What’s The Best Butt Plug That Will Work For You?

There is no best butt plug – there can only be the right one for YOUR specific needs. Find out which one is the perfect choice!

Best Butt Plug

I personally tested and spent over 40 hours of research. To uncover the 10 of the best anal plugs for every situation.

Top Anal Plugs At A Glance

Lovehoney Vibrating Inflatable

Lovehoney Vibrating Inflatable


Price: $
Material: Soft Plastic
Insertable Length: 4.5″
Girth: 9″
Flexibility: Flexible

Icicles No 48

Pipedreams Icicles No 48


Price: $$
Material: Glass
Insertable Length: 3″
Girth: 4″
Flexibility: Rigid

Dominix Fox Tail


Price: $$$
Material: Metal
Insertable Length: 3.75″
Girth: 5″
Flexibility: Rigid

pipedreams cute icicles glass butt plug

Pipedreams Icicles No 48

Best for partner play

Pipedreams sex toys mostly have non-body safe products. But they have really nailed it with their Icicles glass toy line.

Glass opens up a fun temperature play. And some just love the feel of glass where silicone is too squishy and steel is heavy. Plus it will heat up a lot if used for an extended time.

This is a beautiful borosilicate glass (shatter-resistant) butt plug. It will look nice in the butt making you want to show it off to your partner.

The girth is not big. But the neck is quite thick making it not so comfortable for long-term wear. However it will definitely help with stretching those sphincters.

Best used during the partner play. As the stretched rectum will make the vaginal walls tighter.

It is a beautiful body-safe option. And affordable alternative to fake steel princess jewel butt plugs.

vibrating inflatable butt plug demonstrated

Lovehoney Vibrating Inflatable

Best inflatable

Inflatable butt plugs plus vibrations are something else.

Hard to compare with anything else. You start by inserting a 1.6″ widest point plug, but then it inflates up 2.86″.

This vibrating plug gives a very interesting pressure to the G or P-spot and rectum wall. Where the nerve endings are. Some love it, some hate it.

However, if you hope to use this for stretching and preparing for anal sex, it won’t work.

Air will always go to the area of the least resistance . — The rectum and will stretch the least around the sphincters. 

Depending on your desires, it might be just the thing you need or NOT.

Also, this is the cheapest vibrating + inflatable option, but it’s NOT body-safe.

I would strongly urge you to look at this silicone inflatable butt plug that inflates up to 2.7″. 

It doesn’t have vibrations, but it will be a better long-term choice.

fox tail butt plug for cute furry pet play

Dominix Fox Tail

Best for pet fetish

You don’t want to be in pet fetish or be a furry to enjoy this beautiful looking tail plug.

There are all the variations you can imagine — fox, cat, bunny, wolf, horse (and unicorn in 5 colors) tail butt plugs. But you do need to watch out for materials.

This Dominix foxtail is not made from body-safe steel. See that its marked as “metal” not steel. 

The thing is that medical-grade steel is expensive. And also the quality tail has an expensive price tag.

Even body-safe Crystal delights glass plug bunny plugs also has a costly price tag.

What are the body-safe alternatives if you’re on a budget? 

Well, you can look for a silicone butt plug with a tail. And still, get good looking, but not that high-quality tail itself. Like this fox tail with plug.

Ninja tip: You can also buy a stainless steel plug like njoy Pure plugs with a loop and buy the tail separately 😉

best vibrating butt plug by lovense hush

Lovense Hush Vibrating

If there’s one thing butt plug enthusiasts agree with is that Lovense Hush is the best vibrating butt plug made.

It has powerful, rumbly vibrations. In fact, you can feel them during the sex when the plug is in the butt and you have normal vaginal intercourse. It’s pretty amazing.

USB rechargeable, battery lasts 1.5–2hrs and Lovense gives it a 1-year warranty.

You can control the plug with your phone. Allowing to essentially control it from anywhere in the world. Making it a fun toy for long-distance relationships.

Some people report that the app has been faulty. This is why it’s especially important to buy the plug from Lovense’s official site. And in case of problems make full use of their warranty.

Check out our Lovense Hush review for more details about this product.

Here are few honorary vibration mentions if you’re looking for different vibrations:

  • B-vibe has a rimming butt plug. – Where the neck of the plug rotates giving incredible unique sensations
  • Nexus Ace vibrating plug is similar to Lovense. But it has a remote control which works more reliably than the app sometimes does. Plus Nexus is extra quiet and cheaper.

tantus anal training butt plug kit

Tantus Perfect Anal Training Kit

This is a two-piece kit including bestselling Tantus butt plugs.

Looking to start small? But don’t want to use your fingers the smallest butt plug is the perfect size of the finger with 0.75″ widest point.

The easy to clean smaller toy will be always great to warm up with.

Then the second plug has vibrations. (while being waterproof) Has less pointy end, wider neck, and could be used for stretching a bit.

You can also later replace the vibe to a much more powerful vibe. Like the Tango or use included bullet vibe separately.

Overall Tantus makes tons of great butt plugs. And I strongly recommend you explore their product page some more.

The Tantus Ryder rounded tip – makes it a very popular silicone long-term wear option. And Tantus Ringo’s wider neck really helps with stretching.

The easy to clean Tantus gets the basics of good butt plug anatomy mostly right.

bvibe butt plugs for long term wear at work

B-vibe Plugs

B-vibe has really focused on making the most comfortable long term wear silicone plug. While also making it heavy.

The thin base and the long thin neck create the perception that the plug isn’t even there if it wouldn’t be for the weight. Or the jiggling balls and that pleasant pressure on the rectal walls. 

While the plug itself could be softer, it feels pretty great…and those jiggling balls!

While these plugs won’t stretch you, they will allow maximizing the wear time.

It comes in 4 sizes and weight options.

Here’s the largest 257g, 1.7″ girth and 5.2″ insertable length version.

The only downside with silicone is that the lube dries up quickly. And you cannot use the longest-lasting silicone lube with it. The next best alternative is unrefined coconut oil.

And yeah, silicone will retain some odor over time.

You might also want to look at this similar easy to clean Fun Factory jiggle balls version.

Fun Factory butt plug takes that ball jiggling to the next level anal play.

tristan anal training and ass stretching butt plug

Vixen Creations Tristan Anal Stretching Plug

Tristan is actually the most popular toy for anal play training. Because it’s wide neck really stretches the anal sphincters. Thus allowing for anal sex to be a lot more enjoyable.

Sit with this in for an hour, and you should be ready for a good session.

It’s named after Tristan Taormino. A famous sex educator and author of the book “Anal Sex for Women”, so she really knows her stuff.

The plug comes in two sizes — 1.5″ and 2″ girth. 1.5″ mimicking the most average size penis owners.

There are also versions with a hollow middle allowing space for vibrating egg.

You probably still need smaller plugs to warm up for this one. But if you ever wanted to have enjoyable anal sex, you need this plug to prepare for it.

different sizes haka jeweled crystal princess butt plug from stainless steel

Haka Swaroski Jewelled Princess

As previously mentioned on tail plugs, steel has a not so affordable price point.

This is especially the case with that princess jeweled butt plugs that are so popular. People see cute “metal or fake stainless steel” shiny plug for $20–30 and go for it.

But it’s not body-safe. The chrome plating or alloy that the plug is covered with can come off and create problems. No one wants an infected ass right?

The only stainless steel jeweled princess butt plugs with safe materials. And a wide enough base for safety are Haka brand plugs.

They are made from medical grade steel and come with real Swaroski crystal jewels.

Also, the base is big enough to avoid plug getting sucked in which is a big problem with most cheap princess plugs.

njoy pure stainless steel best butt plugs

nJoy Pure

I saved the best for the last. 

Chances are you’ve either heard about Njoy pure plug. Or the Pure Wand that’s given more squirting orgasms than any other toy.

Excited? Learn how to anal orgasm first to prepare.

Njoy is the hands-down most loved butt plug across anyone who knows anything about anal play.

They are not cheap, but they will last for a lifetime. The weight and the rigidness is unforgiving. 

That steel looks manly, it can be used with any oils, slides in easily and doesn’t retain any odors. It stays put securely for extended wear.

The shape of the plug and it’s bigger cousin Pure Fun is designed for mind-blowing P or G-spot stimulation.

Many love to wear nJoy stainless steel plug for long term wear. Though some don’t like how steel can get incredibly hot. And its rigidness can feel uncomfortable over time.

But 90% of people love nJoy plugs. The only big decision is to decide on the size, which is why it’s probably not best to go for nJoy as your first plug.

Experiment with cheaper silicone plugs first. And then invest in a quality badass plug like nJoy. 

Or…get a cheaper glass plug version Icicles.

lovehoney vibrating butt plug

Lovehoney Vibrating 3.5″

If you’re looking to start really cheap, yet body-safe this is a great choice.

You’ll get to experience vibrations and have a smooth pointy, yet comfortable T-base butt plug. 

The vibrator is not powerful. But you can always later replace it with the best vibe in the market — We-Vibe Tango (a great investment in any sex toy box).

Lovehoney butt tingler sex toys come in three different sizes. But the most popular is the 3.5″ insertable length and 1.4″ girth version.

What You Should Know

Butt plugs are seemingly so simple sex toys. But the same as the world of dildos, to get started you need to learn quite a bit.

To make sure your desired outcome aligns with the reality.

For example, in each of the cases you’ll want a different anal plug:

  • Looking for a comfortable butt plug to wear during the day at work?
  • Do you want to stretch yourself to prepare for enjoyable anal sex?
  • You want an anal plug to be worn during sex? (double penetration)
  • You’re looking to specifically stimulate the G or P-spot which has lots of nerve endings?

But on top of that, there is the foundation of what you know about butt plug designs.

The design of a butt plug may be subtle but it will affect a lot how you will feel when putting it in and having it in. 

For example, you must know the safe materials for your sex toys. Or what is the safe shape of the base to ensure the anal plug doesn’t get sucked in the butt.

And avoid those that creates unnecessary danger for yourself.

So with that being said, what are the qualities of a great butt plug?

elements of good butt plug explained

The Anatomy

the base of princess jeweled butt plugs and danger

The Base

Let get started with safety first.

The size of the base matters. The last thing you want is to have the butt plug sucked in during the passionate play and then not being able to get it out.

Generally T-shaped base and a flared base would be a good choice.

The jeweled princess butt plugs are the most famous of having these issues.

These sex toys look beautiful, but their base is too small. 

On top of that, the cheap knockoffs (anything $20–$50 range) are not made from stainless-steel. 

You’ll see chrome plated plugs, and they are not safe to wear as chrome wears off over time (and get stuck in your butt hole).

Princess butt plugs look gorgeous. But expect to pay more for quality and body-safe stainless steel options. Silicone toys are much cheaper.

These anal plugs are great for presentation, but not so great sex toy for long-term wear or comfiness.

The main reason is the butt plug’s round shape. It will squeeze in your butt cheeks and not be pleasant.

Which is why T-shaped bases are a lot better. They snugly fit between the cheeks and anatomy works in our favor.

Some may prefer the flared base. But it really comes to individual preference.

But then again steel is rigid. That’s why many favor silicone which is lighter and softer. It simply feels comfier inside and outside sitting between the cheeks.

pointy tip vs rounded tip on the silicone butt plugs

The Shape Of The Tip

If you’re a beginner: the pointier, smaller the initial size of the tip the easier it will be to insert the plug.

But you can also use fingers to open up your butt a bit and start with more rounded plug EASY. 

And you can save some money on not getting super low entry beginner’s plug.

The main con with pointy tips comes if you decide to sit on it. It’s gonna stab your rectal wall.

Walking around, having sex is all fine, just sitting won’t be pleasant.

This is something to consider if you’re looking for a plug that you’ll wear more often during the day. 

A more rounded tip is highly recommended.

plugs for long term wear and glass plug shapes

Gradual Increase And Decrease In Size

After the tip, there is a gradual increase. And after reaching the widest point, there should be a gradual decrease in the size. Until you reach the neck of the plug and the base.

This is the main problem with most ace shaped or jeweled princess butt plugs.

There is a big bulb that slowly increases in size and then there’s a sharp drop that snaps the plug in place.

Yes, it’s all fine on insertion, but removal will be a pain. 

The girthier the plugs you use the more you’ll feel this sharp drop-off. 

Watch out.

Length And Width Of The Neck

First of all, watch out for toys with a short neck. Anything less than 1″ in length is a red flag. 

This is because we have two anal sphincters. 

One external that we can control and second that’s more internal that we cannot control, but we can relax.

This is man’s anatomy, but sphincters don’t change for genders.

Plugs with short necks are uncomfortable. Because the inner sphincter cannot relax as it sits not on the neck. But on the wider part of the plug essentially wanting to push it outside.

The second thing to watch out is the width.

If you’re looking for comfortable wear — you want as thin neck as possible. So you don’t feel the plug on sphincters, but feel the pleasant sensations as it presses to G or P-spot.

If you’re looking for stretching and preparing for anal sex you want to wear something with a wider neck. To be able to relax the sphincters over time to be able to take in something of the size of the penis, for example.

body safe materials silicone glass stainless steel butt plugs

Which Material to Choose? Soft vs Firm

This is a big decision both from the standpoint of sensations you want and your budget.

There are three main body-safe materials that you can choose from:

  • Silicone Butt Plugs: silicone is great for long-term wear as it’s softer and has more “give” to adjust to your anus. These plugs are also the most affordable. Downsides are that they don’t slide as easy, this softness also doesn’t pressure the G or P-spot as much. And you cannot use silicone lube with them (can use coconut oil though). Oh, and no matter how they are easy to clean, they will retain some odor.
  • Borosilicate Glass Butt Plugs: Glass looks awesome. It is rigid and more affordable than its close neighbor steel and slides in easy. Plus they are great for temperature play, meaning you can warm them up or cool them down before anal play. The downside is that most glass plugs have round bases. Or flared base that are uncomfortable and will dig into your butt cheeks.
  • Stainless-Steel Butt Plugs: (the real ones) plugs that are indestructible. And they will last forever. They are heavy, slide in easily, and easy to clean. You can use any lube with them, and steel plug will hit the G or P-spot nicely & forcefully. The downside is that steel plugs retain temperature. They are cold at first, and later they become very hot after extended wear. Also, they are not as comfortable for long-term wear. And they are the priciest of the bunch (the real stainless-steel material).

 → It’s about answering the question: What is the desired outcome you want?

  • Silicone: The most comfortable for long term wear. Also the most affordable body-safe option. It has vibrating options.
  • Glass: Has lots of qualities that of steel at a very affordable price tag. Not so many shapes available though (but look into Icicles).
  • Stainless Steel: Looks sexy, feels great for pressing the right buttons. Heavy. Expensive. Indestructible. It can use with silicone lube that lasts for a long time. Can be bundled with a lube shooter.

I recommend starting with silicone or glass as they are a lot more affordable.

Then you can later upgrade to a high-quality steel option once you know the size you like.

Avoid metal, chrome-plated crap, alloy metal butt plugs. 

That’s NOT stainless steel. It’s an unsafe material that’s been labeled as body-safe.

If you’re thinking you’re getting a great deal, more likely you’re about to stick unsafe metal in your ass.

Many shops will specify their material as metal. Rather than explaining more which raises red flags.

Stainless-steel is expensive. Anything less than $60–80 is a knockoff. 

Njoy’s smallest plug is made of 140 g of medical grade steel.

how to choose the right butt plug size

How To Figure The Right Size For You?

This one is easy. 

Start small, and keep in mind 0.25″ girth increments.

Play with your fingers first. Lube it up and insert one, then two fingers.

See what feels comfortable, measure the width or circumference and start from there.

The Pipedream Anal Fantasy line has 5 affordable gradual increase of silicone plugs.

It does not have a flared base but a T-shape base.

It’s also a good idea to buy anal training kits. And also several cheap different size silicone dildos that you can play with.

Even better if one of them has vibrations. Work your way by starting cheap first (but preferably still body-safe).

We didn’t even focus on prostate toys. But even if women don’t have a prostate, the curved toys still press internally on their G-spot nerve endings. Giving tons of pleasure.

Sometimes a butt plug can be used a hybrid prostate massager.

Finding the best butt plug for you takes time and pleasant self-exploration 🙂

But at least now you can avoid common mistakes to work your way to make better decisions huh?

How To Use

Is it your first time with a butt plug?

Not to worry, here are a few pointers on how to proceed:

  • Anal pleasure takes time — don’t rush it. Even with plenty of lube, it will take time depending on the size of the plug you’ve chosen. Start with rubbing around the hole with fingers, breathe.
  • It should never be painful — if it’s painful you’re doing something wrong. The usual suspects: not enough lube, going too fast, being stressed, or too big butt plug. If trouble getting the plug inside occurs. Squeeze the Kegel muscles out in short bursts — it will help with relaxation.
  • Play by yourself first — even if you want to play with your partner. Experiment by yourself first so you are able to relax and enjoy the anal play together
  • Arouse yourself first. — You will heighten the anal experience 10x if you masturbate a bit beforehand. Or have sex…and introduce the butt plug later
  • Start small and size up in 0.25″ increments — Never go from zero to penis size. Start with one finger, then the smallest butt-plug, then a bigger butt plug. Till you’re ready to even for anal sex if that’s your cup of tea.
  • What goes in the butt, CANNOT go in the vagina — the butt has bacteria and the vagina is a sensitive ecosystem. Don’t use fingers on the butt and then on the vagina. Watch out for butt liquids getting into the vagina. Use towels. Use a condom on the finger. Stay safe.

If you’re worried about cleanliness, you can simply poop before, take a shower and play with your finger in there.

It will be both good for cleaning and warming up your butt.

Of course, you can always do anal douching. Make sure to do it with the best anal douche but it’s really not required.

What To Do After The Butt Plug Is Inserted?

Working your way to getting a butt plug inserted is tons of fun if you allow it to be. 

Pushing the plug inside, then relaxing a bit. Afterwards releasing, breathing, lubricating, and going deeper while still gently masturbating.

For one, you could surprise your partner with wearing one, then it’s especially sexy to have one of those jeweled butt plugs or a tail plug.

The ones with a rounded base aren’t best for walking around, but it’s fine for a little bit.

Sex feels incredible with a butt plug in. It’s my personal favorite.

During vaginal penetration, both of you will feel extra intense sensations. And tightness while feeling very naughty.

If you get a powerful vibrating butt plug, like Lovense Hush. You’ll both feel those rumbling vibrations during sex. It will feel like his penis is vibrating too.

The best positions with a butt plug?:

  • Doggy-style (not talking about using a dog dildo.) It’s great for visual pleasure, plus his abdomen will push a bit on the plug when thrusting.
  • Missionary: it’s always heavenly. Also if she has a butt plug and she’s laying on stomach. Then the partner’s whole body weight will push against the plug and feel incredible.

In short, try everything you do normally without a butt plug, and notice how all the sensations change. 

Use a blindfold, restraints, massage, give oral, or even incorporate bondage furniture 😉

How to Remove It?

SLOWLY. Similar to removing anal beads, you have to remove it slowly.

What might happen is that eventually lube dries up. And if you’re overexcited you will pull the plug out too fast which will be painful.

In preparation, work your way by doing little rimming. And lube it up as much around butthole and inside as possible.

Don’t yank it out with brute force.

It also helps to push the plug out with your sphincter as if you were about to poop while pulling the plug at the same time.

Squatting on the ground or doggie positions are the easiest ones to get a plug out.

If it’s still painful, then maybe you’ve bought a bad plug that doesn’t have a smooth increase and a decrease in bulb’s size. 

If that’s the case reread the anatomy of a great butt plug section.

Once the widest part is out, it’s easy sailing. Till then, take your time.

How to Clean It

While you can definitely boil non-vibrating silicone toys and stainless steel. Usually it’s enough to clean with antibacterial soap and warm water.

Keep in mind that no matter what you’ll do silicone will retain some odor, but it goes away after some time. 

Stainless steel are easy to clean and glass don’t retain odor so pick those if that bothers you a lot.


My Butt Plugs Keep Falling Out, What To Do?

Usually, this happens because a butt plug has a short neck. Not allowing sphincters to relax naturally pushing the plug out.

Go for at least 1–2″ long neck to avoid this problem. Then also look at the bulb and neck ratio. For example, Tristan stretching butt plug will want to fall out because of its thick width.

Alternatively, you can also get anal plug harness giving you peace of mind wherever you go.

How Long Can You Leave A Butt Plug In?

For a comfortable long term wear you want a T-base plug with a long, thin neck. With such a plug you could easily go with it for a whole day at work.

Softer silicone plugs are more comfortable, while steel nJoy plug gives more sensations.

Also, keep in mind that you need to keep the lube with you and reapply it as your ass doesn’t naturally lubricate.

Besides B-vibe snug plugs, SquarePeg plugs are soft, squishy, and very comfortable. They are the most loved plugs between experienced long-term plug wearers.

Can I Sleep With A Butt Plug In?

Yes, plenty of people have done it. But it is highly recommended to wear a plug for an extended period while you are awake first.

Prepare that you might not sleep well with plug in.

Wear tight fit underwear to prevent the plug from popping out during the night. Make sure it’s a comfortably sized plug — not too big, not too small, and be prepared to reapply the lube during the night.

Silicone is best for overnight wear.

Can Butt Plug Be Sucked And Get Stuck In The Butt?

Yes, it can if you choose a plug with a small base. But even if it happens, here’s a pro tip: squatting is the best position to push the plug out.

And for ladies, you can insert two fingers inside the vagina. And lock the plug in place while your partner works on your butt to rescue it from the plug.

But you can prevent all of this from happening if you choose a safe, big base (watch out for small princess plug bases).

Bringing It All Together

Now you’re officially a butt plug expert! Congrats!

As you see the best butt plug is the one that satisfies your specific needs. Even a homemade butt plug can be the right one if you’re on a budget.

No easy answer here.

There are so many subtle differences. From a bullet vibrator, anal beads, to an anal plug.

But get them right and you’ll have an incredible experience with anal play.

Even with this information, it will take some trial and error. Before you can decide which best butt plugs you can use for anal play…

But it’s all part of the fun, right? 

Don’t leave the frontier of your butt unexplored! 🙂

Good luck.

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