10 Best Sex Toys For Small Penis [2021]: Masturbators, Extenders & Autostrokers

Discover the best sex toys for small penis whether you’re looking for masturbator, auto stroker, cock ring, or vibrator – we review them all here:

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Most sex toys are marketed towards the average man, which can leave smaller guys feeling a little left out. 🤷🏻‍♂️

While I am average sized, I’ve tested lots of toys over the years. Some were too tight. Then I noticed some auto-strokers that have great adjustability on stroke length.

On top of that, I’ve turned over every stone online (17 hours in research), talked to a few of my sexpert and toy-maker friends to uncover toys that WILL WORK for smaller guys.

We’ve filtered this list to only include 10 best sex toys for a small penis – some will help you enjoy your private time more, some will make you feel like a proud badass in bed with your special someone. 

But if you’re strapped for time, here is a quick review of our Top 3 Picks:

Best for Couples

If she wants more of you in a bed, Calexotics PPA with Jock Strap Penis Extender will do the job. Thanks to the harness, it stays on no matter how hard you thrust. It is also affordable and made from body-safe, easy to clean material — silicone.

Most Realistic Masturbator for Small Penises

Choose Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu’s masturbator if you’re looking for a whole new level of realism that has a nice texture close to the entry (unlike many Fleshlights). On top of it its soft material that feels so real, it’s squishy, allowing you to squeeze the toy to adjust the tightness.

Best Autostroker for Small Penises

We saved the baddest toy for last – Kiiroo Keon is the best auto stroker PERIOD, but it also works great for small penis owners. Why? Because you can adjust stroke length to quick/fast strokes. On top of it, when you put some pillows on the sides of the toy, you can use it hands-free. You’ll need to find the right tight sleeve with it too (but I’ve done that research too already).


Top 3 Sex Toys for Small Penis in 2021

Calexotics Silicone Hollow Strap-On Dildo

Calexotics PPA with Jock Strap Penis Extender

4.6/5

Price: $$
Type: Extender
Size: 6.5 in x 5 in
Material: Silicone
Reusable? Yes

Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu

Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu’s

4.8/5

Price: $$
Type: Masturbator
Size: 6.5 in x 4 in
Material: TPE
Reusable? Yes

Kiiroo Keon

Kiiroo Keon

4.7/5

Price: $$$
Type: Autostroker
Size: 11.1 in x 8.3 in 
Material: TPE (sleeve), ABS + PC plastics (machine)
Reusable? Yes


The Best Toys To Use Solo

Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu’s

1. Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu’s

Best for realism

Price: $$ | Type: Masturbator (sleeve) | Insertable Length: 5 in | Material: TPE | Reusable: Yes

  • Super realistic
  • Tight and ultra-soft
  • Texture doesn’t change much so you don’t miss anything further in
  • Not very durable
  • Not so easy to clean

If you’re smaller than average and looking for an ideal masturbator, look no further. Named after one of China’s most famous nude models, this onahole is extra tight and has incredible detailing on the inside. 

You’ll adore the extended g-spot feature, which rubs against the head for added stimulation. 

It feels different from different positions in a way that reminds you of real sex like no Fleshlight I’ve ever seen.

And best of all, because the outside is so squishy, you can squeeze it for added tightness. 

It’s not the easiest to keep clean and dry since you can’t turn it inside out, but for the perfect blend of realism and tight fit, this is your best bet. 


Fleshlight Flight Pilot

2. Fleshlight Flight Pilot

Best Fleshlight for small penis

Price: $$ | Type: Masturbator (sleeve) | Insertable Length: 6 in | Material: TPE | Reusable: Yes

  • Intense textures
  • Twist base to adjust suction
  • Best textures near the entrance
  • Clear plastic gets sticky

On the other end of the realism spectrum, we have this offering from Fleshlight. It’s non-anatomical and has adjustable suction thanks to the twisting end. 

Best of all, the Flight Pilot has a great variety of textures, ridges and bumps packed into a short length, so you’ll never get bored of the pattern. 

The first 4 inches have the best textures in this sleeve, so you’re not missing anything like with some of the full-size Fleshlights (why put the good stuff 8 inches in anyways?!).

You will appreciate the tightness of the opening and narrow channels that are sure to bring a smile to even the slimmest of gentlemen. 


Tenga Onacup

3. Tenga Onacup

Best affordable masturbator

Price: $ | Type: Masturbator (sleeve) | Insertable Length: 5 in | Material: TPE | Reusable: No

  • Deep sucking sensation
  • Smooth texture, strong feeling
  • Great value for money
  • Not very durable

The Onacup is basically a non-anatomical Fleshlight, but even softer on the inside. 

It’s clingy, but not a death-grip by any measure. So while it doesn’t look realistic, it really feels like a lovely soft blowjob. 

The inner texture is incredible – delicate yet intense, with suction you would expect from a blowjob machine (or a vacuum cleaner!).

To be honest, I think this is one of the fastest climaxes I’ve had with a stroker. It was so intense I was done in about a minute. 

Tenga say that the Onacup is designed to be single-use, but if you don’t stroke too hard and keep it clean it will last for much longer. Wearing a condom also helps with hygiene, even if it’s not as fun.

At this price, you won’t do much better than the Onacup. 


Tenga Egg

4. Tenga Egg

Best for micropenises

Price: $ (Solo), $$ (Pack) | Type: Masturbator (sleeve) | Insertable Length: 2.5 in | Material: Silicone | Reusable: Yes

  • Super soft and stretchy
  • Easy to move around
  • Small, discreet and portable
  • Technically single-use so won’t last very long

At just 2.5 inches, the Tenga egg is the smallest item on this list. 

It’s cute and innovative – you simply crack open the outside shell casing and get in there! 

The Tenga Egg is meant to be single-use but you can turn it inside out and wash thoroughly for multiple uses.

Eggs come in a range of different textures, but they all use the same ultra-soft material that can be squeezed and twisted however you want. It’s like your hand, but better. 

The material is very delicate and porous so don’t expect to be using one for more than a month. 

With 18 different internal textures to try, though, the Tenga Egg is undoubtedly a great choice for any micropenis owners out there. 

And if you’re not sure about masturbators in general, it’s a cheap way to dip your toe in and test it out. 


Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

5. Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

Best for targeted stimulation

Price: $$ | Type: Masturbator (vibrating) | Size: 4.6 in x 2.6 in | Material: Silicone | Reusable: Yes

  • Powerful frenulum vibrations
  • Works either hard or soft
  • Easy-to-clean silicone design
  • Not a good stroker for smaller penises
  • Long charging time

If you don’t fancy a stroker, here’s something that might be even better. 

Easily the coolest-looking toy on this list, the Pulse Solo Essential delivers intense vibrations directly onto the frenulum thanks to their PulsePlate technology. 

It can be used when flaccid or erect and with or without lube, so there are plenty of options when you want to try something new. 

The Pulse is made of high-quality silicone and is completely waterproof, so you can even take it in the bath or shower! 

Because it’s vibration-based and not a stroker the Pulse’s design means any size of the penis can enjoy those luscious vibrations.


Kiiroo Keon

6. Kiiroo Keon

Best auto stroker for small penises

Price: $$$ | Type: Autostroker | Size: 7.8 in x 3.3 in (stroker), 11.1 in x 8.3 in (machine) | Material: Silicone, ABS, PC | Stroke Speed: Up to 230/min 

  • Well made blowjob machine that works!
  • Adjustable depth and speed for any size
  • Interactive mode is cool
  • Pretty expensive
  • Big and clunky – no good for travel

The future of masturbation is here, and it looks bright for penises of all shapes and sizes. 

Boasting manual and interactive modes (that’s right, you can sync it up to your favorite porn or even webcam with a partner), the Kiiroo Keon is the best auto stroker you’ll find for small penises. 

It has 4 stroke length settings, going all the way down to 0.8 inches per stroke. That means small members will have plenty to enjoy with the Keon. 

It’s very well made and should last for years if maintained properly. The sleeve is TPE so make sure to clean it thoroughly just like a Fleshlight, but everything else is durable and long-lasting. 

In short, this is the best auto stroker, hands down. It’s not cheap, but it’s worth the price for any penis. 


The Best Toys For Couple’s Play

Sex isn’t all about penetration, obviously. But if you want to add some extra dimensions to your love life, why not try one of these additions:

Calexotics PPA with Jock Strap

7. Calexotics PPA with Jock Strap

Best hollow strap-on for ease of use

Price: $$ | Type: Penis Extender | Size: 7” x 2” (6” circumference) | Material: Silicone (dildo), elastic (harness) | Flexible?: Yes

  • Secure fit
  • Firm head
  • Comfortable strap
  • Not textured
  • A bit draggy

There’s a bit of a trade-off with penis extenders. On the one hand, you lose some of the friction of rubbing skin against skin. 

But on the other hand, there’s a nice feeling of pressure when you’re wearing it, not to mention the pleasure you get from watching your partner being filled up! 

This strap-on extender fits comfortably over the penis, giving you some extra inches in both length and girth. 

The harness ensures that it stays on in use no matter how hard you thrust, so it’s perfect if you like your sex on the wilder side. 

Just make sure you use extra lube – the smooth silicone drags if you don’t use enough. Something to keep in mind for all penis extenders, actually. 

But since it’s made of silicone, cleaning it is a breeze. 

Overall this is a simple penis extender that does its job and is super easy to use. A great first extender for any couple who want it a bit bigger. 


Blush Performance Plus

8. Blush Performance Plus

Best for size

Price: $$ | Type: Penis extender | Size: 10 in x 6 in (total), 7.25 in insertable | Material: Silicone | Flexible?: Yes

  • Realistic look
  • Internal suction
  • Ribbed inside sheath for extra sensation
  • Maybe too flexible

It can be hard to find good quality penis extenders. Many of them are poorly made out of low-quality TPE. 

Some of them don’t stay on effectively because they’re not secured. 

And some of them are just waayyy too expensive. 

Enter… The Blush Performance Plus. 

It’s made of body-safe silicone, has a comfortable and snug ball strap to keep it in place, and it’s cheap!

The inside sleeve is soft and textured to give a pleasant sucking sensation when in use, while the outside is realistic and gives you 7.25 inches of length and an impressive 2 inches in diameter (about 6 in circumference). 

It feels close to a real penis during use, so it’s good for couples who want a more intimate feeling. 

Just remember to use plenty of lube both on the inside and the outside – like with most extenders, the silicone is pretty draggy on real skin. 


JeJoue Mio

9. JeJoue Mio

Best premium/luxury vibrating cock ring

Price: $$ | Type: Penis ring | Size: 1.25-2.25 inches | Material: Silicone | Reusable: Yes | Vibration?: Yes 

  • Broad clitoral stimulation
  • Surprisingly powerful
  • Stretchy and tight
  • Pricey

Size isn’t the most important thing. Just look at sex toys for women – they buy way more vibrators than giant dildos. And speaking of vibrating penises… 

With JeJoue’s Mio, you can do exactly that effectively and comfortably. 

The wide top and soft silicone mean it’s outstanding for clitoral vibrations. It has an amazing 25 different vibration modes (5 speeds times 5 patterns) so you’re guaranteed to find one that’s perfect for both of you. 

It’s good for smaller penises because it’s highly stretchy while also staying tight on your shaft, so it should stay on any girth. 

Basically, if you don’t mind paying top dollar for top quality, this is the ring for you!


 Silicone C-Ring By Tantus

10. Silicone C-Ring By Tantus

Best silicone c-ring under $10

Price: $ | Type: Penis ring | Size: 1.25-2.25” | Material: Silicone | Reusable: Yes | Vibration?: No 

  • Applies just the right amount of pressure
  • Easily fits around the balls
  • Body-safe silicone at a low price
  • (Is there a con if it’s just $10?)

If you just want a bigger, thicker erection or have trouble staying hard, then this body-safe silicone c-ring is perfect for you. 

It’s nothing fancy – basically just a seamless ring of elastic silicone – but sometimes that’s all you need. 

The silicone is very stretchy and applies even pressure, so it’s more reliable than rubber cock rings. 

At rest, the C-ring is 1.25 inches in diameter – a little smaller than average – but it’s so stretchy you can fit it over your balls no problem! 

It doesn’t do anything fancy, but a reliably stronger erection for under ten bucks is a bargain! 


What To Be Aware Of When Buying Toys For Small Penis

The main thing to look out for when buying suitable toys for smaller penises is size. 

When it comes to strokers, look at the textures. If the textures are towards the back of the sleeve, then you’re going to miss out on the best parts. 

Look for sleeves where the texture starts right away. Textures described as more intense are good, too – you can get the most feeling out of them without being overstimulated. 

If it’s loose, that can also be bad. However, there are ways to tighten a sleeve. For example, you can put rubber bands around it or just squeeze it with your hands. 

With any toy, the material it’s made out of is hugely important. 

Most sleeves and strokers are made out of TPE, which is a kind of soft and flexible plastic. 

It feels great on your skin, but it’s porous, which means it lets bacteria and mold in. 

So clean and dry your sleeves thoroughly AFTER EVERY USE. 

And even then, don’t expect them to last forever. 

If you want a longer-lasting toy, then find ones made of body-safe silicone. 

These are non-porous, usually more expensive, and will last for years without going bad as long as you follow the cleaning instructions. 


Different Types Of Sex Toys For Small Penis

There are several different types of sex toys that work great for small penises, such as:

Extenders

These are more for your partner’s benefit as they add size to your shaft. It’s important to find an extender that fits well and feels good for both partners.


Male vibrators 

These are used on the frenulum (or wherever you want) to provide stimulation and a unique way to orgasm. 

They’re great when used alone or with a partner, for example, foreplay or edging. 

What’s more, many male vibrators can be used when flaccid, so they are great for anyone with ED. 


Cock Rings

These keep blood from escaping the penis, resulting in longer, harder erections that don’t disappear so easily. 

Most of them are made of metal or elastic material such as silicone. It’s important to get one that fits and feels good when you’re wearing it. 

Some cock rings vibrate for added pleasure for both partners. 

IMPORTANT NOTE: never leave a cock ring on for long periods of time (like more than 30 minutes). It can affect the blood flow and cause bruising!


Masturbators

These are toys you penetrate and stroke yourself with. They’re most often used solo but can also spice things up in foreplay. 

They come in many different sizes and textures, so do your homework! Don’t pick out a stroker at random or you might waste your money. 


Autostrokers 

Usually, they come in two parts – the stroker, which we’ve just covered, and the machine that provides the motion. 

If you want a hands-free automated experience, then an autostroker is a good investment.

The technology is still fairly new, so you should only buy an autostroker from a company you trust (eg. Kiiroo or Fun Factory). Don’t throw away money on a cheap knock-off that breaks in five minutes. 


What Qualifies as a Small Penis?

When making this article, we considered a “small” penis as anything below average size. 

There’s a lot of debate about the exact average penis size, but it’s generally accepted that it’s roughly 5 inches (13 cm) long and 4.5 inches (12 cm) in girth fully erect. 

A micropenis is a medical term for any penis under 2.75 inches (7 cm) long when fully erect. Statistically, this only affects about 0.6% of men and is usually a symptom of another health condition. 

And even if you do have a micropenis, there are still plenty of ways for you to enjoy sex! Many of the toys on this list will work fine for you whatever your size. 


Conclusion

Navigating the world of sex toys can be a bit tricky if you’re smaller than average, but there’s still plenty of variety to help you get off. Have fun out there! 

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