15 Best Sex Toys For Virgins In 2024! (Dildos & Vibrators)

The best sex toys for virgins are a unique blend of curiosity, caution, and comfort that marks the beginning of one’s sexual exploration journey. There are many categories of sex toys to explore, from dildos to vibrators and suction toys, which can overwhelm new users.

In this article, you’ll learn how to choose a sex toy that aligns with your comfort level and explore how each type can enhance your first-time use. 

Whether you’re seeking a toy for external stimulation, gentle internal exploration, or something in between, we’ll guide you through the different types of sex toys, their uses, tips on selecting your first toy, and our top picks, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience.

Key Considerations

  • Material Quality: The material of a sex toy is not just about texture and feel; it’s about safety. Opt for non-toxic, body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Avoid materials like jelly rubber or latex, which can contain harmful chemicals and be porous.
  • Appropriate Size: Size matters, especially for beginners. A smaller, beginner-friendly size ensures comfort and ease of use. This doesn’t mean compromising on pleasure; many compact toys are designed for maximum satisfaction.
  • Type of Stimulation: Your personal preference plays a huge role here. Do you prefer internal, external, or combined stimulation? For external stimulation, clitoral vibrators offer gentle yet effective stimulation. For internal stimulation, consider slimline G-spot vibrators. And for a combination, rabbit-style vibrators can be an excellent choice.
  • Vibration Strength and Patterns: For vibrator toys, adjustable settings are essential for beginners to explore different intensity levels and find what works best.
  • Ease of Use and Maintenance: Simple operation and easy cleaning are paramount. Choose toys that are rechargeable, waterproof, and easy to clean. Silicone toys can be cleaned with soap and water, while toys made of porous materials require special care.
  • Price: Start with quality, body-safe, budget-friendly options, typically under $50. As you become more familiar with your likes and comfort levels, you can gradually invest in more feature-packed, higher-quality toys.

Top 3 Products

BEST DILDO FOR VIRGINS
Neo Elite 6 Inch Dildo

Neo Elite 6 Inch Dildo

The Neo Elite 6 Inch Dildo offers a realistic feel with its SENSA FEEL® dual density technology. Its modest size and lifelike texture make it a gentle introduction for virgins exploring penetration. Being silicone, remember to use water-based lubricants to avoid damage and enjoy a comfortable experience.

BEST VIBRATOR FOR VIRGINS
Lovehoney Basics Mini Vibrator

Lovehoney Basics Mini Vibrator

The Lovehoney Basics Mini Vibrator is a compact, 5-inch vibrator made of hard plastic, ideal for beginners. It offers multispeed vibrations with a simple twist base, perfect for external and internal stimulation. Just remember it’s battery-operated, which may provide a different power intensity than rechargeable models.

BEST CLIT STIMULATOR FOR BEGINNERS
Womanizer Starlet

Womanizer Starlet

The Womanizer Starlet uses Pleasure Air Technology for clitoral stimulation with 4 intensity levels, so you don’t get easily overwhelmed. It’s compact, rechargeable, and offers a unique sensation through air vibrations. Despite its small size, it’s still powerful but may be louder than other models and require more frequent recharging.


Dildos, Vibrators, & Other Sex Toys For Virgins

best dildo for virgins

Neo Elite 6 Inch Dildo

Price:
$
Material:
Silicone
Insertable length:
4.5″
insertable width:
1.25″
EASE OF USE:
9/10
WATERPROOF?
Submersible

The Neo Elite 6-inch hits the spot for most beginners and virgins. This body-safe dual-density dildo and its compact design bring the perfect mix of gentleness, be it for anal or vaginal action.

With a 6-inch length and slim 1.25-inch width, it’s soft on the outside but packs a punch with a solid core. It is a budget-friendly steal without compromising quality.

But here’s the kicker – it’s not just a starter; it’s your versatile sidekick.

Need a warm-up? Got it.
Eyeing the big leagues? It’s your trainer.

The texture is nice, though the ridge might be a hit-or-miss.

With lots of bright colors and lifelike feel to choose from and sculpted with realistic detail, this dildo is an excellent starter for those who aren’t sure what they like.

The Neo Elite 6-inch Dildo is my top pick, hitting that sweet spot between comfort, cost, and satisfaction for newbies.


Basics Mini Vibrator

Best Vibrator for Virgins

Basics Mini Vibrator

Price:
$
Material:
Hard Plastic
Insertable Length:
5”
Circumference:
3.25”
Speeds:
3
Ease of Use:
9/10
Waterproof?
Splashproof only
  • Great value for money
  • Multiple speeds
  • Durable plastic
  • Battery operated, not rechargeable
  • A bit loud at top speed

This vibrator is the most fun way to spend $20 that I can think of. It comes in classy colors of gold or silver.

As a clitoral vibrator, it works wonders. The 3 speeds range from light and teasing to impressively strong for a cheap battery-powered sex toy. 

The battery isn’t my favorite – rechargeable is always better – but at this price who cares? 

The Basics Mini Vibrator is splashproof but not submersible. That means no taking it in the bath or shower. But you can put it inside you if you want. 

On the whole, bullet-shaped vibrators are a great choice for virgins and beginners. 


BETS CLIT STIMULATOR FOR BEGINNERS

Womanizer Starlet

Price:
$$
Material:
Silicone
Insertable length:
3.5”
Circumference:
4.5”
Speeds:
4
Ease of use:
8/10
Waterproof?
Splashproof only

This beginner-friendly clit stimulator hit me with some serious wow factor. Don’t let its small size fool you—this thing packs a punch, thanks to its nifty ‘sucking’ feature.

Maintenance is easy as a breeze, and the fact that it’s rechargeable? This means no more hunting for batteries.
Yeah, it gets louder than expected on the maximum intensity; you have to mask the sound with music or shower when using it.

Also, with the variety of intensities to choose from and only 1 button to press, you need to cycle through all the levels to get back to the one you wanted. It is easy to use but inconvenient, especially in heated moments.

Perfect for shared escapades, its size hits the sweet spot. Travel friendly!

Also, it’s not waterproof, but for budget-conscious people dipping toes into sex toys, the Womanizer Starlet is an absolute steal.

It holds its own in a showdown with the fancier Pro40, especially if you’re watching those prices.


Lovense Nora

internal & external stimulation for virgins

Lovense Nora

Price:
$$$
Material:
Silicone, ABS plastic (handle)
Insertable length:
4.72”
Circumference:
4.68”
Speeds:
Unlimited speeds and patterns
Ease of use:
7/10
Waterproof?
IPX6 Water-resistant
  • Various vibration settings
  • For G-spot AND clitoral stimulation
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Great for solo and partnered play, including long-distance
  • Quite pricey
  • A bit noisy in higher settings

The Lovense Nora is the best vibrator you can get for the most mind-blowing orgasms. It’s not too intimidating and intense for beginners but powerful enough to bring you to the Big O.

Lovense Nora is a rabbit-style vibrator made of high-quality silicone. Everyone’s buzzing about this sex toy, and it will surely climb on your favorites list.

Why?

For one, its internal G spot AND external clitoral stimulation. The longer arm rotates 360-degrees to massage your G-spot while the shorter arm rumbles on your clit.

The best thing about this toy is that you get MANY setting options to control how intense or gentle you want the vibes to be.

Plus, you can easily connect the vibrator to its mobile app for remote control. Meaning it’s great for partnered play, even for long-distance couples.

It’s a bit premium, but I don’t think it’s overpriced at all. Because that premium price tag also comes with premium features like Bluetooth connectivity, strong battery, wireless use, and a powerful motor.


Lovehoney Slimline

Best Budget Dildo FOR VIRGINS

Lovehoney Slimline Suction Cup Dildo

Price:
$
Material:
Silicone
Insertable Length:
5”
Circumference:
3.25”
Ease of Use:
9/10
Waterproof?
Submersible
  • Suction cup for multiple uses
  • Great material – not too hard or soft
  • Body-safe silicone at a low price
  • Curves are uncomfortable if you’re very tight
  • Not much texture might get boring eventually

If you’re new to vaginal penetration, then it’s best to start with something small like the Lovehoney Slimline 5”. It’s small, smooth, and made of body-safe silicone. That’s a big deal for a sex toy this cheap!

The Slimline also has a decent suction cup on the bottom, so you can stick it to a wall, table, or shower door and enjoy it from different positions. Since it’s small it should be comfortable for most vaginas. Take it slow at first and learn how to move it without hurting yourself. 

It’s even small enough to be used for anal if you’re feeling adventurous! Just make sure you wash it even more thoroughly than usual and don’t do both holes in one session.

Pro Tip

You can wet the bottom of the suction cup to make it stick better.

Check out other great sex toys in our roundup of small dildos guide.


LELO ORA 3

BEST ORAL SEX SIMULATOR FOR VIRGINS

LELO ORA 3

PRICE:
$$$
MATERIAL:
Silicone, ABS
INSERTABLE LENGTH:
N/A
CIRCUMFERENCE:
N/A
SPEEDS:
12 settings
EASE OF USE:
6/10
WATERPROOF?
Submersible
  • Mimics oral sex
  • Added Vibration
  • 100% Waterproof
  • Travel Friendly
  • Pricey
  • Short Battery Life

The LELO Ora 3 is an external stimulator that mimics the feel of someone running their tongue in circles on your clit… and adds something extra to that.

This toy has an ergonomically crafted ring shape design that feels comfortable in your hand. A small nub on the orb moves, simulating tongue movements. 

There are vibrations added to the rotations to intensify the sensations. 

You can experiment with 12 vibrational speeds and patterns so you get what you need every time. 

And because this toy is waterproof, you can hop in the bath to do that! 

The small size makes ORA 3 very travel-friendly, so don’t hesitate to take it on vacation to make your relaxation complete.

ORA has a shorter battery life than a lot of toys (up to 1 hour). But considering the combination of vibration and rotation, I doubt you’d last that long!

Like all LELO products, ORA 3 is up there in price, but exquisite design and quality are worth it.


Honorable Mentions of Sex Toys For Virgins

Avant Pride P3 – A bit wider than the Lovehoney Slimline, but the extra girth of this dildo shouldn’t be a problem for most people. It is still smaller than the average penis.

Happy Rabbit – Perfect for people who wants to get into rabbit vibrators. This rabbit vibrator will have the best chance of hitting every spot.

Club Vibe 3 0H – This starter toy is a remote-controlled panty vibrator designed for some public play. It is pretty easy to use with its controls and discreet as well.

Satisfyer Pro 2 – Has a feature called air pressure to create a vacuum around your clit while also vibrating. This clit sucker can be pretty intense for some people.

Womanizer Pro 40 – This waterproof toy might not have the best design, but it still can do the work for making you orgasm. Pretty easy to as it only has 3 buttons and has 6 intensities to choose from.

Womanizer Starlet Snow – One of the smallest air pulsators in the market today. So small, so quiet and so discreet, you can take this one anywhere with you. Unlike the Pro40, this one is not waterproof.

BMS PalmPower – This cordless & compact magic wand is more on the quiet end than most magic wands. The only flaw on this one is there’s only one button to adjust the power.

We-Vibe Touch X – The design on this one is on point. Also, the rumbly vibrations are perfect. Has built-on memory that when you switch it on it starts at the pattern you used last time.

LELO Sona 2 Cruise – This is a contactless clitoral stimulator that has 12 settings that range from buzzing to rumbling. This toy is waterproof however, a bit noisy and can’t be used for internal stimulation.

Fin by Dame – A clit stimulator, but this one can be worn on your fingertip, so accessing your erogenous zones won’t be a problem. Downside is what your finger is gonna feel after all the buzzing.

Dame Eva 2 – Also, a clitoral vibrator that is used for hands-free play. Can also be used in solo play but it really is better for partnered play as it doesn’t get in the way of the action, it just adds to the pleasure/


Choosing The Right Sex Toy For A Virgin

The best way to find out what you would like is to start with your fingers before making any investment. 

Do you prefer A) stroking your clitoris? Or B) putting them inside yourself? Or even C) any combination of the two? 

If A, you’ll probably enjoy a nice vibrator for beginners. While if you want the feel of something inside you, go for a dildo for virgins. And for a combination, you can opt for a vibrating dildo or a rabbit vibrator. 


FAQs

How To Stimulate The G-Spot For First Timers?

The G-spot is not located in exactly the same place for everyone. Generally, it’s supposed to be on the front wall of the vagina, about 3 inches deep

When you’re aroused, the G-spot swells up, making finding it easier – the area feels spongy

Use your fingers or a sex toy for virgins with a curved shaft and take your time to feel around. Pressing on your G-spot should feel more pleasurable than the rest of the area.  

You can stimulate it by pressing in it or rubbing it with a “come hither” motion. Try out different movements to see what works best for you.


Can Virgins Use Vibrators? What about Dildos?

Yes, of course!

Not only can virgins use sex toys, I think they should. That way, virgins can understand our bodies better.


How Can Physically Impaired Users Enjoy The Use of Sex Toys For Virgins?

Physically-impaired users may look for toys with remote controls or app controls. This makes the experience almost hands-free.

If you’re suffering from a disability that makes self-lubrication difficult, load up plenty of lube on your toy before using it. Textured materials hold onto more lube. 

You can also use toys with longer handles, so you can reach your erogenous zones more easily.


Final Thoughts

Hopefully, you now have a better understanding of the options available when it comes to sex toys for beginners and newbies.

Start at the bottom, take it slow, start climbing to the top intermediate sex toys.

Be safe and have fun!

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.

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