10 Best Remote Vibrating Butt Plugs For Men & Women In 2024!

The best vibrating butt plugs offer both the filling sensation of a regular butt plug AND the added stimulation of vibrations, striking the right balance between quality, performance, and design. They should be made from high-quality body-safe materials like silicone or glass, are ergonomically shaped, have strong vibrations, and offer a range of vibration modes for the user’s enjoyment.  

Here, we round up the best ones on the market based on performance, size, material, shape, and budget and explain why they rock. 

Key Considerations To Look For In A Vibrating Anal Plug

• Size: When choosing a vibrating butt plug, you want to ensure it’s a size you can take. Focus on the plug’s thickest point’s width or diameter. Beginners should aim for sizes between just under 1 inch to 1.25 inches. More experienced users may prefer sizes ranging from 1.25 inches to 2 inches. 
• Material: Some of the best materials for making vibrating butt plugs are silicone, metal, ABS plastic, and glass. These materials are non-toxic and non-porous, meaning they don’t have tiny pores that can collect germs and cause infections. 
• Shape: Generally, butt plugs should have smooth narrow tips, broad middle sections, and narrow necks. A flared base follows the narrow neck and helps prevent the plug from being swallowed into the rectum. The shape of a butt plug is specially designed in this way to ensure anal safety and maximize stimulation.
• Vibration Settings: Most vibrating butt plugs offer a range of vibration speeds and intensities for those looking for a sensation-rich experience. So, the more vibration options a plug has, the better it is. You can experiment with the different options to find a perfect combination that meets your needs. 
• Battery-powered vs. Rechargeable: Battery-powered butt plugs are often cheaper than the rechargeable ones. So, they are a good option if you’re on a tight budget. However, rechargeable butt plugs are generally more durable than the battery-powered ones. They also give more powerful vibrations and save you more money in the long term.
• Budget: When working with a tight budget, I recommend going for vibrating butt plugs that do not compromise on body safety and functionality. Avoid plugs made from unsafe materials like jelly, even if they come cheap. There are many affordable butt plugs available, so you don’t have to spend a lot of money to get one you like. 

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Top 3 Remote Vibrating Butt Plugs

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Vibrating Butt Plugs For Beginners!

There’s a lot to say about Lovense Hush.

To keep it simple: GET IT. NOW.

Hush is an innovative butt plug. It’s Bluetooth-compatible, and you can control it through its app. That means it’s perfect for long-distance play as your partner can control the vibes.

Ergonomic might be a weird word to describe a sex toy, but Hush really is. It’s girthy and makes you feel FULL, but it’s very tapered on its tip to make insertion into your bumhole easy-peasy.

It has 7 vibration modes to choose from right off the box. But, the sky’s the limit with this as you get unlimited vibrations settings, patterns, and levels that you can customize on the app. Plus, it even syncs with sounds and music. Uhm, hello technology?

Well, like many technologies, the connection could be a little fuzzy. So, make sure you (or your partner) are not too far away when controlling the app in a particular range or that your internet connection is stable if you’re far, far from each other.

It also has two size options that only differ in width – everything else is the same. Small is 1.5 inches wide, while Medium is 1.75 inches.

It’s not the cheapest toy out there, but it’s a super good value for money, considering there are many more expensive toys that don’t do even half of what Hush does.

If you want to read more about Lovense Hush, we have all you need to know in our Lovense Hush review.

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Some people only want the vibration on their butts without many bells and whistles. And that’s okay. If you agree, you can get the Rocks Off Teazer Petite Sensations.

This toy is super affordable if you’re a starter and still exploring if you would enjoy anal play or nah. 

It might be labeled a beginner’s toy, but anyone can use it for the vibes. Of course, if you’re a starter anal player, this vibrating butt plug is very manageable to insert. You wouldn’t even need too much lube for it. It’s only less than an inch wide. That’s thick enough for people who’ve never inserted anything in their anus before, though.

Anal players sometimes want the stretch and filling sensation. If that’s you, this toy isn’t for you.

But if you want a slimmer toy with more length, then Teazer Petite Sensations is perfect. It’s 4 inches long, which is a good length to reach your internal hotspots.

The small size packs STRONG vibrations. There are 7 speed options to choose from – plenty enough for a regular user.

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Did you know? If you want the feeling of fullness, you don’t always have to go for the bigger sizes or the thickest girths.

You can get that feeling as well from a weighted toy like the butt plug b-Vibe.

This plug feels snug as it weighs 112 grams. Unlike the usual teardrop or egg shapes of typical butt plugs, this one has a “torpedo” shape to hold the weighted ball inside it (for the weight).

You can also leave it for extended use as it has a long and thin neck that allows your sphincter to close. More weight, less stretch.

Its button on the base is quite big, which you might accidentally press. Unlike Triplet, it doesn’t have a remote control for easy control.

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We-Vibe Ditto is a plug of luxury. If its silky silicone finish feels glorious to your touch, can you imagine how much more on your bum?

Ditto lets you control its vibration settings through its app, remote control, or from the button on the plug’s base. You’re not limited to the app for wireless control, which is handy.

I like using this in the bathtub with a glass of wine while lighting my favorite scented candle to complete that luxurious feel. It’s waterproof, so water play is doable.

Of course, your partner can participate in your me-time by controlling your vibes through the app. Oh, fun times.

Right from the get-go, Ditto has 10 vibration modes. They are varied from low rumbles to teasing “Tease” mode, bringing you to the edge of orgasm.

Its neck is also pretty flexible, making it conform to your body’s shape and position well. Inside, it won’t feel imposing or uncomfortable. The bulbous shape also does a really good job stimulating your anal walls. You should try it to know what I’m talking about.

It is pretty petite, so more advanced users might find this butt plug too small for them to enjoy. But, personally, I find the strong vibrations make up for the size.

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Rimming is a fun oral-to-anal play that involves licking, kissing, and sucking. Long story short, it feels great!

Well, you can replicate that sensation with b-Vibe’s Rimming Butt Plug. Its neck (the part that sits right on your sphincter) has rows of rotating beads. You can’t see it on the toy, but you can feel it. As these beads spin, it feels titillatingly good on your bumhole.

This rocket-shaped butt plug might look petite, but it’s quite girthy. It will give you a filling sensation. Thankfully, its blunt tapered tip helps with insertion.

The only thing is… it’s not very forgivable to your pocket. It’s quite an expensive toy, but really worth it if you can get it.

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Nexus Ace is a vibrating butt plug that gives you a streamlined stimulation with its shape. Plus, controlling it with a wireless remote control makes your anal play fun AND convenient.

I like wearing this while doing household chores, and I can easily switch vibration modes with the remote control. The vibrations are also quiet, so it isn’t suspicious to use around the house. Finishing my to-do lists is more fun than ever.

Charging it for 80 minutes lets me enjoy it for 80 minutes as well. A good deal, if you ask.

The teardrop shape makes this toy very easy to insert. Plus, it’s petite enough for beginners to use.

If you ever find this size too small for you, it has bigger options as well.

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Anal beads are great on their own. Add vibrations, and you’ll have a toe-curling orgasm.

b-Vibe Triplet has a triplet of beads on its shaft. The smallest bead makes inserting the toy on your bum manageable, and then the beads subtly grow slightly bigger.

This toy is smooth and silky. And with a good amount of lube, it’s easy to put in even despite its round balls.

It’s equipped with not just one but TWO MOTORS. With more motors come more vibrations. 

The button on its base is quite big. So I sometimes find myself accidentally hitting it in certain positions. I don’t find it a biggie as I can easily switch it back using the remote control.

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Vibrating butt plugs are usually made in silicone. But there are also metal options. 

Stainless steel vibrating butt plugs, like Nexus Cestos, open unique sensations to your anal play that you can’t get from others.

The firmness of this plug makes it ideal for precise stimulation. It’s very stimulating, so I wouldn’t recommend this to beginners. Plus, it’s very girthy with 1.59 inches of width or 5 inches in circumference!

Metal responds very well to temperature, so Cestos is the best butt plug you can use if you want to go for hot or cold butt plugs.

Stainless steel is also an expensive material. So, yeah, this butt plug is quite expensive. But it’s a worthy investment if this is the sensation you’re after.

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Mantric is a sleek, no-fuss vibrating butt plug. And I rather like its simplicity.

It has a lovely teardrop shape with a small and tapered tip. You should be looking for a toy like this one if you’re just starting to insert it easily to your rear end.

But this is not for beginners. Period. This is for beginners ready to take the next step in their anal journey *ahem* size up.

After successfully getting in the tip, the toy will flare to a pretty girthy shaft. Getting to it gives you a nice stretch – if you’re ready for it.

The button is recessed, which is good as it’s seamless. But it could also be challenging to find and toggle when plugged in your butthole and all lubed up.

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Butt plugs can be used for extended periods, like when you’re traveling. Being in transit can be boring, and vibes can help you relax and enjoy the passing time. 

Desire Luxury Vibrating ButtDesire Luxury can help you with that. *wink*

It has a travel lock feature to give you peace of mind while you’re traveling and make your sessions discreet. 

Its flared base is wide, slightly curved, yet not too bulky. The toy’s design also does a good job of staying in.

This butt plug is not really small. And while its shaft has a good curve, it’s not really the thinnest for insertion. Some people would find inserting this toy difficult, especially for beginners. I recommend this more to users who are looking for a stretching sensation.

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FAQ

What is a vibrating butt plug?

A butt plug is a sex toy designed to be inserted into the rectum and stay there until taken out. Some butt plugs also vibrate for that bit of extra stimulation. 

These toys can be used by anyone, regardless of gender – we all have an ass, and all asses need a bit of pleasure now and then.  They’re very versatile – they can be used solo, with a partner,  during sex, for public play… the possibilities are endless.

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Why use A Vibrating Anal plug?

For starters, the pleasure. The anus is surrounded by nerve endings just waiting for you to switch on.

It’s also beneficial to master stimulating the area for another reason – the butthole acts as a passage to accessing our internal hotspots. Yes, ladies and gentlemen. For men, that’s the prostate or the “male G-spot.” For women, it’s a unique sensation to stimulate the G-spot and A-spot from the other side.

And, of course, anal orgasms. Vibrating butt plugs can help in reaching this.

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Are Vibrating butt plugs Safe For Men & Women?

Yes, butt plugs (vibrating and nonvibrating) are safe to use as long as you take precautions. What are these butt play rules?

First, use lube. Lube is imperative – no discussions. And when you use it, you should be generous. The friction can cause irritation and anal fissures or tears in the skin. And maybe even real tears from your eyes if you cry because that can be painful.

Second, you should properly clean your vibrating butt plug before and after every use to be safe. This thing goes into your anus, which is where, you know, poop also passes by. Even when you douche, there is still microscopical fecal matter out there that stays behind. Transmitting it elsewhere could cause infections. And toys carry STIs as well if you share them with a partner.

We’re all about safety here, folks.

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Does anal penetration hurt For Men & Women?

Yes, it could hurt. But it doesn’t always have to.

You can expect to feel discomfort, especially in your first tries, as your anus gets used to the penetration.

You can lessen that feeling by using lots of lube, ensuring you’re aroused, and taking things slow.

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How to use Best Use a vibrating Anal plug?

• Relax. Being nervous will cause your sphincter to clench tightly close, making insertion impossible and even painful. So relax, loosen up, and make sure you’re aroused before starting to put anything in.
• Apply lots and lots of lube. Think you’d done enough? Apply even more. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina, which helps with insertion. You would need the help of your water-based lube for your vibrating butt plug to get in without problems.
• Take it slow. Press the tip of your vibrating butt plug against your anus. Once you feel comfortable, gradually increase the pressure until it goes all the way in – or until the depth that works for you.
• Enjoy! Turn on the vibrations, thrust it in and out… Do what feels best to you. There’s no right or wrong way to enjoy anal play. If you’re too tired to thrust it in and out, you should check out the best thrusting vibrating dildos!
• Stop if you feel any pain. Expect some discomfort as your body gets used to the feeling of being penetrated. But if it’s very painful, stop and listen to your body saying no. You can always try again later.

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How to clean A Vibrating Butt Plug?

The last thing you want to do after orgasm is to get up and clean your toys. Sorry to break it to you, but you have to.

What should your cleaning routine look like? Well, that depends on a lot of things.

Vibrating butt plugs have motors. So, submerging them in water isn’t really a good idea, even if they’re waterproof. You may do that to sterilize it in boiling water but check with the manufacturer’s instructions first.

If you are sharing your toy with a partner (which we don’t recommend, but if you do), wash them in between traveling from one body to another. And – never switch lanes from anus to vagina. The vagina is very sensitive, and the toy could carry bacteria from the anus that could cause infection. Big no-no!

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How To Store A Vibrating butt plugs?

When you’re not using your butt plugs, you should keep them somewhere safe.

Avoid areas with extreme temperatures. Varying extreme temperatures could compromise the toy’s components, especially its motor. It won’t just degrade the material but might also break the toy. Place it somewhere dark and away from direct sunlight as it could cause your toy to fade. 

These toys usually come with storage bags. Keep it inside the pouch or box to prevent it from collecting dust and lint, especially for silicone materials that are quite tacky.

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Should I use a condom When Using A Vibrating Butt Plug?

That would be up to you. But there are some benefits to it.

For one, you can protect yourself and your partner from infection if you share toys. It also lessens the cleaning process. (NOTE: Lessen, not skip.)

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What is the best lube for vibrating Anal plugs?

There are anal lubes made specifically for anal use. They last longer, specifically for their purpose.

Water-based lubes are compatible with most sex toys, so opt for them to be safe. They are not as thick, glide, or long-lasting as their other counterparts, but they’re the most “friendly” choice regardless of material. Just reapply as much as needed. 

Silicone lubes are great because they last longer and have an excellent glide, but they’re not safe for silicone toys. Silicone on silicone can degrade the material. So, unless you’re using a metal butt plug, skip it.

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What are other things to consider before buying vibrating Butt Plugs?

If you’re buying the toy for yourself, you’re pretty much all set. However, a lot of vibrating butt plugs have remote controls and apps and are made for couples’ play. If you’re getting this for a partner, you need to be more cautious. 

Communication and consent are both very important in any relationship, and even more so when it comes to intimacy. 

Anal play isn’t for everyone – make sure your partner is down with the idea. Talk about how you would want to use your new toy – behind closed doors, for discreet public play, for long-distance play? Make sure you take your partner’s preferences into account when choosing the butt plug itself.  

Respect your partner’s boundaries and don’t push them to do things they’re not comfortable with.

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Where can I buy the best vibrating Butt plug online?

Be careful where you buy your toys from – you don’t want to end up with a cheap knockoff or a dangerous toy.

If you want to get our SexualAlpha Top Pick, it’s best to turn to Lovense’s official website.  If you’re looking forward to browsing around before buying, SheVibe and Lovehoney will never let you down.  

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Final Thoughts

Which of these vibrating butt plugs passed the vibe check? All of ‘em, of course. You just gotta choose one that passed YOUR vibe check.

A few things to take away before we bid goodbye: choose the best toy that matches your needs and wants (not what’s best for them), use lots and lots of lube, relax and enjoy the vibes in your booty action.