18 Best Prostate Dildos For A Low Effort Orgasm (2024)

Finding the best prostate dildo isn’t as simple as purchasing a regular dildo and calling it a day. To experience breathtaking prostate stimulation, you’ll need a toy with a set of specific features that aren’t all that common in most cases, such as a curved shape, a firmer material at the tip, and a flared base.

After much research and product testing, I’ve compiled the best prostate-stimulating dildos available in the market so you can skip the tedious research stage and get straight to purchasing. Additionally, I’ve also gone over the main factors to consider before you buy your dildo, ensuring you’ll get what you’re looking for.

Key Considerations To Look For In A Prostate Dildo

• Material Quality: Body-safe materials, such as silicone or glass, are an essential feature to consider. They’re non-porous, easy to clean, and hypoallergenic, so that you won’t risk bacteria harboring in the toy or getting allergic reactions on your skin after use.
• Shape and Design: The prostate is located in front of the rectum, which means you’ll need a curved dildo for optimal stimulation. Additionally, look for designs with a flared base and, if possible, a handle to prevent complete insertion and comfortably adjust the toy’s positioning once inside.Size: You’ll notice that the best dildos for prostate stimulation tend to be in the medium or small size when compared to traditional toys. That’s because you don’t need a huge dildo for prostate play—as long as the toy is long enough to reach the P-spot, you’re good to go. If you’re also looking for a “filling” sensation, search for models with different sizing options.
• Style: A good portion of toys for prostate stimulation aren’t designed with realism in mind but rather on the stimulation itself only. You’ll probably find many models that aren’t human-like, but there are more realistic options out there as well!
• Price Point: Depending on the type of dildo you choose and any extra features it may have, such as vibrations or hands-free options, you may spend anywhere between $35 and $150. Remember, the best prostate dildo is the one that works for you, so there’s no need to blow your budget by purchasing the most expensive option if it doesn’t look like a toy you’ll really enjoy.

For a more detailed guide, check out our guide below: The Best P-Spot Dildo Buying Guide

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Top 3 Best Prostate Stimulating Dildos

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Best P-Spot Dildos For A Low Effort Orgasm

No prostate dildo list will be complete without the OG creators of the best realistic dildo — Vixen Creations. And for us, the Vixen Mustang is still the best prostate dildo for pegging.

Although it’s on the pricier side of the dual-density dildo market, you’re 100% sure of its quality. Its poured platinum silicone gives unique coloring for the non-realistic color options. Plus, it warms and retains body heat quite well.

The shaft is curved well to hit your P-spot, while the pronounced head is super squishy so that it doesn’t feel uncomfortable hitting your prostate.

And just below the corona, there’s another ridge that gives a good pop once you insert the toy inside you. The shaft has veins that add to the stimulation, especially as the toy thrusts in and out of you.

But if you’re looking for a cheaper alternative from Vixen, there’s the single-density Leo dildo.

For almost half of Mustang’s price, you’re getting around the same length, thickness, curve, and pronounced head as it. Plus, some realistic detailing on the head only and a smooth shaft.

If you’re looking for something thicker than the Mustang, you can try the uncut Ranger (5.5-6″ thick) that comes with a suction cup base for stronger suction for more hands-free action.

But if you’re all about stretching without going deep, then there’s the thick and short Randy. It’s still curved for P-spot stim but with an astounding 7″ girth with only 5.5″ of insertable length.

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There’s no way for this list to reach the bottom if I don’t mention any Aneros toys. After all, Aneros folks were the ones who started the whole hands-free prostate massager craze.

There’s a whole range of Aneros prostate massagers on the market.

Given their expensive price tag, it sucks that you have to buy at least 3-4 before you find the best size or angle that works for your prostate.

Plus, just the right shape and size for internal prostate massage and flexible arms for external perineum stimulation.

Because it’s covered in soft silicone, you can use it for an extended time, during the night, or throughout the day. You can even use the Trident prostate massager during solo play or sex if you’re looking for firm but comfortable pressure on your P-spot.

You can also use the discount code SEXUALALPHA10 for 10% off on the Aneros website.

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Tantus P-spot is a firm, non-phallic prostate silicone dildo that’s great for beginners — prostate dildo beginners. NOT users who have never had any anal play experience or never even tried inserting a finger inside their anus.

If you’ve tried butt plugs and want to start pegging or are new to prostate massage, then this can be a good starter toy. 

It only comes in one color and size, though. But it does comfortably open you up with ample lube. And its uniquely curved, firm shaft targets and massages your prostate with every thrust.

According to Tantus, you’re supposed to use the lower half of the toy as a handle to find the P-spot or for your partner to control the toy.

However, you still get the final say on how deep you want the toy to be inside you. I’ve tried going all in, and the toy stretched me well. Plus, I felt full. 

If you buy the Tantus P-spot, you’re ALSO getting a waterproof bullet vibrator. You can put it inside the prostate dildo for extra stimulation.

You can choose from three vibration speeds: low, high, and pulsating. The vibrations are not too powerful, IMHO. It doesn’t resonate throughout the shaft, but you can use it during pegging.

For more amazing options from Tantus, check out the Tantus Charmer and the Tantus Silk. Both are prostate silicone dildos with unique shapes, guaranteed to give you a satisfying anal experience.

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Step into a world of heightened sensations with Walter, the dominant player among handheld anal thrusting toys by Velvet Thruster.

Crafted for those seeking an experience beyond ordinary butt plugs or vibrators, Walter boasts an unmatched 3.3″ stroke length, delivering an exhilarating 140 strokes per minute, courtesy of its revolutionary no-stall drive mechanism.

Revel in its versatility – Prime users can effortlessly interchange tops and incorporate accessories like the suction cup or extended handle, ensuring uninterrupted pleasure. Additionally, offering up to 6 inches of insertable length and made from luxuriously soft medical-grade silicone, Walter guarantees both flexibility and depth during play.

Notably, its enduring battery life, LED speed control illumination, and six dynamic speed settings distinguish it as a standout contender in the realm of anal toys. Whether you’re new to anal stimulation or a seasoned adventurer, Walter is poised to redefine your boundaries.

For further exploration, be sure to check out our comprehensive guide to the best thrusting dildos.

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If you can’t get enough of textures or want to explore more textures and sizes, then fantasy dildos are right up your alley. And in this category, I can’t recommend Mr. Hankey’s dildos enough.

Mr. Hankey offers high-quality silicone dildos with the most customizable options, size ranges, and firmness. You can even check their website, choose from various fantasy dildo types to the more realistic ones that can go up to 3X the size of average dildos!

My personal fave is the Seahorse prostate dildo that’s super textured with bumps, ridges, and rubs. It has a tapered tip for easy insertion and balls for easy grip when used during solo or partner play.

You’ll feel every pop of each ridge as the toy slides inside you. But it’s still up to you if you want to go as shallow or as deep as you want with it.

There’s also the option to add a Vac-u-Hole if you want non-stop thrusting action from your fuck machine. They are also harness-compatible from the small to the large sizes. (Note: Extra-large sizes not included.)

Just keep in mind that the balls make these prostate dildos a tad heavier to wield.

Also, as you go bigger and customize your Hankey’s sex toys more, expect to PAY MORE. But still, Mr. Hankey offers the best pound-per-quality silicone deal on the market by far.

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Leo Harness from SquarePegToys is one of the softest and realistic prostate dildos we’ve tested by far that’s best for pegging and stimulating the prostate.

It’s very flexible that it moves with your body easily, making for a comfortable anal play experience. You can even fold it in half and squeeze it as much as you like (if that’s your thing). 

It’s cast from a real-life penis with super-realistic detailing, skin texturing, and bulging veins.

That means Leo is perfect for you if you’re sensitive to texture and want to explore toys of varying sizes, especially the extra-large ones that’ll give you a comfy stretch.

It has a tapered head for easy insertion and a curved shape for P-spot stimulation.

You can choose from one realistic flesh-like color (chestnut) to two gorgeous metallic colors. There are 9 size options in total, starting with the average-sized XS with around 5.5″ of insertable length to the thicker and bigger 13″ King-size for the ultimate size royal.

Only small, actual size, and 1X have a suction cup base for some hands-free action. The suction is pretty powerful for these three sizes. However, 1X will have issues standing on its own because of how soft and top-heavy Leo is.

It’ll be hard to sit on it or use it during vigorous thrusting, so make sure that you guide the toy using your hand or have your partner use it on you from behind.

The other six sizes have flat bases. Whichever size you choose, all of them are harness-compatible. Just keep in mind that larger, softer sex toys will be harder to thrust with and insert.

Once it’s in, though, the feeling is really good. If you’re looking for something thicker of average length, you might want to check their Mel Harness dildos. There are also Steve Harness dildos that are much thicker but shorter. 

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Vibrating dildos with strong suction cup bases are pretty hard to find. But once you find them, they’re going to be on the pricier side.

I was surprised by Blush Impressions N5 because it ticked all the right boxes for just below
$100. If you’re looking for something you can thrust that vibrates, then this is it.

The N5 is a smooth and thick semi-phallic thrusting vibrating dildo with a bulbous head perfect for sending pinpoint stimulation to the prostate.

Users new to anal play may find the bold head imposing. Plus, the firmer silicone dildo with an inner vibrating motor doesn’t bend that much.

These powerful vibrations are great for intense prostate massage. Just keep in mind that the higher the steady vibe functions, the buzzier and louder they get.

The vibrations are not focused on the tip of the prostate dildo but throughout the shaft. So, you’re gonna get that feeling of fullness in addition to the focused pressure your prostate’s getting from the head.

It’s not the most realistic shape, so this is for you if you want to have some vibin’ good time without thinking that another person’s schlong is thrusting inside you.

The suction cup base is pretty strong, even with vibrations on the highest speed settings. That means you can go for hands-free intense thrusts without worrying that the prostate toy will fall over.

You can even use it with a harness or a compatible fuck machine for more focused P-spot pressure.

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Blush Novelties Neo Elite prostate dildos are the best dual-density dildos that you’ll get for under 50 bucks. Plus, they come in a variety of brilliant colors and sizes.

“What? Are you serious? $30-$40 a pop?” Yup, that’s what I said too when I got my hands on these neon-colored dual-density goodies. But let me tell you something…

Though some may find the colors too much, the overall look and feel of these dildos are amazing. Plus, they’re average-sized, making your experience comfortable.

If you’re looking for your first dual-density dildo or want to move from beginner or intermediate butt plugs to prostate dildos, then I highly recommend these.

The overall skin-like texturing and veins are very stimulating for anal play. The 7.5” variants are particularly veiny that they rub against your sphincters oh-so-good.

Neo Elite has four size variants, starting with the average girth, below-average length 6″ variant, and the above-average girth, average length 7″ variant. Both are straight-shaped with balls.

But I recommend the 7.5″ (without balls) if you’re looking for deeper penetration of average girth. It has a tapered head for easy insertion and a forward curve for P-spot stimulation.

You can also get the 7.5″ (with balls) that has a good curve but with a more pronounced corona for pinpoint P-spot stimulation. There are also glow-in-the-dark 7.5″ variants if you want to get your freak on at night.

But if you’re looking for the same quality, cheap dual-density dildos that are less realistic with fewer textures, you can check their Ergo line.

All Ergo dildos have a forward angle and a flat ridge to stimulate the prostate. Plus, they feel comfortably soft yet not too bendy while thrusting in.

Ergo D7 and D8 are for folks looking for something thicker of average length. But if you’re a beginner looking for your first pegging sex toy, you can check their Ergo Mini D9 and D10. They’re still of average length but more on the slimmer side.

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Njoy Pure Wand is the best toy for pro prostate manual play. A lot of folks have been raving about how it’s given them the most G-spot and prostate orgasms.

I have to agree with targeting the P-spot because the weight + angle just works for precise targeting.

Like most metal dildos, it’s heavy enough, so you can apply enough pressure on your prostate without putting in a lot of effort. And it’s curved, so you (or your partner) don’t need to arch your wrist or hand in weird positions to stimulate the prostate.

Of course, you need to have enough anal play experience to get the best results. The size of the big bulb is quite intimidating, so first-timers be warned.

It’s dual-ended with two different-sized bulbs. So you can use whatever works for you best.

If you’re a beginner, it’s best to start with the smaller bulb to warm up, then proceed with the bigger bulb.

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If you’re looking for a semi-realistic dual-density dildo that offers a nice range of colors, you might want to check Uberrime’s Splendid dildos.

You can choose from 5 gorgeous pearlescent colors for the medium- and large-sized variants (plus 2 two-tone colors). And I tell you, they’re unlike other prostate dildo colors on the market because of how in-house artisans handcraft each one.

Splendid has a forward curve and prominent head that works best at hitting the P-spot.

You can choose from two different sizes — medium and large. BUT FYI, THESE PROSTATE DILDOS ARE THICK!

I recommend the medium size if you’re new to anal stretching:

But if you want more stretch, then go with the large size.

Unlike Splendid in medium, the large variant has two large ridges. One, the coronal ridge, and two, the secondary ridge just below the corona.

They give a good pop-pop sound, adding to the experience. Also, the flared base is super sticky.

So, even if there’s no suction cup, you can ride these prostate dildos HANDS-FREE!

Its firm core and soft enough outer layer are great for getting fast and hard thrusts with a harness.

Because Splendid dildos are on the firmer end of the dual-density dildo spectrum, you can achieve more focused P-spot stimulation. Plus, there’s subtle, vein-like texturing that adds a bit to the overall sensations.

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Prostate dildos require a lot of thrusting action from you or your partner. If you want to give your hands some rest and let pleasant vibrations stimulate your prostate, then you’ll need a prostate massager.

If you’re looking for a versatile vibrating prostate massager that offers more features than most products on the market, then the We-Vibe Vector is what you need.

What’s interesting about Vector is that it’s like the result of throwing a bunch of all the good stuff from other prostate massagers minus the bad. Here’s why…

It has an adjustable arm like Lovense Edge, so you can find the best angle to stimulate your prostate. And once you find that angle, the toy stays in that shape and won’t move.

The flexible perineum arm is made from silky smooth silicone material that makes long-term comfortable wear possible.

There are two powerful motors: one to stimulate the prostate and the other to stimulate the perineum, for more chances of hitting full-body prostate Os.

You can cycle through 10 different vibration modes by pressing the toy’s power button.

OR use the wireless remote control to adjust the intensity (up and down buttons) and vibration modes (left and right buttons).

OR control the motors separately and customize vibrations by downloading and using the We-Connect app on any compatible device.

The app still needs some improvement, though. So, if you’re looking for a more stable app with more features, get the Lovense Edge 2.

If Vector’s too small for you, there’s the thicker, more powerful Lelo Hugo (and maybe look at Lelo Loki Wave prostate toy). Oh, and there’s Nexus Revo with the rotating beads that feels like a real finger is inside you and encircling your prostate.

For more deets on alternatives, you can check our prostate massager guide.

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If you’re looking for solid anal thrusts, then you need a glass dildo. And I recommend Lovehoney’s Slimline Textured Glass Dildo made from borosilicate glass.

Unlike other glass dildos on the market, it’s less likely to get cracks and chips. It’s even compatible with all types of lube.

Plus, it’s the best toy for temperature play. You can submerge it in hot water or cold water for 10-15 minutes and use it.

It has defined textures on the head and shaft for added sensations. And it’s curved for P-spot stimulation.

Although it has a flared base, it’s a tad difficult to control because of its thinness and being slippery. So, it’s best to use it with a harness.

Check out our guide to glass dildos for more of the best!

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Other Prostate Orgasms Toys You Should Consider

This app-controlled prostate massager isn’t quite a dildo, but it will take you for the ride of your life! Its ergonomic design and powerful dual motors combine for a powerful P-spot experience. Sync it up with the Lovense app, and you can even hand over control to your partner for an incredible remote-controlled orgasm. 

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Lelo is a big name in luxury sex toys, and the Loki Wave lives up to the hype. It’s a prostate massager that moves back and forth inside you while also vibrating at a huge range of powerful settings. The built-in perineum massager ensures you can enjoy stimulation inside and out for ultimate P-spot orgasms.

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The Aneros Vice 2 is a prostate and perineum massager with a remote control, so you can let your partner direct the action while you enjoy yourself! It offers 18 vibration patterns at 4 different speeds so that you can tailor your experience precisely. Plus, it’s hands-free, so you can just sit back and enjoy the ride.

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This stainless steel anal massager is totally relentless and perfect for advanced anal experts. It’s heavy and dense, so you’ll feel satisfyingly full while you use it, and the metal has excellent potential for temperature play. Plus, its ridged shape and bulbous head feel amazing going inside you!

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This vibrator is designed to hit your prostate just right, with a curved shaft that will find your sweet spot easily. It’s 100% waterproof, so you can enjoy it in the shower or bath without worrying about safety. Best of all, the ridges and nubs on its external base ensure that you can feel the vibrations on your perineum as well as your P-spot.

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The Lovehoney Curved is a great beginner dildo, but don’t be fooled – it’s also perfectly sized and shaped to target your P-spot. Use it in a harness so your partner can peg you, or use the suction cup at the base to stick it to any surface you like. The possibilities are endless!

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How We Rated these Prostate Dildos

For starters, our team began the evaluation process by putting together 25 prostate dildos that were both old and new. Then, we had all male volunteers conduct a three-week test to rate each product based on formulated criteria.

In addition to the overall design, our team of testers also considered the following important factors: Quality, Settings, Stimulations, Charging, and other Special Features.

After the trial phase, we stacked up the reviews and ratings with most of our analysis based on the key factors above. And in the end, only the prostate dildos that scored high ratings moved on to the next stage.

Eliminating one-third of our options, we then compared research data from a consumer standpoint using online reviews from sex toy forums and reputable retailers. And with that extra boost of information, we were able to pick out eleven of the best prostate dildos that we’d recommend for 2024.

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The Best P-Spot Dildo Buying Guide

If you want a variety of softness/firmness levels for your prostate/anal play experience, go with silicone prostate dildos.

Silicone dildos are non-porous, body-safe, phthalate-free anal sex toys that can range from soft and squishy to like the real thing to very hard.

All silicone dildos on our list are either single-density or dual-density dildos.

There are super soft and squishy prostate dildos great for more sensitive folks, those who want a more subtle texture, or those who want more comfort from extra-large toys.

There’s SquarePegToys lineup of Leo, Mel, and Steve harness dildos that look like the real thing but are still super comfy and move with your body once inside.

On the other hand, there are firmer options for intense thrusting, textures, and pinpoint P-spot stimulation like the Tantus P-spot dildo that’s firmer but still has some squish to it.

And Blush Impressions N5 that houses a vibrating motor inside.

For folks on a budget, you can check Blush Neo Elite dual-density dildos that are more realistic-looking minus the colors.

Or go with Blush Novelties Ergo dildos that are thicker, less realistic, and with a more pronounced head.

If money is not an issue, you can try the cult fave Vixen Mustang dildo with a curved shape and a prominent squishy head for prostate play.

Borosilicate glass dildos are smooth, sturdy, and aesthetically pleasing anal toys. Though they’re safe to use if you’re cautious, always check for cracks and chips before and after use.

Now, if you’re looking for the most intense P-spot pressure, then stainless steel toys like the Njoy Pure Wand are your best bet.

Both glass and metal toys come in handy for temperature play. You can use any type of lube with them. Plus, maintenance and cleanup are super easy (same as silicone dildos).

Total length starts from the tip to the balls or the toy’s base if it has a flared or suction-cup base. In contrast, insertable length is the dildo itself that goes inside you.

The average penis size dildo is 5″-6″ in length and 4.5″-4.75″ in girth. If you’re unsure where to begin, start within these ranges.

If you think they’re too big for your first-time anal play experience, you can start with a slimmer toy. (REMEMBER: Your anal sphincters don’t self-lubricate.)

Do you want to use your dildo hands-free? If yes, find a prostate dildo with a reliable suction cup base for solo anal play.

If you want some lazy solo fun or long-distance fun with a partner, choose a vibrating toy with a remote control like Blush Impressions N5 vibrating dildo or the We-Vibe Vector prostate massager.

But if you enjoy the actual thrusting in-and-out sensations from your partner (penis- or vagina-owning partners), then find a prostate dildo with a flared base for harness play.

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Materials

Silicone is the most popular option that people deem the best, as it is smooth, low maintenance, safe for the body, and non-absorbent.

Stainless steel is another high-quality material that’s similar to silicone. However, metal dildos may not be for everyone as they tend to get rigid when used. 

Other materials you can also consider include rubber, TPR/TPE, and ABS plastic.

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Sizes and Shapes

Size is not always a big deal. Though, having a considerable range is a plus for any product. 

Some people like toys that are longer and wider. Others would rather have a smaller toy that does the job without being too much. It all comes down to what the consumer likes.

P-spot dildos are great because they come in all sorts of varieties. You can have them used for vaginal or oral penetration. And if you’re more on the wild side, you can also use them for riding.

Insertable Length

When talking about prostate dildos, knowing how long they can go in is essential. This length tells you how much of a dildo you can get down there. Since the goal is the P-spot, you don’t need to go overboard with a very long shaft.

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Circumference

If you’re the usual anal player, you’ll probably want to go big from the get-go. But if you’re just starting, we’d suggest going otherwise. Most likely, it’s best to start with a p-spot dildo having 2 to 3 inches of diameter.

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Curve

You already know that the prostate sits at a certain angle. So, your regular, straight toy may not get the job done.

So it makes sense that the best prostate dildos are curved to reach the prostate. The more curved they are, the more stimulating they will feel inside you.

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Flared Base with a Handle

The base and the handle can make or break your overall experience. Thanks to the base’s shape, the toy won’t get stuck in your ass, and the big handle makes it convenient to move the toy around as needed.

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Flexibility

A prostate dildo can be either rigid or flexible. The former can be inconvenient, so it’s easier to target the prostate with flexible dildos. The only caveat, avoid having it go too pliable, as that could make the sensations less enjoyable and intense.

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Durability

The material used to create a p-spot dildo is the best sign to determine its durability. For example, you can count on silicone, stainless steel, and a few others to last a long time.

So, you must be careful about your chosen material since that will affect how long your dildo lasts.

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Softness or Firmness

If you want to experience incredible sensations, a firm toy is better. But if you’re primarily interested in targeting your P-spot, a softer toy is preferable.

Keep in mind that it’s much harder to put the dildo in your rectum the more it bends.

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Functionality

Prostate dildos can provide a variety of features to their users. So it all depends on your preferences in the end. 

Are you more interested in intense vibrations? Are you more of a kink? Or do you like to experience double penetration? 

It’s all up to you.

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Budget

Prices can vary for sex toys. So you can compare similar products to see if one is worth paying more. If you want a toy that’s too expensive to buy right now, check to see if you have other alternatives. 

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FAQs

What is a Prostate Dildo?

A prostate dildo is a sex toy that hits and stimulates your prostate gland. It has a long, tapered shaft for precise stimulation and a flared base to make the anal area safer.

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Where is the Prostate Located?

The prostate is a part of a man’s reproductive system located right in front of the rectum and below the bladder. The round bump is about 4 inches deep inside the rectum, right near the base of the penis.

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How to Find the Prostate with Your Finger?

The first step in finding your prostate is to know where it is relative to your rectum and how it feels when you touch it. You can do this with your fingers, which is an excellent way to start.

Ensure your fingernails are clean and trimmed and that you’ve washed your anus well.

Then, put water-based lubricant on your index finger and anus. And have yourself relax the rectum by getting into a comfortable position.

Slowly put your index finger inside, which should be loose. But be careful not to be too harsh, as that could cause a sudden shock.

If you’re having trouble, you might want to change positions.

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How Do You Know It’s the Prostate?

About 2 to 4 inches into your rectum is where your prostate is. So, you’ll probably have to put your finger in until you reach the second knuckle.

The prostate should have a smooth and soft texture when you touch it. And when there is applied pressure, you may feel like you need to urinate for a quick moment.

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How to Find Your Prostate with a Dildo?

Again, you need to go slowly and use lots of lube. Remember that a good prostate dildo is easy to put in. So if you have to force it, something is definitely wrong.

The anus is very sensitive to stress. So if you don’t like it, you better drop the white flag. 

Feel about 2 to 4 inches inside your rectum using the dildo. Then pay attention to that feeling of pressure you had before. And eventually, you’ll find the ‘X’ mark.

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Should I Bother With A Prostate Massager Or Just Use A Prostate Dildo?

Prostate dildos and prostate massagers are two completely different things. Here’s the lowdown starting with prostate dildos.

A curved dildo that’s angled upward can be used to stroke your prostate or your partner’s. For some penis owners on the receiving end, using a prostate dildo is all about the actual thrusting and the feeling of fullness.

However, some don’t get off from that or get prostate Os. So, here comes prostate massagers.

A prostate massager requires a bit of practice and effort to stimulate the P-spot. But when you do make it work, you’ll likely experience full-body prostate orgasms that are so much different from dildo play.

What about the best thrusting vibrating dildos? They’re still technically dildos, so they’re for you if you want both thrusting sensations and vibrations to get off.

My advice? Before getting all fancy, start with a simple non-vibrating dildo and see where it takes you.

Whichever path you choose, always go with quality silicone toys you can afford. Most cheap, low-quality toys will bring you disappointment. Sometimes, pricy toys too.

At the end of the day, you’re the master of your mind, body, and pleasure. Only you know what’s right for you, which entails some experimenting and having some fun in-between.

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Learn How To Prostate Orgasms With Dildo

Mindset

As I mentioned, using the right toy is just 1/3 of achieving a prostate orgasm. First, you need to have the right mindset.

Before starting your prostate play journey (or yeah, some anal play fun), RELAX.

Enjoy a soothing bath, play your fave music, choose your fave essential oil and turn on your diffuser, get a massage — anything that’ll make you chill out.

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Hygiene

Next, clean around your anal area. Once done, do something that gets you in the mood.

For solo play, you can watch porn or listen to erotic audiobooks. For couples play, you can make out with your partner, touch erogenous zones, etc.

When you get an erection, you’re ready for the second requirement to prostate orgasm. And that’s using the right lube.

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Lube

Apply your preferred lube in your anus and on your p-spot dildo.

Water-based Lubes

Water-based lubes like Sliquid Sassy are compatible with all sex toy materials. Sliquid Sassy is also vegan, hypoallergenic, non-toxic, odorless, and flavorless – so you can play confidently.

Oil-based Lubes

Oil-based lubricants like Boy Butter are great for anal use, especially with larger toys or even fists. However, using an oil-based lube with latex is unsafe, so be careful if you’re using latex condoms.

Silicone-based Lubes

Silicone lube like Uberlube is generally the best for anal penetration because it’s long-lasting and thick for added comfort. However, it’s best for stainless steel or glass dildo use only.

Hybrid Lubes

If you’re going to use a silicone prostate dildo, make sure to choose hybrid lubes like Sliquid Silk that lasts longer than water-based lubes but won’t damage your toy.

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Insertion

Now, breathe in, breathe out. Then, breathe in again, and insert a lubricated finger until you reach around 3″ inside.

Push your finger toward your penis. You will feel a small hard lump there. Remember that spot, so it’s easier to find it with your p-spot dildo.

Remove your finger and finally insert your lubricated dildo. Or you can stretch some more using a good butt plug if you want to use a bigger toy.

Now, start masturbating, and be sure to point the dildo tip toward your P-spot. Keep masturbating until you cum.

That’s how you end your prostate O journey.

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How to Use a Prostate Dildo?

There are many different ways to use a prostate dildo. So to round them up, here are the most common methods used by people.

Solo

If you want to spice up your solo play, prostate stimulation is a great way to do it.

Most people usually mix up their masturbating habits with an excellent complementary toy. And by doing so, orgasms are much more intense, and the aftereffects feel like ecstasy.

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 Partnered

There are many ways to have fun with your partner. Simply put the prostate dildo in, and let it make your sex life better.

Even during the most brutal sessions, an excellent P-spot dildo should stay in place. So you might consider a smaller variety to avoid having you or your partner get overwhelmed by the experience. 

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Long Distance

If you’re in a long-distance arrangement, a prostate dildo will make your relationship much more intimate.

Despite the gap, you can always schedule a call with your partner. And have yourselves do a little bit of roleplay. 

So, get out of your comfort zone and do something kinky once in a while. 

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Can You Use Prostate Dildos if You Have Hemorrhoids?

Yes, despite having hemorrhoids, you can still use prostate dildos.

However, you shouldn’t do that until you talk to a physician or other qualified healthcare workers. If you get the go-signal, you must be very gentle. And don’t forget to use LOTS of lube.

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Is it Safe to Share the Prostate Dildo with My Partner?

Yes, couples can share their prostate dildos.

But, there must be a security blanket in your relationship. Make sure your partner is safe. And that they haven’t contracted any disease or infection. 

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Safety Tips When Using a Prostate Dildo?

Here are a few safety tips we recommend when using prostate dildos.

• Take a shower first before engaging in any acts involving your P-spot dildos.
• Always wash the toy before using it. And when the experience is over, rewash it.
• Take a breather first by relaxing the muscles around your sphincter. 
• Don’t forget to use your lubricant. And we mean LOTS of it. 
• And use p-spot dildos that are suitable to your threshold. Don’t just go all out with the size and have yourself regret it later. 

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How to Clean and Store a Prostate Dildo?

Because of their usage, prostate dildos need to be adequately cleaned after each use to prevent bacteria and unwanted contaminants.

A mix of warm water and soap is usually the way to go. But these toys can come in a variety of materials. So you should also consider that when doing maintenance.

We suggest going for the non-porous type, as otherwise, they’d be much harder to clean and tend to collect bacteria for extended periods.

As for storage, ensure the toy is dry before putting it away in a clean and safe place to avoid mold.

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Where Can You Buy the Best Prostate Dildos Online?

We highly recommend going to Lovehoney to get the best deals possible. They offer high-quality models with a good warranty on them. Plus, their customer service is top-notch!

A definite go-to for P-spot dildo enthusiasts out there.

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Final Thoughts 

Taking the long and winding prostate O journey is no one-way street.

There’s gonna be a lot of twists and turns, requiring more practice and effort.

But with the right mindset, process, lube, and toy, you’ll get more chances of finding this spot for out-of-this-world pleasure!