TOP 50: Best Kinky & BDSM Blogs (2021)

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  1. the cuckold consultant

    The Cuckold Consultant

    https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/

    The Cuckold Consultant serves as an amazing resource for helping men make their cuckold or hot wife fantasy happen.

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    683.9K

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  2. love plugs

    Love Plugs

    https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/

    A blog dedicated to everything butt plugs which serves as a great complement to their awesome products.

    2+2

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    320.3K

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  3. TheDuchy-Circle-Logo-400x300

    The Duchy

    https://www.theduchy.com/

    The Duchy is filled with in-depth tutorials and discussions on rope bondage.

    3--

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    250.3K

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  4. the cage

    The Cage

    https://thecage.co/

    A great BDSM community to meet genuine like-minded kinky people.

    4-2

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    174.6K

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  5. bdsm cafe sex guides

    BDSM Cafe

    https://bdsmcafe.com/

    For people who like BDSM – stories, erotica, best porn movies, dom /sub guides, contracts.

    5+5

    Rank

    152.3K

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  6. Submissive Guide blog bdsm

    Submissive Guide

    https://www.submissiveguide.com/

    A community where you can learn the kinky BDSM exploration as a submissive and learn the right way to D/S relationships.

    6-1

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    144.3K

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  7. polyland

    Poly.Land

    https://poly.land/

    A polyamory blog for navigating life, relationships, and more.

    7+13

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    125.6K

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  8. dom sub living

    Dom Sub Living

    https://www.domsubliving.com/

    Explore all that BDSM has to offer in this BDSM & Kink blog.

    8-1

    Rank

    119.9K

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  9. My Femdom Rules

    My Femdom Rules

    https://myfemdomrules.com/

    A premier resource of content for your cuckold/female led relationship.

    9+9

    Rank

    118.1K

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  10. Lock the Cock

    Lock The Cock

    https://lockthecock.com/blogs/chastity-fun

    Coming from a team of male chastity enthusiasts you know their content is filled with insights and passion on all things chastity related.

    10-4

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    115K

    Traffic


  11. eros blog erotica sex ed

    Eros Blog

    http://www.erosblog.com/

    Eros is one of the first sex blogs ever (since 2002) having thought provoking pieces, erotica, nudity and kinky sex discussions.

    11-3

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    88K

    Traffic


  12. salty

    Salty

    https://saltyworld.net/

    Fighting for digital visibility for women, trans and non binary people – Salty is a newsletter and blog that offers more than the usual sexy stories.

    12+3

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    86.9K

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  13. male chastity lifestyle

    Male Chastity Lifestyle

    http://malechastitylifestyle.net/

    If you’re interested in learning about or getting into male chastity then this blog will serve you well.

    13+1

    Rank

    70.1K

    Traffic


  14. femdom resource erotica bdsm

    Femdom Resource

    http://www.femdom-resource.com/

    A site dedicated to female dominance in a form of erotica, kinky videos, photos & BDSM equipment.

    14-5

    Rank

    66.7K

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  15. bondage blog

    Bondage Blog

    http://www.bondageblog.com/

    Discover the collections of stories and pictures of restrained women for fun and BDSM inspiration.

    15-4

    Rank

    60.9K

    Traffic


  16. kinklovers

    KinkLovers

    https://kinklovers.com/

    Quality source of information and entertainment for anyone interested in fetish play, kink, and/or BDSM.

    16+7

    Rank

    59.7K

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  17. rewriting the rules

    Rewriting the Rules

    https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/

    More than just a sex blog, Rewriting the Rules also features books, resources, zines, and services of Dr. Meg-John Barker.

    17+7

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    56.8K

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  18. male chastity journal

    Male Chastity Journal

    https://malechastityjournal.com/

    Writing about male chastity devices for over 15 years, you’ve come to the right place to learn male chastity.

    18-4

    Rank

    53.7K

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  19. pegging paradise

    Pegging Paradise

    http://peggingparadise.com/

    As you can tell by their name, Pegging Paradise is your one stop shop resource for all things pegging as well as some erotica.

    19+6

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    48.4K

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  20. femdoming

    Femdoming

    http://femdoming.com/

    When it comes to the Femdom BDSM lifestyle, Femdoming is one of the best resources – they have tips, videos, interviews, and more.

    20-8

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    39.7K

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  21. domme chronicles

    Domme Chronicles

    https://www.domme-chronicles.com/

    Domme Chronicles features award winning content by a lifestyle Domme.

    21+12

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    38.5K

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  22. sugarbutch

    Sugarbutch

    http://www.sugarbutch.net/

    This site is perfect for those into kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica.

    22+5

    Rank

    33.1K

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  23. rebels notes

    Rebel’s Notes

    https://rebelsnotes.com/

    A personal blog by Marie Rebelle on her experiences as a submissive & bisexual.

    23+14

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    30.7K

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  24. ToyTorture

    ToyTorture

    https://www.toytorture.com/

    Great honest reviews and education content on BDSM sex toys.

    24+2

    Rank

    28.7K

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  25. Goddess Ezada Sinn

    Goddess Ezada Sinn

    http://mistressezada.com/

    Goddess Ezada Sinn is a leader in the FemDom world with plenty of content to offer those who relate with being a Female Supremacist.

    25-9

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    28.5K

    Traffic


  26. sunny megatron blog

    Sunny Megatron

    http://sunnymegatron.com/

    Sunny is a superstar in the world of kink, BDSM and sex tips. Check out her podcast and Youtube vlog.

    26-9

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    27.8K

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  27. spanking blog

    Spanking Blog

    http://www.spankingblog.com/

    Adult erotic spanking at its best – their content comes with awesome graphics & comics.

    27-6

    Rank

    25.8K

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  28. life on the swingset

    Life on the Swingset

    https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

    A great starting point for those who want to experience the swingset lifestyle – this blog serves as a helpful resource.

    28+14

    Rank

    22.3K

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  29. swinger lifestyle

    Swinger Lifestyle

    https://swingerlifestyle.com/

    All the resources you can ever need to live the swinger lifestyle.

    29+5

    Rank

    21.7K

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  30. asi bdsm

    ASI BDSM

    http://asibdsm.com/

    A BDSM & bondage blog that has insightful content and tutorials while giving importance to safety.

    30-11

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    20.5K

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  31. coffee and kink

    Coffee & Kink

    https://coffeeandkink.me/blog/

    Fuelled by coffee and inappropriate thoughts, this blog explores all aspects of sexuality from a consent-focused, pleasure-centric point of view.

    31+4

    Rank

    20.1K

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  32. kinky world

    Kinky World

    http://kinky-world.net/

    Kinky World features honest sex toy reviews with great insights into what makes a great sex toy.

    32+13

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    17.7K

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  33. submissive feminist

    Submissive Feminist

    https://www.submissivefeminist.com/

    With a mission to “save the world one orgasm at a time”, SubmissiveFeminist has grown into an active community of kink and sexuality.

    33-1

    Rank

    16.6K

    Traffic


  34. little switch bitch

    Little Switch Bitch

    https://littleswitchbitch.com/

    Little Switch Bitch has plenty of content to satisfy your curious mind about BDSM, sex toys, lingerie, and more.

    34-12

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    16.5K

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  35. rain degrey

    Rain DeGrey

    https://www.raindegrey.com/

    Teaching classes on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009, Rain DeGrey is a must follow in the industry. She also hosts the Dirty Talk Podcast & answers all your burning questions on the Dirty Talk Advice Column.

    35+6

    Rank

    14.4K

    Traffic


  36. kayla lords

    Kayla Lords

    https://kaylalords.com/

    Kayla writes about her journey into BDSM to teach others and learn from the community along the way.

    36-23

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    13.3K

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  37. mx nillin

    Mx Nillin

    http://mxnillin.com/

    Mx Nillin’s sex blog is kink friendly and has exciting content especially for queer and trans folk.

    37-7

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    12.9K

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  38. denying thumper

    Denying Thumper

    https://denyingthumper.com/

    A couples journey into the addition of orgasm denial and enforced chastity in their marriage in hopes of helping other couples.

    38-10

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    10.4K

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  39. discerning specialist

    Discerning Specialist

    http://discerningspecialist.com/

    This blog showcases BDSM gear reviews and articles for discerning specialists.

    39-3

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    9.9K

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  40. stormy night publications

    Stormy Night Publications

    https://www.stormynightpublications.com/

    Established by Korey Mae and James Johnson, Stormy Night Publications aims to provide a highly author-centric publisher for spanking and BDSM romance and erotica titles.

    40-11

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    9.2K

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  41. submissy

    Submissy

    https://submissy.com/

    Submissy lets you follow along the journey of a married submissive.

    41-3

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    6.9K

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  42. kinky kink

    Kinky Kink BDSM

    https://kinkykink.com/

    This blog features reviews of only the naughtiest and most outrageous sex objects and accessories from around the world.

    42-2

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    6.1K

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  43. femdomocracy

    Femdomocracy

    https://www.femdomocracy.com/

    A blog that advocates female supremacy and superiority through art & prose.

    43-4

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    <5K

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  44. ayzad

    Ayzad

    https://www.ayzad.com/

    Known for exploring unusual sex, Ayzad brings a different perspective into the sex blog world.

    44-1

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    <5K

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  45. luna matatas

    Luna Matatas

    http://lunamatatas.com/blog/

    A quirky & creative blog filled with crafty ideas, sexy insights and burlesque tips.

    45-1

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    <5K

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  46. pain as pleasure

    Pain As Pleasure

    http://painaspleasure.com/

    Enjoy personal stories of subbing and domming, erotic fiction and thoughtful pieces about the nature of kink.

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    <5K

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  47. the perverted negress

    The Perverted Negress

    http://www.mollena.com/

    A respected & honoured voice in the community, The Perverted Negress is no stranger to kink, leather and BDSM.

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    <5K

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  48. aida manduley

    Aida Manduley

    http://aidamanduley.com/

    Aida’s blog touches on topics and issues about sexuality, sex tech, and social justice.

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    <5K

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  49. dr vixenne

    Dr. Vixenne

    https://sexologistvixenne.com/

    Dr. Vixenne puts special focus on making sure she presents accurate & comprehensive sex positive information to allow others to make informed decisions on their own lives.

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    <5K

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  50. off the cuffs

    Off the Cuffs

    https://www.offthecuffs.org/

    Off the Cuffs is a kink & BDSM podcast + blog that offers exciting content hosted by Dick Wound and minimus maximus.

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    <5K

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