Tips On How To Deepthroat Like A True Pornstar [2024]

Discover the secret techniques on how to deepthroat like a pornstar! In this guide, learn great tips that will give you the deepthroat training that you need.

My promise to you:

After you’ve done reading, you’ll know how to deepthroat like a pornstar (you’ll know their secrets). 😉

This guide will give you actionable tips on how to train your throat and FINALLY get rid of that gag reflex.

In short: you’ll feel so powerful being able to give the guy a blowjob so incredible that you’ll hear him moan and say in awe, “holy shit, how did you do that, you sex machine!?!”.

Yes, you CAN DO IT, even if you think you’re a hopeless case.

Where there is a will, there is a way…

And this guide will give you the way…

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What Does It Mean To Deepthroat?

The definition comes first… what qualifies as deep-throating?

It’s a form of fellatio (sucking dick) where a girl takes a guy’s penis fully in her mouth, usually causing her to gag.

An experienced girl can even swallow the penis and get past the gagging reflex giving a guy very unique and deeply filling sensations.

Giving a deep throat could be considered equivalent to a guy giving a girl out-of-the-world orgasmic cunnilingus (pussy eating) or G-spot stimulation leading to a squirting orgasm.

Deepthroating is considered a more extreme BDSM type of sexual act…

But then again, even anal sex or using a long anal dildo is considered extreme.

Truth is, when done right — it’s both safe and enjoyable for a girl and mind-blowing for a guy.

Once you read through the tips and other ladies’ experiences, you’ll know it’s nothing scary and very doable with practice.

Source: Urban Dictionary

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General Do’s and Don’ts

Now, before you raise an eyebrow or blush, let’s embark on a playful and informative adventure that will leave you both enlightened and entertained.

So, grab a cup of curiosity, sprinkle it with a dash of open-mindedness, and let’s dive into the do’s and don’ts of deepthroating!

Start Slow

When it comes to deepthroating, it is essential to start slow and gradually work your way up. This means taking small steps and gradually increasing the depth as you become more comfortable and confident.

Starting slow allows your body to adjust and adapt to the sensations, giving you time to relax and become familiar with the technique.

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Don’t Ignore The Head

Pay attention to the sensitive area at the tip of the penis, known as the glans or head. Many individuals find the stimulation of the head particularly pleasurable.

By incorporating gentle suction, licking, or using the tongue to swirl around the head while deepthroating, it can enhance the overall experience for both partners.

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Pay Attention To Their Body Language

Notice if their body is tense or relaxed. Tension in their muscles may indicate discomfort or unease, while relaxation suggests they are at ease and enjoying the act.

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Lock Eyes

Eye contact can be an intimate and connecting experience for some individuals, while others may prefer different forms of communication or focus during sexual acts.

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Use More Than Just Your Mouth

You can use more than just your mouth to enhance the overall experience. This can involve incorporating your hands, such as using them to stimulate the base of the penis or to provide additional pleasure by gently massaging the testicles.

The use of hands can provide extra stimulation and intensify the experience for both partners.

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Deepthroat Training: Tips On How To Practice Deep Throating

Okay, now to the good stuff… How do you actually do it?

Before we start, let me just say: Take it slow, be patient, and be careful…

You don’t want to hurt yourself or, worse, push yourself too far with a gagging reflex and vomit.

It does take practice and time. You also need to train your throat to get used to the sensations.

This is an advanced technique, and you should learn how to give a simple blowjob first before attempting something like this.

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Get A Dildo To Practice With

If you have a willing partner — great! If you show enthusiasm when giving him a blowjob, he’ll love to provide you with all the training you want!

But still, it will take a lot of time…and maybe he won’t be able to stay erect through all of it, especially when you don’t know what you’re doing yet.

Up to you, but getting a dildo to practice with can come in handy. You need something that would mimic the feel of the real dick (not too hard, though).

You can even buy a dildo that cums to make it even more realistic. The best tool is a soft silicone dildo with a suction cup.

A suction cup is great because it lets you attach the dildo to the wall for a hands-free realistic blowjob experience.

You can also use something like a banana, but there is a danger of a banana breaking off and actually choking you.

I suggest investing in a good (yet cheap) dildo that you’ll be able to practice with and use for other fun things 😉 (just make sure you disinfect it after vaginal usage).

Here are the dildos I recommend:

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For those venturing into deep-throating for the first time, the Tantus Silk Medium is an excellent choice. 

This toy is short and slender, with a round and flat base. And as the name suggests, the silicone material has a silky smooth texture with a rather hard consistency. It’s on the stiffer side in terms of flexibility, with just a hint of squishiness here and there.

Tantus markets the Silk as a beginner-friendly dildo since it is unrepresentative, safe, and a good size for acclimating to your body for achieving simple insertion.

The manufacturers are known for producing high-quality toys at reasonable costs. So, for $47, you get a good deal on its Medium variety, with the other small and extra-large sizes coming in at $37 and $57, respectively.

These certainly are costly, but the price is quite fair given the high standard of these products. Just in case, keep an eye out because Tantus occasionally runs sales on their whole product line. So, you might get lucky one of these days!

My only complaint is that the silky feel doesn’t provide much in the way of stimulation. Although the toy is satisfying and entertaining, there are better choices than the Silk if you seek sensory sensations. 

Also, the Silk’s tubular, rounded shape and absence of a distinct head make it an unsuitable fit for those who are into G-spot stimulation. But that’s a whole ‘nother story for a different time.

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This dildo is all about the fun, less about realism, with a playful curve that’s still flexible. It’s 6.5″ long and 4.75″ in girth, slightly slimmer than the first.

Great for solo or even thinking about pegging. Versatile toys are my jam – they’re a long-term investment in good times.

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Lastly, you’ll need a good lube.

It’s very important your throat, penis, or dildo and banana are well-lubricated for easy sliding. Don’t skip this—it will make your job SOOO much easier and more enjoyable.

Saliva is cool, but it will take some time to build it up…plus, not always the penis is perfectly tasty or clean… This is where a flavored lube will come in handy.

You can choose between five flavors — strawberry and cherry is the best, but pick whatever taste you enjoy the most. It’s water-based, so you can safely use it with sex toys, condoms, and intercourse.

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Alternatively, you can pick Sliquid Swirl 125ml strawberry/pomegranate water-based lube. Sliquid is famous for its high-quality lubes, and this one tastes and smells incredible.

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The Anatomy Of Deep Throating Without Gagging

The most important part about the throat that you need to know is the uvula.

Uvula is that little dangling skinny thing down from the top of your throat. You can see it if you open your mouth wide and stare in the mirror.

Uvula is the main reason that triggers the gag reflex for most people. There are also tonsils on the sides that cause gagging for some, but they are removed for many people.

After you get past the uvula, there is an almost 90-degree turn, which leads to the throat (it’s called the pharynx in the picture).

If you’re worried about the penis going into the wrong pipe — don’t. Because as you swallow, the other pipe will close (epiglottis in the picture).

It’s safe.

As for different penis sizes, you don’t really need to worry about the length of the penis — you can take pretty much any length with enough practice. However, you cannot change how big your throat is.

If your partner has a girthy (wide) penis and you cannot get it past the back teeth… it means that your throat is simply smaller, and no amount of training will make it bigger.

You can test this by buying less girthy dildo and see how far you can get it… vs. your partner’s bigger penis.

In that case, your best option is to simply cheat and refer to point #5.

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How To Get Rid Of Gag Reflex

You will realize you have no gag reflex anymore. This works for at least 80% of people who try it.

But it helps to understand how the gag reflex works…

Here’s the explanation:

But besides the first tip, you can train your throat to be less sensitive to gagging.

It’s just a matter of practice. The more your throat gets exposed to having something close or in the throat, the better it will get.

For some people, gagging is caused by the smell. That’s why it’s important that guy has taken a fresh shower or you’ve gotten a nice smelling and tasting lube.

Some people like to use a throat-numbing spray, but the FDA warns against the risks of using it.

Sources: MedPage Today, Wikipedia

But, If your gag reflex gets in the way of getting your man all the way down, and you want to try throat-numbing spray, get the Doc Johnson Deep Throat Spray (Listen to your body, though).

This Anesthetic Spray can make your intimate moments more tantalizing and help you have some real fun.

For other alternatives, you can check out our article on the Best Deep Throat Sprays you must get in 2024. 

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Relax, Breathe & Get Exposed More To Gag Reflex

If you’re tense and don’t breathe, your throat will naturally tighten up. But if you take it slow, relax your throat, and breathe through the nose, you’ll improve quickly.

Breathing really helps to suppress the gag reflex. Other than that… there are really no other tricks than simply practice.

Getting rid of gag reflex is all about exposing your throat to the feeling as much as possible…

Then, you will get used to the feeling of gag reflex, learn to deal with it, and recover quickly.

Eventually, you’ll learn to suppress the reflex and learn how to anticipate gagging and back off until the reflex goes away.

Do it every day, and it will help to train and understand your gag reflex. Tooth brushing is a nice trigger event that will help you not to forget the routine.

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Angle & Position Is Extremely Important

Yes, so you also need to take into account the angle and shape of your guy’s penis.

Then you need to make sure that it is as easy as possible for the penis and your throat to make that U-turn. You can do that by shifting your head and exhaling as you take it in.

What helps many people is sticking their tongue out as far as possible while lifting their chin to make the U-turn as straight as possible.

You can also look up how sword swallowers do it…

As for specifics, here’s a bit of a breakdown of the most popular positions you can try out: 

Lay For Throat Action

• Have the giver lie on their back with their head hanging over the side of the bed.
• Then, have the receiver straddle the giver’s mouth and sway their hips back and forth to slide their penis in and out of the throat.
• While doing so, the recipient can use a toy to simulate the erogenous areas of the giver. 

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Standard 

Kneeling is the best way to show that you mean business. And if you’re a beginner but want to satisfy your partner with some deepthroating skills, this one’s for you. 

For this position, all the giver needs to do is get on their knees while their partner stands up straight as they give them head. 

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Missionary

If you want to avoid getting dark knees, try this position instead.

• Have the receiver lie down with their legs spread apart.
• Then, have their partner place themselves between their legs, positioning their face in front of the penis.
• And proceed to deepthroat!

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If His Penis Is Too Big — Use Help & Cheat A Bit

This is a great way to cheat if you’re a beginner at giving blowjobs.

There is no reason you should fully deepthroat his penis all in your mouth.

Yes, it’s super sexy if you can, but the sensations will be very similar if you use one hand to grab and squeeze his penis and then take the rest of it in your mouth.

You can fake it a bit and make some gulping and gasping sounds, making it look harder than it is. Yeah, it works!

Guys won’t feel the difference but will appreciate and find your hard, struggling sexy.

Just make sure there is tons of saliva (+lube) everywhere, and let it drool off your hands, his cock, and balls — it will make the whole experience better.

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Use Fleshlight Quickshot To Help Handle A Well-Endowed Man

Yeah, there are super nice sex toys also for guys. Quickshot is a cheaper version of Fleshlight which mimics the blowjob experience with its texture inside it.

For an in-depth look at this product, check out our Fleshlight Quickshot Review. 

And if you want to get to know more of their models, here’s a brief rundown on 3 highly recommended toys from the series.

The same way guys use vibrators or G-spot dildos to cheat, you can do the same thing. You can still suck the head of his penis, but let the Quickshot do the hard job 🙂

Do it with enthusiasm, and he’ll love it!

This will only add extra shade to your blowjob arsenal until you master the deep-throating techniques.

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This Quickshot model was designed to resemble renowned pornstar Riley Reid, right down to the anatomical orifices and powerful nubs and bumps that you can feel from every angle of this toy.

If you want a product to fulfill your deepthroating porn fantasies, this one’s the perfect match for you!

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For something less discreet, try out the Quickshot Stamina Training Unit.

This model has anatomical orifices, pink sleeves, and gold cases, all to satisfy your fancy preferences, with its realism making up for any shortcomings in stealth.

It can simulate sex as realistically as possible, complete with a close-to-perfect mimic of your partner’s deepthroating sessions.

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10 Advanced Deepthroating Techniques

Lick His Balls

If you’re kneeling, where he’s standing, as you deep throat him, your tongue can easily reach out and start going for his testicles. The trick is to do it without letting him move in or out of your throat the entire time.

Most men would never think of their partner doing this out of the blue, so you can expect them to have a good and satisfying experience out of it. 

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Humming

Humming while deep-throating is another easy but effective technique you should attempt at least once when going down on your partner. Even if the vibrations don’t cause him to go to O-town, they provide incredibly pleasurable sensations that will surely knock him off his feet.

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Spasms

Using throat spasms to your benefit is a complex and challenging skill. The pharyngeal muscles tense when you gag, making it difficult to swallow. Despite the discomfort you may experience, the man you are deep-throating may find the resulting sensations exhilarating.

Your ability to manage spasms in your throat will determine how far you can relax it when he is inside. However, I would not advocate trying this method if you feel you have no control over those reflexes since it might get a little embarrassing once things go sideways. 

If you know, you know…

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Be Handful

Remember, your hands are completely free when deep-throating. So, you can control your partner’s thrusts into your throat by placing those hands on their legs and stomach, or you can hold their ass and simply motion it in and out from your direction. 

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Using A Bullet Vibrator

Bullet vibrators are also perfect to use on men. If you’re playing with them and want to increase their enjoyment, simply rub the bullet around their penis. 

It’s sure to elicit a scream of ecstasy, making your nights just as hot as your fantasies. 

The area between the testicles and the anus is another excellent target for the bullet as you deepthroat them. As here is where males are most sensitive, your partner will surely enjoy the tiniest vibrations let out by the toy.

The We-Vibe Tango X is a small clitoral vibrator but a powerhouse. It’s the upgraded version of the Tango Bullet and all about power. It’s waterproof, rechargeable, and has an impressive battery life.

With eight vibration levels and seven patterns, it’s a sensory delight. If you’re looking for a powerful vibe during deep-throating, this one will blow your partner’s mind.

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Using A Ring Gag

If your partner prefers more fetish wear when you blow them, I suggest trying out a ring gag. They rest discreetly behind the teeth and keep the mouth open, leaving the lips, cheeks, and tongue free to move about.

Wearing this piece will make it less likely for you to bite on them accidentally. And overall, the visual appeal is just as sexy.

Stacking up the DOMINIX Deluxe against other top-notch ring gags shines in user experience and safety. It’s a go-to for seasoned BDSM enthusiasts, ticking all the boxes for setup, safety, and quality.

The metal O-ring wrapped in medical-grade silicone ensures comfort on the teeth and a satisfyingly firm feel. If you’re serious about bondage and deep-throating, this one’s a must-have for kink connoisseurs.

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The Perineum Press

Your man’s perineum is a sensitive area he may not know about. The perineum is the narrow strip of skin covering the space between his testicles and anus.

You can easily press this area with one finger while deepthroating him. And by then, the sensation of the blowjob will be substantially enhanced by the firm, satisfying squeeze on this particular spot.

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Using A Cock Ring

Don’t misunderstand; giving your guy a deep-throat blowjob is fantastic. But if you add a cock ring to the mix, it may be a more transformative experience for you and your partner. 

Using a cock ring has all the benefits of the shaft grab technique and more. The cock ring prevents blood from flowing freely to the penis, resulting in an erection that lasts longer and is harder than ever.

The Tantus Super Soft, just like the plug, is made from 100% ultra-premium silicone, giving it a smooth and flexible texture. It’s easy to adjust the size, though you might need some assistance.

The ring has a fixed diameter of 1.5 inches (3.8 cm), comfortably fitting a 4.7-inch (12 cm) circumference penis, mainly when you include the testicles. It can stretch up to a maximum diameter of 4.5 inches (11.5 cm), making it a good fit for most adults.

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P-Spot Press

Massaging a man’s prostate gland can induce a robust anal orgasm. You can give him intense P-spot stimulation while deepthroating by inserting a lubricated finger into his asshole and moving it in a come-hither motion.

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The Throat Cum

The throat cum is the pinnacle of deep throat techniques, and you should learn it well. One of the finest reasons to become a proficient deep throat specialist is so that you can enjoy this method, which is where your partner ejaculates down your throat.

It’s one thing to let your partner cum in your mouth, but letting him cum in your throat is something else entirely.

It’s a whole new experience for him, and you can feel it, too. Because so few men ever experience this, if you perfect this maneuver, you may expect him to become sexually hooked and maybe even go all the way in the relationship.

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Is It Normal To Produce Loads Of Saliva During A Deepthroat Session?

The amount of saliva you produce when deep-throating your partner will become immediately apparent. And don’t worry, this happens to nearly every person giving the blowjob and is not a cause for alarm.

It’s all-natural, and it also serves as a lubricant. So, if you want to deep-throat your partner while going the sloppy route, you may accomplish both goals at once.

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Other People’s Best DeepThroating Tips & Positions To Stop The Gag Reflex

This is the best part because…

Everyone is different, and while the best universal tips were covered in the previous deepthroat training section…

Now, you’ll hear many other people’s tips and stories of what’s working for them. That’s a wealth of knowledge!

Try them: something WILL work for you!

Best Advice If You Have Trouble Deepthroating

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The Best Position For Deep Throating?

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“How Do You Control The Saliva While Rapidly Deepthroating?”

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Do You Always Get A Sore Throat After Deep Throating?

This is a very common question and here are several answers:

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So yes, it’s common, but the more you do it, the better it gets… 🙂

In the same way, a man gets a tired jaw after intense pussy eating and G-spot stimulation… this is equivalent for ladies.

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Do Girls Actually Like Giving Deepthroating Blowjobs?

I’ve collected three different responses:

• One who loves it
• Another lady taking a medium stance
• Thirdly, the lady who doesn’t like it but explains what she does instead

It’s up to you to figure out whether you like it or not…

Whether you’re willing to practice to stop the gagging reflex and learn to enjoy it… While everyone is different… Nobody was born a deepthroating expert. It’s a learnable skill.

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Bringing It All Together

That’s it!

You can do it!

Practice, take it slow, and show enthusiasm, and you’ll get there 🙂 Hope this was helpful, and do share your positive experience or best tips!

Cheers!