11 Best Vibrating Strap Ons In 2023 (Strap-On Kits & Sets)

Strap on and get ready with the best vibrating strap on dildos of 2023 from small to more advanced ones, so you’ll find the right one for your next sex-venture. Read on:

Want to spice up your and your partner’s sex sessions? Then a vibrating strap-on is your best option.

Shopping for vibrating strap-ons can be confusing. So, we created this guide to give you an idea of how to pick your next sex toy, what different options are out there, and what the best vibrating strap-on dildos are.

Straight and gay couples can use strap-on dildos during foreplay and intercourse – vaginally or anally. Add to that a “vibrating” feature, and you’ll both share a ride to the big O.

Let’s start with the top three:

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Best Vibrating Strap Ons in 2023

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-on is the best value for money that helps you explore the pleasures of strap-on sex. This pegging kit has all you need – at a very affordable price.

You get two dildos (one textured, the other smooth), a bullet vibe, an adjustable harness, and 3 O-rings in different sizes. It’s very versatile, and you can really mix and match with what’s most pleasurable to you and your partner.

This one is perfect for beginners exploring pegging or anal sex.

The smaller dildo is just the right size (plus, it has a smooth texture) – great on your first few trials. Once you’ve eased into it, you can use the bigger and textured dildo.

The bullet vibe also comes in 7 functions. The vibrations are pretty strong, and they can be quite loud. So that’s something to note about whether you and your partner are trying to be discreet or have housemates around. (I got you.)

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If you and your partner are looking for a vibrating strap-on for around $50, you can get the Lovehoney Double Delight. And, really, it’s a double delight.

It has a removable bullet vibrator that slots into the dildo’s base for both partners to enjoy the sensual, shared vibrations. It only comes in a single speed, though. So, there isn’t much variety.

The wearer holds the strapless strap-on in their vagina while the longer 6-inch shaft penetrates the receiver.

Lesbian couples who aren’t into dildos that look too much like a penis will enjoy this. It has curves in the right places to stimulate you and your partner’s internal hotspots, but without the realistic look or shape of a penis.

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Have more $$$ to spend? Go for Fun Factory ShareVibe.

More experienced wearers who don’t want to wear a harness during penetration can use this. It’s a double-ended dildo, so the wearer can also stimulate her own G-spot.

Then again, this isn’t for beginners to start with, as it takes a lot of training to hold the bulb in AND thrust to their partner simultaneously.

Still, beginners can use this one with the right harness. It’s very curved, so some wearers might find the shorter shaft uncomfortable. But if it’s right for you, it’s really good.

The bullet vibe is removable AND rechargeable, and it already comes with its own USB magnetic charger. You don’t have to worry about running out of batteries with this one.

I also like how it’s entirely waterproof for some water play fun. Overall, it has a really great build, and it’s designed to feel like an extension of your body. 

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Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit is fun to play with because it’s remote-controlled. That means changing between its 8 vibration patterns and 12 intensity levels is really easy to do. Plus, its harness is secure and comfy. Overall, a perfect combination of features. 

The dildo it comes with is quite big, so it’s not really for beginners.

However, you can use your own dildo as it has three interchangeable O-rings to give you more options. But I’m actually pretty glad about its dildo’s quality as it’s smooth, tapered, and curved for G-spot and prostate stimulation.

The rechargeable battery is a big plus for me since I don’t have to worry about the batteries running out.

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Not all of us have the strongest pelvic floor muscles, so having a double-ended strap-on dildo like Lovehoney Double Duty Vibrating Dildo is really great. You penetrate your partner while you’re penetrated as well. Double the fun!

What’s great about this one is you and your partner really share the pleasure (and the vibration). It’s one whole dildo with one end connected with you while the other is connected to your partner.

Its elastic harness is comfortable but not the most stable to use. It can feel a little flimsy.

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Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Strapless Strap-On is a strapless vibrating strap-on. Duh!

But this one is really made for strapless strap-on play. Its two shafts – both the longer and the shorter (‘pony’) one – have curves to massage you and your partner internally. The pony is also posable for the giver’s comfort, so it’s easy to angle it to stimulate their G-spot.

It’s also fully waterproof so that you can take it into the shower or bath during your play sessions.

It fits snugly even without the straps. The remote control means I can easily change the vibration settings without fumbling with the straps.

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Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble should be your go-to if you’re all about the rumbling vibrations. It has 10 functions for vibrations, escalations, and pulsations.

You can really choose the rumbles that feel good to you – whether that’s gentle or verrrry intense.

It also has comfortable and pretty silicone straps. The harness itself is attached to the dildo. And since it’s quite hard, it can be stiff for some positions like spooning and rider-on-top.

The straps are adjustable, which kind of reminds me of bra straps (if you know what I mean). Meanwhile, the shaft is pliable and slightly curved – perfect for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. 

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In the market for a rabbit vibrator and strap-on in one? For women who get off when their clit is stimulated, the Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Strap-on Harness is a great choice.

While the wearer penetrates you with the curved dildo, the rabbit ears will stimulate and massage your clit. Plus, the shaft and the rabbit ears have separate motors to get different sensations and vibrations from them!

Beginners can also use it as the dildo just gliiiiides in, thanks to its very tapered head.

Of course, it’s not a unisex toy as the rabbit ears are designed for clitoral stimulation. So, they’re best for lesbian couples. 

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Strap-On-Me Silicone Vibrating Remote Control Strapless Strap-On is for you if you want a longer, girthier dildo.

It’s quite pricey, but for reasonable reasons. Instead of the usual one or two motors, this one has THREE! 

That means you and your partner will feel vibrations on the end of the dildo (for the receiver), on the insertable egg (for the wearer), and on the bend where the wearer’s clit hits. The toy is quite hard, but it’s soft to touch.

I also like how the bulb (for the wearer) is quite thick, yet its neck is flexible for easy angling.

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The best small vibrating strap-on is Tantus Sport Kit Strap-On Harness Set.

Its insertable length is only 5.5 inches, and its dildo shaft is 1-inch wide, making it the smallest insertable-length-to-girth combination from this list.

But, it won’t be too small for you to feel barely anything! The dildo’s head is very bulbous, and it’s thicker than the rest of the shaft. At its widest, it measures 1.25 inches wide. This is to massage your G-spot or P-spot really well. 

Its bullet vibrator sits on the harness to stimulate both the receiver and the harness-wearer.

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Her Royal Harness Royal Vibrating looks very sexy with its crotchless strap-on and faux-velvet harness lining. Thus, it’s best for dominatrix or kink plays if you and your partner are into BDSM.

Another thing that sets this strap-on apart is its textured wrap-around that rubs on the wearer’s clitoris – yey for mutual pleasure!

You can switch with your favorite dildos if you fancy, as its set includes three metal O-rings in the sizes of 1.5, 1.75, and 2 inches. And oh! It comes with 7 vibration functions, giving you enough options on the vibration intensity you like.

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What Is A Vibrating Strap-On?

A vibrating strap-on dildo is a sex toy with an attachable vibrating dildo and a harness used by couples. The wearer wears the harness around their hips while the receiver receives the penetration. 

Plus, the added vibration sends rumbles to both the wearer and the receiver so they can share the sensation!

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Difference between Harness & Strapless

Harness strap-ons are sturdier and give greater control to the giving partner. For some people, the look of a harness is also incredibly sexy. They can consist of a series of adjustable straps or a pair of specially made briefs. These are by far the most common strap-on types. The downsides are that they’re not designed to offer any physical stimulation to the person wearing the strap-on. 

Strapless strap-ons are a newer invention, designed to be worn inside the giving partner and held in place only by their vaginal muscles. These strap-ons are similar to double-sided dildos in that they’re made to stimulate both partners at the same time. They can take some getting used to though, and it’s often tricky to find an angle and a rhythm that’s pleasurable to both the giver and the receiver.

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Why Use A Vibrating Strap-On?

It’s more stimulating, and both partners can enjoy intense orgasms. Lesbian couples often use it for penetrative sex. Meanwhile, male-and-female couples can also have fun with it by switching up roles. 

Enter: pegging. 

This way, the woman can take the role of penetrating the man anally. And that just OPENS UP a whole new world of stimulation.

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How To Use A Vibrating Strap-On?

As easy as 1-2-3:

• Attach the dildo: Take the O-ring off from the harness and slide the dildo in securely.
• Wear the harness: Wrap the straps around your hips and ensure your dildo is fitted correctly.
• Start exploring: Experiment with the dildo’s vibrations and speeds and find your own rhythm when thrusting it to your partner’s desired hole.

Ultimately, enjoy, do what feels good to both of you, and don’t forget to communicate!

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How To Clean A Vibrating Strap-On?

After every use, sterilize your dildo by soaking it in boiling water or washing it with gentle soap. Don’t forget to remove the bullet vibe or controlling unit before getting it wet. Avoid submerging the vibrating unit while cleaning as it can result in damage. Follow your manufacturer’s instructions on how to clean the harness.

Then, store it in a cool, dry place with its storage packaging to avoid dust and lint.

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Buying Guide

Still have some questions? Allow me to make your shopping easier with a few tips.

Harness Design And Quality

Harnesses come in various styles – thong, underwear, or jockstrap. How to choose what’s best for you? Go for one that’s comfortable yet still secure and stable but also sexy for you and your partner.

For comfort, I tend to check if the harness has some lining or elasticity so it won’t uncomfortably rub on my skin during play.

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Going Strapless

Women can also go strapless! As long as they have strong pelvic muscles and A LOT OF PRACTICE. Of course, beginners can still go strapless using a quality harness like the Spareparts Joque.

Strapless vibrating strap-ons have a bulb. The dildo goes into the receiver’s hole while the woman holds the toy through the bulb by clenching their pelvic muscles. Highly stimulating for both but requires some serious vaginal skills for the woman!

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Dildo Material

Make sure you choose the right material for your dildo as it goes into your most sensitive body parts.

Porous materials like latex, rubber, jelly, and plastic are unsafe as they harbor bacteria.

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Size And Shape

Choosing a strap-on dildo is not easy. It has to be just right as if it were an extension of your own body! 

Obviously, it should fit your body nicely and be as pleasurable for you to use as it would be for the person you’re penetrating! The fit is also very important. It needs to form a tight seal with your waist. Otherwise, it won’t hold properly.

Shapes are also crucial for your specific use. Narrow dildos are great for pegging and anal sex, while curved dildos work best for G-spot and prostate stimulation.

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Vibration Settings

Vibration maketh vibrating strap-ons. So, you should mind its vibration settings and intensity.

For one, it’s nice to have varied intensity levels from low to high to match what’s pleasurable for you and your partner. Some also have different patterns and rhythms to add extra fun to the rumbling vibrations.

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Vibrations of A Battery-Operated Vibrating Strap On

Battery-operated vibrating strap-ons tend to be less powerful because of their limited battery life. They are cheaper to buy but will cost more in the long run because of the ongoing cost of buying batteries. 

One compromise is to use a battery-operated vibe with rechargeable batteries. If you prefer gentler vibrations, this could be a good option.

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Vibrations of A Rechargeable Vibrating Strap On

Rechargeable vibrating strap-ons can put out much more power and don’t require the extra cost of buying batteries. However, they tend to be more expensive upfront. 

Premium vibrators these days are all rechargeable since it’s much more convenient to simply plug your toy in without having to search frantically for batteries. 

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Vibration Difference between Bullet & Internal Motor

Some strap-ons come with a hollow cavity to hold a separate bullet vibrator. These tend to be weaker since the bullet vibe will be dampened by the material around it. Other vibrating strap-ons will have internal vibrating motors that send vibrations along the whole toy. For strapless strap-ons, the toy might have two motors – one for each partner so you can both experience powerful stimulation.

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Controller Type

Commonly, there are three ways to control the vibration:

• Remote control,
• Button at the toy’s base, or
• Smartphone app.

What’s best for you is whichever is most convenient. As much as possible, I suggest you look for wireless remote control toys as wires can limit your range of motion. Getting tangled in wires is a sure-fire way to ruin the moment.

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Battery Type

The toy’s vibrating unit is powered by different types of batteries like single-use and li-ion. 

Personally, I go for rechargeable ones. They’re more expensive upfront but could save you money in the long run as you won’t have to keep on buying fresh batteries once it runs out. And you won’t fear running out of batteries without some spares.

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FAQs

What Are The Best Positions Using A Vibrating Strap-On?

• Missionary: The good ol’ missionary so you can look at each other’s eyes.
• Doggy style: Good beginners position. The receiver lies down on all fours while the wearer penetrates them from behind – anally or vaginally.
• Spooning: Wearer still penetrates from behind, but on a more intimate skin-to-skin contact with both laying down on their sides.
• Rider on top: Gives the receiver more control over the movements.

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What Is The Best Lube For Vibrating Strap-Ons?

Water-based and silicone lubricants are best for vibrating strap-ons, depending on your dildo’s material and the hole it goes into. 

Silicone lubes are usually used for anal sex because they glide very effortlessly and dry quickly.

Water-based lubes are ideal for vaginal sex even though it dries faster than silicone as the vagina self-lubricates. And it also feels more natural because it has a similar consistency with vaginal fluids.

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Conclusion

Switching it up, quite literally, can be fun every now and then. From straight couples trying pegging to female couples enjoying penetrative sex, there’s at least one vibrating strap-on dildo for you.

Which one are you trying next?