TOP 50: Best Kinky & BDSM Blogs (2020)

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   The Cuckold Consultant

   https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/

   The Cuckold Consultant serves as an amazing resource for helping men make their cuckold or hot wife fantasy happen.

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   506.1K

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   Love Plugs

   https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/

   A blog dedicated to everything butt plugs which serves as a great complement to their awesome products.

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   235.8K

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   The Cage

   https://thecage.co/

   A great BDSM community to meet genuine like-minded kinky people.

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   225.6K

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   Femdom Resource

   http://www.femdom-resource.com/

   A site dedicated to female dominance in a form of erotica, kinky videos, photos & BDSM equipment.

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   173.4K

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   The Duchy

   https://www.theduchy.com/

   The Duchy is filled with in-depth tutorials and discussions on rope bondage.

   5

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   171.5K

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   Femdoming

   http://femdoming.com/

   When it comes to the Femdom BDSM lifestyle, Femdoming is one of the best resources – they have tips, videos, interviews, and more.

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   134.5K

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   Submissive Guide

   https://www.submissiveguide.com/

   A community where you can learn the kinky BDSM exploration as a submissive and learn the right way to D/S relationships.

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   129.7K

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   Eros Blog

   http://www.erosblog.com/

   Eros is one of the first sex blogs ever (since 2002) having thought provoking pieces, erotica, nudity and kinky sex discussions.

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   123.3K

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   Femdomocracy

   https://www.femdomocracy.com/

   A blog that advocates female supremacy and superiority through art & prose.

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   121.5K

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    BDSM Cafe

    https://bdsmcafe.com/

    For people who like BDSM – stories, erotica, best porn movies, dom /sub guides, contracts.

    10

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    103.8K

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    Bondage Blog

    http://www.bondageblog.com/

    Discover the collections of stories and pictures of restrained women for fun and BDSM inspiration.

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    98.4K

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    Male Chastity Lifestyle

    http://malechastitylifestyle.net/

    If you’re interested in learning about or getting into male chastity then this blog will serve you well.

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    95K

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    Sunny Megatron

    http://sunnymegatron.com/

    Sunny is a superstar in the world of kink, BDSM and sex tips. Check out her podcast and Youtube vlog.

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    66.8K

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    Goddess Ezada Sinn

    http://mistressezada.com/

    Goddess Ezada Sinn is a leader in the FemDom world with plenty of content to offer those who relate with being a Female Supremacist.

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    66.1K

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    Sugarbutch

    http://www.sugarbutch.net/

    This site is perfect for those into kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica.

    15

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    55.2K

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    Mx Nillin

    http://mxnillin.com/

    Mx Nillin’s sex blog is kink friendly and has exciting content especially for queer and trans folk.

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    52.9K

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    Kayla Lords

    https://kaylalords.com/

    Kayla writes about her journey into BDSM to teach others and learn from the community along the way.

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    45.7K

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    Domme Chronicles

    https://www.domme-chronicles.com/

    Domme Chronicles features award winning content by a lifestyle Domme.

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    42.5K

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    Salty

    https://saltyworld.net/

    Fighting for digital visibility for women, trans and non binary people – Salty is a newsletter and blog that offers more than the usual sexy stories.

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    38.6K

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    Dom Sub Living

    https://www.domsubliving.com/

    Explore all that BDSM has to offer in this BDSM & Kink blog.

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    38.4K

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    Swinger Lifestyle

    https://swingerlifestyle.com/

    All the resources you can ever need to live the swinger lifestyle.

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    38.2K

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    Spanking Blog

    http://www.spankingblog.com/

    Adult erotic spanking at its best – their content comes with awesome graphics & comics.

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    37.8K

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    Rewriting the Rules

    https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/

    More than just a sex blog, Rewriting the Rules also features books, resources, zines, and services of Dr. Meg-John Barker.

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    37.3K

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    ASI BDSM

    http://asibdsm.com/

    A BDSM & bondage blog that has insightful content and tutorials while giving importance to safety.

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    32.1K

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    Kinky World

    http://kinky-world.net/

    Kinky World features honest sex toy reviews with great insights into what makes a great sex toy.

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    28.1K

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    KinkLovers

    https://kinklovers.com/

    Quality source of information and entertainment for anyone interested in fetish play, kink, and/or BDSM.

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    25.5K

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    Denying Thumper

    https://denyingthumper.com/

    A couples journey into the addition of orgasm denial and enforced chastity in their marriage in hopes of helping other couples.

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    24.4K

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    Little Switch Bitch

    https://littleswitchbitch.com/

    Little Switch Bitch has plenty of content to satisfy your curious mind about BDSM, sex toys, lingerie, and more.

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    23.9K

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    Stormy Night Publications

    https://www.stormynightpublications.com/

    Established by Korey Mae and James Johnson, Stormy Night Publications aims to provide a highly author-centric publisher for spanking and BDSM romance and erotica titles.

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    21.4K

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    Poly.Land

    https://poly.land/

    A polyamory blog for navigating life, relationships, and more.

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    20.8K

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    Submissive Feminist

    https://www.submissivefeminist.com/

    With a mission to “save the world one orgasm at a time”, SubmissiveFeminist has grown into an active community of kink and sexuality.

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    18.4K

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    Male Chastity Journal

    https://malechastityjournal.com/

    Writing about male chastity devices for over 15 years, you’ve come to the right place to learn male chastity.

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    16.6K

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    Kinky Kink BDSM

    https://kinkykink.com/

    This blog features reviews of only the naughtiest and most outrageous sex objects and accessories from around the world.

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    14.9K

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    Life on the Swingset

    https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

    A great starting point for those who want to experience the swingset lifestyle – this blog serves as a helpful resource.

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    14.8K

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    Luna Matatas

    http://lunamatatas.com/blog/

    A quirky & creative blog filled with crafty ideas, sexy insights and burlesque tips.

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    12.4K

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    Pegging Paradise

    http://peggingparadise.com/

    As you can tell by their name, Pegging Paradise is your one stop shop resource for all things pegging as well as some erotica.

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    12.1K

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    Rebel’s Notes

    https://rebelsnotes.com/

    A personal blog by Marie Rebelle on her experiences as a submissive & bisexual.

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    12K

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    Discerning Specialist

    http://discerningspecialist.com/

    This blog showcases BDSM gear reviews and articles for discerning specialists.

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    11.4K

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    Submissy

    https://submissy.com/

    Submissy lets you follow along the journey of a married submissive.

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    11.3K

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    Coffee & Kink

    https://coffeeandkink.me/blog/

    Fuelled by coffee and inappropriate thoughts, this blog explores all aspects of sexuality from a consent-focused, pleasure-centric point of view.

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    9.2K

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    Ayzad

    https://www.ayzad.com/

    Known for exploring unusual sex, Ayzad brings a different perspective into the sex blog world.

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    8K

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    Rain DeGrey

    https://www.raindegrey.com/

    Teaching classes on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009, Rain DeGrey is a must follow in the industry. She also hosts the Dirty Talk Podcast & answers all your burning questions on the Dirty Talk Advice Column.

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    7.8K

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    Pain As Pleasure

    http://painaspleasure.com/

    Enjoy personal stories of subbing and domming, erotic fiction and thoughtful pieces about the nature of kink.

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    6.2K

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    The Black Pomegranate

    https://www.theblackpomegranate.com/

    A blog dedicated to helping people have more satisfying (and kinky) relationships.

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    5K

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    The Perverted Negress

    http://www.mollena.com/

    A respected & honoured voice in the community, The Perverted Negress is no stranger to kink, leather and BDSM.

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    <5K

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    Aida Manduley

    http://aidamanduley.com/

    Aida’s blog touches on topics and issues about sexuality, sex tech, and social justice.

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    <5K

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    Chronic Sex

    https://www.chronicsex.org/

    A great perspective on how quality of life is affected by self-love, self-care, relationships, sexuality, and sex itself.

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    <5K

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    Dr. Vixenne

    https://sexologistvixenne.com/

    Dr. Vixenne puts special focus on making sure she presents accurate & comprehensive sex positive information to allow others to make informed decisions on their own lives.

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    <5K

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    FlossDoesLife

    https://flossdoeslife.com/

    What started as a blog about non-monogamy has blossomed into content about kink, fetish, BDSM, erotica and product reviews.

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    <5K

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    Off the Cuffs

    https://www.offthecuffs.org/

    Off the Cuffs is a kink & BDSM podcast + blog that offers exciting content hosted by Dick Wound and minimus maximus.

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    <5K

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