Finding a realistic looking and feeling dildo that satisfies from hundreds of other dildos is not as difficult a process as it may seem. Read on:
In this article, I’ll share 33 of the most realistic dildos based on my 2.5 years of testing different brands and textures, 30 hours of research, interviewing experts, and crowdsourcing enthusiast opinions.
You’ll be able to choose the perfect substitute that looks and feels like a flesh-and-blood penis (minus the drama OFC *flips hair*).
So, what’s the most realistic dildo for your experience level, taste, and sensitivity? Let’s see.
But if you’re greedy and can’t wait for some real-feel action, here are my TOP THREE choices:
Vixen Mustang is our OVERALL BEST quality starter pick. While it looks so-so (much more on that later), it fits the bill in terms of quality, price, and super realistic feel. Whether you’re a dildo noob or connoisseur, you simply can’t go wrong with it!
Now, if you’re willing to invest in that one D to rule them all after your fair share of fake and real dicks (no pun intended), get RealCock 2 Dirk. It’s hands-down the MOST REALISTIC looking and feeling dildo for 3-4x the price of other dual-density dildos.
But if you’re looking for a BUDGET option for your first dual-density experience (I feel you, we all got ‘em bills to pay), go with BMS Factory’s Naked Addiction. While it’s not the best in the looks-and-feels department, it still does a damn good job for its price.
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The Most Realistic Dildos In 2021
RealCock 2 Dirk
Price: $$$
Insertable Length: 8-5”
Diameter: 2”
Material: Platinum Silicone
Harness Compatible?: Yes
Vixen Mustang
Price: $$
Insertable Length: 7-7.5”
Diameter: 1.6”
Material: Silicone
Harness Compatible?: Yes
Naked Addiction
Price: $
Insertable Length: 6”
Diameter: 1.5”
Material: Premium Silicone
Harness Compatible?: Yes
Vixen Creations Lifelike Dual Density Dildos
Sex toy empire, Vixen Creations has been producing high-quality hand-crafted sex toys since 1992. They are one of the largest dildo producers in the US.
Well, first of all, their dual-density dildos have a firm silicone core and soft n squishy silicone layer on top. And thanks to their own special silicone formula, VixSkin, they are also one of the biggest manufacturers of realistic dildos.
So, what makes VixSkin so special?
Vixen has added a silicone lubricant within the molecules, which gives the dildo its hyper-realistic feeling, extra softness, and increased elasticity.
Just be prepared…the internal lubrication does make it feel ‘sticky’.
The best thing about Vixen Creations is the huge variety of realistic dildos they offer.
The most popular of these is the Vixen Mustang…
1-6. Vixen Mustang
SexualAlpha top pick
Vixen Mustang is the OVERALL BEST quality starter dildo that we’ve tested by far. It’s as close to the real thing sliding inside you as it gets.
It’s not as realistic looking (no balls, no color gradients for the flesh tone ones), but for its super REALISTIC FEEL, great quality, and good price, you cannot go wrong with it!
It’s the right combination of dual-density and their patented life-like VixSkin material. For you, that means you get that SOFT, SKIN-LIKE FEEL as you touch and put it inside you. PLUS that realistic ERECT FEEL when you thrust it inside.
It’s temperature-responsive and retains body heat, so you’ll feel like you’re riding a living, throbbing cock.
PRO TIP: For that warm first penetration, pre-heat the Mustang in a bowl of hot water. Leave it there for 5-10 minutes, and BAM! Hot-dong incoming!
The Mustang is your average penis size with a tapered head and a wider base, making it great for everyday use for most peeps and warmup use for size queens.
Its pronounced head and curved shaft make it a great G-spot, P-spot, or anal toy. PLUS the suction cup base comes in handy if you want to play alone and experiment with different positions. Just make sure to choose a clean and smooth surface for proper adhesion.
What I Like Most…
Unlike most dual-density dildos, the Mustang comes in different colors to fit any colored peen of your fantasy. It even comes in non-flesh color options for users who crave the realistic feel but are put off by the disembodied visual.
I got the tie-bright variation that quickly stood out from the flesh tone ones. It gives off that “I-want-you-in-my-mouth-right-now” kind of impression, making it a great toy for oral sex simulation and practice.
I also like the soft, squishy tip that cushions my cervix. THAT MEANS you can thrust as deep and fast as you want, without the FEAR of hurting yourself.
HOWEVER…
The VixSkin material is quite a lint and dirt magnet, but the cleanup is very easy. And using a cloth bag for storage helps A LOT.
| Vixen Creation Dildo | Insertable Length | Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Vixen Spur | 5” | 1.1” | A non-intimidating realistic dildo makes the Spur a great starter dildo from Vixen Creation. |
| Vixen Bandit | 7.5” | 1.75” | You get a little extra girth. And the rounded head is great for hitting the hot spots |
| Vixen Johnny | 6” | 1.4” | A gentle curve to the shaft and hanging balls that feel like the real deal pressed up against you. |
| Vixen Goodfella | 6” | 1.4” | A gentle curve to the shaft and hanging balls that feel like the real deal pressed up against you. |
| Vixen Outlaw | 9” | 2” | Girthy AND long. This is the Vixen dildo for the size queens in the room. See our Vixskin Outlaw review. |
| Vixen Maverick | 7.5” | 1.9” | Bulbous head gives a nice pop when you insert and that exaggerated curve also makes it a G&P spot pleaser. |
7-10. RealCock 2
World’s most realistic dildo
If you’re looking for the best long-term investment dildo in high-level realism, get RealCock 2 Dirk. It’s hands-down the most realistic looking and feeling dildo out there for 3-4x the price of other dual-density dongs.
The talented artists at RealDoll got every detail, color, shading, and texture from the tip to the balls down to a T. Mine even came with FREAKIN’ FRECKLES! Amazing detail work, right?
Imagine lining up a wet Dirk with many other wet cocks and getting the chance to look and feel each of them. You can never tell which one’s fake!
That’s how INSANELY REALISTIC the Dirk is (or any cock from RealDoll, for that matter).
Unlike other dual-density dildos that only give two layers, RealCocks have THREE LAYERS to give you that more realistic look, feel, and some movement.
It has a firm inner core that bends like an actual erection. Then, a soft, separate layer that mimics textured skin with a bit of up-and-down foreskin movement.
PLUS a pigmented silicone layer for that extra visual appeal. (THINK pores, wrinkles, and raised blue veins!)
What I Like Most…
I didn’t expect the MOVEMENT from the shaft and testicles to be addicting. Feeling the shaft is kinda like giving your man the handjob of his dreams.
The secret is RealCock’s Sil-Slide technology that gives you a bit of foreskin-like movement as it slides in your hand, mouth, and inside you. You have to F it to believe it.
Unlike the fused silicone balls that you get from other dildos, there’s a separate movement from Dirk’s squishy balls, just like the real thing. Squeezing one testicle at a time pales the outer scrotum like REAL STRETCHED SKIN.
You can even customize the skin tone and use it as a prosthetic. Wear it, and nobody can tell it’s not real (heck, not even yourself!).
The Only Downside Is…
RealCocks are SUPER EXPENSIVE. We’re talking $500-$800 apiece! (Say what??)
But for the crème de la crème of realistic dildos, why not? The Dirk is a long-term investment for the palate-refined goddess who knows what she wants.
Just think of it this way:
- If you use it 2x/week for a year, so 52 weeks x 2 = 104 times…
- and let’s say for 3 years (but why would you even stop using
himit?)… - That’s like 300x intense pleasure with a dildo you love!
For $2 per luxury session and you can come more than once? Sounds like a good deal to me.
Just be patient once you make your order because it takes around 30 days to get every nook and cranny of your RealCock right.
| RealCock 2 Dildos | Insertable Length | Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Dirk | 8.5” | 2” | A strong, straight shaft with realistic veins running from balls to a velvety soft tip. A pronounced coronal ridge will do wonders for G-spot and P-spot. |
| Jones | 6.5” | 1.⅝” | A little smaller in length and girth, but he has the same great real-feel, veiny texture, and ridged head. But what you do get, is a nice curved shaft to hit those hard to reach hot spots. |
| Rockwell | 6.5” | 1.⅞” | Super textured testicles. The head isn’t quite as large or as pronounced, which does make for easier insertion. But don’t be fooled, it gets girthy quickly! |
| Bruce | 10” | 3.25” | The slightly tapered head lets you slip it in gently, but you will need to work your way up to taking the 3.25” diameter. Good luck reaching the balls is all I can say! |
11. Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo
Ultra-realistic feel
For the budget-conscious who wants to dip their toes into the world of dual-density dildos, buy BMS Factory’s Naked Addiction. It doesn’t win the award for most realistic looking, but it gets the job done for its price.
While not the cheapest on our list, it gives you 80% of VixSkin’s quality at half the price of one! (Only $60? Are you kidding me?)
Its IncrediFeel technology gives you that ultra-realistic feel – a bit of squishy tip and soft shaft. PLUS a firm core that keeps it upright. For you, that means it squeezes just right in your hand and while you’re using it.
It’s the perfect balance of detail and smoothness, so you get that skin-like details and veins on the outside and that gentle, not too-draggy feel as you put it inside.
It also comes with easy-to-grip squishy balls with some texture. While they’re not as flexible and loose as RealCock’s Dirk or the real thing, they feel like ‘EM REAL BALLS once you thrust them in.
What I Like Most…
Naked Addiction is surprisingly not as sticky as most soft silicone dildos (even not as sticky as Vixen’s Mustang). THAT MEANS you don’t have to worry about hair or dirt easily sticking to it.
I also liked its super-strong suction cup, where most suction-based dildos seem to miss. Pair it with its bendable shaft.
And now, you can hump to your heart’s content, whether on top, on the bottom, standing up, doggy style, on the wall, legs up, etc.
The Only Downsides Are…
You don’t get a lot of options in terms of color and size.
You only get one SUPER PALE COLOR that’s whiter than a person who’s never seen the sun (not the throbbing lifelike cock that most of us are looking for).
Also, you only get one size with a pretty straight shaft and a tapered, petite head. It might not give you that G-spot or P-spot pleasure that you want.
12-15. Doc Johnson Platinum TRUSKYN Dildos
Doc Johnson is a powerhouse in the sex toy industry, most notably for their patented Vac-U-Lock system. But they have also developed their own dual density silicone, TRUSKYN.
With the Doc’s Tru Ride range, you get a selection of realistic dildos made from platinum silicone in different sizes and two color options- caramel and vanilla.
These real skin dildos all share the same design of a well-defined coronal ridge and a large head giving extra internal stimulation.
Here’s a quick size guide of the Tru Riders:
| Doc Johnson TRUSKYN Dildo | Insertable Length | Diameter |
| Tru Ride 6” | 6.5” | 1.7” |
| Tru Ride 7” | 7.3” | 2.1” |
| Tru Ride 8” | 7.3” | 2” |
| Tru Ride Slim 7” | 7.3” | 2.1” |
Talking about size…
Word of warning to the size queens tempted to go for the Tru Ride 8”.
This measurement is for the full length of the dildo (8.1”) NOT the insertable length. A bit of deceptive labeling going on there Doc!
For length AND girth, go for the Tru Ride 6”.
They even come with textured balls. I think they are a nice addition. They add extra realism AND they do make a good handle when it comes to solo play.
16-19. Neo Elite Range By Blush
Up next in the realistic dildo ring is the Neo Elite Range. These are another affordable dual-density dildo range making them the best budget pick.
They cost between $29 and $35. Sweet!
Blush brings its own dual density technology, called SENSA FEEL. So, they have the shape, form, and texture of a real cock BUT with one extra detail…
They are bright NEON.
For me, I want my realistic dildo to be….well…realistic. It’s what sets them apart from all the other dildos. But if you don’t mind the color, then they will certainly brighten your day!
SheVibe has eight colorful Neo Elite dildos to choose from in a variety of sizes and bases.
Let’s break ’em down…
| Neo Elite Dildo | Insertable Length | Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Neo Elite 6 Inch Cock with Balls | 4.5” | 1.4” | Available in pink and green. If you prefer girth over length, then this is your dildo. Slightly less texture than the others. |
| Neo Elite 7 Inch Cock with Balls | 5.5” | 1.75” | Available in pink and blue. This is a good all-rounder. Slightly longer than average, good girth, suction cup, AND balls. |
| Neo Elite 7.5” Cock | 7” | 1.5” | Available in pink and blue. Soft n smooth silicone with a tapered head for easy insertion. Suction cup for hands-free fun. No balls though! |
| Neo Elite 7.5” Cock with Balls | 5.5” | 1.5” | Available in pink and orange. You get less insertable length with this bright member, but you do get a good set of balls to replace those missing inches. Oh, and veins! Extra texture. |
20-23. Uberrime Dual Density Dildos
The word “Uberrime” is Latin for luxury and abundance, so it gives you an indication of what to expect.
These are handcrafted artisanal dildos, which means that each dildo will differ slightly in color. But the overall quality and design will stay the same.
Talking about design…
They have a strong flexible core that moves with you. And an outer layer is squishy enough that it doesn’t hurt when you clench around it. And they all tend to have an exaggerated head that shows your G-spot or P-spot a good time.
The one downside of the Ubberime design is the small base.
It makes handling a little harder, especially if you’re using lube. Keep a cloth handy to wipe any excess so you can keep a good grip.
They are harness compatible though, so if you have a partner – you can strap in. But for solo play, a suction cup base would have been a nice addition.
Let’s take a closer look at the top four realistic dildos from the Ubberime collection:
| Uberrime Dual Density Dildo | Insertable Length | Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Supero | 7” | Head: 1.75” Shaft: 1.67” | Raised veins and a slight bulge mid-shaft that gives a slow and gentle stretch as you insert. |
| Maxime | 7.5” | Head: 2.19 Shaft: 2.15” | A forward curve and a thick coronal ridge are great for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. |
| Primo | 5.5” | Head: 1.75” Shaft: 1.47” | Great starter dildo, with its non-intimidating size. The pronounced foreskin brings the fun factor |
| Optimo | 6” | Head: 1.87″ Shaft: 1.67″ | More foreskin! A curved shaft for hitting the good spots and a veiny texture for extra stimulation. |
24-28. Mr. Hankey Ultra Realistic Pornstar Molded Dildos
As well as their sizable creations and sci-fi inspired dongs, Mr. Hankey also have a wide variety of realistic dildos, including lifecast molds from popular porn star penises.
They are above average to start with but Mr.Hankey takes them to the next level with four different sizes, from original to XXXL.
They keep all the real-life details, veins, creases, and ball texture but just MAXIMIZE them.
This is what I love about Mr.Hankey…the control.
As well as choosing your preferred size, you get to choose the color, level of firmness, AND for an extra 5 bucks you can have a Vac-U-Lock hole in the base.
One downside…
These realistic cocks aren’t dual density. BUT many regular Mr.Hankey customers claim their silicone toys feel more realistic than other single-density toys.
Let’s take a look at some of Mr. Hankey’s porno pricks:
| My.Hankey Lifecast Cocks | Insertable Length | Max Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Cyrus King | 7”- 13” | 2” – 3.8” | Long veiny shaft with a natural curve. The prominent head hits where it needs to with authority! |
| Topher Michels | 4.9”- 10.25” | 1.9”- 4.3” | The XXXL of Michels’ mammoth cock will make the size queen’s eyes roll into the back of their heads. Super girthy. |
| Nick Capra | 6.7” -11.5” | 2.2” – 4” | Thick veins on a thick cock, but those round balls are seriously impressive…if you can get balls-deep. |
| Ray Diesel | 7.1”- 12.25” | 1.9” – 3.5” | To experience the ‘real’ Ray Diesel man-meat, go for the Medium-Original size. But even the small will give your P-spot a good seeing to! |
| Cody Cachet | 6.4”- 12.5” | 1.7” – 2.9” | This twink dick will make your eyes water. Even the extra-long shaft will be poking its way past your 2nd sphincter! |
29-33. Fleshjack Boys
From the creators of Fleshlight, comes the Fleshjack Boys, a range of lifecast porno cocks for the discerning gay man.
It’s a nice touch that while shopping for your fav realistic dildo, you get to learn a little more about the model. They are more than just a penis, after all!
For example, did you know that gay-sex icon Boomer Banks has his own queer, gender-fluid clothing line? Well, now you do!
But, back to the task in hand…
The Fleshjack dildos are single density but are made from premium silicone.
You might not get the same sensation from the likes of TRUSKYN or VixSkin, but thanks to the attention to detail, you still get a real feel dildo.
Let’s check out a few of the boys…
| FleshJack Boy | Insertable Length | Diameter | Dildo Details |
| Brent Corrigan | 7” | 1.75” | One of the “slimmer” cocks in the range- but still a challenge. The smooth tip will make for easy insertion though. |
| Milan Christopher | 7.25” | 1.8” | Wah, mama. Fill your ass with this sizable shaft and let that uniquely shaped head hit your P-spot. |
| Trenton Ducati | 6” | 1.9” | You can ride this Ducati as fast and as furious as you like. Take that bend slowly though to enjoy it fully! |
| Colby Keller | 5.75” | 1.9” | If you prefer girth to length, then this slice of man meat will pack you good. That coronal ridge should also please you. |
| Boomer Banks | 7.25” | 2” | Use plenty of lube to take in the uncut cock of Boomer Banks. Length, girth, and a smooth/veiny shaft. |
What To Consider When Shopping For A Realistic Dildo?
Ok, so now you have our list of the best realistic dildos on the market, but everyone is different. What rocks my world, might not rock yours.
Here’s what to pay attention to when shopping for the right realistic dildo for YOU:
Size Matters
When it comes to dildos, size matters! If you’re a newbie to any dildo action, start off smaller. BUT, not too small!
You can always work your way up to taking more cock, but a short dildo won’t get any bigger.
So give yourself an extra couple of inches to work with…just in case!
If you’re worried about girth…think of how many fingers you can take inside you. This will give you a rough estimate of what diameter you should go for.
Shape, Curve, And Texture
Maybe you prefer a long, straight schlong that will knock on your cervix? Or, you love the stretch from a girthy boy. Or, maybe you like a curved cock to hit those hard to reach places?
To stimulate the G-spot or prostate, go for a dildo with a harder or more bulbous head. For stimulation all the way in then a dildo with pronounced veins and ridges will do the trick.
Firmness
Dual-density is what brings the most realism to your dildo. The firm silicone core covered with a softer silicone layer creates that feeling of a hard dick with smooth skin.
Some dual-density dildos will be squishier or feel softer on the outside depending on their particular silicone technology. It’s just a matter of trying them out and finding the right balance.
Material
You can find dildos made from a variety of different materials, from glass to ceramic, PVC, stainless and of course, silicone. But when it comes to REALISTIC dildos, silicone is best.
Why?
- It mimics the feeling of skin really well;
- It’s super flexible;
- It reacts to your body temperature, warming up as a real cock would;
- It’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, and phthalate-free;
- And it’s also easy to clean and sanitize.
Versatility
Realistic dildos can do more than fill your holes. Mix it up by choosing one with a vac-u-lock hole so you can add it to a fucking machine.
No fucking machine? No problem!
Go for a suction cup base for more playtime options. Or one that is harness friendly and go handsfree.
How To Clean & Maintain My Realistic Dildo?
When you have got yourself a pretty penis, you want to take good care of it. Keeping your dildo in tip-top condition will let you have a long and happy life together!
Cleaning
Wash your dildo straight after use. This may be the last thing on your mind post-orgasm, but it will keep your dildo free from nasty bacteria.
If you are going for a silicone dildo, then cleaning is simple. You can use a sex toy cleaner, or just run it under hot water and wash with some mild soap.
To sanitize it, pop it into boiling water for a few minutes. Some silicone dildos can also be put in the dishwasher. Just check the care instructions first to be sure!
Use The Right Lube
The right lube will depend on the material of your dildo. Silicone lube is nice and thick and lasts longer, but it breaks down silicone. As will oil-based lubes. If you’ve gone for a silicone dildo, stick with water-based lube.
Get Real!
The most realistic dildo can feel even better than the real thing.
They can be as long as you like, as fat or as thin as you like, curve the way you want it to, have a foreskin or be clean-cut…whatever floats your penis boat.
So, pick your prick and enjoy!
