11 Best Black Dildos in 2023 (Realistic, Huge & Giant)

Turn your biggest, thickest BBC fantasies into reality with our best black dildo roundup. From the best realistic to gigantic African American dildos, you’ll find ‘em all here!

Sometimes, bigger is better. And that’s why many of us fantasize about the BBC.

The closest thing we can get at our disposal is black dildos. They’re not only black in color but also associated as bigger and girthier than your average dongs.

Black dildos are often realistic. But, that’s not always the case. They come in different looks and designs too. So, there’s an option for you regardless of your taste.

With more options comes more confusing buying decisions. That’s why we’ve listed the best black dildos in different varieties, price ranges, and styles to give the best options that would bring you the most satisfying ebony experience. 

To start, here are our top three choices:

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Top Best Black Dildos in 2023

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Best Black Dildos in 2023

Fun Factory The Boss Stud may not look very realistic, but it feels realistic.

Okay, let me explain...

Appearance-wise, it’s a sleek black dildo with a big head and some veiny detailing. It has an excellent curve that’s pretty subtle but targets your pleasure points just right. But it’s certainly not the most penis-looking dildo you’ll find. That can be a good or bad thing, depending on what you’re looking for.

Inside, though, its shape and texture will feel realistic – as long as you use a good amount of lube.

With this Boss, you need to use a lot of lube as it drags if there’s not enough lubrication. Also, make sure to store it in a storage case as it easily attracts dust and lint.

If you want a filling sensation, The Boss will satisfy you with its girth. Still, it has a soft-to-touch texture that feels good (not too firm) when you glide it in.

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On a budget? Start with Lovehoney Sensual Waves. It’s an affordable black dildo with just the right size for you to get started. And, it’s not realistic – perfect if you’re looking for a nonphallic ebony dong.

This dildo is harness compatible, so I suggest this to users exploring pegging or anal play. It’s NOT small (as you can expect from a black dildo), but it’s also not too big.

The curved shaft is good at angling your G-spot or P-spot. Plus, its “sensual waves,” which are the ridges that will rub on the upper wall of your vaginal opening, feel really good.

I also like its extra hole feature for the bullet vibe on its base for some good vibrations. 

While you can play with it hands-free using its suction cup, I find it not the most stable. It’s still usable, of course, but not the strongest.

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Get ready to rumble with Fun Factory G5 Big Boss. It’s a vibrating black dildo that will give you a filling sensation with its girth.

This black dildo is naturally firm yet comes with some veiny textures and a curved shaft to massage your G-spot or P-spot with every thrust. 

It has 4 vibration patterns and 5 speeds, so you can choose the intensity and rhythm that feels good to you. This one’s premium – both in price and quality. But its features are worth every cent. 

It’s even waterproof and rechargeable – very convenient to use and bring with you anywhere, whether that’s traveling the world or in your relaxing baths.

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Up for more realistic options? Here’s King Cock Girthy Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo.

Who’s this for? Anyone who wants a very meaty lifelike black dildo. It’s not for the faint of heart. It’s long and girthy! The slightly curved shaft with veiny features will stimulate you in all corners because of its thickness.

With bigger dildos, weight works against them as they’re heavier. But King Cock Girthy has a strong suction cup for worry-free, hands-free fun.

This one is made of PVC, which is porous, so you have to be more thorough when cleaning it. It’s phthalate-free, though—no worries of skin reactions when you use it.

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Go big or go home, right?

If you want the biggest realistic African American Dildo, then get Mr. Hankey’s Toys Beefcake.

But, wait! This one’s really, really big. You have to be an experienced size royal to get this in. This will stretch you as its shaft is very thick (I’m talking 11.80-inch-circumference-at-its-widest thick!).

That’s the XXXL size. If it’s too big for you, you can get started with the Small size, which has an insertable length of 6.44 inches. Meanwhile, the shaft has a circumference of 7” inches at its widest, which is at the middle of the shaft. 

Beefcake has four sizes in total for you to choose from, so size up or size down as you like.

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Experienced sexplorers looking for a black vibrating strapless strap-on should get Lovehoney Double Dipper.

The dildo has a nice amount of girth + length. It feels quite firm. You will feel its bumps and ridges. 

But, it’s also very flexible for you and your partner to angle it, so it hits you in the right hotspots. That’s one of the challenges of strap-ons, as you’d have to be in sync with your partner when changing positions and angles. 

The material feels pleasant to touch, but I found it’s prone to slipping (role: wearer) when I’m really wet. 

Strapless strap-ons aren’t for everyone – the wearer needs to have strong pelvic floor muscles to hold the bulb using their vagina hands-free AND harness-free. That entails lots of training and kegel exercises. Even then, it’s still quite challenging without the harness.

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Lifelike Lover Luxe is a black dildo for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. It’s a large dildo but neither too long nor too girthy – just right to hit your internal pleasure points.

The shaft isn’t too curved. Instead, it’s more angled to target your desired spot during penetration. That angle also helps as it is not bendable. But that firmness will work well for pegging and more vigorous thrusting. *wink*

This one is also very textured. The veins are too pronounced, and its head is bulging.

Since it’s quite hard, it could be too stimulating if you’re sensitive. Use lots of lube, so it glides easily and without irritating friction.

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King Cock Extra Girthy Ultra Realistic Black Suction Cup Dildo gives you more length and thickness. This monster dildo will stretch you and reach your deepest points – the real definition of BBC.

That said, it’s not for beginners as it’s going to be too thick to take in.

This big black dildo’s design is very realistic. If you look closely, you’ll see its small veins and skin-like lines. And you’ll feel these textures as it’s thick and will stimulate your internal walls.

It’s also designed without the balls to maximize its length – if you can go all the way in, that is.

Its suction cup really works for hands-free play as it’s pretty thick and hefty to hold single-handedly for solo play. Or, use it with your lover for strap-on fun.

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Bukkake. Creampies. Facials. Snowballing.

If you have those fantasies and kinks, you can bring them to life with Doc Johnson Bust It Ejaculating Dildo. 

This black dildo busts a nut, taking “realistic” to a whole new level. The veiny shaft looks very real, and it’s girthy. Plus, it comes with balls that add external stimulation as you can rub against it during thrusting.

You can use it with a partner or alone and hands-free. It has a Vac-U-Lock detachable suction cup for solo play.

It even comes with its very own “Nut Butter” semen-simulating formula. It shoots liquid that looks and feels like cum, not just plain water!

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Sometimes, it’s not about the length. It’s about the GIRTH. So if you’re a girth lover, you’re going to be best buddies with King Cock Mega Chubby.

That’s not to say that this one isn’t long enough. It still has a 7-inch insertable shaft which is bigger than average. 

But, oh, it’s thickness: an eye-watering 10-inch circumference!

Really, a girth-before-length sexperience.

As expected from King Cock, it has a realistic design with its veiny shaft, skin-like balls, and bulbous head.

This dildo is made from soft plastic and contains latex. You shouldn’t get this if you have any type of latex allergy.

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Partners in crime who like the BBC will enjoy the Doc Johnson Silicone Hollow Remote Control Strap-on Set. Plus, the dildo vibrates.

It’s very girthy, and the shaft is bulbous. It will really fill you up!

And it’s hollow, so even guys can use it to give their partner a different texture, a fuller sensation, and vibrrrations.

This one’s remote-controlled, so you won’t find yourself fumbling for the buttons to change between its 10 vibration functions and lose your momentum. 

The harness is easy to assemble and adjust to your body. I also like that it’s elasticated for comfort.

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Buying Guide: How to Choose the Best Black Dildo

How do you choose the best black dildo for you? Here’s a cheat sheet for your checklist:

Size

When it comes to black dildos, they’re often bigger than your average dong. Still, there are more regular-sized options available. I suggest you start with manageable sizes if you’re a beginner.

And by size, we mean the dildo’s length and girth.

Between these two numbers, you should pay more attention to the girth. You can control how deep (or shallow) you want to insert your dildo, but you can’t control its thickness. And if it’s VERY thick, then it’s going to be hard to glide inside you, especially if you’re tight or inexperienced.

But if you want to feel full and stretched out, you can go for the #thickums.

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Material

The dildo’s material is always a battle between porous versus nonporous. (Of course, there’s also price, quality, feel, firmness, and more to think about… But body-safe is always, and should be, a priority.)

Porous toys made of PVC, soft plastic, and TPE are more affordable. And with bigger dildos being more expensive, many options in the market are made from these materials to make the price more budget-friendly for everyone.

If you opt for this material, use it with caution. Always clean it properly, and you may also use a condom for extra protection to avoid potential infections.

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Realism

Your black dildo’s appearance is one of the reasons you’re getting it in the first place. They often have realistic designs with protruding veins, a bulbous head, and, sometimes, even swollen balls!

Of course, there are also non-realistic black dildos shaped specifically for certain stimulations in your internal pleasure points. For example, curved shafts for G-spot or P-spot stim, ridges to massage your internal walls, and so on.

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Other features

Dildos are commonly handheld toys. But many of today’s toys can be enjoyed hands-free. Some toys have a suction cup base, which means you can stick it to a wall or the floor and ride it that way. Harness-compatible dildos allow you to use them with a partner for pegging or woman-to-woman play.

And, there’s more. Some dildos vibrate (for that added stimulation) and “ejaculate” so you can simulate a more realistic play.

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Reviews

Buying your dildo isn’t only investing money in it but also trusting in a sex toy that you will use in your body. So, you should always research it to make sure it’s right for you.

Read reviews from users, check out videos of the product, go on some Reddit threads… just learn more about it before you check that cart out.

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Lube Choices

Lube is a dildo lover’s best friend, but you want to make sure you’re using the right kind of lube for your toy. Depending on the materials your dildo is made from, you might have some restrictions.

Silicone- and oil-based lubes, for example, can’t be used with silicone dildos without the risk of degrading the toy. However, glass and stainless steel dildos are safe to use with any kind of lube.
I like to play it safe and use water-based lube for all my toys. You’ll have one less thing to worry about, which means you can enjoy your dildo to the fullest, so to speak.

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FAQ

What is a black dildo?

A black dildo is a more niche category of dildos. But, they’re often associated with BIGGER and GIRTHIER. That’s because they’re inspired by the physique of African men to fulfill your fantasies. So, they usually come with realistic designs. 

But, that’s not always the case. Black dildos may not come in just black, but also in other darker colors. There are also black dildos that are more “average”-sized and do not have a realistic look and feel. Yey for more options!

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Why use a black dildo?

Well, black dildos are for sexplorers who are into the ebony experience. 

If you watch porn (who doesn’t?), you’ll know that the BBC is quite a popular category. Many fantasize about it because they’re usually bigger than your average peen. 

Also, black dildos are for representation, especially for realistic ones. Some people want to wear dildos for strap-ons that match their skin color.

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How to use it?

The key to using a black dildo is all about the lube. 

First, it should be the right lube. Second, you should use the right amount of lube.

Lube is important because black dildos are bigger. If you use it on your behind, then you’d need even more as the anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina.

From there, use it like any other dildo! Utilize its features and find the rhythm and angles that feel best to you.

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How to clean and store?

Wash your black dildo with gentle soap and warm water. Rinse well, then let it air-dry on a clean towel. And if your dildo is made of porous material, make sure to be more careful in cleaning it. Its tiny pores can store bacteria that could cause infections when it touches your most sensitive areas.

Then, take care to put it away from direct sunlight or damp spaces.

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Conclusion

And that’s it, an intro to your ebony sexperience.

We hope this guide helps you get a starting point for your black dildo shopping, whether you have a very specific fantasy of what you’re looking for or you have a vague idea of what you want. Surely, you will find one that ticks all of your checklists.