How To Suck A BIG Dick Properly Like A Pro in 2021

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Are you blessed with a partner with a massive dong? 

Lucky you! There’s only one problem, though: you’d really need to learn how to suck a big cock. Give that man the sweet loving he deserves.

When it comes to giving head to a huge cock, everyone could use a few extra tricks up their sleeve. 

But don’t worry: we’ve got your back. In this guide, we will cover everything you need to know about handling big cocks like a pro. 


How To Suck A Big Dick In A Nutshell

When sucking a big dick, start by teasing the tip with your lips and tongue. Then, gently insert the tip into your mouth and start bobbing your head. Throw in some sucking and tongue flickering too.

Finish off by running your hands up and down the shaft, keeping a consistent pace with your mouth. 


Dick Too Big? There Are Worse Things Out There

Yes, sucking a big dick has its challenges, but it’s definitely doable, and anyone can learn to do it. 

And once you master this discipline, you’ll not only be giving your man the best blowjobs of his life, but you will also know that you’d be able to handle any cock out there if you had to!

Oh, almost forgot: working on a giant cock can feel incredibly arousing once you get past your fears.

I can sense your interest piquing, so let’s jump right into it.


How To Prepare For It?

The Biggest Challenge: Get Rid Of Gag Reflex

I had to start with this one. 

The gag reflex is the single biggest challenge when it comes to taking in a big dick in your mouth — whether you are doing deepthroat or not. Sometimes, the mere sensation of having a large head in your mouth could be enough to make you gag.

The good news? 

There are a couple of tricks that can help curb your gag reflex! 

Numbing Products

Yes, such products exist. Delay sprays contain a soothing agent and a mild local anesthetic that temporarily numb your mouth and throat.

And if you can’t feel much in there, your gag reflex won’t be triggered! 

Just spray it into your throat once and wait for a few seconds before starting your blowjob. 

You can also try numbing mints. Simply suck on a couple of tablets until they dissolve in your mouth — it shouldn’t take more than a couple of minutes.

Remember to use these products with caution. You want to still be able to feel what’s going on in there, or you risk ending up with tears. 

The Gag Reflex Magic Trick

This one is a bit of a hit or miss, but some women swear by it. Plus, it literally costs nothing, so you might as well give it a try. 

Start by wrapping your thumb under your index finger so that it rests on the middle finger.

Then, squeeze down your index finger and test your gag reflex. With any luck, it should be gone or at least suppressed. 


Practice With A Dildo

You know what they say: practice makes perfect. 

So, get yourself a realistic-looking dildo (for example, this 8″ silicone fella) that’s about the size of your partner’s penis and start practicing! 

After a few dry runs on the dildo, you can move on to your partner’s dick. He’ll definitely be able to tell the difference.

And don’t forget: as always, when shopping for dildos, you want to get ones made from medical-grade silicone.

It’s pretty much the only material (other than glass, and stainless steel that is) that is non-porous and can be sanitized effectively.

Materials such as TPE, hard plastic, and rubber are porous and can compromise your health. 


Get Tasty Lube

When giving a blowjob, it’s always a good idea to stock up on lube — and that’s especially important when sucking a big dick.

Chances are you will run out of saliva at some point, and you’d still need something to lubricate your hands and lips. 

Fruity lubes are a great way to spice up oral sex and make it even more pleasant for everyone involved.

Our latest favorite is the Sliquid Strawberry Pomegranate Flavored Lube. My girl LOVES the flavor – it’s sweet but not too overpowering so as to conceal the natural taste of your partner.

Plus, it’s water-based, so you can use it with both condoms and sex toys. 


Use Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage To Help Out

Last but not least, our final piece of advice would be to get the Quickshot Vantage and use it to make the penis WAY shorter.

Simply have your partner slide the Fleshlight on, and you will only have to deal with the tip and possibly a tiny portion of the shaft. 

And not, that’s not cheating. Who said you had to become a deepthroating expert to such a big dick effectively? 

The toy is great both as supplementary stimulation during oral sex and a solo masturbation tool. This way, your partner can have some fun even when you are away — or simply can’t be bothered. 


How To Suck A Huge Cock The RIGHT Way

Step 1: Get In Position

You will have the most control over the speed and depth if you have him sit down or lie on his back with you kneeling in front of him. 


Step 2: Lube Up

Start by applying a generous amount of lube and/or saliva onto your partner’s penis and your hands. Trust me, you will need every single drop.

As you are lubing him up, make naughty eye contact, talk dirty, and move your hands up and down the shaft. He’ll definitely appreciate it. 


Step 3: Work The Tip

You probably won’t be able to take the whole thing in your mouth. And you know what? That’s fine.

Here’s a secret: deepthroating feels nowhere near as good as some enthusiastic stimulation of the tip of the penis. It’s the most sensitive part of his genitalia — much like a woman’s clit. 

So, take full advantage of that and give his tip some loving. 

Lick and tease it using swirling tongue motions. Make sure to pay special attention to the area just below the head where it meets the shaft: it’s super sensitive.

After a while, gently take the whole tip in your mouth and start bobbing your head up and down. Spice things up with a bit of sucking (feels great) and some quick tongue flickers. 

Try to keep a consistent pace, but if it gets too much, you can always take it out of your mouth and resume the tongue and lips play. There are no rules as long as you are both enjoying it. 


Step 4: Use Your Hands

Your hands are your absolute best friends when sucking a big dick. You might not be able to accommodate the whole thing in your mouth, but you can certainly warp your hand — or hands — around the portion of the shaft that’s out.

Just make sure your hands are generously lubed up.

Once you get a good grip, start rubbing the shaft with your hands using up-and-down and corkscrew motions.

Meanwhile, continue working on the tip and try to keep the same rhythm with your mouth and hands.


Step 5: Take Breaks

Hey, big dicks are a lot of work. If you ever feel like your jaws need a break, give them one.

In the meantime, you can still keep things steamy through kissing, foreplay, or even penetrative sex — or anything else. 


Step 6: Be Confident

Enthusiasm goes a long way. Your technique doesn’t have to be perfect as long as it gets the job done, but your attitude is what can make or break a good blowjob. 

So, be confident, provocative, and assertive — even if you don’t feel like it. You know what they say: fake it ‘till you make it. 

Trust us on this one: that wild look in your eyes and naughty smirk of yours will get your man hard faster than any advanced blowjob technique.


Step 7: Cater To His Ego

Your man is proud of his dick. But he wants to hear that you appreciate the big boy too. 

Every now and then, in between licks and sucks, make sure to stop, look him in the eyes, and tell him what a massive cock he’s got.

Tell him how you love sucking on it and how you love the feeling as it fills up your mouth. He’ll love it. 


Never Do These When Sucking A Huge Cock

Use Teeth

Teeth can be super painful and ruin the whole mood. 

That’s a big no-no in any blowjob but more so when sucking a big dick. It’s just a lot easier for your teeth to hit his penis when it takes up more space in your mouth. 

So, be careful. 


Bite

If it’s not a good idea to scratch his penis with your teeth, why would it be a good one to bite it? 


Swallow Saliva

The wetter, the better. 


Lick or Finger His Butthole Without Consent

You wouldn’t want him doing that to you, right? 

Butt play can be a sensitive topic, and it certainly isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. Make sure to talk things through before going anywhere near his anus. 


Let Him Push Your Head

As tempting as it might be for a guy, you already have enough on your plate to also have to worry about him pushing his dick too far up your throat.

When sucking a big cock, you want to retain full control over the speed and depth of the blowjob at all times. He’ll have to get over it and learn to let go. 


Other People’s Tips, Experiences & Techniques

“I don’t know if this helps, but when sucking dick, you don’t need to take the whole thing in. Evidently, a lot of guys enjoy that, but it’s not necessary. Only the first couple inches are of any real value.

The sensitive spot that gets him off is just below the head. The rest of the shaft is just there. As long as you can get the first couple inches in, you should be golden.”

“Make it as wet as possible, use your hands, and be enthusiastic. As a bigger guy, I like that.”

“Remember, sex isn’t strictly a physical thing (same goes for blowjobs). Well-timed dirty talk and eye contact work wonders. Also, playing with his balls, licking his taint, and stroking his cock during oral sex are all awesome.

I don’t often cum from blowjobs alone (doesn’t mean I don’t like them A LOT), but the big difference for me is enthusiasm. If you suck dick like you love it, you can’t really go wrong.”

Source: Reddit User, IceMan_PJN

“Most guys perceive warm and wet as the bomb-diggity part of the blowjob — that and the feeling that, for once, we get to sit back and be explored and experience pleasure without worry about performance. So give him plenty of both.

I really enjoy being licked firmly on the frenulum and glans in a rough manner. Suction is great, but it doesn’t have to be constant. Enthusiasm makes up for the time I don’t spend in your throat. Lube up the shaft well with your juices and corkscrew your fists around the part you can’t throat while you work the glans over well with your rough, wet tongue.

If you like to make him finish in your mouth, anything rhythmic usually works. If his glans is too puffy to do a lot of mouth work on without tiring your jaws, cup his shaft as a support and to hold it in place and lick up and down quickly on the frenulum from the bottom of the frenulum to the urinary meatus quick, firmly, rhythmically.

To save your tongue muscles, you can even hold your tongue in place against your teeth and use your neck muscles, which are stronger.”

Source: Reddit User, notoneofyourfans

How To Suck A Huge Cock: Frequently Asked Questions Answered

Should I Swallow? 

No — unless you are comfortable with it and want to. The same applies to any sized-dick. If you don’t want to swallow, you can spit in a napkin, or simply don’t have him cum in your mouth at all. There are plenty of other body parts to choose from. 

Should I Deepthroat?

Again, no. It’s all up to your personal preference. 


Conclusion

Ready to go? 

Remember: enthusiasm, playfulness, and a willingness to explore and have fun are key. Everything else is secondary.

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