12 Best Dildo Mounts & Holders For Hands Free Ride [2023]

Enjoy a full-body and hands-free ride with the best dildo mount available today and enhance your sex toy play experience! Read more here:

Hey there I’m-tired-of-the-same-old-same-old-thrusting-my-dildo-myself-work!

If you want to have more fun with your dong (and your life), you’re in for a dildo-cious treat.

Life is already so much work. ‘F course, you want to give your hands the rest that they deserve!

That’s why I’ll share 7 of the best dildo mounts & holders after 2 weeks of testing different products, reading user reviews, and crowdsourcing expert opinions, so you find one (or more) that works for you. 

Plus, you’ll get to know the best Sybian alternative if it doesn’t vibe with you.

Whether you’re looking to enhance your solo play experience or discover some sizzling new positions with your partner, we got you covered with the right monkey rocker for you.

But if you can’t wait to take your D-ridin’ experience to O-heights, here are our top three dildo mounts:

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Top Dildo Mounts & Sex Toy Mounts In 2023

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Best Dildo Holders & Wand Toy Mounts In 2023

I’m more on the petite side. It was a bit hard to find a suitable dildo mount to ride comfortably without making many adjustments.

Of course, I’m always up for a challenge. But there’s always a time to be the rowdy cowgirl in action (yee-haw!) and a time to do some slow, humpin’ action.

The Wing dildo mount empowers me to do both, but what I like most is that I can grind, ride, and thrust it using my go-to dildo with UTMOST COMFORT.

You can even combine two different toys in the Wing. One side holds most toys within the 1.25”-3” base diameter range for penetration. (Sorry, size queens.)

AND another side to slide your fave vibe inside, so the entire mount rumbles with feel-good vibrations. PLUS, grinding in its ‘velvety’ fabric gives a lot of external stimulation.

For just $116, you get a versatile dildo mount that doubles as a sex cushion.

(Been there. Done that. Prolly not going back.)

I love doing it in reverse cowgirl style while being in front of the mirror. I position my dildo on the front pocket, ride it, and lean back on the cushion for support.

When I’m feeling extra playful, I invite my partner for some DP action. I lean over the Wing for some upper-body support and straddle a flexible dildo vaginally as he enters me anally (YUM!).

You may also want to consider checking out other dildos in this post.

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Like the Wing sex toy mount, Bonbon is made of the same velvety soft and sturdy material for that comfortable riding thrill.

But it’s MUCH TALLER, perfect for some bouncing up and down solo action for folks of average height. AND SMALLER, so you don’t have to pull your legs too far apart as you straddle your favorite dong.

This sex toy mount was personally my first $100 purchase from Liberator. I underestimated its height and overestimated my height and physical shape (ouch!). But it still works.

Just put two pillows on either side of the Bonbon, so it becomes elevated enough for straddling.

It has one 5-inch deep pocket that fits most dildos, flared-base or not. BUT I advise against using dildos with balls as they can damage its cover and foam core when used regularly.

The only downside to the Bonbon is that it’s not weighted enough for some howdy-rowdy action. Not a major deal-breaker as long as you hold it tight or use an anti-slip bottom material.

Check out other great toys in our Best Bouncy Ball Dildos guide.

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You’ve finally found the clit-and-vulva-pleasing vibrator of your dreams…

*sparkle* THE MAGIC WAND *sparkle*

But casting the Wand’s powerful spells can put a lot of work in your hands. The solution? Get a good sex toy mount!

Liberator heard all ye Wand devotees and gave us not just one but two Wand-specific mounts: Wanda and Axis.

Both dildo mounts work best for both cord and cordless Magic Wand models. They also work with similarly shaped wand vibrators. But for solo and partnered play, go with Wanda.

IfIf you have the original Magic Wand (with cord), you can use the opening under the sex toy mount to tuck your cord so that it won’t get in the way during play.

The only downside to The only downside to this mount is that the Magic Wand’s controls are tucked inside. But lifting the Wand out a little to change the setting should be easy.

OR you can buy a speed controller and transform your $105-mount into a Sybian-ish machine.

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Every time I look at my Bangin Bench, I’m always inclined to use it, have fun with it. Even thinking about it now takes me to the Land of Os (cut it, girl!).

However, your quality of experience may diminish a bit if you weigh over 200 lbs.

There’s a red bar in the middle for your suction-cup dildo. OR you can use the included harness for any flat-based dildo.

Now, sit down and take control! You can go as fast, slow or as deep, shallow as you want, MINUS the ouch-my-legs-are-sore kind of discomfort.

Have them lay down and eat you from below, or you can give them head as you bounce up and down. Heck, you can even straddle them until they can’t hold it any longer!

Unfortunately, some folks may find assembling this mount a pain in the arse. Though it’s very easy to put together, the instructions are confusing.

You can make things easier by putting the straps low into the tubes first. PLUS, have your partner nearby to help you stretch the straps.

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I know what you’re thinking. This roundup was meant to provide ‘em ladies and gents with a hands-free sex experience without spending a lot of bucks.

But if you’ve paid all your bills and have the cash to spare for the ULTIMATE, PLEASURABLE HANDS-FREE EXPERIENCE, why not buy a hands free sex machine???

For the best bang for your buck, splurge on a quality fuck machine like the Hismith Sex Machine.

It literally does the work for you, so your hands are free to explore your clit, nips, and other erogenous zones.

If you want to learn more about fuck machines, here’s a list of our faves.

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Dildo mounts can be pricey. So if you’re looking for a versatile and budget-friendly option, you can get this Master Series Strap & Ride Dildo Body & Positioning Strap Harness.

You can use this alone. Just attach the strap to an object like a chair. It isn’t the sturdiest setup, but it works. 

Using this with your partner is also just as fun. Pegging is one way to really add spice and everything nice to your sextivities. Fun part? It flips the script with your partner.

This strap harness is made of PU faux leather. It’s sturdy and looks sexy when worn.

You can adjust the straps to fit from 34 inches to 45 inches, which is a good range.

Its metal O-ring’s inner diameter measures 2 inches. You can use any harness-compatible dildo you love that fits it—as long as it has a wide base.

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If you have a few flat-based dildos and you don’t have the cha-ching to invest in new ones with suction or a $100+ mount, New York Collective’s Double-Sided Suction Cup is the perfect solution.

It’s the cheapest and easiest way to transform your flat-based dildos into mountable toys. As the name implies, it’s like two suction cups joined together.

Simply stick your fave flat-based dildo to one suction-cup side, and the other goes to any flat, smooth surface (or yup, another dildo).

While the packaging states that it only works for toys with a minimum diameter of 2.5”, I’ve found that it works for smaller, not-so-flat bases. PLUS, it supports up to 3 lbs. of dildo weight. 

The suction works best on flat horizontal surfaces like tiles, wood, and bathtub ledges. For vertical surfaces, that will be your bathroom cabinet doors and well-painted doors.

You can even stick this waterproof mount on smooth shower walls and enjoy some wet and wild action.

The only downside is the suction tends to unstick itself on slightly textured, painted walls. You could try putting transparent tape on them before sticking the mount. It worked for me.

Another option is the Tantus Suction Cup if you have flat-based dildos with bullet holes. It also converts your dildo into a mounted toy for that full range of pounding motion.

It works with most dildos with STANDARD BULLET HOLES but not so much with Vac-u-Lock holes. Vac-u-Lock holes are wider. They may wiggle around and fall out if you insert them into this suction cup. Consider checking out our Vac-u-Lock guide.

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Do you own a lot of suction-cup toys in your arsenal? Perhaps it’s time you bring in The Other Man (T.O.M.) v2!

The T.O.M. is a sturdy, plastic dildo mount designed for anyone who wants to play with their suction-cup toys from different angles.

It gives you multiple mounting options, from on-top to doggy-style positions at HALF the price of a Liberator mount!

It holds most suction-cup toys very firmly, with four rubber feet to keep the sex toy mount from sliding too much. But I did get some weights because it wasn’t that secure while I was riding it.

I had to pay around $20 for the weight attachment system on top of its $50 base price (bummer!). 

But once you get off, cleanup is a breeze. Just use some warm water and antibacterial cleaner. DONE!

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For something completely different, I want to introduce the Shagger. This is not your typical toy mount. 

Instead, it’s designed to be used for strap-on sex to bring more pleasure to the wearer.

The stretchy silicone will accommodate almost any dildo with a flared base and fits open O-ring and underwear harnesses. 

You can also use it on its own or over a wand vibrator for a whole new world of sensation!

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If you have a penis, own a Fleshlight, and want some hands-free self-pleasure, this is for you. 

The Top Dog allows you to mount your Fleshlight and ride to your heart’s content. Bet you never thought you could try doggy style with your Fleshlight, huh?

Well, all that’s about to change.

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Another Fleshlight mount, this is the perfect way to simulate missionary position with your toy.

If you like to fantasize while using your Fleshlight (and let’s be honest, who doesn’t), this is the best way to get the fullest experience. If you love missionary, this is the toy mount for you.

Just slip your Fleshlight into the mount and get started on the Lord’s work.

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One more for the penis owners in the room! If you want to spice up your shower time with some Fleshlight fun, you’re in luck. Jerking off in the shower has literally never been easier.

Just attach the powerful suction cup onto a smooth, flat surface (tiles or glass are perfect for this), attach your Fleshlight, and enjoy a long steamy shower.

You can even adjust the angle to get the perfect thrust.

The only downside is it’s not compatible with all Fleshlights, but you can find an adapter if you have a Flight or GO Fleshlight.

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What Should You Watch Out When Shopping for One?

Finding the perfect sex toy mount starts by getting one that’s compatible with your dildo(s).

Types of Sex Toy Mounts

Suction cup: These mounts provide a surface to stick your suction cup dildo to. You can stick them to any flat, smooth surface like the floor, wall, bathtub, or mirror to give you more flexibility and choice of angles.

Cushion mounts: These mounts are comfortable and great for full-ride gripping. They have holes that hold a variety of dildos, with or without suction cups. They double as sex cushions, propping and supporting you (and your partner) in different positions.

Stools/fucking machines: Stools and fucking machines let you strap your dildo in — with a suction, harness, or both — for some truly rowdy sessions. These are more involved apparatuses that’ll take your masturbation up ten notches.

If you want to know more details about our Best Dildos for Women, we have an in-depth review here.

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Size

Your height will affect your experience, so make sure the dildo mount you choose is right for you! 

Some are marketed specifically for taller- or shorter-than-average people. 

Look out for that, and if in doubt, read reviews from other users.

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Material (how comfy and how easy to clean)

As with all sex toys, you’ll also want to consider your mount’s material. It determines comfort and ease of sanitation.

Pillow-like: A pillow mount is comfortable and soft but should still be firm enough to support enthusiastic thrusting. Find a mount with a removable cover so that you can throw it in the wash between sessions. Make sure there’s a water-resistant inner for a damage-free foam.

Plastic: Plastic is perhaps not as sexy to rub upon, but it’s great for suction mounts. Plus, it’s easy to wipe down with a toy cleaner and warm water between sessions.

Harness and stool: A combination of elastic and metal makes up most stool mounts. Just wipe down the metal with a toy cleaner. The elastic may be difficult to clean, but you can try spraying it with sanitizer. 

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Compatibility

Not every mount will work with every toy. Check to make sure yours will fit before you buy anything.

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How the dildo is attached (ease of use)

Cushion mounts are the easiest to use and work with most dildos (flared or slim base) and vibrators. Simply insert your toy into the mount’s hole or pocket. You can then adjust the toy angle and insertion depth.

Suction-cup mounts work with flat-based dildos without suction and dildos with bullet holes. Stick the flat base into the suction surface or the dildo with a bullet hole into the suction cup peg. Lube the peg for easy hole insertion.

For stool mounts/fucking machines, you can use its suction-cup base or a harness to strap your dildo securely. Pay attention to your toy size, as some mounts can only accommodate specific sizes. 

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Single or double-pocket dildo mounts

Decide if you want a mount that can hold two toys or if you’re happy with just one. 

Double mounts are usually more expensive, but they allow for double penetration or shared fun with a partner!

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Storage

You probably don’t want your mount to take up a corner of the room because you don’t have enough closet space! Check the dimensions to make sure you have a place to store them.

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FAQs

What is a dildo mount?

A dildo mount is a sex aid designed to hold a dildo or vibrator in place. They allow you to ride your toy hands-free and often feature extra textures for clitoral stimulation. 

They’re usually some kind of pillow or seat with a hole to hold the toy. 

You can also find some sex toy mounts for people with penises to enjoy hands-free Fleshlight  fun.

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How do I use a dildo mount?

• Floor – Most dildo mounts are perfect to use on the floor since they work best on a stable surface. Consider getting some knee cushions, though – it’ll make the ride much more comfortable!
• Bed – A bed is an obvious place to use your sex toy mount. This will work best if you have a firm mattress, but try it out and see what works for you!
• Shower – Some dildo and Fleshlight mounts have suction cups. You can attach them to a smooth surface like a shower wall for some soapy, steamy stimulation.

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What Are Some Good DIY Dildo Mount Options?

Want to get creative and make your own dildo mount? Here are some ideas to get you started with items at home:

If you have a suction cup dildo, stick it to a gallon can of paint. You can find new empty ones at the hardware store.

You can also use the same set-up for dildos without suction cups. But you have to strap a thigh harness or a knee brace to keep the dildo steady. This works for some up and down action but may be difficult for more angles.

For a more comfortable mount, you can strap a leather or Velcro thigh harness to a firm foam or lumbar support pillow for your flat-based dildo.

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How to Mount a Dildo & Get the Most Out of It?

Dildo mounts can provide endless variety and fun. From anal to vaginal play, you can explore different positions, solo or partnered.

Going solo? Try backing up onto your mounted dildo in doggy style, while stimulating your clit with your fingers or a vibrator. Or straddle it and hug a pillow while you grind forward and back. Or sit directly on top and bounce up and down.

Playing with a partner? Ride your mounted dildo while swallowing your man. Or take it vaginally while he penetrates you anally. Or let him take it anally while you ride him.

But if you’re new to dildo mounting, I suggest starting with suction-cup dildos. You don’t need to buy a specific sex toy mount to enjoy them. Just stick them to floors, walls, and bathtubs.

The wall is great for doggy style, and the bathtub ledge and floor for grinding. Just make sure to use pillows and blankets on your knees for support.

Consider checking out our ultimate guide on how to cum hands-free.

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Any Dildo Mount Tips for Shorter People?

Finding a dildo mount that works is a problem for most short peeps. Of course, getting the Liberator Wing sex toy mount is the best option, but if you’re strapped for cash, here are a few hacks to try:

• Elevate your suction-cup dildo from the ground by sticking it on top of boxes, books, etc. This set-up works because you don’t have to reach very low.
• You can also use a Pyrex or thick glass Tupperware, straddle the side of the tub, or elevate on a small wooden stool works as well.
• If you already have a higher sex toy mount, you can place two pillows on either side of your knees for support and comfortable straddling.

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Are dildo mounts waterproof?

Not all will be waterproof, so check the manufacturer information. Some will be splashproof, and others aren’t waterproof at all.

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How do you clean a dildo mount?

For most dildo mounts, you can clean them with a damp cloth and some mild soap. If yours is made of porous fabric, check if it’s machine washable.

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How much does a sex toy mount typically cost?

How long is a piece of string? You can find dildo mounts at practically any price range but for something well-made and comfortable, expect to spend at least $50.

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Where Can I Buy The Best Dildo Mount?

Always buy from a reputable retailer. I prefer SheVibe and Lovehoney, since they stock a great range and are ethical, reputable stores.

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Conclusion

If you want to take your dildo-riding experience to a whole new level, get a sex toy mount. There’s always one (or more) for you, from suction and cushion mounts to harnesses and stools.

Sex toy mounts breathe new life into your sex toys. They intensify everything from solo to partnered play.

So, get your toy, mount it, and enjoy hands-free sex! ALL ABOARD!