Top 10 Best Automatic Handjob Machines & Strokers! (2023)

I have tested the best handjob machines available on the market. Read on to discover the handjob toys and simulators that will suit your wishes best!

The best male masturbators, strokers, the best pocket pussies, you name them and I’ve tried them. For over a decade, I’ve had an earth shattering, eye rolling, toe curling good time with these toys, and if you’ve been on the fence about getting one, maybe it’s time you did.

Back in the day, you’d have to do all the work with these toys. But not anymore! Now we’ve got machines that will do the stroking for you while you can lay back and close your eyes or watch your favorite erotic content.

But where should one start looking? Well, you could check out our list of the best sex machines for men and our exhaustive search for the best male vibrator out there. Or, you can check out this list of the 9 best handjob machines. 

Trust me, you do not want to go through a grueling (and pricey) trial-and-error process with these toys. So, I’ve tested the most promising products out there to find the latest and greatest in pleasure technology so that you can find the toy that suits you best! 

Let’s get to it, and soon you can be having a toe curling good time too!

Top 3 Automatic Handjob Machines & Strokers in 2023

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The Best Automatic Handjob Toys, Strokers, & Machines

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Keon is the newest automatic masturbator from Kiiroo. You can play with it manually, controlling the stroke speed and length. What makes Keon shine, though, is its’ seamless, fast and easy Bluetooth connectivity.

Similar to The Handy, Kiiroo Keon lets you synchronize it to porn videos and VR content. POV-porn enthusiasts will enjoy getting stroked while joining in their favorite AV.

If you close your eyes, it feels like being ridden by your favorite porn star – especially if she’s one of the 8 options from the Feel Stars Strokers lineup.

Keon works really well for long-distance plays too. If you and your partner have Kiiroo masturbators, you can connect both devices. Both machines react to each other when synchronized, giving you an exhilarating interactive sextivity despite the distance.

If you are a FLyer, you can use your favorite Fleshlight sleeve inside the Feel Stroker. It might be a tight fit, so it is best to stick to the Feel Stars Strokers. I’m excited to see how the collection grows soon and which stars will be added next.

With the Kiiroo Keon, you can check out Kiiroo’s AI techonology, FeelMe AI for some great adult interactive content together with the best male masturbator!

Read our Kiiroo Keon review to learn more.

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Two words: versatile and interactive.

The Handy is, hands down, a revolutionary HJ machine. The variety of personalization it offers is just impressive. 

It strokes you – in the grip, stroke length, and speed that you want. I like how I can vary slow, long strokes and fast, short pumps depending on my mood. 

You don’t have to worry about its girth as you can adjust the velcro strap for the best penis sleeve to your size and preferred tightness.

Its free sleeve is detachable, so you may use your favorite sleeve like Tenga’s or Fleshlight’s as long as its diameter isn’t bigger than 2.8”. 

But The Handy really shines in its interactive features.

If you’re using it for solo play, you can sync it with videos from porn sites (including VR), or you may use your own videos and scripts.

For partnered play, you can pass the control to your partner in real time, which is great for long-distance sessions (or when your OH is across the room). Just share your Connection Key with your partner, and instruct them to visit https://handyfeeling.com/remote – no need to install anything!

At a price below $200, this toy is such a steal considering all its features.

It’s wired – which has its pros and cons. This one’s not for you if you’re looking for a handjob machine you can bring with you on the go. The Handy needs to be plugged in, so you can only use it in areas with an outlet.

On the other hand, it’s more compact (since it doesn’t use bulky batteries) and its motor is more powerful. The Handy packs the fastest stroke in this line of masturbators of up to a whopping 10 strokes per second. That’s 600 strokes a minute!

A recent update of FeelMe AI just dropped; it is now compatible with The Handy! The great thing about FeelMe AI is it can turn any adult-type content on the internet into an interactive video! Better check it out to see what’s the buzz all about!

Read our The Handy review to learn more.

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The makers of the Autoblow A.I.+ studied thousands of hours of actual blowjob footage to teach their creation how to give great head. It’s no surprise, then, that this nifty little toy has some modes that will feel almost as good as the real thing.

Don’t let the bulky shape fool you (and we admit we are not too fond of the chunky looks), this gadget has some pretty good tech. You can connect it to the internet and download blowjob modes, or even hand over control to your partner so they can decide for you.

On the hardware front, this toy is a plug-in, which means there’s no battery to run out of juice in between a session. They’ve made the motor less noisy than older versions, so you can now enjoy your toy without the neighbors knowing.

Finally, though the included silicon sleeve is not the best one (it misses a realistic texture), you can still swap it out for different ones, thus ensuring a good fit.

Ultimately, the Autoblow A.I.+ is a solid option for beginner and intermediate users who want basic functionality but also want to explore the fast-expanding realm of smart sex toys.

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The Hismith Premium Sex Machine is a champ. With its battle tank-like construction and high-grade motor, this toy is genuinely for serious pleasure. In fact, you can barely call it a toy. The Hismith means business.

So, what can it do? Well, it can pleasure you at over 250 strokes a minute or give you luxurious long 6-inch strokes. What really sets the Hismith apart from its competitors is that it’s an adjustable, free-standing sex machine.

So, it means you can set it at various angles, which will pleasure you in different positions. The machine’s weight, which is quite a bit, also has a benefit. It makes the machine stable enough not to move much, even when stroking away at high speed. Use it on carpeted flooring to keep it even more firmly planted.

This kind of stability gives you actual hands-free fun.

And then there’s the included wireless remote, which you can use from up to 20 meters. So you can hand over control to a partner or use the control yourself to toggle through Hismith’s 10 speed and pattern settings.

Now, what more can you possibly want from a sex machine? Well, there’s more that it offers.

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Want to add a little more excitement? You can opt for the App Control feature and bundle it with your Hismith Sex Machine. This lets you access the Hismith app, which opens up many new ways to play with your favorite new sex toy.

The best thing that the app brings to the table is long-distance play. Your Hismith sex machine can be remotely controlled by your chosen partner, regardless of their global location. All you need to do is send them the link to your machine, and they can use the app to control your pleasure.

You can also make different pattern + speed combinations using the app. Save your favorite modes to use later or explore modes shared by others in the Hismith members area. Getting the app also means you will get regular updates for added functionality from Hismith through your smartphone.

In addition to the app functionality, this bundle includes the wired speed controller and the wireless remote. It also comes with a Suction Cup Adapter so you can use different attachments with your machine, depending on your mood. 

And even though you’ll probably not be carrying this machine around much, it comes with a carrying bag just in case you feel like getting more adventurous.

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This bundle is for users who want to get to know the machine before they begin to buy all the other add-ons. It, therefore, comes with only the wired speed controller. Though you miss out on the app control functions and even the wireless remote, there’s still plenty of fun.

This is a great option for solo users and couples who want to use the machine to add some spice to their pleasure play. The Hismith sex machine’s powerful motor and long strokes offer plenty of fun, and you can get dozens of positions by changing its height and angles.

Best of all, this wire-controlled bundle is over $200 cheaper than the App Control bundle. So, if you want to try out the machine for a relatively lower price, check out the Wire-Controlled bundle.

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Why limit the fun to just guys? Especially with the Hismith machine designed for such intense action! The Luxury Kit For Her is a nice bundle of assorted adapters and attachments that set the machine up for penetrative pleasure.

The kit includes:

• A Vac-U-Lock.
• A Suction Cup Adapter.
• An extension rod.
• A spring connector.
• A g-spot clamp.

These make your machine compatible with literally hundreds of different toys, from clit and g-spot stimulators to suction cup dildos. 

The great part is this kit lets you use your Hismith sex machine with your existing sex toy. Of course, you can also get attachments that use Hismith’s patented KlicLok mechanism for a more secure fit and easy switching between attachments.

This kit also comes with a lovely wavy purple design. This helps reduce the feeling that you are using industrial machinery because the Hismith Sex Machine can feel quite intimidating sometimes, especially to new users.

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Now that you’ve seen the bundles you can get with the Hismith Sex Machine, let’s take a closer look at all the attachments you can use with it.

• Suction Cup Adapter
  • Allows the user to attach any 3.5” dildo or sex toy with a suction cup to the Hismith Sex Machine.
  • It uses the KlicLok system on one side to attach to the machine and a flat panel on the opposite side for a strong suction hold.
  • It also comes with rubber bands to secure sex toys that don’t have suction cups.
  • Made of high-quality aluminum and stainless steel, just like the Hismith Sex Machine.
    
• Vac-U-Lock Adapter
  • This adapter lets you use your Hismith Sex Machine with all dildos and other sex toys that use a Vac-U-Lock system.
  • Features a metal Vac-U-Lock system on one side and a KlicLoc system on the other side to attach to the sex machine.
  • Made of high-grade machined metal for a secure fit.
  • Allows you to use your existing Vac-U-Lock sex toys without purchasing additional sex toys for your sex machine.
    
• Spring Attachment
  • Bring some bounce into your pleasure play with this spring attachment, which features the KlicLok system on both sides.
  • Compatible with dildos and sex toys that use the KlicLok system.
  • It offers flexibility so that you can change your angle of penetration without having to reposition the machine.
  • It would be best not to use it with large dildos and male masturbation cups.
    
• P-Spot Silicone Anal Plug
  • Anal plug with the KilcLok system you can use with the Hismith Sex Machine.
  • Super soft high-grade silicone anal plug with a smooth texture.
  • 7.08” length with 6.5” insertable length.
  • It features a soft bump (or “knot”) for extra stimulation.

Want to know more about the Hismith fucking machines? Read our in-depth review of the Hismith Premium Machines here.

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Kiiroo Onyx+ has shown some significant improvements from its predecessor.

I can recommend this to anyone looking for some good, contracting sensations. It has 10 contracting rings throughout the sleeve’s length, powered by a rotating motor that expands and contracts on the penis.

The result? 

Overall, a realistic experience that feels good. But its price point is a little steep compared to other similar products available in the market today with similar features. 

One good reason for choosing this is if your partner also uses Kiiroo. It syncs and pairs with other Kiiroo products, which makes for a pleasure long-distance play session. 

If you crave a toy that would actually stroke you, you might be better off, Keon. But nonetheless, both of these toys are compatible with Kiiroo’s FeelMe AI

Read our Kiiroo Onyx+ review to learn more.

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Couple rings. Couple shirts. And, of course, couple masturbators.

Lovense Max 2 doesn’t just let your partner control it remotely. It pairs and connects you and your partner’s devices (Max, Max 2, or Nora – Lovense’s vibrator for women) for the closest-thing-to-real-life-long-distance sex.

Both masturbators react based on you and your partner’s movements. As I thrust into Max 2, Nora responds to my SO by vibrating and rotating. Safe to say, there’s something kinky and out-of-this-world from such an experience.

Aside from a duo play, Max 2 can be used for solo sessions. Its air suction technology feels like getting a BJ.

It even has strong contractions. It grips and twists the penis in all angles, bringing me to the edge within minutes.

Max 2 has some default patterns. So if you’re one to always want variety and easily get bored, it’s better to look elsewhere. 

Check our Lovense Max 2 review to learn more.

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Discover the latest gem in the Velvet Thruster Prime collection. This innovative dildo is a game-changer, letting you craft your own experience with a unique mix-and-match system for a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors to suit your desires.

The Prime series offers versatility like never before. Switch out tops effortlessly, making every moment passionate and spontaneous.

What sets it apart? This thruster is the pioneering model with a one-of-a-kind patented drive mechanism. The Stroker head has the ability to flex, bend, and even curve mid-thrust, setting a new standard in the sex toy universe.

Made with plush, medical-grade silicone, it delivers an impressive stroke length of 3″ at a rapid 140 strokes every minute. Its powerful motor comes with six different speeds to choose from. And don’t worry about it dying on you; its durable battery ensures uninterrupted pleasure.

And if your partner’s curious about the thrill of a thrusting dildo, direct them to our Velvet Thruster review.

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If you’re a FLyer with a wide range of Fleshlights on your shelf, it’s best to get the Fleshlight Universal Launch.

It’s compatible with almost all of the regular-sized Fleshlights like Fleshlight Girls, Sex In A Can, and Fleshlight Go. 

The varied options give varied sensations. The Universal Launch’s grips don’t just let you easily hold the toy. They also give you smooth access to its buttons so you can quickly adjust the settings, stroke speed, length, and position to your liking. 

The smartphone mount is a nifty feature! If you like watching porn (I mean, who doesn’t?), it gives you a perfect view of your phone screen right in front of you as it masturbates you.

Universal Launch is not for the impatient man. It charges for 6 hours, but the use time is only 1-2 hours.

If you want to be efficient, charge it during your sleeping hours so it’s ready when you (or your member) are awake. *wink*

Read our Fleshlight Universal Launch review to learn more.

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The Fleshlight Quickshot Launch is built specifically for the smaller, more compact, and cheaper Quickshots. So if you have (or prefer) the QS masturbators, get this one instead of the Universal Launch.

If you’re a lights-on person and visual stimuli turn you on, you’ll enjoy the QS Launch. The QS sleeve is transparent and open-ended, so you can really see what’s going on in there (in all its textured glory) as the toy masturbates you.

Since it’s smaller, you can be more adventurous with it. The full-sized Fleshlights usually only let you do the up-and-down motion. But with the Quickshot, you can twist it here and there and experience sensations you’ve never felt before.

Like the Universal Launch, it also has a smartphone mount. Bring some extra tissues just in case you shoot your cum on your phone screen (remember: the sleeve is open-ended). 

Check out our Fleshlight Quickshot Launch review to learn more.

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The Autoblow 2+XT is a cheaper alternative to the Autoblow A.I.+ but still includes some of the benefits of its “smarter” A.I. sibling. The variable speeds and stroke lengths allow you to adjust things to your liking, and the sturdy design means you can get many hours of great fun with the toy.

It is also a power plug-in device, which might hamper portability but saves weight and ensures that it doesn’t run out of juice in the middle of the action. Just remember that the motor is pretty loud, so don’t plan on using it if you have a roommate.

Talking about portability, this toy is quite bulky and doesn’t have the sleek looks of many other modern machines. This might be a dealbreaker for some, but as long as you don’t plan on displaying it on a shelf, you should consider this toy.

Bottomline, the Autoblow 2+XT is a dependable sex toy with basic functionality but solid performance. It is cheaper than most other products in its category but will still give you many hours of pleasure. 

The silicon inserts are not amazing and we hope the company comes out with some better ones. But if you’re a beginner and are looking to get your first automatic stroking sex toy without breaking the bank, you cannot go wrong with this one.

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Shopping for a Handjob Machine: Here’s What You Should Know

Accommodate a range of penis sizes

There’s not much point in buying a handjob machine that you can’t squeeze into or one that leaves you feeling understimulated. Equally unpleasant is having your dick hit the bottom of the sleeve when you’re only halfway in. 

That’s why measurements are so important.

Pull out the ol’ measuring tape and jot down your dimensions when you’re fully erect. You’ll want to compare these to sleeve sizes – canal diameter and insertable length are the important measurements. 

Luckily, sleeves come in a range of sizes, and some are even adjustable.

Read our guide on how to measure your penis and girth size to learn more tips.

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Material matters in maintenance

When it comes to male sex toys, TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) is often used, especially when you want it to feel as realistic as possible.

TPE has a soft skin contact feel. It’s ultra-soft, flexible, and close to how human skin feels. 

That said, TPE is porous. When you don’t clean it well, bacteria and mold could grow in the holes of the toy. Gross!

To be safe and extend its longevity, wash and clean your sleeves after using them. Most sleeves are easy to clean, so it’s not that much of a chore. 

Also, skip the Amazon and Wish marketplaces. Only buy from reputable sources to ensure the quality of your sex toy’s materials.

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Assessing the levels of intensity

Even if you’re not sensitive, the intensity could feel different when using handjob masturbators.

These devices grip, squeeze, and stroke your penis. The faster it strokes, the tighter it would feel.

Using sleeves that are too textured or too tight might feel more intense than your usual experience or preference.

Most sleeves from self-stroking masturbators are removable. As long as you can find compatible sleeves, you can freely experiment with different textures and tightness that suit what you like.

The experience is always fun, exciting, and new.

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Look for functionality

Many handjob machines are not completely hands-free. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Some of them offer really good stroking motions, so holding them in place is a small price to pay. It also allows you to adjust the angle of the stroke by slightly moving the machine, which can feel amazing!

The main appeal of auto-strokers is to give you the maximum benefits with as minimal effort on your part as possible. For some, you can go hands-free by propping it on pillows or getting a good position by lying down on your back. If you’re still keen on using your hands for something else while getting pleasured, check out the best hands-free male masturbator.

The power source is another important functional aspect to look at when buying a handjob (or any other) machine. If you’re mainly going to use it at home and have a handy power outlet, the wall power models are a good option. With them, there is no fear of running out of juice mid-action. However, if you want portability, go for the battery-powered ones.

Finally, there are a ton of new smart features that now come bundled with sex toys. You can connect them to the internet, download different pleasure modes, and even sync them to erotic content. Smart toys have all the bells and whistles but are more expensive, and you might have to spend longer playing around with settings.

Or, you can go the classic route and get a toy that just does its main job well, which is to stroke your penis realistically. These are pocket-friendly and need just a bit of lube, and you’re good to go. So figure out just how smart you want your sex toy to be.

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Texture of the masturbator’s canal

The amazing thing about handjob machines is that they can offer you any texture or sensation you wish to experience. You could just choose a plain smooth sleeve if you want to keep things super simple, but most people go for a canal with ridges, bumps or knobs, or a combination of all three. 

These add a whole world of extra stimulation along your shaft, and if you get a handjob machine with interchangeable sleeves, you’ll literally never get bored.

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Blowjob Machines vs. Handjob Machines

The difference between these two varieties of self-strokers is the types of sensations they offer. 

A handjob machine will try to mimic the consistent grip and up-and-down motion of a handjob or of penetrative sex, while a blowjob machine is much more focused on the licking, sucking, and slurping feelings of good oral sex.

Usually, a handjob machine will have a stronger grip, more consistent movement, and higher speeds. On the other hand, a blowjob machine will be less predictable and have more suction than a grip.

In a Venn Diagram of handjob and blowjob machines, you see a nice overlap in the middle where the two meet. Some machines offer the best of both worlds with interchangeable orifices and a variety of settings that can be adjusted to provide whatever sensation you like.

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The bells and whistles

Sextech gets better and smarter as time goes by. Each day, we are getting closer to simulating the sensations of real sex. 

Handjob machines are some of the more revolutionary innovations.

Today’s automatic handjob machines sync with video content, giving you a 3D experience when watching your favorite porn. And then, virtual reality ups the ante.

In a long-distance relationship? No worries – you can still share the intimacy with your partner even if you’re not in the same city or continent, even. Both your devices will connect and pair, reacting to each other’s stimulations. 

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Okay – now, how much will it cost

Handjob machines usually don’t come cheap.

But they’re usually not exorbitantly priced as well.

In most cases, a good investment goes a long way. Of course, knowing your budget should be one of the first things you should consider so you can narrow down your options on what you’re actually willing to spend.

The most expensive products aren’t always the best option for you.

But cheap products are cheap for a reason. They might not last as long or they might be made from unsafe materials. You may also find yourself spending more by buying additional products to fill in your toy’s missing features.

Good self-stroking machines usually go around $200. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is a handjob machine?

A handjob machine is exactly what it sounds like – an automated sex toy designed to give you a well-executed handjob while you lay back and enjoy yourself. They’re typically tube-shaped and come with a variety of textures and patterns for intense stimulation.

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How to use a handjob machine?

Solo Play

If you’re looking for some solo pleasure, you’ve come to the right place. Handjob machines are most often used to enhance masturbation and give your poor wrists a day off.

Grab some lube, some tissues, and your favorite porn (or simply your imagination), and get comfortable! Put some of the lube on yourself and a generous amount inside the sleeve, then just sit back and relax while the machine does the work.

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With a Partner

If your partner is up for trying something new, this could be a great way to introduce a fun and exciting experience into the bedroom. Talk about it first to see how they feel and if they’re open to it. 

Sharing your pleasure with each other can be an intimate bonding experience and can invite your partner to know you even more deeply. It’s also great for mutual masturbation sessions if your partner wants to bring their own pleasure toys! 

If you want the thrill of bringing a third into the bedroom without actually taking that step with another person, a handjob machine can be fun for fantasy roleplay.

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Interactive

The possibilities are practically endless when it comes to interactive sextech in handjob machines. 

You can share long-distance playtime with a partner by handing over the controls. If you like POV porn and want in on the action, there are plenty of models that can be synced to your adult video of choice. Or, if you like to frequent cam sites, there are even interactive options for that.

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Do handjob sex toys feel like the real deal?

Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on your perspective), NO.

But would you really want it to feel like the real deal? With sex handjob sex toys, there are more sensations you can’t encounter in real life.

Hands can be too flat and smooth, while the sky’s the limit for the textures of sleeves. They also go from 4 to 10 strokes PER SECOND, and without stopping or slowing down at that.

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What’s the best position when using a handjob Stroker?

Most people find that lying on their back is the most comfortable position. If you’re using a handjob machine with handles, this will probably be the most comfortable position. It’ll give you easy access to hold on while making sure those handles aren’t jutting into your hips or belly.

That said, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Experiment with different positions to find what works best for you!

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What lube to use with a handjob toy?

I always recommend water-based lube for any sex toy since it’s universally compatible with any material. It’s also available in a variety of different consistencies and is good for sensitive skin.

If you really have your heart set on oil- or silicone-based lube for some reason, make sure your toy isn’t made out of silicone. These kinds of lube will damage your new handjob machine, which is not good for your self-pleasure OR your wallet.

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How to clean handjob sex machines?

HJ machines are mechanical devices, so they shouldn’t be cleaned anywhere that’s wet. 

(No bringing in showers, please!)

If you have juice splatters, simply wipe the toy’s surface with a slightly damp cloth.

Meanwhile, sleeves should be taken out and washed carefully. Sleeves from The Handy and Kiiroo Onyx+ can be turned inside out for better cleaning. Kiiroo’s and Fleshlight’s sleeves are open-ended on both sides, so it doesn’t need to be inverted.

After cleaning, dry well before storing to avoid foul odors.

Adieu, mildew!

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What other things do I need to know about handjob machines?

Power Source

Make sure you know how your new handjob machine is powered before you buy it. Some take batteries, some are rechargeable, and some need to be plugged into a wall outlet.

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Remote Control

Check if the remote control needs separate batteries to be able to operate. Even though your handjob machine is rechargeable, doesn’t mean the remote is.

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App Connectivity

If you’re planning on using your machine with app controls, make sure you have a new phone and a good internet connection. This is especially true if you want to use long-distance controls (the same goes for your partner).

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Virtual Reality

It may go without saying, but VR goggles are a necessary accessory for any VR features you want to use. They won’t come with the handjob machine.

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SenseMotion Technology

The idea of a motion sensor sounds good in theory, but in practice, it can cause your handjob machine to stop and start erratically when you’re thrusting or moving around in the throes of pleasure.

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Vibration settings

If realism is what you want, variable vibration settings might break you out of your fantasy. No real person’s body has a vibrating function, let alone several.

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Accessories

It’s often possible to customize your experience with extra accessories. A lot of the time, they don’t even have to be the same brand, so shop around and see what works.

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Conclusion

Handjob machines take the “hand” out of the equation.

Not knowing where to start is always intimidating. With the right knowledge, you can shop for the right handjob machine without breaking the bank.