21 Best Sex Toys For Small Penis [2023]: Masturbators, Extenders & Autostrokers

Discover the best sex toys for small penis whether you’re looking for a male masturbator, auto stroker, cock ring, or male vibrator – we review them all here:

Most sex toys are marketed towards the average man, which can leave smaller guys feeling a little left out. 🤷🏻‍♂️

While I am average sized, I’ve tested lots of penis toys over the years. Some were too tight. Then I noticed some auto-strokers that have great adjustability on stroke length.

On top of that, I’ve turned over every stone online (17 hours in research), talked to a few of my sexpert and toy-maker friends to uncover toys that WILL WORK for smaller guys.

We’ve filtered this list to only include 21 best sex toys for a small penis – some will help you enjoy your private time more, some will make you feel like a proud badass in bed with your special someone. 

But if you’re strapped for time, here is a quick review of our Top 3 Picks:

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Top Sex Toys for Small Penis in 2023

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Best Masturbators & Male Sex Toys To Use Solo

The future of masturbation is here, and it looks bright for penises of all shapes and sizes. 

Boasting manual and interactive modes (that’s right, you can sync it up to your favorite porn or even webcam with a partner), the Kiiroo Keon is the best auto stroker you’ll find for small penises. 

It has 4 stroke length settings, going all the way down to 0.8 inches per stroke.

That means small members will have plenty to enjoy with the Keon. 

It’s very well made and should last for years if maintained properly. The sleeve is TPE so make sure to clean it thoroughly just like a Fleshlight, but everything else is durable and long-lasting. 

In short, this is the best auto stroker, hands down. It’s not cheap, but it’s worth the price for any penis. 

If you want to know more details about the Keon, we have an in-depth Kiiroo Keon review you can check out.

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The Healthy Vibes Cheap Pocket Pussy is the perfect blend of REALISM and TIGHT FIT.

And surprisingly, it’s like Fleshlight and Tenga combined powers to create one of the most affordable, realistic male masturbators out there!

On the outside, it looks like a Tenga Cup with the unsuspecting look plus the low price. But, twist the cup, and a vaginal orifice welcomes you that’s as soft as real skin (think Fleshlight).

Insert your lubricated penis in, and you’ll feel all these crazy textures working your shaft. 

You can squeeze the cup to adjust the tightness. OR cover the air hole at the top with a finger to control the suction.

Once you’re done, remove the sleeve from the case. Rinse with warm water and soap. BAM!

With the low price and some of Fleshlight’s and Tenga’s best features, this pocket pussy is perfect for smaller-than-average guys looking for an affordable masturbator to play around with.

Looking for alternatives? Check out the best pocket pussy here.

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Fleshlight is the biggest name out there when it comes to strokers. But if the standard Fleshlights aren’t doing it for you, the Quickshot Vantage is the perfect alternative.

Don’t be fooled by its simple design. Not only is it small and lightweight – so you can take it anywhere with you, no questions asked – but it packs that classic Fleshlight punch when it comes to sheer sensation.

Apply some lube and insert your penis, and you’ll feel its realistic internal texture right away. It’s as soft as a real vagina, with the added bonus that you can squeeze and twist it whichever way you like.

For guys with smaller sizes, the Quickshot Vantage is ideal. You can squeeze it to match your size or even flip the canal (did I mention it’s open-ended?). 

And it’s easy to clean, too – thanks to that open-ended design, getting soap and water into the crevices is simple.

Sure, the open end means things can get a little messy. But trust me – it’s worth it.

Still curious about the Fleshlight Quickshot? Check out our in-depth review of the Fleshlight Quickshot Review.

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At just 2.5 inches, the Tenga egg is the smallest item on this list. 

It’s cute and innovative – you simply crack open the outside shell casing and get in there! 

The Tenga Egg is meant to be single-use but you can turn it inside out and wash thoroughly for multiple uses.

The material is very delicate and porous so don’t expect to be using one for more than a month. 

With 18 different internal textures to try, though, the Tenga Egg is undoubtedly a great choice for any micropenis owners out there. 

And if you’re not sure about penis masturbators in general, it’s a cheap way to dip your toe in and test it out.

Check out other great toys in our best Tenga egg guide.

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The Onacup is basically a non-anatomical Fleshlight, but even softer on the inside. 

It’s clingy, but not a death-grip by any measure. So while it doesn’t look realistic, it really feels like a lovely soft blowjob. 

The inner texture is incredible – delicate yet intense, with suction you would expect from a blowjob machine (or a vacuum cleaner!).

It was so intense I was done in about a minute. 

Tenga says that these penis sucking toys are designed to be single-use, but if you don’t stroke too hard and keep them clean, they will last much longer. Wearing a condom also helps with hygiene, even if it’s not as fun.

At this price, you won’t do much better than the Onacup. 

Interested to know more details about Tenga Deep Throat Onacup? Check out our Tenga deep throat onacup review. Consider checking the best Tenga sex toys in this review.

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If you’re not used to them, textured masturbation sleeves can be kind of overwhelming.

That’s where the Super Tight Sleeve really shines. It offers a winning combination for guys with smaller dicks: a tight canal and a totally smooth interior.

Like the Stamina Training Unit, this is a great way to build up your staying power while masturbating. The smooth interior texture feels incredible, but it won’t get you going too quickly. You can take your time getting used to the feeling before you move on to something more intense.

And with a canal diameter of just half an inch, it’s the perfect size for even the slimmest of guys. 

It may not be the most exciting Fleshlight out there, but if you’re after a slow, satisfying pleasure sesh? This is the toy for you.

Looking for something ultra-tight? Our tightest Fleshlights guide has your back.

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Like the other Fleshlight Girls on this list, the Janice Griffith Eden is modeled after Janice herself. It’s amazingly tight, so regardless of your girth, you’ll have a great time with Janice.

The textures inside are ultra-detailed for a super-intense experience. You’ll struggle to keep it together for long when using this toy – I know I did.

The textures vary as you get deeper in, which means shorter guys will miss out on some sensations. But from the very beginning, this toy is an experience. 

Trust me: you don’t need those deeper textures to have an amazing time.

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One of my personal favorite Fleshlight product lines is Fleshlight Girls – pocket pussies modeled after famous porn stars.

Whether or not you’re a fan of Elsa Jean’s work as a porn star, there’s lots to love about this unique stroker. From its realistic orifice to the texture of the canal, everything about it is totally unique.

Like all Fleshlights, it uses SuperSkin to create a realistic sensation when you insert your penis. Add in the suction control feature, and you’re guaranteed to have a good time with Elsa Jean.

But what’s special about the Elsa Jean Tasty is the range of textures inside the canal. 

The textures vary as you get deeper, so depending on your size, you may not get to experience them all. But smaller guys will be happy to know that the most intense textures are near the entrance – so you’ll get the most out of this toy regardless of your penis length.

If I had one complaint about Elsa Jean, it’s the noise. Things can get a little slurpy, so you may want to put on some music if you’re worried about being overheard.

But that’s a minor issue – and I had way better things on my mind while testing this particular toy.

Not sure Elsa Jean is for you? Our best Fleshlight Girls guide will help you find your perfect fit.

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On the other end of the realism spectrum, we have this offering from Fleshlight. It’s non-anatomical and has adjustable suction thanks to the twisting end. 

Best of all, the Flight Pilot has a great variety of textures, ridges and bumps packed into a short length, so you’ll never get bored of the pattern. 

The first 4 inches have the best textures in this sleeve, so you’re not missing anything like with some of the full-size Fleshlight sex toys (why put the good stuff 8 inches in anyways?!).

You will appreciate the tightness of the opening and narrow channels that are sure to bring a smile to even the slimmest of gentlemen. 

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.

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The Mini Lotus isn’t just a scaled-down version of the Lotus. They have a lot in common, sure – but the Mini is actually designed for smaller guys.

How can you tell? The Lotus Node, an extra-stimulating node inside the Mini Lotus’s canal, is positioned three inches deep in the Mini.

It’s the perfect depth for guys with smaller penises – it’s a guarantee you won’t miss out on any of the sensations this toy has to offer.

It’s also tight – so tight that bigger guys can’t use it comfortably. Even I struggled, and I’m pretty average.

Sure, it’s a bit of a pain to clean up after use. It also doesn’t come with a Fleshlight case as standard, so it looks a little weird on the outside.

But the inside? Totally worth it.

Want to learn more? Check out our in-depth Mini Lotus review here.

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If you don’t fancy a stroker, here’s something that might be even better. 

Easily the coolest-looking toy on this list, the Pulse Solo Essential delivers intense vibrations directly onto the frenulum thanks to their PulsePlate technology. 

It can be used when flaccid or erect and with or without lube, so there are PLENTY of options when you want to try something new. 

The Pulse is made of high-quality silicone and is completely waterproof, so you can even take it in the bath or shower! 

Because it’s vibration-based and not a stroker the Pulse’s design means any size of the penis can enjoy those luscious vibrations.

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.

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The STU is a Fleshlight with a purpose: boosting your staying power.

Everything about this masturbation sleeve is designed to help you last longer. The texture on the inside is the same all the way through, so you can get used to steady, long-term stimulation. And as a bonus, that means smaller guys won’t miss out on any special features further back in the canal.

You can even adjust the suction control, depending on what you can handle.

As masturbators go, it’s pretty straightforward. But that’s the whole point. This is the toy you use to train yourself up for more intense sensation later, and it doesn’t need to come with extra frills to show you a great time.

It does come with some options: you can choose between the STU Lady, Mouth, and Butt.

Want to know more? Check out our in-depth Fleshlight STU review.

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A vibrating Fleshlight? In 2023? It’s more likely than you think.

The Vibro Lady combines the soft, realistic feel of a Fleshlight with the satisfying sensations of a vibrator.

Do I even need to say anything else? Those are two amazing tastes that taste incredible together.

It uses three bullet vibrators to deliver a vibrating experience that envelops your whole penis. Plus, the textures are consistent all the way through, so shorter guys won’t miss anything.

The challenge of the Vibro is in setting it up. You need to turn on each bullet, insert them into the casing and then get the sleeve back inside the case. If that sounds like a lot of work, that’s because… well, it is.

And once you do get going, the casing muffles the vibrations quite a bit – they could definitely be a lot stronger for a better effect.

Still, if you’re willing to put the work in (and you don’t mind less intensive vibrations), this is an experience you won’t want to miss.

Want to learn more? Read our Vibro Lady in-depth review here.

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I’ve had a lot to say about sleeves that try to mimic a vagina on this list. But what about the BUTT?

Anal tends to feel tighter than vaginal sex, and the Riley Reid Euphoria is no exception. This realistic anal sleeve will GRIP you tightly. 

Plus, the textures repeat all the way along the length of the canal. So you don’t have to worry that you’re missing out, if you’re on the shorter side.

Euphoria may not be the most exciting masturbator, but it’s a top-tier option for guys who like it tighter – or who prefer it in the ass.

Check out our best anal Fleshlight guide for more anal simulators – or our Riley Reid review for more of Riley.

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Even if you’re not a Dillion Harper fan, it’s hard to deny how sexy this sleeve is. Like all the Fleshlight Girls, it’s ultra-realistic both inside and out.

And with 5 unique textures inside, one after the other, it’s one of the most versatile sleeves on this list. The deeper you get, the more sensation you’ll find.

Of course, shorter guys won’t be able to enjoy the full extent of this toy. But if you’re on the narrower side, you’ll love the surprisingly tight squeeze in the middle of the canal.

Learn more about the Fleshlight Girls in our best Fleshlight sleeve review!

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Watching yourself masturbate can be a surprising turn-on. And using a masturbation sleeve can make it impossible.

Enter the Fleshlight Go Torque Ice. 

It’s totally transparent, so you can watch yourself jerking off for the ultimate visual stimulation.

Penis-owners on the smaller side will get the most out of its ultra-textured, ultra-tight canal. Between the soft, textured interior and the fact that you get to watch? The Go Torque Ice will get you where you’re going in no time.

Curious about other transparent Fleshlight options? Read my review of the Fleshlight Ice Lady.

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The Best Toys For Couple’s Play

Sex isn’t all about penetration, obviously. But if you want to add some extra dimensions to your love life, why not try one of these additions:

We also have a standalone guide on the best couple sex toys money can buy.

Half the appeal of a penis extender is in the confidence it gives you. It can boost your self-image like nothing else, however you and your partner use it.

The Lovehoney Mega Mighty’s realistic look is a serious shot in the arm for self-esteem. It looks great when you’re wearing it – and the feeling of pressure is a nice bonus, too.

Your partner will love the extra length and girth the Mega Mighty can give you, as well as the satisfying texture of its surface.

But on the downside, it can be a little heavy to wear, and it can be a challenge to put on.

The Mega Mighty is a strong first choice of penis extender, if you’re trying to decide whether this sort of toy is right for you.

Curious about penis sleeves? Check out our best penis sleeve guide here!

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There’s a bit of a trade-off with penis extenders. On the one hand, you lose some of the friction of rubbing skin against skin. 

But on the other hand, there’s a nice feeling of pressure when you’re wearing it, not to mention the pleasure you get from watching your partner being filled up! 

This strap-on extender fits comfortably over the penis, giving you some extra inches in both length and girth. 

The harness ensures that it stays on in use no matter how HARD you thrust, so it’s perfect if you like your sex on the wilder side. 

Something to keep in mind for all penis extenders, actually. 

But since it’s made of silicone, cleaning it is a breeze. 

Overall this is a simple penis extender that does its job and is super easy to use. A great first extender for any couple who want it a bit bigger. 

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It can be hard to find good quality penis extenders. Many of them are poorly made out of low-quality TPE. 

Some of them don’t stay on effectively because they’re not secured. 

And some of them are just waayyy too expensive. 

Enter… The Blush Performance Plus. 

The inside sleeve is soft and textured to give a pleasant sucking sensation when in use, while the outside is realistic and gives you 7.25 inches of length and an impressive 2 inches in diameter (about 6 in circumference). 

It feels close to a real penis during use, so it’s good for couples who want a more intimate feeling. 

Just remember to use plenty of the best sex lubes both on the inside and the outside – like with most extenders, the silicone is pretty draggy on real skin. 

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Size isn’t the most important thing. Just look at sex toys for women – they buy way more vibrators than giant dildos. And speaking of vibrating penises… 

With JeJoue’s Mio, you can do exactly that effectively and comfortably. 

The wide top and soft silicone mean it’s outstanding for clitoral vibrations. It has an amazing 25 different vibration modes (5 speeds times 5 patterns) so you’re guaranteed to find one that’s perfect for both of you. 

It’s good for smaller penises because it’s highly stretchy while also staying tight on your shaft, so it should stay on any girth. 

Basically, if you don’t mind paying top dollar for top quality, this is the ring for you!

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If you just want a bigger, thicker erection or have trouble staying hard, then this body-safe silicone c-ring is perfect for you. 

It’s nothing fancy – basically just a seamless ring of elastic silicone – but sometimes that’s all you need. 

The silicone is very stretchy and applies even pressure, so it’s more reliable than rubber cock rings. 

At rest, the C-ring is 1.25 inches in diameter – a little smaller than average – but it’s so stretchy you can fit it OVER your balls no problem.

It doesn’t do anything fancy, but a reliably stronger erection for under ten bucks is a bargain! 

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What To Be Aware Of When Buying Toys For Small Penises

The main thing to look out for when buying suitable toys for smaller penises is size. 

When it comes to strokers, look at the textures. If the textures are towards the back of the sleeve, then you’re going to miss out on the best parts. 

Look for sleeves where the texture starts right away. Textures described as more intense are good, too – you can get the most feeling out of them without being overstimulated. 

If it’s loose, that can also be bad.

With any toy, the material it’s made out of is hugely important.

Some sex toy materials, especially sleeves and strokers, are made out of TPE, which is a kind of soft and flexible plastic. 

It feels great on your skin, but it’s porous, which means it lets bacteria and mold in. 

And even then, don’t expect them to last forever. 

If you want a longer-lasting toy, then find ones made of body-safe silicone. 

These are non-porous, usually more expensive, and will last for years without going bad as long as you follow the cleaning instructions. 

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Different Types Of Sex Toys For Small Penises

There are several different types of male sex toys that work great for small penises, such as:

Extenders

These are more for your partner’s benefit as they add size to your shaft. It’s important to find an extender that fits well and feels good for both partners.

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Male vibrators 

These are used on the frenulum (or wherever you want) to provide stimulation and a unique way to orgasm. 

They’re great when used alone or with a partner, for example, foreplay or edging. 

What’s more, many male vibrators can be used when flaccid, so they are great for anyone with ED. 

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Cock Rings

These keep blood from escaping the penis, resulting in longer, harder erections that don’t disappear so easily. 

Most of them are made of metal or elastic material such as silicone. It’s important to get one that fits and feels good when you’re wearing it. 

Some vibrating cock rings are used for added pleasure for both partners.  

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Masturbators

These are toys you penetrate and stroke yourself with. They’re most often used solo but can also spice things up in foreplay. 

They come in many different sizes and textures, so do your homework! Don’t pick out a stroker at random or you might waste your money. 

Check out other great toys in our best realistic male masturbator.

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Autostrokers 

Usually, they come in two parts – the stroker, which we’ve just covered, and the machine that provides the motion. 

If you want a hands-free automated experience, then an hands-free male stroker is a good investment.

The technology is still fairly new, so you should only buy an autostroker from a company you trust (eg. Kiiroo or Fun Factory). Don’t throw away money on a cheap knock-off that breaks in five minutes. 

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How To Clean & Maintain Smaller Sex Toys

To keep your small sex toys working how they should and remain in good quality, you want to ensure you clean and maintain them properly. 

The way you clean your smaller sex toy depends on the brand and specific features that the toy has. For example, toys made out of rubber or latex should never be put in boiling water. 

You want to ensure your cleaning toys like a small Fleshlight regularly. They are more prone to mildew build-up as the insides are harder to reach and clean.

We’ve listed five accessories and ways you can keep up with your Fleshlight sex toy cleaning regime below.

Fleshlight wash is essential for cleaning your sex toy. The wash is antibacterial and skin safe and can be used with any silicone or latex sex toy.

Unlike soap, Fleshlight wash is safe and will not cause skin issues or damage the inner Fleshlight material.

To use the spray, wash your Fleshlight with warm water first, then rub the solution all over and rinse off.

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Fleshlight renewing powder is made from cornflour and designed to keep your fleshlight soft and like new. All you need to do is coat your Fleshlight in the powder, and it’s back to day one—no need to rise.

Fleshlights eventually wear down after usage, but the renewing powder can help to bring back the softness you need.

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The Fleshlight air helps you dry out your Fleshlight after cleaning. It’s essential to keep your Fleshlight clean to avoid mold growing inside. 

The Fleshlight Air is electronic, making it different from the drying stands, and has three recommended drying times according to the size of your Fleshlight. For small toys, this would be about 20-30 minutes. 

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The Fleshlight drying rack allows you to stand dry your toy quickly, keeping a source of airflow into your toy and allowing it to drip dry into the bucket underneath.

This stand is around 10 inches in size and is made of metal. It can fit all standard Fleshlight types, such as the Fleshlight Girls and Boys.

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Fleshlight screw dry is another drying unit that allows you to screw the fleshlight sleeve onto the drying rack to drip fry.

This drying stand is made from coated aluminum, and to use it, you unscrew the bottom of the fleshlight and screw it back onto the drying stand.

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What Fleshlight Accessories Are Best For Small Penis Types?

For small penis types, there are lots of compatible Fleshlight accessories to use to enhance your experience. 

The Fleshlight warmer is an essential companion if you want your Fleshlight to feel like a more realistic design since it heats your toy to a comfortable temperature before entering. 

You can always warm up your Fleshlight in hot water, but this method takes longer and is much messier. The other version of this warmer is called the Fleshlight Quickshot warmer this is best if you only have the Quickshot Fleshlight version.

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The Fleshlight universal launch is an essential accessory to add some realistic play. The Fleshlight Universal Launch pack features a mold from Riley Reid’s vagina and butt suitable for small penises. 

If you want to add other packs, we suggest the automated stroker Quickshot Launch pack; this pack allows you to automate the strokes on your Fleshlight with 4 different levels and up to 250 strokes per minute!

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If you want to try your Fleshlight out in the shower, then the Fleshlight shower mount is a perfect accessory. 

This Fleshlight mount can be attached to any flat and drywall, and its angle can be adjusted with the side hinges. 

This mount is compatible with most standard Fleshlights and allows you to enjoy your Fleshlight hands-free.

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The Liberator top dog is the ultimate accessory to take your Fleshlight fun to a new level. 

Designed to be used in a top dog position, this stand has many features such as; secure toy pockets, a sturdy base, wipeable leather cover, and measures 14.5 inches tall and 12 inches wide.

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The Liberator Fleshlight On A Mission is a good choice if you love missionary positions. The pillow lets you climb on top, meaning you can play alone with your partner or the toy.

This Fleshlight accessory is also a workout. You can improve your sexual stamina with its design, allowing you to practice any position.

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There is also a flight adapter for the Fleshlight shower mount; this allows you to enjoy both your flight Fleshlight and shower mount together. 

You can screw your flight Fleshlight onto the adapter; the sky is your limit.

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FAQs

What qualifies as a small penis?

When making this article, we considered a “small” penis as anything below average size. 

There’s a lot of debate about the exact average penis size, but it’s generally accepted that it’s roughly 5 inches (13 cm) long and 4.5 inches (12 cm) in girth fully erect. 

A micropenis is a medical term for any penis under 2.75 inches (7 cm) long when fully erect. Statistically, this only affects about 0.6% of men and is usually a symptom of another health condition. 

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How do you store a sex toy?

It depends on the type of toy you’re using!

In general, you should store your items away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. A bedside drawer or a closet can be great places to store your sex toys.

But you should always consult the user manual that comes with your toy for specific advice.

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Do I need to use a lubricant for these toys?

Lube is extremely useful in almost every sexual situation! But you need to make sure you’re using lube that’s compatible with both your toy and your skin.

Otherwise, you could experience nasty side effects like rashes – or, if you choose the wrong lube for your toy, you could damage it beyond repair.

Check the user manual for lube recommendations to avoid ruining your toys. And when it comes to protecting your skin, make sure you do a patch test of any lube you’re planning on using first.

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How do you know the measurements of these toys?

If you have a smaller penis, it’s important to know whether a toy will be a good fit for you. To check, you can usually look at the manufacturer’s website (or the toy’s packaging) for the dimensions.

If you can’t find it, reach out to the manufacturer’s customer service team for advice.

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Conclusion

Navigating the world of cock sex toys can be a bit tricky if you’re smaller than average, but there’s still plenty of variety to help you get off. Have fun out there!