42 Best Most Realistic Dildos In 2023 (Lifelike & Real Feel)

Finding a realistic looking and feeling dildo that satisfies from hundreds of other dildos is not as difficult a process as it may seem. Read on:

Realistic Dildos

In this article, I’ll share 42 of the most realistic dildos based on my 2.5 years of testing different brands and textures, 30 hours of research, interviewing experts, and crowdsourcing enthusiast opinions.

You’ll be able to choose the perfect substitute that looks and feels like a real penis (minus the drama OFC *flips hair*).

So, what’s the most realistic feeling dildo for your experience level, taste, and sensitivity? Let’s see.

But if you’re greedy and can’t wait for some real-feel action, here are my TOP THREE choices:

SexualAlpha Top Pick

Vixen Mustang is our OVERALL BEST quality starter pick. While it looks so-so (much more on that later), it fits the bill in terms of quality, price, and hyper realistic feel. Whether you’re a dildo noob or connoisseur, you simply can’t go wrong with it!

Budget Pick

On the other hand, if you’re looking for a more AFFORDABLE OPTION, I’d recommend going for the Blush Neo Elite dildos. They come in bright and colorful models; the best part is you don’t have to use your hands to pleasure yourself. Simply stick these bad boys on a flat surface, and you’re off to a wild ride ahead. 

World’s Most Realistic

Now, if you’re willing to invest in that one D to rule them all after your fair share of fake and real dicks (no pun intended), get RealCock 2 Dirk. It’s hands-down the MOST REALISTIC looking and feeling dildo for 3-4x the price of other dual-density dildos.


The Most Realistic Dildos In 2023

Best Budget Pick

Blush Neo Elite

SexualAlpha Top Pick

Vixen Mustang

World’s Most Realistic

RealCock 2 Dirk

Price:
$
$$
$$$
Insertable Length:
7”
6.5”
8.5”
Diameter:
1.5”
1.6”
2”
Material:
Silicone
VixSkin Silicone
Platinum Silicone
Harness Compatible?:
Yes
Yes
Yes

Vixen Creations Lifelike Dual Density Dildos 

Sex toy empire, Vixen Creations has been producing high-quality hand-crafted sex toys since 1992. They are one of the largest dildo producers in the US. 

Well, first of all, their dual-density dildos have a firm silicone core and a super soft n squishy silicone layer on top – excellent choice for your sweet spot and anal play. And thanks to their own special silicone formula, VixSkin, they are also one of the biggest manufacturers of the best realistic dildos. 

So, what makes VixSkin so special?

Vixen has added a silicone lubricant within the molecules, which gives the dildo its hyper-realistic feeling, extra softness, and increased elasticity. 

Just be prepared…the internal lubrication does make it feel ‘sticky’. 

The best thing about Vixen Creations is the huge variety of lifelike dildos they offer.

The most popular of these is the VixSkin Mustang…


SexualAlpha top pick

Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang is the OVERALL BEST quality dildo that we’ve tested by far. And it’s as close to the real thing sliding inside you as it gets.

It’s not as realistic looking (no balls, no color gradients for the skin tone ones) as most dongs on this list, but for its super REALISTIC FEEL, great quality, and good price, you cannot go wrong with it!

It’s the right combination of dual-density and their patented life-like VixSkin material. For you, that means you get that SOFT, SKIN-LIKE FEEL as you touch and put it inside you. PLUS that FULLY ERECT COCK FEEL when you thrust it inside.

It’s temperature-responsive and retains body heat, so you’ll feel like you’re riding a living, throbbing cock.

Pro Tip

For that warm first penetration, pre-heat the Mustang in a bowl of warm water. Leave it there for 5-10 minutes, and BAM! Hot-dong incoming!

The Mustang is your average penis size with a slightly tapered head and a wider base, making it great for everyday use for most peeps and warmup use for size royals.

Its pronounced head and curved shaft make it a great G-spot or P-spot toy. PLUS, the suction cup base comes in handy if you want to play alone and experiment with different positions. Just make sure to choose a clean, smooth and flat surface for proper adhesion.

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.


What I Like Most…

Unlike most dual-density dildos, the Mustang comes in different colors to fit any colored peen of your fantasy. It even comes in non-flesh color options for users who crave the realistic feel but are put off by the disembodied visual.

I got the tie-bright variation that quickly stood out from the flesh-tone ones. It gives off that “I-want-you-in-my-mouth-right-now” kind of impression, making it a fantastic sex toy for blowjob simulation and practice.

The best part is the super-soft, squishy tip that cushions my cervix. THAT MEANS you can thrust as deep and fast as you want, without the FEAR of hurting yourself.


However…

The VixSkin material is quite a lint and dirt magnet, but the cleanup is very easy. And using a cloth bag for storage helps A LOT.

Vixen Creations Dildo
Insertable Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
5”
1.1”
A non-intimidating realistic dildo makes
the Spur a great starter dildo from Vixen Creations.
7.5”
1.67”
You get a little extra girth. And the rounded head is great for hitting your sweet spots.
7”
1.9”
A gentle curve to the uncut shaft and hanging
balls that feel like the real deal pressed up against you.
6”
1.6”
A gentle curve to the shaft and hanging
balls that feel like the real deal pressed up against you.
9”
2”
Girthy AND long. This is the Vixen dildo
for the size queens in the room.

See our Vixskin Outlaw review.
7.5”
1.9”
Bulbous head gives a nice pop when
you insert, and that exaggerated tip plus curve
also make it a G&P spot pleaser.

Budget Pick

Blush Neo Elite

Up next in the realistic dildo ring is the Neo Elite Range. These are another affordable dual-density dildo range making them the BEST BUDGET PICK.

They cost between $29 and $35. Sweet!

Blush brings its own dual-density technology, called SENSA FEEL. So, they have the lifelike shape, form, and texture of an actual penis.

SheVibe has eight colorful Neo Elite silicone dildos to choose from in various shapes, sizes, and bases. 

Let’s break ’em down…

Neo Elite Dildo
Insertable
Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable
Length
4.5”
5.5”
7”
5.5”
Diameter
1.4”
1.75”
1.5”
1.5”
Dildo Details
Available in pink and green. If you prefer girth over length, then this is your dildo.

Slightly less texture than the others.
Available in pink and blue. This is a good all-rounder. Slightly longer than average, good GIRTH, strong suction cup, and balls. 
Available in pink and blue with glow-in-the dark variants. Soft n smooth silicone with a tapered head. Suction cup for hands-free fun.

No balls though!
Available in pink and orange. You get less insertable length with this bright member, but you do get a good set of balls to replace those missing inches.

Oh, and veins! Extra texture.

What I Like Most…

The many options PLUS affordability.

It’s one of the most affordable dual-density realistic dildos.

Their fun and bright colors also make them unique from the flurry of skin tones in usual realistic dildos.

Its suction cup is also really strong, so you can definitely use it hands-free. It’s also harness-compatible for pegging.


The Only Downside Is…

These dildos come in various color options, and all are in colorful, bright colors. NO skin tone color at all.

Of course, there are many realistic dildos with fleshy colors for you to get instead if that’s important for you. Blush Neo Lite is definitely for those who want their realistic dildos in non-realistic shades.

Up next in the realistic dildo ring is the Neo Elite Range. These are another affordable dual-density dildo range making them the BEST BUDGET PICK.

They cost between $29 and $35. Sweet!

Blush brings its own dual-density technology, called SENSA FEEL. So, they have the lifelike shape, form, and texture of an actual penis.

SheVibe has eight colorful Neo Elite silicone dildos to choose from in various shapes, sizes, and bases. 

Let’s break ’em down…

Neo Elite Dildo
Insertable
Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable
Length
4.5”
5.5”
7”
5.5”
Diameter
1.4”
1.75”
1.5”
1.5”
Dildo Details
Available in pink and green. If you prefer girth over length, then this is your dildo.

Slightly less texture than the others.
Available in pink and blue. This is a good all-rounder. Slightly longer than average, good GIRTH, strong suction cup, and balls. 
Available in pink and blue with glow-in-the dark variants. Soft n smooth silicone with a tapered head. Suction cup for hands-free fun.

No balls though!
Available in pink and orange. You get less insertable length with this bright member, but you do get a good set of balls to replace those missing inches.

Oh, and veins! Extra texture.

What I Like Most…

The many options PLUS affordability.

It’s one of the most affordable dual-density realistic dildos.

Their fun and bright colors also make them unique from the flurry of skin tones in usual realistic dildos.

Its suction cup is also really strong, so you can definitely use it hands-free. It’s also harness-compatible for pegging.


The Only Downside Is…

These dildos come in various color options, and all are in colorful, bright colors. NO skin tone color at all.

Of course, there are many realistic dildos with fleshy colors for you to get instead if that’s important for you. Blush Neo Lite is definitely for those who want their realistic dildos in non-realistic shades.


most realistic dildo

World’s most realistic dildos

RealCock 2 Dirk

If you’re looking for the best long-term investment dildo in high-level realism, get any RealCock 2 dildo like the Dirk. It’s hands-down the most realistic looking and feeling dildo for 3-4x the price of other dual-density dongs.

The talented artists at RealDoll got every detail, color, shading, and texture from the tip to the balls down to a T. Mine even came with FREAKIN’ FRECKLES! Amazing hand-painted detail work, right?

Imagine lining up a wet Dirk with many other wet cocks and getting the chance to look and feel each of them. You can never tell which one’s fake!

That’s how INSANELY REALISTIC the Dirk is (or any RealCock 2, for that matter).

Unlike other dual-density dildos that only give two layers, RealCocks have THREE LAYERS to give you that more realistic look, feel, and some movement.

It has a firm inner core that bends like an actual dick. Then, a separate soft outer layer that mimics textured human skin with a bit of up-and-down foreskin movement.

PLUS a pigmented silicone layer for that extra visual appeal. (THINK pores, wrinkles, and raised blue bulging veins!)

Check out our in-depth review here.


What I Like Most…

I didn’t expect the MOVEMENT from the shaft and floating testicles to be addicting. Feeling the shaft is kinda like giving your man the handjob of his dreams.

The secret is RealCock’s Sil-Slide technology that gives you a bit of foreskin-like movement as it slides in your hand, mouth, and inside you. You have to F it to believe it.

Unlike the fused silicone balls that you get from other dildos, there’s a separate movement from Dirk’s squishy balls, just like the real thing. Squeezing one testicle at a time pales the outer scrotum like REAL STRETCHED SKIN.

You can even customize the skin tone and use it as a prosthetic. Wear it, and nobody can tell it’s not real (heck, not even yourself!).


The Only Downside Is…

RealCocks are SUPER EXPENSIVE. We’re talking $500-$800 apiece! (Say what??) 

But for the crème de la crème of realistic dildos, why not? The Dirk is a long-term investment for the palate-refined goddess who knows what she wants.

Just think of it this way: 

  • If you use it 2x/week for a year, that’s 52 weeks x 2 = 104 times…
  • and let’s say for 3 years (but why would you even stop using him it?) 
  • That’s like 300x intense pleasure with a dildo you love!

For $2 per luxury session (and you can come more than once)? Sounds like a good deal to me.

Just be patient once you make your order because it takes around 30 days to get every nook and cranny of your RealCock right.

RealCock 2 Dildos
Insertable Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable Length
8.5”
6.5”
6.5”
10”
6”
Diameter
2”
1.62”
1.87”
3.25”
2.2”
Dildo Details
A strong, straight shaft with realistic veins running from balls to a velvety soft tip. A pronounced coronal ridge will do wonders for P-spot and G-spot stimulation.
A little smaller in length and girth, but he has the same great real-feel, veiny texture, and ridged head. But what you do get is a nice curved shaft to hit those hard-to-reach hot spots.
Super textured testicles. The head isn’t quite as large or as pronounced, which does make for easier insertion. But don’t be fooled; it gets girthy quickly!
The slightly tapered head lets you slip it in gently, but you will need to work your way up to taking the 3.25” diameter. Good luck reaching the balls is all I can say!
It’s the shortest and newest member of the RealCock family. The perfect dong for size royals who want to feel stretched without going all-in on length.

Ultra-realistic feel

Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo

For those who want to dip their toes into the dual-density dildo world, buy BMS Factory’s Naked Addiction. It doesn’t win the award for most lifelike looking. But for its price, it gets that realistic feeling job done.

While not the cheapest on our list, it gives you 80% of VixSkin’s quality at half the price of one! (Only $60? Are you kidding me?)

Its IncrediFeel technology gives you that realistic feel – a bit of squishy tip and soft shaft. PLUS a firm core that keeps it upright. For you, that means it squeezes just right in your hand while you’re using it.

It’s the perfect balance of realistic detail and smoothness, so you get that skin-like details and veins on the outside and that gentle, not too-draggy feel as you put it inside.

It also comes with easy-to-grip squishy balls with some texture. While they’re not as flexible and loose as RealCock’s Dirk or the real thing, they feel like ‘EM REAL BALLS once you thrust them in.


What I Like Most…

Naked Addiction is surprisingly not as sticky as most dual-density silicone dildos (think Vixen Mustang). THAT MEANS you don’t have to worry about hair or dirt easily sticking to it. 

I also liked its strong suction cup base that sticks to any flat surface, which most suction cup dildos seem to miss.

Pair it with its bendable shaft. And now, you can hump to your heart’s content, whether on top, on the bottom, standing up, doggy style, on the wall, legs up, etc.


The Only Downsides Are…

You don’t get a lot of options in terms of color and size.

You only get one SUPER PALE COLOR that’s whiter than a person who’s never seen the sun (not the throbbing realistic penis most of us are looking for).

Also, you only get one size with a pretty straight shaft and a tapered, petite head. It might not give you that G-spot or P-spot pleasure you want.


Lifelike Lover

The Lifelike Lover range, as the name suggests, consists of realistic-looking dildos that are great for both beginners and more experienced penis lovers!

With its suction base, this dildo can stick to just about any flat surface, making it easy to use. It is also compatible with a harness, making your nights much more exciting and kinky for your utmost pleasure. 

This sex toy has a bendable shaft that lets you reach angles that a human penis can’t. It’s very soft and realistic, and people often use it for oral, vaginal, and even anal penetration.


What I Like Most…

The Lifelike Lover dildos have excellent attention to detail. It has a well-made shaft, balls, and a head that hits all the right spots for the perfect orgasm. Not a single piece is left out, even adding a hole for the urethra on the very tip.

The soft texture is great for those who want to make their nights a little rough. But if you’re going to take it easy, you could always stick it to a flat surface and have your hips do all the action. 

The bendable shaft and pulsating head make it easy to reach the ever illusive G-spot. And the texture nails it down in having an actual human penis in front of you. Or shall we say, INSIDE of you.

The Lovehoney Lifelike range is affordable and great for people new to dildos. It doesn’t need batteries, so you can take it wherever your wildest fantasies take you. 

The Only Downside Is…

The toy can feel stiff and rigid when warm, but a little lube will fix that.

Also, if you prefer bigger sizes, this range of dildos might not fill that need in you.

For more details on this series, here’s a quick guide just for you:

Lifelike Lover Dildos
Insertable Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable Length
5”
5”
5.5”
6.5”
8”
Diameter
1.5”
1.75”
1.57”
1.5”
1.75”
Dildo Details
Realistic dildo with balls and bendable shaft for lifelike solo or shared play. It has a defined head, veined shaft, and firm balls that offer real-deal stimulation.
6” dual-density dildo with balls for realistic sensations. Texture includes supple balls, a defined head, and authentic veins to increase pleasure.
Ultra-realistic dildo vibrator with remote control for thrilling solo or couples play. It is USB rechargeable with six speeds and patterns to explore.
Its silken, hypoallergenic silicone feels fantastic against sensitive skin. And the rounded head, raised veins, and curved shaft deliver incredible internal sensations.
The dildo curves naturally to produce sensational G-spot or P-spot stimulation. And it is best suited to people with some experience with large models.

most realistic dildos

Doc Johnson Platinum TRUSKYN Dildos

Doc Johnson is a powerhouse in the sex toy industry, most notably for their patented Vac-U-Lock system. But they have also developed their own dual-density silicone, TRUSKYN. 

With the Doc’s Tru Ride range, you get a selection of realistic dildos made from platinum silicone in different sizes and two color options – caramel and vanilla. 

Tru Ride 6″ and 8″ dildos both share the same design of a well-defined coronal ridge, realistic balls, and a large head giving extra internal stimulation.

On the other hand, the Tru Ride Slim 7″ has more prominent veins and skin plus a tapered tip for easy insertion. While it doesn’t come with balls like the 6″ and 8″ variants, it has a gentle curve that’s great at hitting your G- or P-spot perfectly.

Here’s a quick size guide of the Tru Riders:

Doc Johnson
TRUSKYN Dildo
Insertable Length
Diameter
Insertable Length
6.5”
7.3”
7.3”
Diameter
1.7”
2”
2.1”

Talking about size…

Word of warning to the size royals tempted to go for the Tru Ride 8”. 

This measurement is for the full length of the dildo (8.1”) NOT the insertable length. A bit of deceptive labeling going on there Doc! 

For length AND girth, go for the Tru Ride 6”. 


What I Like Most…

Its price! 

For its realism AND size, it’s super affordable compared to other similar dildos.

It definitely looks super realistic, and it’s made of silicone. The bulbous head and veiny shaft look lifelike.

They even come with textured balls. I think they are a nice addition. They add extra realism, AND they do make a good handle when it comes to solo play.

It also feels really good—rigid but feels soft and squishy outside.


The Only Downside Is…

It doesn’t come with a suction cup. And there’s no option for a Vac-U-Lock attachment either.

Thrusting into it hands-free is still possible, though. 
It’s awkward and not very easy, but possible.


real feeling dildo, real feel dildo

Uberrime Dual Density Dildos

The word “Uberrime” is Latin for luxury and abundance, so it gives you an indication of what to expect.

What I Like Most…

These are handcrafted artisanal dildos, which means that each dildo will differ slightly in color and finish. That only means your dildo will be truly one and only

But the overall quality and design will stay the same.

Talking about design…

They have a strong, flexible core that moves with you. And an outer layer is squishy enough that it doesn’t hurt when you clench around it. 

Plus, these realistic dildos have an exaggeratedly bigger head that shows your G-spot or P-spot a good time.


The Only Downside Is

Its small base.

It makes handling a little harder, especially if you’re using lube. Keep a cloth handy to wipe any excess so you can keep a good grip.

They are harness compatible though, so if you have a partner – you can strap in. But for solo play, a suction cup base would have been a nice addition.

Let’s take a closer look at the top four best realistic dildos from the Ubberime sex toy collection:

Uberrime Dual
Density Dildo
Insertable
Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Uberrime Dual
Density Dildo
Insertable
Length
7”
7.5”
5.5”
6”
5.25”-7.5”
Diameter
Head: 1.91”
Shaft: 1.81”
Head: 2.19
Shaft: 2.15”
Head: 1.75”
Shaft: 1.47”
Head: 1.87”
Shaft: 1.67”
Head: 1.43”-2”
Shaft:
1.59”-2.07”
Dildo Details
A forward curve and prominent bundled foreskin designed for unique G-Spot or prostate stimulation.
A forward curve and a thick coronal ridge
are great for G-spot or P-spot stimulation.
Great starter dildo, with its non-intimidating
size. The pronounced foreskin brings the
fun factor
More foreskin! A curved shaft for hitting the
good spots and a veiny texture for extra
stimulation.
Uberrime’s first dual-density dildo.
Comes in three different sizes and a range of
sparkly colors. With a huge ridge and a curved
shaft for spot stimulation.

Fleshjack Boys

From the creators of Fleshlight comes the Fleshjack Boys – a range of lifecast porno cocks for the discerning gay man.

What I Like Most…

If you have a favorite pornstar who’s in this dildo line, then getting this dildo would be the closest thing to doing it with them.

Fleshjack dildos are life cast from some of the most popular actors, particularly those in gay porn.

It’s made of silicone, high quality, and super lifelike. You can’t go wrong with this whether you’re a fan or not.


The Only Downside Is…

There’s no suction cup. 

It’s a little awkward for solo play, but not the biggest gripe, TBH.

The Fleshjack dildos are single-density but are made from premium silicone.

You might not get the same sensation from the likes of TRUSKYN or VixSkin, but thanks to the attention to detail, you still get a natural- feel dildo.

Let’s check out a few of the boys…

Let’s check out a few of the boys…

FleshJack Boy
Insertable Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable Length
7”
7.25”
6”
5.75”
7.25”
Diameter
1.75”
1.8”
1.9”
1.9”
2”
Dildo Details
One of the “slimmer” cocks in the range – but still a challenge. The smooth tip will make for easy insertion, though.
Wah, mama. Fill your ass with this sizable shaft and let that uniquely shaped head hit your P-spot.
You can ride this Ducati as fast and as furious as you like. Take that bend slowly, though, to enjoy it fully!
If you prefer girth to length, then this slice of man meat will pack you good. That coronal ridge should also please you.
Use plenty of lube to take in the uncut cock of Boomer Banks. Length, girth, and a smooth/veiny shaft.

King Cock

This range of suction cup dildos from King Cock is realistic and has a huge, meaty girth that will take you to new lengths of pleasure and ecstasy. You can stick these guys to any flat surface or a harness to get that satisfying sensation to fulfill your inner fantasies.

These monster dildos have pulsating heads that stand out and veins to keep those stimulations high and magical. You can take them vaginally or orally and enjoy the whole length with or without balls.


What I Like Most…

When I first got my hands on a King Cock model, I liked how it was slightly flexible but also stiff enough that it didn’t bend too much. It has light veins, so it has less of a ridge than other dildos, although the size already makes up for it. 

 The King Cock doesn’t have a motor or vibrating motion, so it’s purely for thrusting. But personally, adding one to the toy will have it rocket on one of my top dildos to use of all time. 

Additionally, if you like pegging, you can also have your partner put the dildo in his mouth while you wear it with a strap-on.  You can attach these monsters to almost any smooth surface, so you’re bound to get a little playful with your scenarios for this one.


The Only Downside Is…

It may be too big and girthy for some people. And the suction cup base could be a bit stronger. Though, it’s merely a personal taste since I like to get rough with my toys during my “R&R,” if you know what I mean.

If you’re curious about the sizes, here’s a quick rundown:

King Cock Dildos
Insertable Length
Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable Length
8.5”
9.5”
7”
10”
Diameter
2.25”
2.5”
2.5”
2.5”
Dildo Details
Large, extra-thick realistic dildo for supersize fantasies. Girthy and textured for mindblowing internal sensations.
Best for users with experience. It has a balls-free design giving 9.5 insertable inches of fun.
Has a textured shaft and balls to enhance internal and external stimulation. Mega 10-inch girth without mega-length for a stretch without depth.
Rock hard shaft with a flexible tip for pinpoint stimulation. Easy twist control delivers variable speed vibrations.

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Mr. Hankey Ultra Realistic Pornstar Molded Dildos

As well as their sizable creations and sci-fi-inspired dongs, Mr. Hankey also have a wide variety of best realistic dildos, including lifecast molds from popular porn star penises. 

They are above average to start with, but Mr. Hankey takes them to the next level with four different sizes, from original to XXXL. 


What I Like Most…

They keep all the real-life details, veins, creases, and ball texture but just MAXIMIZE them.

This is what I love about Mr. Hankey…the control. 

As well as choosing your preferred size, you get to choose the color, level of firmness… AND for an extra 5 bucks, you can have a Vac-U-Lock hole in the base.


The Only Downsides Are…

This realistic dildo isn’t dual-density. BUT many regular Mr. Hankey customers claim their silicone toys feel more lifelike than other single-density sex toys.

You can also choose the firmness you want (medium firm or 75% soft?), which is really nice.

Also, they’re on the pricier side. BUT—Mr. Hankey dildos are some of the most carefully crafted, detailed realistic dildos. 

You’ll get what you pay for.

Let’s take a look at some of Mr. Hankey’s porno pricks:

Mr. Hankey Lifecast Cocks
Insertable Length
Max Diameter
Dildo Details
Insertable Length
7”-13”
4.9”-10.25”
6.7”-11.5”
7.1”-12.25”
8”-12.5”
Max Diameter
2”-3.8”
1.9”-4.3”
2.2”-4”
1.9”-3.5”
1.9”-2.9”
Dildo Details
Long veiny shaft with a natural curve. The prominent head hits where it needs to with authority!
The XXXL of Michels’ mammoth cock will make the size queen’s eyes roll into the back of their heads. Super girthy.
Thick veins on a thick cock, but those round balls are seriously impressive…if you can get balls-deep.
To experience the ‘real’ Ray Diesel man-meat, go for the Medium-Original size. But even the small will give your P-spot a good seeing to! 
This twink dick will make your eyes water. Even the extra-long shaft will be poking its way past your 2nd sphincter!

What is a realistic dildo?

A realistic dildo is a category of dildo that LOOKS and FEELS like a real penis.

It’s shaped like a penis—the veiny shaft, bulbous head, and skin-like texture. Most colors are skin tones as well.

Some even have balls! Not only are they visually appealing, but they could also add stimulation (it hits your perineum, for one).

To emulate the feel of a penis, most lifelike dildos have dual density. The inner core is firm (like an erection), while the outer material feels soft and squishy (like flesh).

The double density is exquisite—it’s not too floppy, making insertion difficult. But it’s also not too rigid, which is borderline painful.


Why should I buy a realistic dildo?

Definitely—if you want penetrative sex and you get turned on with the sight of a penis.

It’s a great dildo to use alone, but you can also incorporate it in partnered play to spice things up.

For example, you can use it for double penetration without bringing in an extra person for a threesome.

Another pro? Using a lifelike dildo is the most realistic way for you to practice how to give a blowjob!


What To Consider When Shopping For the Best Realistic Dildo?

Here are the most important factors to pay attention to when shopping for the best realistic dildo for YOU:

Size Matters

When it comes to dildos, size matters! If you’re a newbie to any dildo action, start off with a smaller dildo. BUT, not too small!

You can always work your way up to taking more cock, but a short dildo won’t get any bigger.

So give yourself an extra couple of inches to work with…just in case! 

If you’re worried about girth…think of how many fingers you can take inside you. This will give you a rough estimate of what diameter you should go for. 

If you are still unsure of what’s the perfect size for you, feel free to check out our guide on dildo sizes.


Shape, Curve, And Texture

Maybe you prefer a long, straight schlong that will knock on your cervix? Or, you love the stretch from a girthy boy. Or, maybe you like a curved cock to hit those hard-to-reach places? 

To stimulate the G-spot or prostate, go for a dildo with a harder or more bulbous head. For stimulation all the way in then a dildo with realistic veins and ridges will do the trick.


Firmness

Dual-density is what brings the most realism to your dildo. The firm core covered with a soft silicone outer layer creates that feeling of a hard dick with smooth skin.

Some dual-density dildos will be squishier or feel softer on the outside depending on their particular silicone technology. It’s just a matter of trying them out and finding the right balance.


Material

You can find dildos made from a variety of different materials, from glass to ceramic, PVC, stainless, and of course, silicone. But when it comes to REALISTIC dildos, body-safe silicone is best. 

Why?

  • It mimics the feeling of skin really well; 
  • It’s super flexible;
  • It reacts to your body temperature, warming up as actual dicks would;
  • It’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, and phthalate-free;
  • And it’s also easy to clean and sanitize. 

Versatility

Realistic dildos can do more than fill your holes. Mix it up by choosing one with a Vac-u-Lock hole so you can add it to a fucking machine

No fucking machine? No problem! 

Go for a suction cup base for more playtime options. Or one that is harness-friendly for hands-free fun. 


Budget

Realistic dildos are pretty affordable. You can get good ones for more or less $50, and they’re already dual density.

If you’re ready to splurge, you may get the really premium ones at around or over $100.

The level of craftsmanship and attention to detail is worth paying the price tag.

From experience, I recommend you invest in a nice quality realistic dildo. It doesn’t have to be the most premium, but something you know is GOOD.

I purchased cheap plastic dildos when I was young, and I regretted them. Poor quality and materials. Ergh.

Check the best sex toys for women for more options.


How to use realistic dildos?

Using a realistic dildo is pretty similar to using any other dildo.

First, foreplay is necessary to get you hot and ready.

Next, LUBE UP. Regardless of which hole you’re inserting it into.

Finally, insertion! You can do this slowly and then thrust in and out when you feel comfortable. 

It’s as easy as 1-2-3.

You can also do various dildo techniques


How To Clean & Maintain My Realistic Silicone Dildo?

Cleaning

Wash your dildo straight after use.

If you are going for a realistic silicone dildo, then cleaning is simple. You can use a sex toy cleaner, or just run it under hot water and wash it with some mild soap. 

To sanitize it, pop it into boiling water for a few minutes. Some silicone dildos can also be put in the dishwasher. Just check the care instructions first to be sure! 

Here’s an in-depth guide on how to clean your sex toy.


Use The Right Lube

The right lube will depend on the material of your dildo. Silicone lube is nice and thick and lasts longer, but it breaks down silicone. As will oil-based lubes. If you’ve gone for a silicone realistic dildo, stick with water-based lube.

Not sure what lube to use? Check out our best lube guide here.


Where can I buy the most realistic dildos online?

There are plenty of online shops where you can get the best realistic dildos. But not all of them are great.

Go to trustworthy sex toy shops like SheVibe and Lovehoney. As much as possible.

You can assure these retailers only sell good quality and authentic sex toys. Plus, you can shop worry-free with their reliable customer support and services.


Get Real!

The most realistic dildo can feel even better than the real thing.

And yes, even better than getting the best male torso dildo sex toy.

They can be as long as you like, as fat or as thin as you like, curve the way you want them to, have a foreskin or be clean-cut…whatever floats your penis boat. 

In all, if your top priority is a dildo that makes you feel like you’re having sex with someone else and not just your own hand, perhaps one of these realistic dildos will do the trick.

So, pick your prick and enjoy!

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.

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