17 Pieces of Naughty Bondage BDSM Furniture For Your Sex Dungeon

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After over 30 hours of research we discovered the most affordable & discreet Bondage BDSM furniture that won't break the bank. Furniture in general is expensive, but specialised sex furniture cost thousands (seriously). 

We've crowdsourced hundreds of enthusiast opinions and expert thoughts to learn that the best option for most people is either to go DIY path, find a craftsman nearby, or visit Home Depot with a naughty perspective. 

We collected the best budget bondage items that can be used together with vanilla furniture to the most effect like spreader bars, restraint kits. Afterwards just hide away the restraints and nobody will suspect anything. If you still want a furniture then Liberator Black Label items are the most affordable and highest quality furniture available. Just scroll through the selections and let ideas spark:


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What You Should Know About BDSM Furniture?

If you're anything like me you initially were excited about adding some naughty furniture and create your very own sex dungeon…

…till you saw how many things like steel bed, Saint Andrew cross, bondage horse, stockades and other bondage furniture cost.

You would quickly discover that it's not even hundreds, you would need to say goodbye to thousands:

  • a specialized steel cage would set you back around $1000
  • bondage horse? — $2000
  • BDSM Cross? — $1350–$2500
  • a padded spanking bench? — close to $2K again.
  • a kinky specialized dungeon bed? $3K…
various bdsm furniture pieces compared

Oh, and don't forget that these things are bulky, heavy and shipping will get expensive too.

Yeah, this is why many people quickly start thinking about DIY options, but if you don't enjoy woodworking or steel welding you're out of luck.

The next best option is to find someone locally and order something custom to be built. But still, it won't be cheap.

Our recommendations is to get creative and repurpose existing furniture for kinky activities and use it with basic bondage restraints, spreader bars and cuffs to transform your vanilla environment into your own naughty sex dungeon!

We'll show you how to do it on a budget!


The Challenges With BDSM Furniture & Discreetness

Even if you've got a free basement or room you still might be worried about being discreet.

Most people don't have too much free space, yet they still want to be able to immerse themselves in the naughty BDSM play.

The trouble with furniture like a cross is that it screams kinky.

And while you cannot disguise all the furniture Liberator, for example, has come up with a Black Label line.

Liberator makes elegant sex furniture that easily disguises as a sofa or simple wedge, and most people won't have any idea it's anything naughty.

various bondage chairs and bdsm beds on budget

Then there are furniture pieces like spreader bars, under the bed restraint kits that you can use during the play and together with your ordinary tables, bed mattress, chairs or benches…

..and when you're done simply hide your BDSM equipment and sex restraints away.

Now we're talking.

This kind of furniture is a lot more affordable (within $50–$300), it's light enough to ship, and it's very discreet.

By the end of the guide we'll point you to handy DIY furniture resources and communities, but now let's check out premade furniture and bondage kits:


What Are The Most Discreet & Affordable Pieces of Bondage Furniture?

I invite you to open your mind and be creative.

Mix any restraint kit or spreader bar with a wooden chair, mattress, or bench, and you'll get a naughty furniture piece on a budget.

diy bdsm furniture examples
 After reading this guide it may pay off to go to Home Depot and look at everything with a naughty look.

You might find plenty of affordable ordinary furniture that can be repurposed to a spanking bench, bondage table, or bondage chair.

Finally, if you really want a furniture piece, look at Liberator Black Label wedges, sofas below. Liberator makes the best sex furniture and their black label line adds the kink and restraints to it.

For example, the wedge/ramp combo will create plenty of new delicious and naughty sex positions coupled with cuffs.

Liberators furniture is made from dense microfiber which will not budge to weight, and all of the pieces have machine washable and waterproof cover on them.

These items will last and while it may be a challenge to return them, the packaging itself is unbelievably compact allowing to avoid the expensive shipping.

Just check this unboxing video of Esse Chaise sex chair (vanilla edition):


Under The Bed Bondage Kits

While making your own bondage bed can either be expensive or time-consuming there are affordable velcro (sturdy) bondage kits that can go either under the bed, chair, sofa…wherever.

using restraints to create bdsm bondage bed

This allows you to create temporary bondage furniture, and then when you are done just take it all away as nothing happened.

Velcro straps are really sturdy and while probably you could escape if you fought for your life… it's not gonna be easy. 

To think that you get all this fun for shelling out only $50–$75 seems like an incredible deal.

Here are the three BDSM bondage kits we recommend:

  • Under Mattress Restraint Kit To Create A Bondage Bed ($50)(⭐ Our Pick) — this is the one kit we have ourselves at home and it's surprisingly sturdy, effective, with comfortable cuffs (soft inside). You can really stretch the legs and hands as much as you want and mattress suddenly gets transformed into a bondage bed. Straps are long and it will fit even super-king size bed. Put the cuffs on hands and legs first, fasten it to the straps, and finally tighten as much as you want. The kit comes in black or white colors.
  • BDSM Bed Bondage Kit With Extra Equipment ($75) — this kit is made by the same company (Bondage Boutique) but comes with additional goodies like a blindfold, ballgag, and a whip. If you don't have these BDSM tools already, this can be a quick way to complete your equipment. Everything else is the same as the more basic $50 kit above.
bdsm bed bondage kit with ball gag and whip
  • Fetish Fantasy Body Bondage With Cuffs ($50) — the only downside of under mattress kits is that it's hard to change the positions. It's pretty much limited to missionary or doggy. If you want to change positions you need to free your victim and readjust all four restraints. This bondage kit is placed around the neck and then you just fasten the velcro straps to open the legs (hands are tightened by default). The cool thing about this kit is that you can also use it together with other bondage kits. Let's say you have both an under-mattress bondage kit and this one. You can start with eagle spread and then as you want to change positions, simply move on to fastening this bondage kit on your partner.

Here's how our top recommendation bed bondage kit (the first item) looks in real life:


Spreader Bars Are A Versatile Bondage Tool

Yes, of course, a bondage cross is a lot kinkier, but it's also big, clunky, not discreet at all, and requires quite a bit of material even if you build it yourself.

using spreader bar to create bondage furniture

A spreader bar is a nice alternative. Either use one spreader bar to restrain hands and legs, or two spreader bars to create a kind of Saint Andrew cross situation on budget.

Spreader bars also feel a lot more BDSM than bed restraints if you pick the unforgiving steel version. Also, it's easy to make your own wooden home-made bar if you like to.

Finally, with spreader bars, it's very easy to change positions. No need to cuff, uncuff — just roll your partner around and boom!

Plus, if you put some thought you can easily use spreader bar together with a bench, table, or chair and you've got yourself a temporary BDSM furniture again!

See..there is really no need to go the hard or expensive way, alternatives are just as good.

spreader bars to use to create bondage table or chair

Here are our top 3 spreader bar recommendations:

  • Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar ($80) (⭐ Our Pick) — this is the best bang for the buck. You get an expandable metal spreader bar with padlocks (making it 100% inescapable). Yes, padlocks require quite a bit of fiddling, but that metal clanking as you do actually adds to the thrill.
  • Sportsheets Budget Spreader Bar ($35) — not an incredible bar, it's as basic as it gets, but it's cheap and still serves as good enough restraint. It has space for both hands and legs, not too long, but in combination with a chair will become a fun item.
  • Liberator Talea Spreader Bar ($95 + cuffs $45) — this is a good choice if you want bondage and comfort to go together. It's a padded spreader bar that allows using the bar even as a wedge. The cover is machine washable though admittedly the bar inside could be sturdier.

For an in-depth look at all the best spreader bars for various occasions check the main guide.

See the expandable spreader bar in real life:

Just think about it…

Get a basic wooden piece of furniture table, chair or bench.. or simple sturdy wooden bed frame and you can easily transform your ordinary furniture or bedroom into sex dungeon.  Go for steel and it's even sturdier

wooden chairs tables and benches for bondage

Best of all after you are done you can hide everything away and transform your place into vanilla household all over again.


Liberator Black Label Benches, Stockades & Other BDSM Furniture 

What if you actually want bondage furniture and the hacks just won't do it?

Well, we recommend you look at sex furniture that can be made kinky.

Liberator is famous for its high-quality sex furniture that makes positions better, more comfortable, and opens up new kinds of positions.

But you might not know that they also have a Black Label line which transforms existing furniture into BDSM bondage furniture.

liberator black label bondage sex furniture

If you have something from Liberator already you can simply buy a Black Label cover with built-in D-ring attachments to be used with restraints such as cuffs, rope or silk sashes.

Liberator furniture is made from high-density foam that supports the bodyweight offering a soft, yet firm surfaces. 

The covers themselves are waterproof and machine washable letting you focus on play, instead of worrying about the mess.

Finally, even the bigger furniture pieces come in compact packages allowing for affordable international shipping.

Most of the selections below come from Liberator, but there are few other furniture pieces that you might find interesting.

Just scroll down and see if something catches the eye:


Obeir Bondage & Spanking Bench ($185) (⭐Our Pick)

This spanking bench is both affordable and high quality.

For an additional $45 you can add four cuffs for a bondage play.

liberator obeir spanking bench demonstrated

You can use this bench for fun sex positions and, of course, spanking. The bench itself is quite compact allowing to easily tuck it out from sight when needed.

Package weighs around 10–12lbs, made from microfiber, and the cuffs are extra sturdy so they will survive even the toughest of punishments and any struggling from the victim.

Sometimes comfort and punishment can go together! A great budget option.

Here's a short demo showing and explaining how this bench could be used:


Fuck Bench, Cunnilingus & Rim Seat ($90)

This simple bench is surprisingly effective for a bit of femdom and comfortable thrusting bouncy action.

The seat is made from a portable, padded metal frame, and has four layers of two wide elastic straps that support up to 150kg.

fuck bench and rim seat demonstrated

After you're done just disassemble it and tuck it away. 

It's great for face riding, rimming is easy and offers incredible views. Sex itself is easy since the elastic straps do the most of the work.

Check this video to see the bench in real life:


Black Label Esse: The Most Versatile BDSM Furniture Piece ($650 with cuffs)(⭐ Overall Best)

The thing about Esse is that it's such an elegant furniture piece that you can simply purchase another cover and display the sofa proudly in your living room and nobody will suspect anything! 

bdsm bondage bed demonstrated

It's surprisingly comfy to use just for lounging or reading, not just a kinky play.

The cover is removable, moisture resistant, and machine-washable. The cuff clip attachments to the cover are extremely sturdy and will hold no matter the struggle. 

moisture resistant bdsm bed cover example

This video explains more about the Black Label line overall, and this one gives an idea of positions to have with Liberator Esse. 

The only comment is that for some couples the Esse sofa was too low, but in that case, you can purchase additional Liberator Lifts ($75 per piece, 2 is ideal) to solve that.

It's not the Black Label edition, but still gives a good idea:


Black Label Wedge / Ramp Combo ($350 with cuffs)

This wedge and ramp combo is the most versatile of all sex furniture pieces.

liberator furniture for soft bondage

It does many things:

  • it gives access to a lot of new positions
  •  it allows deeper and better penetration (without poking vagina walls)
  • you can use it for soft bondage

It may not give an inescapable restraint, it feels more like using a soft spreader bar. 

You can use those D-rings for cuffs, sashes or rope, but this piece is more for new positions than bondage play.


Black Label Hipster To Use Bondage Bench ($240 with cuffs)

Remember, that Liberator creates sex furniture that becomes especially helpful as you get older and many positions become more challenging.

bondage bench liberator hipster demonstrated

Something like Hipster piece of furniture makes going down a lot more comfortable for the next, and it makes usual positions a lot more comfortable so you can sustain them for an extended time.

Add the restraints to it and it aids to a new level of excitement and novelty.

As all Liberator products, cover unzips for easy cleaning, will last you a lifetime and can serve as a spanking bench if put on the bed.


Black Label Bondage Stockade & Rack ($265 with cuffs)

Use this stage piece as a bondage rack, stockade…or even a modified cross.

It has 6 cuff connectors allowing for versatile restraining. Material is made from faux leather giving to that kinky feel and is available in 2 colors.

liberator stockade and bondage rack demonstrated

The cover is removable, machine washable, and moisture resistant giving a worry-free play. Dimensions are 72x20x4". 

Make sure you check their site as they suggest a lot of position ideas under the product.


Stockroom Bondage Stockade Equipment ($400)

Here are few really kinky pieces of heavy-duty BDSM equipment that is pricey, but still affordable. 

This stockade is for real hardcore players and it does so much. 

stainless steel extreme bondage stockade

It comes with four expandable spreader bars, five dungeon shackles, has a place for chest rest, and even comes with a fucking rod. A manual fucking machine if you will. 

For the best effect, you would add an actual sex machine for merciless and tireless fucking, but the rod is a good starting point.

You can customize everything to your height, length, and angle.

It can serve perfectly as a spanking bench too — really you are limited only to your imagination.

Spreader bars can expand to 12" and 18" total length. Base extends from 30" to 44". For more specs, check the site.


Steel BDSM Cage Disguised As A Coffee Table ($1900)

Okay, here we included at least one of the higher-end BDSM items. 

It's an incredible piece of craftsmanship, and best of all with a cover over it, you can sell it as an ordinary coffee table.

steel bdsm cage demonstrated

The cage will be really uncomfortable for the sub, and while the padding on the floor of the cage helps with the comfort, it's extremely humiliating.

It's made from heavy-duty stainless steel and has a hardwood top. There is a place for a padlock making the cage totally inescapable.


Protective Waterproof Bed Sheets For Safe Wet Games

Waterproof bed sheets or covers are another smart way to have kinky fun on a budget.

Simply throw this sheet over your bed, or on the floor and enjoy any watersports or extra sweaty, squirting sex without worries.

waterproof bed sheets for water play

The first option is a simple and affordable waterproof sheet, but it doesn't feel very good for the skin.

The Liberator throw on the other side feels great on the skin, has a silky satin-soft feel while also being fully waterproof and machine washable.

  • JoyDivision Waterproof Sheet ($29) — a basic piece of sheet that's 260cm long and 180 cm, made from vinyl material. Simple, but serves the purpose. Simply rinse it off when you're done.
  • Liberator Fascinator Protective Bed Throw ($140) — available also in king size this sheet offers water protection with a material that feels great on naked skin. The basic sheet is 72"x54" and will protect any surface you need. 

Kinkify any of your furniture with these sheets!

Here's a good water test to show how Liberator Throw works:


Bonus: Hismith Fucking Machine

No BDSM dungeon would be complete without a fucking machine.

In the past budget, considerations may have played a role, but nowadays you can get a heavy-duty high-quality fucking machine for $360! I always thought sex machines were beyond my grasp, till recently I saw how the quality and price have improved.

fucking machine for your sex dungeon

We did huge research till discovering that Highsmith fucking machine is the best bang for the buck. 

But if you're curious you should read the full fucking machine guide to see the best fucking machines compared side-by-side and learn exactly what to watch out for when considering one.



DIY BDSM Furniture: How To Make Benches, Cages & Crosses Yourself

homemade cages crosses and bdsm chairs

Where do you find the furniture plans, ideas & tips on how to do it?

The best community is BDSM DIY subreddit that has over 24,000 members and lots of craftsmen of both furniture and homemade chastity belts, harnesses, shibari rooms, dungeons, etc.

Here are just some examples of ideas that DIY members have shared:

homemade bdsm bed and bondage horse

If there's one book you should read it's Better Built Bondage Book that teaches how to create high-quality sex toys and BDSM furniture yourself.

Finally, don't forget that Youtube is an incredible source for tutorials and ideas. There is a growing amount of BDSM furniture videos like this:

Just search for “DIY BDSM furniture” or “DIY spreader bar” and you'll find plenty of ideas.

Finally, remember that you can use a balcony or a small closet as a cage. 

Just add few hooks to any wooden item at home and you can transform into bondage furniture.

For more ideas check this Pinterest board…and if you're creative you'll have plenty of naughty fun without breaking the bank.

more various bdsm furniture ideas

Bringing It All Together

I hope this guide was helpful for you to think more creatively about how to “kinkify” your home and get your hands to BDSM furniture without breaking the bank.

If you try just one thing from this guide it would be under the bed restraints ($50). 

They are so affordable and so effective. 

Top it off with a waterproof blanket and you've got a BDSM bed where you can have plenty of fun!

Add a few hooks to your wooden bed frame, and even more range of possibilities of naughty fun open up.

You've suddenly got a spanking bench or a bondage stockade!

I understand that steel and wood is a lot more badass, but it's also a lot more expensive unless you've got skills yourself.

Liberator Black Label furniture is a really great alternative even though it's quite comfortable. 

But there are always ways to figure out how to make those restraints a lot more unforgiving.

With little thought, you'll discover that there's always a way 😉

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