8 Best Vibrators for Older Women in 2024 [Ranked & Reviewed]

I’ve explored the options and found the best vibrator for older women. These vibrators are easy to hold and powerful enough for those with reduced sensitivity.

Everything changes as you get older. You find grey hairs where before there were none. You start developing creases and wrinkles marking every time you’ve laughed or smiled. 

And, for most women, you’ll find time has affected your vulva and vagina too. 

As a sex therapist, I soak in many older women who think that menopause will put an end to their sex lives. But just because their vulva is changing doesn’t mean it should be forgotten!

Maintaining a healthy connection with your sexuality as you age is easier than ever. There are so many toys and sex aids on the market that pleasure is easily accessible long into your golden years!

I explored the options and found the 8 best vibrators for older adults that cater to the specific needs of a mature woman.

Whether you have reduced sensitivity and need something powerful or looking for something light and easy to hold with achy hands, there’s something here for you!

Here are my TOP 3 picks:

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The Best Vibrators for Older Women in 2024

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We-Vibe vibrators are known for their powerful motors, and the Tango X follows that trend. It gives low-frequency rumbly vibrations, so if you suffer from reduced clitoral sensitivity, this bullet vibe is still strong enough to give deep, powerful stimulation. 

The Tango X is also incredibly light. At just 1.34 oz, you can enjoy long pleasure sessions without strain on your hands or wrists. Plus, the silicone handle means you can hold it gently without fear of losing grip.

With age, it can take a bit longer to get warmed up than it used to. The Tango X’s battery lasts a whopping 2 hours, so you can give yourself plenty of time to ease into things.

Lastly, it’s discreet. Unless you know what you’re looking at, it could easily be mistaken for a lipstick!

Read our in-depth review of the We-Vibe Tango X to learn more.

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One of the hardest things in searching for a good vibrator was finding one that wouldn’t aggravate joint pain but didn’t compromise on power.

It wasn’t an easy task, but the PalmPower Recharge ticks those boxes!

It’s remarkably small and lightweight for a wand vibrator. Thankfully, it’s ergonomically designed to feel comfortable in hand. You’ll feel no strain or discomfort while using it!

Compared to other vibrators, the handle won’t send too many vibrations into your hand, and at the higher levels, the handle doesn’t vibrate at all. And let me tell you, the vibrations are intense! There’s more than enough power to get you there, even if you experience reduced clitoral sensitivity.

Unfortunately, it only has one button. To move up in intensity, you have to press and hold it as it moves up incrementally. There’s no way to turn it down without turning the toy off completely and starting from the bottom.

Still, once you find the right setting, it’s easy to lay back and enjoy the ride!

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If you’ve recently stopped having penetrative sex but still want all the pleasure that it brings (or if you’re still having PiV sex and just want to spice up your solo play!), the Lovense Nora 2 is a thoroughly pleasurable dual stimulator rabbit vibrator.

The internal shaft rotates rather than vibrates, which offers gentle but firm G-spot stimulation. If you’re on the younger side of senior, this can give amazing pleasure. However, for those with thinner vaginal walls, you can opt to keep the shaft motor turned off and simply use the insertable arm as a static dildo.

The G-spot head is on the larger side, so if you struggle with any kind of penetration pain, the Iroha Yuki will be a better choice for you.

If you’re comfortable with using the Lovense Remote app, the Nora 2 offers plenty of extra control options. This is a wonderful feature, especially if you have a partner experiencing ED. You can simply hand over the controls and enjoy!

Read our in-depth Lovense Nora review to learn more.

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If you suffer from vaginal atrophy or find penetration difficult, the Iroha Yuki is the perfect bedroom companion. The entire toy is incredibly soft and squishy, like a little marshmallow! 

Its lopsided figure-eight shape allows for broad, gentle vibrations across the vulva with the larger side or pinpoint clitoral stimulation with the smaller side. You can also use the smaller side for shallow, gentle penetration.

It’s a cute and unintimidating toy, so if you’ve never used a vibrator before, the Yuki is a great place to start. 

Be aware, though, that the whole toy vibrates. If you have arthritis or joint pain, this may aggravate those issues.

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The Lovense Domi 2 is by far the most powerful and longest-lasting vibrator on this list. It really packs a punch, and the battery lasts for an incredible 5 hours, so if it’s power you want, this wand is the best choice. 

If you’re also looking for penetration, there’s the option to buy a head attachment that features a bunch of different textures, plus an insertable G-spot massager. 

The insertable shaft is very slim at just 1” in diameter. It’s also flexible, which makes for easy, gentle penetration. 

However, it is comparatively heavy – along with the Lovense Nora, it’s the heaviest toy on this list. For a lighter but still powerful option, go for the PalmPower Recharge.

If you’re tech-savvy, the Domi 2 can also be controlled through the easy-to-use Lovense app. This also cuts down on the need to hold the wand itself (just prop it up on a pillow), so it’s perfect if you have mobility issues or just don’t want to stretch your arms out for that long!s

Read our in-depth review of the Lovense Domi 2 to learn more.

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Vibrations are the tried and true method of many sex toys, but some people find this stimulation can end up numbing their clitoris. Thank the stars there’s an alternative.

Toys like the Womanizer Premium 2 use air pressure to simulate a soft sucking sensation on the clitoris without actually touching it. If you find your clitoral sensitivity has decreased with age, the Premium 2 could be just the thing to bring you back into the world of clitoral orgasms.

There are so many things to love about this toy. Apart from the incredibly pleasurably sensations, this clit-sucker comes with two separate heads to account for different clitoris sizes. (We love body-conscious sex toys!) 

It also features 14 intensity levels and an Autopilot mode which will randomly cycle through different stimulation to keep you guessing. There’s nothing quite like effortless and unpredictable pleasure!

Read our in-depth Womanizer Premium 2 review to learn more.

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I can think of few things more relaxing than a soothing facial massage, followed by a neck rub, and topped off with an orgasm. And all that in an easy-to-hold package.

It seems like the designers at We-Vibe are on the same wavelength because that’s exactly what the Touch X is made to do.

This nifty little lay-on vibrator can be used on any body part. I love that this expands sensuality and sexuality to all erogenous zones, taking the pressure of vulval pleasure. 

Don’t get me wrong, though; it’s great for that too! With 8 vibration intensities and various surfaces to use, the Touch X has something for pretty much everyone.

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If you’ve never used a vibrator before, it can be a bit intimidating, not to mention expensive. Luckily, there are some very affordable, very beginner-friendly vibrators out there. The Lovehoney Deluxe Mini Massage Wand is easily my favorite.

It offers strong vibrations if that’s what you want, but on its lowest settings, it’s gentle enough to ease you into your first experience.

This is a wand vibrator without any fancy bells and whistles, so it’s perfect for getting you started.

It’s as easy as turning it on and cycling through the 10 different intensities until you find the right one for you. There are also 7 different vibration patterns to choose from, which makes it versatile without being too complicated to use.

The main downside is that the battery only lasts about 45 minutes. If you know you need longer to climax, the Lovense Domi 2 would be a better wand massager for you.

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The Best Vibrator for Older Women Buying Guide 

Size and Weight

One of the most important considerations is the size and weight of your toy. That’s why most of the toys on this list weigh less than 5 ounces. The last thing you want to be worried about when masturbating is whether your arms will get tired! 

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Materials

Any sex toy worth using must be made from body-safe materials, and this is even more important if you’re older, as your skin is thinner and more sensitive. 

Silicone is considered the gold standard when it comes to vibrators and gives the smoothest sensations against your skin. ABS plastic is also body-safe but has a rigid finish.

In the end, much of it is personal preference, so long as your toys don’t threaten the health of your most intimate areas!

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Features

• Rechargeable Battery: Every vibrator will run out of juice at some point. When it does, you don’t want to have to fumble around with the ol’ AAAs to get back into it.

Be sure to choose a vibrator with a rechargeable battery. If you have shaky hands, a toy with an easy-to-insert charging cable will make your life much easier!

• Ease of use/User-friendly controls: Unless you’re an incredibly tech-savvy senior, you’ll probably want easy-to-use controls on your vibrator.

My favorite vibrators usually only have three buttons – two buttons to control intensity up and down and another to control vibration patterns.

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Budget

Nobody wants to break the bank on a sex toy, but pleasure is always something worth investing in. Luckily, there are quality toys available for most budgets.

However, be careful of very low-priced toys – check their materials to confirm that they are body-safe. 

For more great options, check out our best vibrators for women guide.

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F.A.Q.

How can these vibrators help older women?

Many changes that occur during and after menopause affect the vagina and vulva. If you also haven’t had penetrative sex in a while, it’s not uncommon for the vagina to shorten and tighten, making penetration painful in the future.

One of the best ways to avoid this is to continue using dildos and vibrators in solo play. Even using a vibrator externally increases blood flow to the area and keeps your vulva and vagina happy and healthy!

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What are the different types of sex toys for women?

There are so many different sex toys on the market, but don’t get overwhelmed! For clitoral stimulation, you have vibrators and air-pressure clit suckers as the most common choices. For penetration, vibrators and dildos are the usual go-to’s.

And if you want both penetration AND clit stimulation, you have an array of rabbit vibrators and dual-stimulators to choose from!

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What is the safest lube for sex toys and vaginal dryness?

With age, the vagina loses some of its ability to self-lubricate. Luckily, there are plenty of lubricants available to buy.

When using silicone sex toys or condoms, it’s very important to only use water-based lubricants! Oil- or silicone-based lubricants will eat away at silicone and latex.

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Conclusion

Don’t buy into the lie that your sex life has to fade away as you get older! With a lifetime of sexual experience behind you, you know how much pleasure you’re capable of.

Are you really about to give that up?

Besides, these are the years you’re supposed to kick back and enjoy yourself. With a bit of help from your battery-powered friends, you can do just that!