It’s often said that the mind is the greatest erogenous zone. That’s mostly because there are so many different ways to stimulate it through the sheer power of imagination.
And sex roleplay ideas are perhaps the juiciest way to titillate the old think box.
We’ve all had (or still have) some sexual fantasies that aren’t exactly right at your doorstep, so to speak.
Odds are you won’t ever get to sit at the baccarat table across James Bond or release a bikini-clad Princess Leia from her shackles.
It needn’t even be fiction: from tantalizingly unattainable celebrities to gruff pipe-fixin’ plumbers, many of us have thought about getting it on with someone like that but never had the chance.
But just the idea of doing anything of the sort can be steaming hot.
So, what are some good roleplay ideas? Here’s a long list of what are some good sexual fantasies for you to try out.
First, we’ll cover the ones that are particularly interesting in more detail. After that, there will be a quick list of other cool ideas.
20 Incredibly Sexy Roleplay Scenarios With Your Partner
Let’s start off with a great one.
The concept is simple: there’s the hypnotizer and there’s the hypnotized. The former does their magic (they can use a clock, magic words, whatever you like to ) to put the partner under their thrall.
This premise opens the doors for a whole bunch of dom/sub-ideas. But it isn’t just an “angry boss takes it out on the hapless assistant” kind of deal. Rather, it’s total submission, but more like a trance.
2. Wellness: Masseuse & Masseur
Few things are as intimate and sensual as a massage.
The oil, the caressing, the scented candles (optional, but still hot):
It’s amazing foreplay if you take your time and set the mood right.
Of course, you can (and should) add the stranger dynamic to the whole thing. It makes the breaking of social and professional conduct when the masseuse or masseur goes too far all the more delicious.
3. Sexy Doctor/Nurse & Patient
This one is a timeless classic that you’ve surely heard of. But it’s a classic for a good reason: it has a very unique dynamic and can involve a lot of different toys.
The doctor or nurse takes care of the patient, pampering them and making sure they’re nice and comfortable. They’re still an authority to be respected, but they shouldn’t really roughhouse the patient.
And the medical professional really should give the patient a good examination. Taking their temperature with their finger, perhaps?
What about an oral examination? The prostate may need checking up, too.
One of the better things about this roleplay idea is that the costumes for it are fairly easy to find. You can get your hands on a sexy maid outfit in just a minute or two of online browsing.
And servants don’t really have a standard costume per se, so you can use whatever you have lying around.
But the best part of the servant/maid kink is that it can be rife with foreplay.
You can get the maid to clean a room for minutes on end, making her bend over, kneel down, and all that good stuff.
The servant, on the other hand, can do some heavy lifting or tiresome services, working up a sweat and getting them nice and glistening.
5. Sexy Stranger At A Bar
Agree on a place where you’d meet (bar, cafe, whatever floats your boat). Have one of you arrive a little later, pretend you’ve never met before, and start chatting.
Then, simply hook up, be it at one of your homes, a hotel room, or even the place where you “met.”
The anticipation of the wild, searing-hot hookup with a complete stranger is by far the best part of this roleplay idea.
It’s about the tension and adrenaline of talking to someone for the first time knowing that you’re inching closer to a passionate night of fucking.
6. Painter & Paintee
This can be a very erotic, tasteful experience. One of you can be the graceful muse, and the other can make a tribute to their physical form.
It’s a wonderful way to study and appreciate your partner’s body as you depict them in drawn form.
And even if you have the drawing skills of a child that hates drawing, this activity will work pretty well all the same. It’s all about the beauty and the buildup to the sex itself.
7. Playing Taxi Driver
Have you ever tried or thought about trying car sex? What about public sex? With some taxi driver roleplay, you can get the best of both.
Your usual fare soon turns into a spontaneous romp with this perfect stranger. It’s really hot stuff.
And it’s very flexible, too: you can cram in many different roles to combine with this one.
And if you don’t really like sex outside, you can always drive to your partner’s place and carry on there.
8. Prisoner & Guard
Another classic among sexy roleplay ideas. You may have to cough up a buck or two for the costumes and props (handcuffs, batons, etc.), but it can all create an amazing experience.
The thing that sets this one apart from other roleplay ideas is that the dom/sub dynamic can go both ways.
Not only can you play the roles either way in terms of domness, but the dom/sub relationship can shift during your playtime. It’s a mercurial roleplay idea that can become even spicier if you have a knack for spontaneity.
9. Hired Escort
One of the sauciest taboos today, prostitution can be a great area to explore through roleplay.
The kink and illegality of it are what make this roleplay especially appealing. The hooker/gigolo can be called in at your place or picked up from a corner. Either way, you’ll need to hide away to avoid prying eyes. Maybe a hotel room, if you’re “cheating?”
Ok, sure, this one’s weird. But it might be the best thing you’ll ever try out in the sack.
Why? Well, for one, you can let your imagination go absolutely wild. From stereotypical bubble-headed green aliens to be tentacled beasts straight out of hentai, the options are endless, depending on how far your imagination is ready to take it.
Secondly, alien play lets you make use of some wonderfully weird toys. You can get a chance to try out some amazing alien dildos or other toys you otherwise wouldn’t have ever given a thought.
11. Sexual Characters From Fiction
This idea gives you the opportunity to be as silly or sensual as you want. You can get freaky with anyone from Black Widow to Sherlock Holmes, pipe and deerstalker included.
Naturally, dressing up will be a major factor here, though not a complete necessity.
Some costumes are easier to pull off than others, though: for example, simply put on a suave suit and bam!
There’s James Bond in the flesh. But be ready for wigs, tights, makeup, and all sorts of wild accessories.
If you’ve ever dreamt about showing Margot Robbie whose little monster she is or feeling Tom Hardy’s warrior side, it can be done with little effort in some cases.
And both participants can impersonate different celebrities for a spicy (or hilarious) duet for the ages?
A great perk of this one is that it’s extremely barebones (or bareback, if you want it to be) in terms of preparation and needed materials. You simply need to pretend that you’re about to impregnate or get impregnated.
If you’re on the pill, you don’t really need any prep at all; just let your mind go to that primal place. And for the condom-wearers, it’s a simple matter of denying that you’ve got one on. Of course, breeder roleplay isn’t confined to just straight sex. Dildos or anuses can have their fun here, too.
14. Poker Players
No matter the setting, the key is in how you incorporate the game into your lovemaking. So what are some good roleplay ideas here?
For example, you can do strip poker:
For every round, the loser (or winner) takes off a piece of clothing.
You don’t necessarily have to take your clothes after every hand, however. The winner of each hand can request sexual favors instead. You can even get creative and assign sexy actions to some cards (queen means giving head or jack means jacking off, for example).
15. Teacher & Student
The beauty of this one, besides the taboo, is that it can easily work both ways. Either a male or a female can be the teacher, and the same applies to the student role. And if you want the idea to be even kinkier, you can make it a religious school (it isn’t losing your virginity if you do anal, after all).
16. Passed Out/Asleep
This one is very similar to the hypnotist roleplay in that one of the participants has no will of their own. The key difference is that the one sleeping or passed out cannot move. Instead, the one awake can use them as they please.
17. Hiding Out
A secret relationship is one of the hottest kinds out there. Love can be hidden from all sorts of people for a wide variety of reasons.
Maybe you’re hiding out in wartime, with soldiers just outside your room. Or you snuck into your lover’s chambers without anyone else in the house knowing it.
Whichever scene you cook up, the gimmick in this roleplay is silence. No one must know of your presence or your passionate embrace. As such, you have to be as quiet as possible. Moans muffled and orgasms on the down-low, you have to be as silent as a mouse.
18. Spy & Interrogator
This is another one of those dom/sub sex roleplay scenarios that can get very creative. You can take the “interrogation” as far as you’re comfortable, from choking to hair pulling or tickling or whatever you like.
If you’re up for it, you can get dressed to the nines for this one. It fits the stereotype we all have of the high-class spy a la James Bond or Anna Chapman, not to mention that you’ll look great.
19. Virgin/Inexperienced & Experienced
This is a great way to let someone else take charge, but not in an aggressive way. Rather, it’s a gentle, understanding encounter, as you’re whisked into a tender surrender by your more experienced lover.
But, surprisingly enough, this roleplay can even have a therapeutic effect. You see, some people had bad or embarrassing experiences losing their virginity. By “getting their virginity back” when assuming the role of the inexperienced, they get a chance to, in a way, correct this misfortune.
As for products that simulate a similar experience, here are some sex toys for virgins that you should try with your partner.
20. Sexual Classy Affair
This kind of situation calls for a very classy atmosphere. Rent out a room at a swanky hotel and dress up in your finest gala outfits. Go wining and dining and pull out all the fancy stops.
Talk about how you’re each other’s best part of your lives and how you can’t stop thinking about each other, even when in the embrace of another.
Once you feel like you’re about to burst with excitement, it’s time to take it to the hotel room.
Extra 40+ Good Sexy Roleplay Ideas With Your Partner
Just as an added bonus for you reading up to this point, here are 43 more roleplay ideas to explore.
They, in my opinion, aren’t quite as spicy or unique as the ones above, but they still deserve a mention.
1. Cop & Speeding Ticket Receiver
Getting pulled over sucks, but you might have to suck harder than ever before to get out of this situation. Great little authority-based roleplay that’s rife with all kinds of puns if you’re up for it.
2. Boss & Bad Employee Roleplay
This boss has had enough of their employee slacking off and always showing up late. It’s time to teach them a lesson. You can get rough here, so I recommend it to anyone who’s into that.
3. Fucking Your SO’s Brother/Sister
Forbidden fruit is always the tastiest, and what better morsel is there than the sibling? You’ve been eyeing each other up on the down-low forever, and now it’s time to do something about it.
4. Groupie & Rock Star
One of you is a rock god in the prime of their career. The other an adoring groupie ready to do anything to make them happy. A great opportunity to blast some of your favorite tracks while fucking.
5. Sex Right Before The World Ends
The world as we know it is falling apart around us. But right now, all of it can crumble to dust as far as you’re concerned. All you’re interested in right now is tearing each other up.
6. Returning Soldier & Eager SO
You’ve been out on duty for the longest time, but the time has come for you to go back home. There, your SO awaits, primed and ready to show you just how much they’ve missed you.
7. Porn Stars
You’re both the masters of pleasing the other (or same) sex. For you, wild and sloppy fucking is just a day at the office. But you’ve both been waiting for the chance to work with one another.
8. People Who Hate Each Other
Odds are that you don’t hate the person you have a relationship with. But hate-fucking can be incredibly satisfying, and you’re missing out if you never give it a try.
9. Pizza Guy & Someone Who Doesn’t Wanna Pay in Cash
Your order’s here, and this time, it’s gonna be with extra sausage. This is one of the simpler roleplay ideas, and you can even order a pizza for after you have sex.
10. Pool Boy & Housewife
If you have access to a pool, you can use it for a wonderfully teasing pool boy roleplay. You can just sit back and bask in the sun (half)naked while the pool boy steals lustful glances until you beckon to him.
11. Yoga Class
You can get stretched in more ways than one. This is also a fine way to warm up for sex, especially if you’re up for some more athletic positions.
12. Repairman & Someone Strapped For Cash
Repairmen are usually very good with their hands, and you’d give everything to feel them on your body. So instead of paying them with cash, you can show your appreciation in other ways.
To fuck like a couple of animals, you have to get real primal. Rough, grunting, intense, it’s about all that good stuff. There’s little to no preparation for this roleplay, which is a great plus.
14. King/Queen & Loyal Subject
If you want to class up the dom/sub situation, it hardly gets classier than fucking with royalty. You can dress as flamboyantly as you want, while the obedient servant wears lowly rags.
If you have a thing for costumes and makeup, you can disguise yourself as a robot. As a machine, you can either be a docile, clumsy lover or a ruthless fucking machine.
16. Stripper & Customer
You can play a customer that’s about to have the luckiest night of his life as their time with a stripper goes way beyond just a lap dance.
17. Landlord & Someone Who Can’t Pay Rent
The end of the month is coming round, and it’s time to pay your rent. You don’t have any money, but your landlord isn’t exactly the forgiving type. So what will you do to make things right?
18. Tourist & Local
One of you knows the ropes of the town, while the other is a mysterious, exotic foreigner that came to learn your country’s ways. You can speak different languages and communicate in other, more creative ways.
19. Firefighter & Person He/She Saved
Another one of the classic sexual fantasies. Few professions are as hot (pun not intended) as a firefighter. And at least some of the people they’ve saved have thought about repaying them with a rigorous fucking.
20. Jock & Nerd
The eternal battle between the jock and the nerd boils to an explosive night of passionate lovemaking, either by the nerd overcoming the jock with fancy gadgets or the jock physically overpowering the nerd.
The burglar sneaks into their hapless victim’s home looking for a good score. Little do they know that they’re about to score for real. Either the burglar takes over or the homeowner turns the tables in their favor.
22. Pilot & Flight Attendant
The mile-high club is an achievement few can brag about. Being in the sky for so much, pilots and flight attendants must at least sometimes feel tempted to join this scandalous society.
One of you plays the jaded, disillusioned spouse that comes back home before their significant other, while the other plays the hot, young, and bored nanny. The opportunity is just too good to pass up.
Cheating is one of the biggest taboos in a relationship. That’s what also makes it so hot in many cases. You can pretend you’re cheating on someone else for a night of sinful delight.
25. Age Play
One of you can play a much older person that hooks up with a fiery youngster eager for a taboo ride. If you’ve ever had a thing for older people, you can make it work with a little imagination (and maybe a bit of makeup or dress-up).
If you are into this kind of roleplay, you should read our DDLG guide.
26. Gym Buddies
You spend so much time in the gym together, all sweaty and tight. And in one fiery moment, your friendship turns into a soaking, searing romp right there among all the weights and machines.
27. Security Officer & Intruder
You, a security officer, catch someone trying to break into a mall or museum. What to do with them now that they’re at your mercy? You can take it anywhere you like from there.
28. Forest Ranger & Tourist
The seasoned forest ranger can show the tourist all the splendor of the great outdoors. If you’re particularly naughty, you can try this one out in actual nature, provided nobody catches you.
29. Librarian & Library Visitor
The image of the stuck-up librarian is about to get blown to pieces. The librarian catches a visitor, whom they’ve fancied for a long time, in a secluded part of the library. You get to write the rest of this story.
30. Political Enemies
Foaming at the mouth with rage from all the arguing, the worst of political enemies can no longer stand the tension between them and explode in a fiery passion. Political references abound.
31. Long-Distance Relationship
If you ever wanted to include technology in your sex life, a long-distance relationship play is a great way to explore that. You can make use of video calls and sexting for an alternate, touch-free experience.
As for products, here’s an excellent roundup of the best long-distance sex toys and teledildonics couples should try out in their relationship.
32. Scientific Experiment
Straps, vials, goggles, and a whole range of toys, the scientific experiment gimmick can be a teasing, yet exciting affair. Probe and examine your subject as you wish.
If you’re a fan of wrestling, you can turn a night of fucking into an exciting (and potentially hilarious) battle.
You can invoke any of your favorite wrestlers, dress up, speak bombastically, and cook up scenarios that lead to your encounter.
34. Real Estate Agent & Homebuyer
You’re trying to inspect a place you’re interested in buying, but you just can’t take your eyes off of your real estate agent. There’s plenty of room in the empty house/apartment, so why not give it a shot?
35. Sex With A Twin
They look the same, but you know they’re not the same person. In terms of props, this is the easiest, most affordable roleplay idea. It’s all in the mind.
36. Door-to-Door Salesman & Housewife
The bored housewife barely sees her husband, so she always dresses up for the door-to-door salesmen who stop by. This is a neat, retro sexual fantasy that’s pretty flexible.
37. Study Buddies
There’s an exam coming, and you’ve turned to a friend of yours for help with studying. This friend’s pretty smart, but you’ve just now noticed how good-looking they are.
Maybe it’s the situation, but all you can think about is how much you want to see them without their clothes.
38. Pirate & Sailor
Pirates are ruthless brigands of the seas, and the poor sailor that survived their boarding is about to see how much they love booty. Pirate puns and jokes are plentiful, so keep ‘em coming.
39. Cheerleader & Football Captain
Again, one of the classic roleplay ideas. The costumes are pretty easy to get a hold of, so all you have to do is whatever it takes to get the captain pumped for the big game tomorrow.
40. Cowboy & Saloon Girl
You two are what makes the Wild West truly wild. The cowboy barges into the saloon looking to wet his whistle. He’s about to get something else wet, though, as the two of you ride out into the sunset.
One can play the role of the lurking voyeur watching their unknowing “victim” as they play with themselves, unaware that they aren’t alone. The voyeur can even record the other person for future use.
42. Doing It In Front Of A Crowd
In case one of you (or both of you) have an exhibitionist streak, why not pretend that there are people watching you as you fuck? You can have anyone you want in your “audience,” so don’t hold back.
43. Dancer & Dancing Instructor
Dance can be amazingly erotic, even more so when you have a dancing partner or, in this case, instructor. They gently, but confidently show you every move, caressing your body and holding you close to theirs in the process.
Why Do People Roleplay?
Reading about all these roleplay ideas, some of you might be asking why. Not ‘why’ as in ‘why am I reading a roleplay ideas list?’, but more like “why do people want to roleplay in the first place?”
But the answer to that one sounds pretty straightforward, doesn’t it? It’s to fulfill sexual fantasies, isn’t it?
Well, yes and no.
You see, people seem to engage in roleplay for many more reasons than sheer sexual gratification.
The evidence of this comes from a survey conducted by the author of Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. He asked over 4,000 Americans about why they roleplay.
According to the people surveyed, the reasons for roleplaying include:
- Curiosity about novel sexual experiences
- Satisfying unfulfilled sexual desires
- Getting away from reality
- Experiencing a taboo desire
- Planning a future sexual encounter
There are more reasons that people cited in the sexual fantasies survey than shown here, these are just the top five. The point here is that people are interested in roleplay for more than just kicks.
Be Whoever You Want To Be
Roleplay gives you a unique chance to be someone who isn’t you. Someone domineering, someone shy, a spy on a secret mission, or a helpless victim of alien probing.
You get to experience things outside of your own life and personality.
So pluck out as many pages from the endless book of sexual fantasies as you can.
Also, consider checking out our best sex tips for men guide to take your game to a new level.
Try each of these roleplay ideas and see which one resonates with you. It’s all part of the fun.