6 of the Best Sex Toy & Vibrator Apps Ever In 2024!

The sex toy market is constantly evolving and coming up with new products, such as sex toy apps. These apps let you control your toy through your smartphone, adding a new layer of fun and excitement to solo or couples play and bridging the gap for long-distance relationships.

While these apps are relatively new and options are limited, the few we do have available are already amazing. I’ve rounded up six of them here, along with some tips and tricks to help you decide which one better fits your needs.

Things To Consider When Picking A Vibrator App

  • Device Compatibility: Be sure to check if the vibrator app is compatible with your device and its operating system, whether Android, iOS, Windows PC, or Mac.
  • Connectivity: Most vibrator apps connect to their sex toy through Bluetooth for close-distance play or the internet for long-distance interaction, but not all of them offer both, so choose the one that best adapts to your intentions.
  • User Interface: Nothing can kill the mood faster than having to figure out how an app works while you’re trying to get some steamy action. Research the app’s UX and UI before making a purchase to avoid any unexpected issues when you’re trying to use it.
  • Customization: If you’re interested in getting a bit creative, look for vibrator apps that offer customizable vibration patterns, speeds, and intensities—some even have customized settings made by other users, which you can save and try out.
  • Synchronization: In addition to synchronization with the toy itself, some vibrator apps can synchronize with videos, music, and other media for an innovative and unique experience.

Top 3 Vibrator Apps

SEXUALALPHA TOP PICK
Lovense Remote App

The Lovense Remote App is by far the best sex toy app for app-controlled vibrators, thanks to its always-reliable connectivity and a wide array of features, from short and long-distance control to video calls. The whole Lovense catalog is compatible with the app, and it offers tons of customization options, making it the most diverse option out there for both men and women.

RUNNER-UP
We-Vibe App

The We-Vibe App is a close second, offering a good range of compatible vibrators in its arsenal. It comes with customizable vibration patterns, speeds, and intensity settings, wrapped in fun touch-screen controls, plus in-app messaging features. You can even customize the vibrations to specific elements of the music you want to sync with your toy.

BEST APP FOR TOY VARIETY
FeelConnect

For the most interactive sex toy experience, the FeelConnect App is your best bet. You can sync different types of sex toys from the app’s partner brands, such as Kiiroo or Svakom, to enjoy a solo session or partner play. You can even sync your toy’s strokes and vibrations to adult content and feel what’s happening in real time.


Best Sex Toy & Vibration Apps Of 2024

SexualAlpha Top Pick

1. Lovense Remote App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android, Windows PC, Mac
Compatible sex toys:
26
Features:
Close-range/long-distance control, customizable vibrations, in-app messaging, syncs to music, sound-activated controls, long-distance sex, webcam interactions
  • Unlimited vibration patterns and customizations
  • Real-time relay of movements between toys
  • Reliable connectivity
  • Can’t sync to audio erotica and adult films

Not only are all Lovense toys compatible with this remote vibrator app—you can also play around with different pre-set vibrations, create custom vibes, save them to your toy, share them, and explore a wide array of patterns created by other Lovense users.

You can even sync the toy’s vibrations to your favorite music beats, background noise, and your voice for a unique solo-play experience.

Playing with a partner? You can chat, call, and video-chat while controlling your partner’s toy’s vibrations in real time and vice versa. You can also use the app for short-range control of your partner’s wearable device for some discreet public play action.

But what really sets Lovense toys apart – specifically the Nora rabbit vibe and the Max 2 masturbator – is their ability to interact with each other. Connecting both toys through the app means relaying each toy’s movements.

Additionally, the company updates the software based on real user feedback, guaranteeing a reliable connection every time.


Runner-up

2. We-Vibe App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android
Compatible sex toys:
18
Features:
Close-range/long-distance control, touch-screen adjustments, customizable vibrations, syncs to music beats/sounds, in-app messaging
  • More customizable music syncing
  • Turn the toys on and off through the app
  • Most We-Vibe toys come with a physical remote control for versatility
  • Not all toys are compatible
  • Toys don’t interact with each other through the app

With the We-Vibe app, you can control compatible We-Vibe toys at both close range and long distances.

You can customize the speed and intensity of vibrations with fun touch-screen adjustments, stay in touch with your partner through in-app messaging features, and take control of their pleasure in real time.

In addition to creating your own custom vibe patterns, you can opt for Playlist Mode, where a set of custom or pre-set vibrations will play in the order, intensity, and duration you choose.

Although We-Vibe doesn’t have a special mode for couples’ toys, you can connect more intimately with your partner through their video call feature.


Best App for TOY VARIETY

3. FeelConnect App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android, Windows PC, Mac
Compatible sex toys:
All products from their partner brands
Features:
Close-range/long-distance control, in-app messaging, interaction between two devices, watching interactive adult content in real-time, webcam connection
  • Wide range of connectible sex toys
  • Syncs to interactive adult content
  • Real-time virtual stimulation
  • Limited vibration customizations

If you’re looking for the most interactive sex toy experience, the FeelConnect app is your best bet, along with its wide range of connectible toys.

Thanks to Kiiroo’s partnerships with other brands, you can control different sex toys through the vibrator app, as well as sync two devices together for long-distance couples’ fun.

And if you get off from watching adult films, you can use the FeelConnect app to sync your toy’s strokes and vibrations to what’s happening on-screen in real time. Pair that with some VR goggles, and you’ll get the most immersive experience of your life.

The only downside to the FeelConnect app is the limited vibration customizations and in-app messaging features.


Best Orgasm Tracker

4. OhMiBod Remote App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android
Compatible sex toys:
9
Features:
Close-range/long-distance control, customizable vibrations, in-app messaging, log/track/share your orgasms, syncs to music/ambient sound, heartbeat biofeedback vibrations
  • Can sync your heartbeat to the toy’s vibrations
  • Sync to music beats and ambient sounds
  • Track and share orgasms
  • Not many customization features

The OhMiBod Remote app offers close-range and long-distance controls, as well as text and video chat functions for a deeper connection.

But what sets the OhMiBod’s app apart from all other sex toy apps out there is its built-in Oh!Dometer feature—it logs and tracks your orgasms and shares them with your partner. Additionally, you can sync your toy to music playlists for an added layer of fun (though this only works for iOS), a feature most other apps lack.

And, if you’ve got an Apple Watch, you can take advantage of OhMiBod’s PULSE function, where your (or your partner’s) heartbeats sync to your vibrator.

The faster the heartbeats, the faster the vibrations!


Best for Erotic Audiobook Lovers

5. Vibease App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android
Compatible sex toys:
3
Features:
Syncs to erotic audiobooks, close-range/long-distance control, in-app messaging, interactive touch controls, customizable vibrations, syncs to music and nature sounds
  • Simple app interface
  • Only app that syncs to audio erotica
  • Toy vibration intensity matches the story intensity
  • Limited number of compatible toys
  • Female-focused pleasure

What makes the Vibease app stand out from others is its ability to sync your Vibease toys to hundreds of erotic audiobooks. Your toy’s vibrations synchronize with what’s happening in the story, and since the company partners with many well-known erotica authors, there’s an almost endless supply of stories to explore.

Aside from that, you get the usual close-range and long-distance controls that you can enjoy solo or with a partner. You can customize the vibrations through its easy-to-use app interface and video chat with your partner.

The only downside is the limited number of connectible toys—you can only use the vibrator app with Vibease’s wearable vibe, rabbit vibe, and lipstick vibe.


Most Customizable Vibrator App

6. MysteryVibe App

Device compatibility: 
iOS, Android
Compatible sex toys:
6
Features:
Countless downloadable pre-set vibration patterns, customizable vibrations, Bluetooth short-range live control 
  • Preview vibe patterns before download
  • Create 5-min custom vibes to save on your device
  • All compatible toys come with 2/6 individually-controlled motors and 16 levels of intensity
  • Can’t control the toy through the app over Wi-Fi (long-distance)
  • No interactive and music syncing features

Although the MysteryVibe app can only connect to their vibrating sex toys—such as the Crescendo, Tenuto, and Poco—these vibrators work across genders, providing different pleasurable sensations to any user.

Each vibrator comes with multiple individually controlled motors with up to 16 intensity levels that you can play around with. Additionally, you can create and save up to 5 minutes of custom vibrations or download pre-set patterns from their store.

Sadly, you can only use the vibrator app as a Bluetooth remote to control your device in a 30-foot (10-meter) range, so you can’t use it to control toys over Wi-Fi or give your long-distance partner control. There are also no in-app messaging or interactive features (yet!).


Buying Guide For An App Controlled Vibrator

If you’re a techy pleasure seeker, you should start looking at the remote app’s capabilities and features before finding a compatible vibrator that works for you.

Mobile Software Compatibility

When it comes to sex toys and software, compatibility is vital for a seamless wireless experience. If you’re unable to download the app because it’s incompatible with your smartphone, you’re going to feel frustrated and ripped off!

Depending on your type of phone and how old it is, it might not handle specific software. You need to make sure that your app is compatible with your phone (or PC) and the newest version of the software available.


Interactive Features

When choosing a vibrator app, make sure that it offers interactive features you and your partner can make the most use of.

Vibrator apps with in-app messaging features let you take photos, videos, sext, video chat, and record your voice to send to your partner. You can create patterns for your lover and live-control their vibrators, and even pair your toy with theirs and relay each other’s movements.


Other Features

Aside from customizable vibrations for solo use and long-distance control for partnered play, vibrator apps also come with additional features.

Most apps let you sync your toy’s vibrations to your favorite music, ambient sound, and background noise. Some apps sync your toy with 2D/3D adult content or let you interact with live cam models and tip them.

Again, choose an app with features you know you (or your partner) will enjoy for a long time.


Now, Choose Your Vibrator

Once you’ve figured out what you need from your sex toy app, find a compatible vibrator that works best for you. One of the great things about experiencing sex toys is that everyone enjoys pleasure differently.

For example, some vibrators focus on stimulating a person’s G-spot and others on stimulating the clitoris. Then you have others that offer a fuller overall body experience. For penis owners, some toys stroke your penis while some give squeezing and sucking sensations.

Think carefully about your preferences so you can find the toy best suited to your pleasure.

Also, don’t forget to consider where you want to use your vibrator and control it through your remote app. If you’re taking it out for public play, make sure it’s wearable, comfortable, and quiet. For some splish-splash fun, make sure that your vibrator is waterproof.


FAQ

How to connect Vibrator Apps to your phone and sex toys?

First, you need to download the sex toy app compatible with your vibrator on your preferred device. Most apps will prompt you to create an account—make sure to do this if you don’t have one yet to take advantage of all the app’s features.

Next, turn on the Bluetooth on your sex toy and smartphone. Make sure the toy’s indicator light is blinking so the app can locate it. Use the app to scan for your sex toy and link your device. After the initial pairing, you only need to toggle on/off your preferred toy to use the vibrator app.

You can now explore various features and functions the app gives to your vibrator.


How to make the most of your sex toys using their Vibrator apps?

App-controlled vibrators are one of the most versatile sex toys on the current market; long-distance play is just one of many activities you can enjoy with them.

Solo play

Use your smartphone for some hands-free action while at home. Play around with the different controls and change the intensity and speed of vibrations. Customize vibrations for a unique orgasmic experience every time. Synchronize the toy’s vibrations to music, audiobooks, and adult content.


Discreet public play

App-controlled vibrators are a great way to spice things up a little bit and add a little thrill for both you and your partner while out. Choose a wearable vibrator that’s discreet, easy to use, and fits inconspicuously into your undergarments. Give your partner control through the app while you’re out on a date or even while you’re miles apart.


Long-distance control

Sex toy apps with compatible toys give LDR couples a chance to connect and be intimate with each other. Take advantage of the in-app messaging features like chat, video call, and live-controlling your partner’s sex toy vibrations.

Your partner can slow things down, stop mid-action, or switch things up entirely as they please, essentially giving them complete control over the situation depending on what they’re hoping to happen next. You can even synchronize compatible toys to relay movements in real-time.


Cam sites

App-controlled toys are also great for cam models. You can give your clients control over your toys to get precisely what they want and earn some extra money during the process.


Final Thoughts on Vibrator Apps

There aren’t many companies that make app-controlled vibrators as of this writing. The big hitters are the ones we’ve included on our list.

But even though the market isn’t crowded with these toys yet, the smart sex toy market is evolving and is here to stay. We’ll probably get to enjoy many more interactive apps sooner rather than later! However, the vibrator apps we have today are certainly amazing, so don’t worry about the small pool of options available—I’m sure you won’t need another one.

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.

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