7 Best Beginner Dildos In 2024 (First & Starter)

Dildos are among the most popular purchases for sex toys—64% of buyers use them to improve their sex lives.

Getting your beginner dildo can be an enjoyable experience, but it can also be a very overwhelming one. With so many sizes, materials, shapes, and features to choose from, it can be hard to know what’s right to start you off. 

That’s why we compiled a list of things to consider and our suggestions to help you enjoy the thrill of buying your first sex toy without worries.

Key Considerations In Choosing The Best Beginner Dildo

• Size and Width: If you’re feeling intimidated, you’ll probably want to start with something smaller to get you used to the feeling. Anything 5 to 6 inches long and 1 inch wide will work great to get you started. Once you’re more experienced, you can try going above 6 inches.
• Shape and Design: For shape, you can choose between curved dildos, which work best at targeting the G-spot, and straight dildos, which may be better for training up to larger sizes. When it comes to design, you can opt for a more realistic dildo that mirrors the human anatomy or go for a whimsical and colorful toy if the lifelike look is not your thing. 
• Material: Silicone is the best material option, as it is a non-porous surface that can be easily sterilized. Other non-porous materials include metal and glass; although these may seem intimidating at first, they are worth trying once you’re more confident. You can also find materials like TPE, PVC, or jelly, which may require a more thorough cleaning routine.
• Flexibility and Texture: You want a beginner dildo with some flexibility and a smooth texture for comfort. A harder dildo is the easiest to insert, but it may be too intense for first-time users. A softer one feels more realistic to the touch but may lack stability. You can get the best of both worlds with a dual-density dildo. These toys have a dense inner core that makes them more stable during play, but the outside is softer, giving you that life-like feel.
• Use and Features: If you plan to use your toy for vaginal penetration only, any kind of dildo will do. However, if you want to explore anal play with it, a flared base is a must to prevent over-insertion. Dildos with extra features like a suction cup,  harnesses, strap-ons, and vibrating toys are an added plus.

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Our Top 3 Beginner Dildos

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The Best Beginner Dildos in 2024

At a glance, you might find Blush Neo Elite looks a lot like NS Novelties Colours Soft. The same realistic look, attached balls, bright color, and so on. But they feel different in use.

Neo Elite is still very much soft and flexible. But it has a firm inner core. So it’s more stable during play and thrusting in it feels pretty lifelike due to the contrast in density.

It feels so good for its price (which is pretty affordable). Don’t get me wrong – it’s not the most realistic beginner dildo you can find ever, but it’s a really good value for your money overall. And it’s the best realistic beginner dildo with an average size at this range.

It has a slight forward tilt (not too curved) and a nice bulbous head to tug at your G-spot. And it also massages your prostate really well. Its balls are also squishy, and I find thrusting and grinding in it enjoyable. Not annoying when it rubs on me.

Even though it’s textured, the veins don’t feel too prominent. That’s good for beginners, so it won’t be too stimulating or irritating. Neo Elite has a smooth satin finish, so there isn’t much friction.

Neo Elite did a very good job that Blush Novelties has expanded its line. It comes in bigger sizes and even in glow-in-the-dark styles!

It does feel sticky when not lubed. It collects dust and lint and hair, but most silicones do. Not a major downside for me, but make sure to store it away safely in its storage case.

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NS Novelties Colours Soft has been one of my favorites for years, and I’m sure a lot of people’s too. It’s beginner-friendly in all aspects – the size, shape, color, and price.

This beginner dildo has a realistic look. It has protruding veins, swollen balls, and a pronounced coronal ridge. So, using this dong can make you feel like you’re doing it with the real thing.

Most beginners and first-time buyers don’t fancy ultra-realistic beginner dildos (you know, like they look close to being a severed body part). 

Colours Soft comes in vibrant colors – blue, pink, and purple – so it won’t be too overwhelming seeing it on your nightstand. Of course, that might be a bummer if you’re into realism.

It measures 7 inches long. But don’t worry. You’re not supposed to put in the entire length. Since it has testicles, its actual insertable length is only 5.25 inches. And its width is manageable at 1.4 inches.

Plus, it has a slim and tapered head that makes insertion very easy. The glans is usually the imposing and thickest part of the beginner dildo. A tapered shape helps you slide it in without discomfort.

Another thing I enjoyed about Colours Soft is its softness and squishiness. I recommend it if you’re looking for a soft, soft beginner dildo all the way. It makes this beginner dildo feel very comfortable during play, but this one’s not it if you want hard and fast thrusting. 

Since it’s too soft and flexible, it may be floppy for your vigorous sessions.

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Vixen Spur VixSkin is the slimmest beginner dildo we have on our list. (It’s only 1.19 inches wide!) It’s an ultra-realistic slimline beginner dildo that I can recommend to beginners exploring penetration play.

The only thing is… it comes in a premium price tag. It isn’t the most affordable option for beginners who have just started dipping their toes into beginner dildos. But it’s worth every cent.

It delivers the most realistic feel of a real penis. Its slightly curved shaft and detailed head make it a top choice for first-timers. Its curve is a reeeeally good angle to hit your G-spot or P-spot. And the realistic feel is just as expected from VixSkin, Vixen’s well-renowned patented material.

Since it’s soft, you can just glide it in without much difficulty. There’s also this subtle ridge under its head that isn’t too prominent but rubs your canal juuuuust right. Trust me.

Unlike Neo Elite and Colours Soft, Spur doesn’t have a suction cup base. It also doesn’t have balls, which may be better if you’re not into bumping the balls while thrusting. 

It isn’t your choice for hands-free action, but you can use it with a partner for strap-on plays.

Another great thing about Spur is it’s responsive to temperature. It retains heat well (from your body heat or wrapping it in a warm blanket before using) and gives lifelike sensations, especially if you’re into realism.

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Two things about Lovehoney Curved: it’s very curved, and it’s very smooth.

If you want to start your beginner dildo journey by keeping it simple and affordable, Lovehoney Curved might just be what you’re looking for.

Unlike all the beginner dildos we have listed so far, this one doesn’t have the look of a natural penis. Yes, it has the shape on the slightly bulged head, but the “realism” ends there. So, I recommend this to buyers who don’t like the look of penis-looking dildos.

It’s smooth overall. No textures, no bumps, no ridges. Instead, it’s all about the CURVE. Its nice, long shaft bends upward and does an outstanding job massaging your G-spot. And you can use it on your prostate because it’s long, pretty slim, and untextured.

It also has something unique from most beginner dildos: a hole under its base where you can insert a standard bullet vibe. This will add rumbling vibrations to your beginner dildo while using it. Fun, right?

The hole is quite short, though. So you either use your bullet vibe OR use the dildo’s suction cup base. You can’t do both, unfortunately.

One thing to note is that while it has a smooth matte finish, so it feels soft to touch, this one is on the firmer side. 

Good thing: the shaft doesn’t bend much. Bad thing: it might be too firm for some newbies.

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If you’re debating whether you should get a beginner dildo or a vibrator first, why not get a toy that does both. Mantric Rechargeable Realistic Vibrator can introduce waves of pleasure into your sexploration both internally and externally, depending on where you position it. 

It has a slight curve to hit your G-spot or P-spot and a rounded bulbous head to massage your pleasure points.

It comes in 7 vibration modes, so you can get gentle or powerful rumbly vibrations that you want. I also like how it’s easy to use – the color of the LED panel changes when I switch modes, which is helpful. And the button is easy to reach. It just sits under the toy.

The size is small but enough to be filling. While it’s pretty firm, it’s soft to touch and easy to slide in.

It’s rechargeable, meaning you won’t waste much money running through numerous AA batteries. 

This vibrating beginner dildo doesn’t have a flared base. You may find it difficult to hold when your hands are all lubed up.

It could also be loud, especially if you’re using higher speeds. That’s something to note if you want to be discreet. Be careful of waking up some sleeping roommate.

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We love the Tantus Curve for G-spot stimulation because it doesn’t just have that curve. It also has texture. *wink*

Tantus Curve is very, well, curved. You can explore targeted sensation by using the Curve to thrust in just the right depth (and explore along the way). Plus, it has rippling ridges under its shaft that will stimulate you as you slide it in and out. 

This is great for short thrusts because of its underside textures. But, that also means you’d have to be up for extra internal stimulation, or else it would be uncomfy for you.

This beginner dildo is just for beginners as it’s built to make insertion easy. The tapered head is very easy to glide into your desired hole – whether it’s your vagina or anus. And it has a very smooth and glossy texture, so it really just slips in.

Thanks to its slight squishiness, beginners can thrust hard with it that doesn’t feel painful. You can do so as you can grip its base really well as it’s easy to hold.

But that’s it – for holding. Tantus Curve doesn’t have a suction cup base, so you can’t use it hands-free. Instead, you can attach it to a harness.

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Okay, hear me out. Just because you’re a beginner doesn’t mean you always have to start small or simple.

If you’re a more adventurous fox, add a bit more spice to your starter dildo with Tantus Cush O2. 

Cush has a little bit more length, girth, and texture than your average starter dildo. Because, why not?

Still, Cush is great for beginners because it has a very tapered head. So even though it’s quite thick, it’s not unconquerable. Plus, the outer layer of this beginner dildo feels soft, pliable, squishy, and velvety. 

It also has this extra raised ridge in the middle of the shaft along with the ridge on its head. Those are two bumps you can feel as you pump it in and out. Most beginner dildos are curved to target your G-spot or prostate, but Cush caresses them using its ridges.

Again, these textures add more stimulation. But the soft outer texture makes it very pleasing, not irritating.

Cush doesn’t have a suction cup, too, like Tantus Curve. But, it’s harness compatible as well. 

Like many silicone beginner dildos, it needs lots of lube. Or else, it feels tacky. That also means it easily collects dust, lint, and hair. Hence, storage is very, very important.

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FAQ

What is a beginner dildo?

A beginner or starter dildo is designed for newbies who want to explore penetration using sex toys. They are usually phallic, but they don’t always look like a penis biologically. 

Beginner dildos are also smaller or more average-sized to accommodate first-time users who might find larger sizes intimidating and difficult to insert. They can be used vaginally or anally, so men and women can explore their sexual prowess with it.

They might be simple in function, but you can grow with them as you become more experienced and comfortable exploring more advanced plays.

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How to use a beginner dildo?

Using a beginner dildo doesn’t have to be a daunting endeavor. There is no right or wrong way to use it. But, here are some tips, so you get an enjoyable and safe experience:

• Prepare your water-based lubricant. Lube is important to avoid friction when inserting your toy.
• Consider using a condom. It saves you cleaning time and helps ensure you don’t get infections.
• Make sure you’re wet and ready before you insert it. Set the mood, play some music, watch some porn, and so on.
• Find your rhythm. You can go for deep or shallow thrusts, slow or fast – totes up to you.
• Clean it! You should always clean your toy before putting it away to avoid infections.

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What are the best positions using A Beginner Dildo?

• Lying on your back: It’s the most comfortable position, and this will help you relax and ease up to the toy. You can bend your knees for easier access or lie on your side for a filling sensation.
• Sitting: This is a great position to stimulate your G-spot. I find leaning back a little with my knees slightly bent more comfortable. 
• Squatting: If your beginner dildo has a suction cup base, you can stick it to your floor. This position gives you control over how deep or fast you want to go. It’s straining on the leg, but it’s good exercise, so why not?
• On all fours: Yep, you can take your beginner dildo doggy-style. First, if you have a partner, they can wear the beginner dildo using a strap-on. Second, you can stick your dildo’s suction cup to a wall. 

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How to clean and store it?

Silicone starter dildos are very easy to clean. You can sterilize it by submerging it in boiling water for around 15 minutes. Then, you may also wash it with a mild soap or do spot cleaning by wiping with a damp cloth before sterilization.

But not all toys are made equal. The best thrusting vibrating dildo have a motor, so you can’t submerge them in water. In this case, wiping is enough.

If you’re using nonporous toys like soft plastic and TPE (which I don’t recommend), it’s trickier as they can’t be thoroughly sterilized. Still, make sure you clean it well.

After washing your beginner dildo, dry it well to avoid molds. Then, place it in its storage bag and store it in a dry area away from direct sunlight.

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Conclusion

Beginner dildos are adult toys that you can use for many sexual purposes – vaginal or anal penetration, solo or partnered play, men or women. The sky’s the limit.

By the end of this article, you’ve probably found your next best play buddy or gotten an idea of what you like. So, which one’s earned a spot in your drawer? Let us know!