TOP 50: Best Kinky & BDSM Blogs (2020)

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the cuckold consultant

The Cuckold Consultant

https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/

The Cuckold Consultant serves as an amazing resource for helping men make their cuckold or hot wife fantasy happen.

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438K

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the cage

The Cage

https://thecage.co/

A great BDSM community to meet genuine like-minded kinky people.

2

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191K

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the duchy

The Duchy

https://www.theduchy.com/

The Duchy is filled with in-depth tutorials and discussions on rope bondage.

3

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148K

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eros blog erotica sex ed

Eros Blog

http://www.erosblog.com/

Eros is one of the first sex blogs ever (since 2002) having thought provoking pieces, erotica, nudity and kinky sex discussions.

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143K

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femdoming

Femdoming

http://femdoming.com/

When it comes to the Femdom BDSM lifestyle, Femdoming is one of the best resources - they have tips, videos, interviews, and more.

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130K

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Submissive Guide blog bdsm

Submissive Guide

https://www.submissiveguide.com/

A community where you can learn the kinky BDSM exploration as a submissive and learn the right way to D/S relationships.

6

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126K

TRAFFIC


femdom resource erotica bdsm

Femdom Resource

http://www.femdom-resource.com/

A site dedicated to female dominance in a form of erotica, kinky videos, photos & BDSM equipment.

7

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116K

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femdomocracy

Femdomocracy

https://www.femdomocracy.com/

A blog that advocates female supremacy and superiority through art & prose.

8

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110K

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bondage blog

Bondage Blog

http://www.bondageblog.com/

Discover the collections of stories and pictures of restrained women for fun and BDSM inspiration.

9

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104K

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bdsm cafe sex guides

BDSM Cafe

https://bdsmcafe.com/

For people who like BDSM - stories, erotica, best porn movies, dom /sub guides, contracts.

10

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92K

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male chastity lifestyle

Male Chastity Lifestyle

http://malechastitylifestyle.net/

If you're interested in learning about or getting into male chastity then this blog will serve you well.

11

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82K

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salty

Salty

https://saltyworld.net/

Fighting for digital visibility for women, trans and non binary people - Salty is a newsletter and blog that offers more than the usual sexy stories.

12

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69K

TRAFFIC


sunny megatron blog

Sunny Megatron

http://sunnymegatron.com/

Sunny is a superstar in the world of kink, BDSM and sex tips. Check out her podcast and Youtube vlog.

13

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63K

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Goddess Ezada Sinn

Goddess Ezada Sinn

http://mistressezada.com/

Goddess Ezada Sinn is a leader in the FemDom world with plenty of content to offer those who relate with being a Female Supremacist.

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63K

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kayla lords

Kayla Lords

https://kaylalords.com/

Kayla writes about her journey into BDSM to teach others and learn from the community along the way.

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46K

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sugarbutch

Sugarbutch

http://www.sugarbutch.net/

This site is perfect for those into kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica.

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42K

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rewriting the rules

Rewriting the Rules

https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/

More than just a sex blog, Rewriting the Rules also features books, resources, zines, and services of Dr. Meg-John Barker.

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40K

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spanking blog

Spanking Blog

http://www.spankingblog.com/

Adult erotic spanking at its best - their content comes with awesome graphics & comics.

18

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38K

TRAFFIC


swinger lifestyle

Swinger Lifestyle

https://swingerlifestyle.com/

All the resources you can ever need to live the swinger lifestyle.

19

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34K

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love plugs

Love Plugs

https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/

A blog dedicated to everything butt plugs which serves as a great complement to their awesome products.

20

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31K

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kinklovers

KinkLovers

https://kinklovers.com/

Quality source of information and entertainment for anyone interested in fetish play, kink, and/or BDSM.

21

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28K

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ayzad

Ayzad

https://www.ayzad.com/

Known for exploring unusual sex, Ayzad brings a different perspective into the sex blog world.

22

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24K

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life on the swingset

Life on the Swingset

https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

A great starting point for those who want to experience the swingset lifestyle - this blog serves as a helpful resource.

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15K

TRAFFIC


polyland

Poly.Land

https://poly.land/

A polyamory blog for navigating life, relationships, and more.

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15K

TRAFFIC


stormy night publications

Stormy Night Publications

https://www.stormynightpublications.com/

Established by Korey Mae and James Johnson, Stormy Night Publications aims to provide a highly author-centric publisher for spanking and BDSM romance and erotica titles.

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15K

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rebels notes

Rebel's Notes

https://rebelsnotes.com/

A personal blog by Marie Rebelle on her experiences as a submissive & bisexual.

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12K

TRAFFIC


denying thumper

Denying Thumper

https://denyingthumper.com/

A couples journey into the addition of orgasm denial and enforced chastity in their marriage in hopes of helping other couples.

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10K

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kinky world

Kinky World

http://kinky-world.net/

Kinky World features honest sex toy reviews with great insights into what makes a great sex toy.

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10K

TRAFFIC


discerning specialist

Discerning Specialist

http://discerningspecialist.com/

This blog showcases BDSM gear reviews and articles for discerning specialists.

29

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10K

TRAFFIC


mx nillin

Mx Nillin

http://mxnillin.com/

Mx Nillin's sex blog is kink friendly and has exciting content especially for queer and trans folk.

30

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7K

TRAFFIC


submissive feminist

Submissive Feminist

https://www.submissivefeminist.com/

With a mission to "save the world one orgasm at a time", SubmissiveFeminist has grown into an active community of kink and sexuality.

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7K

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asi bdsm

ASI BDSM

http://asibdsm.com/

A BDSM & bondage blog that has insightful content and tutorials while giving importance to safety.

32

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6K

TRAFFIC


domme chronicles

Domme Chronicles

https://www.domme-chronicles.com/

Domme Chronicles features award winning content by a lifestyle Domme.

33

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6K

TRAFFIC


little switch bitch

Little Switch Bitch

https://littleswitchbitch.com/

Little Switch Bitch has plenty of content to satisfy your curious mind about BDSM, sex toys, lingerie, and more.

34

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6K

TRAFFIC


male chastity journal

Male Chastity Journal

https://malechastityjournal.com/

Writing about male chastity devices for over 15 years, you've come to the right place to learn male chastity.

35

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5K

TRAFFIC


the perverted negress

The Perverted Negress

http://www.mollena.com/

A respected & honoured voice in the community, The Perverted Negress is no stranger to kink, leather and BDSM.

36

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<5K

TRAFFIC


rain degrey

Rain DeGrey

https://www.raindegrey.com/

Teaching classes on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009, Rain DeGrey is a must follow in the industry.

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<5K

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aida manduley

Aida Manduley

http://aidamanduley.com/

Aida's blog touches on topics and issues about sexuality, sex tech, and social justice.

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<5K

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chronic sex

Chronic Sex

https://www.chronicsex.org/

A great perspective on how quality of life is affected by self-love, self-care, relationships, sexuality, and sex itself.

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<5K

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coffee and kink

Coffee & Kink

https://coffeeandkink.me/blog/

Fuelled by coffee and inappropriate thoughts, this blog explores all aspects of sexuality from a consent-focused, pleasure-centric point of view.

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<5K

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pegging paradise

Pegging Paradise

http://peggingparadise.com/

As you can tell by their name, Pegging Paradise is your one stop shop resource for all things pegging as well as some erotica.

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<5K

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dr vixenne

Dr. Vixenne

https://sexologistvixenne.com/

Dr. Vixenne puts special focus on making sure she presents accurate & comprehensive sex positive information to allow others to make informed decisions on their own lives.

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<5K

TRAFFIC


luna matatas

Luna Matatas

http://lunamatatas.com/blog/

A quirky & creative blog filled with crafty ideas, sexy insights and burlesque tips.

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<5K

TRAFFIC


flossdoeslife

FlossDoesLife

https://flossdoeslife.com/

What started as a blog about non-monogamy has blossomed into content about kink, fetish, BDSM, erotica and product reviews.

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<5K

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the black pomegranate

The Black Pomegranate

https://www.theblackpomegranate.com/

A blog dedicated to helping people have more satisfying (and kinky) relationships.

45

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<5K

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pain as pleasure

Pain As Pleasure

http://painaspleasure.com/

Enjoy personal stories of subbing and domming, erotic fiction and thoughtful pieces about the nature of kink.

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<5K

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off the cuffs

Off the Cuffs

https://www.offthecuffs.org/

Off the Cuffs is a kink & BDSM podcast + blog that offers exciting content hosted by Dick Wound and minimus maximus.

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<5K

TRAFFIC


kinky kink

Kinky Kink BDSM

https://kinkykink.com/

This blog features reviews of only the naughtiest and most outrageous sex objects and accessories from around the world. 

48

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<5K

TRAFFIC


submissy

Submissy

https://submissy.com/

Submissy lets you follow along the journey of a married submissive.

49

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<5K

TRAFFIC


dom sub living

Dom Sub Living

https://www.domsubliving.com/

Explore all that BDSM has to offer in this BDSM & Kink blog.

50

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<5K

TRAFFIC


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