

1. Fun Factory Sharevibe

The best strapless strap-on overall

Material: Silicone | Wearer Insertable Length: 3.5 inches | Strapless Strap-on Dildo Length: 5.5 inches | Total Length: 11” 

  • Flexible
  • USB rechargeable bullet
  • Waterproof
  • Several color options
  • Attracts dust heavily

Fun Factory Sharevibe is our #1 suggestion for various reasons. It has great size, the ending of these strap-on dildos are smooth, making it suitable for anal beginners.

It is very easy to use, but its slim design may not have enough girth for those not using it for anal penetration.

Fun Factory sex toys come in three colors and are made of buttery soft silicone. You’ll love the way it looks and feels.

ShareVibe also comes with a removable bullet that has 5 different settings.

It is not as strong as the WeVibe that I mention further on nor does it have faster vibration speed, but it surely does the job of a vibrating strapless on both ends.

But where this sex toy shines is its g-spot stimulation (no remote control needed).

The short shaft hugs the body and is easy to grip for the wearer. The shape of the bulb puts pressure exactly where it belongs giving you maximum g-spot stimulation.

It should be illegal for a sex toy to feel this good.

Add vibration modes, add ridges for clit stimulation (even without bunny ears), and you might not want to share!

Fun Factory also has a cheaper option without a vibe, the Share. With a thicker diameter and longer insertable length, some users find the bulb a bit too big.

In my experience, adding lots of water-based lube and a helping hand from your partner makes inserting the bulb way more pleasurable and fun!

So if you’re ready for intense g-spot stimulation, this sex toy is a must.


2. Vixen Peacemaker

The Most Realistic Strapless Strap-On

Material: Silicone | Wearer Insertable Length: 5.25 inches | Strapless Strap-on Dildo Length: 6.5 inches | Total Length: 13” 

  • Dual density
  • Waterproof
  • Several color options
  • Might be too thick for receiver
  • Does not vibrate

PeaceMaker is the latest strapless strap-on creation by Vixen, made using their incredibly realistic dual-density silicone.

Their previous models Nexus Senior / Junior are the same shape and size but the single-density silicone makes them much less comfortable to wear over the long term.

Dual-density means that you get a firm core and a soft, squishy outer layer. It feels really comfortable and realistic not to mention the looks! 

Out of all the toys on this list, PeaceMaker has the most insertable length for the wearer. I need to warn you though!

The other end is no joke either — these strap-on dildos are 6.5 inches long with a 2” diameter. Just so you know – the average penis size is around 1.5 inches in diameter.

If you take this anally, it will take quite a bit of warming up.

Technically, it is not meant to be used for pegging without a harness, so pairing it with one will give you more comfort and stability.

It’s a great choice if you enjoy larger strap-on dildos and are looking for the most realistic products out there.

There’s no vibe function, but you can always add a vibrating cock ring to make this a vibrating strapless!


Fuze Tango & We-Vibe Tango

3. Fuze Tango

The most pleasurable strapless strap-on

Material: Silicone | Wearer Insertable Length: 4.5 inches | Strapless Strap-on Dildo Length: 6.75 inches | Total Length: 12” 

  • Super soft and comfy
  • Several color options
  • Can be paired with We-Vibe
  • Pricey

Paired with the best-rated bullet vibrator on the market, We-Vibe Tango, the Fuze Tango takes the cake.

This is the priciest combo we reviewed, but believe me this vibe is a game-changer to the strap-on play.

Many strap-ons come with a bullet vibrator but…

Sometimes you might discover that vibrations don’t spread well through the strapless toy leaving the receiver without that extra joy – not enough vibration speed.

This won’t be the case with Fuze & WeVibe Tango.

Earthquakes have nothing on the vibration modes you’ll get from this powerful combination!

And… you can always use those two separately (they don’t come with a remote control)!

Note,

This strapless dildo is longer than the average penis, so make sure to take things slow.

But, the material (pure platinum silicone) is soft to the touch and comfy. Combined with the medium firmness it gives the Fuze Tango that almost real feeling.

If the price is a deal-breaker I suggest you pick the ShareVibe instead. And if not – grab the vibe-graded version of Fuze Tango – you won’t be disappointed.

There is a reason why those are two of the best-rated adult toys on the market

And after all, it takes two to Tango!


Strap U Revolver

4. Strap U Revolver

The best budget strapless strap-on

Material: Plastic | Wearer Insertable Length: 4.5” | Strapless Dildo Length: 6” | Total Length: 12” 

  • Inexpensive
  • Plastic material
  • Picks up lint easily
  • Does not accommodate a vibe

Silicone is the way to go when it comes to insertable sex toys, but when you’re testing the waters of strapless strap-on play, you can’t beat the price of the Strap U Revolver.

This toy is the most inexpensive of its kind on the market at $45.

Initially appearing intimidating, this strapless strap-on is smaller than it looks, so don’t let that scare you. 

Strap U Revolver is firm yet (surprisingly!) flexible, and its smooth surface feels great for both partners when coupled with lots of lube.

Unfortunately, it does not come with a vibe, nor can you add one, but you could always add a vibrating cock ring to amp up your pleasure making it a vibrating strapless strap on.

Keep in mind, this strapless toy is made out of plastic – a porous material, so you can not sanitize it.

Honestly, you should not expect much from a toy in this price range – good, long-lasting sex toys cost at least $100.

But for those on a budget, it will be a wonderful way to try out the world of strap-on play without breaking the bank!


Tantus Feeldoe Classic

5. Tantus Feeldoe Classic

The best strapless strap-on for lesbians

Material: Silicone | Wearer Insertable Length: 2.5” | Strapless Dildo Length: 6” | Total Length: 11” 

  • Waterproof
  • Several color options
  • Inadequate vibe

The Tantus Feeldoe Classic is the leader in strapless strap-ons for lesbian lovers. It was originally created for women-to-women fun, so it fits well with the female anatomy.

Since its original purpose didn’t include pegging, the material might be too firm for some.

So, you will need to be careful with the angle and the sex positions you choose (missionary will be much better than doggy).

Otherwise, the premium silicone gives you a realistic feeling with a solid core. 

Feeldoe also comes with a vibe. It is inserted at an odd angle behind the bulb, which doesn’t allow vibrations to flow through the toy very well.

Blame the rather inflexible material for this, but this very same feature and these strapless dildos curve make the toy great for lesbian strap-on sex

Be sure to take a moment to wear it around before playing, as it’s rather heavy!

Tantus also offers two other size options:

  • Feeldoe Slim has thinner strapless dildos (1.25 inches) with a length of 5.5 inches, and an insertable length of 2.5”, for those who prefer smaller sizes. 
  • Or, a much more realistic version – the Feeldoe Real, which brings the receiver 6” of length and 1.6” in girth with 2.5” of length for the giver.

Frequently Asked Questions

How Does A Strapless Strap On Work?

Strapless strap-ons work through their design – a strapless dildo on one end and a bulb on the other.

The bulb end is for the giver, meant to be inserted in her vagina and theoretically held in place with pelvic floor muscles (PC muscles).

The strapless dildo end…

Well, it’s up to you and your partner where you put that! 😉

Why Go Strapless with Strap ons?

You should go with strapless strap ons because they give you an excellent opportunity to try something new without bringing in a new person to your relationship.

Aesthetics and comfort play a big role too. A strapless strap-on provides fun and excitement without the hassle of straps, buckles, and an uncomfortable O-ring pressing into your partner’s body.

It also brings feedback to the wearer and fills both sides with intimacy and pleasure. Imagine taking off while thrusting your significant other!

Yes, that is absolutely possible (unless the bulb slips out!).

Where To Purchase Your Strapless Strap On?

There are reliable online stores where you can get a strapless strap on toy of great quality.

Purchasing a new sex toy is an exciting experience and can be a lot of fun to do in person. If you don’t have a local sex shop closeby, don’t be discouraged.

Amazon offers everything under the sun, including sex toys. However, in my experience, a lot of fake products are offered there so many times you can’t be sure of the quality.

I recommend you go directly to the manufacturer (like FunFactory or Tantus), or trusted sex toy companies, such as Lovehoney (Lovehoney Double Delight Adjustable is pretty popular), or SheVibe to complete your purchase.

Kegel Muscles Versus Harnesses

Theoretically, the stronger the PC muscles, the easier it will be to keep the toy in place. In my experience, this isn’t completely accurate. 

When you’re thrusting away at your partner in the throes of passion, the last thing you want to do is concentrate on holding a toy inside yourself.

Now:

We should all strengthen our kegel muscles. They help us have stronger orgasms and keep our pelvic muscles functioning properly.1 But that alone won’t win a battle with gravity.

In reality, it will be hard (if not impossible) to go completely harness free in most sex positions. So don’t despair if you can’t keep these toys in place with your kegel muscles.

Even ladies reporting kegel muscles of steel have difficulty when things get wild!

So what can you do?

There are few positions that will work great with strapless strap-ons.

You can always lie on your back and have your partner ride you in the cowgirl position, or lie on your side and penetrate your partner from behind.

Both of these positions aren’t taxing on your kegel muscles.

Another option is to pair your strapless strap-on with an O-ring harness.

This adds a level of control (you wouldn’t have otherwise) and lets you enjoy the experience, no matter the position you get into. 

We definitely recommended using one if you plan to indulge in pegging. The anal sphincter muscles will push against whatever you’re inserting.

It’s their job! So it will be much easier to penetrate your partner’s but with the support of a harness.

If you don’t own a harness, you can try making your own or fashion one out of a pair of pantyhose, by simply cutting a hole in the front.

If DIY isn’t your strength, check out our selection of the best harnesses for your strap-on!


Size Options for Your Strapless Strap-on

The size will make or break your experience. Purchase a toy that’s too big, and you’ll never use it. Buy one that’s too small and you’ll be disappointed. You want it to be just right!

The insertable end for the wearer usually has a similar girth. What’s different is the length and the curve.

Think of your favorite strapless dildos and go smaller! Remember, it’ll be inserted for a long time, so you want to be comfortable. 

On top of that,

Two toys might feel very different, even when the girth of the bulb is the same, due to the material they are made of.

Some strap-ons (like the dual-density PeaceMaker) have squish on the outer surface, so they feel less bulky. Others are a lot firmer, like the Feeldoe.

Material matters just as much as size.

And that’s just one side of the strap-on…

Your toy has a strapless dildo on the other end which comes in a variety of lengths and diameters.

So it comes down to what your partner likes and is capable of handling. Choose the shape of strapless dildos that will fit your needs best.

For example, if you plan on mainly using your strap-on for pegging, a softer and smoother ending (think ShareVibe), will work better than a curved one.

Remember, a strapless strap-on is a toy you’ll share with your partner, so take your time and talk it through to get the best of both… ends.


The Look and Feel of Your Strapless Strap-On

How a product looks is important, but the material it’s made of means even more. Body-safe silicone is the best material for a sex toy.

It feels amazing on your skin and can be easily sanitized. 

These come in a variety of shapes and styles. Dual-density silicone provides a fantastic feel, but be aware, it’s very soft and can cause some slippage issues.

A toy made from plastic may be good to test the waters, but I don’t recommend these as a long-term use item, nor as a toy to share with multiple partners.

Plastic is a porous material and can not be sanitized.


How to Use Your Strapless Strap-on

So, how do you use it? 

If you are a strap-on virgin, make sure to wear it around before playing, this will help you adjust to the feeling of having an actual cock.

Make sure you always use water-based lubricant with your silicone toys for a no drag, slippery experience. Wetter is better!

Thrusting requires you to work the muscles in a way you might have never used them before!

So once the playtime starts, make sure to be patient with yourself and take things slow. 

Remember, gravity is not your friend when it comes to a strapless strap-on!

You can have your partner you in a cowgirl position or you can go into spooning, and the strap-on will stay in place. 

This is the fun part, so try not to worry too much. Any new sexual experience is all about learning what works best for your sex life.

Need a little more help? Check out this quick video below.


Conclusion

Now you have everything you need to make an informed decision when it comes to the best strapless strap on.

The only thing left to do is go out and enjoy your newest sex toy with gusto! 

Adding a new way of playing to your bedroom should be exciting and enjoyable. Don’t stress about the mechanics of it all.

Take your time and the good oohs and ahhs will come on their own!

About author: Demeter deLune is a sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time.

Footnotes

  1. Mayo Clinic Staff (2018). Kegel exercises: A how-to guide for women
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