Want Oral Worship? Queening Chair Is For You! [2023]

Good news, ladies – if you’ve ever wanted to feel like a true queen during sex, now you can. With this awesome device called Queening Chair, you can make oral sex so much more sexy, pleasurable, and last longer. What can be better than that?

What is A Queening Chair?

Before we talk about this device, let me explain what it is to you a bit better. 

A queening chair or queening stool is a low chair or a seat, with a hole that you can put over someone’s face to stimulate your vagina or anus. 

There are different types of queening chairs, but most of them have a U-shape seat, where you have a space to sit down, put your vagina and anus in the empty area where your partner can reach it, and pleasure you while you’re on the queening stool.

Now, there is also a different type of version of a queening chair, called smotherbox, which is a box that has a hole and can lock a person inside the box while they perform the oral stimulation for a person sitting on top of the box.

This version is surely not for the faint of heart, but it can still be as fun as the queening chair. 

The History of Facesitting Play

Now, while the queening chair is more of a new concept in the sex realm, the act of facesitting or queening has been around since the 1800s.

Back then, upper-class women used it to receive pleasure without the risk of getting pregnant. 

Funny fact: In 2014, the British government banned porn and sexual acts like queening, fisting, and strangulation to protect women from sexual acts that could be harmful, and it did cause a lot of ruckus and protests in the country. 

Why Use a Facesitting Chair?

You might wonder why you would need a queening chair when your partner can simply pleasure you while you’re lying on your back.

Well, there are many reasons why getting a queening chair can be a great way to spice up your sex life. 

Let’s look at some of those reasons:

#1 – It’s practical & comfortable

Yes, receiving oral sex while lying on your back is very lazy and pleasurable, but sometimes you want to switch things up by getting on your partners face. 

But it can be exhausting and tricky and cause muscle cramps just when you’re about to cum, so using the queening chair can be an excellent way to make it more fun and comfortable. 

Imagine how good it would feel, receiving oral sex while comfortably lounging on your queening chair. 

#2 – It lets you focus on the clit

Using the queening chair during sex gives you a lot of power and control of your positions and where you want to be stimulated the most. 

You can adjust your positions and relax your pelvic muscles, which exposes your labia minora and gives your partner more access to your vagina.

That’s a definite win-win situation, don’t you think?

#3 – It’s great for domination & BDSM play

Using a queening chair can full-fill your fantasy of being in control. It’s a great way to indulge in your desire to dominate your partner, and it’s fun for both you and your partner. 

If you’re into more heavy BDSM play, there are queening chairs with straps and bondages that you can buy to spice things up.

Tie your eyes or your partner’s eyes, or hands, use bondage ropes to tie them so they couldn’t escape. There are many ways to indulge in fantasy. 

#4 – It’s great to satisfy the humiliation kink

All types of harmless sex kinks are good and dandy, and I know many people find it a turn on to be humiliated during play. 

Queening stool can come in very handy when indulging in this type of play.

Whether you choose to verbally humiliate your partner or get them to dress humiliating while performing oral sex on you, all work great with the chair as long as you and your partner consent to the practice. 

As you can see, queening chair can enhance your sex life quite a bit, and it’s a very versatile device to have in your sex-toy collection. 

Where Do I Get One?

If you’re sold on the chair, you’re probably wondering where you can get one, right?

It’s not that type of furniture piece you can get in your local Wayfair or West Elms store (sadly, how convenient would that be?!).

There are plenty of websites online where you can find the best sex furniture, but here are a few of my favorite recommendations:

Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer

  • This chair is my #1 recommendation for you as it’s very versatile, simple, and relatively cheap. Its got a simple design, is made of sturdy materials, and would be an excellent option for those of you who want to try queening or simply don’t have a dedicated sex room in your house. Update: Or check the SpectrumBoutique item if that one is out of stock.

Fetish Fantasy Extreme Sex Stool

  • Another place where you can find great queening chair options is Etsy. Many sellers are selling handmade versions so you can pick and choose what style you like the most. Of course, it comes at a higher price range, so it’s more of a long term investment in a piece that will serve you for years to come. My favorite model is this one
  • And my last recommendation would be this shop that has plenty of different queening stools to choose from. They are more on the expensive side as well, but if you’re looking for something that’s going to last you many years to come, it might be worth checking out. 

How To Use A Queening Seat?

Listen, queening chairs might look intimidating for those of you who are new to this, but it’s not as hard to use as it might look at first. 

It’s always best to find a comfortable, stable place to get yourself situated, I think on the floor, with the rug or a towel under might be best.

You want to make sure that you’re comfortable and stable on the chair, and your partner is lying comfortably. 

Let your partner lay down on the carpet or the towel you put on the floor and put the stool over their face.

Find a comfortable position to sit on the queening chair and make sure that your partner is comfortable to please you until you’re done. 

You see, it’s a straightforward process and doesn’t require any preparations.

Of course, if you’re into BDSM or something like that, you can always put ropes around your partner or dress them or yourself in sexy clothes to create that atmosphere, it all depends on your sexual desires.

Can I Make My Own Queening Chair?

Now, let’s talk about the DIY queening chair. We have quite a few tutorials on SexualAlpha, showing you how you can DIY various sex machines and devices, and queening chair is one of those you can build yourself.

If you look at Google, you can find some great tutorials teaching you how to make your own queening chair. I found great advice on DIY queening chairs on Reddit that I want to share with you:

“Diy is a lot bravery and willingness to fuck up. Just go for it.

Get a wooden chair and remove everything that isn’t the seat. Replace legs with pieces of 2×8 or whatever nice thick wood they have at your hardware store ( they can cut it for you). While at the hardware store purchase foam to make the chair cushy. Jig saw out the area you would like gone for queening from the seat. Attach chair seat ( now a loop) to ‘legs’ made out of 2×8, leave a lip on the outside. Cut foam to correct size for seat. Use fabric, something thick maybe canvas to cover the seat and foam with fabric and staple it to the underside of the lip. Stool done.

Neck piece- I would put pieces of foam together in the shape you want. Wrap it in gaff tape.

There are bunches of ways to make what you want. Make a design that works with your skill level and tools you have available and go for it.”


Reddit user

“No progress pics, but here’s how it came to be: We had been talking about making or using a queening chair for a few months when to our good fortune the chair used for this project appeared before us on our evening bike ride, being placed curbside in our neighborhood with the rubbish. We took the chair home and this is mostly what we did with it:

(1) Cut six inches off of each leg. The height was set so she would be comfortable straddling, or standing over, the chair.
(2) The back two legs were connected to each other at the base with some lightweight scrap angle iron.
(3) The original seat cushion was removed
(4) A scrap RV toilet seat was covered with pink fur.
(5) the Pink seat was secured to the chair.
(6) The angle iron at the rear base was connected to scrap plywood with hinges so it would tip back, as shown in the photo.
(7) Two D rings were bolted to the base near the front legs so when the chair folds down it can be secured as a restraint.
(8) Velcro handcuffs were added to each side for use as desired.

She loves it. ❤️


Reddit user

Sure, you do need a little bit of handiness skill to craft a queening stool, but really, it doesn’t have to be very complex or challenging to make a good queening chair. 

Of course, your homemade queening chair might not look as good as the ones made professionally, but it’s not about looks here, it’s all about the pleasure.


As you can see, the queening chair is quite a device to have if you want to spice up your sex life.

The great news is that it doesn’t have to be expensive or difficult, and you can even attempt to DIY if you have the will.

If you’ve been wondering whether it’s worth your time and money, I encourage you to go for it and try it for yourself, it might surprise how much you enjoy being in control.

Dainis Graveris

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