41 Best Techniques & Tips On How To Eat Pussy Like A Champ

Learn the best way on how to eat pussy like a champ. Read on and explore our pussy eating tips and tricks that will blow her mind!

Embarking on a journey of intimate connection and sensual exploration is a beautiful and rewarding experience. In this article, we delve into the art of pleasuring a woman orally, unraveling the secrets to unforgettable encounters.

From the tantalizing caress of the tongue to the added sensations of “tongue vibrators” and “best vibrators for squirting,” we’ll show you how to take your skills to new heights. And for those seeking mind-blowing release, we’ll also discuss “vibrators for squirting” that can amplify pleasure.

Join us as we navigate the realms of passion, igniting desires and fostering a deeper connection between partners.

Let us guide you on a path of sensual discovery, where pleasure becomes an exquisite symphony of intimacy and satisfaction.

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The Best Foreplay Ideas & Techniques

Foreplay comes first because it’s your best friend to make her cum when you do go down!

The biggest erogenous zone in women’s (and men’s) bodies is the B-Spot — BRAIN!

Yep.

The #1 mistake most men make in this area is simply going down on her and attacking her clitoris without getting her relaxed, aroused, and excited first.

You’ve seen the girl’s attraction to sex machines and think that’s what they want…but nope.

So…

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What Is Foreplay?

Foreplay is everything BEFORE you touch any of her erogenous zones like breasts or pussy.

Foreplay is all about arousing her mind.

Men get aroused quickly from just the sight of a naked sexy body, but women need the teasing first.

What you may not know is that PORN is created mostly for men. And women mostly read erotica — books about sexual stories that allow them to imagine the scene by themselves in their minds.

How to properly do the foreplay?

This is where you get her horny for you without ever touching her.

Here are some ideas:

#1 —Send Her Dirty Texts During The Day

Here are some sexting ideas:

• I want you.
• I had such a bad dream about you last night…
• Oh… the things I’m going to do to you tonight… I’ve got a sexy surprise for you…
• Hey… I keep thinking of that sexy butt of yours…

Consider checking out our sex tips guide to take your game to a new level.  

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#2 — Bring Her Out For A Dinner & Tease Her

You want to build anticipation, and the best way to do it is in a public area where you both need to behave.

The emotions I want you to think of are seduction, passion, and masculinity.

• Grab her and give her a passionate kiss, and then just release her and move on.
• Look at her with dirty, confident eyes and then look away
• Whisper something in her ear and bite it a little, then keep going like nothing happened

Your goal is to build up the tension and confuse her by sending mixed signals.

It’s like playing with a cat. It’s only interesting for the cat if he cannot win.

Once he catches whatever he’s catching — the game is over. It’s boring.

It works exactly the same way with women.

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#3 — Get Her Naked And Her Pussy Wet

Okay, now to the final part…

and then, yes, you get to eat her pussy 😉

You’ve teased and made her think of sex… her brain is aroused.

Now, she probably expects you’ll go down and dirty right after you come home.

Nope.

You want to take it slow. The slower you take it during the foreplay, the more aroused her body will be, and the easier she will orgasm when you go down.

It will be as easy as taking candy from the kid if you follow my steps.

When you get home, you slowly… undress her.

One piece at a time. Make sure you ignore any of her erogenous places — don’t touch her pussy or breasts.

• Kiss her passionately, then kiss her neck and take off one piece of clothing
• Kiss her again, this time go and bit her earlobe and remove another piece.
• Go back…and put your hands on the back of her head, grab her hair…and move on to removing another piece.
• …Repeat till she’s naked.

And then…and don’t miss this step:

You see, the #1 reason why usually girls cannot really relax and enjoy you eating her pussy (or might not let you go down on her at all) is that:

SHE’S WORRIED THAT SHE’S DIRTY AND SMELLY!

Yeah, a ton of guys worry about how her pussy tastes, but women worry about it even more!

So set yourselves both at ease and take a nice, sexy shower.

Then she’ll be chilled, and you’ll have a nice, neutral taste when you do go down.

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The Best Way To Eat Pussy In 6 Steps

Aight…

She’s relaxed, aroused, and naked in the bed with you.

Let’s get down to the REAL business.

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#1 — Ignore Her Pussy At First

Remember, women are different.

While you would probably want her to just go down on you and give you a blowjob, she doesn’t work that way.

Keep kissing her, exploring her body, sucking her nipples…

Rub her inner thigh area around the pussy, but keep her on her toes by not touching her biggest erogenous zone at first.

If she’s begging you to fuck her — you’re doing it right.

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#2 — Explore Everything Around The Vagina

A quick anatomy lesson.

There is a lot more going on than her clitoris.

Now you want to lick her vagina but not touch the clitoris yet (marked in red in the picture).

Kiss her inner thighs, the vagina lips, put a finger in her — do anything…

She’ll appreciate it.

My favorite technique is to blow on her vagina first and then give it a nice, juicy kiss…

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#3 — Start Licking Her Pussy & Clitoris

Now you are zeroing in to focus on actually giving her orgasm.

You want to activate your senses and observe what kind of feedback her body is sending.

Experiment with different movements and see what she likes.

Here are the three most common on how to eat pussy:

• Go up and down with your tongue on her clitoris
• Go in circles with your tongue around her clitoris
• Suck on her pussy softly.

Keep experimenting with rhythm, intensity, and movements.

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#4 — Put In Your Finger & Stimulate Her G-Spot

Add extra pleasure by inserting your finger around two knuckles in facing upwards (if she’s laying on her back)

You will feel a little bump there and start by pushing your fingers up and pulling towards yourself.

Start softly at first, but after that, you can go quite strong.

She’ll have double stimulation, you with your face eating her pussy out and fingers stimulating her from the inside.

She’ll get super wet and moan…

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#5 — Experiment Until You Find Something That She Really Likes

Every woman is different.

One woman will want soft stimulation and she’ll come.

Another will require some intense rubbing to send her to cum powerfully.

My advice is to start slowly and softly and then start increasing the pressure and speed.

She’ll let you know what she likes… and if you’ve established some good trust with her she might even tell you the movement she likes.

If she doesn’t tell you anything, just listen in to the signals her body language is sending.

Once you find something that she seems to like — KEEP ON IT!

This is the huge mistake most men make because they assume women are like men. Men would need increased speed to ejaculate, but women need the same speed that they like.

Then the orgasm will come slowly, but surely.

And it will be way more powerful than a rushed one.

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#6 — Focus on The Journey, Not The Destination

Yes, you want her to cum, but you don’t want to force it.

You don’t want her to feel like you just wanna rush her to the orgasm.

That will murder her arousal and destroy the connection you’ve built with her.

So, don’t force it.

Keep working on it, but don’t forget to look at her and reconnect.

Show her you’re having fun and enjoying it.

This will set her at ease and she’ll reward you with loud moans, wet pussy and soul-shaking orgasms.

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Different Pussy Eating Positions

It’s a cool idea to mix things up after you’re bored with the classical missionary with her on her back and you go down on her.

Still, remember that the classical missionary position is the most popular for a reason. It’s the most enjoyable and comfortable for both parties.

But here are some ideas to spice it up:

Lay down on your back and ask her to sit on you!

Ask her to lay on her fours and lick her pussy from the back!

This is a variation from missionary, which will give you easier access.

It’s where you are laying on your back with her laying on you so your face is exposed to her pussy and her face to your cock.

We’ve made an article on the top pussy eating positions you can check.

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Bonus Pussy Eating Techniques & Tips

While there is one best way, that I revealed in 7 steps…

There also tons of variations that you can do.

#1 — Suck Her Pussy Technique

Shape your lips in O motion, put them right on her clit area and start sucking on her.

You can start gently, slowly, but you want to find your rhythm that she seems to like and stick to it if you want her to orgasm from this technique.

Variations:

• Suck and circle your tongue around her clit
• Suck and release
• The constant up and down sucking motion

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#2 — Wide Lick Technique

Relax your tongue, make it wide and lick her thoroughly from top to bottom.

You can change the directions, intensity, speed… You know the drill.

Just make sure your tongue and her pussy are super wet when you do it.

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#3 — Windshield Technique

Do you know how car windshield works? Yup?

Do the same to her clit with your tongue in half circular motion.

It will wind her up like crazy! (pun intended)

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#4 — Stretch & Contract Her Vaginal Area

Woman’s vagina is sturdy! It can get the baby out of there, it’s not as fragile as you may think.

Press your both hands on each side of her pussy (vagina stays in between) and pull down… up… on the sides…

Yup, you really can do that and she’ll enjoy it! Chances are she has never experienced that before.

Truth is, there are tons of erectile tissue all around her vagina, not just on the clit, so it’s all an enjoyable area down there.

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#5 — Jerk of Her Clit

Imagine her clit is like a small penis and grab the foreskin covering her clit with your thumb and index finger.

Make sure it’s super wet there and start rocking that foreskin up and down, the same way you would jerk off your penis.

Remember, that her clitoris has thousands of nerve endings there so be soft and gentle.

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#6 — Pussy And Ass

If she is open and trusts you, you could really amp the sex play up if you put a finger in her bum.

The big warning here is that you really need to be careful about the hygiene.

There are tons of germs in the ass that you don’t want to get in her pussy.

You can go three ways about it:

Three Ways

 

Put a condom or latex glove on your finger and get in

Once you’re done with her butt, take the condom off, and you’ll have no hygiene issues.

Just use your finger (make sure your nails are cut)

But when you’re done, you will need to go to the bathroom to clean it.

Use a butt plug

Check out a princess plug if you care for how it looks.

I like option #1 because it doesn’t interrupt the whole play and you don’t need to buy anything.. 😉

Just remember to stay safe.

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#7 — Put Fingers In Her Vagina & Press Down

Instead of going for her G-spot you are going to the opposite side. There are tons of erectile tissue down there, that if pressed firmly will give her nice sensations.

It’s the same tissue that gets stimulated during anal sex by the way, and it’s the reason why women actually enjoy anal 😉

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#8 — Play with Different Senses

If you’re truly adventurous, you can play with senses to amp up the experience.

Use blindfolds, bondage, put binaural beats on her with headphones for truly unforgettable experiences.

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#9 — Use Sex Toys To Add Spice and Make Her Orgasms GUARANTEED

Sex toys are awesome way to quickly add spice and outsource the hard work to the sex toys.

Toys even make it too easy — no need to learn fancy techniques, but I believe both techniques and toys have their own space.

I have two favorite toys I recommend:

A clit sucking toy that simulates sucking motion and makes her orgasm insanely fast…! If she has trouble orgasming, this toy will make her come fast. Just don’t overuse it by making her cum too much or she will need time to recover.

If you’re looking for a similar but vibrator type toy, look no further and check out our LELO Sila review.

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#10 — The Pancake

You could also let your tongue do the heavy lifting as an alternative.

The pancake technique can get your girl all swooned up in no time. Just follow these simple steps, and you can get her pussy all wet and excited:

Technique

 

First, stick your tongue out

Make sure you make it as wide and flat as a pancake.

Then, coat it with your saliva

You can do this by coiling it in and out of your mouth. Or you could try sliding the tongue back and forth on the top of your lip.

Position your tongue at the bottom of the vagina

Then, slowly move it towards the clit.

Repeat a consistent motion

With the tongue continuously sticking out. Make sure to let your head and neck do all the movement.

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#11 — The Vortex

You could always try with your lips if the tongue doesn’t work out in your favor. 

The vortex technique is all about making the clit feel stimulated. All you need to do is to:

• Form your lips into an O-shape, making it slightly bigger than your woman’s clit.
• Then, get some saliva on your lips.
• Place your O-shaped lips on her clit and start sucking. 

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#12 — BDSM

If you want to elevate your experiences in bed, then some good ole BDSM might do the trick. 

Try tying her up before performing cunnilingus on her. The helpless sensation she’ll feel can drive her crazy once you start edging her. 

And by the end, she’ll have a satisfying orgasm to last for the books.

Of course, you could also have the roles reversed.

Your woman could do the light bondage ideas this time and have her take complete control. 

While you’re tied up, she could sit on your face while controlling your head in the movements. 

And if she wants, she could grab you by the hair and have her vagina grind on your face as rough as she likes it. 

Check Out These BDSM Toys For Bondage

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#13 — Use Household Items

Try incorporating some everyday items into your bedroom adventures. 

Maybe some finger-licking whipped cream might spice things up a bit. 

Or how about some mint and ice cubes? 

There’s so much to play around with different textures and sensations. And you can go as outlandish as you want with your imagination, albeit safety first. 

There’s no need to buy the latest sex toy you can find on the market. Just browse through your counters, and you’re bound to find something interesting. 

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#14 — Edging

Edging her while eating her out can be a deadly combo. 

And you know what? It doesn’t even take much effort to do in the first place. 

As you lick and suck on her vagina, simply stop before she’s about to orgasm. Then go in again once she starts to cool down. 

Repeat the process as much as you can until she finally reaches her limit.

And just like that, she’ll feel satisfied after the constant teases and frustrations that were all pent up.

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#15 — Quick Extra Pussy Eating Tips

This is where I include all the things that didn’t fit elsewhere.

Tips

 

Hygiene

If you do any fingering, ensure your fingers are cut, and there are no sharp edges.

Take Your Time

Don’t rush it; learn to enjoy going down on her, and you’ll both have more fun.

Remember the differences

Women’s arousal is completely different, and just keep that on the back of your mind. Educate yourself, and ask her for feedback when you’re not in the bedroom.

Make sure it’s wet 

It’s quite easy since your mouth creates tons of saliva, but still…

Be present

The only way you’ll be able to notice what she likes is if you pay attention to her, drink her in, and enjoy being there.

Show her you enjoy it 

Chances are she’s insecure around her intimate area. Tell her how much you love eating her pussy, how much you love her butt, when she moans..etc… It will set her at ease!

Practice licking your own hand

This is how I practiced kissing when I was starting out… Practice all these tricks you learned here on your own hand first, and you’ll be better in action, too.

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 6 Women Give Tips on How to Properly Eat Pussy

Let’s add some perspective, shall we?

#1 — Pussy eating advice from a pornstar Nina Hartley:

• Swirl the fingertip or tongue slowly around the clit, not on the clit

• Lick the entire vagina with a wide tongue in long, extended licks

• Insert one finger in her vagina and just let it sit there so she has something to clench on while you’re busy eating her out. No thrusting or G-spot stimulating because it distracts her from the clitoral sensations.

• Nina Hartley’s most reliable way of making woman cum clitorally is to slowly lick the area just below the clit and then up to the side of the clit without actually “flicking it” itself.

• Tilt the head to one side to suck on one of her inner lips (labia) and then slowly stretch it by moving the head until the vagina lip slides out of your mouth along the teeth.

— Nina Hartley

If you want some additional action in the labia, better read on the how to give a pussy massage here!

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#2 — Suck Her Clitoris

It’s like “lurch off the bed and dig my fingers in his hair” orgasm for me.

It’s not like literally sucking on the clitoris alone, it’s a bit larger area with the clitoris in the middle. You make a suction cup with your mouth and press your tongue against her clit.

Not too hard though. Make sure you don’t touch her with your teeth.

So — every time you make a vacuum with your lips your tongue will naturally move a bit down along her clitoris.

Start slow and watch for her reaction/clues.

You can use just the tip of your tongue or more of it — play with it a bit so you know what she likes better.

Once you are on the right track use your finger or two to massage her G.

— eurogothic

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#3 — Go Slow, Work Your Way There

Go slow to start with. Don’t go straight for the pussy. Work your way there get her super wound up first. Tease her. Start off by making out then slowly work your way down her body.

Starting at her neck down to her nipples stomach so forth. When you get close to her pussy kiss her thighs and around her pussy.

This will drive her crazy especially when I gently breathe on a rub across her pussy.

The more aroused she is the better the outcome.

Make sure you take care of that clit.

“Key to success” lol

— Jane

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#4 — Oral Sex Tip: Tongue Side To Side, Any Gender

Ages ago I read an article full of sex tips and found one that had actually been formally researched by a sex therapist.

To paraphrase, when we lick something — a cock, a clit, or an ice cream cone — our instinct is to lick from bottom to top. But this sex therapist asked couples to to try cunnilingus a little differently, moving the tip of the tongue across the clit from side to side. Horizontally, not vertically. She said that 70% of the women reported more intense orgasms, and some had their very first.

I’m bisexual, monogamous, and married to a man for five years now. When I was giving him a blowjob, that old article popped into my head and I decided to try moving my tongue side-to-side, from the frenulum to the base of the shaft.

He made the sexiest sounds I have ever heard, and it was like his whole body turned to putty. He said he didn’t know what I was doing different, but it felt amazing. I do it regularly now, and I think it’s exciting that even couples who have been together for a long time can still find new and exciting things. It also helps that he is uncut, so his frenulum is more sensitive.

I recommend this for women also, as it was intended, but for men, it’s a little more challenging — moving your tongue back and forth while bobbing your head up and down is surprisingly difficult, like rubbing your tummy and patting your head at the same time. It takes more practice. But totally worth it.

— Invictus587

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#5 — “You’re Not Licking A Bowl Of Milk”

• Make sure she’s wet before you start.

• Keep a soft tongue.

• You’re not licking a bowl of milk. Put as much of your mouth there as you can.

• Lick the clit, but don’t forget the rest of the vagina.

• Touching and fingering is nice, but don’t fucking stop licking.

— MeddyKeegan

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#6 — “There’s a method to follow if you want to give her an extremely intense, whole body shaking orgasm.”

Now, this all assuming that she has a freshly washed pussy. No woman should open her legs to a man.. Or woman.

Start by simply looking at her pussy and lightly rubbing your thumb. A little tease goes a long way. Let her build up until she’s trying to press herself onto your hand.

Then: mercy.

Get your face down there and start kissing her sweet little pussy softly and still through her panties. When she starts moaning, lick from hole to clit. She is primed now. This is when you get your tongue in deep.

Lick in upward motion kind of fast and with pressure. She may squirt in your face then..even if she didn’t know what she was a squirter.

EVERY woman is.

Now, tell her something dirty like “your sweet little cunt tastes so fucking good!”

Now, two fingers angled upward and pressing, suck her clit. And lick it round and round, like flickering. Now, she’ll start pressing her pussy onto your face harder and likely will say something kinky.

I personally say something like “yeah, I can see you have been craving my chubby tight little cunt all day! Get ready to fuck a freshly orgasmed wet hole, baby!”

“Mmmmffuuucckkk Y EA H! ‘”

And you got her off like a fucking champ. Remove all fear. And if you want your cock down her throat anytime you feel like it, I suggest you follow every detail.

You will have your own personal slut with horny pussy, and no one has ever said it, but that’s the true key to a good long marriage.

— Amy King

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11 Most Important Tips On Pussy Eating

Just like any other process, there are some things that men must be aware of when it comes to pleasuring their partner. So without further ado, here are some helpful do’s and don’ts on pussy eating: 

#1 — Don’t Use The Alphabet Technique

You want to be consistent when it comes to your tongue movements. So avoid drawing the whole alphabet with your tongue when eating your woman out. 

Yes, some might hit her sensitive spots the right way. But most of the time, it’s usually the luck of the draw. 

So instead, focus on feeling her out first. 

Have your tongue explore different spots on her vagina. Then see how she reacts. Don’t just go A-B-C on her. She’ll feel unsatisfied if you cannot reach and stimulate her pleasure zone for extended periods.  

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#2 — Be Consistent

Speaking of consistency, ensure you can get your movements to a tee. 

Get your speed and rhythm just right based on her preference. And make sure not to apply too much pressure from the get-go. 

Build up your whole performance. 

Again, it’s all about feeling your woman out. So make sure you also pay attention to how her body reacts to you stimulating her. 

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#3 — Listening To Feedback

Communication is key in any relationship. And that also applies when it comes to the bedroom. 

So try getting some feedback from your partner during sex or foreplay.

Does she like the movement you’re doing? Are you going fast enough? Is that part of her starting to feel pain? 

Talk it out. Don’t be shy. You want to ensure your woman feels stimulated and comfortable during the whole experience. 

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#4 — Don’t Use Food

As mentioned, couples can use household items like whipped cream during foreplay. But doing so also comes with safety concerns.

The vagina is a sensitive area, after all. You must take extra caution if they decide to amp up their experience with the use of food items. 

Maybe your woman could wash up before penetration after using the products. Or, just to be safe, simply avoid them to try not to attract any risks. 

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#5 — Do Not Copy Porn

Porn is never a good gateway to learning the art of pussy eating. 

There are unrealistic standards. And in some ways, actors can just be faking the whole experience. 

So, stick to real-life experiences. And figure it out as you go along. Pros aren’t pros without being amateurs first. So don’t be afraid to hit a few stumbles here and there. 

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#6 — Don’t Be Too Rough

Not everyone can feel stimulated by rough and intense foreplay. Some like to take it slow and steady more than others. 

So talk it out with your partner. 

If they’re pretty sensitive, try licking through her underwear first. See how she reacts. 

If she’s slowly easing into it, you could try teasing her clit and vagina by giving a few kisses. Then, have her get comfortable before going at it full-in. 

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#7 — Don’t Try To Recreate Sex

The tongue can only do so much. So you can’t give your woman the full penetrative experience using that alone. 

Cunnilingus is all about making her feel loosened up and relaxed. So the goal is always about stimulation.

Play around with her clit and give some variety. Do a few teases by kissing her inner thighs and the area outside her vagina. Remember, you want to have her still feel good even though penetration is not involved. 

So do a little experimenting. 

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#8 — Use Your Hands

Eating her pussy doesn’t mean your hands are off-limits. You could always multi-task. 

While licking her vagina, you could play with her clit using your fingers. Or you could have it the other way. You could suck on her clit, while you finger her through her front bottom. 

It’s all up to you to be creative. So don’t be afraid to add a few more “helping hands” in the mix. 

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#9 — Don’t Rush

Take it slow to build some anticipation in eating your woman out. Rushing is never good, as it can make her feel unsatisfied the longer you keep doing short operations. 

However, quickies are not a bad idea to do once in a while. So why not balance it out by making it a surprise? 

Switch things up, but keep it to yourself. It can make the experience much more exciting for your girl. And it makes your whole sexual relationship not go stale. 

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#10 — Ask Her For Help

Some women have it all figured out regarding their sexual preferences. So it never hurts to ask them beforehand. 

If she’s the more quiet type, initiate the conversation. Talk to her about what she likes and what she doesn’t. If she still hasn’t figured it out, then some trial and error couldn’t hurt. 

Of course, you have to make sure she’s comfortable first. So don’t just go in with gusto. Ease her into it. 

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#11 — Orgasm Is Not The Goal

Finally, don’t pressure your woman to get an orgasm from cunnilingus. It is not the end goal. 

Pussy eating is more about the sensations. It’s the stimulation that matters. 

So always have that mindset when making your girl feel good first. It’s all about heightening their orgasm experience through teasing and foreplay. 

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FAQ: Common Pussy Licking Questions Answered & Common Mistakes

Now let’s answer some common questions…

Do Women Like It When Men Lick Their Pussy?

Yes!!! Especially when they do it as they crave it. Nothing is hotter.

Do you like it when girls suck your cock? Well of course we do!

In fact, I’ve never met a girl that doesn’t like getting her pussy licked/eaten like NEVER!

— Bonnie Smith

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What Do Vaginas Taste Like? What Is The Smell Of The Pussy?

If you take a shower together as I recommended, the pussy will taste like nothing… It will taste the same way as licking your arm would.

If not, then she’ll taste salty. Just take your own wet finger and rub on your balls or penis and then put it in your mouth.

Her vagina will taste pretty much the same.

There are some tasty flavored lubes you could get to change the taste, but again — the best way is to just take shower before you’re planning to have some oral sex.

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Is Eating Pussy Dangerous?

It may be if you have many new partners. The safest way would be to test against STDs or herpes before you go down, but then again, even through kissing (exchanging saliva), you could get into trouble.

If you wanna be super safe, you can use a dental dam… or simply not go down to a new partner before you get tested.

But as long as you are not sleeping around like crazy or don’t date such a girl, you should be fine.

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Bringing It All Together

Now, this is just the beginning.

A tip of the iceberg.

A bandaid.

But almost nobody thinks how to really connect with their woman, how to establish a sexual connection that will make her orgasm, squirt…

…whatever with a little effort

Do it now.