15 Best Remote Control Vibrator: Top Picks in 2024!

We tested all the best remote-controlled vibrators in 2024. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or want to try discreet public play, you’ll find one that works for you here.

Vibrators that you can control remotely are like E-scooters. You’d never heard of them, then suddenly there’s ten on every street corner/in every sex shop. 

But there’s a good reason for that. The remote-controlled vibrators, I mean.

They’re fantastic. They open up a whole world of sexy opportunities either playing alone or with a partner. 

You can make use of them in long distance or no distance relationships. 

But which ones are the best? And for who? 

Today, we’re looking at the 15 Best Remote-Controlled Vibrators in 2024. 

But before that, the cream of the crop. The Top 3. 

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Top 3 Remote Control Vibrators

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Best Remote-Controlled Vibrators

The Lush series started out great and keeps getting better with every iteration. 

The Lush 2 was the best remote egg vibrator and one of the best reviewed Lovense product when it came out. It was almost perfect, except for a few issues with a tail and antenna. 

The new Lush 3 has a fixed tail that doesn’t move – it keeps the whole thing in one place and holds it there even if you move around. And on top of that, it’s got a new and improved antenna.

The antenna is receptive enough that it works through clothes or even walls from about 30 feet away. 

AND the Lush 3 is quiet, especially once inserted. So you can take it out on the streets for a spin! 

Well, assuming you can keep yourself quiet. Passers-by might not hear the vibrating but they’ll certainly hear you if you’re not careful! 

That’s all thanks to the compact but highly capable motor in the Lush 3. Once it’s inside you don’t hear much but you feel a lot. The fixed tail helps with this too, since it keeps the pressure where you want it and really drives those vibrations all the way through your body. 

One thing to note. Despite appearances and what some users seem to think, the tail of the Lush 3 does not vibrate on its own. 

The tail will carry a bit of the internal vibrations to the outside, so if you’re sensitive the transferred vibes might be enough for you. It will take a bit of finessing, but it’s possible to get some pretty nice sensations. 

And of course you can just use the Lush 3 like an oddly-shaped bullet vibrator. 

At any rate, the vibrations are so rumbly and powerful that if you’re capable of having G-spot orgasms, you will. 

On top of all that, you also get the Lovense App, which is one of the best in the industry. 

Connection is solid thanks to the antenna, and once it’s paired to your phone you can do all sorts of fun things. 

You can download new vibration patterns to play with, or create your own. 

You can let your partner take control from anywhere in the world. 

You can even synchronize vibrations to the music you’re listening to, or use a sound-activated mode. In fact, a lot of webcam models have a Lush 3 for these functions. If it’s good enough for the professionals, it’s good enough for anyone! 

So if you dig G-spot stimulation and you want the best for public, solo or long-distance play, the Lush 3 is the gold standard right now among remote vibrators.

Interested in learning more? Read our in-depth review here.

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The Lovense Lush 3 is great, but what if you want something that stimulates your clitoris and g-spot at the same time? Or what if you want to use it during sex? 

Enter the We-Vibe Chorus. 

It’s another C-shape vibrator but with two motors. The thinner arm goes inside you and stimulates the g-spot, while the other holds it in one place and delivers powerful clitoral vibrations. 

The fit is adjustable thanks to two joints, so it will rest comfortably hands-free. 

And it comes with a squeeze remote, a cool little gimmick that increases the vibration intensity the harder you or your partner squeezes it.

The Chorus works decently well for public play. 

The remote is powerful enough to change settings without fumbling or having to press the same button 4 times (really kills the mood). And on lower settings it’s quiet enough to use in most spaces. 

That said, at higher vibration speeds the Chorus gets a little noisy – not obnoxiously so, but enough that you shouldn’t try it in a restaurant or public transport. 

Chorus comes with the We-Connect app that lets you control it via smartphone from anywhere in the world. The link is pretty stable and consistent over Bluetooth or internet, so you can use it for cybersex no problem. 

But the most fun with the Chorus comes when you and your partner are in the same room. The flat internal arm means with a bit of lube you can use it during PIV sex to make everything vibrate. 

The arm is thin enough to fit the majority of couples, but as always that doesn’t mean every couple. If sex with your partner is already a tight squeeze, putting something else inside you is not going to help! 

But for its versatility, lovely deep vibrations and multiple points of stimulation the We-Vibe Chorus is a great choice for most couples looking to add some excitement. 

If you want to know more about more like the Chorus, check out our wearable vibrators review or check out another remote controlled from the same maker in our We-Vibe Match review.

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Fuse is a petite remote-controlled rabbit vibrator with two motors for external and internal stimulation, Bluetooth control, and a smart function that’s surprisingly great.

That’s a lot to pack into one sentence and a lot to pack into one toy, so let’s go through it. 

Fuse is packing an internal motor and another in the clitoral arm, so you don’t have to rely on just one big motor that leaves one of your hot spots disappointed. 

The vibrations are good for both – in particular, the clitoral arm is rumbly and powerful. 

There are 4 ways to control the Fuse: manual, Bluetooth, touch-sensitive, and interactive mode. 

Manual is easy, press buttons to change the speed and patterns. Bluetooth is your standard smartphone control via an app.

Touch-sensitive is where things get interesting. As you slide the Fuse deeper inside you, it responds by increasing the vibration. So it’s reacting to your movements, which feels more organic and alive than just pressing buttons. 

And finally, OhMiBod Fuse was made in partnership with Kiiroo, which means it comes with their class-leading connectivity stuff. You can sync it to interactive porn videos, pair it with Kiiroo devices, and connect it to webcam shows and online sex games. 

You should buy the Fuse if you want to experiment with lots of new ways to play, or if you just want a quality rabbit vibrator that reacts to your movements. 

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Esca’s vibrations are mid-level in terms of strength, nothing too crazy. 

But they’re super quiet. A lot of companies advertise toys as being “whisper-quiet”, but the Esca 2 is one of the few that actually lives up to the title. 

That makes the Esca 2 perfect for teasing in public, either alone or with a partner controlling the action via the OhMiBod app. 

The Esca 2 is quiet but still has enough power to satisfy thanks to the rumbliness of the vibrations and the elegant shape that will hit most G-spots. 

The app is pretty fun to use. One of my favorite features is the Oh!dometer, which tracks how many orgasms you’ve had in the past week, along with other stats. You can set weekly goals too. 

It’s like a parody of a fitness app that I found very funny. 

Besides that you have the usual remote controls, patterns, and music sync if you have Spotify or Apple Music. Fun times. 

You can also control the light, which brings me to the other use of the Esca. For long-distance couples doing naughty things over video chat, visuals are important. 

So the Esca 2 has a built-in LED indicator light that you can use to visually demonstrate the vibrations. 

You can also turn the light off but keep the vibrations, so you don’t have to worry about taking it outside and everyone noticing a light coming from your crotch like an X-rated E.T. 

What’s more, the Esca 2 pairs with Kiiroo sex toys, such as the Keon. Once connected, the two devices will react to each other, making long-distance sex that much more intimate. 

So for long distance couples or ninja-stealth level public play, the Esca 2 is a great choice. 

If you want to know more details about some other Chaturbate supported vibrators, then check out our Chaturbate tip-controlled vibrators guide.

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Panty vibes sound like a great idea on paper, but most of them are disappointing in practice. 

They’re either uncomfortably to wear, vibrate weakly, or are too loud to be much use in public. Or some combination of all 3. 

So does the We-Vibe Moxie stand out from the crowd? 

ABSOLUTELY. 

First, it’s comfy to wear. It’s palm sized and sleek, so it fits under any tight-fitting underwear. (No panty vibe works well with loose underwear.) 

And the magnet holds it in exactly the right spot, so it doesn’t slip and slide around once things get slippery down there. It will even stay in place while jogging! 

But what about the vibrations? 

The flat surface of the Moxie gives broad stimulation all around the clitoris, and the vibes themselves are quite strong but very rumbly. If you need firm pressure on your clit, then you’ll need to either use a hand or wear very tight underwear, like Spanx or something.

Otherwise, you get more of a light teasing sensation which is ideal for extended foreplay. 

That said, in public it’s not the stealthiest. Fine if you’re walking around or in a crowded place, but I definitely wouldn’t take it into the library. 

But for a panty vibe you wear externally, that’s pretty impressive. It’s not quiet compared to, say, the Esca 2, but that’s because the Esca 2 has your whole vagina covering it and muffling the sound. 

Oh yeah, and the Moxie also has all of the We-Connect features that the Chorus has. Remote control, create your own patterns, play with other We-Vibe toys, ALL THE JAZZ. 

If you like the idea of panty vibrators, it’s one of the best you can buy at the moment. 

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Vibease is the kind of toy you can tease yourself with all day to get yourself worked up to the main event in the evening. Or you can have your partner tease you in the same way. 

The vibrations are fairly rumbly and on the gentler side – power junkies should look elsewhere. But if you’re sensitive and get overstimulated then it will be a perfect fit.

That said, the Vibease is quiet and discreet, so it will work as a panty vibe if you want to take it outside. 

Since it’s kind of bulky, you won’t want to wear yoga pants or tight leggings in public, but under looser trousers or a skirt it won’t be noticeable. 

So it’s versatile – it works for public play and for when you’re at home and want to get yourself worked up. Or with a partner, of course. 

Connectivity features are solid. Vibease has all of the internet, Bluetooth control and customizable vibration patterns you might expect – plus one interesting extra. 

Vibease gives you access to their library of erotic audiobooks. And get this – the Vibease syncs to what you’re hearing, giving you a multi-sensory experience that plays with your imagination as well as your body. 

There’s a broad collection of stories with tons of different fantasies catered for, from the vanilla to the highly specific. You can increase or decrease the intensity as you listen, too. 

At the moment most of the content is intended for straight women, but there’s increasingly more LBGT-friendly content. 

If you’re a fan of the slow build, more on the erotic side than the hardcore side, Vibease was made for you.

And a treat from us: get a 20% discount on the Vibease website when you click the button below.

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If you want a remote control egg but don’t like messing around with smartphones, I get that. We spend too much time looking at screens already! 

The Relentless Vibrations has exactly what you need – a nice, sleek remote control with physical buttons. 

The remote works from up to 30 feet away and has no problem going through clothes or when you’re sitting down. That’s a big plus – if the remote is the only way to use the egg, it had better be a good one. And it is. So, hooray! 

The egg is also well-designed. It’s coated in super-soft silicone that’s comfortable and easy to insert. The long tail makes it easy to remove, which is something a lot of egg vibrators need but don’t have. 

And the vibrations are good – for such a small egg, they’re more powerful than you’d expect and the 2 speeds with 5 patterns give some diversity of feeling. 

The Relentless Vibrations is more of an old-fashioned love egg because it lacks the smartphone apps and Bluetooth whatever. But it’s reliable, easy to use, and discreet. 

Which even in this day and age is everything an egg vibrator needs to be. 

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The Tiani works a lot like the We-Vibe Chorus, except this time only the arm that goes on your clit has a vibrating motor. 

That said, the vibrations travel very well through the toy, so you do get some internal stimulation as well. 

While it doesn’t have a smartphone app control like the Chorus, Lelo has given the Tiani 3 a remote with SenseMotion technology. 

Basically, when you tilt the remote or move it around the intensity of the vibration increases. 

It makes for some intense and incredible power exchange scenes. Imagine being tied up and watching your lover wave their hand around and feeling the effects.

Once you get into the actual sex, it’s better to stick to the button controls. Otherwise it will start changing intensity seemingly at random as your hands move. (Actually, that can be fun too). 

What about using it during sex? 

Well, the good news is that for missionary or any man-on-top position, it’s great. You both feel the vibrations and it adds a lot to the experience without getting in the way. 

From-behind positions are less successful. The Tiani 3 might slip out since there’s nothing to really hold on to. 

But if you’re going woman-on-top then you can stay close and grind for some seriously intense moments. 

So who should buy the Tiani 3? Any couple looking for a gorgeous vibrator that will spice up foreplay and games, and that doesn’t skimp on the power. 

Note… As of December 12, 2022, Lelo Tiani 3 is 20% off on the Lelo website below:

Read our Lelo Tiani 3 review to learn more.

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6 motors running all the way through the Crescendos body means that it will stimulate however you bend and use it. 

The motors are quite modest, which is good news for anyone who is sensitive. You won’t get overstimulated in any one spot as the sensations are spread out over a larger space. 

That makes it great for beginners and anyone who experiences discomfort regularly. 

If you worship at the altar of power, you’ll want to look at something else, like the We-Vibe Nova (#12 on this list). 

The flexibility is an inspired idea because it acknowledges that every body is different and has different needs. You can always direct the stimulation exactly where you want it.

If you want it to just stimulate your clit, it can do that. If you want it to massage your G-spot, no problem just bend it a little. 

Both at the same time? It can do that too. 

And this flexibility even carries over to the digital side. The app is designed to be programmable, so you can create your own patterns or use someone else’s. 

It works well as a couples sex toy, a solo vibrator, or even for pelvic floor exercises. 

Basically, if you’re new to remote control vibrators and not sure what gets you off, Crescendo will help you find exactly what puts the waves in your ocean. 

Use the discount code SEXUALALPHA15 for 15% off on purchases on the MysteryVibe website. (You can even use it on top of the Black Friday discount!)

Read our MysteryVibe Crescendo review to learn more.

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I’m a big fan of bullet vibrators, but most of them share the same problem. They’re awkward to hold for a long time, so once you’re finished with it you’ve got numb fingers and a wrist cramp. Or maybe I just have weak wrists, I don’t know.

So when I saw the Lovense Ambi, I thought it might be the solution. 

But is it really that great? 

Yeah! 

The handle makes it easy to hold in many different positions without your (my) wrists getting tired, so you can use it for longer periods without needing a break. 

And the two sides means you can switch between a broad surface and a narrow point for focused stimulation. It’s great to be able to do both just by turning it around. Most of the time you need to get a different toy to achieve the same result. 

Are there any downsides? 

It is on the large side for a bullet vibrator, so it’s not the most discreet. No-one’s going to mistake it for a tube of lipstick.

Then again, it doesn’t really resemble anything except a hammer, kinda. So you could always tell people you’re a communist and it’s your mascot? I’m kidding. 

Just don’t let people look in your handbag. Problem solved, right? 

Ambi also comes with the Lovense app complete with the music sync, sound-activated, and remote control stuff that the Lush 3 has. 

It is a lot of fun to hold the Ambi against yourself and let your partner control the vibrations. You control the position but you still get teased. 

In short, it’s the best remote control bullet vibrator. It’s so good that I’m even giving it a pass for not actually looking like a bullet at all. 

Read our Lovense Ambi review to learn more.

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The Supersex Love Egg is, unsurprisingly, a love egg with a remote control. 

It’s got plenty of power with 3 speeds and 7 patterns to choose from. 

There’s also a travel lock, so you can take it with you on holiday or a business trip. 

So why is it so versatile? 

Well, the sheer number of ways you can use it. Discreet public play? It’s quiet enough and the remote can handle 30-foot distances even through walls. Just make sure you keep using it periodically or it turns itself off after a while. 

Something kinky? No problem. Get tied up and have your partner use the remote. Or whatever else you can think of. 

Want to use it on your clit? Those rumbly vibrations will serve beautifully. 

And it’s IPX7 waterproof, so you take it in the bath and give your partner a show. Or, just yourself. Take care though as the remote is only splashproof, so don’t take it in the bath with you. Or at least, be careful not to drop it in the water amidst the throes of passion. 

So if you want a reasonably priced remote control toy that has a ton of practical uses, this is it. 

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Hands up if you’ve ever had a blended orgasm. 

They’re pretty great, right? 

I used to think they were a rare occurrence. Then I discovered there are toys that will hand them to you like Chinese takeaway menus. 

 Like the We-Vibe Nova. 

It’s a dual-stim rabbit vibe with a long, very flexible external arm. The idea behind it is to keep contact with your clitoris even if you thrust the whole thing in and out. 

And it WORKS. Amazingly well. Both motors deliver powerful vibrations right where you need them. 

The external arm really does keep the pressure on your clit however far in and out you’re thrusting the Nova 2, and the internal arm can be readjusted to better hit your G-spot. 

All of this physical customization is so great that to be honest I mostly forgot about the remote control options. 

They are there, and they work perfectly well. You get the same We-Connect app and all of the features as the other We-Vibe toys I’ve talked about so far. Your partner can take control from anywhere in the world, create more patterns, etc. 

It’s a great addition, and if you really like the “cyber” part of cybersex then it’s perfect. 

And even if you don’t care about all those extra features, you’ll love the We-Vibe Nova 2 anyway. 

I repeat. Blended. Orgasms. 

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Guess what Osci 2 does. 

It oscillates, which feels amazing and is great for vagina owners who get desensitized by surface-level buzz. 

The feeling is more like having your G-spot massaged by a finger than a vibrator. If a finger could move back and forth with incredible speed. Wouldn’t that be nice… 

Sorry, I started daydreaming for a second. 

The Osci 2 has a curve that’s designed to fit your body. I personally think it will be comfortable for the majority of vaginas (but it could be different for you).

It certainly does a better job of fitting your curves than many G-spot toys, some of which are just straight lines (!) 

Of course every vagina is different, but the point of contact is wide enough and the curve is adaptable enough that most vagina owners should be able to reach their G-spot with it. 

And once you find it, WOW. The power ranges from a gentle tapping to furious pounding, with every kind of speed and pattern in between. Like any Lovense toy, you can add and create your own patterns, which I highly recommend for this one. 

Plus if you like your sessions long and sensual, Osci 2 has you covered with up to 5 hours of battery life on a single charge. 

I have no idea where Lovense get their batteries from but I’ve had cars whose batteries didn’t last that long!

Kind of like the We-Vibe Nova 2 above, the Osci 2 is another toy where I almost forgot about all the connectivity features. 

It’s got the Lovense app, so you can control it remotely via smartphone, sync it to music, and make it sound activated. Actually the sound-activated option is really fun with the Osci 2. 

Everything is really fun with the Osci 2. 

So whether you’re planning on exploring your G-spot alone, with a partner in the room or all the way across the globe, Osci 2 is a great buy. 

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The Lelo Ida is much like the Tiani 3, but with the added bonus that it actually moves. 

Specifically, the internal arm rotates as well as vibrates. A lot of humans find that vibrations on their own aren’t enough, especially on the G-spot. But add real motion to the mix and that’s a whole different recipe!

Used solo, you can achieve blended orgasms pretty easily. The vibrations on the outside are powerful and very rumbly, so your whole area gets stimulation. 

The remote has SenseMotion like the Tiani 3, so it’s great for teasing games and foreplay. Your partner can take the remote and control it with a wave of their hand. Very nice. 

What about during sex? 

Well… 

If you’re tight and/or your partner has a large penis, then you might want to reconsider. There isn’t much spare room left over by the Ida considering its rounded shape, and once it starts moving that’s even less space. 

Much like the Tiani 3, it works well in many positions (except the doggy).

In other positions, though, once you get the angles right you’re in for a really good time. The motion complements his motions perfectly, and the vibrating goes through everything. It’s like a symphony. 

So, is the Ida worth it as an upgrade on the already-pricey Tiani? 

Maybe.

The Ida won’t fit every couple. If you want something specifically for PIV sex enhancement, then I’d stick with the Tiani as it’s gonna be more comfortable for a lot of couples. 

But if you like internal motion then it’s absolutely worth it. Because the rotating sensation on its own is divine. 

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Let’s say you’re feeling particularly naughty. You want to get off in public, somewhere you couldn’t normally because it’s too quiet. 

You want a toy you can take to the library. This is the library test. 

And I’m pretty sure the Desire Luxury Egg would pass. 

I say would pass because I’m not nearly brave enough to actually try it. Sorry. 

But if I had the guts I would take this with me. 

When it’s on the outside it doesn’t seem all that quiet. It sounds like a regular vibrator, albeit with deeper vibrations than most. 

But once it’s inserted, you can barely hear a thing. The vibrations are very deep and rumbly, so they don’t make a lot of noise. 

They do however make a lot of sensations!

G-spot enthusiasts will love this. The way the vibrations penetrate deep into the tissue until it feels like your whole pelvis is rumbling along with the egg, right down to your bones… Heavenly. 

There are 8 vibration modes and 12 intensities to choose from for each mode. So it’s packing a lot of variety, too. 

The remote has a range of up to about 25 feet, however that is limited if you’re using it through walls. Your partner can’t really go in the next room and expect it to work. If you’re in sight of each other it’ll do just fine. 

The powerful vibrations and tapered tip also mean the Desire Luxury works as a decent clitoral vibrator.

There’s so much functionality and so many ways to enjoy this egg in secret that you can run out of battery before you’ve explored everything it has to offer. The battery life is only about an hour, which isn’t the best. 

Still, it’s enough for a few secretive orgasms wherever you can get away with it. 

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Buying Guide: How to Choose the Best Remote-Controlled Vibrator?

Remote control toys have exploded in popularity in recent years, which is great! It means there are so many great choices and you can find one tailored for your specific needs and desires. 

It also means you have more to think about when shopping. Here are the main considerations. 

Smartphone or remote or both? 

One important detail is what kind of remote control do you need? 

Many sex toy companies have developed their own apps to run alongside their toys, so you can control your vibrator from your smartphone. 

Most of the time that means anyone (with your permission of course) can control your toy remotely, all they need is some internet and a phone that can run the app. 

Many apps also have customizable settings and other goodies that come with the package, like music sync. 

This is all very connective, but what if you want something more dedicated? Something that’s simpler to use and generally more reliable? 

Then you need a proper remote control. They run on their own batteries and don’t require internet or bluetooth to connect. They just work. Call me old-fashioned, but I really like a remote that you don’t have to fumble around trying to get it to connect. 

So ideally, all remote control toys would come with an app AND a remote control. Alas, most of them are one or the other. But that’s fine too as long as it works. 

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Hands-free? Wearable? Neither? 

Do you want something that you use on yourself, like the We-Vibe Nova or the MysteryVibe Crescendo? 

Or would you prefer something that you can slip on/in yourself and let the remote control do the rest? In that case, you’ll want an egg or panty vibrator like the We-Vibe Moxie or the Fifty Shades egg. 

My point is, there’s a vibrator that will do exactly what you want it to do. But first you have to think about what exactly you want it to do. 

Hands-free vibrators are great when you want to take a… well, a hands-off approach. They’re ideal for foreplay or power exchange games, for example you can let your partner tie you up and tease you while your hands are bound. 

They’re also good for public play. Put one in, check it’s not too loud for going outside, and enjoy yourself while also practicing your poker face. 

On the other hand we have the more hands-on toys. You have to hold them but someone else can still control the vibrations. Most of the time, these toys are good for orgasms more than teasing.

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What’s Your Budget? 

Most remote control vibrators aren’t cheap. Expect to spend at least $50 at the lower end and a couple hundred or more for a luxury pick. 

If a toy is advertised as cheaper than that and it’s NOT on sale, then DON’T BUY IT. Electronics and design teams and innovation costs money. If something is super cheap, it’s probably shoddily made or some kind of scam. Best avoided either way. 

Would you rather buy one quality sex toy for $200, or 10 terrible ones for $30 each and none of them even work properly? Sometimes paying more costs you less. 

So always buy from reputable manufacturers, even if it’s more expensive. It works out cheaper in the long run. 

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FAQ 

What is a remote-controlled vibrator?

These versatile toys are made to be controlled from afar. Many models are crafted with discretion in mind and are designed to fit snugly inside your panties, offering you the option of engaging in subtle public play.

Others are simply regular vibrators with remote functionality, so you can hand controls over to a partner – either in the same room or on the other side of the globe.

You can get remote vibes to fit inside you, some that just rest over the vulva and are held in place by your panties, and others that have hand-held functionality too.

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Bluetooth Remote Vibrators vs Wi-Fi Remote Vibrators – Which is Better?

Bluetooth is a short-range connection that is often weak enough to be blocked by walls or large metal objects. 

If you keep a short distance (less than 30ft normally) you’ll be fine. 

Wi-Fi might seem like the superior method of connection, since it’s typically more reliable and works from any distance, whether you’re standing next to each other or in the North and South Poles. 

Theoretically. 

But Wi-Fi only works where there is a stable connection, so you have to be close enough to a Wi-Fi router for it to work. 

So which is better? 

Depends where you both are. 

Luckily if you want to cover all of your bases, a lot of newer remote control vibrators use both. 

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What type of lube should I be using for remote vibrators?

It’s always safest to use water-based lube with your remote-control vibe, especially since so many are made from silicone.

Using a silicone- or oil-based lube can degrade your toy and shorten its lifespan significantly.

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What are fun ways to use your remote control vibrator?

If you’re using your remote control vibrator with a long-distance partner, it can be great fun to share a mutual masturbation session. You can either control the toy yourself while sharing a video chat, or hand control over to your partner for extra intimate fun. 

This is especially exciting if you each have a toy and give controls to each other, like with the Lovense Max and Nora set.

For in-person fun, you can try out public play. Wear your toy to a bar or a party, and let your partner control your vibrations! 

Why not spice up classic games like Truth or Dare or Never Have I Ever with some unexpected vibrations? Hand controls to your partner and let the game lead you somewhere naughty.

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How Do I Clean My Remote-Controlled Vibrator?

Mild, unscented soap and water. Scrub lightly until it looks spotless, then dry with a paper towel or leave it on a rack. 

All of the remote control vibrators on this list are coated in silicone and at least splashproof, so you can’t really go wrong with soap and water. But don’t bother with heavily perfumed or antibacterial soap. They often leave a residue on the material that eventually makes it gross. 

As a general rule DON’T boil or put it in the dishwasher if it has any electronics in it. 

Even if they’re fully waterproof, I never trust a vibrator to be dishwasher-safe. You know what else are supposed to be dishwasher-safe? Dishes. And one of my favorite soup bowls broke in there last week. Don’t make that mistake with a $150 vibrator. 

And always, always check the manufacturer’s instructions BEFORE cleaning it. Actually check the instructions before using it at all.

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How to store a remote-controlled vibrator?

Like any sex toy, your remote control vibrator should be stored in a cool, dark place, away from sunlight, heat, and the prying hands of children and animals!

Make sure you wrap your toy in a cloth or use a storage pouch to keep it clean and safe. Letting your toy touch other sex toys can sometimes result in chemical reactions, so play it safe! 

If in doubt, always consult your user manual.

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Can I Use My Remote-Controlled Vibrator for Anal Play?

Remote control toys can be great for anal play, but only if they meet the necessary criteria.

If you’re not certain about what makes a toy suitable for anal use, here’s a basic checklist Remember a toy has to pass ALL OF THESE before you even think about putting it in your butt:

Is it made of body-safe materials? Are you sure? 

This is the first thing you should think of before putting anything in your butt. Would you be happy to put it in your mouth? If yes, then it ticks the first box. 

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Is there any chance it can get lost in there? 

Seriously, if you think there’s even a 1% chance it could get lost in your butt, don’t take the risk. Anal-safe toys have flared bases or a long “string” you can use to pull it out if it gets up too far.

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What lube are you using? 

This doesn’t actually affect how safe a toy is for anal, but it’s still worth mentioning. If your toy is made of silicone (most remote control vibrators are) then DON’T use silicone-based lubes with them. Stick to water-based only. 

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What are the cons of remote vibrators?

If you’re looking for strong, rumbly vibrations, you may have trouble finding that in this type of toy. Thankfully, there are a few great outliers – usually internal vibes like the Lovense Lush 3 or the We-Vibe Chorus. 

This is because remote vibes are often designed to be worn in public. Public means discreet, and discreet means quiet. Internal vibes can get away with more power because your body dampens the sound.

That brings us to noise. Again, if you’re using it for public play, you want your vibe to be as silent as possible, which can sometimes be tricky to find. 

This all comes down to where you plan to use it, though, and what your comfort level is. For some people, the thrill of being caught just adds to the excitement!

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What are remote-controlled vibrating panties?

These are panties that include a special pocket for a bullet vibe to be slipped into place and stimulate all the right places. Most will include a remote that lets you or your partner control the vibrations from afar. 

There’s plenty of overlap between remote-control vibes and vibrating panties, with some toys, like the We-Vibe Moxie straddling both categories.

Which model you choose is completely up to you!

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Where can I buy the best remote-controlled vibrator?

Always buy from a reputable retailer to make sure you’re getting what you pay for. That means no Amazon, people! You never know what you’ll get and there are way too many bad knockoffs of good toys.

Either buy directly from the retailer, like the Lovense website, or from high-quality online stores like SheVibe or Lovehoney. Happy shopping!

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Conclusion

Remote control adds new ways to play that we could only have dreamed of. Even like, ten years ago, if you wanted a toy your partner could use from around the world you’d have to invent it yourself. What a time to be alive… 

Whether playing with a partner or just after an easier way to finish yourself off, remote control toys are brilliant and I think everyone should have one.