9 Best Anal Dildos For Incredible Butt Play in 2021

If you’re looking for the complete guide on helping you find the best anal dildo for you then you came to the right place!

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I personally tested the most recommended anal dildos. Read hundreds of reviews, and scoured forums to uncover the truth.

Sounds good? Read on.


Top Dildos For Anal in 2021?

Real Nude Ergo

Real Nude Ergo

5/5

Price: $
Insertable Length: 5
Girth Diameter: 1.3
Material: Premium Silicone
Harness Compatible: Yes

Vixen Mustang

Vixen Mustang

5/5

Price: $$
Insertable Length: 7”
Girth Diameter: 1.6
Material: Silicone
Harness Compatible: Yes

XXXCalibur

XXXCalibur

5/5

Price: $$$
Insertable Length: 11.40”-12.50”
Girth Diameter: 2.1-2.9
Material: Platinum Silicone
Harness Compatible: Yes


Vixen Mustang

Our pick

Size Choices: 1 | Insertable Length: 7″ | Diameter: 1.6″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: 4 | Softness Choices: Dual Density | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: Yes

Vixen Mustang

Vixen’s Vixskin material is the most realistic feeling dildo out there. Every sex toy enthusiast knows that.

Sure, other companies make dual-density anal toys like Doc Johnson, Blush or Tantus. Vixskin’s anal dildo outperforms them all. It has the right combination of firm core and squishy outer layer.

In fact, if you’ll do a blind test of these toys you’ll have a hard time telling the difference between the real penis and the Vixen dildo.

Vixen dildo has a realistic feel because of its high quality materials.

This combination of dual-density makes for the best anal dildo. You want the material to be soft but you don’t want it to be too soft.

Because you still need to pass those sphincters that will offer quite a bit of resistance.

Vixen Mustang is the best known and most loved of dual-density dildos. 

These sex toys comes in 4 colors - chocolate, caramel, vanilla, and that nice colored version. (and some stores carry even few extra colors)


Vixen Outlaw

Vixen Outlaw

Size Choices: 1 | Insertable Length: 9″ | Diameter: 2″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: 4 | Softness Choices: Dual Density | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: No

Outlaw is 9″ insertable, 2″ realistic looking, and textured dildo.

It is straight and of dual-density.


Beginner Friendly

Real Nude Ergo

Budget pick

Size Choices: 1 | Insertable Length: 7″ | Diameter: 1.6″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: 4 | Softness Choices: Dual Density | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: Yes

Real Nude Ergo

If your prior experience with anal has been only small butt plugs or fingers. Then a simplistic shape, 1 inch-1.5 inches diameter will be the best way for you.

Our #1 dildo for beginners recommendation is Real Nude Ergo. It is the most affordable, yet high-quality dual-density toy.

It’s hard to find dual-density for anything less than $100. You’ll get squishiness without the vexation of floppiness thanks to the inner firm core.


Tantus Silk

Size Choices: 3 | Insertable Length: 4.25″ – 6.5″ | Diameter: 0.8″ – 1.5″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: Purple / Black | Softness Choices: Medium Firm | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: No

Tantus Silk

Tantus is famous for their anal and pegging toys. Many couples get Silk as their first anal dildo.

One good thing this dildo for beginners provides is that it starts very small in size. And that there are no crazy textures.

The material of this starter dildo is glossy, yet firm making gliding in/out very easily. The color and look are very non-intimidating.

Watch all 3 size videos to see how they look in real life.

Tantus does not have a suction cup base. Not included on this list, but could also be an option is that of Doc Johnson.


Lovehoney Curved

Size Choices: 1 | Insertable Length: 6.5″ | Diameter: 1.5″ | Material: Silicone | Color Choices: 3 | Softness Choices: Medium Firm | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: Yes

Lovehoney Curved

For many this is their first dildo ever. This shape and curve head of this anal dildo makes it a great and cheap quality multi-purpose dildo.

As a starter dildo, you can use it to practice deepthroating. Lovehoney Curved do have a suction cup base.

Vaginally it’s exciting, and its narrow shape makes it a great anal dildo as well.

Lifelike Lover Luxe can be an alternative if you want other options from their shop.


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XXXCalibur

Best huge anal dildo

Size Choices: 2 | Insertable Length: 11.40″ – 12.50″ | Diameter: 2.1″ – 2.9″ | Material: Platinum Silicone | Color Choices: 3 | Softness Choices: Medium Firm or 75% Soft | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: No (Flat base)

XXXCalibur

This a fun curved anal sex toy. It is easy to start with a tapered tip and a manageable width that slowly increases in diameter.

While Hankey toys don’t have a suction cup. You’ll find it the least of your worries.

You can add Vac-U-Lock if you’re looking to use it with a fucking machine or harness.


Cyrus King XXXL

Size Choices: 4 | Insertable Length: 7″ – 13″ | Diameter: 1.8″ – 3.85″ | Material: Platinum Silicone | Color Choices: 3 | Softness Choices: Medium Firm / 75% soft | Harness Compatible: Yes | Suction Cup: No (Flat base)

Cyrus King XXXL

This dildo is shaped after the famous pornstar Cyrus King.

It’s very realistic, even though it reaches unrealistic sizes.

Similar to XXXcalibur it starts smaller and slowly increases in girth which makes it a fun toy to play with.


best long deep anal dildos like colon snake and slink

Deep & Long

SquarePeg Slink

Size Choices: 5 | Insertable Length: 11.5″ – 23.5″ | Diameter: 2.1″ – 3.6″ | Material: Platinum Silicone | Color Choices: 2 | Softness Choices: Supersoft | Harness Compatible: No | Suction Cup: No

SquarePeg Slink

There’s thrusting anally with dildos, and then there’s a depth play.

That’s something else.

While you shouldn’t probably start with these. If you love anal play, you should get yourself at least Squarepeg Slink. And experience the sensation on how incredible keeping this anal sex toy in for a few hours can feel like.

What’s unique with deep anal dildos is that they are soft and bendy toys. An anal dildo may reach the places and depth that no ordinary straight/curved dildo would get to.

One reason for it is that around 8″ depth there is Sigmoid Flexure1, which is a hard bend in the rectum. You need the best anal toys that are just the right touch of softness to get there.

As for the size of the anal dildo, keep in mind of your body dimensions. I would suggest you get one size up so you can get deeper over time and don’t need to buy additional anal dildo. 

You will be surprised how deep you can go with an anal dildo.

Yes, there Squarepeg deep anal dildos are pricey, but they are worth the gold.


SquarePeg Colon Snake

Size Choices: 3 | Insertable Length: 14.2″ – 40″ | Diameter: 1.1″ – 1.6″ | Material: Platinum Silicone | Color Choices: 1 | Softness Choices: SuperSoft | Harness Compatible: No | Suction Cup: No

SquarePeg Colon Snake 

Now, this is heavy-duty stuff. If it is around 20″ isn’t interesting anymore — this one goes till 40″.

Because it mixes the perfect amount of width, softness, and length you can go DEEP.

This kind of play is something else, out of the world if it’s your thing.


What You Should Know

There is no one best anal dildo, but there’s the best analdildo for your needs.

It helps to spend a little extra time to write down the features that you’re looking for to avoid costly mistakes.

You should know features you are looking for in starter dildos.

Here are sample questions you should consider when looking for an anal dildo

  • How girthy toy can you handle? — a good way to start is 1 inch diameter toy. And then you should have an additional anal dildo increasing in 0.25 inches – 0.35 inches increments. Make bigger jumps and you are inviting your butthole for injuries.
  • Do you want a firm toy or a squishy anal dildo with a lot of give? firmer toys are easier to insert, but they don’t feel as good. Squishy soft anal dildos feel incredibly good. But they have trouble getting past those sphincters. This is why dual-density silicone dildos are the most popular anal dildos. These products have a firm inner core and squishy outer layer surface. (unlike a glass dildo) Best of both worlds.
  • Looking for the best anal dildos you can ride? — In this case, a suction cup base or a toy with a wide, stable base will be important.
  • Looking for stretching, depth play, or something more filling? — for each case, the anal dildo will look completely different. Align your expectations with reality.
  • Realistic or artistic shape? — some love realism, some prefer artistic shapes that don’t look similar to a real penis head. Whatever your preference in your sex life, make sure to think of it upfront.
  • Price range — Keep in mind product shipping and tax costs. In a $100 range, you’ll have a range of great choices. For $50 if you’re looking for a body-safe silicone option, you’ll be only able to get smaller, simpler sex toys.

Pretty much all anal dildos will be harness friendly, so you don’t need to think about that. 

But if you do need to find a good harness, Spareparts Joque is the most loved by pegging enthusiasts.


What Is The Best Material For Anal Dildo?

You might want to avoid porous like TPE, rubber, or jelly for an anal dildo. This is especially important for users who are playing around the back.

glass silicone and steel materials compared for anal dildos

You want a body-safe, non-porous and 100% cleanable anal dildo ..

After all who wants weird reactions or have an anal dildo that smells like shit after few times of use?

Right.

This leaves you with three material options:

  • glass dildo
  • metal dildo
  • silicone dildo

Glass dildos and metal dildos are interesting. A glass dildo makes for unique toys for vaginal play or P-spot stimulation. These kinds of anal glass dildo are usually made of toughened borosilicate glass.

One downside of a glass dildo is that they are rigid, unforgiving nature doesn’t make them for good anal dildos. Glass dildos are the perfect alternative if you are worried about synthetic materials.)

As we are done with glass dildo, this leaves us only with the last option.

But also not all silicone dildos are different.

There are firm, medium-firm, matte/glossy and dual-density dildos. Unlike the glass dildo products.

For anal masturbation, dual-density dildos are the best way. They have a firm inner core and squishy outer layer.

But then again it depends on what type of sensation you’re looking for.

At first, you won’t know so the safest best bet is smooth, squishy dual-density dildo.


What Is The Best Anal Lube To Use?

The thing is that butt doesn’t naturally lubricate. So you want extra thick and lasting lube products to ease penetration.

No anal dildo experience is complete without any lube.

Water-based lubricant is the safest choice. But the problem is that it dries up quickly and requires a lot of reapplication.

The thickest anal lube and longest-lasting lubes are made from silicone. But silicone + silicone has reactions and the anal lubricant will damage the toy.

coconut oil and water based lube for anal play

So what can you do?

Well, there are hybrid lubes that contain very little silicone. Giving the thickness while not damaging the toy. 

One good hybrid lube is Sliquid Silk

Most women also use Sliquid Silk as cum lube since it looks white and milky.

Then there is a thicker Sliquid Sassy. It’s a water-based lube that is highly favored between experienced anal players.

But whatever hybrid or water based lube you choose. Make sure it doesn’t contain glycerin (like Astroglide does). Most have bad reactions and glycerin can cause yeast infections.

Finally, if you’re on a serious budget you can also choose unrefined coconut oil.

It lasts a long time and is safe to use with an anal dildo (but be vary of latex condoms, check out our guide on the best condoms for anal to be safe).

It’s just a bit of a challenge to avoid the mess with coconut oil. It’s so easy to get that oil all over the place — prepare plenty of towels upfront.


FAQ: Common Anal Play Questions Answered

How to avoid anal sex toys smelling like shit?

Usually, this problem occurs with porous toys from questionable materials. Materials like TPE, rubber, and jelly. Getting a quality toy is the first step.

The next step is to ensure that toy cleaners are available. Make sure you clean your anal dildo after every use. Silicone is boilable and bleachable.

Spraying it with sex toy cleaners will seal the deal. Aside from sex toy cleaners, consider getting a black anal dildo. Since they don’t show fecal matter as bright dildo would.

Worried about internal damage? Overstretching and gaping

Remember to use plenty of lube. Squirt it inside and stretch slowly. This will ensure that you have a good experience. If it starts to hurt you can stop, give it a rest and try again till your sphincter gets used to being stretched.

Don’t worry about gaping — after a few minutes sphincter will always get back to normal. And this is also the case with stretching.

If you stretch to larger anal sex toys and then stop for a few weeks, your sphincter will get tight again. And you’ll need to start from scratch. 

How to keep my ass clean and avoid shitty experiences?

Well, if you play in the backdoor, some mess is to be expected no matter how hard you clean. But even regular douching is not really healthy, so it’s advisable that you adjust your diet.

If you eat a sufficient amount of fiber — like fruits & veggies, raw celery, your ass will be A LOT cleaner. Hah, didn’t expect diet advice in an anal dildo guide?


Bringing It Together

Now you’re armed with all the best tools (ahem, anal dildos). You now know how to have incredible thrusting /pegging/conquering experience. That will surely spice up your sex life.

Curious to hear about your experience, the best tips, and which is your preferred best anal dildo.

Footnotes

  1. “Sigmoid colon”. Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigmoid_colon.

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