How To Make A Girl Horny & Wanting More: Top 3 Pro Tips

Making a girl sexually aroused doesn’t just start inside the bedroom. If you want to know ALL the details on how to make a girl horny, read on:

Making your woman want to moan for ULTIMATE PLEASURE is easy!

You just need to know how to HIT her right spots.

Lucky for you, this guide is here to teach you all the tricks you need to make any woman’s sexual drive go crazy.

But before all that, let’s start with the basics. Shall we?

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The Basics of Making Her Horny

There are three areas you should focus on if you want to make her ravage you (in a good way):

Make your woman feel sexy. Let her feel her oats. Tell her that you want her. Doing so would have her go down on her knees in an instant.
Build up sexual tension. It’s sometimes good not to immediately dive into it. Do a little teasing. Orgasms can be very incredible with some sexual frustration all pent up.
FOREPLAY. Foreplay. And more foreplay. Might we say more?

Of course, there’s a bit more explaining to be done. But these three should give you an idea of what you should focus on behind closed doors.

Sexual Brakes

What are brakes?

Well, to put it simply, they are the things that hold back your girl’s sex drive. Some examples include:

Stress
Guilt
Anxiety
Shame
Feeling Unworthy
Drugs
Health-Related Problems

Brakes could come from either mental, emotional, or physical places. It just depends on the person. So, partners should be sensitive when it comes to handling such drawbacks.

Know where it comes from first. Then, move on with finding ways to solve it.

NOW, DID YOU KNOW?

Men tend to ignore these sexual brakes. As a result, it seems less of a priority in the relationship. But, that should not be the case.

She’s just as much as worth as you are. So, make her feel the best you can.

Sexual Accelerators

Once you finish removing her brakes, the next step is to focus on her sexual accelerators.

What are these? You ask. Well, these are a lot of things.

Anything that can increase her sexual appetite can be called an accelerator.

But keep in mind, the things that work on you typically don’t work for them. Men and women get turned on differently. Women need to feel a certain way first.

So don’t panic. Here is a breakdown of the top 3 tips that even pros use to make their girl wet and wanting.

Pro Tip No. 1: Make Your Woman Feel Sexy in Bed

One of the best ways to make her horny is to have her feel desired. It may not mean as much to guys, but girls are all for being the seductive one in bed.

Making a woman feel sexy is like putting a spell on them.

First, it’ll make them go RED. It’ll CONSUME them. But, there are things to watch out for as well.

That’s why you need to do this right the first time. Because this way, you won’t need to use any other tools under your belt.

Having said that, what makes your woman feel desired?

Flattery Can Get You Far

Making your girl feel flattered can be both good and bad.

If you’re not being genuine, then it comes across as fake. As a result, things could backfire and even ruin the moment.

But on another note.

If you’re sincere about it, then it comes across as effective. You could even say that it’s powerful. So, show those deep feelings.

Make her feel DESIRED. Make her feel ATTRACTIVE.

But, this leaves you with one question. How do you effectively flatter your girl?

An easy way is to give her compliments.

Examples include:

Telling her that she looks good after seeing her put an outfit on. Doing so would be just as effective if you know there’s a lot of effort involved in that one look alone.
Telling her the results of her workout are great.
Telling her the way she works hard on the job is sexy.
Telling her how great of a parent she is.

Flattering her in front of loved ones could also give better results:

Send her a gift or bouquet to her workplace. Doing this on birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays would work great. But you could send it on non-special days as well.
Let her know that you’re thinking about her. Having done so will pique the curiosity of her co-workers. It could even go as far as to make them jealous.

Do some casual compliments here and there. For example, if you’re chatting up with a close group of friends, tell your girl you appreciate her. Doing this might come out of left-field, but it shows sincerity in your actions.

KEEP IN MIND: You must hold off on flattering her if she’s NOT A FAN of your affectionate displays.

Go for smaller yet meaningful gestures instead:

Ask her where her favorite restaurant is
Tell her how she is this much fun to be around with
Ask her what kind of gifts or surprises she likes

Just don’t overdo it. Flattery can only get you as far. So, too much of it may only give you the opposite results that you wanted.

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Show Some Appreciation

You can show genuine appreciation in so many ways.

Even her doing the little things count. So, make sure you have her feeling appreciated at the end of the day.

If she does the laundry, then tell her that you’re grateful. If she makes you a meal, then tell her it looks good. Tell her that you’re lucky to have her by your side.

You could even send her a text at work to show a bit of appreciation.

Though, it’d be better to repay her the favor at this point.

Learn To Be Thoughtful

Getting yourself to be thoughtful toward her can be done in subtle ways.

Having done so would not only make them want you more; it would also remove your woman’s sexual brakes. It all comes to making their lives a tad bit easier to handle.

Some things you could do include:

Doing some cleaning when your girl gets stressed out
Taking part of her weekly chores to get more free time with her
Taking care of the kids while you have her unwind
Doing the cooking and washing of dishes
And so much more

Being thoughtful is just you saying that she MEANS a lot to you. So, get that ass of yours to work! Show them that you do have the best intentions.

Making Her Feel Special

Every woman likes to have their princess moment. Even just for one night.

Though, this is less about shaking the hands of A-listers. Or even those strangers at public gatherings. It’s more about them feeling special.

It’s a good thing you don’t need to buy her all the fancy stuff to make it work. Sometimes, all it needs is to have your small gestures do all the talking.

If you don’t know how, here are a few tricks you could try out:

Bring her little gifts. Maybe bring her some of her favorite wine or ice cream.

Surprise your girl with flowers.

Send her a text telling her that you’re thinking about her when she’s away.
A surprise message at work could also give her some motivation.
Plan out a weekend getaway with her.
How about you get reservations at a fancy club instead?
How about a restaurant?

Whatever you do, just make sure she feels like she’s royalty.

It will make you stand out from the other men in her life. And she would also be down bad for you on a deeper level.

Working On Yourself

Making her feel good does make her horny. But that’s not the only thing you should work on in the relationship.

Check yourself first!

Are you a slob? Do you smell bad? Do you dress nicely?

These are a few questions you should ask to know what makes her tick.

If you work on yourself, then make sure she appreciates it. You don’t need a physique built like the gods. You don’t even need the latest fashion and accessories.

It’s all about making sure you look as presentable and put together.

Have things in moderation. Just put in some extra effort if you feel like something is lacking. Be smart about it.

If they have a preference, then maybe put all your energy into achieving that. Physical appearances that may increase a woman’s sexual drive could include:

Having a six-pack
Their partner wearing a suit
The style of their man’s hair
Smelling their cologne
Having facial hair or a beard

You only need to know what it is. And then BOOM! You’re good to go!

Just remember. Don’t make such a big fuss about achieving the appearances they prefer. That could do the opposite effect of what you’re trying to accomplish.

Instead, treat it as if it’s no big deal to you. That’ll increase your sex appeal.

Of course, it’s not all about physical appearances as well. There are also other parts of your life to put some focus on.

It could be your other relationships. Your career. Or even your future.

Sorting this all out would make any woman swoon. But, these tend to be for long-term plans.

LET’S FOCUS ON THE NOW.

So, back to working on the things that you could change short-term.

Yes, you made her feel desired. Yes, you made her feel special. But is all that enough?

The short answer: NO.

There is something else you should do. And that is to let her know that you physically want her.

The Power Of Touch

Not touching your partner can make her forget that you desire her. But how can you make it romantic?

Well, here are a few ideas:

You can put your arm around her shoulders when sitting beside one another.
While on a walk, you can put your hand on her lower back. Doing so makes it easier for you to guide her on busy sidewalks and get off escalators.

If you’re chilling on the sofa, then pull her close in. Have her head rest on your lap.
You could even rest your hand on the inside of her leg while watching TV.
Hug her from behind when she’s standing in front of you. You could do this around the house or even in public.

Playfully spank her when joking around.
Grab the waist and pull her towards you. Once you catch her by surprise, playfully push her away.

As you get used to touching her while showing your intent and desire, it will be natural for you to do it in many ways.

Though there’s no point in limiting your touch just for sex. You can do it any other time when you feel affectionate. It doesn’t always need for you to end up in bed together.

A woman does not want to feel like an object. Instead, they want to feel like someone who is desired and loved. Although, it’s a whole different story if you’re there with someone for casual meet-ups only.

Eye Contact

Locking your eyes with one another makes you know that you both desire each other.

But, how can you make eye contact the right way? Can you do too much? Can you do too little?

Are you being weird? Are you sexy enough? When should you look away?

There are so many things that can come across in your mind.

But you only need to remember one thing. You two should be comfortable when seeing eye to eye.

Voila! That’s it. Case closed, ladies and gentlemen!

The secret is not that hard. As long as you two are comfortable, then everything is set.

You could focus on stimulating other areas if you start to feel awkward. For example, only make eye contact as much as you like with her permission.

If it gets uncomfortable, reel it in. Do less.

Otherwise, staring at each other’s eyes can be done for hours.

Now, this is not the end. You want to move on to the next best thing you can do.

And what’s that? You ask. Tension.

Specifically, the power of SEEEEXUAL TENSION.

Pro Tip No. 2: Building Up Sexual Tension

Doing this right can make a girl’s sex drive go on steroids. It’ll make her do things that could catch you off guard. They’ll surprise you for better or worse.

So, get your pumps ready and learn the ways of the sexual tension master.

But first, let’s define what this is…

Sexual tension is that deep feeling of wanting to rip each other’s clothes off.

Though, for some reason, you just can’t. Examples:

Maybe you two are co-workers. You have been flirting for months. But due to policies, you can’t have a relationship without taking the risk of getting fired.
It could also be a form of forbidden love. Maybe you’re a student, and the teacher seems to be paying more attention to you. Then, you start to notice her making glances at you in class. You can tell she wants you. That would end badly. So, you could do nothing about it.
Maybe you’re at an office party. You get a little drunk. But you need to talk to your peers before heading home to have sex.

I think you get the idea already.

So, how do you build the tension up in the first place?

Here are a few things you can do:

1. Do A Little Teasing

Teasing your girl can be fun. Maybe you could treat her like a submissive brat. Or scolding her could do the trick.

Whatever it is, keeping your teases light-hearted can keep her on her toes.

Some quotes you could use include saying:

“Are you normally this forward?”
“My mother warned me about bad girls like you.”
“Don’t dress like that! I can’t take my eyes off of you.”
“I don’t usually like this behavior. But because you’re cute, I’ll give you a pass this time.”

Take note, gentlemen! Don’t do any of these quotes if your expression is serious. That’ll come across as stiff and angry.

Instead, make it cheeky. Use a playful tone.

The key to success is letting them know you’re teasing them. So, play around with it. Let your freak flag fly.

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2. Use Sexual Innuendos

Sexual innuendos are perfect for building up some sexual tension with your woman. But it takes subtle steps to achieve.

You’d just turn her off if you keep piling her up with one innuendo unto the next. So, keep it at bay.

Keep in mind: not every girl enjoys these types of things. Some even hate it. So if they’re not into it, then stop. Drop the whole act.

You could put your effort into other techniques that can make her feel hot and bothered.

3. Build Up That Anticipation

Sexual tension cannot be complete without the build-up of anticipation.

Almost all relationships start with a bit of anticipation. You may not know each other yet. You don’t know when you’re next date is going to be. And you may even wonder how the sex might feel.

If all of these things are in your head, don’t worry. These are normal.

Some people relate anticipation with anxiety. And who could blame them? Any feeling that gets you nervous can sure make anyone anxious. Right?

Naturally, that sense of anticipation in the relationship won’t last. It will slowly disappear with time. You’d be smooth sailing till then once you know what the other person likes.

Yes, lack of anticipation can make a couple’s relationship more routine. But it could be a boon for building up sexual tension.

If you want things exciting again, then have those anxious feelings back. Recover that sense of nervousness. Be spontaneous!

How?

Well, here are some examples:

Telling her: If you’re somewhere public or even at a party, tell her what you would do to her if other people weren’t there. Make her feel like you’re in heat. That would turn up her mood in an instant.
Texts: Do a little tease. Text your girl before you see her. Give out some hints on what you would do to her once you see each other. You could kiss her. Maybe have sex.
Maybe even cook for her. But, whatever it may be, let her be on edge. There’s a reason why this technique is popular among the ladies.

Dirty whispers: When you are saying goodbye, maybe whisper something suggestive. Maybe say something along the lines of:

I’ll be thinking about you all day long
I can’t wait to see your beautiful face tonight

Leaving notes: Tell her your plans once you’re together if you know you’ll be out of town for a while. That’ll leave her waiting. She’ll look forward to it. Just put the note on a spot that she could easily see or find. Put it on her pillow. Or maybe on the steering wheel of her car. It’s up to you.

Of course, what works for both of you may not work for others. So, there’s no formula for getting things right the first time. It all just depends.

If leaving notes works, then go for it. If you’re being more direct, then why not keep at it.

Again, it’s all trial and error. So, have a little fun.

With that said, let us cover the final PRO tip to make your girl horny. And that’s finding her kryptonite!

Pro Tip No. 3: Foreplay Is All You Need

Foreplay always starts with something that can turn her on.

What is your woman’s weakness? Her kryptonite?

Every woman has a trigger that can make them go wild with desire and lust.

Is it something interesting? Is it cliche? Or is it something bizarre?

Well, she doesn’t need to be embarrassed about it. It could again be one of these things:

Having a six-pack
Their partner wearing a suit
The style of their man’s hair
Smelling their cologne
Having facial hair or a beard

But there are so many other things that can help make a woman feel pent up. Here are some common ones listed below:

Guys with tattoos or piercings
Guys with long hair
A glass of wine
Guys with slight bellies
Guys with lots of body hair
Guys with no body hair
A joint if she smokes weed
Guys who are good with kids
Seeing tight pants or shirts on men
Hearing a foreign accent
Reading erotic novels
Watching porn
Dancing
Seeing her man get jealous and overprotective
Men who organize entire days for them
Being somewhere new or excluded
Passionate men
Candles
Certain beats or songs
Receiving a massage
Being kissed a certain way
Watching horror movies
Seeing her man being dominant and aggressive in bed
Watching movies with sensual content
Masturbating
Or maybe even a sex tape

The list could go on and on.

What’s important is that you know what your girl likes.

You don’t have to go overboard either by forcing yourself to get a piercing. Instead, do something that you want to do as well.

As long as she gets TURNED ON, then you’re all good.

Keeping It New And Fresh

There you have it.

You have all the tricks you need to make your woman swoon and pine for you. But doing the same thing over and over again can get tiring.

So, make sure to do a few surprises here and there. Don’t just stick to the same three to four techniques.

Keep her at the edge of her seat. Doing something unexpected can make any day-to-day life just as exciting.

Learn to experiment. Take risks.

It wouldn’t hurt to try things out just once.

Some FAQs

Do All People Have Sexual Brakes and Accelerators?

To a degree, almost every individual has their sexual brakes and accelerators.

Men’s accelerators tend to be MORE SENSITIVE than those of women. As a result, guys get turned on easily.

But, that’s not always the case.

There have been instances wherein men have less sensitive accelerators. But in turn, their brakes become sensitive. So, it depends from person to person.

Here’s a breakdown of the four different combinations to serve as your guide:

Individuals who have sensitive accelerators and sensitive brakes
Individuals who have sensitive accelerators but less non-sensitive brakes
Individuals who have less sensitive accelerators but sensitive brakes
Individuals who have less sensitive accelerators and less sensitive brakes

Every person can have any of these combinations in them. But typically, women are more likely to have sensitive brakes while men have the opposite.

Having the right balance makes it easier to get turned on. At the same time, people would make smarter decisions. Luckily though, the majority are average with handling both.

She’s Not Turned On. So What Am I Doing Wrong?

First of all, don’t immediately blame yourself. Instead, get to the bottom of it.

One reason could come from your partner’s sexual brakes being super sensitive. Maybe you haven’t done the right thing to remove them.

Another could be that she only knows how to keep her accelerators going. In turn, releasing her brakes was never an option.

If that’s the situation, then what should you do?

Well, here are two examples of solo activities to keep her at ease:

Have her take a shower
Have her read erotic fiction

Now, you could also do these things with her if she likes.

If she likes the shower, then go in with her. Your touch could relieve her stress. And eventually, it may lead to shower sex.

If the other option is more to her liking, take turns reading the erotica with her. It’d be a new experience. But if it works, then giving it a try shouldn’t hurt.

You can have a sit-down conversation with your partner if she still doesn’t know what turns her on or off.

Don’t be afraid to open up that conversation. It will only bring good to your sex life in the future.

If all else fails, then evaluate your relationship with her. There could be some issues lurking around. So get her to talk.

No relationship is ever perfect. But know if there are struggles, then there is negativity as well. So better keep that in mind.

Is It Normal For Girls to Get Horny ONLY After Getting Started?

Are there times when your woman is just not into it?

So, you tease her a little bit. Kiss her in certain spots. Maybe even go down on her. But still nothing.

Then, you decide to masturbate by yourself.

But suddenly, she gets turned on out of nowhere. What’s with that?

If you’re still confused, rest assured these are normal. It’s only a reminder that you should NEVER skip foreplay in bed.

Everyone is not the same. Some girls need a little warmup to get things moving along.

So do some stimulating!

Remember, there are three secret techniques to make her orgasm with foreplay. These are:

Oral sex
French kissing
And fingering

Doing any one of these would for sure have her MOANING until tomorrow.

Final Thoughts

Those are all the PRO tips you need to know to make women crazy horny.

So quit wasting time and make your move! You’d want to get ahead of the pack, right?

Then, better start making your girl FEEL SPECIAL.