15 Best BDSM Collars For All Kinds Of Dynamics In 2024

Looking for a bondage collar? We got them all here! From training, and slave, to shock collars, here’s a list of the best bdsm collar for all types of play!

If you’re into BDSM at all, you’ve probably come across collars. And you might have been left confused. 

There are several different kinds of collars in BDSM, ranging from casual play collars to permanent locking collars for commitment ceremonies. 

There are so many that it can be hard to choose the right one for your purposes and your unique dynamic with your kinky partner. 

That’s why today we’re going through the 15 Best BDSM Collars in 2024 for all types of play and needs. 

First, the TOP 3.

The Best BDSM Collars In 2024

One of the best collars for beginners to try out and see if they like it, this Sportsheets Sex & Mischief collar does everything you need it to in style. 

The collar is a nice, soft vinyl fabric that’s kind to the sub’s skin even if you’re not. It secures and comes off easily with stud fastenings, making it convenient for putting on quickly. 

And there’s a robust D-ring at the front to attach the included 4-foot leash. Good for showing a sub who’s boss or taking your pet for a walk.

This collar and leash set doesn’t have any other fancy features or awkward things about it – it just works. 

And it’s super affordable, so if you’re looking to test out a new kinky side of your romantic life, this is a brilliant first collar.  

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What could be better than a training collar? 

How about a shock training collar! 

The Qiui Little Devil is a silicone and plastic collar that gives your slave a mild electric shock whenever they get out of line. 

And I mean, get out of line LITERALLY.

One of the modes, “on all fours,” allows you to set a predetermined height off the ground that the wearer can’t go above without getting a shock.

The higher they try to stand, the stronger the shock will be! 

Another mode will train them to stay perfectly still when instructed. Thanks to the built-in gyroscopes, the Little Devil can accurately detect when the wearer moves and gives them a shock as punishment. 

You can connect and control the device via a handy app to set custom commands for tailored punishments and control. 

It’s comfortable enough to wear for a long time – as long as they behave, of course – and the battery lasts 5 hours on a single charge, which is pretty decent. 

So if you need a functional collar with a little force behind it for training purposes, this Little Devil could become your new best friend. 

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If you want a collar that will last a lifetime, you need stainless steel. 

And as steel collars go, this is one of the best choices. 

It comes in two sizes – 16.8 inches in circumference for male slaves and 14.4 inches for females. This is NOT adjustable since it’s solid metal, so make sure you measure their neck to ensure it will fit before ordering one of these. 

It has 4 fixed D-rings for attaching to ropes, chains, or whatever else you want. And the metal means that it won’t compress and strangle your precious property as soft materials might. 

The weight and feel of hard metal against skin feel luxurious and exhilarating – there’s NO ESCAPE. Nothing says ownership quite like a heavy metal collar, after all. 

Plus, it looks fantastic.

Put this on, and there’s no question of who belongs to who, no matter where you are. Whether at home or at a BDSM event, this is sure to leave an impression on anyone who sees it. 

Obviously, being made of stainless steel, it should last forever, whatever kind of extreme games you want to play with it. So even though it’s not cheap, it’s a worthy investment that pays for itself many times over. 

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This is a great collar for anyone who is starting out, has sensitive skin, or just needs something for casual wear. 

It’s made of fine lace that’s easy on the skin and looks pretty, but it’s still pretty long-lasting. 

The collar has a Velcro strap and fits anyone from 15.5 inches to 22.5 inches, so it’s suitable for male or female subs. 

It’s light and comfy enough to wear around the house ALL DAY, EVERY DAY even, while serving as a hot reminder of who’s in charge. 

There’s also a 30-inch metal leash for leading the sub around whenever you want. It’s easy to hook on and off and made of nice materials that look good and feel good in your hand. 

The light construction and Velcro straps mean that it’s more for the beginner to intermediate end of the spectrum. Hardcore players and leather purists might want to give this one a miss and look for one of the more heavy-duty sets on this list. 

But for anyone getting started, it’s a fantastic addition that doesn’t break the bank. 

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If you want a simple way to restrain your sub and keep them in line – literally! – then, this is a good way to do that. 

This combination neck and wrist restraint has a neoprene collar that’s super comfy to wear and easier on the skin than most leather gear. It’s secured with Velcro, which isn’t the best-looking choice, but it’s practical as anything, so we can forgive it. 

Coming down from the collar is a nylon band with 9 D-ring attachments in total – 4 on each side and one at the end. 

If you guessed, those are for attaching the included wrist cuffs to. Congratulations, you win! 

But there are so many more possibilities to explore with this set.

Why stop at just wrist cuffs? You can use the other D-rings as attachment points for rope or chain, to hang weights off to make your subs posture training more difficult, or whatever else your dark little heart can imagine. 

It might not have the typical leather bondage look that some people crave, but for ease of use, it’s hard to beat this restraint set. 

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This Tailz Puppy Play Set has everything you need to start your career as a pet owner. 

It comes with a soft adjustable collar that fits most neck sizes and is cushioned for comfort even if your good boy or girl strains against it.

The leash is 42 inches long, making it suitable for walks around the yard or in the house. I think it could have been a little longer, but it’s a good start. And you can always attach another one if you need to.  

The tail plug is 3 inches insertable length with a maximum diameter of 1.2 inches, which is enough to really feel it while still being manageable for most people. Even beginners at anal play should be able to take it. 

The tail part of the tail plug is 8.5 inches long and nicely shaped to make your pet look happy. It’s also made of nice smooth silicone, which looks good and is so much easier to keep clean than a fluffy tail. 

Finally, there’s a bone gag that adjusts from 18.5 to 23.5 inches, so it will fit most. It’s made of silicone that’s tough but soft on the mouth, so it won’t hurt your human pet.

As a way to get into puppy play, this is a great place to start as it has everything you need to begin while being made of high-quality materials and affordable. Time for walkies?  

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This collar has something extra for when you want to shut your slave up. 

It comes with a ball gag perfectly positioned for their mouth, so you have a gag and a collar all rolled into one convenient package. 

The whole thing is extremely convenient, with a supplied leash and 3 D-rings to make tying it off somewhere a breeze. 

And it’s made of supple faux leather that’s comfortable and vegan-friendly. Plus, you don’t need to treat it to keep it in working condition as you do with many real leather products. 

It comes in baby pink or bright red, both good colors for a slave to stand out while standing silently at attention. 

The leash is a matching color and has a chain that’s strong enough to lead them around without any worries of it breaking.

And the ball gag is breathable! So you can leave it on for extended periods of time. 

So whether you need something to keep your slave quiet or just enjoy their humiliating look with their mouth full and fully collared, this is a great convenient choice that does everything at once.

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Looking for something beautiful to give your sub for a real collaring ceremony? You could do a lot worse than this. 

The Heavy Duty Restraint Set comes with a collar, wrist, and ankle shackles. They’re all made of stainless steel that’s GOLD coated for a look of incredible elegance. 

Every piece is smoothed down to ensure no rough or pointy edges, making the set suitable for LONG-TERM USE. And they’re stainless steel, so they’re strong enough to handle anything you could throw at them. 

The collar has a single O-ring for attachments, so it’s practical as well as aesthetically pleasing. 

And there’s an optional storage case of very high quality that you can use to store the cuffs when you’re not using them. 

Each piece is individually lockable, so there’s no chance of escape if you’re looking to play something with struggle involved. 

All in all, these are some of the best high-class and seriously tough restraints you can find. They’re NOT cheap, but they’ll last a lifetime, so they perfectly symbolize a long-term commitment. 

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Want the fun aesthetic and feel of rope without the hassle of tying up a real rope collar? This Shibari Rope BDSM collar was made with you in mind. 

It looks like a tough rope, but the blend of silk, cotton, and hemp means it’s soft and silky, so NO ROPE BURN! Still very secure and no chance of escaping, so don’t worry if you have a slippery sub who likes to wriggle out of things. 

It comes in two colors – ordinary flaxen rope or a luscious deep red that looks amazing around any woman’s neck. It’s also big enough to fit most men. 

This collar is ideal for a day collar or training collar as it has a lock with a key in the shape of a little heart – which is a cute way to make someone yours. 

There aren’t any rings to attach more rope or a leash to except for where the heart lock goes, so it might not be the best if you want to tie the collar to more than one thing at a time. 

Or, if you’re a rigger, you can always just tie a rope around the collar itself – it’s flexible and has enough give to allow the space without choking your sub. 

As an accompaniment to a shibari session, a collar for everyday use, or something more serious, this is a great contender for most versatile collars.

Want to learn more about Japanese rope bondage? Check out our Shibari 101 guide here.

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The Sex & Mischief Day Collar toes the line between BDSM collar and fashionable jewelry perfectly in my opinion. 

It’s thick and naughty-looking enough to work well as a day collar, but it’s also cute and innocent enough to be worn outside… just. 

There’s something about that fine balance that makes this an incredibly hot piece of attire. 

It’s comfortable enough to be worn all day if required, and the faux leather makes it vegan-friendly while looking gorgeous. 

There’s a small O-ring attached at the front, which would allow for a leash to be attached if you want to get into some pet play, but it’s not durable enough for any serious bondage. 

So whether you want a proper training collar or just something hot to break out for some kinky fun every now and then, this day collar is right for you. 

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This Dominix Deluxe Heavy collar certainly feels deluxe, both when you hold it in your hands and when you or your partner is wearing it. 

It’s thick, strong, and will hold up to any punishment. But it’s also soft and padded for extra comfort. 

What’s great about this collar is that it works fantastically as a bondage collar with its 3 D-rings for all sorts of shenanigans. Yet, at the same time, it’s soft and pliable enough to wear all day around the house if that’s what you want. 

One thing if your sub has a thick neck – there’s a gap in the padding where you fasten it, which might pinch their skin during wear. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, depending on how comfortable you want them to be…

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If you’re looking for something classy and soft while still adding some kink to your play, this could be the collar for you. 

This collar from the 50 Shades of Grey collection is made of smooth satin and lace, which looks hella elegant once you put it on. It ties off with a bow and a lobster clasp for convenience, so it’s easy to put on and take off. 

And once the collar is on, you can attach the included silicone-tipped nipple clamps to introduce a little pain with the pleasure. 

The NIPPLE CLAMPS are slim and discreet enough that you can even wear them out in public without anyone noticing, which is great for couples who want to go outside with a naughty secret. 

It’s all pretty delicate, though, so if you’re on the more extreme side of things, you’ll want to give this a miss. It won’t last very long during rough play. 

But if you want something presentable and kinky at the same time, this is a good choice for you. 

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Posture collars are designed to keep the sub’s head looking forward at all times, with no chance of moving. 

And this is one of the best – it COMPLETELY prevents the sub from looking down and mostly stops them from looking up or side to side either. They’ll stay at attention however they feel about it, which is exactly what a strict Dom wants. 

It’s rigid and stays in place no matter how much they try to struggle, so it’s brilliant for training subs to keep their head up and eyes forward. 

Don’t expect this to be wearable for extended periods of time without a lot of practice and training – it’s NOT COMFORTABLE, and it’s NOT MEANT TO BE.

That said, the leather won’t chafe your victim’s neck, and it won’t cut into their collarbone either – as long as they keep still. 

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This spiked leather collar is an awesome addition to any collection. With its hardcore look and tough construction, this is a really good collar to put on a man before getting into some heavy-duty session. 

The spikes add some style to the whole thing while being small enough that it’s safe for regular wear. NO ONE is likely to be impaled, so no worries. 

It has a durable D-ring at the front to attach a leash or rope, and it’s comfortable thanks to the padded, flexible leather. 

It’s a great collar to put on a male sub or slave, but it’s too big for most women. In fact, it might be loose on a skinny guy too. 

But if you need something to put on your subs thick neck that looks good and does a job reliably, this is the collar for you. 

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This collar is the perfect blend of fashion piece, functional neckwear, and statement. It’s a thick black or red band of shiny PVC-coated leather with an O-ring for attaching a leash or some rope. 

It’s great for anyone who needs a protection collar to show off your sub/slave to other people at events or to demonstrate to onlookers that you belong to your Dom/Master. 

There are practical uses, too, as it’s tough enough to be used during light bondage scenes, though probably NOT for extreme stuff.  

You could even get away with wearing it as a day collar in public. It’s pretty enough that you could tell people it’s just a statement piece of decoration while keeping the hidden meaning a secret. 

I’d say it’s right on the border of socially acceptable, though, so I’d only wear it in front of people if I were feeling especially brave one day. Or if I was told to, obviously. 

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The BDSM Collar Buying Guide

Occasion

Before you go splurging on a new collar, you have to think about what it’s going to be used for. Different kinds of collars are best suited for different purposes.

For example, a day collar for casual wear outside should be inconspicuous and not too daring. A choker or even an ordinary necklace can do the same job for wearing in public. The same goes for collars you might wear as a fashion accessory. 

For something to use during scenes, you want to consider both aesthetic and practical aspects. It should look good, sure, but should it also restrict movement? Do you want to attach your sub/slave by the collar to something else during a bondage scene? D-rings and heavier materials like leather or metal will be useful in these types of situations. 

And if it’s pet play or something similar you’re interested in, you’ll need a collar with a leash you can attach to it. 

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Types of BDSM Collars

There are several different kinds of collars worn in BDSM culture for various reasons. 

Here are the main ones: 

A Collar of Consideration represents a new relationship where the Dom and sub or Master/Mistress and slave are getting to know each other and exploring the dynamics of the relationship. It’s exactly what it sounds like – the submissive partner is being “considered” as a candidate to be a permanent sub/property of the dominant partner. 

Training Collars are the next step from collars of consideration. They indicate that the submissive partner is now being trained to meet the dominant partner’s standards and expectations, whatever those might be. In many relationships, this is actually the first collar used, as the collar of consideration is often skipped over. You can think of it as a kind of engagement ring, that is, a promise of commitment between the Master and slave.

Permanent Collars are, well, permanent. They’re intended to be worn pretty much AT ALL TIMES, usually with strict rules about when it’s acceptable to take it off or wear a different one. Once a sub is given a permanent collar, that’s usually when we would call them “collared by so-and-so.” A permanent collar indicates a permanent relationship, similar to being married. It’s quite a commitment from both sides! 

Protection Collars are often worn by a submissive who is under the protection of their Dom, for example, while at BDSM parties or events. It symbolizes that this sub/slave belongs to someone and should be treated as such. You can’t take someone else’s stuff without asking, and the principle applies to collared subs and/or slaves. 

Play Collars are for playing. They’re intended to be used during scenes for various purposes, such as bondage or choking. There’s usually not much ceremony or particular commitment associated with these collars, as they have practical functions rather than being symbolic of a particular relationship. 

Pet Collars are a kind of collar used for pet play. They often have a leash attachment and are for pet/owner BDSM relationships. They’re normally play collars for use during scenes, but you can use them to symbolize other things as well. 

Day Collars are the ones you wear in public in front of other people. They can symbolize the D/s relationship between partners without being too obvious or in-your-face about it. After all, your workplace might have something to say if you show up one day in a heavy, locking posture collar covered in spikes! Day collars often look like ordinary necklaces or chokers, but they can be very special for people in D/s relationships as a sign of their commitment to each other. 

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Materials

Depending on the type of collar, they can be made of a variety of different materials. 

Leather is probably the most common material to use as it’s sturdy, pretty to look at, and quite comfortable. 

Metal collars are often used in more hardcore scenes for when you want your sub to feel restricted and locked in place, but they’re not much good for long-term wear. Day collars, i.e., necklaces, are often made of jewelry metals like gold or silver. No good for scenes, though. 

Satin or lace are often used for day collars as well as they’re unobtrusive and pretty. 

Other materials like rope and neoprene are also used for some purposes. 

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Quality

A good collar will last for years, while a bad one will start to flake or wear down in a few months. Look for sturdy construction from a reputable vendor, like the ones on this list.

And always check the reviews!

Things like chafing or itching are common for many collars, so it’s always a good idea to look at what other people have to say before making a purchase. 

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Budget

Whatever your budget, there will be a collar to suit your needs. Expect a decent day collar to cost upwards of $20, while more heavy-duty collars for intense play can be got for about $40 or more. 

There are fancier options that are more expensive, of course. Just remember that a good collar will last for years, if not more, so it’s always a worthwhile investment. 

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F.A.Q.

What is a BDSM collar?

There are plenty of different kinds of collars in BDSM, and they all mean different things to different people. So the only accurate answer to this question is “it’s a collar used for various BDSM purposes.” 

But that’s not very useful, is it? So let’s explore a little bit: 

A BDSM collar is generally a symbol of ownership, of belonging to someone else. The Dom or Master places the collar on the sub, which symbolizes the deepening of the relationship in some way. 

They can also be practical and intended for use during scenes. These kinds of collars might have rings around them to make them useful for attaching to ropes or chains, and they might be more restricting for breath play fun. 

Interested to learn more about dom/sub and ddlg? Head over to our article here.

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What does it mean to be collared in BDSM?

Being collared isn’t the same as wearing any old collar. In the BDSM community, it’s a symbol of ownership, cementing the D/s relationship and making it permanent and known to the world. 

In many BDSM circles, it’s considered equivalent to being married, but more like the ancient version of being married where the Dom actually owns the sub. 

At public events, a collared submissive means they are under the protection of their Dom and therefore should be left alone by other people unless they have the Dom’s permission. 

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How do you use BDSM collars?

The limits of what you can do with a BDSM collar are whatever you can imagine. Every D/s relationship has a different dynamic, so it follows that collars can be adapted to suit any purpose. 

As everyday wear, it can be as simple as putting on a necklace. Or, for something a bit more D/s, a necklace with a lock that you can then hand over the key for. 

During play, there are a few more considerations. You should follow the two fingers rule for putting on collars when anything involves bondage. No, not that two-finger rule.

You should be able to easily fit two fingers in the gap between the wearer’s neck and the collar. That helps ensure that the sub or slave won’t suffocate, so it’s very important. 

If you are looking for other BDSM gear and starter kits, consider checking out our best bondage toys.

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How do you clean the BDSM leather collars?

Leather is a gorgeous material, but it can be a bit of a hassle to clean. 

One way to clean a leather collar is by adding a small amount of unperfumed, mild soap and gently scrubbing it with a damp cloth. 

Then you can use a different damp cloth to rub off any leftover soap and dry the surface with a dry cloth or soft towel. 

Another way is to mix two teaspoons of vinegar and baking soda into a bottle of warm water. A spray bottle is the best for this. Spray the collar thoroughly, then scrub it clean. Rinse in hot water and leave it to air dry. 

Alternatively, you can mix the vinegar and baking soda in a bowl of hot water and soak it before scrubbing. 

However you clean it, once it’s dry, you should apply a leather treatment conditioner sparingly. 

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Conclusion

The world of BDSM neck gear can be a deceptively complicated affair, but hopefully, you have a better idea of what to get and how to use it. Happy collaring!