TOP 50: Best Kinky & BDSM Blogs (2023)

Ranked algorithmically (learn more). Last updated: May 24, 2023

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  1. The Cuckold Consultant

    https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/

    A website providing advice and guidance for individuals interested in exploring or navigating the cuckold lifestyle.

    1--

    Rank

    178.8K

    Traffic


  2. Love Plugs

    https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/

    An informative blog focused on providing insights, tips, and news related to the world of adult toys and, specifically, anal plugs.

    2+2

    Rank

    57K

    Traffic


  3. Dom Sub Living

    https://www.domsubliving.com/

    A resourceful website offering support, education, and inspiration to individuals exploring the dynamics of dominant-submissive relationships.

    3--

    Rank

    24K

    Traffic


  4. House of Denial

    https://www.houseofdenial.com/blogs/news

    A blog sharing information and articles related to the world of male chastity devices and providing tips and ideas for chastity play.

    4-2

    Rank

    23.2K

    Traffic


  5. Cuckin

    https://cuckin.com/

    An online community and forum catering to those interested in cuckolding, providing a platform for discussion, advice, and personal experiences.

    5+5

    Rank

    17.3K

    Traffic


  6. KinkLovers

    https://kinklovers.com/

    A website dedicated to promoting kink awareness and education, featuring articles, resources, and advice for individuals exploring alternative sexual lifestyles.

    6-1

    Rank

    17K

    Traffic


  7. The Twisted Monk

    https://www.twistedmonk.com/

    An online store specializing in high-quality rope bondage products and offering educational resources for enthusiasts of rope play.

    7+13

    Rank

    12K

    Traffic


  8. The Duchy

    https://www.theduchy.com/

    A comprehensive resource for dominants and submissives, providing educational content, advice, and community support for BDSM practitioners.

    8-1

    Rank

    11.4K

    Traffic


  9. Mistress Sidonia’s Femdom Blog

    https://www.theenglishmansion.com/blog/

    An established BDSM website featuring articles, videos, and stories exploring female dominance, male submission, and related fetish topics.

    9+9

    Rank

    11.2K

    Traffic


  10. Femdom Resource

    http://www.femdom-resource.com/

    A blog dedicated to the exploration of female domination, offering reviews, discussions, and resources for individuals interested in the femdom lifestyle.

    10-4

    Rank

    9.5K

    Traffic


  11. Lock The Cock

    https://lockthecock.com/blogs/chastity-fun

    A blog focused on male chastity play, providing information, guides, and creative ideas for individuals and couples engaging in chastity dynamics.

    11-3

    Rank

    7.7K

    Traffic


  12. Rope Connections

    https://www.ropeconnections.com/

    A platform offering comprehensive resources and tutorials for rope enthusiasts, covering various aspects of rope bondage and suspension techniques.

    12+3

    Rank

    7.1K

    Traffic


  13. Spanking Blog

    http://www.spankingblog.com/

    A blog dedicated to the exploration of spanking and corporal punishment fantasies, featuring stories, images, and discussions on the topic.

    13+1

    Rank

    6.2K

    Traffic


  14. Goddess Ezada Sinn

    http://mistressezada.com/

    The personal website of Mistress Ezada Sinn, an experienced dominatrix sharing her perspectives, thoughts, and insights on BDSM and female dominance.

    14-5

    Rank

    6K

    Traffic


  15. Lascivity

    https://www.lascivity.co.uk/

    An online platform promoting sexual exploration and positivity, offering advice, resources, and discussions on various aspects of sexuality and kink.

    15-4

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  16. BDSM Cafe

    https://bdsmcafe.com/

    A comprehensive website providing information, resources, and discussions on BDSM topics, catering to both beginners and experienced practitioners.

    16+7

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  17. My Femdom Rules

    https://myfemdomrules.com/

    A blog focused on female domination and femdom relationships, offering insights, stories, and advice for individuals exploring dominant-submissive dynamics.

    17+7

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  18. Rewriting the Rules

    https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/

    A thought-provoking blog challenging societal norms and exploring alternative perspectives on relationships, sex, and intimacy.

    18-4

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  19. Sunny Megatron

    http://sunnymegatron.com/

    The official website of Sunny Megatron, a sex-positive educator and media personality, providing information, resources, and advice on sexuality and relationships.

    19+6

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  20. Femdom Destiny

    https://femdomdestiny.com/

    A website dedicated to the exploration of female domination, featuring articles, stories, and resources for individuals interested in femdom relationships.

    20-8

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  21. The Cage

    https://thecage.co/

    An online community and social network designed for individuals interested in BDSM and alternative lifestyles, offering discussion forums and various interactive features.

    21+12

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  22. Kinky World

    http://kinky-world.net/

    A blog and resource platform focused on kink, BDSM, and sexual exploration, providing articles, product reviews, and advice for adventurous individuals.

    22+5

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  23. Crash Restraint

    https://crash-restraint.com/

    An educational website specializing in rope bondage tutorials, safety guides, and techniques for enthusiasts of all levels of experience.

    23+14

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  24. Coffee & Kink

    https://coffeeandkink.me/blog/

    A blog and online shop celebrating sexual diversity and exploring various aspects of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity, offering insightful articles and product recommendations.

    24+2

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  25. Swinger Lifestyle

    https://swingerlifestyle.com/

    A website catering to individuals and couples interested in the swinging lifestyle, providing forums, events, and resources for connecting with like-minded individuals.

    25-9

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  26. Eros Blog

    http://www.erosblog.com/

    A blog featuring erotic stories, articles, and images covering a wide range of sexual topics, including kink, fetish, and alternative sexual lifestyles.

    26-9

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  27. Pegging Paradise

    http://peggingparadise.com/

    A website dedicated to promoting and exploring the practice of pegging, providing resources, personal stories, and advice for beginners and enthusiasts alike.

    27-6

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  28. Rain DeGrey

    https://www.raindegrey.com/

    The personal website of Rain DeGrey, a renowned BDSM educator and performer, offering workshops, tutorials, and resources on BDSM and kink-related topics.

    28+14

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  29. Femdoming

    http://femdoming.com/

    A blog and community platform focused on female domination, providing articles, discussions, and resources for individuals interested in femdom relationships.

    29+5

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  30. Sugarbutch

    http://www.sugarbutch.net/

    A personal blog exploring gender, sexuality, and relationships from a queer and kink perspective, featuring stories, essays, and advice for the LGBTQ+ community.

    30-11

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  31. Bastienne Cross

    https://bastienne.ca/journal

    The personal blog of Bastienne Cross, a professional dominatrix, sharing her experiences, insights, and reflections on BDSM, kink, and female domination.

    31+4

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  32. Luna Matatas

    http://lunamatatas.com/blog/

    The blog of Luna Matatas, a sex and pleasure educator, offers articles, resources, and workshops focused on empowering individuals to explore their sexuality.

    32+13

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  33. Male Chastity Journal

    https://malechastityjournal.com/

    A blog documenting the personal journey of a couple exploring male chastity and sharing their experiences, challenges, and advice for others interested in this dynamic.

    33-1

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  34. Bondage Blog

    http://www.bondageblog.com/

    A long-standing blog celebrating bondage and BDSM culture, featuring stories, images, and discussions related to consensual restraint and kink play.

    34-12

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  35. Girly Juice

    https://girlyjuice.net/

    A sex-positive blog exploring topics such as sexuality, relationships, and self-pleasure, offering personal anecdotes, advice, and recommendations for adult products.

    35+6

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  36. Ayzad

    https://www.ayzad.com/

    The official website of Ayzad, an Italian BDSM author, educator, and expert, providing resources, articles, and insights on various aspects of kink and fetish culture.

    36-23

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  37. Mx Nillin

    http://mxnillin.com/

    A sex and body-positive blog sharing personal experiences, essays, and photography, with a focus on queer, non-binary, and transgender perspectives on sexuality.

    37-7

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  38. ToyTorture

    https://www.toytorture.com/

    A blog exploring the world of sex toys, featuring reviews, recommendations, and tips for maximizing pleasure and incorporating adult toys into intimate experiences.

    38-10

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  39. Life on the Swingset

    https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

    A website and podcast dedicated to promoting consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, offering discussions, resources, and personal stories from the community.

    39-3

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  40. Male Chastity Lifestyle

    http://malechastitylifestyle.net/

    A blog focused on male chastity and orgasm control, providing information, advice, and personal experiences for individuals and couples interested in exploring this dynamic.

    40-11

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  41. Submissive Feminist

    https://www.submissivefeminist.com/

    A blog exploring the intersection of feminism and BDSM, offering insights, discussions, and personal stories of submission and power exchange from a feminist perspective.

    41-3

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  42. Off the Cuffs

    https://www.offthecuffs.org/

    A podcast and blog centered around BDSM, kink, and fetish culture, featuring interviews, discussions, and personal stories shared by members of the BDSM community.

    42-2

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  43. Submissive Guide

    https://www.submissiveguide.com/

    A comprehensive resource and community platform for submissives, providing educational articles, advice, and support for individuals exploring submissive lifestyles.

    43-4

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  44. Coaching by Kali

    https://www.coachingbykali.com/blog/

    The official blog of Kali Williams, a relationship coach specializing in non-monogamy and alternative relationships, offering insights, guidance, and resources for navigating diverse partnerships.

    44-1

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  45. The Gentle Domme

    https://thegentledomme.com/

    A blog and resource platform focused on the gentle domination style, providing insights, articles, and advice for individuals interested in nurturing dominance and submission dynamics.

    45-1

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  46. Stormy Night Publications

    https://www.stormynightpublications.com/

    A website specializing in erotic literature, particularly featuring stories and books focused on spanking, BDSM, and power exchange relationships.

    46--

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  47. Kinky Kink BDSM

    https://kinkykink.com/

    Kinky Kink features BDSM ideas, a directory of BDSM stores, and sites where you can shop BDSM online.

    47--

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  48. Dr. Vixenne

    https://sexologistvixenne.com/

    The official website of Sexologist Vixenne, a professional specializing in sexual health and pleasure, offering resources, articles, and guidance for individuals seeking sexual fulfillment.

    48--

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  49. pain as pleasure

    Pain As Pleasure

    http://painaspleasure.com/

    A blog exploring the intersection of pain and pleasure, focusing on BDSM, power dynamics, and kink, offering personal experiences, discussions, and reflections on the topic.

    49--

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic


  50. Rebel’s Notes

    https://rebelsnotes.com/

    A personal blog by Marie Rebelle, sharing her journey, experiences, and thoughts on sexuality, kink, and relationships, featuring erotic stories.

    50--

    Rank

    <5K

    Traffic

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