Top 11 Best Prostate Massagers & Toys For Men (2024)

Massaging your prostate is not only pleasurable, but it also has some medical benefits. In fact, some studies say it could help with erectile dysfunction. 

The best prostate massager is easy to use and effectively stimulates the prostate, providing satisfaction without discomfort or irritation. 

Therefore, you have to be very careful about choosing the right size and shape. A design that’s too large or with a wrong curve for you can press too harshly against the prostate or other sensitive areas, leading to discomfort, bruising, or even tears in the rectal lining that could cause pain or injury.

Let’s look at the top prostate massagers to help you achieve P-spot orgasms.

Key Considerations to Look for in a Prostate Massager

• Design and Ease of Use: An ergonomic design, like one with a gentle curve, helps you reach and massage the prostate effectively. Meanwhile, a flared base is imperative to ensure the toy stays outside your body. Massagers controlled with an app or a remote make switching between patterns during use easier.
• Size and Comfort: If you’re a beginner, you’ll want something about 1 inch thick, but if you’re more advanced, something around 1.5 inches or more will give you a good stretch. Prostate massagers with an angle at the base can help ensure the toy doesn’t slip out, and those featuring narrower arches to stimulate the perineum are easier to sit on.
• Effectiveness: Massagers featuring vibrations or a rotating motion add another layer of stimulation that may prove more effective to some, while others might find manual prostate massagers to be a better fit, as they allow the user full control. 
• Material Quality: Silicone is the most common material, especially in vibrating toys, as it’s comfortable and easy to clean. Other body-safe materials include stainless steel and glass, which, while more expensive, give a more intense stimulation due to their weight and pressure.
• Vibration Settings: A wider range of vibrations provides a more personalized experience, letting you choose between different settings of rumbly vibrations that vibrate deeply in the prostate area or buzzy vibrations that give a more surface-level, tingling sensation in one specific spot.
• Durability: Manual massagers have a longer lifespan, while prostate toys with rotation motions eventually break. For vibrating toys, you want to balance a long battery life and a not-so-long charging time. It’s also important to consider water resistance; while most toys are submersible, remotes aren’t usually waterproof.

For a more detailed guide, check out our guide below: The Best Prostate Massager Buying Guide

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Top 3 Prostate Toys:

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The Best Prostate Toys

Lovense Edge 2 is the prostate massager I recommend for guys who suspect they have a bit more unique anatomy down there.

If manual massagers that work for most guys didn’t work for you, this might do it. And it’s a bit on the cheaper end of the anal toy spectrum.

You can get one at Lovense for $119 (now at a discount price of $99) with a 1-year warranty.

Unlike most dual-motor massagers, Lovense Edge 2 has an adjustable arm design that fits your unique anal contours down to a T and hits the spot.

You don’t have to worry about it slipping out or adjusting it many times when you move around. (Public play, anyone?)

It’s an app-enabled device (NO REMOTES here, sir!), meaning you can control it using your PC or smartphone via Bluetooth or the Internet – perfect for long-distance play.

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What I Like Most…

The Edge comes to life once you use the Lovense Remote app. You can access a range of pre-set patterns and patterns other users have created.

You can also customize the speed and vibration to your personal preference on either or both vibrating arms.

Just send a “connect” message to them, and you’re all set! It’s as close to being physically intimate with your partner as it gets.

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The Only Downside Is…

If you have a slow to zero net connection, you can’t make the most of this toy. Most of its functionality goes down the drain without online connectivity. 

Yes, you can still use it manually. BUT you only get ten simultaneous prostate and perineum vibrations. You have to cycle through all the settings to get the right vibration.

NOT the separate P-P patterns that you can customize with the app with just a swipe of a finger.

I’ve actually reviewed the Lovense Edge 2 before, so if you’re interested and want the full details, check out my Lovense Edge review.

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If it’s hands-free orgasms in a convenient and silent package you’re after, then the prostate massager Aneros have some of the very best offerings for your p-spot pleasure.

Their Helix Syn Trident prostate massager is an excellent choice for beginners as it’s thin, light, and super comfortable. But it still gives you all of the benefits, like the fact that it moves when you contract or move around to stimulate your prostate.

The two arms also stimulate your perineum and, uh, tailbone, I guess? It stays in place anyway.

It’s small enough for any butt, and it’s silent, so you can wear it anywhere you like.

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Okay, so why does this weird metal piece get raving recommendations across the board?

Because it simply works:

• It’s ergonomic — you don’t need to arch your hands and wrists in very weird positions.
• It’s heavy — it’s 1kg of medical grade stainless steel. This means you can manipulate it with a light press of a finger and get the desired pressure.
• Since it’s stainless steel, you can use silicone lube with it and forget about the need for continuous lubrication. Easy to clean and maintain!
• It will work for everyone . The two-sized heads, the length ensure that no matter how deep your P-spot is, you will be able to hit it. If you get the big head in, it will ensure that you don’t even need to be precise — it will hit the spot!

And finally, you can use it with your wifey.

Pure Wand is the most popular sex toy that has given most women their FIRST squirting G-spot orgasm.

Sorcery indeed.

It’s pricey, but it will last for a lifetime, and the only regret I have is — that I didn’t get it earlier.

The only downside is that the prostate massager nJoy wand doesn’t come with the instruction manual…

Some tips for using the Pure Wand:

• Warm up with the smaller end, but the real fireworks start once you move up to the larger end. All I can say is — Man up and do it! You’ll thank me later. Move slowly, gently back and forth. Use lots of lube, and you’ll get there.
• Lay on your stomach (the wedge is handy here). Keep the other end of the wand between your legs to make it a hands-free experience. The wand’s own weight will keep the ball pressed against your prostate. Then relax and wait for things to happen…
• First, insert the wand laying on the side (fetal position).  Then, manipulate the wand with 1–2 fingers pressing very lightly. If you insert the large end, you’ll find the big ball will hit the P-spot easily. Use the wand’s weight to your advantage.

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Due in part to its cutting-edge WaveMotion technology, the Lelo Loki Wave is the pinnacle of modern vibes, gently massaging the prostate with a luring, come-hither action.

And when you add in the two strategically placed motors that massage your prostate and perineum simultaneously with one of their electrifying vibration levels, you’re in for an orgasmic experience of a lifetime.

The Lelo Loki Wave is made of medical-grade silicone, entirely safe for the body, waterproof, and fully rechargeable. The silky-smooth material makes it easy for the toy to slide in. And you each get five waves and speeds, with patterns ranging from a buzz to a pulsing sensation.

It looks luxurious and soft; most importantly, it doesn’t gather lint. It’s simple to clean and can last you a good night’s worth of intense orgasms. 

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What I Like Most…

• Thanks to its ergonomic design, you can comfortably hold the Lelo Loki Wave in one hand. So, after an extended period, your hand won’t cramp from gripping the toy. And yes, I did mention that it gets sore on your wrists for a while. But that practically happens to every hand-held toy when using it more from your intended threshold. 
• Of course, its come-hither motion is a chef’s kiss, as you can stimulate the prostate more effectively than simply using your fingertips.
• If you want variety, the Lelo Loki Wave can also provide you with 10 different settings, all catering to different comfort levels. 
• And finally, playtime! A full charge can give you two hours of non-stop motions, so you’ll undoubtedly get your money’s worth with this bad boy!

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The Downside Is…

Okay, it’s time for some real talk!

• Due to the Loki Wave’s girth, you may need more lube than usual. And no, I’m not talking about a few squeezes from the bottle. I mean a TON more lube than usual.
• And I know what you’re thinking: isn’t its size one of its main selling points? True, I’m not denying that fact. But, generally speaking, this toy may not be for everyone.
• Also, the buttons are not ideal for all users, especially beginners in this field. It can get annoying because you have to keep an eye on where your hand is and make sure you don’t press any more buttons.

Changing your settings accidentally during a good time is the worst thing. And for some people, it can ruin the whole mood for the rest of the night. 

All in all, if you’re looking for more power and don’t mind holding it in your hand, then Loki Wave could be right up your (back) alley. 

It’s a strong presence with a decent size that’s well-contoured to fit most bodies very nicely indeed. 

And it actually moves! So it really puts the “massage” in prostate massager. The motion combined with two vibrating motors makes for an unforgettable combination. 

And it’s even better if used with a partner – their wrists won’t get tired because of the positioning.

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If you’ve figured out that vibrations work best at hitting your P-spot, LELO Hugo is for you.

Yes, it doesn’t have Stealth’s rotating head. But it’s a well-built massager that offers persistent, powerful vibrations to give most P owners the ecstatic O.

Cheaper massagers would die down if your anal sphincters start resisting the push when you’re not relaxed enough. BUT NOT my good friend HUGO.

For $219, you get an aggressively shaped massager with a bulbous head that hits most men’s prostate. So, if you’ve tried other massagers, this should hit it.

Unless your prostate is really far deep or you have a unique anatomy. But still, this works for most.

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What I Like Most…

Hugo’s patented SenseMotion technology remote control is a stand-out. It vibrates at the same speed and rhythm as the device. AND it even remembers the last pattern you used.

It takes some getting used to, for sure. But once you (and your partner) get the hang of it, there’s no going back!

Turn on Mode 1 to tilt the remote control for different vibration intensities – FUN! Turn on Mode 2 and shake the remote like you’re giving a handjob for stronger vibrations – MORE FUN (albeit tiring)!

Want more fun? Put the remote control in your partner’s underwear so you can both feel ‘em juicy vibrations. (*All fair’s in love and war.*)

But…

The remote control tends to make more noise than the P massager. While it makes foreplay and sex more exciting, it might put you off.

And Hugo can slip out when you’re constantly moving around. Solutions? Find a comfortable position that keeps it in place.

You can sit down or lie down while clenching your legs. OR you can wear a jockstrap or crotchless male thong if your doctor says no-no to clenching. 

Interested in learning more? Read my in-depth LELO Hugo review.

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Nexus Revo Stealth is hands-down my best overall prostate massager pick. Its remote-controlled internal rotations+external vibrations combo gives most men POs for the first time. Or multiple times.

Unlike other massagers on the market, Stealth has a rotating insertable head that ups your chances of hitting the oh-so-elusive P-spot just right. (*First-time P-orgasm, I see you.*)

Its two-speed bidirectional rotation feature means that it’s as close to having a REAL FINGER circling the prostate as it gets. Pair that with the ribbed perineal stimulator that vibrates up to 6 levels… BOOM!

Yeah, it’s a bit pricey – around $225 now. But for the experiences it’s given me, I’d be willing to pay twice as much.

Stealth is on the girthier side. It fills me even before I hit the power button. I feel strong, persistent sensations every time I use it that I don’t have to rub my D to get off.

Oh, and it’s made of silicone like my other two top products. So, make sure only to use water-based lube when you use it.

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What I Like Most…

The 10-hour max use time after one full charge is INSANE! I was able to use mine 5-6x before recharging (and that’s saying something).

PLUS, it has a rechargeable remote control that I can control up to 15 meters away. Aside from the power button, you see rotation and vibration buttons that you can control separately.

You can experiment with either sensation or both. See what works for you.

If vibrations hit the right spot, and you want more. You might want to consider the Lelo Hugo massager (much more on that next). But for most guys, it’s the mix of rotations and vibrations that work.

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The Only Downside Is…

The rotating head. Many users claim it gives in after a few months. But so far, mine’s been holding up pretty well – 10 months and counting as of this writing.

Just in case yours breaks down, take advantage of the 1-year warranty. Use it A LOT, so you can get a replacement right away when something happens.

But if you’ve passed the 1-year mark, and your Stealth gives up. Worry not.

Ninja Dainis to the rescue! (Or shall I say DIY ninjas of Reddit.) Here’s the step-by-step guaranteed fix. *You’re welcome.*

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We-Vibe Vector is the versatile prostate massager we all need. You can use its handy wireless remote control for that sit-back-and-relax kind of prostate massage experience.

OR you can sync it via the We-Connect app for more customized and intense prostate to perineum vibrations.

You can even sync the vibrations to your favorite music (*cue Marvin Gaye’s Let’s Get It On*).

If you own a Lelo Bruno or Hugo, the Vector’s a bit smaller. It has a narrow girth, so inserting it is a little easier than most P devices.

So, yeah. It’s perfect for anyone, regardless of experience level. But it’s ideal and more affordable ($139 to be exact) for guys new to prostate stimulation.

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What I Like Most…

The Vector’s pressure and vibrations in and out surprised me. They mesh pretty well and felt relaxing. These were what my prostate needed to hit that intense full-body O.

While you can customize patterns on either end, the pre-set pulsations gave me pleasurable alternating sensations. It kinda felt like the two ends were hugging and massaging my prostate.

Most massagers focus on overall sensations, but the Vector hits the perfect balance. Heck, you can even use it without the remote control or app. But where’s the fun in that?

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The Only Downside Is…

The We-Connect app is fun, but it’s kinda a hit-or-miss for some users. Not as solid as Lovense’s app. It disconnects. Some say it’s inconsistent.

I did experience a few hiccups. I tried to set the intensity level on the app, and the device didn’t seem to follow through. I then realized that I needed to recharge my Vector. (Dang! Sorry, I just got too excited.)

I learned that the app disconnects if your device is running low on battery. So, before you swear to the gods of pleasure, check the battery indicator on the app’s top-left corner.

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With premium silicone at a meager price, this flexible butt plug is compatible with both sexes and is contoured to fit snugly for an intimate massage that will leave you gasping for more.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a novice or an expert; you’re sure to have one ‘poke’ of an experience when you’re out and about.

This plug’s cleverly curved shaft can fit your natural interior shape, massaging all your favorite sensitive regions. The Booty Buddy’s head features a unique indentation that makes it simple to implant and can create a fantastic sensation on your rear. 

The body-safe silicone is sleek and flexible for a good fit, and the curved T-bar base keeps it from moving around, so you can wear it without worry. As if that’s not enough, the flared base also boosts the stimulation you’ll feel on your perineum.

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What I Like Most…

For starters, the Booty Buddy was one of the most comfortable butt plugs I’ve tested. It glided right into the anus with only minimal application from my water-based lube, and I didn’t feel any discomfort as I inserted the toy right into my rear. 

It was so easy to forget it was even there once inside, and sometimes I couldn’t even feel it until I paced around for a bit, at which point some very light sensations were there to remind me. 

It’s secure, allowing for hands-free use during sex or solo adventures. The Booty Buddy is perfect for easing into more giant toys or as a discreet plug during intimate moments.

And there’s also some wiggle room at the shaft’s bottom, so the pressure is bearable.

Although the base’s size and shape make insertion and removal a little tricky, I still find the sensations satisfying due to the curve and angle hitting my p-spot consistently. 

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The Only Downside Is…

My only criticism is that the toy’s sensations are moderate and subtle, thanks to its flexibility.

In other words, the Booty Buddy may not be the best anal toy for you if you like it good and deep in your behind.

Also, it tends to attract lint, but it is silicone, so I knew that going in.

Booty Buddy is a small angled butt plug that will be easy to get for newbies. It makes an excellent anal training toy while hitting the P-spot very well.

There are tons of raving reviews for this one.

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For the truly discerning P-spot player, the Aneros Vice 2 has it all. 

Satisfying thickness and size, check. 

Contoured design that’s both comfortable and pleasurable, check. 

2 powerful motors? Indeed.

18 patterns and 4 intensities for a total of 72 settings? Overkill if you ask me, but yep. 

It tends to feel like it will slip out when moving, so maybe it’s not great for wearing during sex. 

But basically, if you’re after a vibrating P-spot massager for solo play, this is one of the best you can find at any price.

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It might be on the expensive end, but Bruno certainly brings the power. 

With two motors – one at the tip and the other in the base – you get double the pleasure with the option of 6 different settings. 

It’s a medium size, so it’s thick enough to satisfy most butts while still being approachable to anyone’s comfort zone. 

That said, Bruno is somewhat shorter than many of its competitors, which can be good or bad depending on your anatomy. 

If you suspect your P-spot is a bit further in, then you’re probably better off going with something longer to avoid disappointment.

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The Progasm is the Aneros for the more experienced anal aficionado.

It has all of the same advantages of the product line, including hands-free stimulation and motion and the lovely perineum tab.

But it’s significantly bigger, at 4.5 inches long and 1.5 thick, so it gives you a full, satisfied feeling.

And the extra thickness and more aggressively angled tip apply very intense pressure right where you need it for explosive results.

It delivers on its promises, but it will take some working up to get the most out of it.

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The Best Prostate Massager Buying Guide

Budget

I want to stress this point too.

A good P-spot massager (like in my Lovense Edge review) is especially important when you’re a beginner.

Experienced men can achieve prostate orgasm without any toys. They masturbate with perineum (taint) motion, nipple stimulation, and right breathing.

They couldn’t care less about the prostate vibrator.

But it took them YEARS to get there.

As a beginner…

The one who has never broken the glass ceiling to the bliss…

You need all the best sex toys to increase your chances of success.

The good sex toys I will recommend (there are three of them) cost money.

One costs in the $100 range, the other costs the $100–$200 range, the third one…even more.

I’ll give recommendations to cheap knockoff massagers you can start with.

Which is cool.

A thing you shove up your ass is rarely ever in the budget.

I get it.

Don’t get one if it’s going to hurt you financially.

Wait instead until you have some disposable income to burn.

Fool around with cheap prostate massagers (without high expectations). But know that a proper P-spot massager is a must for successful prostate play.

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Types of Prostate Massagers

In total, there here are four different varieties of massagers:

• #1 — Manual Prostate Massagers
• #2 — Prostate Vibrators
• #3 —Remote Control
• #4 —“Come Hither” or Rotation Motion

There are pros and cons of each, and you should know them before I go to individual prostate massager review.

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#1 — Manual Prostate Massagers

These are massagers that don’t have any motor, electronics with it.

The great thing is that they are a lot less likely to break. Life-span can be very long, especially if you buy the #1 recommendation I suggest.

That thing will NEVER BREAK.

The downside is that it’s not gonna be a hands-free experience. Though you can always attach it to a fucking machine. But that’s $400 extra).

You can get cheap Aneros Helix Syn knockoffs. Or even an affordable curved glass dildo that will give you SOME sensations.

This is what most people settle with because of the cheap price.

It’s okay, it’s still a good testing ground.

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#2 — Prostate Vibrators

These are hard plastic or silicone prostate vibrators. They allow switching between different vibration modes.

Many people buy cheap vibrating prostate toys on Amazon and again wonder why it doesn’t do a lot to them. If you’re experienced in prostate play, you can try the best thrusting vibrating dildos for your prostate for some different kind of experience.

It’s fun to play around a bit but won’t do much unless you invest in a good rumbling motor (which costs).

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#3 — Remote Controlled

Navigating the buttons while this thing is up to your ass is tough. It gets difficult if you don’t have a willing partner to help out.

Remote control comes to the rescue.

With a good remote-controlled prostate massager, you can relax. Simply take the position and focus on sensations.

Now, we’re getting closer to increasing your chances of discovering that Super-O.

Many newbies have succeeded with good prostate toys like these…

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#4 — “Come Hither” Or Rotation Motion

After reading hundreds and hundreds of reviews and forum entries…

I discovered that the anal plug with a moving tip gave the most success to the beginners.

Some succeeded with manual stimulation.

Some succeeded with vibrations.

The downside?

These are the MOST EXPENSIVE and most likely to BREAK sex toys.

There are usually dual motors involved and that rotation, movement motion tends to break after a while.

It can be 3 months, 6 months, or 2 years, but they WILL BREAK.

Only a matter of time.

It’s the same as with the car.

You don’t expect the car to run forever without repair, maintenance.

The silver lining?

Usually, these toys come with a 1-year warranty.

Which means if you plunk down that kind of money…

You better use it OFTEN!

Make sure it breaks within the 1 year and you get the new model or can ask to return the money.

Oh, and also there are some ninja DIY guys who know how to fix the most common breakage. So you can also get it fixed if the warranty expires.

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Materials

First up, you need to be sure you’ve got a body-safe toy. That means non-porous material, like silicone, steel, glass, or certain plastics like ABS. 

Those are generally the best materials to use for prostate massage. Silicone is comfortable and easy to use and clean. 

Stainless steel is more expensive, but the pressure and weight are unmatched and feel incredible. 

Glass is quite similar to steel – filling and fun and also beautiful, but not cheap. 

And plastic is usually lighter and cheap, but it might not feel as filling or satisfyingly heavy. 

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Pressure

If it’s pressure you’re after, you’ll want that to come from either the material or the shape. 

Glass and, in particular, stainless steel apply more pressure by virtue of their weight – it’s an imposing presence that feels like nothing else. 

But you can get similar effects with cleverly shaped toys, like the Aneros series, for example. 

Any prostate massager with a tip that’s angled forward will apply more pressure to the spot itself. This effect is boosted if the toy is thicker. 

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Vibrations

Position is important to consider as well as vibrations. For example, the Lelo Hugo is the most powerful of the massagers on this list without question. 

But it’s not as well-positioned to get right over the P-spot as other toys like the Nexus Revo Stealth, so I actually enjoyed the vibes coming from the latter toy better. 

That said, pure power is enjoyable in its own way. So the next question is – rumbly or buzzy? 

Rumbly travels through you, while buzzy vibes stay in one spot and stimulate there more specifically. 

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Size

Bigger is better – but is it really? 

Actually, no. At least, not for everyone. Larger, more filling toys are more pleasurable for some people, especially more experienced players. 

But if you’re new to the game, then an extra thick toy probably is going to feel more unpleasantly forceful than enjoyable. 

Whereas if you’re more advanced in your play, you’ll likely want something that gives you more stretch – 1.5 inches or even more if you’re feeling bold. 

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Remote Controlled vs. App-controlled

A good app-controlled massager gives you an incredible breadth of options to work with. Lovense stands out as the best in app-controlled toys at the moment. 

They’ve got the most reliable connection and the best range of options, but other companies like We-Vibe are not far behind. 

But there’s something more trustworthy about a good remote control that does everything you need it to. Remotes are always more reliable than smartphone control and usually simpler.  

One thing’s for certain. You definitely want some kind of remote control in a vibrating prostate toy. 

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Noise Level

Whether you’re concerned about privacy, have to play in secret, or need something for public play, noise is always an important concern. 

Obviously, a toy with no motors or moving parts is the quietest – you can’t beat silent, after all! 

As for toys with motors, some perform better than others. The Lovense Edge 2, We-Vibe Vector, and Desire Luxury are all pretty decent, with low volume even at higher power levels. 

Others, like the Lelo Hugo, are louder – mainly because of the higher max intensity. 

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Comfort

If you need good comfort, that’s highly subjective. 

But there are things to look out for. A narrow perineal arch is helpful, especially if you plan to sit on the toy a lot. 

Other toys like the Aneros range are super comfortable in every position except sitting. 

Once you get used to the sensation, though, well… butts are as unique as fingerprints. 

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Secure Fit

Public play what you’re after? 

Or maybe you want something to penetrate you while you penetrate a partner? 

Either way, you will need a secure fit. 

Much like comfort, this is kind of subjective. 

But a smoother toy is generally more likely to slip out than on with bumps. So Lelo Hugo will slip out easier than Aneros Progasm or Lovense Edge 2, for example. 

Massagers with a tighter angle in the base will also grip you gently, making them less likely to slip out. 

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Charging and Battery Life

A good battery life is very important, especially if you like edging or building yourself up slowly with a lot of patience. 

For this, Nexus Revo Stealth is unmatched, with a staggering 10 hours of battery life. 

1 or 2 hours is pretty much the standard for charging time, but some toys improve the charging with things like magnetic charging, that’s more convenient to use. 

Long battery life is good, but if the charge time is also very long, that can be annoying to work around. Nothing worse than lubing yourself up only to find your toy needs three more hours.

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Waterproof

Most good prostate massagers are, at the very least, splashproof (AKA IPX6). 

Most of the toys on this list are submersible, which means they have been tested and work underwater for 30 minutes. That makes them great options for playing with in the bath or shower for extra fun. 

But it also makes them extra easy to clean – just wash them with soap and water, no expensive toy cleaner required. 

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Prostate Massage FAQ

How To Massage Prostate?

To massage your prostate, make sure you’re aroused first. This will intensify the whole experience It’s crucial that you’re relaxed. Make sure nobody and nothing can interrupt you.

Ideally you would play 2-3 hours for prostate play. If you’re doing it for the first time, don’t expect magic. Prostate massage is a learned skill. It will take time.

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How To Give A Prostate Massage?

To give a prostate massage it might be easier if you have a partner to help you out. Logistics with anal play get a bit challenging. A willing partner helps you to stay relaxed and focus on the experience.

Make sure you give lots of feedback to the partner. Both men and women can benefit from breaking social stigmas. It can be a truly bonding experience.

It takes time to find what massaging way gives the best feeling. It takes time to find your favorite sex toy design that works.

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How Often Should You Massage Your Prostate?

There is no right or wrong answer but massaging your prostate often shouldn’t hurt. Getting that big prostate massager inside though is no small feat. It takes time especially the first time.

Give it a few days’ breaks. You can practice with a butt plug for long wear to make the whole anal play more pleasurable. Listen to your body. This is the best advice.

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What are the pros and cons of prostate massagers?

Pros of prostate massage include a more comfortable experience than, say, using a dildo in your butt.

They’re more tapered and easy to work with than most other toys that go inside you, and the biggest pro is the insane earth-shattering orgasms you can have. 

Cons? Well, it can be awkward to learn how to use at first. And there’s always a chance that a particular toy won’t fit your specific anatomy, so it will have been a waste of money. 

But overall? 100% worth it.

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Is there anything else I need to know about prostate massagers?

The best advice about prostate massage is to start with a finger first. Either use your own or get a partner to help you, and work your way up to buying a toy when you feel like it’s time to take things up a gear. 

What else… well, not all devices are created equally for everyone’s needs. You’ll want to find your favored shape and then stick to toys with similar shapes for better results. Mixing it up and getting new toys is great, but make sure you know your body before taking out your wallet.

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Bringing It All Together

We’re done with the toy part… Then if you’re after for more techniques in giving a prostate massage, check out Beducated! If you’re still hesitant, check out my Beducated review!

So I hope you’ll be able to get either:

• Njoy Pure Wand for manual stimulation + silicone lube
• …or Nexus Revo Stealth for almost guaranteed PO + proper water-based lube.

That’s when you’ll cover 1/3 of the keys that are required to reach PO’s and Super-O’s.

You might be natural and reach your PO by fooling around with these. But chances are you need to work on the other 2 ingredients.

• #1 — The proper prostate toy + lube = covered
• #2 — The right arousal = still to go.
• #3 — The right process (together with the right expectations) = still to go.

Since you read till the end, I want to reward you…

That’s it, folks!

This is a new journey…

But the pleasure you get is out of this world…

If you’re new to anal play, know that you might benefit a lot from a good butt plug.

It will help with a warmup and stretching.