How To Do Double Penetration Sex Safely & Like A PRO

How to do double penetration has two essential key factors: willingness and comfort. That is again closely followed by choosing the most convenient position for everybody in the circle.

For the perfect experience, consider using safewords and other sex toys to enhance pleasure.

To my esteemed hedonists…

The fact that you’re here means that you’ve already thought about double penetration sex. And my wild guess is that you’re in need of a pro’s input, mostly on the best double penetration positions.

Am proud of you…

As I said about how DP feels like, it’s a great way of opening up to deeper fantasies for you and your partner. You may end up helping each other discover your hidden pleasures and improve your sex life in the long run.

On top of it, DP is a great way of spicing up your kink every once in a while. It’ll give you the most intense full-feeling (for women) and heated thrusting (for men) experience of your lives.

“Take it slow. Pause once you’re both fully in before you know it, she’ll be pushing back and fucking like she can’t get enough.

Trust me, she’ll enjoy it and want more!”

Confusedstateofmind

Reddit user

And the bottom line is that it’s safe, provided you use the right amount of lube and a comfortable position for everyone.

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How To Prepare For DP Experience?

Preparation is very vital in every aspect of our lives. This is also true when you’re planning to have a successful DP sex with your partner(s). If you get it right, you will enjoy it every time, and a beginner may warm up to the idea.

Before taking any gears out, it can do you great good if you discuss what the rules of engagement are (if any).

Also, you could air out concerns, any health issues, and consent to ensure that nothing stops that rain once it leaves the station.

So, what do you need in preparation for a DP experience?

Get The Right Toys and Lube

This is important if you’re a beginner. Instead of a 3rd person, you can start the journey by first exploring with the help of a suitable toy. This is workable when you already have a partner or are just by yourself.

To get one, check out these best double penetration toys. There is a variety of them depending on what you’re after.

Spareparts Deuce

This Spareparts Deuce male harness is designed for lots of foreplay and is equipped with an O-ring, so you can use the harness with various dildos. The second ring can also act as a cockring, perfect for double penetration.

Its design has a belt strap, which makes removing and inserting dildos super easy. If you’re interested in looking at other strap-on harnesses, we have our best picks here.

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For instance, there are harnesses with two holes, dildos worn over penises, and double dildos. These are all great whether you’re alone or with some company.

Lifelike Lover Double Penetrator

This realistic double penetrator is a suction cup dildo, making it great for solo play. It has a 5-inch and 6-inch size on both dildos. You can also use it with strap-on harnesses for partner play.

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Worth mentioning also is that you have to get the right amount of lube into those orifices.

Sliquid H2O

A lube like the Sliquid H20 lube is excellent for use with DP toys and foreplay since it is water-based, meaning you can stay free of irritation and use it with any sex toy.

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The action here is pretty intense, and always topping up lube could help prevent injury and displeasure.

Get A Willing And Trustworthy 3rd Person

This is if you want to have a three-way party. Ensuring that the extra partner is comfortable and willing to participate in DP is essential.

Aside from that, it’s also good that you do due diligence in ensuring they have a clean medical record to avoid contracting or worsening their condition.

Communicate

Communication clears a lot of tension here. It is best if you converse and find out each other’s concerns or kinks. This helps everyone know how to conduct themselves.

Even better, you could formulate safewords that you may use during the experience to bail one out, just in case.

How To do Double Penetration for A Girl: Tips And Tricks

Getting right into it, there are mainly 2 ways to go about it:

#1 With A Toy

This primarily applies when you are alone and use a double penetrating toy. It’s also handy with a partner, as you can each control your thrusts however you wish.

Using a toy is a great way to begin your DP experience before moving on to two actual dicks.

#2 With A 3rd Partner

DP with a third partner can go either of these 2 ways:

MMF/MFM

This implies a Male, Male, Female or Male, Female, Male arrangement.

MFF/FMF

This simply means 1 Man and 2 Women (one with a strapon).

Tips:

1. Before trying any of the above out, first, you must prime the girl into the mood before stuffing her up. It is VERY important that you first initiate some good foreplay to get her and everyone else into the right space.
2. Make sure you get your hands on a steady supply of lube for the occasion. DP involves a lot of friction which results in rubbing off great amounts of lube from your penises. Apply it generously throughout the session, and you’ll have smoother sailings 🙂
3. DON’T switch toys or penises between the 2 orifices without first cleaning them. This is because both openings have different bacteria that could breed infections when mixed up.
4. Use a toy with a flared base for your butt to prevent yourself from losing grip and slipping it whole in.
5. You can always use butt plugs to warm the anal muscles. This will help them relax and allow easier penetration.

Lovense Hush 2

The Lovense Hush butt plug has a waterproof design and several different vibration levels to play with. This butt plug is perfect for warming up and can also be controlled via a remote app.

We have a more in-depth review of this vibrating butt plug here.

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Best Double Penetration Positions

Before we get to the best double penetration positions, I must first lay some base knowledge.

To begin with, there are quite a lot of styles you could use to position yourselves during a double penetration rumble. And this applies to both a two-way and a three-way party.

What we need to pay the most attention to is making sure that we get the right method that makes it fun for everyone. I cannot stress this enough, especially when there’s someone amongst you who is a first-timer.

It’s important that you get sensitive to each other’s comfort. This will ensure that all of you are in sync, and you will harness more pleasure than pain from the whole experience. You could try some best anal positions to get started with first.

And as always… Don’t get shy about applying that lube all over yourselves. We don’t want to get stuck in a rut now, do we?

Now, to hit the nail on the head… What are the best DP positions that you could try?

Check out the 5 best positions that I unearthed from my research:

#1 Cowgirl

This is amongst the most loved positions that go with double penetration. If you’ve had previous experience with this kinda ride, then there’s nothing too new with DP, either.

To ace this style:

The receiver lies down on one giver with their chest touching each other. The other giver then comes up on the rear and parts the receiver’s butt cheeks before sliding a penis/dildo in. The laid-down giver then inserts another penis/dildo in the front door, and it’s ‘party on’ onwards!

The best thing about this is that it’s friendly to beginners and gives a great thrusting rush for experts.

#2 Reverse Cowgirl

This is pretty much like the normal Cowgirl, except we’re doing a bit of reverse positioning to the receiver.

This time, the receiver lies on one giver with her back on their chest. The giver then slides their peen or dildo into her through the back door. The other giver then comes in front, facing her chest, and slides their peen into her cooch.

This is a pretty rad position and can serve DP for long periods because of the body alignment that allows easy movement, and it’s one of the best anal positions. And what’s more… It works just as well for beginners, too!

#3 DP Doggy

Getting into Doggy during double penetration is one of the more tactical positions to hack. When done right, it will reward everyone with sensual body contact plus intense and arousing views.

To get into it:

First, the receiver will have to go down on all fours. Then afterward, the giver who’s going in her tank will have to do a ‘crouching tiger position on top of her and gently drive his stick/dildo into her ass. To close the deal, the other giver comes in from her behind and sticks his dick/dildo into her vag.

Simply put, the DP Doggy is a great banging position. And more truly, for guys who are bi-sexual, as they get to enjoy the rear views of two lovers in the same stance.

#4 Missionary DP

This adds a level or two to the intensity level you’ll all get during DP. The receiver still lies on her back and gets jammed upfront.

The receiver lies on their back with her legs spread apart. Then one giver assumes the ‘crouching tiger’ stance on top of her and drives his shaft/dildo into her cooch. The other giver comes in behind the first one and slides their dick/dildo into her tank.

This is a more luxurious position for the receiving partner. As your back provides support, your hands are left free, and you can explore your partners’ bodies as you please. Even better, you can use your free hands to rub your and give yourself a hard orgasm.

#5 Standing DP

Well, this keeps getting better, doesn’t it? Yes, you can also throw in a second dong behind her using the Standing position.

To do this:

One giver stands in front of the receiver (also standing), chests facing each other, and drives his dick in her vagina. The other giver comes from behind her butt and sticks his dick in her ass. Both givers can spread her legs and lift her holding her thighs and butt to adjust the thrusting.

The icing here is that the receiver gets to enjoy suspension in between the two guys. This leaves a lot of room for kissing, caressing, and tit-sucking.

Well, moving on…

As you’ve seen from the 5DP positions I’ve highlighted, most of the positions are already familiar to us. What counts is that you improvise or pick something that is comfortable for everyone involved.

And after there on… It’ll be happy jamming for you all the way to orgasm 🙂

Other People’s Tips & Experiences

Check out what other people think about hacking double penetration from the Red Light District of Reddit:

“My boyfriend and the other guy were quite dominant in their manner with me (which I am very much into). And moved my body around deciding how they wanted me to pleasure them.

The easiest approach was one of them lying on his back, and my being lowered on to him so he could penetrate me anally, as I find that sort of sex more difficult.

Once that was OK, my boyfriend was standing at the end of the bed and penetrated me from the front. Their hands, on either side, moved my hips the way they wanted (and felt extremely good for me, between the strokes of them inside of me, and being man-handled).

When they were both sitting up, in front and behind me, you couldn’t get as many deep, fast thrusting motions, but that seemed to be more about taking it slow, soaking up the awareness of what was really happening and just focusing in on the feeling, rather than gunning for orgasm.”

MyVoreThrowaway

Reddit user

Also, read this:

“It usually works best in positions where the guy anally penetrating you is on top but you can make it work the other way if you prefer. It’s just more difficult. You can try reverse cowgirl for anal with the other dude essentially in missionary on top of you if you’re in a bed.

You can also sit on the guy while he sits on a couch/chair and the other guy can stand in front of you. If the guy penetrating you anally is on top, it’s a little easier to the position.

The guy vaginally penetrating you can go on his back, you on top, with the other guy behind you. Or you can ride one guy in a chair while the other stands in front of the chair behind you.”

DontEatMyLeftovers

Reddit user

Conclusion

To echo once more…

Willingness and comfortability play a key role in determining how your double penetration experience will turn out.

Adding to this… The positions are easy to perform and can either be pulled off using men or women (wearing strap-ons) as penetrators.

Also, you can pull it off with one partner if you use the help of a hand-held dildo or a double-penetration suction toy if you’re alone.

As for the positions, again, be sure to check whether everyone’s fine with it so that you all get the best experience.

And when choosing whether or not to have a third partner, it’s important that you have a small ‘briefing’ 🙂

This will help you know how to handle each other. And eventually, how you can get each other to have the best orgasms from DP.

I hope that this information will help you with your first or next experience!

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