There's a lot of misinformation out there about squirting.
So much, that in fact, you may wonder if it's even real…
Let's put this myth to the rest. (hint: it's very real).
…and later I'll tell about the best sex toys that have created more squirting than any other technique with a lot less hard work from you.
If it sounds too good to be true, I'll let you judge for yourself… I included tons of reader stories below…
But I am running ahead of myself…
A recent survey revealed that 81.9% of women have never ever squirted.
Then even if 18.1 % have squirted before, only 4.8 % report to squirt with regularity.
What's going on here?
Well, the porn industry has really popularised the squirting idea, but truth is, it's not easy and a lot of people don’t know how to make a girl squirt.
- You need to have the technique down.
- The woman herself must have cleared herself from emotional blocks, insecurities and be relaxed.
- It takes quite a long time and effort to do it. Unless a woman has lots of practice with squirting, you won't be able to get a random chick you hook up with to ejaculate and have a squirting pussy. (but a wand will help)
But not to worry, I'll teach you the fundamentals on how to make a girl squirt.
It took me quite a while to connect the pieces together and to do it with my woman, but after you know how to make a girl squirt for the first time, every next time gets easier and faster.
Now I have talked & instructed tons of women and men who've reported excellent results, which I'm going to share here.
Here's what we're going to cover:
Table of Contents
- What Is Squirting?
- Is Squirting Real? Can All Women Squirt?
- The Best Toys For Squirting (The Easiest Way To Make Woman Squirt)
- Is Squirting Pee or Water?
- Why Do Women Squirt? What Happens When You Squirt?
- How To Make A Girl Squirt In 7 Steps
- How To Squirt During Sex: The Best Positions
- 5 Other Women & Men Give Tips On How To Squirt
- FAQ: Common Squirting Questions Answered
Important Note: This guide is mostly for men to learn how to make a woman squirt, but a man cannot do it without woman's full support and cooperation, so best if both parties read it.
Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.
What Is Squirting?
Squirting or female ejaculation is when a woman shoots or simply ejaculates a thickish, whitish fluid during the intense G-spot (Grafenberg Spot) stimulation.
It comes from Skene's Glans, which is by some called a female prostate.
During arousal, it fills up with a liquid and after intense G-spot stimulation gets squirted out through woman's urethra.
The amount and intensity of ejaculate depend from woman to woman.
It might be that a girl just gets super wet and it might be that her squirting pussy shoots intense amounts all over the blanket.
Is a Squirting Pussy Real? Can All Women Squirt?
All women can have a squirting pussy!
Now with sex toys, it becomes easier and easier to make it happen, but it's important to note that many women have emotional blocks, lots of tension in their bodies, that makes them unable to orgasm easily.
Yoga helps, meditation helps, massages help, kegel exercises help…maybe even a liberator pillow (that helps to get the better angle).
Oh… and if a woman doesn't trust or can't fully relax with her partner, then chances are high that she won't be able to squirt.
You'll still need to work on the foreplay, the vibe, warming her up.
But keep reading and I will show how to make a woman squirt.
The Best Toys For Squirting (How to Make a Woman Squirt Easily)
I'll cover the manual techniques further down the article, but let me tell you that to know how to make a woman squirt is a hard manual work.
For example, we don't hand wash our clothes anymore, we give the job to washing machine instead.
The same way, why destroy your fingers and tongue if you can just outsource the hard work to the toy?
You're still there driving that thing, but you get to enjoy the process, instead of it being a pain. Any woman will be impressed when you pull those bad boys out.
If a girl has never orgasmed then powerful vibrator is the easiest way to break the cycle.
The same way if woman has never squirted (or are unable to squirt) then the toy is the easiest way to break the cycle and show that it's possible.
Pro tip: It helps if lady does female kegel exercises to strenghten the pelvic muscles and make vagina tighter. This makes squirting easier.
Here are my favorite toys for squirting that are based on my experience, reading hundreds of reviews and consulting with other sex experts.
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator (Our Pick ) — $89.99
This is the ultimate sex toy.
This 50 Shades of Grey inspired G-spot rabbit vibrator ($90 range) is a serious orgasm bringer.
Amazing investment to blow her mind (find more on Lovehoney here) 😉
It's a rabbit G-spot vibrator that has 2 powerful motors. One for the rabbit ears (clitoris) and second for the shaft (G-spot stimulation).
In total there are 36 possible vibration combinations that you can test through to find the one she likes the best.
Here's how it looks in action:
Also, sometimes you might want to not use vibrations at all. Or just use shaft vibrations or just clitoral vibrations — there are two separate buttons that allow to control each motor separately.
When using it, make sure you don't just pull the toy in and out. Let her instruct you on the spot and then simply keep pressing up and down or a little bit back and forth.
The toy is made from quality silicone material and may not be the most silent… but if all goes well, she will be screaming and moaning louder than the toy anyway.
Squirting orgasms are never silent.
Power Play G-spot Vibrator (Budget Pick) — $29.99
While the most squirting success comes from either the Greedy Girl or nJoy Pure Wand, sometimes the budget doesn't allow for anything more than 30 bucks.
This is an affordable body-safe silicone toy that has curved shape with vibrations, which gives it certain advantages.
If vibrations is her thing, this might be even better than PureWand.
However the downside of this toy is that it isn't as heavy as the Wand, so it might not be strong enough to hit that G-spot hard enough.
Nevertheless the curve will hit the spot and toy is slim enough to let you test the waters.
Check out this video to see the toy in action. It's not the exact model, but a replica of it (that has been discontinued), but it will give a clear idea of how this G-spot toy works:
nJoy Pure Wand: The Upgrade Pick ($129)
People keep talking about the sorcery and magic of Njoy Pure Wand.
It looks so simple, yet somehow it keeps delivering squirting orgasms even to the non-believers!
Here’s a story that explains it best:
“My wife (29F) and I (30M) have a pretty great sex life. We’re constantly trying to find new ways to add some excitement.
We will sext each other often, we will talk about her past sexual experiences (which has turned into a bit of a fetish of mine, one that she is slowly warming up to), she’s sext random people, and we have a stupid amount of sex toys we incorporate as much as possible.
My wife has always depended on clit play to get off. Whether that be through oral, or the Hitachi Wand. But she’s never gotten off without some sort of clit play. Well, until last week that is.
While perusing reddit recently I saw someone mentioned the Njoy pure wand. I had never heard of it, but they spoke highly of it. So I went online and checked out the reviews.
They were pretty consistent across the board with everyone giving a glowing review. I sent a screenshot of the wand to my wife, and she didn’t seem too interested. But I talked her into us buying it and giving it a try. So it arrives a short time later, and the thing can be a little intimidating.
It’s just this curved piece of metal, with a ball on each side. It’s also heavy as hell. So we go to try it the first time, and I keep telling my wife that maybe this thing will be amazing and do things she’s never been able to do. She didn’t buy it. In fact, here’s a few samples of what she said.
1- “I don’t even believe in that whole G-Spot thing”
2- “I can’t cum more than once”
3- “I don’t think that’s going to do anything special”
4- she didn’t say this, but it fits here- my wife has never really squirted.
She has a little bit with the Hitachi, but that was more like a very little bit dribbled out. Well after that night I can tell you this- all 4 of those things changed. It started off slow, and it didn’t seem like it was doing much for her. Probably because I was trying to figure out exactly how to use it. But eventually I got it, and I must’ve hit a sweet spot because everything changed.
All the sudden she was moaning and moving in ways like never before. She became wetter than probably ever before. At one point I went to stop to give my arm a break and she yelled at me not to stop!
She now believes in the whole g spot thing. She came more than once. She believes at least 6 times.
She now believes that it does plenty of special things. And she squirted 3 times like never before. Bed soaking squirts. Needless to say, it’s already at the top of the list of a favorite toy. I’m not sure how we missed this one for so long. But if you haven’t tried it yet, do it! In over 7 years of toy play with my wife, that’s undoubtedly the most fun I’ve ever had doing it. That thing is amazing.
TL;DR: buy the Njoy pure wand.”
After reading the stories I had to try it for myself. It’s true.
Now we use it at first on her, then move on prostate play with me (vag to ass is safe…not another way around tho’).
The best investment ever.
It is pricey, but it will last you a lifetime.
The secret is in its weight and angle. You can hit the spot easily, and with little effort.
It’s around 1KG of medical-grade stainless steel.
If you want the real thing, don’t buy it on Amazon though.
90% of “branded” sex toy items are fake there (hence the lower prices). Read more about the issues here.
I recommend that if you get a Pure Wand, buy it on LoveHoney.
It has 30 day free returns policy, 1-year product guarantee, and you’ll get 100% the REAL item.
Here’s cool video to show how to use it:
Let the squirting pussy flow…
Make sure you get a lube, having it all dry down there is a sure way to ruin the arousal and pleasure.
A water-based option is the safest one, the highest regarded across a wide range of people is Sliquid H20 lube.
Is Squirting Pee or Water?
It's not pee, but….
What you might not know is that pee is actually 95% water.
So while the squirting might involve pee if there's a lot of ejaculates, who cares?
Squirting liquids definitely don't taste or smell like pee.
And it helps to remember that Skene’s Glans are very small and they cannot create more than 30ml of female ejaculate liquid by themselves.
So if you see in porn women gushing out tons of liquid, it doesn't all come from Skene's glans.
This means, that even if squirting isn't pee, a woman will never know if she just squirted or peed.
And you must tell the girl to relax because when she's about to squirt, she will feel like peeing (since squirt comes from her urethra, same hole where pee comes from).
If it helps, semen has traces of urine the same way, because remember semen comes from the same hole where pee does.
Why Do Women Squirt? What Happens When You Squirt?
What makes a woman squirt is basically high arousal that fills the Skene's Glans with the liquid and then a strong, continuous G-spot stimulation causes her to ejaculate kinda as men would.
Except that woman can do it as many times as she desires.
When she's squirting it will feel like peeing and orgasmic sensations through the body at the same time.
Sometimes the orgasm will happen simultaneously, but sometimes it will happen before, after or won't happen at all.
What Does Squirting Feel Like?
“It feels to me much like an orgasm. And at the same time also not at all like an orgasm. It’s a very different feeling, but if I had to compare it to anything then an orgasm comes closest.
Unlike an orgasm it doesn’t always lower after the release. Many times with squirting I get MORE excited and want to have sex more and more.
So someone can keep me squirting for many times in a row if they have the skill to do so.
And the feeling doesn’t have to get less. I don’t always need recovery time like I do with orgasms. “— Susanne Fire
How To Make A Girl Squirt In 7 Steps
Alright, time for the juicy stuff…
Ready to know how to make a woman squirt?
#1 — Prepare Yourself & Set The Scene
It all starts here, you reading this article, preparing yourself and then talking to your girl about your intentions.
If she's not ready to even accept the idea of squirting, you won't be able to make her cum.
Frankly, maybe she doesn't trust you enough yet.
So talk to her upfront, set her at ease, reassure her that no matter what happens you'll be understanding and attentive
Set Your Own Expectations Right
As they say — Focus on Journey, Not The Destination…
Yes, you want her to squirt and she may want to squirt, but you may not succeed at the first time.
So whatever happens, focus on the experience that you do get!
This is especially important for a man to understand. We are goal oriented.
But if a woman sees that all you care is to make her squirt, she will feel pressurized, disconnected and it will murder her arousal.
It's a sensitive thing, no surprise that only 5% of women can squirt regularly.
But you'll be in that 5%…!
Take care of your own hygiene
You'll be using your fingers, so it's very important that you accidentally don't scratch her vagina.
Make sure you cut your fingernails and smoothen then up to remove all the sharp edges.
Alternatively, you can simply use hygienic gloves 😉
Get a lube, water & prepare the scene
Maybe your girl gets really wet during arousal, maybe she doesn't.
It will take quite a bit of time, think 30–60 mins…So get a glass of water next to the bed cuz she WILL get thirsty.
Just in case it goes super wet keep towels handy.
Get a nice relaxing music playlist for the background, candles, incense is super nice.
Oh, and dim the lights…
#2 — Make Her Really Relaxed
Now, before you make her hot you gotta make her super relaxed.
A long, slow sensual massage (with relaxing music) will do wonders for her.
Ask her, what could make her relax.
Maybe it's a long bath for her, yoga, meditation session, relaxing dinner or… well, massage.
#3 — Get Her Really Turned On And Horny
Now, you can put on some hot sex music…
…and change the mood from relaxing to sexual.
Remember, that woman's biggest erogenous zone is her B-spot — BRAIN!
Anticipation, teasing will go long way…!
If you talked with her upfront, chances are she's already aroused from the idea of you both working on squirting session 🙂
You'll want to spend a lot of time in the foreplay.
Kiss her body, caress her erogenous zones.
Spend quality time to her breasts, massage her inner thighs…
And slowly zone to her pussy…
#4 — Start With Vagina Massage & Eating Her Out
First, you'll want to kiss her whole vagina area ignoring the clit.
All of this teasing, the slow build-up will make her super horny and wet.
When you finally lick or finger her clit she'll be moaning with pleasure.
In this step you do want to get her close to orgasming, but you don't want her to orgasm!
Ask her to tell you if she's close so you don't get her coming clitorally by accident.
I told you, you need her full cooperation.
Get her close to orgasming clitorally first like 2–3x…before you move on. If you don't know how to make her orgasm even with clitoral stimulation, you cannot dream of her squirting.
Eating her pussy out before even going for G-spot is important because it will make your job easier.
She'll cum easier and faster since she's super aroused already.
What you DON'T WANT is to go straight to fingering her with no build-up.
You do that and she'll never squirt or even orgasm.
#5 — Focus Down On The G-Spot And Make Her Squirt
You've got her relaxed…
Then you got her aroused…
Now it's time to make her have a squirting orgasm!
Now, this is the most comfortable position for making her squirt.
In the picture, it shows a guy with the face on her pussy, but you don't need to do that.
You can simply sit next to her using one hand to balance yourself and second hand to finger her.
The G-spot is located a few knuckles in her vagina. Your fingers should go inside her vagina and face upwards to her belly button.
You can use your two middle fingers or your index and middle fingers together.
You wanna start slow and gentle. Remember the previous step of getting her close to orgasm and aroused?
If you skipped this step then you wouldn't even find the G-spot. It's a walnut size bump that shows up only when a woman is aroused.
Now work that G-spot and be prepared for some serious time here. Your fingers will hurt over time, but you can't give in.
Once you get going, you don't stop (unless she asks you to).
Here it's important for her to give you the feedback. Ask her simple questions that she can simply answer with Yes/No like:
Is it good?
You want her feedback, but you don't want her logical brain to kick in, as it WILL murder the arousal and your chances of getting her squirting.
You start slow and gentle but after a few minutes, you want to really amp the pressure and the speed, and keep on it.
If it's too strong she will let you know.
The way you do it is by locking your arm, wrist, and hand together to her pubic bone while keeping the fingertips curled up pressing tightly against her G-spot.
Then you start shaking the whole hand up and down rapidly.
Keep this up and it's almost guaranteed that she will squirt.
If something is off, she will let you know and you can work on it…
#7 — Aftercare: Support Her & Be Understanding No Matter The Outcome
After you have her a squirting pussy or whatever happened make sure to be really understanding and supportive… she will need it.
It's not uncommon for women to cry, laugh, shake uncontrollably… and be very emotionally vulnerable.
Be grateful she's letting you in on this beautiful experience and your sexual trust and emotional connection will grow like nothing else.
After these orgasmic experiences, my relationships with my girl have never been the same again.
She became this giggly, feminine piece of cuteness, that I just loved.
I loved feeling like a real man who can satisfy her and bring her to the places nobody else ever has…!
How To Squirt During Sex: The Best Positions
If you can make her squirt with hand stimulation, it's also possible to make her squirt during the sex!!!
There are, in fact, several great G-spot stimulating positions that she'll love!
But be warned that if you haven't made her squirt with the fingering technique or with the G-spot vibrating sex toy, you won't make her squirt with this.
Either way, it's gonna be super enjoyable… and if you've made her super aroused upfront, she may even ejaculate.
The secret here is to use the correct angle and depth.
To stimulate her G-spot with your penis, you only need to penetrate her 2–3 inches deep.
The best and easiest squirting G-spot position is the classic missionary with a variation.
You want to put a pillow under her and put her legs up straight behind her head.
Then you can adjust the angle and thrust her shallowly 2–3 inches deep. Lean back and down if you want to stimulate her G-spot more.
Every woman is different so you'll need to ask for her feedback here.
Others love incorporating a sex stool to spice things up.
Another position that is great for G-spot stimulation is variations of Doggy Style.
Either she goes on all fours or lays down by leaning back on her hands… you gotta experiment to find the best stimulating G-spot angle.
If you ever wondered why women love doggy style, it's because of the intense G-spot stimulation.
Just remember not to thrust deep, and angle your penis to point to her belly button…
Keep experimenting and keep talking…
You'll get there. I promise.
5 Other Women & Men Give Tips On How To Squirt
To add some extra color I found five women and one man to give advice on how they make women squirt…
It might help you!
This is a nice video where TripAdvice interviewed Caitlin V Neal and she gives some super insightful squirting advice:
#1 —” I’m 35 years old and didn’t know I was a squirter until my current bf. “
Besides just having an overall better technique with oral, he fingers me like nobody else has.
Wait until your gf is really wet, and then use your two middle fingers (middle & ring) and make sure your palm is facing up. start kinda slow and move your fingers almost like your telling her to come here.
you should feel a difference in texture between her g spot and the rest of her vagina, a little more fleshy. when she’s getting into it, a little more pressure & speed. keep doing that.
the first time my bf made me squirt, I came 2–3 times before I actually squirted. now…it happens fast.
good luck and have fun!!!
#2 — “From a man: It is actually very simple. “
It might take some practice, but if you keep at it, you’ll get it eventually. Many people have undoubtedly heard of the mythical “G-spot”. This is actually what you are aiming to stimulate.
There is nothing mythical about it at all, it’s a few inches in the vagina on the roof. To stimulate it, all you have to do is direct pressure to the front roof of the vagina. (For clarity, when I say “roof” I mean the top part of the vaginal canal, in the direction of the stomach.)
This can be done through sex or by fingering. Naturally certain sex positions are better at this than others. I don’t know all their technical names, but to name a few of my favorites:
Lie her flat on her stomach, with you coming in from on top. Move as far forward as you can so that your penis moves directly downward. If you feel the contact between you and a wall which is the roof of her vagina, you’re doing it right.
Lie her on her side with you positioned upright on your knees. Again orient yourself at a slight angle so that your penis moves not in and out, but more from back to front.
Have her lie on her back, propping her waist of in the air in an arched back type position. Once again in an upright vertical position, hold and lift her waist to relive some of the weight and direct the motion of your penis straight up in the air.
All of this should apply a good deal of pressure on the “roof” of the vagina and will stimulate the G-Spot.
One thing to remember is that hard pressure (in moderation) is a good thing. You will notice when you familiarize yourself with the roof of the vagina that it is somewhat elastic and stretchy. You want to stretch it (albeit within reason). I’ve noticed that this seems to have the most significant effect.
So now you’ve had enough fun stimulating the G-Spot and you are ready to make her squirt, what now? I have yet to do it through sex (though I’m sure it’s not impossible), so you will continue from here with your fingers.
With her lying on her back, her stomach up in the air, place your fingers in with your palm facing up. Then, hook your fingers so they are pointing back towards you.
At the right angle, you should feel them “snag” on the roof of the vagina slightly, as it stretches. Now, all you want to do is pull slightly, but very quickly putting the emphasis on directing your force up and back towards you. Do it fast enough and you will feel it before long.
Having discovered the “secret” I have not met a girl yet who I haven’t been able to make squirt. I am confident that any girl can squirt provided the proper technique is applied.
#3 — “The most important thing to remember is that you can’t break her vagina.”
"It takes rapid and intense manipulation of her g-spot, and if you’re timid in bed you’re gonna have a hard time.
First off, make sure that she’s hydrated.
Second off, make sure that she’s really turned on, lots of foreplay, oral, if she’s into being spanked, whatever she’s into, do that.
Third off, make sure that she’s relaxed.
It’s hard to do it with a brand new partner or someone whose uncomfortable for some reason — have her go pee first, as she’s going to feel like she needs to pee when she’s getting close and if she clenches to stop it, she won’t squirt. Once these things are accomplished, it’s really not so hard. The floor of the vagina, closest the anus, is very stretchy.
The gspot and urethral sponge are on the ceiling of the vagina, closest the clit, approximately one inch inside the canal.
Your position on the bed is important. You can straddle her torso, facing her feet, or you can sit along side her, but you want to be (your body) north of her hips somewhere.
Insert the third and fourth fingers (ring and middle) on your dominant hand, fingernails towards the floor of her vagina. Curve the fingers so they form an L at the knuckle closest to your hand. Your fingertips should feel an area that is spongy, which may have a different surface texture than the rest of her vagina — wrinkly, for lack of a better word.
If she’s sufficiently aroused, there should be a spongy mass behind the top wall of the vagina that’s about the size of a shell-on walnut.
You’re going to repeatedly squeeze this urethral sponge into her pubic bone using the top one third of your fingers.
The motion involved presses the bottom wall of her vagina down towards her anus with the _ section of the L you made, and then up towards the clit with the top third of your fingers, and during the up motion, you’re simultaneously pulling, in the direction of out of her body (but don’t remove your fingers), in a kind of “come here” gesture.
You will start to hear a very distinctive squishing noise coupled with a vacuum sound created by what you’re doing to the bottom wall of her vagina.
The entire area you’re looking to stimulate is less than two inches inside her, and the range of motion you’re using is about an inch (that is, the bottom wall of her vagina should be pushed towards the anus approximately a half inch at the bottom of your stroke, and you’ll be separated from it by about a half inch when you’re at the top of your stroke.)
The rate of thrusting required is somewhere between 90 and 120 beats a minute. And your hint that you’re doing it right is the noise.
Or if you want to cheat, invest in one of these: Njoy Pure G-Spot Wand.
The technique there is much easier. Insert either end. Hold the exposed bar below the ball you can still see (choke up on the tool, don’t hold onto the exposed ball itself, the thrust will be far too long).
Basically, punch her vagina (not hard, pull up a little short, it’s not supposed to be painful external contact by any means) at anywhere 60 beats/min plus. Oh.
And set out a towel first, at least, under her butt, or the pool she’s sitting in will soak into a wet spot.
The ejaculate doesn’t smell or stain though… it’s just wet for sleeping on."
#4 — “The bare minimum is to make the “I love you” hand gesture with your hand.”
"Your middle finger and ring finger are down while the others are up (pinky, pointing, and thumb are not used). Those two fingers go into her pussy. Now move that hand up and down as hard and fast as you can. You’ll feel her get spongey and maybe feel a type of ball drop down inside of her. Ignore it and keep going, because after those things happen, it means she’s close to squirting.
I can only squirt while I’m cuming but some girls squirt before or after or they just squirt. Make sure your girl cums, don’t just assume she came while she squirted.
Make sure your partner is well hydrated because dehydrated pussies don’t have extra liquid to squirt.
Those are the basics and the technique to get any girl to squirt, because we all of g spots.
Make sure she is aroused and don’t just go in for the kill."
#5 — It is a lot of fun. Good Luck 🙂
"Step 1 — talk it over with your partner, what you are going to do, let her know she will probably get a peeing sensation, but it is not pee, make sure you are all both open to it. put towels down if you are on anything cloth related i.e. mattress, sofa, chair etc.
Step 2 — once you are ready, have your lady urinate before you start
Step 3 — she needs to be aroused, whatever that takes, i find performing cunnilingus to a clitoral orgasm works the best for us.
Step 4 — prepare the hook method, insert your middle and ring finger inside her vagina, placing the pinky and pointer to the side with your thumb on top of her vagina
Step 5 — Start off slow, but quickly begin a more aggressive up/down motion putting pressure on the anterior wall of the vagina, behind the clit.
Step 6 — Once she starts to swell, it will sound very juicy and you will feel a large golf ball size sack hanging down inside the vagina (some refer to this as the g spot aroused)
Step 7 — Push the ball off to the back of the vagina and continue to do the hook method aggressively, she should start to pop
Step 8 — If she can communicate that she is going to squirt/piss, you should get a nice shot out of the urethra all all over the place, anywhere between 1–4 cups of ejaculate. If your hand is still in the vagina, she will gush.
Step 9 — Repeat, usually a squirt is followed by a huge vaginal orgasm
ALT — If none of this works for you, purchase a Hitachi Magic Wand with a rabbit extension and start from there."
FAQ: Common Squirting Questions Answered
Now, let's cover everything that wasn't answered yet…
Add your question below if something is missing!
#1 — How Do I Make My Woman Squirt? Tried Everything!
If you tried all the steps and still don't get her to squirt, here are few ideas:
- She doesn't trust you enough yet — If she has squirted with someone else or made herself squirt, then it's pretty much your fault. Work on sexual trust.
- She's doesn't want to squirt — maybe she dislikes the idea of losing control and some mental blocks around squirting. Talk to her more.
- She is stressed or not aroused enough — remember, the squirting process takes quite a long time. Think around 60 minutes, maybe you're pushing too much on the goal and that stresses her out… Talk to her.
- She doesn't know herself or has weak vaginal muscles — Maybe she has mental blocks around her sexuality, she should practice Kegels to feel more sensations… Again, talk to her.
#2 — Can Women Really Squirt As Shown In Pornography?
Yes and No.
Some porn is real, but lots of it is just that — acting.
Every woman is different and one can gush out huge amounts of liquids multiple times, while others will simply get super wet.
You'll be better served if you ignore what you see in porn and focus on exploration with the partner.
#3 — What exactly is female squirting? Is it only urine or a combination of liquids?
Again, it's definitely not urine.
Squirt ejaculate usually is odorless, colorless and has a slightly musky scent. When tasted it does have a little salty taste.
It feels similar like peeing but don't worry it's not urine.
Even then, urine is 95% water, so nothing to worry about!
Just get over the worries and accept the sexy messiness!
You'll do better for it!
That's it…just work on it! 🙂
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