12 Best Anal Toys for Men in 2023 for Fun Ass Play

A thorough roundup of the best anal toys for men. Whether you’re a beginner or advanced user, you’ll find all the best vibrating anal plugs, anal beads, prostate massagers, etc., here. Read on:

Everyone has a butthole. That means everyone can enjoy anal play.

But people with prostates do experience something more magical in their derrière during this type of sex sesh.

The prostate or P-spot is a highly-coveted area surrounded by nerve endings.

Men – straight and gay – are enjoying the added sensations of anal toys for masturbation, foreplay, and partnered play. And why not? It offers a very unique orgasm that sends shivers from your head down to your toe.

Looking for the best anal toys for men? You’re at the right place as I’ve narrowed down your search for you, starting with the top three:

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Top Anal Toys for Men in 2023

Aneros is a popular brand in the sex toy world. It is known for having the best prostate massagers in the market. And I wholeheartedly agree.

Meet Aneros Helix Syn Trident.

This one is the 4th generation of Aneros’ line of Helix prostate massagers. As you can expect, it’s perfected with all the well-received features of its predecessors PLUS better upgrades and improvements.

Helix Syn Trident feels very good because it stimulates your prostate internally and perineum externally. These are two pleasure hotspots with lots of nerve endings. And – you can do it hands-free with just anal kegel exercises.

The only reason I might not recommend it to you is if you’re looking for a bigger massager. This one’s petite, making it perfect for beginners while also being very stimulating.

All that greatness, yet it doesn’t come with a hefty price tag. It’s really the best value for your money without a shadow of a doubt.

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Big things may come in smaller packages, like Rocks-Off Petite Sensations Pearls. It’s small, not intimidating, and easy on the pocket.

Petite Sensations Pearls only has a width of 0.88 inches. It’s very manageable for everyone, especially beginners. With plenty of water-based lube, the sensations when you insert it into your bum will be delightful as it has a velvet-soft feel to touch.

The anal beads on their own are enjoyable to use as you feel each bead pop into your sphincter. But what makes this toy even better is it has a vibe! It has three speeds so you can go as slow or as fast as you like. Additionally, there are four vibrating patterns for variety.

While it’s very slim, it has a pretty long insertable length to reach further into your back end as you’re comfortable. Of course, you don’t have to go all the way. But having the option right there when you’re ready is nice.

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Lelo Loki evokes premium. It might be on the pricier side, but that doesn’t stop many men from having this in their repertoire. If you ask most guys, they’ll usually have their own piece of Loki as their favorite prostate massager.

Loki has a tapered tip, making insertion easy. Then, you will experience quite a good stretch as you go down its middle portion. With that, I find this better for more moderate prostate players – not so much for beginners.

I like the variety of options available for vibration settings, from pulsating throbs to strong vibrations.

It has a handle to give you more control and precision. This pairs really well with its nice curves and good girth.
Plus, you will feel its premiumness when you touch it with its silky silicone finish. This vibrating toy is waterproof, so you can bring it with you in the bath or shower for some fun water play.

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SquarePegToys Egg Plugs ticks the boxes of what you’ll most likely look for in a butt plug: has girth and not much length.

These Egg Plugs are soft and comfortable to wear, but they’re not very flexible. And that’s a good thing so that it’s easier to insert into your bumhole. Manageable to wear on an extended time while still giving you a good amount of pressure.

It just has the right shape to be stimulating without poking your insides, as it has a rounded blunt.

It also comes in three more sizes if you want to size up. Its neck is quite chubby, so it can be suitable for anal stretching and training.

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Lelo Hugo is the zaddy of prostate massagers. It gives you double the pleasure with its two motors that stimulate and titillate your prostate and perineum for earth-shattering orgasms.

This toy is great for solo and partnered play because it’s remote-controlled. Easily control the vibes when you’re alone or have your partner take the wheel and drive you to the big O.

It’s quite girthy. Something to note if you’re a beginner, but great for more advanced players as it will make you feel full!

Only thing is… it’s expensive. If you’ve got the money to buy it, definitely go for it. If not, add it to your wishlist for now.

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Rocks-Off 7 Function O-Boy is one of the things I would pick up as a beginner.

It’s a vibrating prostate massager that’s slim and has a velvet-smooth finish for comfort and easy insertion. It also stimulates your perineum on its textured flared base – extra sensations are always welcome.

This toy is designed for you to wear it hands-free and stimulate yourself by making a rocking back-and-forth motion.

It has a removable vibe with 7-speed options. I find the variations great for beginners as it’s not too strong but offers variety. However, more advanced users might find these vibrations weak.

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Aneros Tempo is named this way as it’s a toy where you’re meant to supply the rhythm. 

Since it’s weighted, the massager will gently rock as you thrust it in and out. This anal stimulation is very unique, especially as this steel dildo has knobs and smooth ridges strategically placed to hit your prostate gland and inner and outer sphincters.

The metallic finish makes gliding it very easy along with your favorite lube. It also retains heat and cold really well – great to use for temperature play.

The manageable size makes it perfect for beginners. However, more seasoned anal players might find this toy quite small for their needs.

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You want to use a dildo, but you don’t want one that looks like a peen. Don’t worry. Not all dildos look realistic. Take Fun Factory The Boss, for example.

It’s not realistic, but you won’t miss out on the sensations. The slight curve on its shaft seeks your prostate at the right angle. It also has a well-defined head shape for easy insertion but with a good stretch.

The Boss is harness-compatible so that you can use it with your partner for pegging. It has a flared base, making it safe for anal play. But it has no hands-free option as it doesn’t come with a suction cup base.

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b-Vibe Rimming Butt Plug is a rocket-shaped anal vibrating toy. Insert it into your back door and cycle through its 6 intensity levels to find the sensations of the right vibration for you.

It’s remote-controlled, so you don’t have to fumble for the buttons when switching the vibrations. This feature makes it great for solo and partnered play.

Plus, its neck has rotating beads. This sits on your sphincter and replicates the feeling of rimming, which is really good!

This toy’s girth gives you a full sensation, but it might be too thick for anal play starters. It has a blunt tip, though, so it’s manageable for you to work your way in. Cautiously, of course.

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NJoy Fun Wand is the G of prostate stimulation because of its firmness, curve, and rounded tips.

It has an S-shape that offers a variety of stimulation. The one end has a large head that does a great job massaging your P-spot, which you can easily reach thanks to its subtle curve.

Meanwhile, the other tip has three graduated beads that will feel good as you pop each ball in and out of your anus.

Plus, you can explore temperature with it for some unique sensations.

Fun Wand is made of stainless steel, a more expensive material. So, this metal dildo is on the pricier side.

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Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Intensified Silicone Anal Beads are great for beginners, but even experienced anal players can use it. 

These anal beads are not for anal stimulation alone but more like a companion to add sensations during your sexy sessions.

Inserting these anal beads can be challenging as it’s very flexible. That also makes it not friendly for thrusting, which is okay. Because the joy of using these anal beads is when you pull them out mid-orgasm ala Christian-Grey way. And pulling it out is very easy, thanks to its handle loop.

It is long – at 7.5 inches insertable length. But you can easily go as shallow or deep as you’re comfortable with.

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Blush Impressions N5 is an anal vibrator with ten total functions: 5 for different speeds and 5 for vibration patterns. Plus, it has a suction-cup base, so you can use it hands-free by simply attaching it to the floor or a wall.

It has a bulging head, measuring 1.7 inches wide, and is quite thick to insert. After surviving that stretch, you will land at 1.5 inches on its shaft. 

That ridge on its head might be a hurdle for beginners. But once you graduate to that stretch, it will feel really good in stimulating your P-spot.

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Buying Guide

Anal-safe and anal-specific

That means two words: flared base.

A flared base will anchor the toy outside your body so it doesn’t get sucked in. Your sphincter is a strong muscle that can push things into your anal cavity (or outside, hopefully). It’s bad news if it does go inside as it doesn’t have an “end” like a vagina. 

So, yes, it could go ALLLLL the way in. That would need a trip to the ER.

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Size

Start small. Your butthole is a tight place. It’s going to be difficult (and painful) to go bigger than what you’re ready for.

Many anal toys are made with that in mind. You can find anal beads and butt plugs that are slim and tapered for easy insertion.

When you’re ready to go bigger, there are always many toys you could go for.

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Material

Material decides a lot of things for your anal toy – Is it body-safe? Will it be firm or flexible? Is it cheap or expensive?

Ideally, go for body-safe materials like silicone and stainless steel. These toys are nonporous, so they don’t harbor bacteria compared to their porous counterparts like TPE, plastic, and jelly.

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Vibrating or non-vibrating

It boils down to preference.

Of course, vibrating anal toys add more sensations that could feel better. But it’s not an end-all-be-all or the “best.”

You might enjoy textures better or weighted toys or curved shafts, and so on. Some men may also find the added vibes overstimulating.

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Budget

Unless you have deep, deep pockets, budget is also an important thing to consider. Who wouldn’t want the best of the best toys, right?

You’ll get what you pay for. Still, many anal toys today are great bangs for the buck. You don’t have to spend a fortune to get a good anal toy.
Avoid going for very cheap products. If a deal is too good to be true, then it might really be. They might be anal toys made from cheap materials that are not body-safe or poor quality.

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FAQ

What are anal toys?

Anal toys come in dozens of varieties. The most popular ones are butt plugs, anal beads, prostate massagers, and anal dildos. Each offers different sensations, so choose a toy that feels best to you.

An essential feature of these anal toys is a flared base to ensure it stays outside of your body when you use it, especially as you use lube that could make it very slippery.

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How to clean anal toys?

Anal toys are fairly easy to clean.

Simply wash them with mild soap and sterilize them with boiling water.

Make sure to check with the manufacturer, though. And if a toy has motors, you most likely shouldn’t submerge it in water when cleaning.

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Why use lube?

Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. 

Not using lube could make anal play painful, and it could bleed or have anal fissures (tears on the skin). We don’t want that.

So, use lots and lots of lube and reapply as often as you can.

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Which lube should I use?

Water-based lube is the safest, regardless of the toy you’re using. It slides well but dries up faster.

Silicone lubricants are thicker and make your toy glide more. However, you can’t use it with silicone anal toys. Silicone on silicone can degrade the material, which might destroy your sex toy. Stainless steel and glass toys are safe to use with silicone lubes.

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Can I double dip?

In case you don’t know, double-dipping is the act of using the same toy to insert into the anus and vagina.

To answer that question, NOPE! Avoid using your anal toy to your female partner. An anus and a vagina have different ecosystems, and mixing them could result in icky repercussions.

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Is sharing toys with my partner a good idea?

That would be up to you.

But, it’s not advisable. Toys are still vectors of bacteria and STIs. Sharing those toys will transmit them from one person to another.

If you want to share toys, you may use a condom over them.

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Conclusion

Using an anal toy for your tush opens up a hole new world of sensations. You might even see stars – in a good way!

Just pick the right toy (which you can find from this list, of course), lube the tube, and relax. And keep that backdoor open for possibilities.