11 Best Anal Toys For Beginners In 2024

Anal play is becoming a highly popular pleasurable exploration due to the abundance of sensory nerve endings in the anal region. According to a recent study, the proportion of Americans who have tried anal play has significantly increased over the years, from 31% in 2001 to 40% in 2022.

Today, more and more people may be looking to explore anal play for the added pleasure and variety it may bring to their sex lives. 

If you’re looking to explore this type of play, start with the best anal toys for beginners. We made sure to list down some of our top choices here and explain why they made it to our list. We also answer some common questions about anal play to ensure you’re all set for a safe and pleasurable journey down there.

Key Considerations To Look For In A Beginner Anal Toy

  • Size: While you can control how much of an anal toy’s length you use in play, you cannot do the same for its girth. So, when it comes to size, the beginner anal toy’s width at its thickest part is a crucial factor to consider. Start small. Typically, the best anal toys for beginners are about 1-1.25 inches wide at their thickest point. So, you’re safer keeping within this size range. 
  • Shape: Any beginner anal toy should have a flared base at least 1 inch wider than its thickest insertable section to ensure it doesn’t slip into the rectum and harm your body. Opt for one with a tapered tip for easier insertion.
  • Material: Some of the safest materials used to make beginner anal toys are silicone, metal, ABS plastic, and glass. These materials are free of harmful chemicals and non-porous, meaning they don’t contain tiny pores that can hide disease-causing germs. Also, ensure the material is safe with your chosen lubricant—remember: the anus does not naturally lubricate like the vagina, so using a generous amount of lubricant is essential.
  • Firmness: Although firmness is mostly a matter of preference, keep in mind that large anal toys often feel more rigid than small ones made from the same material because of added volume. If you prefer sex toys with a rigid feel, go for anal toys made from metal or glass. For a soft, velvety feel, choose beginner anal toys made from silicone. 
  • Toy Type: Choose a beginner anal toy that provides the sensation you seek. If you want to stimulate your prostate, consider using a prostate massager, anal dildo, or butt plug. Anal dildos and butt plugs are excellent for providing a sense of fullness. And anal beads and dildos are best for thrusting. 
  • Budget: Quality is often associated with high cost. However, there are many high-quality anal toys available at reasonable prices. Regardless of your budget, never compromise on body safety. Settle for beginner anal toys made from a body-safe material, like silicone or glass.

Top 3 Anal Toys For Beginners

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Lovehoney Curved Dildo

The Lovehoney Curved dildo is an excellent choice for beginners because of its slim shape and reasonable price. It is made from body-safe silicone, features several sizes, and has a flared base for added safety. It has a suction cup for hands-free play, and its shaft is slightly curved to promote internal stimulation. The downside is that the suction cup may only stick to some surfaces. 

UPGRADE PICK
Njoy Pure Plug

The Njoy Pure Plug is ideal if you’re looking to upgrade to a heavier and more luxurious butt plug. It comes in four weighted sizes, with an easy-to-insert tapered tip and a loop for grasping. It is crafted in highly durable, body-safe stainless steel, which is ideal for temperature play. Despite its relatively high price, this plug is a good investment. 

BEST FOR BEGINNER PROSTATE STIMULATION
Fun Factory Bootie

The Fun Factory Bootie is one of the best butt plugs for those looking to begin their prostate play journey. It comes in three sizes and is made from highly flexible, body-safe silicone with a curved shape designed for prostate play. The flared base fits nicely between the butt cheeks, allowing you to wear it comfortably for a long time. It may, however, disappoint those looking for a more rigid feel. 


The Very Best Beginner Anal toys

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1. Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

material:
Silicone
length:
6”
insertable length
5.5”
width:
1.11”
colors:
Black
price:
$
  • Hands-free fun with suction cup
  • Small dildo with a flared base
  • Curved for prostate and G-spot massage
  • Could feel a little firm

Okay – you want a dildo for your A, but you want something beginner-friendly. It’s your lucky day. I got one: Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo. It will tick all of your boxes.

It’s slim and small to be used for beginners. It has a slightly bulging head that feels GREAT as it slides in your hole. The shaft is also curved – an ideal angle for stimulating your prostate and G-spot.

Use it with your partner for pegging as it’s harness-compatible. But if you’re alone, you can enjoy it hands-free as it has a strong suction cup.

It does feel quite firm without much give, but I also found that firmness is necessary for P-spot stim!


Upgrade Pick

2. nJoy Pure Plug

material:
Stainless steel
length:
3”
insertable length
2.5”
width:
0.95”
colors:
Metallic
price:
$$$
  • Great for temperature play
  • Weighted plug for fullness
  • Pretty packaging
  • Rigid, stimulates your prostate well
  • On the pricier side

NJoy Pure Plug is a JOY to play with!

It might come with a higher price tag, but it’s worth every cent to add it to your backdoor shelf. The shiny stainless steel toy and the pretty packaging feel like this beginner anal toy is very luxurious.

It’s so excellently shaped, like other NJoy anal toys, that it makes insertion very easy.

The firmness of stainless steel is intimidating for a beginner. But trust me with this one. It’s VERY SMALL! Plus, since it’s made of steel, it slides very easily. You can even use silicone lubricant with it.

And, oh! Temperature play. Steel is very good at retaining heat… Or cold, if that’s more of your thing.
The weight and rigidness make you feel full without sizing up so big. But if you’re up to size UP, it also has bigger options in Medium and Large.


Best for Beginner Prostate Stimulation

3. Fun Factory Bootie

material:
Silicone
length:
Not specified
insertable length
3.1”
width:
1.1”
colors:
Violet, Black, Bordeaux (wine red)
price:
$
  • Smooth silicone finish
  • Curved shaft for prostate stim
  • Tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Not for extended wear

Fun Factory Bootie has the bulging head and curves to hit and stimulate your prostate right.

The wide T-base lets you play worry-free as it’s anchored out of your bum. SECURELY. That’s important for a petite beginner anal toy like Bootie.

It has a very curved bulb that seeks your prostate. The large and full swell of the tip does the job of massaging that pleasure hotspot. The neck is thin, but not too thin. It’s great if you want to keep that feeling of fullness on your sphincter without sizing up.

With that, I don’t recommend using it during extended wear as it could dig into your bootie after hoursss.


4. VeDo Bump

material:
Silicone
length:
5”
insertable length
Not specified
width:
1.2”
colors:
Black, purple
price:
$$
  • Vibrating butt plug
  • 10 vibration functions
  • Smooth and velvety finish
  • Recessed power button
  • Submersible
  • Base could dig in your bum during extended use

At a glance, VeDO Bump isn’t the smallest. But, it’s not big either.

Don’t worry – it’s for a reason. This one is something you can start with and continue to keep as you graduate to be more of an anal pro.

It’s a slim plug that makes insertion easy. And the tip is rounded, so it won’t poke you as it goes in. Its T-base is flared enough that it will safely stay anchored outside your body. But it could feel a little uncomfortable the longer it stays bumping into your bum.

But wait, there’s more. Bump is a vibrating butt plug. For this price range, it’s a very well-made butt plug with a velvety silicone feel + vibration. A true bang for the buck!

I also like how the power button is recessed, so you won’t accidentally turn off or change the vibration setting when you sit on it.


5. Satisfyer Silicone Anal Plugs

material:
Silicone
length:
5.25” (Double Ball), 5.5” (Triple Ball), 5.5” (Spiral)
insertable length
3.25”, 3.5”, 3.625”
width:
1.2”, 1.25”, 1.25” (at widest)
colors:
Black, pink, purple
price:
$
  • Super affordable
  • Three beaded insertables
  • Small, tapered tip for easy insertion
  • Not for long-time use

Satisfyer Silicone Anal Plugs will get you FAR with your money. This set is one of the cheapest out of the bunch. Yet you will get not just one, not two, but three beaded anal plugs!

If you’re a beginner who’s interested in textures, you’ll get a lot of variety with these plugs.

One has two elongated beads that go from 1 inch to 1.2 inches wide. The other is triple beaded with a width that starts from 0.7” to 1.25 inches. Finally, the twister bead has a spiral texture with the smallest tip that’s 0.6-inch wide and maxes out at 1.25 inches.

I find this set best for thrusting. The loop base gives you a secure grip to thrust it in and out. With that, I don’t recommend it for extended wear because of its very short neck. It would sit right on your sphincter, which could feel uncomfortable for a long time.

So, thrusting it is.


Smallest Butt Plug

6. Lovehoney Classic Silicone Extra Petite Beginner’s Butt Plug

material:
Silicone
length:
3”
insertable length
3”
width:
0.87”
colors:
Black
price:
$
  • Smallest on this list
  • Very petite for beginners
  • Wide flared base for safe anal play
  • Could slip out due to shorter neck

If you’re looking for the smallest butt plug on this list, here you go: Lovehoney Classic Silicone Extra Petite Beginner’s Butt Plug.

This is a perfect entryway to your backdoor. It’s barely bigger than a finger, so it’s a good butt plug to start with if you’re graduating from finger play.

It’s firm and stays erect when you push it in, but also flexible for comfort as it’s made from silicone. The rounded tip makes insertion easy without being uncomfortable compared to a pointy tip.

It could slip out during play as it’s very small and has a shorter neck and a very wide base. That said, the flared base is so important to keep it outside your body for safe anal play – considering this beginner anal toy is very petite.


Best Vibrating Butt Plug

7. b-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug

material:
Silicone
length:
5”
insertable length
3”
width:
1.43”
colors:
Bright blue
price:
$$$
  • Rotating beads to replicate rimming
  • Many vibration patterns to choose from
  • Wireless remote play
  • Pricey
  • Quite girthy

b-Vibe Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug is a really good vibrating butt plug. It’s wireless. Simply use the remote control to switch between speeds and patterns without fumbling the buttons. 

Or get kinky with your partner and have ‘em control the vibrations from afar. 

The price tag is pretty steep, but many vibrating toys are. Especially if you want a well-made one. 

It’s also quite girthy, but the vibration can help relax your sphincter, so it opens up a bit and makes insertion easier.

On top of vibrations, it also has rows of rotating beads on the neck. This area sits on your sphincter. When it vibrates, it replicates the sensation of rimming. It’s not too powerful, though. 

Others might think it feels too weak, while others will find it just enough so that the combination of sensations won’t be too overwhelming.


Best Realistic Anal Dildo for Beginners

8. Blush Neo Elite

material:
Silicone
length:
5.5”
insertable length
5”
width:
1.25”
colors:
Neon blue, neon pink
price:
$
  • Realistic textures
  • Dual-density dildo feels realistic
  • Very affordable
  • Suction cup for hands-free play
  • No skin-tone colors for more realism

Blush Neo Elite is the perfect anal toy for beginners if you want to explore having a peen in your backdoor and want to warm up or if you want to simulate that sensation.

This dildo is realistic – it has more veiny textures and a bulging head. Plus, it’s a dual-density silicone dildo toy. What does that mean for you? Thrusting into it feels very lifelike due to the contrast of soft, pliable outer layer and firm inner core.

It’s small enough for beginners that its girth isn’t that far from other butt plugs in this list.

The suction cup base makes riding this dildo very fun as you can use it hands-free.

Personally, I like its bright colors. But if you’re into realism, you might be disappointed as it doesn’t come in flesh-like colors.


Best Soft Butt Plug

9. Oxballs Ergo Super Soft

material:
Silicone
length:
3.75” (Extra Small)
insertable length
2.75”
width:
1.3”
colors:
Eggplant (purple), Smoke (gray)
price:
$
  • Comfortable squishy soft plug
  • Lots of size ranges
  • Some might find it too girthy

In many (positive) ways, Oxballs Ergo Super Soft is similar in design to Fun Factory Bootie. So, yes, it’s great for prostate stim too.

If you want something that stimulates your P-spot, go for the Bootie. It’s more “rigid” to stimulate that spot really well.

But if you want something MORE COMFORTABLE, get the Ergo. It’s squishy soft and very pliable. It conforms to your body and feels exquisite to squeeze while giving you a fully filling sensation.

Some people might find the blunt shape uncomfy. But its pliability makes it comfortable to wear. The base has a slight comma on both ends that could be a little bothersome at the start. Overall, it feels very secure, though. 

And if you find it too small, go big with four larger sizes.


Best Beaded Anal Dildo for Beginners

10. njoy Fun Anal Bead Wand

material:
Stainless steel
length:
8”
insertable length
7”
width:
1”
colors:
Metallic
price:
$$$
  • Weighted for filling sensation
  • Temperature play
  • Two varied textures
  • Quite pricey

NJoy Fun Wand is like a two-in-one anal sex toy for beginners as it has two ends.

Go on the beaded end with three balls that will pop-pop-pop into your sphincter as you insert it in. The other end with a ball on its tip is for prostate or G-spot stimulation.

Since it has a mirror-like finish, it glides inside very easily without much friction. The entire thing has a slight S-shape. In actual use, it’s more of a subtle curve – not too curvy for it to be overwhelming.

It’s made of stainless steel, so it’s weighted. It will stimulate you internally with slight motions as its weight works with gravity = filling sensation.


Best Beginner Anal Stretching Toy

11. SquarePegToys Blunt Plug SuperSoft

material:
Silicone
length:
3.5” (S1)
insertable length
Not specified
width:
1.36”
colors:
Bronze, graphite
price:
$
  • Wide neck for anal stretching and training
  • Very soft for maximum comfort
  • For warm-up for bigger toys or anal sex
  • Constant stretch might be overwhelming for beginners

Beginners looking into anal stretching and training should start with SquarePegToys Blunt Plug SuperSoft. The constant stretch might feel overwhelming for beginners, so use it at your own risk. Thankfully, you can start really small and work your way up.

The good thing is that this butt plug is ultra-soft, which makes wearing it very comfortable. 

Unlike other beginner anal toys in this list, Blunt Plug has a thick neck. The S1 size measures 1.36-inch at its widest while the neck stays 1.05 inches. The neck sits on your sphincter, which means it stays open and stretched while you’re wearing it.

You can size up later on at additional 10 sizes, so you’re already familiar with its feel.


FAQ

How to keep Beginner anal toys from smelling nasty?

That depends on the material. Good quality anal toys for beginners like those made in silicone, glass, and stainless steel can be boiled and sterilized. Then, use a sex toy cleaner or wash them with a mild soap.
Still, some anal toys may retain a slight smell. That’s just the nature of playing downstairs. If you find that icky, consider using a condom on your beginner anal toy.


How to practice safe anal play?

  • Lube is a must – for safety and pleasure. Silicone lubes are thicker, last longer, stickier, and don’t need as much reapplying. But they can’t be used with silicone toys as silicone on silicone can degrade your beginner anal toy. Water-based lubes are suitable for all toys, so you may opt for them.
  • Use an beginner anal toy with a flared base to anchor it outside your butt. Unlike the vagina, your anus doesn’t have an “end,” so things could go all the way in – to the point of no return.
  • If it hurts, stop. Listen to your body. The experience should be pleasurable, not painful.
  • Relax your sphincter – ensure you’re turned on and well-stretched before insertion.
  • Wash all your anal sex toys. Your anus has bacteria, which could spread to your genitals, eyes, mouth… everywhere.

Will anal play hurt?

Expect a little discomfort at first. Your outer sphincter can relax, open and let pleasure in… in time with the right training and preparation.

But, yes, it could hurt if you don’t use lots and lots of lube.


Will it bleed?

Yes, for some and not every time. It could bleed if it’s your first time or if you’ve been up for some vigorous pounding.

It’s only not normal when there is severe or continuous bleeding. In that case, stop and go to the ER immediately.


Will it stretch out your anus?

Nope, not to the point of causing anal leakage. It won’t affect your ability to poop or hold it in. PROMISE.


Final Thoughts

We know: beginner anal toys can be super fun.

The anus has a lot of nerve endings that, when stimulated, will light up like fireworks for an awe-some orgasm. As long as you’re doing it safely, grab your tools and explore around your “backdoor” fun.

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore

Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.

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