Most people believe sex toys are one size fits all. But they’re not.
It’s common to find toys designed for what’s considered ‘average’ size (5.1 inches when erect), but this doesn’t reflect everyone’s reality. If you’ve ever felt left out of the conversation or underserved by the market, you’re not alone. You need to find sex toys for small penises to avoid lack of stimulation and discomfort.
But the best sex toy is not just about being smaller. It’s about being the perfect fit—snug but not too tight and uncomfortable.
In this article, we’ll go through different types of toys for small penis owners and the best in their categories.
Key Considerations For Choosing Toys For Small Penises
- Size Compatibility: Opt for toys explicitly designed or adaptable to smaller sizes for a snug fit and optimal stimulation. For example, it should fit a flaccid length of less than 1.6 in (4 cm) or a stretched/erect length of less than 3 in (7.5 cm).
- Adjustability: Look for toys with adjustable features, such as tightness or stroke length, to tailor your experience for comfort and stimulation.
- Texture and Sensation: Since size can impact the stimulation level, choosing toys with varied textures and sensation levels can enhance the experience.
- Material Quality: Safe, body-friendly materials are crucial. Hypoallergenic, non-porous materials such as silicone are preferred for health and hygiene reasons.
- Ease of Use and Maintenance: The toy should be easy to use, clean, and maintain. This includes considering how easy it is to apply lubricants and clean the toy afterward.
- Discretion and Design: You may opt for products with a discreet design. This can include packaging and the overall look of the toy.
Top 3 Small Penis Sex Toys
Healthy Vibes masturbator’s realistic Cyberskin-like material offers a snug fit, enhancing sensation and experience. Its simplicity is perfect for beginners or those who prefer a more straightforward approach. However, its basic features might not satisfy you if you seek advanced stimulation, making it best suited for those who value ease of use and discreet enjoyment.
The Lovehoney Mega Mighty Extender is designed to add significant length and girth, making it a great choice if you want to enhance your size. The realistic design and secure fit ensure comfort and confidence during use. While it may reduce personal sensation, it’s an excellent option if you want to increase your size and enhance your partner’s experience.
Kiiroo Keon , with its advanced technology, offers a customizable experience that can be particularly engaging for a smaller penis. Its interactive features, including VR compatibility, provide a dynamic and immersive experience. It comes with a premium price tag. But if you’re interested in a high-tech toy to enhance your sexual experience, Keon offers an exciting and innovative solution.
FeelVictoria and FeelRae bundles are the best-selling bundles among the FeelStars Combo Packs!
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Best Toys For Small Penises In 2024
The Healthy Vibes Cheap Pocket Pussy is the perfect blend of REALISM and TIGHT FIT.
And I’m surprised, it’s like Fleshlight and Tenga combined powers to create one of the most affordable, realistic male masturbators out there!
On the outside, it looks like a Tenga Cup with the unsuspecting look plus the low price. But twist the cup, and a vaginal orifice welcomes you that’s as soft as real skin (think Fleshlight).
Insert your lubricated penis in, and you’ll feel all these crazy textures working your shaft.
You can squeeze the cup to adjust the tightness. OR cover the air hole at the top with a finger to control the suction. Unlike with other Fleshlight products, you cannot squeeze the Fleshlight itself unless you remove its protective cap.
Once you’re done, remove the sleeve from the case. Rinse with warm water and soap. BAM!
With the low price and some of Fleshlight’s and Tenga’s best features, this pocket pussy is perfect for smaller-than-average guys looking for an affordable masturbator to play around with.
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Boasting manual and interactive modes (that’s right, you can sync it up to your favorite porn or even webcam with a partner), the Kiiroo Keon is the best auto stroker I find for small dicks and actually for everyone!
It has 4 stroke length settings, going all the way down to 0.8 inches per stroke.
That means small members will have plenty to enjoy with the Keon.
It’s very well made and should last for years if maintained properly. The sleeve is TPE, so make sure to clean it thoroughly, just like a Fleshlight, but everything else is durable and long-lasting.
In short, this is the best auto stroker, hands down. It’s not cheap, but it’s worth the price for any penis.
If you want to know more details about the Keon, I have an in-depth Kiiroo Keon review you can check out.
You can use the discount code SEXUALALPHA to get 10% off on purchases from Kiiroo.
On the other end of the realism spectrum, I have this offering from Fleshlight. It’s non-anatomical and has adjustable suction thanks to the twisting end.
Best of all, the Flight Pilot has a great variety of textures, ridges, and bumps packed into a short length, so you’ll never get bored of the pattern.
The first 4 inches have the best textures in this sleeve, so you’re not missing anything like with some of the full-size Fleshlight sex toys (why put the good stuff 8 inches in any way?!).
You will appreciate the tightness of the opening and narrow channels that are sure to bring a smile to even the slimmest of gentlemen.
Interested in learning more? Read my in-depth review here.
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Fleshlight is the biggest name out there when it comes to strokers. But if the standard Fleshlights aren’t doing it for you, the Quickshot Vantage is the perfect alternative.
Don’t be fooled by its simple design. Not only is it small and lightweight – so you can take it anywhere with you, no questions asked – but it packs that classic Fleshlight punch when it comes to sheer sensation.
Apply some lube and insert your penis, and you’ll feel its realistic internal texture right away. It’s as soft as a real vagina, with the added bonus that you can squeeze and twist it whichever way you like.
For guys with smaller sizes, the Quickshot Vantage is ideal. You can squeeze it to match your size or even flip the canal (did I mention it’s open-ended?).
And it’s easy to clean, too – thanks to that open-ended design, getting soap and water into the crevices is simple.
Sure, the open end means things can get a little messy. But trust me – it’s worth it.
Still curious about the Fleshlight Quickshot? Check out my in-depth review of the Fleshlight Quickshot Review.
If you’re not used to them, textured masturbation sleeves can be kind of overwhelming.
That’s where the Super Tight Sleeve really shines. It offers a winning combination for guys with smaller dicks: a tight canal and a totally smooth interior.
Like the Stamina Training Unit, this is a great way to build up your staying power while masturbating. The smooth interior texture feels incredible, but it won’t get you going too quickly. You can take your time getting used to the feeling before you move on to something more intense.
And with a canal diameter of just half an inch, it’s the perfect size for even the slimmest of guys.
It may not be the most exciting Fleshlight out there, but if you’re after a slow, satisfying pleasure sesh? This is the toy for you.
Like the other Fleshlight Girls on this list, the Janice Griffith Eden is modeled after Janice herself. It’s amazingly tight, so regardless of your girth, you’ll have a great time with Janice.
The textures inside are ultra-detailed for a super-intense experience. You’ll struggle to keep it together for long when using this toy – I know I did.
The textures vary as you get deeper in, which means shorter guys will miss out on some sensations. But from the very beginning, this toy is an experience.
Trust me: you don’t need those deeper textures to have an amazing time.
At just 2.5 inches, the Tenga egg is the smallest item on this list.
It’s cute and innovative – you simply crack open the outside shell casing and get in there!
The Tenga Egg is meant to be single-use but you can turn it inside out and wash thoroughly for multiple uses.
Pro Tip
Eggs come in a range of different textures, but they all use the same ultra-soft material that can be squeezed and twisted however you want. It’s like your hand, but better.
The material is very delicate and porous so don’t expect to be using one for more than a month.
With 18 different internal textures to try, though, the Tenga Egg is undoubtedly a great choice for any micropenis owners out there.
And if you’re not sure about penis masturbators in general, it’s a cheap way to dip your toe in and test it out.
If you want to check out other Tenga eggs, then check out the reusable Tenga on our Tenga Spinner review!
If you don’t fancy a stroker, here’s something that might be even better.
Easily the coolest-looking toy on this list, the Pulse Solo Essential delivers intense vibrations directly onto the frenulum thanks to their PulsePlate technology.
It can be used when flaccid or erect and with or without lube, so there are PLENTY of options when you want to try something new.
The Pulse is made of high-quality silicone and is completely waterproof, so you can even take it in the bath or shower!
Because it’s vibration-based and not a stroker the Pulse’s design means any size of the penis can enjoy those luscious vibrations.
Interested in learning more? Read my in-depth review here.
The Onacup is basically a non-anatomical Fleshlight, but even softer on the inside.
It’s clingy, but not a death-grip by any measure. So while it doesn’t look realistic, it really feels like a lovely soft blowjob.
The inner texture is incredible – delicate yet intense, with suction you would expect from a blowjob machine (or a vacuum cleaner!).
To be honest, I think this is one of the fastest climaxes I’ve had with a stroker.
It was so intense I was done in about a minute.
Tenga says that these penis sucking toys are designed to be single-use, but if you don’t stroke too hard and keep them clean, they will last much longer. Wearing a condom also helps with hygiene, even if it’s not as fun.
At this price, you won’t do much better than the Onacup.
Interested to know more details about Tenga Deep Throat Onacup and other masturbators? Then check out our best male masturbators guide!
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One of my personal favorite Fleshlight product lines is Fleshlight Girls – pocket pussies modeled after famous porn stars.
Whether or not you’re a fan of Elsa Jean’s work as a porn star, there’s lots to love about this unique stroker. From its realistic orifice to the texture of the canal, everything about it is totally unique.
Like all Fleshlights, it uses SuperSkin to create a realistic sensation when you insert your penis. Add in the suction control feature, and you’re guaranteed to have a good time with Elsa Jean.
But what’s special about the Elsa Jean Tasty is the range of textures inside the canal.
The textures vary as you get deeper, so depending on your size, you may not get to experience them all. But smaller guys will be happy to know that the most intense textures are near the entrance – so you’ll get the most out of this toy regardless of your penis length.
If I had one complaint about Elsa Jean, it’s the noise. Things can get a little slurpy, so you may want to put on some music if you’re worried about being overheard.
But that’s a minor issue – and I had way better things on my mind while testing this particular toy.
Not sure Elsa Jean is for you? My Best Fleshlight Girls guide will help you find your perfect fit.
The Mini Lotus isn’t just a scaled-down version of the Lotus. They have a lot in common, sure – but the Mini is actually designed for smaller guys.
How can you tell? The Lotus Node, an extra-stimulating node inside the Mini Lotus’s canal, is positioned three inches deep in the Mini.
It’s the perfect depth for guys with smaller penises – it’s a guarantee you won’t miss out on any of the sensations this toy has to offer.
It’s also tight – so tight that bigger guys can’t use it comfortably. Even I struggled, and I’m pretty average.
Sure, it’s a bit of a pain to clean up after use. It also doesn’t come with a Fleshlight case as standard, so it looks a little weird on the outside.
But the inside? Totally worth it.
Want to learn more Fleshlight sleeves? Check out our Fleshlight sleeve review!
Pro Tip
You can use the discount code ALPHA15 to get 15% off on purchases from Lovehoney.
Watching yourself masturbate can be a surprising turn-on. And using a masturbation sleeve can make it impossible.
Enter the Fleshlight Go Torque Ice.
It’s totally transparent, so you can watch yourself jerking off for the ultimate visual stimulation.
Penis-owners on the smaller side will get the most out of its ultra-textured, ultra-tight canal. Between the soft, textured interior and the fact that you get to watch? The Go Torque Ice will get you where you’re going in no time.
Curious about other transparent and other amazing Fleshlight options? Read my ultimate Fleshlight review!
The STU is a Fleshlight with a purpose: boosting your staying power.
Everything about this masturbation sleeve is designed to help you last longer. The texture on the inside is the same all the way through, so you can get used to steady, long-term stimulation. And as a bonus, that means smaller guys won’t miss out on any special features further back in the canal.
You can even adjust the suction control, depending on what you can handle.
As masturbators go, it’s pretty straightforward. But that’s the whole point. This is the toy you use to train yourself up for more intense sensation later, and it doesn’t need to come with extra frills to show you a great time.
It does come with some options: you can choose between the STU Lady, Mouth, and Butt.
Want to know more? Check out my in-depth Fleshlight STU review.
Pro Tip
You can use the discount code ALPHA15 to get 15% off on purchases from Lovehoney.
A vibrating Fleshlight? In 2024? It’s more likely than you think.
The Vibro Lady combines the soft, realistic feel of a Fleshlight with the satisfying sensations of a vibrator.
Do I even need to say anything else? Those are two amazing tastes that taste incredible together.
It uses three bullet vibrators to deliver a vibrating experience that envelops your whole penis. Plus, the textures are consistent all the way through, so shorter guys won’t miss anything.
The challenge of the Vibro is in setting it up. You need to turn on each bullet, insert them into the casing and then get the sleeve back inside the case. If that sounds like a lot of work, that’s because… well, it is.
And once you do get going, the casing muffles the vibrations quite a bit – they could definitely be a lot stronger for a better effect.
Still, if you’re willing to put the work in (and you don’t mind less intensive vibrations), this is an experience you won’t want to miss.
I’ve had a lot to say about sleeves that try to mimic a vagina on this list. But what about the BUTT?
Anal tends to feel tighter than vaginal sex, and the Riley Reid Euphoria is no exception. This realistic anal sleeve will GRIP you tightly.
Plus, the textures repeat all the way along the length of the canal. So you don’t have to worry that you’re missing out, if you’re on the shorter side.
Euphoria may not be the most exciting masturbator, but it’s a top-tier option for guys who like it tighter – or who prefer it in the ass.
Check out my best anal fleshlight guide for more anal simulators.
Even if you’re not a Dillion Harper fan, it’s hard to deny how sexy this sleeve is. Like all the Fleshlight Girls, it’s ultra-realistic both inside and out.
And with 5 unique textures inside, one after the other, it’s one of the most versatile sleeves on this list. The deeper you get, the more sensation you’ll find.
Of course, shorter guys won’t be able to enjoy the full extent of this toy. But if you’re on the narrower side, you’ll love the surprisingly tight squeeze in the middle of the canal.
The Best Penis Extenders & Cock Rings For Small Penises
Sex isn’t all about penetration, obviously. But if you want to add some extra dimensions to your love life, why not try one of these additions:
I also have a standalone guide on the best couple sex toys money can buy.
Half the appeal of a penis extender is in the confidence it gives you. It can boost your self-image like nothing else, however you and your partner use it.
The Lovehoney Mega Mighty’s realistic look is a serious shot in the arm for self-esteem. It looks great when you’re wearing it – and the feeling of pressure is a nice bonus, too.
Your partner will love the extra length and girth the Mega Mighty can give you, as well as the satisfying texture of its surface.
But on the downside, it can be a little heavy to wear, and it can be a challenge to put on.
Pro Tip
Because penis extenders are closed at the end, they fill up with air. This can make inserting your penis (no pun intended) kind of hard.
Try squeezing the sleeve before you start to insert your dick. It can help to squeeze out some of the air, and make insertion a breeze.
And don’t forget – lube always helps!
The Mega Mighty is a strong first choice of penis extender, if you’re trying to decide whether this sort of toy is right for you.
Curious about penis sleeves? Check out my best penis sleeve guide here!
There’s a bit of a trade-off with penis extenders. On the one hand, you lose some of the friction of rubbing skin against skin.
But on the other hand, there’s a nice feeling of pressure when you’re wearing it, not to mention the pleasure you get from watching your partner being filled up!
This strap-on extender fits comfortably over the penis, giving you some extra inches in both length and girth.
The harness ensures that it stays on in use no matter how HARD you thrust, so it’s perfect if you like your sex on the wilder side.
Pro Tip
Just make sure you use extra lube – the smooth silicone drags if you don’t use enough.
Something to keep in mind for all penis extenders, actually.
But since it’s made of silicone, cleaning it is a breeze.
Overall this is a simple penis extender that does its job and is super easy to use. A great first extender for any couple who want it a bit bigger.
It can be hard to find good quality penis extenders. Many of them are poorly made out of low-quality TPE.
Some of them don’t stay on effectively because they’re not secured.
And some of them are just waayyy too expensive.
Enter… The Blush Performance Plus.
It’s made of body-safe silicone, has a comfortable and snug ball strap to keep it in place, and it’s cheap!
The inside sleeve is soft and textured to give a pleasant sucking sensation when in use, while the outside is realistic and gives you 7.25 inches of length and an impressive 2 inches in diameter (about 6 in circumference).
It feels close to a real penis during use, so it’s good for couples who want a more intimate feeling.
Just remember to use plenty of the best cum lubes both on the inside and the outside – like with most extenders, the silicone is pretty draggy on real skin.
Size isn’t the most important thing. Just look at sex toys for women – they buy way more vibrators than giant dildos. And speaking of vibrating penises…
With JeJoue’s Mio, you can do exactly that effectively and comfortably.
The wide top and soft silicone mean it’s outstanding for clitoral vibrations. It has an amazing 25 different vibration modes (5 speeds times 5 patterns) so you’re guaranteed to find one that’s perfect for both of you.
It’s good for smaller penises because it’s highly stretchy while also staying tight on your shaft, so it should stay on any girth.
Basically, if you don’t mind paying top dollar for top quality, this is the ring for you!
Pro Tip
You can use the discount code ALPHA15 to get 15% off on purchases from Lovehoney.
If you just want a bigger, thicker erection or have trouble staying hard, then this body-safe silicone c-ring is perfect for you.
It’s nothing fancy – basically just a seamless ring of elastic silicone – but sometimes that’s all you need.
The silicone is very stretchy and applies even pressure, so it’s more reliable than rubber cock rings.
At rest, the C-ring is 1.25 inches in diameter – a little smaller than average – but it’s so stretchy you can fit it OVER your balls no problem.
It doesn’t do anything fancy, but a reliably stronger erection for under ten bucks is a bargain!
Buying Guide When Shopping For Toys For Small Penises
The main thing to look out for when buying suitable toys for smaller penises is size.
When it comes to strokers, look at the textures. If the textures are towards the back of the sleeve, then you’re going to miss out on the best parts.
Look for sleeves where the texture starts right away. Textures described as more intense are good, too – you can get the most feeling out of them without being overstimulated.
If it’s loose, that can also be bad.
Pro Tip
However, there are ways to tighten a sleeve. For example, you can put rubber bands around it or just squeeze it with your hands.
With any toy, the material it’s made out of is hugely important.
Some sex toy materials, especially sleeves and strokers, are made out of TPE, which is a kind of soft and flexible plastic.
It feels great on your skin, but it’s porous, which means it lets bacteria and mold in.
So clean and dry your sleeves thoroughly AFTER EVERY USE.
And even then, don’t expect them to last forever.
If you want a longer-lasting toy, then find ones made of body-safe silicone.
These are non-porous, usually more expensive, and will last for years without going bad as long as you follow the cleaning instructions.
Different Types Of Toys For Small Penises
Several different types of male sex toys work great for small penises, such as:
Extenders
These are more for your partner’s benefit as they add size to your shaft. Finding an extender that fits well and feels suitable for both partners.
Male vibrators
These are used on the frenulum (or wherever you want) to provide stimulation and a unique way to orgasm.
They’re great when used alone or with a partner, for example, foreplay or edging.
What’s more, many male vibrators can be used when flaccid, so they are great for anyone with ED.
Cock Rings
These keep blood from escaping the penis, resulting in longer, harder erections that don’t disappear so easily.
Most of them are made of metal or elastic material such as silicone. It’s important to get one that fits and feels good when you’re wearing it.
Some vibrating cock rings are used for added pleasure for both partners.
IMPORTANT NOTE: never leave a cock ring on for long periods of time (like more than 30 minutes). It can affect the blood flow and cause bruising!
Masturbators
These are toys you penetrate and stroke yourself with. They’re most often used solo but can also spice things up in foreplay.
They come in many different sizes and textures, so do your homework! Don’t pick out a stroker at random or you might waste your money.
Autostrokers
Usually, they come in two parts – the stroker, which I’ve just covered, and the machine that provides the motion.
If you want a hands-free automated experience, then a hands-free male stroker is a good investment.
The technology is still fairly new, so you should only buy an autostroker from a company you trust (eg. Kiiroo or Fun Factory). Don’t throw away money on a cheap knock-off that breaks in five minutes.
How To Clean & Maintain Smaller Sex Toys And Masturbators
To keep your small sex toys working how they should and remain in good quality, you want to ensure you clean and maintain them properly.
The way you clean your smaller sex toy depends on the brand and specific features that the toy has. For example, toys made out of rubber or latex should never be put in boiling water.
You want to ensure your cleaning toys like a small Fleshlight regularly. They are more prone to mildew build-up as the insides are harder to reach and clean.
I’ve listed five accessories and ways you can keep up with your Fleshlight sex toy cleaning regime below.
Fleshwash is an antibacterial toy cleaner designed for use with Fleshlight toys and Sex Toys.
Just run warm water to rinse out your sleeve, then spray on some Fleshwash and let it air dry. That’s all you have to do for total confidence in your sex toy hygiene!
Fleshlight renewing powder is made from cornflour and designed to keep your fleshlight soft and like new. All you need to do is coat your Fleshlight in the powder, and it’s back to day one—no need to rise.
Fleshlights eventually wear down after usage, but the renewing powder can help to bring back the softness you need.
FAQs
What qualifies as a small penis?
When I’m writing this article, I viewed that a “small” penis is sizes that are below average.
It is widely accepted that the average dick size is 5 inches (13 cm) long and 4.5 inches (12 cm) in rim when totally erected. Still, there’s a lot of debate about it.
A micropenis is a medical term for any penis under 2.75 inches (7 cm) long when fully erect. Statistically, this only affects about 0.6% of men and is usually a symptom of another health condition.
Pro Tip
And even if you do have a micropenis, there are still plenty of ways for you to enjoy sex! Many of the toys on this list will work fine for you whatever your size.
How do you store a sex toy?
You should generally store your toys away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. A bedside drawer or a closet can be great places to keep sex toys.
But you should always follow the user manual of your sex toy to see how you can keep your toy SAFE and CLEAN!
Do I need to use a lubricant for these toys?
Lube is extremely useful in almost every sexual situation! But you need to make sure you’re using lube that’s compatible with both your toy and your skin.
Otherwise, you could experience nasty side effects like rashes – or, if you choose the wrong lube for your toy, you could damage it beyond repair.
Check the user manual for lube recommendations to avoid ruining your toys. And when it comes to protecting your skin, make sure you do a patch test of any lube you’re planning on using first.
How do you know the measurements of these toys?
If you have a small package, knowing the sex toy’s measurement is a MUST! You can look at the website (or the sex toy’s packaging) to check the proportions of your intimate product choice.
You can always contact customer service to help you find the sex toy’s dimension.
Conclusion
Finding suitable sex toys for a smaller package can be a bit tricky!
HOWEVER, being on the smaller side doesn’t mean you cannot find what FITS you; there are many options out there that will satisfy you with your sexual journey!